From Good Enough to Irresistible | Don't Let Anyone Treat You Like You're Ordinary
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 8 ต.ค. 2024
- We hear a lot about the importance of not settling in relationships, but the concept of what it means to settle for someone or to be the person someone settles for is extremely misunderstood. Some people still believe that unless you look like a magazine cover or someone’s exact fantasy, you’ll never be more than a placeholder-but that’s far from the truth. The reality of life is, for all sorts of reasons, some women are treated exceptionally well in relationships, some are treated poorly and most fall somewhere in between.
And while some women are happy with that in-between status, others yearn to join the women who are treated extraordinarily well, but don’t know how. That’s why today, we’re diving deep into the "good enough" girl dynamic, because while many, if not most relationships fall into the good enough category, it’s also the easiest category to elevate from-if you choose to take that step.
Hi ladies! I took a couple of extra days to try to fit as much as I could into this one. I wanted to be as thorough as possible for all my ladies who feel like they end up in this category.
Leave me any additional questions you have on this topic, and I'll address them in the next livestream! 💕💕
Most of the time women who are being treated like they're basic, treat themselves like they're basic. How can you want some to do the most for you, when you're not willing to do the most for yourself!??? 🤯🤯🤯
I feel called out, speechless and thankful at the same time
You’re really pretty and also so right! I’m working on this with myself
Yes!! Also you are so gorgeous!!
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Dear internet big sister, I am so glad that I found you at 26, at a stage in my life where I am on a journey of self-discovery. Love, from Namibia.
Happy you're here, sis! Self-discovery and self-love as a foundation will make your entire life easier. Cheers to your journey! 🥂💕
Turning 26 tomorrow! So happy I came across this video 🤞🤞
@@TheFeminineUniverse you are the best thing to happen on TH-cam ❤️
Girl I have learned this now. Just told a guy that I like being spoiled and like pleased.
Explained it and he got it. I'm not settling for no random body.
Treated well* being spoiled creates poor character. You should aim for being treated well with respect and love. True love. A man can spoil and waste your time but a man who treats you well is a man who is intentional with his words and actions.
U dont even need to say that at all. Lolol ur aura will attract the guy that will do that n more. All my bfs have taken good care of me. My husband adores me n i only picked him cos I have so much admiration n respect for him. I told him after 4 dates that I admired him. But I did not sleep with him for 3 months so he thought I h8ed sxx, but he stuck around lolol n found out dat i loved sxx. I dont know how to explain it but its ur aura that informs the kind of men that talk to u. From an African girl❤❤❤
I know you're learning, but you shouldn't have to tell a man that. It should be obvious the way you look and carry yourself that you have high standards. And over time you should learn to pick men that are the type to normally spoil, wine and dine women
I have been treated especially well. Its about your aura n self care.
I ❤ me
Currently dating a guy who literally just told me that he loves the fact that I love myself...he continued to say that women do not like themselves and they know it
He just surprised me with a dozen of roses and orchids on Wednesday and on Friday he bought me another dozen of roses and a different color orchids
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I'm the main character 💋 and he knows ✌
Sit back and enjoy the special treatment! You deserve it!❤
@@denisebrock3154 thank you 💕
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Aww...you're the sweetest, my little fairy! 💕
✨Thank you for this! I’ve been treating myself as basic (sometimes even below basic) while treating others better, and embarrassingly hoping for them to treat me better. It’s time to STOP, also self-centered.✨
That's right! Put yourself in that pedestal!
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I can't thank God enough for TH-cam and TFU... literally bridging all the gaps in my understanding of HOW to holistically be the woman of my dreams. Every time I watch a video from this channel, I feel bold and encouraged, in a good way. Thank you, thank you, thank you from the bottom of my heart 💚🧡💛
This is an amazing compliment & I totally agree with you 🥰
Same!
I would love a self-centered video!!! As someone who has been single for 5 years, no dates nothing. this video is what I would love to see.
Self-Centered… Let’s get that video rolling! 😊❤
P.S. Your notes & graphics are always on point.
Top tier for sure!! ❤
Yes , waiting for the self centered video too ! 😊
If ever there was a day I needed to hear this, it's today. I've been feeling really emotional about my ex and wondering why I'm constantly being abandoned and so much of this video resonated with me. My problem is that I'm very humble but now I recognise I've always put the man first (I listen to his issues without him hearing mine; not setting boundaries; having no requirements ie letting the relationship drift without him getting divorced or offering commitment). WOW - what an utter idiot I've been. Thank you so much. Lesson learned!
You were probably conditioned to be that way. Thankfully this platform has shown us both the error of our ways ❤
I’m so excited when you upload!🎉
I appreciate you watching, love! 💕
Thank you! I've been building my wardrobe piece by piece and also started changing things around my place it feel more confortable and nice to be in.
I've been married twice.
One bad bad man
One good man that I let go of
I'm single and ok with it.
I'm able to spoil myself and live where I wanted to live. ❤
Sometimes, you have to love yourself more.
I love you, like for real i love your ideas, your presentation, your opinions, your voice and everything. When I hear you i autamatically be the best version of myself. Thank you for being there for me and us. God bless you endlessly ❤❤❤
Wow, thank you! That's truly my goal - helping us tap into the best versions of ourselves. Cheers to that and cheers to you!🥂
Preach sis!! Self centered!! ❤
Self-Centered… Let’s get that video rolling! 😊❤
I love your delivery on these videos. Learning about femininity has been so uplifting and has me feeling all confident. I see a lot of my childhood hobbies popping up ever since I've started this journey. I have a gym membership now and started writing poetry.
We have missed you 😢
Missed you too! So glad things are getting back to normal💕
I'm so glad i found this channel at 19 yrs it's been a great inspiration for me in every aspect of my life representing the Kenyan flag 🇰🇪 much love ❤
I absolutely adore this channel it has inspired me so much.
These words mean so much to me, Danyelle! 🥰
Self-Centered. I must acknowledge that the video shows you did a lot of research to create this presentation. I subscribed.
Man you called me out in this video. I focused so much on him that it was detrimental. 😮
Yesss sis thank u for this video, I've never been in a relationship before but I've seen most of the women around me being treated as basic, so I am thankful that there is a way I can avoid falling into that same scenario
Thank you!! Self centered ❤
OMG TFU, you hit this video out of the park as usual. You really have me doing some self reflection and I love it! You’re such a gem! Thank you for all you do! 🥰
Oh and, SELF-CENTERED!! 💗💕🥂
That was a very comperhensive guidance, and better yet : with actionable steps (and I think it will be effective inshaallah).
Thank you so much for these amounts of informations !❤
Yes SELF CENTERED please ❤ can't wait.
I needed to hear that. Unfortunately I was taught is is superficial and arrogant to take care of ourselves as women. So I definitely became the practical, low maintenance type.
Love this!!❤.. " self centered "
This video inspired me. It reminds me to reflect on myself and realize that I need to carry myself with more confidence and self-love. It's important to think highly of yourself so you can attract people who recognize your worth and treat you with the same respect you have for yourself.
I am so happy you're back!
I really like your video's! Clear and concise, pleasant to look at and your voice is calm and pleasing to the ear. Keep up the good work 😉
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So glad to see a new video from you! I kissed your content. This one was a real eye opener. I'm not currently in a relationship at the moment but it's great information for the future. Plus I feel that a lot of this can be transitioned over to other types of relationships, such as friendships in perhaps a less intense format. I will have to think on the being medium maintenance concept. I think I've been a little too free with access to my time and energy.
I’ve never clicked on a video so fast 😂😂
Me too! I just love this lady so so so much.
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Thank you for this video❤
Yay! A new video. I’m gonna wait till I’m on the treadmill to watch this. Your video helps me get through my tough workouts.
Listening to this just made me realize how much I have missed you
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Fantastic video! Im definitely someone who refuses help after being raised to be hyper independent and self sufficient. Constantly working on this and cannot wait to start saying yes to my mans offers and help ❤️ thank you for your help
Glad this spoke to you, Jessica! I hope that allowing yourself to say yes more often helps you feel even more valued and cared for and helps your man feel empowered to show up for you even more in your relationship! 💕
Thank you so much- you are helping so many women all over the world!!! I have helped me 😊
I appreciate the multiple visual representations to show what you’re speaking about.
I’m so glad you’re back! I’ve been waiting earnestly 💓
I would love to see a video on healthy self-centeredness.
I don’t know if anyone’s mentioned it, but your voice is very soothing.
I definitely want this self centered guide. Thank you 🙏🏾
Definitely self-centred! And thanks again for another well researched & and put-together video! ❤
Your videos are getting better and better❤ . I have always been a fan but you are really out doing yourself in this video❤. Keep up the good work Sis Star✨
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Your videos are my only source of elevation, thank you so much from the bottom of my heart
Also I want to ask you if you can share with us some effective treatments to reach a flawless skin, I don't know where to start from
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Great video! Self centred 😘
I've been enjoying your content since the beginning. 😀 Will you do a video on feminine hobbies? Thank you!
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I am sooo angry that I allowed myself to be a good enough girl. I hate that for me so much.
There's always time to change and pour into you!
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I clicked so fast when I saw that you had a new video! 😭
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This voice is always so soothing ❤
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Ladies.
Please have high standards for yourselves. That's it ... that's ny 2 cents on this.
The day a man or anyone else tells you that you have high standards amd you know you do and they are realistic .... be proud of yourself.
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Each time you use Honda I can’t stop laughing 😂😂😂 it really funny ❤❤❤
So grateful for this video ❤
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Did anyone else click the like button before even watching the video? lol
I did 😅 I always know I’m going to love the video content so I click the like button before starting to watch. As usual, I’m not disappointed ❤🎉
Most definitely.
Always
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You are the women that I look at for learning❤️
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I would like to learn to be self-centered in a good way. I have not been giving myself the treatment I would like but I’m ready to make some changes
Best advice EVER
I need more of this video I'm married. Thank you 🙏
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Thank you girl!❤
You're so welcome, my love! 💕
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New subscriber and so excited for all your videos 🫶💕 love your Chanel! Makes me feel recharged ✨
Welcome the family, love! So glad you're enjoying the content. Looking forward to interacting with you more 💕
Wow!! So powerful!!!! Great research!!!! xoxo
Love this, can you do one on friendships?
I love you girl ❤❤❤
thanks for the big sister advice
Thank you❤
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13:37 -13:55 it is a proven fact that we have more respect for, are more connected to, and value the things and people we invest in the most!
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