RUDE Husband Yells At His Wife, What Happens Is Shocking | Illumeably
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CREDITS:
Executive Producer: Rishi Jethi
Writer: Namitha Palasamudram
Director: Namitha Palasamudram
Director of Photography: Honna Afzal and Juan Palomino III
Editor: Adrian Neria
Audio: Jackson Lennon
Production Assistant: Malcolm Dempsey
Actors:
Monica - Evandra Aurelia
Drake - Alex Jason Lee-King
Jessica - Jennifer Waller
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What a touching story. Mental illness is no joke and our emotions, feelings and self-worth are important. No one should be dismissed or told to snap out of it or to get over it. Empathy and compassion are necessary in a person’s support system. Thank you so much for highlighting this, Illumeably.
Yes! I agree. Thank you for your kind words Ms. Patty Williams.❤️
Exactly. You’re right
I struggle with anxiety due to my autism. I worry about what people think of me and I think the worst of situations. I’m an overthinker.
Don't worty, it makes you who you are. Just be nice to others and be who you are. It makes you special😀.
Hey don’t beat yourself up like that, you are smart and beautiful no matter what! Always love yourself!
same here.. but dont worry it’ll get better, keep going
Being an overthinker is fine. At least you know your weakness because now you have a chance to work on it. Other people are not that privileged to know what they struggle with, and as they go on in life, they continue to wonder why they're going through so much. But at least you know your struggle so now you can make it better. Where you are weak, you are strong.
@Hannah Brown. I relate this a lot. I’ve been going through a lot similar to you as well. I have anxiety and autism, but I managed myself and got help. You’ve got a lot to offer! You’re An amazing human being!
Ugh so relatable! I struggle with anxiety and it makes me think that everyone around me hates me. So I just bottle up everything until I finally explode. 😞
I sometimes feel like I’m not to be trusted by everyone, even strangers, unfamiliar people, people I don’t know or people I haven’t met, because of my autism.
I struggled with anxiety as well. I have autism spectrum disorder but, it’s more of anxiety. I’ve been bullied and lied on🥺. I was broken as well and thought I wasn’t worth it. But now, I realize I have a loving Filipino family, relatives, drumming, biking, bowling, etc. You’re never alone, there’s million people that struggled with mental health, including me for real.
That's exactly how I feel, too.
And I have autism.
This is true
OMG I was literally balling throughout that whole video. I go through that every single day of my life. My husband is the same way. I wish he could understand my mental health struggles. I feel alone all the time. I spend a lot of time praying and asking the Lord to take away my pain.. what the friend said, really spoke to me.. I needed to hear that I am important and worth something..
Hello, You Must Have To Take More And More Care About Yourself Only, First Only You. Because, Nobody Understands. No One Cares.Your Mental Health Is Much More Important Than Any Other Thing.You Are Best Healer Of Yourself Only. Please Take Care Of Yourself.
Divorce him
I was crying too especially when he started reading her book because I could completely relate because I suffer from depression and it is so hard when you feel alone❤
If any spouse doesn’t take your feelings into consideration then you should leave them.
@@rangerfalcon9077 I can't. He's my husband and I love him. I'm not giving up on my marriage because things are a little rocky right now. I believe in miracles and I firmly believe that God will help make it new again.
The ending made me cry bc I can relate….but no ones there for me but seemed so happy it made me tear up🤦🏽♀️
oh my goodness.. salute to the actor of Monica, she represents the misery emotios and intense continuous pressures so well. I can feel it deeply on how miserable it is to endure such negative things. I'm glad Drake finally tries to actually be with her in the end. The path is not easy but it will help Monica a lot knowing she have her husband support however it is.
Well done, Illumeably! 👍🏼
Thank you so much for sharing this! As someone who also suffers from severe anxiety & panic attacks, I can definitely relate to Monica's issues. I appreciate the respectful approach that you took when creating this film. Partners shouldn't yell at each other either, no matter what the reason. Mutual respect is so important in relationships!❤️💯
The beginning was so sad but the ending turned out to be so sweet and romantic! I’m glad the husband realized of what he did was wrong and now start being their for his wife of what he should of done a lot sooner!
If I was a girl I would’ve broken up with him the second he treated me badly lol
@@iicadenxxi1713 exactly
@@iicadenxxi1713personally I wouldn’t and going for divorce isn’t going solve everything
I find it weird how in these stories, there are people who say "Where's my lunch?" or "You haven't made dinner yet?" as if they're not GROWN ASS ADULTS who can't do things for themselves.
Monica should've left this jackass and gotten into therapy. I don't buy the husband transforming from abusive to good all because of a day of housework, a talking-to from the friend, and reading the mental health issues his wife had already TOLD him about verbally, only for him to dismiss Monica as whining and making excuses for not doing housework. If Monica telling him how she was feeling didn't do anything to change him, I don't see how reading her diary would change anything.
Real men make their own food, and don’t rely on the spouse. Work is no excuse!
I know right. Like cmon smh. Grow up men!! We can't spoon-feed you everyday!!
Mental illness is nothing to joke about and our emotions, importance of ourselves and feelings are important and they matter. Don't dismiss anyone's feelings or act like they're unimportant. Everyone deserves compassion, empathy and acknowledgement.
This really hits home for me. I constantly question my self-worth and chastise myself for not being able to do better than I have been. Insecurity is no joke. It can really mess someone up.
Damn, he is an adult, perfectly capable of making his own lunch! I know how this is, with having bad anxiety. I'm glad I have a man who appreciates me everyday! I actually really enjoy cleaning and cooking/baking though as it's very therapeutic for me.
That to hear that you enjoy what you do, that makes a huge difference :)
Most of us men are not monsters, as much as the media may disagree. There are billions of us and you take thousands or even millions, hell, even tens of millions of us men, that still accounts for a very small percentage of us :)
All that most of us want is equality, but yes, when mental health issues come into play it does change things.
When someone comes home from work, put the laundry in the hamper, the shoes where they should be, the dishes in the sink and so on, and let the homemaker know how much he/she is appreciated :)
Also, when someone does something they are not use to it is generally noticeably harder than when they know what they are doing inside and out, or at least knowing it well enough :)
Honestly, this skit, the whole thing… all feels like me talking about and to myself
Mental Health is real folks. Do not take this lightly. Thank you for sharing this Illumlembly.
Persons with Learning Disabilities among other disabled groups have mental health issues too, I am one of them!!!
I know how bad depression can be especially when you get those dark thoughts. it can be extremely overwhelming and you do feel alone and worthless, but when you have people who care about you,it can really make a difference.
He is a jerk..make your own lunch!!!
Love this story so many things that woman was feeling is exactly the same way that I am feeling. My husband blames me for everything he doesn't hear me he isn't appreciative of anything I do. I am a housewife and he thinks what I do is so easy and he doesn't know. He says if I worked as many hours as he does I would understand. What he doesn't get is I spend alot of hours doing everything around here. He thinks that he should just come home and sit down and relax and thats it no that isnt it for me. I have had and still have some health issues but he doesn't care at all. This is such a right on video for me Thank you for this video. I am hoping I can get my husband to listen to this video and then tell him its what I am feeling too. I don't feel like going into dark places but I certainly feel alone in this marriage. But I have the Lord and so I don't feel alone when I pray and talk to the Lord causes he listens to me and cares and loves me
Hi, any updates on what happened? did your husband say anything? anyways im sorry for how he treats you
how are things going now? and i hope that everything is alright God bless you the lord is keeping you safe :)
Sending prayers to you 🤍🤍
The Lord is yourself. So you really are alone. :(
11:50 At the risk of sounding like I'm mansplaining, what Monica REALLY needs is to leave this emotionally abusive POS and find a good therapist to help her through her issues. I don't buy an abusive husband suddenly turning good because he had to do housework for a day, got a telling-off from his wife's friend, and read his wife's diary. In the case of the last thing, Monica had already told him how she was feeling verbally and he just dismissed it as her whining and making excuses for not doing housework, so I don't see why reading those concerns would be any different.
TL,DR version: Illumeably and other life lesson channels need to stop making it seem easy for an abusive partner to suddenly turn around and be completely wonderful and understanding.
Exactly. It gives actual abuse victims a false sense of hope.
I agree. Good thing in Dhar Mann and DramatizeMe, it actually ends up in leaving and/or divorce.
@@pamjanevlogsPH Sadly, that's not always the case. I know of a good handful of Dhar Mann videos like this that ALSO end with the abusive husband having an unbelievable turnabout and his wife taking him back with open arms.
Very emotional video. The ending is very sweet. Drake turned out to be such an understanding husband. Im glad he understood Monica. He is there for her. 😥💖
Mental health is very lonely and sad disease. 😥
Running away from your problems just makes them worse.
Exactly! Just like from Dhar Mann!
I guessed drake learned a lesson and the advice from Jessica.
It’s so relatable like people don’t know what it’s like to feel that way
This is a reminder of why God wants people's hearts to be warm, sensitive, gentle and holy
This hit home so much
Since the beginning of this year I started journaling in order to see my progress with changing my daily habits and just living a healthier life. This was around the time I got a new job working in the office, but I work from home most days. I quickly realized being at home all day everyday was taking a toll. My journal quickly turned into a diary filled with my negative thoughts and feeling, and when darkness is all you feel its all you can think about. The stress of working, keeping your partner satisfied and supported, house work tore me down. Bit by bit I found myself in my own dark well consumed by an inner demon, it was hard to express myself because its not like you can simply put it into words. No one can understand unless they've been through it and most men aren't prone to overbearing thoughts and feeling such as these. I became so frustrated and annoyed with myself for how I was feeling and the things I constantly told myself, it wasn't healthy. It truly took an effect on my will to live and my relationship. Theres nothing really out there to tell you how to move past it but feeling like your supported is huge in the healing process. When you truly understand the root of your wounds its a start but the journey out of your dark pit is a lot harder. I dont think there is anything I can say to help anyone else going through this situation, you can only fight and find things that help you on a daily to....not suppress but deal with that inner demon. Things that helped me were, journaling, affirmations via widgets apps, and other apps like Bloom are amazing. Therapy can be scary but Bloom is self therapy and it has been a huge part in my healing process. I would also like to encourage you to find joy in things you love, you need to balance your life with all the things youre doing which bring you down. Learning something new or pick up something you used to do. Start reading, find peace in nature or spirituality. Ive also found oracle cards are affirming when you really focus your energy. Ive now bought a Tarot deck to hopefully open my mind more and help keep me on a positive path towards the fulfillment i desire for my future. I appreciate you reading all this and I hope it has helped in some way. Find and love yourself xoxo
It's really sad how some people treat mothers that way. They do everything to keep the house clean, and much more. Thank you Illumeably, for showing how housewife's feel.
I always like it when Illumeably makes awesome and fun videos like this :)
OMG! This video is literally everything I have been telling my husband! I'm not crying 😭😭😭😭😭 your crying! Best video ever, guys! Thank you!
This content speaks to many women if men will learn to just appreciate women more for what they do and how much they try to make things in their life so much better and easier and not just treat them like they're not doing anything women would appreciate it so much more and love their husbands and ways that they would not believe and be there for them in so many more ways if men would treat their women better and more compassion more understanding more kindness more caring Cause women will treat their men like kings if they would learn to be there for them every step of the way and treat them like queens
If men, no key word if some men because not all men are the same
@expresshoward you're right most men not all
Monica is good hard worker and she is so kind hearted 🥹
Your Mental health is important just like your physical health! Always take care of yourself! Breathe! Exhale! Sending POSITIVE VIBES TO EVERYONE
I'm a stay at home mom and I felt this way for a long time. Maybe not so dramatic with the yelling and pulling at my hair, but the overwhelming anxiety and depression of just feeling so alone, hopeless, and useless is so spot on. My husband was the same. Just knows work and thinks anyone not doing anything is useless. I got into therapy and it really helped to change my outlook. I still struggle, but I'm not in deep like I was. I lost my insurance because now we're financially struggling. Haven't been able to find an office job to help, I hope we will recover soon so I can continue therapy. I used to write poems to cope with my feelings, but stopped several years ago. Think I should start again.
Damn, Appreciation for your spouse is important. How can he not see she's not well, he should be helping out with the housework. Drake could try working from home, the jerk!!!
I love this video
I feel like if I went through with marrying my ex, this is what I would’ve of had to go through. Being a housewife is EXACTLY what he would’ve forced me to be because “women are supposed to have children, take care of the house, and not have an actual job.” He always had me do things for HIM. Like he’d always have me take the dishes to the conveyor belt to be washed and get his drinks. Rarely, if ever, acted like a gentleman. Only ever did that on our first 3 dates. Then he made me go out to my car in the dark by myself and would NEVER wait on me. On the sidewalk, I’d always be on the outside, not the inside away from the road. A few people pointed it out that I should be on the side away from the cars, but he never listened to them.
Yes I feel this way every day ever since my auto accident in 87 i just feel like a loser and i get very frustrated at myself trying to remember what i am to do. I just wish i never got in that dang auto accident it really messed me up i do not know whether i am coming or going anymore and i am 53 no wounder no woman wants me i just feel so dang bad........😭😭😭
If no female wants you, it's their loss. Other than that, it's best to survive without one
Sorry for what you are going through, glad you made it out of the accident..Don't give up hope their is someone out there for you when you least expect it someone will come into your life...try listening to Meditation and Relaxation Music, God Bless.
@@errolthomas9426 yes that is what i am trying to do but it is not easy when i see all these other people walking around with there significant other and it really upsets me a whole lot. ❤❤❤
Can't wait for New premiere of illumeably am very excited for this 3:15 AM MST. What he learns is Shocking 😲😮😨
Can't
Can't wait
This is amazing I cannot believe it believe this is happened hit the exact moment of my life I am in right now this is my life right now wow
A caring friend is a billion times better than a careless husband/wife
Thank you for sharing as always. 🙏🏽🙏🏽
this story made me tear up a bit cause ive been in this state of being stuck and broken so i really appreact this story showing how hard mental health is
I used to be like this to. I hope things are better!
Depression is a very real thing
Monica is awesome indeed. Drake needed to support her every step of the way.
Mental health issues are the hardest thing to deal with.they need help to overcome
It's my parents that don't care about me because my health my mental health is deteriorating faster and faster and I'm sick and tired of being alone knowing that I'm ugly
How old are u hun?
@@mainelady2020 why does it matter how old they are
@@niasharp9049 if they old enough i would have suggested to get away from them..they sound toxic..if she younger obviously cant just leave
@@mainelady2020 35 and I have been depressed for 25 years since 10
Thank you for highlighting this issue, Illumeably.
Amazing content as always 💖
Amazing content, thank you for sharing your awesome videos with us all. 💙💙💙💙💙💯💯
There's a great saying that a lot of people need to listen too, especially nowadays.
A relationship should be a safe haven, not a battlefield. Life is hard enough as it is.
Married couples really need to communicate with each other, listen to each other’s feelings & concerns. A woman is more likely to get down & feel unappreciated & anxiety begins. Prayer is the answer to every problem we may face in life. If it wasn’t for praying, reading my Bible & really trusting in Jesus Christ as not only my Savior; but my dearest Friend; I wouldn’t have made it this far. Everyone needs someone that will listen & be there for you, & many times it’s not your husband, because men don’t tend to understand this problem & therefore; run from it. That’s no reason to give up on them & your marriage, but instead get on your knees & spend time with the One that loves you more than anyone else could. He came to this world, did good things, healed all that were sick, performed miracles & gave His life for you & me on an old wooden cross.✝️😢 But, on the 3rd day, He arose from the tomb & gave His Disciples the Plan of Salvation to share with all nations; to me & you. There’s Nothing too hard for Him. Don’t give up on yourself, your Marriage or others; learn that Jesus will never leave you nor forsake you. Read Isaiah 53:5, John 1:1-3 & 14, Acts chapter 2. It will bless your life. Read John 10:10 also, because then you will understand the culprit behind depression, anxiety etc. I pray for everyone that is going through this or something similar; Jesus really loves you & He IS the answer. With Love & Prayers, Sister Pat 💓👏🙌
Excellent. The world needs more of this. 💜♥️❤️
This is one of the mental health issues that is hardly ever addressed. Showing it in thiis way is brilliant. I am sure like me there are many men and women out there who go through the same torment and was never resolved. This helped to enlighten people to the situation and to seek help.
I've been through this and the problem was the person I was in a relationship with. Once I got rid of him I had hope again. Life is miserable with someone who you resent
All couples need a mutual friend like Jessica in their lives . Jessica / Jeff / Jack whoever .........
It’s. True. Life.
Moral 1 appreciate the value of what you got because you never know what you got until you missing out on
Wow what a special friend. I would love to have a friend like that.
Me too.
Same I love to be that friend to others but that energy is never given to me in return 🤍
@@suguhcanesame I feel like I’m the friend that loves to be there for another friend but when it comes to me I’m on my own .
Her wife is super cute 🥰 and beautiful 😻
Housework really isn 't easy it really is a lot of work and people who does it have to be appreciate .
Great acting 🎭 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
I know right?
I love that you all covered this and did an amazing job, thank you❤️
What a Nice ending .you should all keep suporting your wife or husband we all need love
All you need is love, love is all you need!
- The Beatles
Been there and done that. Had a man who had no clue what I was going through, I finally left him ( best decision I made). Got on good medication by a good doctor and now I'm doing better than before.
MONICA IS A SWEETHEART OF A PERSON AND SHE IS VERY PRETTY AND A VERY GOOD ACTRESS TOO
Wow!! You should always appreciate your loved ones, take good care of them and treat them with love and respect. Great video!!!
GM Illumebly Wow what a tearjerker! So glad he came to his senses so he can be there for her now! Be safe God bless!
The whole of heaven rejoices at one sinner who truly repents 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
This was so sad but good message for mental health no one should feel alone dealing with this
These two make a perfect match....can't stand seeing them fight..
l love the video 📹 💕❤ 💕
Nobody deserves to be ignored. Despite all the pros and cons about life, at the end, you still have a lot to offer. I struggled with anxiety and autism spectrum disorder, but I learned to be more grateful. I’m grateful for my family, bowling, biking, vacations, and drumming! What are you grateful for?
Been sleeping on Illumeably and thought this was a Dhar Mann rip off. But I really enjoyed these videos. This was very powerful and intense. All three actors did a great job.
I absolutely loved this. Her friend is awesome, always there for her and she managed to convey what was going on with her to her husband, which opened his eyes as it was coming from a source other than his wife. He'd just gotten himself in the habit of not believing anything she was trying to tell him. Awesome ending!!!! It's easy to feel overwhelmed, and she will probably still have those days where she does, but she has her husband to be by her side to share those days with now. This could easily have had a horrible ending. Depression can lead someone down a darker path. Glad she finally got his support and empathy. Good video!
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I have sever anxiety and I’m also autistic and have other stuff to. (I’ve got a great memory)but I’m always thinking. I’m also really sensitive and emotional. I’ve also been overwhelmed.
Thanks for making me cry guys 👀 this is my life every day but I have nobody 😢
I literally feel this every single day and still feeling it.. someday life will end n I will finally rest n dont have to feel it ..
That was really a good video I am glad her friend gave him pep talk and it genuinely effected him in a positive way
I betcha Drake had a lot of waking up to do after when Monica's best friend Jessica spoke more than some sense into him
It made me sad after watching this video especially the part her friend visited her, she was crying before her friend came in that part got me really hard
I think this might be the best video you’ve ever done! I’ve seen every one. Great job!
I actually found a notebook yesterday where my husband keeps a list of what I do wrong.
BEAUTIFUL STORY ❤️🙏💯
Everyone deserves to be heard and understood ❤️✨
dealing with strees , deeprsion and self hate and self harm iis the worst
Thank you for making a video of an adult dealing with mental illness. All the other videos only have teens dealing with it, making it hard to relate to. Thank you.
I’m just glad that little sinner realized his mistake in time.
Thumbnail: Before you yell at her, watch this.
Me: WHAT?! BEFORE you yell at her??? Why would you even???
man i'm glad drake learnt his lesson
I'm sorry but real life isn't like that. Women have these issues but their partner very rarely listens to them. And they certainly don't just start helping around the house.
This is so true this is why llukably is the best,,!!!! 💗⭐️
Put that lovely gift of flowers in a vase of water!
NGL THE MAN HERE IS THE RIGHT PERSON
I was pissed at Drake for how he treated Monica and called him almost every name in the book and wanted to punch him through thew screen. However, I'm glad he learned his lesson. Just because you don't understand what someone is going through doesn't give you the right to judge.
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Why don't people realises it at the right time ?.
It's saves all the stress
Some people just don't know how important mental health is. I suffer from depression and anxiety as well and my husband has ALWAYS been there for me. Even more so since I was diagnosed with fibromyalgia, Osteoarthritis and the list goes on and on.
I love your videos Illrmberly have a cool day have a super day llumberly
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I understand what she is going through. I am single mom and I have depression and anxiety. It's hard to deal with. I am sometimes feel like I'm not good enough. 😢
My Friend has the exact same issue She’s has SAD Severe Anxiety Disorder which can trigger at any moment and anytime
Powerful movie and truthful