Becoming Self Centered Will Change Your Life | 4 Tips to Do It Right!
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 8 ต.ค. 2024
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From as early as we can remember, we can probably recall being taught not to be selfish. Being taught to care, share and tend to the needs of others. Some of us may have even been taught that putting the needs of others before our own is the best path to being a good person and having happy relationships. While these behaviors are noble and absolutely necessary sometimes, many women learn the hard way that living that way full time without prioritizing yourself and your needs actually leaves you exhausted, depleted and resentful.
On the other hand, when done correctly, becoming self-centered can lead to happiness, success and fulfillment that most people never tap into in their lifetime. It can actually be the single best thing you can do for yourself, for your goals, and for all the relationships in your life. If you want to learn more about being self-centered, to release any guilt for taking care of yourself and to embrace the idea that by centering yourself, you can actually allow everything else in your life to improve, let’s get into it! - แนวปฏิบัติและการใช้ชีวิต
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It's my birthday today and I didn't wait for no one to celebrate my birthday before I celebrated it myself. I enjoyed celebrating myself and it is indeed the best feeling ever❤❤❤
Happy birthday and may you have a blessed and safe day 🎊 🎉
Happy Birthday 🎉❤ My birthday is tomorrow 🎇 🎈
Happy birthday!!
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You have to stop asking people for things you refuse to give yourself! IT STARTS WITH YOU!
I love how you explained this in a positive way. The imagery, the examples, you've done it again sis.
Challenge accepted! Re-focusing on pouring into me❤
Recovering people pleasers unite!! We were told to put ourselves last - but no more! It’s a game changer - call me selfish anyday. I take it as a compliment now because I know myself and how I treat the people who love me. Everyone’s opinion doesn’t matter 🤷🏾♀️
Same
My parents sometimes tell me that I am selfish. But I know it is not true. I do care about other people, but in moderation. I just don’t do things I 100% don’t want to do and if i know it will make me feel resentful. I have my own priorities in life and I can’t break my own rules just to make them feel good. But again I am kind to others, I don’t like hurting others feelings. I consider myself lucky to know and feel when I need to stop and where this resentment-line is
That’s right! Even in the Bible it says “love thy neighbor as thyself” how can we even know how to love others if we don’t love and care for ourselves!
This is truly a great video.
Well said! I don't understand why people always sleep on that part.
Glad you enjoyed this one, love💕
its good to love yourself but.
The Bible teaches that Self-Centeredness is a sin because it leads to self-gratification and an overlooking of others' needs. The Bible also teaches that self-centeredness is antithetical to the teachings of Scripture.
I struggle so much with this, I can never understand if I’m taking care of myself or just being selfish.
There is something I have learnt from my student fellowship 😊, you cannot give others what you don't have. If you don't love yourself you can't love others. If you don't care for yourself you can't care for others. The love for others is a function of the love for yourself.
As women, prioritizing ourselves is a life SAVER esp when we are conditioned to put ourselves last!
Great topic. It's insane how many women I've come across in my lifetime who made it seem like I was a horrible person because I take care of myself (including my body) before taking care of others. We are always taught to put everyone else ahead of us, but I've never seen those results end well. I've had people look at me like was nuts because I excercise on a regular basis. I've responed, "My overall health is important to me. Its not about how I look, its about taking care of myself. I cannot take care of other people if I am messed up myself." and this is something I had to start applying to other areas of my life outside of fitness.
I am listening to this on my first ever Hot Girl Walk lol I am eating cleaner and committing to a workout routine so challenge accepted!!!
Yesss! Come through hot girl walk! Love all of this for you💕
Sending consistency, results and fulfillment your way!
I am joining u next week, Hot mama era loading 😂😂😂
Challenge Accepted! it's about time I get myself together and start to truly take life seriously.
She's bacccccckkk ❤❤❤❤
Heyyyy, my love! Getting back to the regular schedule! 💕
Yes!!! I missed you!!! Sooooooo happy!!
Am so happy for the new video ❤ thanxs beautiful
This is so perfect because I started the 75 hard challenge today as well!! We got this sisters. Challenge accepted!! ❤ 💪🏾
Hey, girl! ❤ I haven't commented on anything of yours in a while. Challenge accepted! I spent nearly my whole life taking care of nearly everyone else but myself. I already knew i needed to take more time for self care, but its so hard because that's how ive been wired since i was a little girl, taking on the role as not only the oldest child in my family who had to set example for my younger sisters,but as a second mom and being a latchkey kid. Sadly, the long term effects carried into my adult life .But I needed to hear this . Thanks again!
These videos are really helpful for those who don’t have families to speak into their lives, but yet have to have mentors that are passed away. I will never know them. Thank for the new upload.
So glad you posted! I love your videos and they have changed my life. Please keep posting!! 🥺 Hopefully one day you can post on Spotify too!
It really makes my day to know these videos help! It's been a slow process, but the podcast process is in the works. More to come, love😘
Saweeetie exudes this. She always give main character energy!!
This really resonated with me. I am a people pleaser and it is slowly killing me. I find myself annoyed and frustrated with people all the time. I give generously to people who won’t even return my phone calls. The epiphany I had was that I’m not worthy of love so I’ve settled for being useful. . . for being used.
Challenge accepted! An incredible video as always. I love how you always go deeper. The bit with the you've heard the say no to things that don't serve you was great, I'm always ready for actionable advice.
These are literally my favourite videos from the feminine universe ❤
Challenge accepted with the help of God
Your video clips are always so on point and very helpful in understanding what you're saying I love it!
I love how you have the difference between self obsessed vs self absorbed. A lot of people get them confused, I can say I’m self obsessed MY world revolves around me, but the amount of self absorbed people in the world is getting out of control and it’s such an unattractive trait to have. People really be out here wanting you to do for them without considering you.
This is the best advice ever and it's arrived at just the right time. So grateful for you!
Challenge accepted! Thank you so much for these videos! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾So much wisdom being imparted to us!
Perfect video to start the week with❤really excited about this it's really what I wanted to hear😊
You've got this, babe! Pour into YOU 🥂💕
Challenge accepted !!! Thank you for this video !! I feel like every time I watch your videos it hits home for me. So relatable to where I am in life. Thank you Fr your videos help me a lot.
The intro got me tearing up. I guess this really hit me hard. Thanks sis❤️
The right kind of self centred ..... Amen!
I’m so happy to be here! I was up for hours unable to sleep. Mind racing, thoughts all over and anxiety on defcon 5. Thank you for this, I’ve pulled myself together lol!!!
Love your channel so much. Thank you for always putting together such thoughtful, visually appealing videos 🥰🫶🏽
I appreciate you 💝 Thank you so much for sharing this information I definitely needed this and in the mist of working on this! In this season in my life 🤍🏆🙏🏼
You are amazing, I love your videos, imagine if everyone lived by the information you share in your videos, the world would be a different place ❤
Perfect video for me at this phase of my life!
You are the absolute best! It's been so long since your last video so I was sooo excited to see this one when it dropped. Look forward to the next video and anything else you drop! Please never stop doing this videos.
Challenge Accepted. Let’s go Ladies! And thanks so much for reminding us Sis 🩷
My good sis have you created the podcast as yet?
always rooting for you
Hi, my love!! It's on the agenda, for sure.
Interestingly, I've been contacted by a few podcast agencies so I'm sorting out if I want to consider that or go at it independently. Thank you for always checking in and rooting for me. I see it and I truly appreciate you 💕💕
2 Tim 3:2 says that in the last days people will become lovers of themselves. I’m not saying what’s good or bad but there it is. The message is so well delivered in a seemingly positive way….🤷
challenge accepted! love this video and the message that it is all about balance and self love 🙏♥
I swear fo' God it be a good day she drop a video!!! 😂 And on a serious note, at the conclusion of this video made my spirit rise up in my chest. I'm encouraged by this content! Thanks again 🥰
So glad you posted this topic. I was always so ready to give, and getting nothing in return! Thanks for this amazing topic. ♥️✨😮💋🌹🌹🌹
Im there now!!! I'm going back to me the rest of this year!!! And so forth ❤❤❤
This is amazing content.
Challenge Accepted 🎉
Yay! New video
Hope you enjoyed it! 💕
Challenge accepted! Love your videos! May I add to become God centered as well! Love your neighbor as yourself comes to mind.
I needed this video. Thank you.
I'm in this process right now. Challenge Accepted!
I used to be so good at prioritizing myself and doing self care but now I’m a mom to a one year old and have hardly anytime to myself 😢
I can understand this. When my children were small it was a struggle just to find time to bath never mind anything else, please remember it does get easier. Hang in there it does get easier. Xx
@@Thesignarizzler123thanks so much! Yeah I’m really struggling and feel like a shell of a person.
Give yourself grace. Not being able to sleep a solid 7-8 hours makes any task difficult. Are you nursing? How old are you? Do you have any other kids? Work? All these things make prioritizing self hard.
I looooooove you and your channel!!! Big hugs from Denmark😍❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you feminine universe you’re indeed a gooddess ❤❤❤❤
Great video! I love what you said at 7:00; but how do you deal w/ cultures that argue that you must feed and take care of others first before yourself? b/c Ive run into that argument many times 😭
This was a beautiful message, thank you my beautiful sister ❤❤❤ I can’t wait to dance with you too 😁😁😁🎉🎉🎉
Been literally waiting for a video
Thank you 😊🤗😘
You’re welcome, love! Hope you enjoyed it 🥰
Challenge Accepted! Btw, I love your content, it is truly inspiring!
Girly I love your videos and I would just love it if you could make a video about how to plan things properly and effectively like good basic spread sheets for goal and even daily use because girl I'm lost
Challenge to my self. Thank you
I am already the center piece of my life, ma'am 🥂
Loved this! Challenge accepted😃💚
Inspiration Accepted
I really love your videos ❤
Challenge accepted....💋by God's grace💋💋💋
Wonderful video and channel ❤
Good for My baby girl!
Challenge accepted! Self care is self love so let’s do this.
Loveeee your videos ❤
Challenge Accepted ! Thank you ❤😘
Just in time cause I’m literally at this point in my life 🎉❤
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beautiful video
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Feminine universe ❤❤❤❤
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This video just made me love u more 😍❤️
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Just now seeing this in the 1st day of October 2024, challenge accepted.
Thank you TFU 🥂✨🩷
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Ladies, being self-centred being and selfish are not the same thing. I had to say that after reading some of the comments.