"being in a relationship will not fill the self hatred you have for yourself" that hit too hard,, i've been so desperate for love thinking it would fix all my problems and that genuinely made me want to work on loving myself so thank you for reminding me that to love my self !!
“loneliness means you’re in desperate need for yourself”..i think this applies if the loneliness comes from exactly what you meant; looking for someone to heal you, even tho loving yourself is the only thing that truly can. i hope you all the best on your journey, if i have made it, you can too you can only meet people as deeply as you’ve met yourself & you can only love people as truly as you love yourself:)
bruh if u get into a romantic relationship w/ sb while still hating on yourself,, you'll literally end up unintentionally self sabotaging it bcs the unresolved hate would just get in the way of ur (and ur partner's) personal growth in the relationship,, which is inevitable if u wanna keep it going in the right direction \\ hope this made any sense, talking from a personal experience tho, wish u the best and good luck
as someone who isn’t allowed things on their walls (my mum has ocd so it’s fine and fair! cause it makes her feel claustrophobic and like something is attacking her) I really appreciate how amazingly decorated yours/Linhs/jazzylees rooms are !!! I’m very excited to live on my own - it will probably be like a kids room but ah well ! it’ll be the only time I’ve ever been able to decorate anything
I’m so glad you mentioned dance as a confidence factor! People think that dance is something anyone can do.... bruh! As a dancer perfectionism is soo prevalent!
hello dude, i know you might never see this comment, BUT i just wanted to share this positive thoughts with you! So, first of all, these hair is SICK, i love it! The second thing, that i wanted to tell you is next: i heard you say that you did nothing by the age, when other people become famous and rich and successful, but look, you have 350k subs on youtube and i am here in Russia in a small town at night watching YOUR VIDEOS, isn't it SICK???? and the last but not least - you are thin and light, you are like a butterfly - so be proud of it, because this is so beautiful, you can produce beauty in world just being there in your room and painting nails - so good luck to you in your way and Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!
I love these types of videos, they're so relatable and it's really fun to listen to you talk about your growth. Also, kind of irrelevant, but something that has helped me be more confident is watching animated movies or tv shows, whether it be Avatar: The Last Airbender or a studio Ghibli film. It's kind of weird, but I used to compare my looks to actors on tv, and it would contribute to decreasing my self-esteem. But when it came to animated characters, I instinctively didn't compare myself to them because their faces and bodies weren't real. Seeing characters like Sokka, a non-bender amongst his extremely powerful bender friends, be one of the most intelligent and confident characters on the show was inspiring to me (he's the proof that fake it 'till you make it works). Not only that, there's Hinata being confident and working hard despite his disadvantage due to his height in Haikyuu. Even Sophie from Howl's Moving Castle inspired me, because despite being a cursed physically weak old woman, she ultimately played a huge part in ending a war and gained her youth back. When I was young, I would root for these characters instead of comparing myself to them, so now, I've applied that to people outside of animations (live-action characters or even real people around me). So yeah, that was my rant about how much I love animated stuff and how it's helped build my confidence. Love your videos Dustin... k bye
Whenever I hear creators talk about how they work near constantly I feel a little bad that I’m not that productive/determined and/or don’t have something I’m super passionate about already that I can devote my time and energy into. It’s also motivating though :) love how your nails match your guitar!
I’m going to be taking therapy, after having depression and anxiety for over 6 years almost 7. Truly it never impacted me but now I realized it does. There is a boy I really like and he also likes me, he lives 6 hours away T.T, but i told him before I get in another relationship, I want to be better, mentally and physically. I don’t really care about my body like I like it it’s okay, but I think I should at least lose 20 lbs to be closer to the average weight. I told him I truly need to take care of myself so I don’t become toxic in the relationship. I never was but bc I’m a bit self conscious, I tend to get jealous. I’ve been used and played all of 2020 which hit my depression hard bc only dude were after my body, not me. It hurts but I let them use me and I acknowledge that now and I’m gonna talk it out with my therapist. I start therapy in two days and my best friend was sooo happy I was going to get help and so is she. She wrote a paragraph to the dude who likes me and I like him back about how she wants me to start seeing myself has she sees me. And it warmed my heart bc she’s truly one of my only friends that I trust everything with. She’s been my BFF for 6 years so she’s seen how I’ve been. The dude who likes me acknowledged I’m getting help and said he’ll be waiting for me, since I’m disconnecting from most of my social life, and he wishes me luck.
10:30 I thought this way practically my whole life,for various reasons, like thinking I was the ugly duckling, having family issues and so projecting a relationship like the solution for everything. I really idolized love and relationships, but after a year long some what toxic relationship, and a recent flirting stage with a new friend, I realized boys ain't gonna fix my problems (they ll just add to them) . I have to fix my own problems. Since maybe two three months now I have been trying to know myself and learn to appreciate my own company. And it shows, guys. You are the one person you gonna have to live with for the rest of your life, love yourself. And adding to the confidence tips, I got two: I started a fashion insta maybe two years ago, that's like an outfit diary, and it helps a lot when I dunno what to wear; and also right now I'm doing self portraits in my sketchbook, and I m just starting, but it feels nice to trace my face, and see my imperfections but also how they make me pretty, it's like imperfect beauty. ♥️ Lots of love
why is our "confidence timeline" literally the same?? my confidence skyrocketed once school ended. i also started experimenting with fashion in the summer and then started romanticizing romance wayyy too much.
Ok I’m genuinely shocked how we went through the same phases at the same time....everything you were saying resonated 100% with me. I made so much progress in the summer with body confidence after 2 years of eating disorder recovery. I was doing better but then I also got love obsessed and I kept thinking about how no one could possibly find me attractive or like my personality. I was just lonely and all my friends were busy or in a completely different state across the country for college. College stress didn’t help either. But after the semester ended, I started spending time alone again and tried to appreciate the alone time I had to just think and paint and dance in my room in the dark. For some reason I started getting some of my confidence back. Wearing actual outfits besides sweatpants and tshirts, eating healthier, exercising, and just doing whatever made me feel good helped SO SO MUCH. Everything you were saying about “faking it till you make it” and just “putting in more effort” is so true and are things that my therapist has been telling me to do for the past 1-2 years. Don’t know why I never took it seriously and tried it out but it definitely works. Just takes some time and there are some bumps in the road. But everything sort of just works out in the end. Hope this year is amazing for you and for everyone else :)
i definitely do the 'walk with confidence' and it makes me feel better, but on the other hand there are days where i can't stop thinking that people are looking at me and just that brings me into a bad place in my head. idk how can i be so opposite, one day confident af and the other anxious that people will look at me.
5:07 oh sooo relatable. Me too, it's not that I hate myself, and often times I'm ok with my current state, but I wish I could be more slimmer whenever I look at a mirror.. and this make me wonder if I'm not confident enough. I really want to be a cool, confident person (actually quite overly obsessed with becoming a confident one) who is COMPLETELY content with how they look like, but its damn hard to become a 'perfectly' confident person.
“I make TikToks of me staring at the camera and doing absolutely nothing.Because if White people can do it I can do it too” Dustin’s energy is hilarious 😆
I think everyone is perfect the way they look. Sure there are certain aesthetic critics you could have but even that is subjective. And even if you would look like someone you think looks perfect people could still criticize you and think you are 'ugly' or not good looking.
So happy you trust us and you feel comfortable with telling us out loud that obsession with the foolowing count. Love you Dustin and I am so proud of you
i share the same stories with you. i used to paint my nails when i was home alone in middle school and take it off before someone came home. now that i have grown i paint them whenever i want and i gain confidence by doing it. love your videos dustin.
I know that confidence is something I had always worked on. I was so insecure in elementary and middle school, plus in high school it got a little better. But thankfully now I feel like I'm more comfortable with my body and who I am and knowing the difference between necessary change, like change as you mature and change done for the sake of others and what they think of you. P.s. Loving the hair Dustin!! It's beautiful!
thank you so much for talking about this, it's really refreshing to see another guy talk about confidence and self love like this!!! lets hope 2021 brings us all the confidence we truly deserve
Honestly same. After leaving high school i made such big steps in terms of confidence. I began painting my nails and having fun with that, being more experimental wit my fashion and i'd really like to get into makeup (wich would be a big step for me, so its probably going to take a while)
i was making spaghetti but i’m here now. i am LIVING FOR these sit down talking videos because i can relate so much. i am a bisexual girl living with idiotic parents. it sucks how uneducated they are about stuff and it puts me down. you are like the best friend that i fucking need. anyways, love your channel and shit ❤️
hey Dustin! thank you so much for being transparent with us. I admire the fact that you shared an unhealthy coping mechanism and owned up to it. keep on growing! you're doing amazing :)
I just found your channel, and I guess I found it now because I needed it the most, currently I am in the phase, where if I don't have friends to hangout with, I feel like I should be productive and not waste time, which is getting me depressed that I don't have many friends, also in desperate need to find love, so that I can be someone's priority and always have someone to hang around with. I really hope that I get out of this phase soon.. Because I am being too hard on myself
This is such a great video, well structured but still flowy, also I loved how real you are it literally feels like listening to a close friend giving you a pep talk
thanks Dustin, you made me realize so much good things about myself that I never ever even noticed before. This REALLY means a lot. Imma make a video about it ofc.
honestly i do the “thinking i’m better than everyone else” thing too, LIKE ALL THE TIME. but i think it is Totally Okay and Normal, cuz its just a mindset, doesn’t necessarily mean you gotta put others down:))
Thank you so much for sharing these thoughts with us. Self love is so important and we all need to learn to stop beating ourselves down for EVERY SINGLE THING. We don't need anyone to be with us to make us feel special. We don't need someone to validate us. I knowm it feels like no-one will ever really love you and your struggles so often go unnoticed. But whoever makes you feel like you are any less, doesn't deserve you. Let's be kind, considerate and loving. Peace
I just wanna thank you so much for sitting down and talking about this! There's not even an inch of confidence in my body and I really needed a boost, which you gave me. I'm so tired of feeling insecure and I really want to start making progress in the way I view myself (starting from now). Your advice is very much appreciated! and now I also got time to sit down and paint my nails so thanks for that too
I agree working out makes you feel more confident even when you don’t see the results right away but you do have to find the right workouts that you actually enjoy doing daily ☺️ also you have very nice features!!! I don’t understand how you wouldn’t be confident but I guess everyone has that one thing that they wish they could change or have been born with differently. 💕 Either way you a baddie!
I did the exact same thing! I would always validate myself by forcing myself to hate everybody so that i could like me. It was only until recently that i realized how bad that was, so glad that im not alone!
I recently discovered your videos, starting from the "let's talk about the art of being alone". I like the aesthetic in your videos, your personality and the advice you share. Please do more videos like this!
please, i loved this video so much 🥺 i constantly found myself nodding along to the things you were saying because i also realized a lot of what you mentioned on my own journey
Dustin you are such an inspiration to us ☺️, thank you for sharing your thoughts and your experiences about your life 💝, and it can really help us who experiencing in that feeling 👍😣☺️☺️☺️
Tbh insecurities are not really there with us from the first place, it is created and forced onto us by our surroundings, we get insecure when people point it out for us, and when we listen to it and let it get to us. So what i'm saying is, don't let what people say or might think get to you, trust me it helps a lot, i always let what people think and said got to me and i was insecure in many things cause of that, but now i have been trying to ignore it and do what makes me happy and its worth it. I'm happy i'm not the person i was 2,3 years ago, we keep learning and growing. Sending love to all of you! Just remember to surround yourself with good people who supports you and don't judge you in what you do, if you haven't got those people, have patience and wait for it but remember to leave the toxic ones behind too.💗💗
Wow not gonna lie this is the first video that made me realize that i should stary loving my self, i use to-well i still do everytime i feel down or insecure i would just eat a lot so im basically eating my feelings, thank you for changing my mind 😌
"I was the kid that wore a shirt in the pool when I was younger, and I think that tells you all you need to know" I cackled.
anyone wanna be friends!?? come join me here discord.gg/8yYpMMq6TE
Same
That was me as well
That is still me ngl
I still do that sometimes...
And I live on an really small island so...
The thumbnail really was giving me confidence
AS IT SHOULDDDD PERIODT
anyone wanna be friends!?? come join me here discord.gg/8yYpMMq6TE
that wolf shirt is iconic
What's it from?
@@nata4417 im pretty sure thats from the mountain
the mullet is looking EXTRA hot today
"being in a relationship will not fill the self hatred you have for yourself" that hit too hard,, i've been so desperate for love thinking it would fix all my problems and that genuinely made me want to work on loving myself so thank you for reminding me that to love my self !!
“loneliness means you’re in desperate need for yourself”..i think this applies if the loneliness comes from exactly what you meant; looking for someone to heal you, even tho loving yourself is the only thing that truly can. i hope you all the best on your journey, if i have made it, you can too
you can only meet people as deeply as you’ve met yourself & you can only love people as truly as you love yourself:)
bruh if u get into a romantic relationship w/ sb while still hating on yourself,, you'll literally end up unintentionally self sabotaging it bcs the unresolved hate would just get in the way of ur (and ur partner's) personal growth in the relationship,, which is inevitable if u wanna keep it going in the right direction
\\ hope this made any sense, talking from a personal experience tho,
wish u the best and good luck
Same....especially when like all my friends are married, engaged, have children or about to have them..plus turning thirty...doesn't help. Lol
as someone who isn’t allowed things on their walls (my mum has ocd so it’s fine and fair! cause it makes her feel claustrophobic and like something is attacking her) I really appreciate how amazingly decorated yours/Linhs/jazzylees rooms are !!! I’m very excited to live on my own - it will probably be like a kids room but ah well ! it’ll be the only time I’ve ever been able to decorate anything
Is he straight tho?? Has em kpop vibes videos.sh/msyviz62xti9/Dustin_should_be_a_kpop_idol.mp4.html
you are so kind and understanding! And I hope you’re mom is okay
I don't think it will look like a kid's room! I am in college and everyone puts stuff on their walls
@@erikascencen just because he looks like one doesnt mean he should be one, stop comparing every asian to a kpop idol☺
@@erikascencen pls dont compare asian people to kpop idols, it can be super offensive to some of them and its annoying -
petition for dustin to start a podcast if he ever wants to :)
200th member of the petition! :D
lol if white people can do it, i can do it too...the level of confidence we need
Making this my mantra from now on
I'm gonna start living by this omg
I read a tweet that said if 70mil+ people can believe that Tr*mp is a good president, you can believe in yourself 😩😂
need that on a poster. my race highly affects how i dress and not in a good wayyyy
Dropping a comment saying I’m loving the hair even though 10 million other people already had the same thought
TRUUUE BRO HIS HAIR IS AMAZIIINNNGGG ✨✨
"But once you leave that prison....YOU EVOLVE LIKE A POKEMON" that's one of my favorite quotes from Dustin now
His face/bone structure is a work of art
"and when it was 6th grade, i felt like everyone had depression" why is that so true that was the year my symptoms began
I am living for Dustin's mullet
I’m so glad you mentioned dance as a confidence factor! People think that dance is something anyone can do.... bruh! As a dancer perfectionism is soo prevalent!
I literally paused drivers license for this...very much so worth it :))
no go stream drivers license
Just cringreeee
hello dude, i know you might never see this comment, BUT i just wanted to share this positive thoughts with you! So, first of all, these hair is SICK, i love it! The second thing, that i wanted to tell you is next: i heard you say that you did nothing by the age, when other people become famous and rich and successful, but look, you have 350k subs on youtube and i am here in Russia in a small town at night watching YOUR VIDEOS, isn't it SICK???? and the last but not least - you are thin and light, you are like a butterfly - so be proud of it, because this is so beautiful, you can produce beauty in world just being there in your room and painting nails - so good luck to you in your way and Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!
oh this was one of the most beautiful comments i’ve read so far
happy new years!! know you are a bright light in this world, just like dustin
@@lottaleben-p7x 🙏✨
I love these types of videos, they're so relatable and it's really fun to listen to you talk about your growth. Also, kind of irrelevant, but something that has helped me be more confident is watching animated movies or tv shows, whether it be Avatar: The Last Airbender or a studio Ghibli film. It's kind of weird, but I used to compare my looks to actors on tv, and it would contribute to decreasing my self-esteem. But when it came to animated characters, I instinctively didn't compare myself to them because their faces and bodies weren't real. Seeing characters like Sokka, a non-bender amongst his extremely powerful bender friends, be one of the most intelligent and confident characters on the show was inspiring to me (he's the proof that fake it 'till you make it works). Not only that, there's Hinata being confident and working hard despite his disadvantage due to his height in Haikyuu. Even Sophie from Howl's Moving Castle inspired me, because despite being a cursed physically weak old woman, she ultimately played a huge part in ending a war and gained her youth back. When I was young, I would root for these characters instead of comparing myself to them, so now, I've applied that to people outside of animations (live-action characters or even real people around me). So yeah, that was my rant about how much I love animated stuff and how it's helped build my confidence. Love your videos Dustin... k bye
me realizing why i like animation so much 😳
I love this
Whenever I hear creators talk about how they work near constantly I feel a little bad that I’m not that productive/determined and/or don’t have something I’m super passionate about already that I can devote my time and energy into. It’s also motivating though :) love how your nails match your guitar!
I’m going to be taking therapy, after having depression and anxiety for over 6 years almost 7. Truly it never impacted me but now I realized it does. There is a boy I really like and he also likes me, he lives 6 hours away T.T, but i told him before I get in another relationship, I want to be better, mentally and physically. I don’t really care about my body like I like it it’s okay, but I think I should at least lose 20 lbs to be closer to the average weight. I told him I truly need to take care of myself so I don’t become toxic in the relationship. I never was but bc I’m a bit self conscious, I tend to get jealous. I’ve been used and played all of 2020 which hit my depression hard bc only dude were after my body, not me. It hurts but I let them use me and I acknowledge that now and I’m gonna talk it out with my therapist. I start therapy in two days and my best friend was sooo happy I was going to get help and so is she. She wrote a paragraph to the dude who likes me and I like him back about how she wants me to start seeing myself has she sees me. And it warmed my heart bc she’s truly one of my only friends that I trust everything with. She’s been my BFF for 6 years so she’s seen how I’ve been. The dude who likes me acknowledged I’m getting help and said he’ll be waiting for me, since I’m disconnecting from most of my social life, and he wishes me luck.
I feel like dustin is telling us more about himself recently, its nice it feels like we're getting closer to him
14:11 and validate/hype yourself up with the things you are personally grateful for in life (this usually works for me)
Why did this come at such a right time???
hello yoongi
@@saumya9173 haha hii
Nooo your pfp is just reminding me of his hiatus 😭
@@yoongi_chu1353 ahhh I’m sorryy
@@daksaaa1481 it’s okay 🥲
Okay, but the mullet-wolf shirt combo SLAPS.
always feel like i’m catching up and chilling with an old friend in dustin’s chatty videos :’)
Omg haaaaaay what’s up bro 🤣
AAAAA
saw the thumbnail , brain said ~conan gray vibes~ , and clicked automatically.
SAME
10:30 I thought this way practically my whole life,for various reasons, like thinking I was the ugly duckling, having family issues and so projecting a relationship like the solution for everything. I really idolized love and relationships, but after a year long some what toxic relationship, and a recent flirting stage with a new friend, I realized boys ain't gonna fix my problems (they ll just add to them) . I have to fix my own problems. Since maybe two three months now I have been trying to know myself and learn to appreciate my own company. And it shows, guys. You are the one person you gonna have to live with for the rest of your life, love yourself.
And adding to the confidence tips, I got two: I started a fashion insta maybe two years ago, that's like an outfit diary, and it helps a lot when I dunno what to wear; and also right now I'm doing self portraits in my sketchbook, and I m just starting, but it feels nice to trace my face, and see my imperfections but also how they make me pretty, it's like imperfect beauty. ♥️ Lots of love
why do i feel like im actually talking with him his videos are so 🎇calming🎇
"smth about working out just makes you feel more confident" ITS THE ENDORPHINS
why is our "confidence timeline" literally the same?? my confidence skyrocketed once school ended. i also started experimenting with fashion in the summer and then started romanticizing romance wayyy too much.
I swear i totally missed just the whole "Dustin's vibes" in my life
dustin has the best tips he’s like an older brother i never had, i literally see him as our friend
Ok I’m genuinely shocked how we went through the same phases at the same time....everything you were saying resonated 100% with me. I made so much progress in the summer with body confidence after 2 years of eating disorder recovery. I was doing better but then I also got love obsessed and I kept thinking about how no one could possibly find me attractive or like my personality. I was just lonely and all my friends were busy or in a completely different state across the country for college. College stress didn’t help either. But after the semester ended, I started spending time alone again and tried to appreciate the alone time I had to just think and paint and dance in my room in the dark. For some reason I started getting some of my confidence back. Wearing actual outfits besides sweatpants and tshirts, eating healthier, exercising, and just doing whatever made me feel good helped SO SO MUCH. Everything you were saying about “faking it till you make it” and just “putting in more effort” is so true and are things that my therapist has been telling me to do for the past 1-2 years. Don’t know why I never took it seriously and tried it out but it definitely works. Just takes some time and there are some bumps in the road. But everything sort of just works out in the end. Hope this year is amazing for you and for everyone else :)
i definitely do the 'walk with confidence' and it makes me feel better, but on the other hand there are days where i can't stop thinking that people are looking at me and just that brings me into a bad place in my head. idk how can i be so opposite, one day confident af and the other anxious that people will look at me.
I absolutely ADORE your Dustin, watchng your videos is so comforting, like people have comfort characters and i have a comfort youtuber
5:07 oh sooo relatable. Me too, it's not that I hate myself, and often times I'm ok with my current state, but I wish I could be more slimmer whenever I look at a mirror.. and this make me wonder if I'm not confident enough. I really want to be a cool, confident person (actually quite overly obsessed with becoming a confident one) who is COMPLETELY content with how they look like, but its damn hard to become a 'perfectly' confident person.
dustin i’m trying to get my grades up i can’t watch this, but here we are
good luck :)
You can do it!
you got this baddie ;)
“I make TikToks of me staring at the camera and doing absolutely nothing.Because if White people can do it I can do it too” Dustin’s energy is hilarious 😆
If I want to feel confident I just pretend that I’m a celebrity lmao (it sometimes helps)
@Vicky Pham yuppp
Dis helps
okay i literally just found you on my recommended bUT I RELATE TO YOU SO MUCH ESPECIALLY THE PART ABOUT PRETTY PRIVILEGE UGH THE RELATABLE CONTENT!!
"Who told you that?" - Yes! Often times we are our worst enemies, but at the end of that day our thoughts are just thoughts, not facts :)
I literally can not wait to see you in your 20s because you will definitely thrive soo much !!!
this style fits sooo well with you!!! the outfit, the hair, the nails, everything is just ughhh so pretty
Y’all the runway thing actually BOOSTS my confidence every time I walk, like I hate my body but damn I’m tall and walking like in a runway WORKS!
one thing i really appreciate about dustin's videos, is how honest and realistic they are. loved this so much :)
dustin is literally the only person keeping me sane in quarantine😌
You give so much "I'm-the-cool-cousin" vibes rn
I think everyone is perfect the way they look. Sure there are certain aesthetic critics you could have but even that is subjective.
And even if you would look like someone you think looks perfect people could still criticize you and think you are 'ugly' or not good looking.
So happy you trust us and you feel comfortable with telling us out loud that obsession with the foolowing count. Love you Dustin and I am so proud of you
i share the same stories with you. i used to paint my nails when i was home alone in middle school and take it off before someone came home. now that i have grown i paint them whenever i want and i gain confidence by doing it. love your videos dustin.
I know that confidence is something I had always worked on. I was so insecure in elementary and middle school, plus in high school it got a little better. But thankfully now I feel like I'm more comfortable with my body and who I am and knowing the difference between necessary change, like change as you mature and change done for the sake of others and what they think of you.
P.s. Loving the hair Dustin!! It's beautiful!
thank you so much for talking about this, it's really refreshing to see another guy talk about confidence and self love like this!!! lets hope 2021 brings us all the confidence we truly deserve
Honestly same. After leaving high school i made such big steps in terms of confidence. I began painting my nails and having fun with that, being more experimental wit my fashion and i'd really like to get into makeup (wich would be a big step for me, so its probably going to take a while)
i was making spaghetti but i’m here now. i am LIVING FOR these sit down talking videos because i can relate so much. i am a bisexual girl living with idiotic parents. it sucks how uneducated they are about stuff and it puts me down. you are like the best friend that i fucking need. anyways, love your channel and shit ❤️
this video honestly was thrown at me by youtube at the most perfect time.
7:41 is so so true!! it usually feels uncomfy but I swear that truly is when u grow the most 🥺💗
ok this is the first video of yours that i watch and i’m OBSESSED!!!!
in love, literally could listen to you talk all day. so glad you were in my recommended
hey Dustin! thank you so much for being transparent with us. I admire the fact that you shared an unhealthy coping mechanism and owned up to it. keep on growing! you're doing amazing :)
this is by far ur best video ever (imo) it was gr8 it felt really authentic and u know a bit relatable actually
man your videos help me so much im in highschool rn and im having a pretty rough time but watching your videos gives me more hope
I just found your channel, and I guess I found it now because I needed it the most, currently I am in the phase, where if I don't have friends to hangout with, I feel like I should be productive and not waste time, which is getting me depressed that I don't have many friends, also in desperate need to find love, so that I can be someone's priority and always have someone to hang around with. I really hope that I get out of this phase soon.. Because I am being too hard on myself
This is such a great video, well structured but still flowy, also I loved how real you are it literally feels like listening to a close friend giving you a pep talk
Give yourself some credit. YOU DESERVE IT. If being egotistical for a minute works, DO IT. Self-love is everything❣️
i love when u and jazzy do these sit down videos
The thumbnail is everything to me!! 💖
I AM SO HAPPY FOR YOU TBH like I love seeing u happy U GOT A NEW SUBSCRIBER
thanks Dustin, you made me realize so much good things about myself that I never ever even noticed before. This REALLY means a lot.
Imma make a video about it ofc.
im living for your hair and would 11/10 die for it
This vlog was like: listen b*$%# you need to calm down and change your vision by love yourself 💖💖💖 OMG I love u Dustin 💌✨
honestly i do the “thinking i’m better than everyone else” thing too, LIKE ALL THE TIME. but i think it is Totally Okay and Normal, cuz its just a mindset, doesn’t necessarily mean you gotta put others down:))
the oversized wolf shirt really sets the sleep over mood
Thank you so much for sharing these thoughts with us. Self love is so important and we all need to learn to stop beating ourselves down for EVERY SINGLE THING. We don't need anyone to be with us to make us feel special. We don't need someone to validate us. I knowm it feels like no-one will ever really love you and your struggles so often go unnoticed. But whoever makes you feel like you are any less, doesn't deserve you. Let's be kind, considerate and loving. Peace
your hair is EVERYTHING.
idk but listening to you just pour your thoughts while i draw or write or just zone out is so calming... ? dustin therapy 😘🙌
i somehow feel so understood whenever i watch this kind of videos of yours, that's crazy
I just wanna thank you so much for sitting down and talking about this! There's not even an inch of confidence in my body and I really needed a boost, which you gave me. I'm so tired of feeling insecure and I really want to start making progress in the way I view myself (starting from now). Your advice is very much appreciated! and now I also got time to sit down and paint my nails so thanks for that too
im so glad i clicked on this video, he literally gives of serotoninnnnnn. also the best pieces of advice ive ever heard!!
I agree working out makes you feel more confident even when you don’t see the results right away but you do have to find the right workouts that you actually enjoy doing daily ☺️ also you have very nice features!!! I don’t understand how you wouldn’t be confident but I guess everyone has that one thing that they wish they could change or have been born with differently. 💕 Either way you a baddie!
I did the exact same thing! I would always validate myself by forcing myself to hate everybody so that i could like me. It was only until recently that i realized how bad that was, so glad that im not alone!
I recently discovered your videos, starting from the "let's talk about the art of being alone". I like the aesthetic in your videos, your personality and the advice you share. Please do more videos like this!
i could talk to this little boy during an entire month and i wouldn't be tired
this is my comfort video now.
please, i loved this video so much 🥺 i constantly found myself nodding along to the things you were saying because i also realized a lot of what you mentioned on my own journey
your mullet is art
Dustin you are such an inspiration to us ☺️, thank you for sharing your thoughts and your experiences about your life 💝, and it can really help us who experiencing in that feeling 👍😣☺️☺️☺️
I do the same thing with the “hype yourself up thing” 😭😅😂💀
When I’m doing REALLY bad.
Tbh insecurities are not really there with us from the first place, it is created and forced onto us by our surroundings, we get insecure when people point it out for us, and when we listen to it and let it get to us. So what i'm saying is, don't let what people say or might think get to you, trust me it helps a lot, i always let what people think and said got to me and i was insecure in many things cause of that, but now i have been trying to ignore it and do what makes me happy and its worth it. I'm happy i'm not the person i was 2,3 years ago, we keep learning and growing. Sending love to all of you! Just remember to surround yourself with good people who supports you and don't judge you in what you do, if you haven't got those people, have patience and wait for it but remember to leave the toxic ones behind too.💗💗
ugh you always save us in times of distress 😩🙏🏾
Wow not gonna lie this is the first video that made me realize that i should stary loving my self, i use to-well i still do everytime i feel down or insecure i would just eat a lot so im basically eating my feelings, thank you for changing my mind 😌
the content i actually needdd , can't wait until i finish highschool !!!!!
dustin i live for your sit down videos
✨the vibezzz✨
Also the birds chirping in the background added more years to my life
The taking myself on a date video is one of my comfort video, thank you for making it 😌
Love this filter over ur video. So calming 🌹🎀
Your bedroom is so great, I LOVE it!
THE HAIR we are here for it
boy you made me really happy i just got broken up with and now im thinking i should love myself more thank you!!!
i just love your videos so much. they relax me and keep me sane. thank you so much! keep going🖤🖤
Your hair looks amazing, and also this is my second video of yours and I already adore you
dude i was watching your old videos cause i needed the content so bad...and then this popped!