Very interesting and 100% true! Exactly like what happened to me and my Ex covert-narcissist. As I exposed his dark side because I could prove how he was abusing patients as daily supply for his ego, he did NOT admit the facts, instead he raged so laut and aggressive that I never again felt safe to talk about this issue. And so I stayed stuck and gave him new chances over and over again until he closed his practice. Now I aknowledge how guilty he must have felt as I showed him the love letters from patients that were in love with his wonderful image. This video is very validating on my healing way.THANKS again Ben🙏🏻🌻
I experienced this when my ex hoovered after I had been no contact for 6 months. I caught him cheating with another woman. He showed up one day at my house acting down and out. I asked him how things were going with the woman, and he denied he was with her. He didn’t know that his adult daughter had told me that she had picked him and her up the day before at a motel. He introduced her as his girlfriend. Every question after that lie was met with rage. 6 months prior to that he had called me to see if I had received the perfume he sent to me via his parents. I asked how he was as they had expressed concern. He raged and told me that he had known for months he didn’t want anything to do with me as I was lazy and had deep psychological issues. I hung up and blocked him immediately. It’s been 2 years since that and I’m at peace.
The person I suspected was a narcissist would roll over and fold his arms like a child when I called him out. He wouldn’t look at me at all in the end, completely ignore me while I asked him questions. I just wanted closure, I just wanted the truth. It was like he was living in his own reality.
The narcissist in my life, would rage out like that over guilt and blame me, when he lied he would loose his mind so he was like a human lie detector bc he would tell on his self. He would deny deny cheating and would take it to the grave and than I’d end up getting cheated on even more because the more I find out stuff the more he convinced his self that I am gonna get him back. But that was all his mentality, when we fought and I didn’t comply he would say “I’ll get ya back”
By oh boy. So true. If you ever wanna know if you’ve caught a narcissist in a lie, just watch the anger meter go up to 10. They use their rage to keep you away from the truth and get you to fawn. don’t buy into it. The truth is the truth and you deserve an explanation of what’s real.
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I’ll never forget the crazy that he displayed when I figured out his affair and accused him of it going on longer than he was trying to Make me believe.
Everything you just said could not have been more accurate! Amazing, like cut from exactly the same cloth. Lies, lies, lies. It amazes me how identical the behavior is, perfectly identical. Thank you for all you do!
A very fascinating video, this brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
It’s a trauma bond. Ive been there. It can take a very long time to break, but the longer you have no contact with them, it does break. But while you’re in the middle of it, it can be torture. Hang in there and maintain no contact if you can. Keeping them in your life just prolongs it
I experienced all of this and it was so hard to stay in the truth while you are taken on a rollercoaster ride....Loving the visuals....Like being in class...TY..
That's interesting because my N-Ex and I went our own ways because he was using my daughter to lie by omission. I called him out, he lied more, and raged at me. He started calling me a liar in all caps. Then I told him I'm going my own way, romantically. He un-friended me. So that tracks with everything you're saying Ben.
My ex narc called me a cheater, even though I hadn't called him out on it. I told him, if I ever cheated on him, I'd never come back. I calmly told him to get out and I put my head down and continued cooking. He never left nor accused me of cheating again.
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My narcissistic bf has called me a whore when he gets called out on a lie. He knows I’ve only been with him in 9 years. I guess that’s the only thing he can think of when he’s guilty. I’ve gotten so used to it--every 2-3 months like a cycle. Now I just respond with--I will talk to you when you’re done having a tantrum or a pity party. Suck it up! It seems like the times are not as long now. He’s a peach when he’s not focused on hisself.
So real! Thanks to videos like this…i would never get completely what was truly happening in those situations, without this kind of informational contents!
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Very true! The thing I hate and regret though is my reactions sometimes to all her accusations. I'd keep calm the first few but then sometimes I'd rage back, although I was just yelling to try to be heard because I couldn't get a word in between her yelling. Usually I'd be yelling that I loved her and I'm not a cheater and never will be. But still, I was yelling back, and reacting. Now I feel like maybe it just made me look like the narcissist. Lessons learned.
Would you say that the anger also can come from if they feel you have wrong them, or you didn't something as they would expect and they got hurt and after rage? like for months on end, many times a week with a revenge kind of way of doing things too?
Thank you.. yes I believed a long time he just didn't realize what he qwas doing but then you think.. well when he wants me back he was better, when we met he was better, with other he might be better... especially new people, more of less people he knows for a long time
I asked my husband if he cheated on me a blew the freak up on vacation. He pouted and gave me the silent treatment. I felt bad at the time but I feel I tapped on the truth. What innocent person acts that way?
D.A.R.V.O Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim Offender. It’s an emotional abuse technique. I accepted the guilt and shame and through his rage he proceeded to triangulate me. I’ve disengaged and I hope I never see him again.
They know it’s wrong. They tell themselves it’s not wrong in an attempt to avoid responsibility. Because the story they created inside their head is that it’s your fault they cheated.
@@gabrielamartiniuc6322Yes. Mine told everyone that he had to have sex and I was denying him. Why would I? He told me he was sleeping with 4 co workers as well as the new supply I caught him texting and talking to. Oh…I forgot she was only his friend’s sister. 😂 Heard a few days ago that she left him because he was cheating on her with his adult son’s mom.
It's really messed up with a sibling or other family members. Because there is no leaving them, its family. So there fore I hate everything about life, God, devil, and witchcraft. All life must end. Is my opinion on this.
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She cheated on me and said she didn't.we was at a bar and a white guy walk up and drink with me and my girl will she stage a fallout with me ro go home ro this guy that don't have any money are looks.he doesn't have the tape of swagger like mines.well she came back home that morning and she smelled like sex.and now she stabbed me rwo days ago I don't know what to do and the crazy thing is that i still love her
Very interesting and 100% true! Exactly like what happened to me and my Ex covert-narcissist. As I exposed his dark side because I could prove how he was abusing patients as daily supply for his ego, he did NOT admit the facts, instead he raged so laut and aggressive that I never again felt safe to talk about this issue. And so I stayed stuck and gave him new chances over and over again until he closed his practice. Now I aknowledge how guilty he must have felt as I showed him the love letters from patients that were in love with his wonderful image. This video is very validating on my healing way.THANKS again Ben🙏🏻🌻
Giving a narcissist another chance is like trusting a crackhead to throw away a 8 ball they just found
Would literally throw tantrums when I caught her in a lie or asked questions.
I experienced this when my ex hoovered after I had been no contact for 6 months. I caught him cheating with another woman. He showed up one day at my house acting down and out. I asked him how things were going with the woman, and he denied he was with her. He didn’t know that his adult daughter had told me that she had picked him and her up the day before at a motel. He introduced her as his girlfriend. Every question after that lie was met with rage. 6 months prior to that he had called me to see if I had received the perfume he sent to me via his parents. I asked how he was as they had expressed concern. He raged and told me that he had known for months he didn’t want anything to do with me as I was lazy and had deep psychological issues. I hung up and blocked him immediately. It’s been 2 years since that and I’m at peace.
The person I suspected was a narcissist would roll over and fold his arms like a child when I called him out. He wouldn’t look at me at all in the end, completely ignore me while I asked him questions. I just wanted closure, I just wanted the truth. It was like he was living in his own reality.
The narcissist in my life, would rage out like that over guilt and blame me, when he lied he would loose his mind so he was like a human lie detector bc he would tell on his self. He would deny deny cheating and would take it to the grave and than I’d end up getting cheated on even more because the more I find out stuff the more he convinced his self that I am gonna get him back. But that was all his mentality, when we fought and I didn’t comply he would say “I’ll get ya back”
I asked for accountability and got the answer of "let's forget it." Okay, I moved on, and I'll forget you. Thankful it was early in a situationship.
Thank you Ben you have described what the ex was doing to me before he left. I am healing and feeling more positive about my life and the future.
By oh boy. So true. If you ever wanna know if you’ve caught a narcissist in a lie, just watch the anger meter go up to 10. They use their rage to keep you away from the truth and get you to fawn. don’t buy into it. The truth is the truth and you deserve an explanation of what’s real.
D--N!!!!! ONCE AGAIN, I ADMIT I UNDERESTIMATED THIS GUY, THIS CHANNEL.
the R-A-W way he delivers THIS MESSAGE IS THE DELIVERY I NEED!!!!!! BECAUSE...i'm a hyper empath who keeps talking to myself about how dude didn't know what he was doing, he has a mental disability...and the whole pity thing i have for him.
R-A-W tells me in this video TO "WAKE UP" AND "SMELL THE ROSES!"
I'M more WOKE, thanks to R-A-W, and i'm FOCUSED ON SMELLING THE ROSES!!! NOT pitying dude and rationalizing his attempt to...basically make me his servant!!!!
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I’ll never forget the crazy that he displayed when I figured out his affair and accused him of it going on longer than he was trying to Make me believe.
Everything you just said could not have been more accurate! Amazing, like cut from exactly the same cloth. Lies, lies, lies. It amazes me how identical the behavior is, perfectly identical. Thank you for all you do!
A very fascinating video, this brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counsellor, and how do I reach her?
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.
It’s a trauma bond. Ive been there. It can take a very long time to break, but the longer you have no contact with them, it does break. But while you’re in the middle of it, it can be torture. Hang in there and maintain no contact if you can. Keeping them in your life just prolongs it
Why should you try to get someone back that treated you so badly???? That's not the way to heal.
So sorry I know the feeling of emptiness
I WILL NOT live with that! Omg that almost killed me!
He wouldn't try to cover it up if he wasn't guilty. Also, if you are hiding it it is wrong.
I experienced all of this and it was so hard to stay in the truth while you are taken on a rollercoaster ride....Loving the visuals....Like being in class...TY..
Powerful insights! Thanks.
Once you catch a narcissist cheating they will never trust you again.😂
They have feelings for them self!
This one really hit home. The example of the present happened to me before he left.
That's interesting because my N-Ex and I went our own ways because he was using my daughter to lie by omission. I called him out, he lied more, and raged at me. He started calling me a liar in all caps. Then I told him I'm going my own way, romantically. He un-friended me. So that tracks with everything you're saying Ben.
Im not even talking to him or asking questions its so bad😢sad
My ex narc called me a cheater, even though I hadn't called him out on it. I told him, if I ever cheated on him, I'd never come back. I calmly told him to get out and I put my head down and continued cooking. He never left nor accused me of cheating again.
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Such insight. Amazing
It really happened to me, because he told me that i made him cheated on me. Wtf
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Omg spot on
My narcissistic bf has called me a whore when he gets called out on a lie. He knows I’ve only been with him in 9 years. I guess that’s the only thing he can think of when he’s guilty. I’ve gotten so used to it--every 2-3 months like a cycle. Now I just respond with--I will talk to you when you’re done having a tantrum or a pity party. Suck it up! It seems like the times are not as long now. He’s a peach when he’s not focused on hisself.
I saw her eyes turn black and her face changed
So real! Thanks to videos like this…i would never get completely what was truly happening in those situations, without this kind of informational contents!
Thank you for this. This was very helpful. 💯
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LOVED the graphic PRESENTation!!! Seriously I thought that was incredibly helpful.
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Thank God i never had to experience rage in the whole 5 years that i was with him
Very true! The thing I hate and regret though is my reactions sometimes to all her accusations. I'd keep calm the first few but then sometimes I'd rage back, although I was just yelling to try to be heard because I couldn't get a word in between her yelling. Usually I'd be yelling that I loved her and I'm not a cheater and never will be. But still, I was yelling back, and reacting. Now I feel like maybe it just made me look like the narcissist. Lessons learned.
Another amazing video, strength and onwards.🙏
So good!! Thank you!
Would you say that the anger also can come from if they feel you have wrong them, or you didn't something as they would expect and they got hurt and after rage? like for months on end, many times a week with a revenge kind of way of doing things too?
Thank you.. yes I believed a long time he just didn't realize what he qwas doing but then you think.. well when he wants me back he was better, when we met he was better, with other he might be better... especially new people, more of less people he knows for a long time
Thr rage is frightening to the point where i walk the streets for hours until they fall asleep or leave the house.
I have done this - ahhhhhhh
so real
Ok, um mine rages at his boss at his mother, even at police. So idk
💯 true!!
Lol exactly dont dont dont take it!
I asked my husband if he cheated on me a blew the freak up on vacation. He pouted and gave me the silent treatment. I felt bad at the time but I feel I tapped on the truth. What innocent person acts that way?
What difference dose it make they don't love you anyway
D.A.R.V.O Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim Offender. It’s an emotional abuse technique.
I accepted the guilt and shame and through his rage he proceeded to triangulate me. I’ve disengaged and I hope I never see him again.
You said before that if a narcissist cheats they don't think it is wrong. I'm confused.
They know it’s wrong. They tell themselves it’s not wrong in an attempt to avoid responsibility. Because the story they created inside their head is that it’s your fault they cheated.
@@gabrielamartiniuc6322Yes. Mine told everyone that he had to have sex and I was denying him. Why would I? He told me he was sleeping with 4 co workers as well as the new supply I caught him texting and talking to. Oh…I forgot she was only his friend’s sister. 😂 Heard a few days ago that she left him because he was cheating on her with his adult son’s mom.
It's really messed up with a sibling or other family members. Because there is no leaving them, its family. So there fore I hate everything about life, God, devil, and witchcraft. All life must end. Is my opinion on this.
Can you talk about what you were feeling and thinking when you behaved like this yoursef?
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When they rage and you hit a nerve. I get I know you hate me what’s this all about
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She cheated on me and said she didn't.we was at a bar and a white guy walk up and drink with me and my girl will she stage a fallout with me ro go home ro this guy that don't have any money are looks.he doesn't have the tape of swagger like mines.well she came back home that morning and she smelled like sex.and now she stabbed me rwo days ago I don't know what to do and the crazy thing is that i still love her
No one gets more pissed off than a sigma focus on vengeance on a covert wife.