The Foundation Every Single Should Build Before Marriage | Kingsley Okonkwo

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  • @jennifemac8870
    @jennifemac8870 3 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    I love Pastor K. Absolutely love his messages, however as believers we are under a covenant of grace we are in this world but not of this world. God never looks at age to determine whether one of his daughters can have children. I have friends who waited for years not out of choice but wanted to serve God with purity and not compromise. Some waited longer than they ever imagined they would wait to be married but God came through and honoured their faithfulness to wait. Two of my friends married amazing men in their 40s and went on to have children naturally. One friend was pregnant for the first time at 51 and gave birth to triplets naturally. God is still God, as believers we should not live like the world or think like the world. It is this same God who gave women womb, eggs etc wouldn’t he give children if one of his daughters finds herself waiting longer than she expected. If a woman meets the right man at 25 yr good for her but not every one who married at an early age has “time” to start a family. While on the natural level women do not have time to wait long to marry I do believe that we serve a God that can do anything. I love Pastor”s K teaching and the great teaching to prepare people for marriage but I just feel the timing of when people meet their mates varies and God can still give a woman children at any age. I do not agree that a woman’s option reduces because of age, there is no scriptures basis for this. God would be unjust to create a woman to be less valuable than a man. It’s a shame that churches have allowed the world to influence how we view our lives. The bible says we are complete in Christ so I do not believe a woman’s option lessens because of age. Please correct this error because it’s not scriptural. Christ did not die for women to feel that their option lessens because they married after 40. On the order hand there are women and men who married at 25yrs old are are divorced. God doesn’t look at age and certainly did not create men to be superior to women because of age. Yes women have a timeline for child bearing but when has that ever stopped God? It never has and never will. Basically what you are saying is that God created the male gender to have value with age and the female gender to have less value with age. There is no scripture to support this. God views marriage within the context of eternity to fulfil his purpose on the earth and no one should make anyone of God’s precious children feel they are less valuable or have fewer options because they hit age 40. This is not correct.

    • @abbasbeloved6301
      @abbasbeloved6301 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      You've made a very valid point here. Thank you for it and for the testimonies of your friends. I'm certain many will be encouraged and blessed by it.

    • @lizzyfresh07
      @lizzyfresh07 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I didn't think of what he said regarding women's options reducing in this light. Thank you so much and true, it is not scriptural. Look at Sarah that was desired by other men outside of her husband because God renewed her. I believe my husband will manifest soon in Jesus' name Amen!

    • @dikechisom9903
      @dikechisom9903 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nice one!

    • @joskyshams4758
      @joskyshams4758 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I agree with you 💯 I have nothing to add.

    • @oluchukwuobioma1127
      @oluchukwuobioma1127 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Nice comment and interesting. Just to add that I don't think he was saying that aspect of women's option reducing in a negative light. Even his wife waited for 8 years to have children. He is talking about ladies not married because they are too choosy.

  • @mapsmaps805
    @mapsmaps805 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I can't believe I'm learning this at 47, single with 2 adult kids💔. What hope is there than to go down the rabbit hole 😭

    • @ericaekpang8818
      @ericaekpang8818 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Don't go down to the rabbit hole, you can still be whole in Christ Jesus! You can introduce your kids to these teachings so as to help them avoid regrets, and you can find peace by doing so.
      ❤️

  • @AlphieKim23
    @AlphieKim23 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This sermon is really eye opener. I am 27 years old single and I have really learnt a lot Wow. It is never too late to start over again , I am embracing my truth and uniqueness to fulfill the purpose of God in my life. Top notch teaching , I am really blessed

  • @elvisoffor2149
    @elvisoffor2149 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I knew I've been trying to run with some of these, but not in this depth. The amount of wisdom here is, in fact gold. Wawu!
    Thank you for these deep revelations.
    Let me write it here to remind my future self: If I and my future wife can't see these qualities in our lives then we're not ready for marriage!

  • @eberepurpleroyal1801
    @eberepurpleroyal1801 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    One thing I like about u is dat u are funny wen u are preaching.

  • @vaa2332
    @vaa2332 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I honestly wish I came across you in my single days. The Grace of God upon you is unquantifiable. Thank you for heeding God's call. I celebrate you Sir.

  • @Princessfaith_
    @Princessfaith_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    This sermon on repeat 🙌🏾

  • @topeadelowokan4849
    @topeadelowokan4849 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am a Marriage Minister as well. I am always blessed listening to Pastor K.

  • @henrymelchizedek
    @henrymelchizedek 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your single yrs are not to wait for marriage 💯🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @GivenZelina
    @GivenZelina ปีที่แล้ว

    Am single and in a relationship ,I bless God that am hearing this at the right time.

  • @dorcasolasehinde6242
    @dorcasolasehinde6242 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Thank you so much Sir, I'm so happy and blessed, I have never regret watching your channel sir, I thank God for the day my sister introduced this channel to me, my life has completely changed, and I'm getting blessed day by day, thank you Jesus, I just wish my friend's and everyone closed to me can enjoy this like I have just did now and always, the joy of the Lord just keep flowing in me,can't even explain it 😊❤️Hallelujah🙌🙌🙌

  • @chikauche8900
    @chikauche8900 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Pastor k ..u're the bomb..your teachings are top notch..God bless u for us all singles..

  • @ivieodigie
    @ivieodigie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    What a sermon full of inspiration and the Word of truth. Thank you Pastor K

  • @ekhatorsylvester4032
    @ekhatorsylvester4032 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    u very correct,I learn from a France friend I have,HE fulfil already, HE meet a Nigeria lady,HE told me,I know this lady don't love me,she hungry for documents. he gave, infact he sacrifice, HE know the woman never love him,at the end he die,the woman took over all the properties. since then I no longer get move,i will be fulfil, even if I marry my direction in life is were i will follow. thank God the woman is a preacher now,she using this case to preach

  • @beckybioh8695
    @beckybioh8695 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Too much wisdom in one sitting. Greater Grace to Ps.K and wife!

  • @corneliuskipkoech4996
    @corneliuskipkoech4996 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is powerful,,More grace

  • @aderogbaayoola3427
    @aderogbaayoola3427 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Can't get enough of this powerful and insightful message. This is a must watch for every Single 👏👏👏

  • @yvettelache6940
    @yvettelache6940 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Pastor K is so anointed ....

  • @olleyannie371
    @olleyannie371 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this man of God....he has made me know my worth...I love the new me

  • @kratosalexander1217
    @kratosalexander1217 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    You are a blessing Pastor K. I am always learning!!! 💕

  • @sophieamanston5192
    @sophieamanston5192 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Wow wow wow this is deeper than I would ever imagine. Thank you man of God for this wisdom and knowledge God have bless you with.
    Now I'll be happy as I'm single and prepare for marriage as i put my house in order. Yes this message has heal me and stop me from being sorry for myself in my single life.
    Now I've realized that my single life make me to accomplished a lot of things to satisfy myself. Thank God for this wisdom that he has given you my dear man of God.

  • @rosemaryumeh599
    @rosemaryumeh599 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Pastor K...God bless you for this timeless message..it was loaded.

  • @Cyril-OC
    @Cyril-OC 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I was truly Blessed OMO 🔥

  • @mabelamahagan2793
    @mabelamahagan2793 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God bless you Reverend Kingsley,for sharing,I badly need this message🙏.....

  • @abbasbeloved6301
    @abbasbeloved6301 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you for this Pastor K, my marriage Doctor

  • @joystitch
    @joystitch 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    God please continue to bless this man

  • @beckymbah
    @beckymbah 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    What an Inspiration preaching. I am really happy wachting this.

  • @marymwansa8571
    @marymwansa8571 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Im blessed by this 🎉❤😅

  • @manzalerlohrey3043
    @manzalerlohrey3043 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is soooo good! Thank you Pastor.

  • @igbokwechinecheremjacinta2263
    @igbokwechinecheremjacinta2263 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I don't miss out anytime ......More grace Pastor K

  • @AlhassanBlessing-kj9qo
    @AlhassanBlessing-kj9qo ปีที่แล้ว

    Am 24 am happy am learning what i need to know about marriage ❤ thank you so much pk

  • @richardaddy4444
    @richardaddy4444 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Awesome Message!!

  • @peaceojo-osagie4746
    @peaceojo-osagie4746 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Exactly,as the bible says love you neighbor as yourself... Honestly you give people what you have not what you don't have

  • @kemilolafadeyi5483
    @kemilolafadeyi5483 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this master piece. Marriage will never make you happy so is okay to be happy while you single because marriage only makes you better . Your professor in college job is not to make you happy but will only make you better . Is got to be mutual .

  • @nwagwetiruth
    @nwagwetiruth 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you sir for this profound teachings

  • @BudgetingStudent
    @BudgetingStudent 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Yes ooo I was amazingly blessed 🙌🏼
    Thank you Pastor Kingsley 🙏

  • @bomaoriyebaka1249
    @bomaoriyebaka1249 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow wow... I am transformed by this message I'm have sent it to a single group I'm in, they need to hear this..
    More grace Sir

  • @graceomakada5082
    @graceomakada5082 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    So much wisdom here am blessed to watch this.

  • @blessingchisom6982
    @blessingchisom6982 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you so much for such a wonderful message ❤

  • @jubilantchikukwa6446
    @jubilantchikukwa6446 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    your wisdom is beyond this world

  • @danbliss1950
    @danbliss1950 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    nice one pst K, always dropping it like his hot, well served,

  • @rosenanaodurahmensah3289
    @rosenanaodurahmensah3289 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm blessed listening to you Sir. God bless you

  • @ChikaJennifer-bq7kj
    @ChikaJennifer-bq7kj 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🔥🔥❤❤i love your messages, I have really learned a lot from them...... Looking forward to seeing you and your wife someday.

  • @elizabethmesioye
    @elizabethmesioye ปีที่แล้ว

    I thank God for your life sir.
    You have blessed a lot of souls on this channel

  • @ezehjennifer324
    @ezehjennifer324 ปีที่แล้ว

    🙌Thanks be to God for such a wonderful message
    God bless you sir 💯❤

  • @magdalenemusa1383
    @magdalenemusa1383 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much Sir. More unction from the Holy Spirit in Jesus name.

  • @oyindamolaolatunji6076
    @oyindamolaolatunji6076 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you Sir for teaching me. My mind has been largely enlightened

  • @olabodeatoloye7544
    @olabodeatoloye7544 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hmmmm, this message is another loaded and divine encounter to my life. God bless you abundantly sir

  • @jessd9841
    @jessd9841 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can’t love you less Pastor K!! God bless u

  • @ezekielayuba1166
    @ezekielayuba1166 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Nice message, I love your messages mostly on TH-cam even when they are repetitive but true.

  • @marhoziregbe7528
    @marhoziregbe7528 ปีที่แล้ว

    Phenomenal PK!!! This has blessed me.

  • @oyekunleoyeyinka7470
    @oyekunleoyeyinka7470 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So Blessed sir. More Anointing.

  • @lydiasesay1908
    @lydiasesay1908 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank God for this messages .

  • @ruthbisong9907
    @ruthbisong9907 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ALWAYS A BLESSING PK.God bless you Sire

  • @Franklinodaro
    @Franklinodaro 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My God, this message is so complete! I'm glad I found this

  • @kemilolafadeyi5483
    @kemilolafadeyi5483 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    More anointing and more wisdom . You were called for this . What a testimony ? No doubt you have been called for this . You are a blessing to the world . 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💕🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @chinyere2090
    @chinyere2090 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks sooo much pastor Kingsley

  • @Meloooody1357
    @Meloooody1357 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you so much for this MESSAGE ♡

  • @nikkiventures4205
    @nikkiventures4205 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is amazingly amazing. Thanks kindly Sir

  • @mabelamahagan2793
    @mabelamahagan2793 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don't like to wait longer before getting married:I have already advised myself.

  • @ivieogidiagba5405
    @ivieogidiagba5405 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you sir for all you do.. thank you for allowing God to use you. More grace sir.

  • @adescholastica2472
    @adescholastica2472 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much sir, more Grace daddy, I learn a lot from you sir, may God continue to speak through you in Jesus name amen 🙏

  • @attahprosper3610
    @attahprosper3610 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are a blessing to our generation 🙏

  • @margaretrameetse9592
    @margaretrameetse9592 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    God bless you Pastor K. O. That was powerful. Words of wisdom . To God be the glory! 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @blanchkuitat5021
    @blanchkuitat5021 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great job may God blesse you

  • @monicadiegboh9339
    @monicadiegboh9339 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Am do much blessed today 🙏 mey God bless you richly sir 🙏 for this message 🙏

  • @harriclaphton2838
    @harriclaphton2838 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Life is not about bread and butter but purpose
    Don't join the bandwagon of relocating, hear from God first

  • @estherchinaecherem9590
    @estherchinaecherem9590 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks Pastor Kingsley, is well with Me🙏
    God Bless You and Mama Abundantly 🙏

  • @veratwinztv6413
    @veratwinztv6413 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much, sir.
    Am always blessed watching your channel.

  • @Barnabas_Akinrinola
    @Barnabas_Akinrinola 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you so much, Pastor K!!!🙌🏾♥️

  • @kafunyakaswilo6634
    @kafunyakaswilo6634 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Always blessed by your message pastor.

  • @lizzyfresh07
    @lizzyfresh07 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great teaching but I was dizzy the whole time with the background lighting.🤨

  • @ruththompson2757
    @ruththompson2757 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg, God allowed me to come across this ANOINTED/ APPOINTED msg 🔥 🔥 🔥 🙏

  • @julielindo8955
    @julielindo8955 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Greatly blessed by your message 🙌🏾🙏🏾

  • @Nyemaspeaks
    @Nyemaspeaks 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you very much sir and this message was much needed. I learned a ton and took notes and will implement on them. God bless you.

  • @onyisglowempire1963
    @onyisglowempire1963 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Pastor K.

  • @preciousglory6735
    @preciousglory6735 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes I am blessed. God bless you sir

  • @erechijohanna9550
    @erechijohanna9550 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have learnt alot from you Pastork
    🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @edimepeace5583
    @edimepeace5583 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This sermon is everything

  • @traydolventures
    @traydolventures 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome awesome... Great job sir

  • @bernisassambom7515
    @bernisassambom7515 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for this message Pastor, I am learning a lot from you

  • @pàrfaitfurnishing
    @pàrfaitfurnishing 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Sir. God bless you always

  • @graceg1844
    @graceg1844 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I needed this thnks pastor may God reward u.

  • @ifeanyicollins5086
    @ifeanyicollins5086 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Pastor k, I really Like to meet you one day and learn from you sir, I celebrate you greatly, I wish you can make me your Timothy....

  • @enorjoseph8606
    @enorjoseph8606 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow! 2 much wisdom

  • @marknyami4451
    @marknyami4451 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you pastor for this grt piece

  • @dalisobandatv3924
    @dalisobandatv3924 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for this message.😍

  • @melodyokechukwu3103
    @melodyokechukwu3103 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Jesus 🙌🙏
    God bless you sir 🙏🙏

  • @marypauline4858
    @marypauline4858 ปีที่แล้ว

    Grace located him 🙏🙏

  • @Esther_Chinazamekpere
    @Esther_Chinazamekpere 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have been in this begging for love.. But am out of it
    Love my self more now

  • @brighterinmwingbovo7710
    @brighterinmwingbovo7710 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent morning sir,
    I have been listening to you for sometime now and you are doing very well on this all important topic of marriage.
    But is like you are not focusing much on people like me who has lost his wife and looking for a new wife

  • @musah09068
    @musah09068 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Pk wisdom man....

  • @priscygamson1592
    @priscygamson1592 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Powerful 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @paulfonfonocho5618
    @paulfonfonocho5618 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How i wish it new you or your great messages bf getting married

  • @mashaido
    @mashaido 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    " .. and I don't care whether you agree with me, I agree with me... " hahaha

  • @gracemunachiokike9516
    @gracemunachiokike9516 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen thank you pastor k

  • @teejay2841
    @teejay2841 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks pastor ❤️

  • @Letstalkaboutit07
    @Letstalkaboutit07 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Can we appreciate how full and thick PK's hair is.

  • @idim9248
    @idim9248 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God bless you sir

  • @balogunsamuel1843
    @balogunsamuel1843 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jewel of wisdom