you were making that statement towards all imams with "They themselves" It's blunt, offensive, and unnecessary. You might not even know of more than a handful of Imams.
***** Wa alaykum al-salam sister. No problem, we all make mistakes, at least you were sincere enough to admit it. Be careful who you take knowledge from.
The preacher is saying something reasonable although I am Christian I side with him 100 percent. God bless you. You're real a man of God. Please my follow Christian's and muslims take a lesson from the Preacher. I love all of you God bless
This is so true. You can't force someone to marry someone who they don't want. Therefore, is better for them to choose who they want to marry. Although, Allah knows who will marry who.
Sometimes it's actually the parents who look for non-Islamic characteristics in spouses for their daughters such as degrees, income, physical appearance, etc. as opposed to virtue and good character.
U know what do the best for urself but once u feel like u r trapped then just have sabr bec taking risks can again be devastating so have sabr..we really need to develop sabr
I hope that some fathers have listened to this video and read some of the comments here about broken hearts. But many are stubborn and just follow their own superficial cultural dumb desires. Have the hadeeth never reached you when the messenger of Allah said: “A matron should not be given in marriage except after consulting her; and a virgin should not be given in marriage except after her permission is sought”. Ibn Abbas narrated that a young virgin came to the Messenger of Allah (saw) and mentioned that her father had given her in marriage against her wishes. So the Prophet (saw) gave her the choice of repudiating the marriage”.
SubhanAllah. This made me look back at my life before marriage. I am so very thankful for my parents. Even though my mother wasn't happy with the age difference between me and the man i wanted to marry (14 years older than me), I told her that it was what I wanted for a number of reasons and she agreed that my reasons were valid. Other than that, my father took care of everything, making sure that i would be getting married to not a perfect (because we know that only Allah is perfect), but a good man. Hamdolilah today we are married and expecting our first daughter inchallah. My dear brothers and sister in Islam, i urge you, please, Marry the manwoman who can both make you happy and fears Allah for if he does Not fear Allah, they will never be the right man/woman for you. Marry the one who encourages you and reminds you about Allah for if they does not, the angel of death will. Marry the one who looks beautiful not only in your eyes but Allah's eyes as well. I urge you, pray Istikhara before making the decision to marry someone, not after. And lastly I urge you, when you get the chance to get married, take it! Wallahi, marriage protects you from the evil all around us and within ourselves. As your sister in Islam, I sincerely wish you all a blessed, fruitful and happy marriage.
Mademoiselle Emma That's really good advice, and age difference is not a proper reason to halt ta marriage, but what i'm concerned is ppl who are practicing are getting married to non practicing muslims coz of love and attractions, this is really dangerous especially when the husband is responsible religiously for the wife and the wife is responsible religiously for the husband and they will be questioned regarding this, i think even if anyone gets attracted to anyone due to our day and age where men and women comes so much in contact, the attraction should be based on religiosity first, and then the character and then the physical features, unfortunately the order has been reversed, first the beauty, character and then religion, and even if one half is not practicing, the other half still only sees the good side avoiding the bad sides due to blindness that infatuations can bring, and they just think to themselves the other person will change but many never do, parents of the girl(wali) do have a right to stop marriages to a person who is non practicing but the girls who are rebellious goes to the sharia court and spills all lie that the man is really good and practicing in the process making the sharia court take the guardianship from the wali and completing the marriage, well the fact is even if the girl can fool sharia court, u can't actually fool Allah, and if the wali had legitimate reasons in light of sharia, the marriage is devoid of the barakah , and many of these marriages faces serious problems in future.
One of the best lecture so far. And it put so much knowledge and give cobfidents to womans as they have rights to reject the proposals as well n merry whom they want. Mashallah
Well, getting married, then getting divorced & then never be able to get married again. That's the worst part. This is why I believe Allah 'azza wajaal has a greater plan for me. I'll get married to someone who can speak & write Arabic properly. I told you that :D
in shaa2 ALLAH, but u have to be hopefull , why u think you will get divorced ; ALLAH teh most generous just ask him and u will get myuch more than u imagine!! keep FAITH dear قال تعالى: "الْخَبِيثَاتُ لِلْخَبِيثِينَ وَالْخَبِيثُونَ لِلْخَبِيثَاتِ ۖ وَالطَّيِّبَاتُ لِلطَّيِّبِينَ وَالطَّيِّبُونَ لِلطَّيِّبَاتِ ۚ أُولَٰئِكَ مُبَرَّءُونَ مِمَّا يَقُولُونَ ۖ لَهُم مَّغْفِرَةٌ وَرِزْقٌ كَرِيمٌ" Evil words are for evil men, and evil men are [subjected] to evil words. And good words are for good men, and good men are [an object] of good words. Those [good people] are declared innocent of what the slanderers say. For them is forgiveness and noble provision.Surat An-Nūr
This is so powerful i wish my parents understood this !! i really want to marry this brother and he wants to marry me but my family doesnt let because they are poor!! i dont what i should do !!
Rayana I think you should try convincing you parents that "Earning money" is a part of life and is not complete life. It might make up less than one percent of the person. Ask her to see him on the whole, his external features, his mental attributes, him being respectful towards elders, etc. Sit in your room and think about as many positive qualities as you can about him. Write them down if you want to. Then speak about all of them to your parents. Now, ask them if it's wise to ignore all the good qualities and hold on to just one "negative quality"? Moreover, being poor isn't even bad, a person earns that which is written in his fate by Allah. I hope you get what you want and I also hope that you take each and every step of your life wisely and with in-depth thinking to avoid problems as much as possible. Ameen.
This was powerful. Practical advice not just about how to get along with your adult children and how to raise small children but more importantly about how to take responsibility for your own actions and failings and to not be a hypocrite. All interspersed with a depth of spiritual awareness and beautiful visuals. The preaching style is very foreign to me. The periodic interjections of guttural semitic sounds are jarring and make it kind of hard to follow but even still I found this to be a touching presentation.
Masha'llah Very Great Reminder! I Ask Allah SWT To Reward You For Such A Reminder, And May He Allah SWT Reward You With Such Reward That You May Be So Happy With! You Are Doing Great Work, Wallahi I Will Make Dua'h For You For Whomever You Are. Jazak Allahu Kahairr
Asalamu alaikum...my all muslim brothers and sisters..make dua for me in your prayer...I really want to marry a person whom I love.but my parents forced to marry a another one.i don't what should I do.please make dua for me.
Wow.. I waited for this bayan.. all true what he said.. I loved someone but my parents not interest... when my parents found my love they hit me soooo... The boy i loved is my best friend's brother.. So my parents never let me speak to my friend too... just niw iam 14 years old.. not sending me school also.. It's hurt me soo.. Sometimes i feel i wnna die.. I feel lonely.... My parents never send me where i wanna go.. So all these things hurt me soooo... Sometimes i use to cut my hands... i tried so i can't more than this.. I can't 4get him i need him... So now i thought i will never marry someone else in my life.. My parents wants me to 4get him as well as i will not marry someone else that's my idea... Feeling so sad.. iam nothing without him..
for people who post negative comments, Kindly, be careful with ur words whatever we say, we speak, our actions all r recorded in the book of our Deeds Islam doesn't allow us to even talk to a Non-Muslim like that n if one is Muslim shudnt say like this 2 his Muslim brother like that if sumthng is said against what u think u shudnt address de person with rude words but maybe much better way u can research more about it hope u stay careful
"Islam doesn't allow us to even talk to a Non-Muslim like that" Do you realize that your ideology is placing non Muslims as someone inferior than Muslims? And that's very racist of you.
May Allah help our parents understand,some parents stop their sons and daughters from marrying who they want due to ethnicity and race passing through this situation can be tough on us.May Allah give us the strength to bear this it so difficult.
I'm not a muslim, but I've always had much love and respect for Islam as well as I do for my own religion (which I love dearly)💎💎💎 But I agree with everything he says because the child should decide who they marry because after all it's their life💎 Some parents may be super stubborn and restrict their child to only several, some or even a very minimal races for marriage🤦🏻♂️ They tend to stubbornly forget that this isn't about what they want for their child, but this is about who their kid wants to marry💎 It puts way too much stress on their kid because he/she really wants to be with a certain race because they feel happier and they want that type of person in their life forever💎 Those parents who restrict their child should be more open minded because it will make their child's life a lot easier and happier💎 The fact that the child has to worry about what will their parents say to the person they want to marry isn't going to cut it💎 "what if my family offends my lovers family strongly or even worse... offends my lover?" Why should anyone have to worry about this? This isn't right and it's not good for anyone's emotional and mental health💎 These type of parents need to learn how to adapt and stop thinking too much about themselves and how it might "embarrass" them in front of their friends or relatives💎 We as your children are appreciative of what you have done for us through out our lives and how you've guided us💎 But when it comes to marriage... it is completely out of your control, but all you can do is try to assist their decision and see where things go💎 As for the result of who the child marry's... it's your job as parents to respect your child's decision and do whatever you can in your power to adapt and understand their lovers' culture💎 For me personally I know I won't have many problems with this when I will be a parent because I'm somebody who easily adapts and finds the good in every new thing that comes my way💎 I just hope the parents from the generation before the millennial generation and even before the one that is before the millennial generation, is able to learn how to be more understanding and learn how to adapt💎
In Sha ALLAH...hope parents understand thier children's likes...hope it would be like this...by not forcing thier children to get married of what theyre childrens dont like...
asalamu alaikum all muslims sometimes is good your parents can choose you ,i choose my self few times it dosn`t work for me your parents can choose better porsen for u if u dont like it you can say to them no
Assalamualaikum.. I'm in love with a guy and he's also in love with me.. And we want to marry each other and want to be together in future..But his mom has already set his marriage with one of his cousin and he don't want to marry her..But he can't go against his mother too..so for the sake of his mother we decided not to talk to each other so that she can stay happy even though we r hurting inside..But I wish she could understand that his son's happiness is in something else...And I don't know wt to do and I can't say him to go against his mother ..I'm just praying Allah swt to make everything fine as before..and i have hope that Inshallah Allah swt will make everything better ..
Walikum aslam... This is unIslamic. He should marry to the person he wishes. His mom has no role in it except to give few suggestions. Ask him not to marry cousin for the sake of his mother.
masha Allah,,,,, I love yoer speech ,,,,me n my boy friend ready to get marry ,but his mom not at all accepting our love ,she telling to leave me ,,, Allah blessed us ,,but y can't she ,,,,please Allah we r waiting for his mom to accept
Our god same no prechers ever said dont love this love this nooone ever said that only society and people is different no religion is bad all of them principle is happpinesss love and trust😍
this is was happening to me with my parents push me to marriage with my ex who not i love, i have said no and no cause i knew very well his akhlaq very bad behinde my parents, but my parents still push me to marriage with him, im really depresed of this and they ask him to come my home for ask me to be his wife. i know parents was embarrassing with they friends cause im still single (not mariage). they never listen my argument why i dont like him!! this is very bad for me :(
I am a girl who is 23yrs fell in love with someone for 6yrs Nd he finally decided to marry me. I tell my mom the story that am ready for him but am given two options 1)marry Nd am disown by my parents 2)stay at home nd forget abt him as Muslim's Wat wuld hve done
What if the person is non-muslim but a great person. The child will remain muslim and their offspring will too based upon mutual agreement. They love each other and he/she want to marry them. Can this apply as well?
Dear brothers and sisters i have a question does a son have the right to choose his career for example i want to be a buisnessman but my parents want me to be something else?
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Very well said. It's a shame that the Imams never mention this issue in Friday khutbahs.
+salman yusuf not all Imams are like that.
You shouldn't make blunt statements towards societal leaders such as Imams.
Allah knows best.
bruh you said "because they them selves are part of the problem".
you know what you said. so does Allah.
you were making that statement towards all imams with "They themselves"
It's blunt, offensive, and unnecessary. You might not even know of more than a handful of Imams.
***** What you are saying is true, but there is no such hadith in Sahih al-Bukhari
***** Wa alaykum al-salam sister. No problem, we all make mistakes, at least you were sincere enough to admit it. Be careful who you take knowledge from.
The preacher is saying something reasonable although I am Christian I side with him 100 percent.
God bless you. You're real a man of God. Please my follow Christian's and muslims take a lesson from the Preacher. I love all of you God bless
This is so true. You can't force someone to marry someone who they don't want. Therefore, is better for them to choose who they want to marry. Although, Allah knows who will marry who.
LOl yes it is.
Amina Quruxley we have right to marry to whom we want but it doesnt means we date with someone and be in relationship
jaber bahawras True
Amina Quruxley :)
+jaber bahawras why,whats wrong with relationship
Only if her parent would watch this !
MashaAllah , May Allah grant mufti menk a place in Jannah.
if u say, "only if her parent would watch this! is wrong" you try to send this video to her parents try, try, try nothing than trying all the best
+Bella :I always said bella but you have never been Bella.
Amin ya Allah
society is cruel.....not islam...!!!!
Indeed...
this video should be seen by each n every parents.
Sometimes it's actually the parents who look for non-Islamic characteristics in spouses for their daughters such as degrees, income, physical appearance, etc. as opposed to virtue and good character.
Saira Khan lol that is the only thing EVERYBODY LOOKS AT. INCOME DEGREE FAMILY . UGGGHHH
Muslim sisters in the U.S. care more about dunya. I'm now happily married with an Indonesian lady, and we have a beauriful daughter.
wow islam is so fair
Nabiyaha Cabdi yes it is
But people tend to complicate it.
Subhana'allah i wish my parents knew this,...i get so sad listening to these kinds of videos... In a force marriage¡!!!!!!!!!!!!
Allahu Akbar. Just know that you can strive and struggle for YOUR FREEDOM!
U know what do the best for urself but once u feel like u r trapped then just have sabr bec taking risks can again be devastating so have sabr..we really need to develop sabr
Sabr is sth that u will get something at the end
Inshallah you’re ok now I hope sister
I hope that some fathers have listened to this video and read some of the comments here about broken hearts. But many are stubborn and just follow their own superficial cultural dumb desires. Have the hadeeth never reached you when the messenger of Allah said: “A matron should not be given in marriage except after consulting her; and a virgin should not be given in marriage except after her permission is sought”.
Ibn Abbas narrated that a young virgin came to the Messenger of Allah (saw) and mentioned that her father had given her in marriage against her wishes. So the Prophet (saw) gave her the choice of repudiating the marriage”.
Subhanallah. I cry little inside because it so thoughtful. May Allah guide us to the right path. Ameen
i love mufti menk
SubhanAllah. This made me look back at my life before marriage. I am so very thankful for my parents. Even though my mother wasn't happy with the age difference between me and the man i wanted to marry (14 years older than me), I told her that it was what I wanted for a number of reasons and she agreed that my reasons were valid. Other than that, my father took care of everything, making sure that i would be getting married to not a perfect (because we know that only Allah is perfect), but a good man. Hamdolilah today we are married and expecting our first daughter inchallah.
My dear brothers and sister in Islam, i urge you, please, Marry the manwoman who can both make you happy and fears Allah for if he does Not fear Allah, they will never be the right man/woman for you. Marry the one who encourages you and reminds you about Allah for if they does not, the angel of death will. Marry the one who looks beautiful not only in your eyes but Allah's eyes as well. I urge you, pray Istikhara before making the decision to marry someone, not after. And lastly I urge you, when you get the chance to get married, take it! Wallahi, marriage protects you from the evil all around us and within ourselves.
As your sister in Islam, I sincerely wish you all a blessed, fruitful and happy marriage.
Mademoiselle Emma That's really good advice, and age difference is not a proper reason to halt ta marriage, but what i'm concerned is ppl who are practicing are getting married to non practicing muslims coz of love and attractions, this is really dangerous especially when the husband is responsible religiously for the wife and the wife is responsible religiously for the husband and they will be questioned regarding this,
i think even if anyone gets attracted to anyone due to our day and age where men and women comes so much in contact, the attraction should be based on religiosity first, and then the character and then the physical features, unfortunately the order has been reversed, first the beauty, character and then religion, and even if one half is not practicing, the other half still only sees the good side avoiding the bad sides due to blindness that infatuations can bring, and they just think to themselves the other person will change but many never do,
parents of the girl(wali) do have a right to stop marriages to a person who is non practicing but the girls who are rebellious goes to the sharia court and spills all lie that the man is really good and practicing in the process making the sharia court take the guardianship from the wali and completing the marriage, well the fact is even if the girl can fool sharia court, u can't actually fool Allah, and if the wali had legitimate reasons in light of sharia, the marriage is devoid of the barakah , and many of these marriages faces serious problems in future.
Mademoiselle Emma lucky bitch
Age is no excuse to halt a marriage if both love each other. Those people conveniently forget that our Nabi's first wife was 15 years older than him.
Mademoiselle Emma
Mademoiselle Emma so happy for you sister😄
One of the best lecture so far. And it put so much knowledge and give cobfidents to womans as they have rights to reject the proposals as well n merry whom they want. Mashallah
جزاكم الله خيرا
May Almighty Allah Sub Han Watallah grant you and your family Janat-e-Ferdows. IN SHA ALLAH
MashaAllah what a superb speech. My favorite Scholar Mufti Menk
this is very knowledgeable. wallahi i loved what he said.
waaaaaaaaaaw; amazing , how beautiful words :)
I wanna get married :(
me too :D hhhhhhhhhh; in shaa2 ALLAH soon ya RABB
Well, getting married, then getting divorced & then never be able to get married again. That's the worst part. This is why I believe Allah 'azza wajaal has a greater plan for me.
I'll get married to someone who can speak & write Arabic properly. I told you that :D
in shaa2 ALLAH, but u have to be hopefull , why u think you will get divorced ; ALLAH teh most generous just ask him and u will get myuch more than u imagine!! keep FAITH dear قال تعالى: "الْخَبِيثَاتُ لِلْخَبِيثِينَ وَالْخَبِيثُونَ لِلْخَبِيثَاتِ ۖ وَالطَّيِّبَاتُ لِلطَّيِّبِينَ وَالطَّيِّبُونَ لِلطَّيِّبَاتِ ۚ أُولَٰئِكَ مُبَرَّءُونَ مِمَّا يَقُولُونَ ۖ لَهُم مَّغْفِرَةٌ وَرِزْقٌ كَرِيمٌ"
Evil words are for evil men, and evil men are [subjected] to evil words. And good words are for good men, and good men are [an object] of good words. Those [good people] are declared innocent of what the slanderers say. For them is forgiveness and noble provision.Surat An-Nūr
This is so powerful i wish my parents understood this !! i really want to marry this brother and he wants to marry me but my family doesnt let because they are poor!! i dont what i should do !!
Rayana I think you should try convincing you parents that "Earning money" is a part of life and is not complete life. It might make up less than one percent of the person. Ask her to see him on the whole, his external features, his mental attributes, him being respectful towards elders, etc. Sit in your room and think about as many positive qualities as you can about him. Write them down if you want to. Then speak about all of them to your parents. Now, ask them if it's wise to ignore all the good qualities and hold on to just one "negative quality"? Moreover, being poor isn't even bad, a person earns that which is written in his fate by Allah. I hope you get what you want and I also hope that you take each and every step of your life wisely and with in-depth thinking to avoid problems as much as possible. Ameen.
Tell them that money is only from dunya.
U ALWAYS TALK WHAT NEEDS IN GOOD LIFE.....ALLAHU AKBARU
That's true, the father is the most vulnerable to become a hypocrite.
It's haram to force anyone to marry, regardless of gender.
This is one of the most amazing speeches I have heard!
Subhan Allah ..May Allah give us righteous & pious life partner ameen
This was powerful. Practical advice not just about how to get along with your adult children and how to raise small children but more importantly about how to take responsibility for your own actions and failings and to not be a hypocrite. All interspersed with a depth of spiritual awareness and beautiful visuals.
The preaching style is very foreign to me. The periodic interjections of guttural semitic sounds are jarring and make it kind of hard to follow but even still I found this to be a touching presentation.
I am a Christian but I like the motivation
I feel like you talking to my heart I’m having still problem with my son decision my brother make due for me my Allah SWT bless you inshallah ❤️☝🏼
JajakAllah khairan
We all need knowledge
We all should act upon what Allah and His Rasool guidance.
ma shaa Allah great bayan Allah bless you
This topic used to confuse me but today am clear with it!
ma sha Allah...great lecture.may Allah grant understanding to all parents.
May Allah show u the right path bro
May Allah bless us all
Ameen
I love reading stories of how people were forced to marry. Makes me sad as well as aware of the world I'm living in. Big lessons for me!
u are good god grant you continual peace
Thanks for the video.. Hope every parent should view this..
vandana pallati good to find a Hindu who's not showing baseless hate
Well said mufty menk..love youuuu forever
Please pray for me so that my parents can understand me that I am not ready for marriage now 🙁
Its so true
:-/ pray for me also
nice reminder.. thanx yaseen media
MashaAllah nice lecture :)
Perfectly said sir
Masha'llah Very Great Reminder! I Ask Allah SWT To Reward You For Such A Reminder, And May He Allah SWT Reward You With Such Reward That You May Be So Happy With!
You Are Doing Great Work, Wallahi I Will Make Dua'h For You For Whomever You Are.
Jazak Allahu Kahairr
100% true 😭😭
NKB - I Lost my loved one 😔 I will always love her.❤
Amazing. This video should her more attention, really powerful reminder. May Allah reward you!
Ameen. JazakAllah Khair. I'm glad you benefited from the video.
Yaseen Media I would kindly like to download this video?
+Mohammad Dawah The second portion of your second sentence does not make any sense. Can you correct it?
+Aidah Shapi
Freemake, it is a program. go to freemake.com.
Arif Billah no
Good awakening
Great Speech ever i heared about the acceptance of marriage by choice
Masha Allah its Amazing
Beautifully said! 💕
i agree.....plz make dua for me.
Jazakallah khairan, Alhamdulilah.
Ameen... Jazakallah for sharing this video😊😊
Where from u
Mash ALLAH great bayaan. :)
EXACTLY AND THATS ON FACTS
Subahan Allah this video really powerful reminder
Asalamu alaikum...my all muslim brothers and sisters..make dua for me in your prayer...I really want to marry a person whom I love.but my parents forced to marry a another one.i don't what should I do.please make dua for me.
mashaallah so nice better
Wow.. I waited for this bayan.. all true what he said.. I loved someone but my parents not interest... when my parents found my love they hit me soooo... The boy i loved is my best friend's brother.. So my parents never let me speak to my friend too... just niw iam 14 years old.. not sending me school also.. It's hurt me soo.. Sometimes i feel i wnna die.. I feel lonely.... My parents never send me where i wanna go.. So all these things hurt me soooo... Sometimes i use to cut my hands... i tried so i can't more than this.. I can't 4get him i need him... So now i thought i will never marry someone else in my life.. My parents wants me to 4get him as well as i will not marry someone else that's my idea... Feeling so sad.. iam nothing without him..
for people who post negative comments,
Kindly, be careful with ur words
whatever we say, we speak, our actions all r recorded in the book of our Deeds
Islam doesn't allow us to even talk to a Non-Muslim like that
n if one is Muslim shudnt say like this 2 his Muslim brother like that
if sumthng is said against what u think
u shudnt address de person with rude words
but maybe much better way u can research more about it
hope u stay careful
"Islam doesn't allow us to even talk to a Non-Muslim like that" Do you realize that your ideology is placing non Muslims as someone inferior than Muslims? And that's very racist of you.
Ma Sha Allah! It's amazing and very powerful reminder😊😊😊
Would you mind to have an interfaith marriage?
Only the true you said thank you about that
Alhamdulillah
May Allah help our parents understand,some parents stop their sons and daughters from marrying who they want due to ethnicity and race passing through this situation can be tough on us.May Allah give us the strength to bear this it so difficult.
amazing
I'm not a muslim, but I've always had much love and respect for Islam as well as I do for my own religion (which I love dearly)💎💎💎 But I agree with everything he says because the child should decide who they marry because after all it's their life💎 Some parents may be super stubborn and restrict their child to only several, some or even a very minimal races for marriage🤦🏻♂️ They tend to stubbornly forget that this isn't about what they want for their child, but this is about who their kid wants to marry💎 It puts way too much stress on their kid because he/she really wants to be with a certain race because they feel happier and they want that type of person in their life forever💎 Those parents who restrict their child should be more open minded because it will make their child's life a lot easier and happier💎 The fact that the child has to worry about what will their parents say to the person they want to marry isn't going to cut it💎 "what if my family offends my lovers family strongly or even worse... offends my lover?" Why should anyone have to worry about this? This isn't right and it's not good for anyone's emotional and mental health💎 These type of parents need to learn how to adapt and stop thinking too much about themselves and how it might "embarrass" them in front of their friends or relatives💎 We as your children are appreciative of what you have done for us through out our lives and how you've guided us💎 But when it comes to marriage... it is completely out of your control, but all you can do is try to assist their decision and see where things go💎 As for the result of who the child marry's... it's your job as parents to respect your child's decision and do whatever you can in your power to adapt and understand their lovers' culture💎 For me personally I know I won't have many problems with this when I will be a parent because I'm somebody who easily adapts and finds the good in every new thing that comes my way💎 I just hope the parents from the generation before the millennial generation and even before the one that is before the millennial generation, is able to learn how to be more understanding and learn how to adapt💎
who else is watching this with me in 2017
Not me. I'm watching in 2019.
nice speech
True subhanallah
Walahi I just want a pious sister.....May Allah swt make it easy on me (ameen)
In Sha ALLAH...hope parents understand thier children's likes...hope it would be like this...by not forcing thier children to get married of what theyre childrens dont like...
ma shaa allah
may Allah subhana protect us
Mashallah tabarakallahu
masha Allah
ameen
Pray for me
He is so right. Islam is just and gives the right to choose a spouse without force.
mashaallah
Thank god I love my religion.
I Love Islam.I Love Allah.I Am Very Proud To Be A Muslim!! May Allah Make Me A Perfect Muslim. Amin.
That's true
Masha allah
grt words
asalamu alaikum all muslims sometimes is good your parents can choose you ,i choose my self few times it dosn`t work for me your parents can choose better porsen for u if u dont like it you can say to them no
Assalamualaikum..
I'm in love with a guy and he's also in love with me..
And we want to marry each other and want to be together in future..But his mom has already set his marriage with one of his cousin and he don't want to marry her..But he can't go against his mother too..so for the sake of his mother we decided not to talk to each other so that she can stay happy even though we r hurting inside..But I wish she could understand that his son's happiness is in something else...And I don't know wt to do and I can't say him to go against his mother ..I'm just praying Allah swt to make everything fine as before..and i have hope that Inshallah Allah swt will make everything better ..
Walikum aslam... This is unIslamic. He should marry to the person he wishes. His mom has no role in it except to give few suggestions. Ask him not to marry cousin for the sake of his mother.
Sister you go marry that brother!!!!! Islam does not prevent love like sir primus said that is unislamic. Inshallah you’re happy
Anyone who knows where to find the full lecture?pls..
Please pray for me. I am 30 years old. I find no happiness and satisfaction in single life. Life without life partner is nothing
masha Allah,,,,, I love yoer speech ,,,,me n my boy friend ready to get marry ,but his mom not at all accepting our love ,she telling to leave me ,,, Allah blessed us ,,but y can't she ,,,,please Allah we r waiting for his mom to accept
does Muslim nd Hindu can marry?
Our god same no prechers ever said dont love this love this nooone ever said that only society and people is different no religion is bad all of them principle is happpinesss love and trust😍
this is was happening to me with my parents push me to marriage with my ex who not i love, i have said no and no cause i knew very well his akhlaq very bad behinde my parents, but my parents still push me to marriage with him, im really depresed of this and they ask him to come my home for ask me to be his wife. i know parents was embarrassing with they friends cause im still single (not mariage). they never listen my argument why i dont like him!! this is very bad for me :(
Can you please give me the name of those who refuse to marry to particular man at the time of Rasool Ullah.
Mashaullaha
Subhanallah
this is really to be shared......
bcoz someplace this is still exist forced marrage
❤🙂 SubahanAllah
I am a girl who is 23yrs fell in love with someone for 6yrs Nd he finally decided to marry me. I tell my mom the story that am ready for him but am given two options
1)marry Nd am disown by my parents
2)stay at home nd forget abt him
as Muslim's Wat wuld hve done
Quran abdulrahman Al ossi u shld tell ur parents that u want to marry him and u should show them this video
They don't understand English
oh.. why not try to translate for them?
baby munny1 same story here 😷
I am in exactly the same position. It is horrible :(
Allah Hu Akbar
What if the person is non-muslim but a great person. The child will remain muslim and their offspring will too based upon mutual agreement. They love each other and he/she want to marry them. Can this apply as well?
Dear brothers and sisters i have a question does a son have the right to choose his career for example i want to be a buisnessman but my parents want me to be something else?
Assalamu alaikum. I have few questions, How do I email you??