Yes my kids have followed a bit in Mums shoes and they are working two jobs and studying too... when life throws the extra bits - chaos happens even with the best systems in place XX
I was talking to my clients about it today... for some this is so relatable, for others not so much. I think it's important for those who can realte to stick together and support each other so we can focus on our passion and purpose and not get stuck by not feeling good enough!
Hello Michelle! I felt very teary seeing how you have been struggling with life of late. Thank you for sharing this with us all and I am going to pray 🙏 for you and your family hoping life gets better quickly. You are a very lovely lady always helping other people. God bless you and your family ❤️🙏🙏🙏
Thanks for sharing, I really appreciate you. Going through something similar, it's hard we all need to help each other and that's what your doing by sharing real life ❤❤
I agree, we need to help each other. Share our stories so that women don't feel alone. Share our stories so that women know they will get through and have support! ❤️🤸
Hi Michelle...I really felt for you when you showed the housework waiting for you on a day when you probably felt like doing very little. I already do the counting and make myself get out of bed... didn't know it was 'a thing'. 🌼
As a family we have busy schedules and my routines are reflecive of that but throw in teh unexpected - whoah - everything turned to chaos quickly... The kids help in the afternoon - after their work and we get most of it done XX
we lost a good friend about 1 month ago , it's not easy & now Xmas is here as well yes it's going to be hard but am giving support to her family when needed 😢 , please don't worry about putting nails on & make-up unless you want to ,, we all know sometimes life sucks abit , it's ok to be you . 😊🙏
Thanks Suzanne, Sorry for your loss too. You have made me think about the nails and makeup... I feel they make me feel "ready" or "switched on". Yes, I think they are a good thing for me XXX
Sending love to you Michelle.❤ Life is damn tough at times, it is hard to feel motivated when you just want to curl up and rest that mind..take care, 😊 ❤ xx
Yes... I think we have all felt this many times.. it's really nice to talk about it because I feel we do this alone so often. Hopefully by me discussing this it will help so many!
Hi Michelle, new to your channel. Sorry you are feeling a bit down. My year has been a bit s#.*t as well but circumstances have made me look at things differently and look for positives in every situation, like a test. I use a timer for each task, it's like a challenge, works well for me as a get really distracted. You seem so positive as well, so you'll get over this. Thank you for sharing, we are not all blessed with continuous good fortune, hanging in there is obviously the key. You have a lovely family by the way. ❤❤
What a lovely message and I just love your positivity. It is the only way I believe and I love you timing the tasks. That's such a great winning idea! I get distracted too! That's why staying on routine is key for me.. Not always possible... as life is unpredictable, but I'll get back to it - one step at a time! Thanks for your message XX
I understand l,m overwhelmed at the moment my neurologist said my parkinsons is now advance my osteo arthertis is worse my care team and l talking thing changing where l live lm needing support at the moment so l have organised extra support workers/days.but still positive as much as l can .hope you feel better ,take time out❤
Sending love to you Sue, I am glad you are organising the extra support you need. I love that you are being positive.. I can't take time out but I am getting sleep... this is important.... XX
I wish i could come and help you❣️ i love your beautiful dog. I have two dogs, they make me smile even when im sad. I love your red dressing gown. Im so sorry for your loss💔
Michelle you’re stress is real, wanting to be with your husband to support him at this very sad time is so natural. But can I make a suggestion and this is not meant to be taken wrong. You are a super hard working woman with wonderful ideas. But you need to get your kids to help you out , leaving food is not acceptable. Have all that laundry that should also be your children’s responsibility to fold and put their clothes away. And most definitely put their things away. When my children were young and teenagers we had a live in housekeeper / cook. But they had many responsibilities they had to take care of. Putting their clothes away , making up their beds vacuuming their room and cleaning their bathrooms . And if the made they own meal or snacks they had to clean up after themselves. They were told early on Irene was not their personal servant and either was I. Of course Irene would clean a little more of their bedroom and bathrooms and cook special meals for them. But if I notice they we’re taking advantage,they had more responsibilities for a few weeks. I just say this because my children appreciated their lifestyle which was not to be pampered. Please don’t take this comment wrong I just see things in your home that would drive me crazy and very frustrated. Also you know I’ve been decluttering for about a year. I told my now adult children come pick up your things or off to the Salvation Army everything goes.
Hi Kathleen, Yes I can understand how it looks like this from what I showed. However, my youngest son had been away for a week and had just flown in with two suitcases. My other two sons were busy with university exams (double degrees) and are working two jobs each. One had started work at 4:30 am, and the other had just gotten home from work at 4:00 am. So, neither of them were around during this early morning video. However, Part 2, which I’m currently editing, will reflect all their efforts. I apologise for not explaining this earlier. They do everything you suggested-probably more-because we all have hectic schedules and we should have home help too due to all our schedules hence why we got in a mess when we threw in some unexpected life things. XX
Thank you for opening up and sharing , sending live during hard times. I feel this overwelm weekly, with children and the daily chores that never end.
Yes my kids have followed a bit in Mums shoes and they are working two jobs and studying too... when life throws the extra bits - chaos happens even with the best systems in place XX
Take time for yourself to rest, you work so hard. Take care ❤
I am getting myself to bed early - sleep seems to be king during these times. XX
I love how raw and vulnerable you have been, not many talk about the struggles, i have days like this and many dont understand it
I was talking to my clients about it today... for some this is so relatable, for others not so much. I think it's important for those who can realte to stick together and support each other so we can focus on our passion and purpose and not get stuck by not feeling good enough!
Hello Michelle! I felt very teary seeing how you have been struggling with life of late. Thank you for sharing this with us all and I am going to pray 🙏 for you and your family hoping life gets better quickly. You are a very lovely lady always helping other people. God bless you and your family ❤️🙏🙏🙏
Thanks Maggy for your kind words, I appreciate it!
Be kind to yourself ❤ We all do what we need to do to get through the tough times ❤
Pizza was looking good last night LOL XX
Thanks for sharing, I really appreciate you. Going through something similar, it's hard we all need to help each other and that's what your doing by sharing real life ❤❤
I agree, we need to help each other. Share our stories so that women don't feel alone. Share our stories so that women know they will get through and have support! ❤️🤸
Hi Michelle...I really felt for you when you showed the housework waiting for you on a day when you probably felt like doing very little. I already do the counting and make myself get out of bed... didn't know it was 'a thing'. 🌼
As a family we have busy schedules and my routines are reflecive of that but throw in teh unexpected - whoah - everything turned to chaos quickly... The kids help in the afternoon - after their work and we get most of it done XX
we lost a good friend about 1 month ago ,
it's not easy & now Xmas is here as well
yes
it's going to be hard but am giving support to her family when needed 😢 ,
please don't worry about putting nails on & make-up unless you want to ,,
we all know sometimes life sucks
abit , it's ok to be you .
😊🙏
Thanks Suzanne, Sorry for your loss too. You have made me think about the nails and makeup... I feel they make me feel "ready" or "switched on". Yes, I think they are a good thing for me XXX
Sending love to you Michelle.❤
Life is damn tough at times, it is hard to feel motivated when you just want to curl up and rest that mind..take care, 😊 ❤ xx
Yes... I think we have all felt this many times.. it's really nice to talk about it because I feel we do this alone so often. Hopefully by me discussing this it will help so many!
Life gets soo overwhelming at times.Having kids makes it 100 % harder.
Yes Alana, my kids are older but as busy as us, so when unexpected life happens... things turn to chaos fast...
I hope your children are doing there part and cleaning up after themselves/doing chores.
Yes one left at 4.30 am for work and one got home at 4am so not sighted in this half of the video.. but in teh afternoon... yes!!! LOL!
We love you. Take care my friend..❤
Thank you so much XX
Hi Michelle, new to your channel. Sorry you are feeling a bit down. My year has been a bit s#.*t as well but circumstances have made me look at things differently and look for positives in every situation, like a test. I use a timer for each task, it's like a challenge, works well for me as a get really distracted. You seem so positive as well, so you'll get over this. Thank you for sharing, we are not all blessed with continuous good fortune, hanging in there is obviously the key. You have a lovely family by the way. ❤❤
What a lovely message and I just love your positivity. It is the only way I believe and I love you timing the tasks. That's such a great winning idea! I get distracted too! That's why staying on routine is key for me.. Not always possible... as life is unpredictable, but I'll get back to it - one step at a time! Thanks for your message XX
I understand l,m overwhelmed at the moment my neurologist said my parkinsons is now advance my osteo arthertis is worse my care team and l talking thing changing where l live lm needing support at the moment so l have organised extra support workers/days.but still positive as much as l can .hope you feel better ,take time out❤
Sending love to you Sue, I am glad you are organising the extra support you need. I love that you are being positive.. I can't take time out but I am getting sleep... this is important.... XX
Thinking of you. God be with you.🙏💕
Thanks Margaret XX❤️🍋🤸
I will pray for and family
Thank you so much X
Love this! 😊
Thanks Sonja... It's always lovely to receive your comments XX
Hugs and kisses!!!
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Thanks - I just love your emojis - they say it all XXX 🍋🍋🤸🤸🤗🤗❤❤
Thanks - I just love your emojis - they say it all XXX 🍋🍋🤸🤸🤗🤗❤❤
9:45 9:54 holy smoke woman 🌬 your Just Breathtaking beauty 🙏😍 ✨️ ♡
I wish i could come and help you❣️ i love your beautiful dog. I have two dogs, they make me smile even when im sad.
I love your red dressing gown.
Im so sorry for your loss💔
Thanks Samantha - Yes dogs are the best... so are dressing gowns whne you need that extra comfort XX
Get mushroom 🍄 coffee ☕️ its way healthy but make sure you study up on what all the mushrooms do some dont agree with me like chaga .❤🖐
Michelle you’re stress is real, wanting to be with your husband to support him at this very sad time is so natural.
But can I make a suggestion and this is not meant to be taken wrong. You are a super hard working woman with wonderful ideas.
But you need to get your kids to help you out , leaving food is not acceptable. Have all that laundry that should also be your children’s responsibility to fold and put their clothes away. And most definitely put their things away.
When my children were young and teenagers we had a live in housekeeper / cook. But they had many responsibilities they had to take care of. Putting their clothes away , making up their beds vacuuming their room and cleaning their bathrooms . And if the made they own meal or snacks they had to clean up after themselves. They were told early on Irene was not their personal servant and either was I. Of course Irene would clean a little more of their bedroom and bathrooms and cook special meals for them. But if I notice they we’re taking advantage,they had more responsibilities for a few weeks.
I just say this because my children appreciated their lifestyle which was not to be pampered.
Please don’t take this comment wrong I just see things in your home that would drive me crazy and very frustrated. Also you know I’ve been decluttering for about a year. I told my now adult children come pick up your things or off to the Salvation Army everything goes.
Hi Kathleen, Yes I can understand how it looks like this from what I showed. However, my youngest son had been away for a week and had just flown in with two suitcases. My other two sons were busy with university exams (double degrees) and are working two jobs each. One had started work at 4:30 am, and the other had just gotten home from work at 4:00 am. So, neither of them were around during this early morning video. However, Part 2, which I’m currently editing, will reflect all their efforts. I apologise for not explaining this earlier. They do everything you suggested-probably more-because we all have hectic schedules and we should have home help too due to all our schedules hence why we got in a mess when we threw in some unexpected life things. XX
Take care of yourself sweetheart ❤
Thanks Michelle XX
Eu também me vou mudar de casa ! Não tenho vontade de fazer nada ! Sou sozinha para tudo ! Tudo de bom para você. 😘😘😘🌹🌹
I hope you house move goes well. Just one step at a time can work... it can build the momentum. Take care of yourself!
Muito obrigado! 😘😘💐
@@gracateixeira4409 You're welcome X
Thank you ❤
Thanks :)
I take ashwangnha l watched your video on it my chiropracter said its good idea ❤
How do you find it Sue?
@@zestygirl really good no cold and flu ,no major sinus ,asthma attacks so glad l found that video you did .thankyou
@@sued616 Yay... that is so great!
Todays families to much children they don't Support in the Household.
To much Woman in Distress
Yes it can be hard when life throws the extra challenges at you.