@@Eric-kn4yn "Oxymoron then why get married in first place" I'll respond to you in the spirit of sharing what I have learned. A woman, by her very nature, lives life in a state of acting to get what she wants and needs (from men) by use of the most powerful feature a woman has and that is her femininity. No man is immune especially when he is younger and testosterone is ruling his life. This feature of being female means she can exist in perfect harmony with herself and friends (female) while having multiple contradictory beliefs at the same time, cognitive dissonance, which most men find extremely frustrating. So, the person you date or marry may not be who you think she is but to herself, she was always this way and you just didn't see this other side because she hasn't shown you that side until she felt is was needed to get something she now wants. -Kind of long but but I hope you get some use of this.
I agree. Most women are chameleons. They “shape shift” to adjust to the situation. She will act whichever way she needs to in order to get what she wants. Once she gets what she needs, she may change into a completely different person.
"I can save her, she has so much potential!" If you ever think this thought, run. Your replacement isn't your competition, he is your salvation. Seriously, watch a kiteboarding video, instead of taking her out on a date, take yourself kiteboarding!
Can attest to how right Jonathan is! After 44+ years of marriage, it was only better after he was clean for more than 2 years, which unfortunately didn't last. Yes, I know I "should have" left many times over the years. For whatever reason, I haven't. I've gone to therapy to try to determine WHY I won't leave and came away no better off. He's not a bad man. He's a good man with issues - who refuses to deal with those issues. At this point, I won't leave him. He's not in good health. There's always the possibility he'll decide to leave me - i won't fight it - but it also won't be ME screwing him over.
I agree disrespect, fault finding, contempt. That translates into cheating, emotional abuse, verbal and or financial abuse, and the fact you saId things that out of your control, someone with a sense of entitlement. Being belittled, to late for me. I married him...
Uncle Jonathans comments and videos 100% correct, all men living in Western Countries like Australia or The U.S.A should watch ALL of Jonathan's videos along with Rich Coopers
@@makenocommento-kj4gq Thank you for watching and commenting! I have been on Rich’s terrific TH-cam channels (Entrepreneurs in Cars and The Unplugged Alpha) several times in the past few years. We have some great discussions about relationships, family law, and life.
The perspective of disrespect is not always straightforward. I got accused of being difficult and saying I did not respect or appreciate "who they are what they have accomplished" when I finally started to push back on bad behaviors (many of which I only now know after the fact were narcissistic). One person may say you always find fault in what they do because they cannot see themselves in the mirror in what they are doing, One thing you really have mention that goes along with disrespect (in case you have not already in your great videos)...is what I would say is the #1 cause of divorce besides money...and that is listening to their friends and company they keep. These "friends" will most likely enforce their ego and what they want to hear...eventually displacing the other spouse. This seems to be especially the case for women listening to their friends and comparing and getting advice,,,,it gets much worse if all these people are divorced, as well.
@carriebrooks4174 I was young… never a valid excuse. You should have learned as a child to be kind to others & practice that skill as a teen, so when you’re married you are kind to your husband .
You don't really know the person you married until you go through divorce and the family court system.
Oxymoron then why get married in first place
@@Eric-kn4yn "Oxymoron then why get married in first place" I'll respond to you in the spirit of sharing what I have learned. A woman, by her very nature, lives life in a state of acting to get what she wants and needs (from men) by use of the most powerful feature a woman has and that is her femininity. No man is immune especially when he is younger and testosterone is ruling his life. This feature of being female means she can exist in perfect harmony with herself and friends (female) while having multiple contradictory beliefs at the same time, cognitive dissonance, which most men find extremely frustrating. So, the person you date or marry may not be who you think she is but to herself, she was always this way and you just didn't see this other side because she hasn't shown you that side until she felt is was needed to get something she now wants. -Kind of long but but I hope you get some use of this.
I agree. Most women are chameleons. They “shape shift” to adjust to the situation. She will act whichever way she needs to in order to get what she wants.
Once she gets what she needs, she may change into a completely different person.
@@prbmax I can agree but that’s why you do not marry no matter what don’t even take the chance because it’s a 80% chance you will fail
@@luxboss2388 did you mean that’s why you don’t marry?
So many attractive young women who are single thanks to their disrespect.
"I can save her, she has so much potential!" If you ever think this thought, run. Your replacement isn't your competition, he is your salvation. Seriously, watch a kiteboarding video, instead of taking her out on a date, take yourself kiteboarding!
Yup...you never truly know them until a divorce. It is mortifying
Great video!
Better to purchase your dream car or pay off your mortgage than spend that money on what will become a divorce with a 72% certainty
Good work Boss. Keep them coming 🔥
Can attest to how right Jonathan is! After 44+ years of marriage, it was only better after he was clean for more than 2 years, which unfortunately didn't last. Yes, I know I "should have" left many times over the years. For whatever reason, I haven't. I've gone to therapy to try to determine WHY I won't leave and came away no better off. He's not a bad man. He's a good man with issues - who refuses to deal with those issues. At this point, I won't leave him. He's not in good health. There's always the possibility he'll decide to leave me - i won't fight it - but it also won't be ME screwing him over.
Verbal abuse with sly insults. Taken for granted.
I agree disrespect, fault finding, contempt. That translates into cheating, emotional abuse, verbal and or financial abuse, and the fact you saId things that out of your control, someone with a sense of entitlement. Being belittled, to late for me. I married him...
Uncle Jonathans comments and videos 100% correct, all men living in Western Countries like Australia or The U.S.A should watch ALL of Jonathan's videos along with Rich Coopers
@@makenocommento-kj4gq Thank you for watching and commenting! I have been on Rich’s terrific TH-cam channels (Entrepreneurs in Cars and The Unplugged Alpha) several times in the past few years. We have some great discussions about relationships, family law, and life.
The perspective of disrespect is not always straightforward. I got accused of being difficult and saying I did not respect or appreciate "who they are what they have accomplished" when I finally started to push back on bad behaviors (many of which I only now know after the fact were narcissistic). One person may say you always find fault in what they do because they cannot see themselves in the mirror in what they are doing, One thing you really have mention that goes along with disrespect (in case you have not already in your great videos)...is what I would say is the #1 cause of divorce besides money...and that is listening to their friends and company they keep. These "friends" will most likely enforce their ego and what they want to hear...eventually displacing the other spouse. This seems to be especially the case for women listening to their friends and comparing and getting advice,,,,it gets much worse if all these people are divorced, as well.
Great advice!
I would hire this guy 👍
That was me in my first marriage. I was a horrible person. Young dumb didn't know any better...he deserved better.😢 I wish he had just walked away
@carriebrooks4174 I was young… never a valid excuse. You should have learned as a child to be kind to others & practice that skill as a teen, so when you’re married you are kind to your husband
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yes everyone! i want to keep you out of my office from paying me a $5,000 retainer at $400 per hour. STAY OUT OF MY OFFICE!
Great comment. (The retainer and hourly rate are too low).