19:16 That only becomes a serious question if you believe and define love as a feeling, an emotion. For me, love isn't just a feeling, whether momentary or something lasting weeks, months, years. Love, for me personally, is a decision and a commitment. A daily decision to commit to the person that I have chosen to spend a lifetime with, come what may. That has always been how I've approached all my past relationships and a previous marriage. I've never been the one to initiate a break as I see every difficulty encountered as just another opportunity for my partner and I to grow and bond.
See only, no action. I think we are personally accountable for how we act. We are all wired towards finding what we deem attractive and the next good thing (arguably even more so when you are attached because of the contrast vs your current partner who is now your stable, 'boring' everyday), so the temptation is always there. But that's what the thing between the ears is for, those in a committed relationship, one needs to establish and keep to physical boundaries and especially emotional boundaries with the other sex. Similar thoughts for idols, it's mostly fine unless it's to the point of obsession. Also, I've read experiences of couples who share with their partner when they spot attractive people they know their partners find attractive and point them out to each other, I think that's pretty cute and healthy too. We all will feel abit jealous la, that one can't deny, it's different for every couple. But I think it's important to communicate too, as what our partner feels matters equally. Edit: Agree on the regular check-ins, the point raised on active listening and holding space. Personally, I place being able to talk about difficult topics pretty highly, since in my experience, a lot of people tend to get defensive or just shut off. Overall I'd say this video has pretty good coverage of my pre-watching/listening thoughts and more. 28:36 same same for the girls 😂
Agree with the practice of couples sharing with their partner on who they think their partner might find attractive. Me and my wife do it all the time. You don't want to be in a relationship where a VS model walks by and the male partner have to answer "not pretty" when his mind and body says otherwise. That's toxic.
My ex of 7 years cheated on me with my housemate, but the reason for breaking up was “I felt like I was treating you more and more like family and not as a partner, hence I don’t feel intimate with you”, half a year has passed now and I’m still dumbfounded by that gaslighting sentence
28:36 let's be honest. You wouldn't like it if it was the other way around. Your guy telling you that another girl flirted with him. You will be pissed off.
Nice to hear different viewpoints ~ Personally, I'd share with my bf who i think is hot - regardless of gender BUT if it's a guy, I would follow up with but I still like him best *^^* And if it's a girl and he agrees... then a bit sad but ok.. HAHA but ultimately i know he still loves me more so we're always ok w that~ (we are gonna get married soon after 10 years of rs.. hehe >
There's a documentary on the Ashley Madison issue. The founder is a guy, no surprise there, and the documentary also discovered that about 90%, if I remember correctly, of the women were fake. They were all bots created by the system to attract people to subscribe. Apparently, the founder is still trying to revive it or start something similar.
the pandai answers would probably be... she is pretty but i dont like this type.. or best answers are ok la... then bring up an example.. you girls are right... why want to talk about something that has no input to the positiveness of the relationship.. cari gaduh buat apa!
17:28 Sure there are alot of couples are like that(no S* for M/Y or since 1st/2nd/3rd child), maybe you can start an episode on how to improve the situation. It’s will be informative for any couples are experiencing it. Due to the busy lifestyle/stress level in Singapore or any parts of the world, it’s gd that couple can acknowledge and find ways to improved and save their marriage.
This see through piece isn't very flattering on Azura. Just some feedback #fyi to her styling team. The numerous folds on her tummy are explicitly glaring (and kinda spilling out). That said, if she is entirely comfortable with this look and doesn't mind it at all ... then it's fine. Just offering some feedback from my (and several others') perspective.
Got numerous folds? U know how to count? I only see 1. When someone sit down naturally will have a fold over the top hem of skirt? U dk meh? Explicitly glaring? To who? You ah? Who's the "several others" you talking about?
seems like someone’s obsessed with azura. past comments all about her and her personal life too 😂. dude leave her alone, stop the harassment, it’s getting freaky. also, i don’t see “numerous folds”, i think it’s bold and beautiful.
@@cloud096 i'm female :) No intention to harass. Don't be so insecure. Simply offering genuine feedback to online content. If you're going to be putting your faces and your lives out so openly, then it's completely fair to expect criticism. If you want every one to love your content and say nothing about things they feel are unpleasant / unflattering, then you should take yourself off the online sphere :)
@@k.k.w.2024 wow coming from a female… i gotta say im surprised… well i hope you be kinder to yourself fellow stranger. seeing the way you’re so harsh and critical on other people’s bodies - “numerous folds”, “explicitly glaring” 😅and expecting other people to share their personal life when it’s honestly nothing to do with you…. well i can only say i hope you find peace with yourself and maybe something more with your life as well 😂. just wanna say I’m offering my “genuine feedback” to an online comment too. Hope you take it well too, cheers!
19:16 That only becomes a serious question if you believe and define love as a feeling, an emotion. For me, love isn't just a feeling, whether momentary or something lasting weeks, months, years. Love, for me personally, is a decision and a commitment. A daily decision to commit to the person that I have chosen to spend a lifetime with, come what may. That has always been how I've approached all my past relationships and a previous marriage. I've never been the one to initiate a break as I see every difficulty encountered as just another opportunity for my partner and I to grow and bond.
well said man!
See only, no action. I think we are personally accountable for how we act. We are all wired towards finding what we deem attractive and the next good thing (arguably even more so when you are attached because of the contrast vs your current partner who is now your stable, 'boring' everyday), so the temptation is always there. But that's what the thing between the ears is for, those in a committed relationship, one needs to establish and keep to physical boundaries and especially emotional boundaries with the other sex. Similar thoughts for idols, it's mostly fine unless it's to the point of obsession. Also, I've read experiences of couples who share with their partner when they spot attractive people they know their partners find attractive and point them out to each other, I think that's pretty cute and healthy too. We all will feel abit jealous la, that one can't deny, it's different for every couple. But I think it's important to communicate too, as what our partner feels matters equally.
Edit: Agree on the regular check-ins, the point raised on active listening and holding space. Personally, I place being able to talk about difficult topics pretty highly, since in my experience, a lot of people tend to get defensive or just shut off. Overall I'd say this video has pretty good coverage of my pre-watching/listening thoughts and more.
28:36 same same for the girls 😂
Agree with the practice of couples sharing with their partner on who they think their partner might find attractive. Me and my wife do it all the time.
You don't want to be in a relationship where a VS model walks by and the male partner have to answer "not pretty" when his mind and body says otherwise. That's toxic.
My ex of 7 years cheated on me with my housemate, but the reason for breaking up was “I felt like I was treating you more and more like family and not as a partner, hence I don’t feel intimate with you”, half a year has passed now and I’m still dumbfounded by that gaslighting sentence
WHAT?! 😡
28:36 let's be honest. You wouldn't like it if it was the other way around. Your guy telling you that another girl flirted with him. You will be pissed off.
agree
many podcasts and I've always told myself 'i'm def Germaine'. this podcast just seals it la. i'm def Germaine. she speaks my views and thoughts haha
Nice to hear different viewpoints ~ Personally, I'd share with my bf who i think is hot - regardless of gender BUT if it's a guy, I would follow up with but I still like him best *^^* And if it's a girl and he agrees... then a bit sad but ok.. HAHA but ultimately i know he still loves me more so we're always ok w that~ (we are gonna get married soon after 10 years of rs.. hehe >
BUT TBH STILL SCARY CUZ I HEAR PPL SAY MARRIAGE GG oh noz
just wanna add, my boss divorce his wife cuz the wife grew fat wtf?! sry, 12am thots
There's a documentary on the Ashley Madison issue. The founder is a guy, no surprise there, and the documentary also discovered that about 90%, if I remember correctly, of the women were fake. They were all bots created by the system to attract people to subscribe. Apparently, the founder is still trying to revive it or start something similar.
If find the other party attractive but don’t click like in ig? Hahaha we won’t ever know 😢
Hrmm depends on what kind of photos was shared eg if it’s like some milestones photo the attractive person shared honestly I don’t think it’s an issue
I think is normal to find someone attractive, but I don’t think Is ok to be attacked to the person 😂
If we r always trying our best to stand up for everything,
In the end we stand up for nothing😂😂😂
the pandai answers would probably be... she is pretty but i dont like this type.. or best answers are ok la... then bring up an example.. you girls are right... why want to talk about something that has no input to the positiveness of the relationship.. cari gaduh buat apa!
azura is the best!🥰
A wise man once said.....
Women are only decent because they have yet to taste temptation....
17:28 Sure there are alot of couples are like that(no S* for M/Y or since 1st/2nd/3rd child), maybe you can start an episode on how to improve the situation. It’s will be informative for any couples are experiencing it. Due to the busy lifestyle/stress level in Singapore or any parts of the world, it’s gd that couple can acknowledge and find ways to improved and save their marriage.
My favourite podcast ❤❤❤
though im a chicken person, who say i cannot like fish
The women on the right and left are better lah!
Azura is my crush 😍😍😍
if you eat abalone everyday, you wil lsick of it. got to eat veg .
Need to have a guy for a balanced opinion and panel.
actl interesting idea XD maybe not for all the podcast but maybe special guest for selected talks could be interesting
Men: don’t fall for this trap
My name is Jeff >.
This see through piece isn't very flattering on Azura. Just some feedback #fyi to her styling team. The numerous folds on her tummy are explicitly glaring (and kinda spilling out). That said, if she is entirely comfortable with this look and doesn't mind it at all ... then it's fine. Just offering some feedback from my (and several others') perspective.
Got numerous folds? U know how to count? I only see 1. When someone sit down naturally will have a fold over the top hem of skirt? U dk meh? Explicitly glaring? To who? You ah? Who's the "several others" you talking about?
seems like someone’s obsessed with azura. past comments all about her and her personal life too 😂. dude leave her alone, stop the harassment, it’s getting freaky.
also, i don’t see “numerous folds”, i think it’s bold and beautiful.
@@cloud096 i'm female :) No intention to harass. Don't be so insecure.
Simply offering genuine feedback to online content. If you're going to be putting your faces and your lives out so openly, then it's completely fair to expect criticism. If you want every one to love your content and say nothing about things they feel are unpleasant / unflattering, then you should take yourself off the online sphere :)
@@k.k.w.2024 wow coming from a female… i gotta say im surprised… well i hope you be kinder to yourself fellow stranger. seeing the way you’re so harsh and critical on other people’s bodies - “numerous folds”, “explicitly glaring” 😅and expecting other people to share their personal life when it’s honestly nothing to do with you…. well i can only say i hope you find peace with yourself and maybe something more with your life as well 😂. just wanna say I’m offering my “genuine feedback” to an online comment too. Hope you take it well too, cheers!
As a guy, I would like to encourage this type of dressing pls..