Check back in 8 weeks.....if they haven't been shown how to help out with household chores,the home will be back into the state of disaster it was prior to cleaning....you can't teach people over night to change the way they live. Even an 5 yr old can fold towels & wash cloths and put them away....
when my family was poor before(not as in poor.. my dad have enough money for the necessity but not luxury.. literally.. we got food but not materials like fancy stationary and clothes.. we hv less than 3/4 pairs of new clothes per yr.. two of them we got during raya festive.. the other prolly our random whining that we cried because we want them so bad kinda poor) we have a very small house with 6 kids.. regardless our house was so clean.. my oldest brother is a book maniac..he saved his school money to buy books weekly...2 of my siblings was admitted to the hospital with just 3 yrs apart.. the first was because she have a muscle paralyzed called rapdomyolisis.. and the other was because of leukemia cancer.. so we have tonne shits of toys i our home because of donations from other ppl as well some education or sense trigger toys.. and of course my mom wasn't in the house while took care of the 2 kids.. but nonetheless our house was so clean at that time.. because we were thought to help.. even when our siblings were ok from their sickness i didn't remember our house being untidy.. especially we were all age less than 12 at the time.. i know for the family the mother is working the dad is sick.. but they have like 3 girls.. small space is easier to clean.. really hope they become discipline and help clean up their house.. mothers teach your kids to help since they are small.. ask them to clean their own mess.. my mom would swept our toys that are laying around on the floor.. mom nowadays spoils their kids too much!! if the family read this.. please take this as an advice and be a better person.. not just to shape your kids to learn about cleanliness but to discipline them as well.. kids please if you know your mom is working and your dad is sick.. PLEASE BE RESPONSIBLE AND HELP THE CHORES IN THE HOUSE. my siblings iron our clothes since we in standard one.. wash our dish after eat since we were 6..
Ms P look its about losing control amid trials and tribulations that u have not experienced urself. Perhaps ud have gone into depression and slept at a Dumpster.
A new beginning, now everyone will hopefully be able to think clearly and maintain the house with newfound appreciation for organizing. Beautiful family!
Those 9 kids should be cleaning the house everyday.. they should all have chores to keep it clean. If they don't they are just lazy . We had lots of kids in our family, we were taught to do daily chores our house was small but clean.
Absolutely correct! Children need to learn early that THEY are a part of a clean, nice place to live and as such, they must be a part of keeping it that way! NO EXCUSES. And the parents who do NOT teach their children that, are setting them up for failure in their adult life. Not always, but more times than not. Habits begin early in life and it is the parents responsibility to instill those good habits into their child's life so they can be caring, responsible, healthy both mentally and physically, adults when they grow up. There is NO legitimate excuse for it to be any other way!
It's easy to criticize and make assumptions but you don't know the real truth. By the sound of what the children said they sound ashamed and helpless. To me, it looks like a hoarder's house. Perhaps one of the parents have a condition which is about not throwing things away etc. Look up children of hoarders. Don't blame! Help them. It's easier said than done.
You are totally correct. Most people do not realize that in clutter and mess, germs, bacteria, viruses can grow and multiply in those messes. Germs LOVE a warm, dirty, maybe slightly moist environment to grow and multiply!
Erum Rana... because they just dont care ... Having a clean home has nothing to do with your income,all u need is some soap water and a cloth. i know such a family. Leaving in a dirty house is their "normal"
Lena Annis ...True. If someone is inherently untidy or unclean, you can't do anything to help them unless they want to help themselves. Even if you clear things up for them to give them a fresh start, they just go back to their routine of poor hygiene and untidiness.
No one taught them. So they have no concept of what is clean. Can't blame the kids. If parents are messy, so will their children. I'd blame the parents.
It's easy to criticize and make assumptions but you don't know the real truth. By the sound of what the children said they sound ashamed and helpless. To me, it looks like a hoarder's house. Perhaps one of the parents have a condition which is about not throwing things away etc. Look up children of hoarders. Don't blame! Help them. It's easier said than done.
I fell completely in love with the whole family. I hope that the dad is healthy. I am so proud of the mom for finding a job! I just adore all the children. Thank you for creating an inspiring, beautiful video. Wonderful.
Proud of what? Would you like to be raised in this dysfunctional family as a child? Seriously, living on disability and welfare shouldn't prevent you from cleaning your house, or disciplining your kids to help with chores, or even painting walls and stop hoarding junk. and depending on cleaning crew to clean your house to the livable state.
Afiraz if you have never lived in chronic pain you should not judge people. I wasn't a woman with 9 kids but I suffer from a back injury that I got in 1995. I couldn't keep up with our families lifestyle and my husband left for it. I continued to work against Doctors orders which led to countless surgeries and procedures. I was put out on disability. I know what it's like to feel like a piece of shit because you know longer can afford your home because of the income loss. And you can't keep it sparkling clean as you did for 20 years. So try to put your shoes on someone else's feet before you judge.
Noone talks about "sparkling clean", but very basic things. The man of the house could still use his voice to encourage, require and discipline to keep his family together in better shape. Sorry for what you went through. Just because you went through pain doesn't mean they had the same situation. Believe me I am familiar with people who using system to just apply for disability just to not work and get money. And I have been raised in similar country where these family is originally from. They just using system for free living.
if he can't support his family maybe he should stop making more, he doesn't earn money, clean or cook, and he doesn't even supervise the kids to make them help out with the chores.
This is so great for this family. I hope they will have some of the volunteers check back every few weeks to make sure that the home can stay clean and clutter free. If the older children can help with the house cleaning on a daily basis, I'm sure it will be easier for them to maintain this. Such a nice family. May they be blessed with good health, prosperity and the skills to keep their home in order.
9 kids and NOT 1 prepared to help out, and the father is disabled and still trying to work, though limited due to illness. Those kids should be ashamed of themselves.
I don't mean any disrespect but all I see is clutter not being thrown away..financial situation is not the main problem but the attitude and self discipline.
They explained that the guy has a health condition where he is in pain permanently, and the woman works hard to feed 9 kids, so she comes home very tired and doesn't have energy to clean. The kids should have done the chores, but then again, the parents were too tired to enforce that, and the kids are kids - they didn't forsee what will eventually happen if the clutter keeps pilling up, until it became overwhelming.
@@l.ameenaa4669 some people have learning difficulties and can’t cope with every day things, it doesn’t occur to them that there home is dirty or untidy
It's easy to criticize and make assumptions but you don't know the real truth. By the sound of what the children said they sound ashamed and helpless. To me, it looks like a hoarder's house. Perhaps one of the parents have a condition which is about not throwing things away etc. Look up children of hoarders. Don't blame! Help them. It's easier said than done.
It's easy to criticize and make assumptions but you don't know the real truth. By the sound of what the children said they sound ashamed and helpless. To me, it looks like a hoarder's house. Perhaps one of the parents have a condition which is about not throwing things away etc. Look up children of hoarders. Don't blame! Help them. It's easier said than done.
Just imagine if we all volunteered to help with projects like this just once a year. Think about all the good that could be done! I hope this video inspires others as it has inspired me! Great job!
Has to start with when they are very small. Still not too late but children learn from examples. 3 is a good age to start getting the child to put away what they've pulled out. If they are big enough to pull stuff out then they are big enough to put back.
@@NiNitosix It's easy to criticize and make assumptions but you don't know the real truth. By the sound of what the children said they sound ashamed and helpless. To me, it looks like a hoarder's house. Perhaps one of the parents have a condition which is about not throwing things away etc. Look up children of hoarders. Don't blame! Help them. It's easier said than done.
Come on kids!!!! Most of u are YOUNG ADULTS!!!! Pls CLEAN YOUR OWN HOUSE!!!!! If yr dad is unwell.. the more he needs a neat plc to stay! Dont just expect yr parents to do the clean up. I dont know why.. i got so pissed but at the same time pity them. Pls lah MAINTAIN this plc. After all the hardwork they hv to sweat to clear yr garbage. PLs pls dont waste their effort!!! I wld hv whacked my kids if they dont keep the plc neat. And those mess there... just too much!!!
Wow, that was amazing. My craftroom is cluttered but not dirty, I'm reorganizing it now, th is video was very inspiring. 'Declutter' is the key. TFS Be Blessed.
Same space but decluttered! Wow I was very impressed and was in tears for this family. I can understand how things get behind. So happy for them. Sometimes all we need is a little help. Granted it took a lot of help--look what they did in such a short time to bless this family of 11! Awesome!
That was a big job to take on,thank you for being an example of Christ's Love and extending a helping hand when it was needed.I would have given the kids new toys,toys are a universal language.
Your group did a wonderful job. I hope the family now keeps it cleaned. The older children should be keeping the house neat while mom works and dad can certainly oversee the chores. I went to work at 14 and kept my grades above average in school, 3 of the children are over that age. If you can afford cell phones for your kids, noticed them carrying the around, there should be some responsibilities in exchange. There are younger children, if I counted correctly they were born after his disability. Every country is different and the living style also differs. Your group is helping folks, elderly have a hard time keeping up and families when there is no on physically able to do ANY CLEANING.
They shouldn't HAVE kids......i ONLY afford TO HAVE 2kids..eventhough i love TO HAVE a girl .but i have to stop. I worked 12 hours shift.. Went HOME with my arthritis hands...very painful. But still have to CLEAN the house until 12am went to bed at 1230...awake up at 0540am ready for a new day......MY second SON is autistic., very destructive.destroyed most of the property IN THE HOUSE. But am still able to keep my HOUSE clean.....in this video i saw the patents and at least 6 older children very capable to keep their house clean........they MAKE me up set to watch this video...
I don't mean to be negative but the daughters are big enough to help around the house! The fathers' Back has nothing to do with the messy mess of the house.
shintaishi1 The fathers back had a ton to do with it, it effected the whole family and changed how they lived. Do you know them? How do you know it had nothing to do with it?
The father's injury is important. The mother would be helping the father do his needed things and she works. If the parents are busy they have less time to teach kids to clean up. One thing piles ontop of the other and then bam, you have a disaster. When I had a newborn, my partner works nights. I was not sleeping much and neither was he. I had 2 other kids to care for under 6 years old. So things got messy quickly. Kids were making messes faster than we could clean up and we needed to sleep. Thankfully, my Dad and his gf came over and helped us clean up to get it back to normal. These things happen, and you need to just have help to fix i lt
I'm sorry to hear the family condition but one this i want to say is the kiss are big enough to help with house hold work in india , japan, china and many other countries children are taught to help parents with day to day work and also be independent in many ways here the family itself have their own team to take care of each others but sad part is instead of teaching them the way to live clean and healthy ,the whole family is staying this way and have become self piting not good, sorry for that but atleast clean your own message created by you
Lovely...unimaginable transformation...hats off to the guys who made it possible..you are doing a great job by helping people...Keep up the good work...
This was beautiful but I agree with the other previous comments made that the older children should have pitched in, rolled up their sleeves and helped maintain the tidiness. The younger ones could at the very least make their beds every morning and keep their toys in order. My daughter has been cleaning her own bedroom since the age of 5 so no excuse :/
It's not about the cleaning habits here, Sometimes you are in such a mess that you need an external helping hand to take you out of there and start fresh. Sometimes you have the energy to clean but some personal tragedy or some situation puts you off and things such as regular cleaning have no place in your life. Slowly the mess becomes messier and then it's difficult to find a staring point. I really appreciate this service. Cleaning habits are good , must be followed but sometimes you are so occupied with other things and issues that this takes a second place and actually effects your health too. Some People who stay away from their family and are staying alone usually end up with this mess And since it's so messy and your personal things are around and for safety reasons you are scared to take a regular helping maid or so. A good entrepreneurial idea which can help several people get a chance to start afresh. Well done
If their reaction Didn't put a smile on your face I don't know what will . The family is great and humble. Absolutely Wonderful video. Thank you so much for putting a smile on my face. Have a great day, all of you :)
Learn to dispose of trash instead of piling it up. Learn to do chores like making beds, sweeping, washing dishes. Give each child a specific duty, and you'll discover things to be lots better.
That was a blessing I'm glad they were able to help that family home is like your kingdom and you want to feel comfortable and enjoy it now this family can thanks to all who helped them and god bless them and this family
Love them so cute. my parents have seven children. we are all grown now. but we still talk about our childhood and how much fun we use to have. God bless you guys 😍😍😍
I'm glad the people helping them don't have the negative, judgemental mentally a lot of the folks writing these comments do. I hope the kiddos learned how to clean and fix things themselves, in order to keep it up, from these generous, Amazing people.
See this is what's wrong with today's society, here we see people do a good deed for someone who needs it, but what do we do, we start judging the person in need. If they haven't cleaned they must have their reasons that is none of our business, can we just appreciate they got help and they'll learn to live better now. Thanks for posting this video it was very nice to watch :)
I'm sorry for them. But I believe regardless how your house situation is they had enough people to clean. Only 1 person in the house was sick not the mom or the girls.
Iman Jones. We were as poor as Jobs turkey growing up but my mother taught us how to clean up after ourselves. We had a clean home. We lived in a space of less than 1000 square feet with 6 children. Now this man had 4 wives and the house is NASTY not just cluttered! Thats how I can judge. And my momma taught me how to not curse or call people names. Had you been in my home growing up you would have had your mouth washed out with soap. smh..
its very nice to see other countries doing charity for their own people. we only ever see those late night commercials begging Americans to donate money. Most Americans can no longer donate they need every dime to support their own households..... bravo & keep it up!
Yea for the family. Glad to see people help. Hopefully the family can learn to keep it clean. Maybe even teach the children to keep it clean. Great job..
Depression can debilitate an entire family, but it is kind of hard for a family this big to let the house get like this. When I met my ex husband, the 1 bedroom apartment he lived in was always clean and neat, 9 people lived there. You would have never known, until you looked into the bedroom and dining area and saw all the beds, which were all neat and tidy.
Sona Yan Agreed. I grew up in a home...my momma had eight kids...this was in the early 1950s - 60s. Back then it was not uncommon to have 8 to 14 to even 16 kids. My friend had 21 siblings from the same parents. It can be over whelming but rather fun. Due to poverty, from a third world, no media, no internet etc etc...well these things can happen. However these days are different. I'm sure cleanliness can be taught...for starters. When it comes to the furniture etc etc...well I'm sure sponsorship can come a long way...just saying the present era leaves no excuse for a disorganised home with grown kids. The parents themselves have a certain level of education. So picking after yourself can be taught. So that being said I shall stick within this perimeter. :O)
@@tillytrotter8531 It's easy to criticize and make assumptions but you don't know the real truth. By the sound of what the children said they sound ashamed and helpless. To me, it looks like a hoarder's house. Perhaps one of the parents have a condition which is about not throwing things away etc. Look up children of hoarders. Don't blame! Help them. It's easier said than done.
they are not only poor but also they are dirty n lazy... 9 kids can't clean home?? if they have to they could use any cheap or even freely available things to organize house. so many poor people keep their home clean n go n clean others home for livelihood
PD P There is no problem in having many kids. you can have as many kids as your mind and heart tells you...no one has the right to go against that. My mum gave birth to 7 daughters and 1 son, three years ago we got into a family car accident and lost 2 daughters and only son. if my mum had only three kids who wouldve been left for her?. now shes blessed with 5 daughters. Many kids is a blessing.
+Yaelra R. people are talking about taxpayers? what about majority of tax collected goes to government and his right men pockets, like 80%? these people building extreme wealth from a good enough existing wealth by eating out your life and you end up worship them lol.
I think that's part of the reason. She cleans all day long, she just doesn't want to clean again at home. It's like leaving your work at the office. But yeah, I agree that the children should help in ways..
I'm actually looking up these kinds of videos to try and get me in the right mind set for cleaning. I live with two people (family members) who refuse to help me with the house and I have lived like this since I was too young to remember. The house is worse then a mess, We have ants everywhere, flies and many other things. I have tried for years to get the house clean but with two adults who throw all their garbage on the ground and refuse to help me clean cause they fear bugs, at times it almost feels impossible. I remember when I was about 10 I would often get so over whelmed by the environment I was living in that I would actually think suicidal thoughts because as a child I could only see life as what was in front of me and all I seen was chaos and carelessness, Id go out late at night just to get away from the house at 11 years old alone and I couldn't really see my family as family anymore I felt like they were far too alien and I still feel that way. Its been so many years and nothing ever got any better so Ive been trying to clean but I keep thinking its too much for just me to work on alone but Im still going to try my best. I have had people often tell me to move out and believe me I have things planned but due to my mothers health at the moment I cannot move out till I know she will be alright without me so until I can leave I want to try to make my environment at least a little better.
Jessica St.Amand Have you tried the FLYLADY routine or watched or read any Marie Kondo books. I’d recommend moving out getting your own routine established then go back on your days off with trash bags and get all the garbage out of her house. This is coming from the daughter of cohoarders for your own mental and physical health you have to take care of you first.
To me, it sounds like your parent(s) have a condition maybe hoarding?? I don't know. But it's sounds like an unhealthy living condition for you. Ultimately, it's unhealthy for your mind since you also mentioned unpleasant thoughts. Please consider moving out ASAP. Your mom will be fine. Or take her with you. But don't stay too much longer unless someone can help you do a make over. But that's not a solution. It's just a temporary recovery. Best wishes.
Beautiful!family.I hope they love their clean neat home so much.That they work hard at keeping it that way.The older children need to be given chores and dad needs to what he can physically.So mom can come home to her own clean home.To many people in that place to be living like that.
Don't be OCD either! - Piles of clothing on a bed is not filth. It isn't like they had ample dressers and cabinets in which to place their belongings. OPEN YOUR Frigging judging EYES Mama Garcia - Please!
I'll agree with you about the stove and food prep area - That was gross and should be wiped clean after cooking. You are right about that area, but I believe they cannot do much about the walls if they don't have the proper cleaning supplies. Perhaps those beds are against a utility room wall or basement area, we just don't know all the little gritty details. All I can observe, however, is that the children's clothing they have on are in pretty good order too. I am sorry I said you had 'frigging judging eyes' - I think I was thinking back on an experience I had myself when my child had a little friend over who was very outspoken and rude about the appearance of our home. Some parents are not good at delegating tasks and getting the kids to pitch in. They do have many capable hands there Mommy Garcia - You're right!
I must say I had a job! I worked out a routine when I came home, I would clean the house washed the children read them a story and once they were a sleep i would relax while my washing is in the machine or sorting out socks and putting them together every single day!My husband always had food when he came from work.I kept my hand very strictly to routine and worked until today for the reason that my islamic upbringing was that cleanliness was near to Godliness!I never once thought that I should not clean my house since day one of my marriage because I was a proud woman who just can`t see that my family is living in an unkempt place or they have nothing to eat! My family would have felt very neglected and ashamed even to bring anyone home. I also was a woman who did let not others clean my place as it was my mess in the first place! I think its the personality or character of a person. Trust me you could have managed to keep your house clean. You have daughters teach them well so when they get married they will not be ridiculed or people can`t handle them. I have sons I had no help but I loved a clean home! I heard some say that their mother did not let them clean up after they did their own mess and also cheekily said its not their job! Yes its your job to clean your mess!! I can tell you my mum did the same but when I got married her example kicked in. May we all get guided the right way.
It's so easy to become overwhelmed in your home. When the family income provider is overcome with health issues, often the focus shifts away from comfortable living conditions. And of course this is how it should be. But in a small space for a family with many children I'm sure everyone would love to live in a space that gives comfort welcomes you home. Thank you for giving this family a hand. .
I'm sorry but 9 kids= 18 hands. Give the children chores to help around the house and their house will stay clean. Teamwork makes the dream work!
Ms P divide the work every child....give them a responsibility to clean as they used..
Check back in 8 weeks.....if they haven't been shown how to help out with household chores,the home will be back into the state of disaster it was prior to cleaning....you can't teach people over night to change the way they live. Even an 5 yr old can fold towels & wash cloths and put them away....
when my family was poor before(not as in poor.. my dad have enough money for the necessity but not luxury.. literally.. we got food but not materials like fancy stationary and clothes.. we hv less than 3/4 pairs of new clothes per yr.. two of them we got during raya festive.. the other prolly our random whining that we cried because we want them so bad kinda poor) we have a very small house with 6 kids.. regardless our house was so clean.. my oldest brother is a book maniac..he saved his school money to buy books weekly...2 of my siblings was admitted to the hospital with just 3 yrs apart.. the first was because she have a muscle paralyzed called rapdomyolisis.. and the other was because of leukemia cancer.. so we have tonne shits of toys i our home because of donations from other ppl as well some education or sense trigger toys.. and of course my mom wasn't in the house while took care of the 2 kids.. but nonetheless our house was so clean at that time.. because we were thought to help.. even when our siblings were ok from their sickness i didn't remember our house being untidy.. especially we were all age less than 12 at the time.. i know for the family the mother is working the dad is sick.. but they have like 3 girls.. small space is easier to clean.. really hope they become discipline and help clean up their house.. mothers teach your kids to help since they are small.. ask them to clean their own mess.. my mom would swept our toys that are laying around on the floor.. mom nowadays spoils their kids too much!! if the family read this.. please take this as an advice and be a better person.. not just to shape your kids to learn about cleanliness but to discipline them as well.. kids please if you know your mom is working and your dad is sick.. PLEASE BE RESPONSIBLE AND HELP THE CHORES IN THE HOUSE. my siblings iron our clothes since we in standard one.. wash our dish after eat since we were 6..
Ms P look its about losing control amid trials and tribulations that u have not experienced urself. Perhaps ud have gone into depression and slept at a Dumpster.
agree! they should teach their children
A new beginning, now everyone will hopefully be able to think clearly and maintain the house with newfound appreciation for organizing. Beautiful family!
Those 9 kids should be cleaning the house everyday.. they should all have chores to keep it clean. If they don't they are just lazy . We had lots of kids in our family, we were taught to do daily chores our house was small but clean.
Absolutely correct! Children need to learn early that THEY are a part of a clean, nice place to live and as such, they must be a part of keeping it that way! NO EXCUSES. And the parents who do NOT teach their children that, are setting them up for failure in their adult life. Not always, but more times than not. Habits begin early in life and it is the parents responsibility to instill those good habits into their child's life so they can be caring, responsible, healthy both mentally and physically, adults when they grow up.
There is NO legitimate excuse for it to be any other way!
M.J. Leger I have had to do it myself unfortunately
It's easy to criticize and make assumptions but you don't know the real truth. By the sound of what the children said they sound ashamed and helpless. To me, it looks like a hoarder's house. Perhaps one of the parents have a condition which is about not throwing things away etc. Look up children of hoarders.
Don't blame! Help them. It's easier said than done.
Doesn't cost anything to throw trash away and put things where they belong. You can have dirt floors and be neat and clean.
You are totally correct. Most people do not realize that in clutter and mess, germs, bacteria, viruses can grow and multiply in those messes. Germs LOVE a warm, dirty, maybe slightly moist environment to grow and multiply!
Oh for crying out loud! They have at least 5 children who are old enough to help with the cleaning and tidying up of the house!
Erum Rana... because they just dont care ... Having a clean home has nothing to do with your income,all u need is some soap water and a cloth. i know such a family. Leaving in a dirty house is their "normal"
Lena Annis ...True. If someone is inherently untidy or unclean, you can't do anything to help them unless they want to help themselves. Even if you clear things up for them to give them a fresh start, they just go back to their routine of poor hygiene and untidiness.
Erum Rana ..well it looks good now and they did have them as helpinhg hands ..thnxs god..
No one taught them. So they have no concept of what is clean. Can't blame the kids. If parents are messy, so will their children. I'd blame the parents.
It's easy to criticize and make assumptions but you don't know the real truth. By the sound of what the children said they sound ashamed and helpless. To me, it looks like a hoarder's house. Perhaps one of the parents have a condition which is about not throwing things away etc. Look up children of hoarders.
Don't blame! Help them. It's easier said than done.
I fell completely in love with the whole family. I hope that the dad is healthy. I am so proud of the mom for finding a job! I just adore all the children. Thank you for creating an inspiring, beautiful video. Wonderful.
Judith Wallace
Proud of what? Would you like to be raised in this dysfunctional family as a child? Seriously, living on disability and welfare shouldn't prevent you from
cleaning your house, or disciplining your kids to help with chores, or
even painting walls and stop hoarding junk. and depending on cleaning crew to clean your house to the livable state.
Afiraz if you have never lived in chronic pain you should not judge people. I wasn't a woman with 9 kids but I suffer from a back injury that I got in 1995. I couldn't keep up with our families lifestyle and my husband left for it. I continued to work against Doctors orders which led to countless surgeries and procedures. I was put out on disability. I know what it's like to feel like a piece of shit because you know longer can afford your home because of the income loss. And you can't keep it sparkling clean as you did for 20 years. So try to put your shoes on someone else's feet before you judge.
Noone talks about "sparkling clean", but very basic things. The man of the house could still use his voice to encourage, require and discipline to keep his family together in better shape.
Sorry for what you went through. Just because you went through pain doesn't mean they had the same situation. Believe me I am familiar with people who using system to just apply for disability just to not work and get money. And I have been raised in similar country where these family is originally from. They just using system for free living.
if he can't support his family maybe he should stop making more, he doesn't earn money, clean or cook, and he doesn't even supervise the kids to make them help out with the chores.
This is so great for this family. I hope they will have some of the volunteers check back every few weeks to make sure that the home can stay clean and clutter free.
If the older children can help with the house cleaning on a daily basis, I'm sure it will be easier for them to maintain this.
Such a nice family. May they be blessed with good health, prosperity and the skills to keep their home in order.
9 kids and NOT 1 prepared to help out, and the father is disabled and still trying to work, though limited due to illness. Those kids should be ashamed of themselves.
I don't mean any disrespect but all I see is clutter not being thrown away..financial situation is not the main problem but the attitude and self discipline.
I agree
@@welshie2007 What are you talking about???
They explained that the guy has a health condition where he is in pain permanently, and the woman works hard to feed 9 kids, so she comes home very tired and doesn't have energy to clean. The kids should have done the chores, but then again, the parents were too tired to enforce that, and the kids are kids - they didn't forsee what will eventually happen if the clutter keeps pilling up, until it became overwhelming.
@@l.ameenaa4669 some people have learning difficulties and can’t cope with every day things, it doesn’t occur to them that there home is dirty or untidy
Thank you for helping that family, they were in such need and it's nice to see the children smile 😊 coming home to a clean home 👍👍👍🎊🎉👏‼❗
children must learn to clean house too..not only parents doet cleaning.
It's easy to criticize and make assumptions but you don't know the real truth. By the sound of what the children said they sound ashamed and helpless. To me, it looks like a hoarder's house. Perhaps one of the parents have a condition which is about not throwing things away etc. Look up children of hoarders.
Don't blame! Help them. It's easier said than done.
My husband and kids never help don’t know how to make them do it
Same things will happen again if they don't learn how to keep their space clean.
It's easy to criticize and make assumptions but you don't know the real truth. By the sound of what the children said they sound ashamed and helpless. To me, it looks like a hoarder's house. Perhaps one of the parents have a condition which is about not throwing things away etc. Look up children of hoarders.
Don't blame! Help them. It's easier said than done.
My heart "squeezes" with heartfelt emotion for this lovely Family...Thank you so much for reaching out to them & offering your assistance...
Just imagine if we all volunteered to help with projects like this just once a year. Think about all the good that could be done! I hope this video inspires others as it has inspired me! Great job!
the older children needs to take responsibility and help the parents.
Daphne Isme
Has to start with when they are very small. Still not too late but children learn from examples. 3 is a good age to start getting the child to put away what they've pulled out. If they are big enough to pull stuff out then they are big enough to put back.
@@NiNitosix It's easy to criticize and make assumptions but you don't know the real truth. By the sound of what the children said they sound ashamed and helpless. To me, it looks like a hoarder's house. Perhaps one of the parents have a condition which is about not throwing things away etc. Look up children of hoarders.
Don't blame! Help them. It's easier said than done.
Come on kids!!!! Most of u are YOUNG ADULTS!!!! Pls CLEAN YOUR OWN HOUSE!!!!! If yr dad is unwell.. the more he needs a neat plc to stay! Dont just expect yr parents to do the clean up. I dont know why.. i got so pissed but at the same time pity them. Pls lah MAINTAIN this plc. After all the hardwork they hv to sweat to clear yr garbage. PLs pls dont waste their effort!!! I wld hv whacked my kids if they dont keep the plc neat. And those mess there... just too much!!!
Love, this is what life is about Helping Hands. Beautiful family. I pray for Daddy to get better.
Wow, that was amazing. My craftroom is cluttered but not dirty, I'm reorganizing it now, th is video was very inspiring. 'Declutter' is the key. TFS Be Blessed.
Same space but decluttered! Wow I was very impressed and was in tears for this family. I can understand how things get behind. So happy for them. Sometimes all we need is a little help. Granted it took a lot of help--look what they did in such a short time to bless this family of 11! Awesome!
That was a big job to take on,thank you for being an example of Christ's Love and extending a helping hand when it was needed.I would have given the kids new toys,toys are a universal language.
Your group did a wonderful job. I hope the family now keeps it cleaned. The older children should be keeping the house neat while mom works and dad can certainly oversee the chores. I went to work at 14 and kept my grades above average in school, 3 of the children are over that age. If you can afford cell phones for your kids, noticed them carrying the around, there should be some responsibilities in exchange. There are younger children, if I counted correctly they were born after his disability. Every country is different and the living style also differs. Your group is helping folks, elderly have a hard time keeping up and families when there is no on physically able to do ANY CLEANING.
They shouldn't HAVE kids......i ONLY afford TO HAVE 2kids..eventhough i love TO HAVE a girl .but i have to stop. I worked 12 hours shift..
Went HOME with my arthritis hands...very painful. But still have to CLEAN the house until 12am went to bed at 1230...awake up at 0540am ready for a new day......MY second SON is autistic., very destructive.destroyed most of the property IN THE HOUSE. But am still able to keep my HOUSE clean.....in this video i saw the patents and at least 6 older children very capable to keep their house clean........they MAKE me up set to watch this video...
As a parents u need to teach yr children to CLEAN....
I hope they taught the kids to help with garbage out and tidying. I come from a big family, its the only way parents can keep up. Great video! Thanks.
I don't mean to be negative but the daughters are big enough to help around the house! The fathers'
Back has nothing to do with the messy mess of the house.
shintaishi1 The fathers back had a ton to do with it, it effected the whole family and changed how they lived. Do you know them? How do you know it had nothing to do with it?
The father's injury is important. The mother would be helping the father do his needed things and she works. If the parents are busy they have less time to teach kids to clean up. One thing piles ontop of the other and then bam, you have a disaster. When I had a newborn, my partner works nights. I was not sleeping much and neither was he. I had 2 other kids to care for under 6 years old. So things got messy quickly. Kids were making messes faster than we could clean up and we needed to sleep. Thankfully, my Dad and his gf came over and helped us clean up to get it back to normal. These things happen, and you need to just have help to fix i lt
shintaishi1 the son's are big enough too!!!!
Yes they are but they have other responsibilities and studying
To see your parent depression affects the kids a lot then what you think
The first thing i look in a partner and spouse is volunteering and helping needy people I just find it so attractive.
I'm sorry to hear the family condition but one this i want to say is the kiss are big enough to help with house hold work in india , japan, china and many other countries children are taught to help parents with day to day work and also be independent in many ways
here the family itself have their own team to take care of each others
but sad part is instead of teaching them the way to live clean and healthy ,the whole family is staying this way and have become self piting
not good, sorry for that but atleast clean your own message created by you
kids not kiss, mess not message....opps
everywhere and any race that is what you are supposse to do, unless you are rich you pay ppl to do it for you.
Mohammad Alhussain me too!
Mohammad Alhussain Then you will have a live in nursemaid
later on?☺
Wonder how long it took for them to trash the house again! They needed someone to teach them to clean house. Not a make over!
Exactly... or else after two months...it's back again 😬
That lounge suite is the silliest colour with all those kids...
Hahahaha and knowing the mess they're capable of 😂
9 kids and such a light coloured couch... it will get dirty quickly. But happy to see another family helped. :)
I was going to comment the same.
Compassionate people lending hand to a beautiful family. Gorgeous kids.
Thank God for blessing them. I am so happy for them. May they continue to be blessed.
Soooooo wonderful for that family!!!! They had such a positive attitude!!!! Thanks for doing that!!!!
Lovely...unimaginable transformation...hats off to the guys who made it possible..you are doing a great job by helping people...Keep up the good work...
Please teach our children from young to be clean and organised. It should be our way of life...
SO wonderful, got me smiling and brought ears of joy into my eyes. Thank you for your loving heart.
You can be poor but still no reason to live in filth.
This was beautiful but I agree with the other previous comments made that the older children should have pitched in, rolled up their sleeves and helped maintain the tidiness. The younger ones could at the very least make their beds every morning and keep their toys in order. My daughter has been cleaning her own bedroom since the age of 5 so no excuse :/
It's not about the cleaning habits here,
Sometimes you are in such a mess that you need an external helping hand to take you out of there and start fresh.
Sometimes you have the energy to clean but some personal tragedy or some situation puts you off and things such as regular cleaning have no place in your life.
Slowly the mess becomes messier and then it's difficult to find a staring point.
I really appreciate this service.
Cleaning habits are good , must be followed but sometimes you are so occupied with other things and issues that this takes a second place and actually effects your health too.
Some People who stay away from their family and are staying alone usually end up with this mess
And since it's so messy and your personal things are around and for safety reasons you are scared to take a regular helping maid or so.
A good entrepreneurial idea which can help several people get a chance to start afresh.
Well done
There is no excuse for dirt especially with all those children.
And they will mess up the house again... it's the attitude, God bless them.
The kids are big enough to help parents clean their house😊😊
If their reaction Didn't put a smile on your face I don't know what will . The family is great and humble. Absolutely Wonderful video. Thank you so much for putting a smile on my face. Have a great day, all of you :)
Learn to dispose of trash instead of piling it up. Learn to do chores like making beds, sweeping, washing dishes. Give each child a specific duty, and you'll discover things to be lots better.
What a wonderful project!! The children in this family are so precious. Very inspiring!!
in what way are they inspiring, maybe to be clean and not to be ashamed of being on TV showing your piggy house, lazies.
Li U.U you're an unpleasant person - probably don't have any sincere friends because of your currently horrible attitude
Kate North..... don’t think she is being unpleasant she is just making a remark...
God bless Newcruz Shipyard for helping this family!
That was a blessing I'm glad they were able to help that family home is like your kingdom and you want to feel comfortable and enjoy it now this family can thanks to all who helped them and god bless them and this family
Love them so cute. my parents have seven children. we are all grown now. but we still talk about our childhood and how much fun we use to have. God bless you guys 😍😍😍
It's amazing what can be done with a small space with the right furnishings. Very happy for this family!
Very nice video. Very nice job done by newcruz . The family might be very happy.
The children are so adorable!! Now that's time and money well spent. I hope the father continues to get well and the entire family live in peace❣️🇨🇦
Lovely ... awesome job guys. Hope dad will be healthy as I myself been suffering from back issues for a long time.
I'm glad the people helping them don't have the negative, judgemental mentally a lot of the folks writing these comments do. I hope the kiddos learned how to clean and fix things themselves, in order to keep it up, from these generous, Amazing people.
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Thank God for this organization the kids look so much happier now even the dad hope u get better mister
Keep it organized and clean.. What a nice and very healthy transformation 😘😘
What a beautiful initiative! Thank you for sharing this great video! I'm so happy for them!
What these kids learned from kind strangers, they should have learned from their mother,
What about the father? He's every bit as responsible as the mother for these kids' upbringing.
Maybe one or both parents have a condition. The children sounded ashamed and helpless.
No, from BOTH parents!
I am so happy for them. Thank you for helping them. God bless
u changed it but will it be maintained
Hopefully it did lol
Have faith, the children like it this way they will help to maintain the cleanliness.
See this is what's wrong with today's society, here we see people do a good deed for someone who needs it, but what do we do, we start judging the person in need. If they haven't cleaned they must have their reasons that is none of our business, can we just appreciate they got help and they'll learn to live better now. Thanks for posting this video it was very nice to watch :)
I wonder how their apartment looks now? A lot of the kids are in their teens. They should help out at home.
visit the house again on next month😂
Ma shaa Allah! Thank you for helping people in need! May Allah accept your charity :-)
I'm sorry for them. But I believe regardless how your house situation is they had enough people to clean. Only 1 person in the house was sick not the mom or the girls.
munaz . or the BOYS...
Simply not acceptable..real n only reason laziness..
munaz has oop
God bless this house and all who are in it, all who are in this video and who helped make it.
What an inspiring project. They definitely did a great job reorganizing and cleaning the kids home.. ❤️❤️
shouldn't clean for them but teach them to.
Jacquelin Eng you're right the kids are big enough
Jacquelin Eng 100% correct.
Jacquelin Eng 👏👏👏
They will never get back on track. They are messy. I bet the house looks the same now as it did before.
Iman Jones. We were as poor as Jobs turkey growing up but my mother taught us how to clean up after ourselves. We had a clean home. We lived in a space of less than 1000 square feet with 6 children. Now this man had 4 wives and the house is NASTY not just cluttered! Thats how I can judge. And my momma taught me how to not curse or call people names. Had you been in my home growing up you would have had your mouth washed out with soap. smh..
This is such a great deed. I'm so happy for the family. Such lovely kids. Hope the father of the family will recover soon
its very nice to see other countries doing charity for their own people. we only ever see those late night commercials begging Americans to donate money. Most Americans can no longer donate they need every dime to support their own households.....
bravo & keep it up!
May God bless your ol team 👏 well done... u ol team are real heroes 👌
Yea for the family. Glad to see people help. Hopefully the family can learn to keep it clean. Maybe even teach the children to keep it clean. Great job..
This is the best cleaning video i hv ever seen...so inspiring...
This family has grown up kids..there is absolutely no reason they cannot cleaned up the house ! Gosh..they're just LAZY. Plain and simple.
Depression can debilitate an entire family, but it is kind of hard for a family this big to let the house get like this. When I met my ex husband, the 1 bedroom apartment he lived in was always clean and neat, 9 people lived there. You would have never known, until you looked into the bedroom and dining area and saw all the beds, which were all neat and tidy.
Nice work team and appreciate for you work God bless you all
I'd like to see a follow-up!
The less we have, the more organized the house stays.
That family was cute.
Children can teach how to cleaning the house
It's the best way for everyone
it could be better to teach them to clean their house :/
Sona Yan Agreed. I grew up in a home...my momma had eight kids...this was in the early 1950s - 60s. Back then it was not uncommon to have 8 to 14 to even 16 kids. My friend had 21 siblings from the same parents. It can be over whelming but rather fun. Due to poverty, from a third world, no media, no internet etc etc...well these things can happen. However these days are different. I'm sure cleanliness can be taught...for starters. When it comes to the furniture etc etc...well I'm sure sponsorship can come a long way...just saying the present era leaves no excuse for a disorganised home with grown kids. The parents themselves have a certain level of education. So picking after yourself can be taught. So that being said I shall stick within this perimeter. :O)
Agree,they should help to clean their house..
@@tillytrotter8531 It's easy to criticize and make assumptions but you don't know the real truth. By the sound of what the children said they sound ashamed and helpless. To me, it looks like a hoarder's house. Perhaps one of the parents have a condition which is about not throwing things away etc. Look up children of hoarders.
Don't blame! Help them. It's easier said than done.
i pray the team effort will not get wasted. mom and dad please teach your children how to be responsible. how to be clean and organized.
they are not only poor but also they are dirty n lazy... 9 kids can't clean home?? if they have to they could use any cheap or even freely available things to organize house. so many poor people keep their home clean n go n clean others home for livelihood
please also gift them condoms
PD P
There is no problem in having many kids. you can have as many kids as your mind and heart tells you...no one has the right to go against that.
My mum gave birth to 7 daughters and 1 son, three years ago we got into a family car accident and lost 2 daughters and only son. if my mum had only three kids who wouldve been left for her?.
now shes blessed with 5 daughters. Many kids is a blessing.
anonymous believer It is a problem when you are living off of taxpayers. Its not only a problem, its immoral.
+Yaelra R. people are talking about taxpayers? what about majority of tax collected goes to government and his right men pockets, like 80%? these people building extreme wealth from a good enough existing wealth by eating out your life and you end up worship them lol.
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Why hasn't the parents taught their children to clean. And she cleans elsewhere, sad!
I think that's part of the reason. She cleans all day long, she just doesn't want to clean again at home. It's like leaving your work at the office. But yeah, I agree that the children should help in ways..
seriously moving, what an incredible project
I'm actually looking up these kinds of videos to try and get me in the right mind set for cleaning. I live with two people (family members) who refuse to help me with the house and I have lived like this since I was too young to remember. The house is worse then a mess, We have ants everywhere, flies and many other things. I have tried for years to get the house clean but with two adults who throw all their garbage on the ground and refuse to help me clean cause they fear bugs, at times it almost feels impossible.
I remember when I was about 10 I would often get so over whelmed by the environment I was living in that I would actually think suicidal thoughts because as a child I could only see life as what was in front of me and all I seen was chaos and carelessness, Id go out late at night just to get away from the house at 11 years old alone and I couldn't really see my family as family anymore I felt like they were far too alien and I still feel that way. Its been so many years and nothing ever got any better so Ive been trying to clean but I keep thinking its too much for just me to work on alone but Im still going to try my best.
I have had people often tell me to move out and believe me I have things planned but due to my mothers health at the moment I cannot move out till I know she will be alright without me so until I can leave I want to try to make my environment at least a little better.
Jessica St.Amand Have you tried the FLYLADY routine or watched or read any Marie Kondo books. I’d recommend moving out getting your own routine established then go back on your days off with trash bags and get all the garbage out of her house. This is coming from the daughter of cohoarders for your own mental and physical health you have to take care of you first.
I am sorry to hear about your situation. Hope you have moved out.
To me, it sounds like your parent(s) have a condition maybe hoarding??
I don't know. But it's sounds like an unhealthy living condition for you. Ultimately, it's unhealthy for your mind since you also mentioned unpleasant thoughts.
Please consider moving out ASAP. Your mom will be fine. Or take her with you. But don't stay too much longer unless someone can help you do a make over. But that's not a solution. It's just a temporary recovery. Best wishes.
Could it be that you are a child of hoarders? Look it up if you can.
@@BettyBird Absolutely. Good suggestion. I thought of that too. She sounds like she might be a hoarder's child. Parent(s) are hoarders.
Teach those children to clean up after themselves and help around the house.
👏🏻👏🏻 made so neatly and organised well with spacious look 😍
Lovely. 😊 Sometimes we need help, to get us out of the chaos!
Beautiful!family.I hope they love their clean neat home so much.That they work hard at keeping it that way.The older children need to be given chores and dad needs to what he can physically.So mom can come home to her own clean home.To many people in that place to be living like that.
Thank you so much for helping them out.
Awesome job God bless you and this family all happiness
Marie Marquez my thoughts exactly !!!!! They can be poor !!!! But don't be extremely filthy !!!!
Don't be OCD either! - Piles of clothing on a bed is not filth. It isn't like they had ample dressers and cabinets in which to place their belongings. OPEN YOUR Frigging judging EYES Mama Garcia - Please!
Christine Ruback. It's not being OCD idiot !!! It's about being clean !!! They have plenty of people to clean !!! They wish to be filthy !!!!
I'll agree with you about the stove and food prep area - That was gross and should be wiped clean after cooking. You are right about that area, but I believe they cannot do much about the walls if they don't have the proper cleaning supplies. Perhaps those beds are against a utility room wall or basement area, we just don't know all the little gritty details. All I can observe, however, is that the children's clothing they have on are in pretty good order too. I am sorry I said you had 'frigging judging eyes' - I think I was thinking back on an experience I had myself when my child had a little friend over who was very outspoken and rude about the appearance of our home. Some parents are not good at delegating tasks and getting the kids to pitch in. They do have many capable hands there Mommy Garcia - You're right!
Very nice family. Obviously a loving one. Bunk beda are great for space!
its really beautifully done by the Team
Congratulations
bless you guys for helping this family
I must say I had a job! I worked out a routine when I came home, I would clean the house washed the children read them a story and once they were a sleep i would relax while my washing is in the machine or sorting out socks and putting them together every single day!My husband always had food when he came from work.I kept my hand very strictly to routine and worked until today for the reason that my islamic upbringing was that cleanliness was near to Godliness!I never once thought that I should not clean my house since day one of my marriage because I was a proud woman who just can`t see that my family is living in an unkempt place or they have nothing to eat! My family would have felt very neglected and ashamed even to bring anyone home. I also was a woman who did let not others clean my place as it was my mess in the first place! I think its the personality or character of a person. Trust me you could have managed to keep your house clean. You have daughters teach them well so when they get married they will not be ridiculed or people can`t handle them. I have sons I had no help but I loved a clean home! I heard some say that their mother did not let them clean up after they did their own mess and also cheekily said its not their job! Yes its your job to clean your mess!! I can tell you my mum did the same but when I got married her example kicked in. May we all get guided the right way.
my home .. comfortable.. liveable
LOVE IT Nice seeing people who work hard get a helping hand especially with all the hate that going on in America
They have 9 kids that could help keep the space clean.
Stop having children & the ones you have now get them to help CLEAN!
Sweet I pray they were able to keep up with it and pray the father gets better.🙏🏻
It's so easy to become overwhelmed in your home. When the family income provider is overcome with health issues, often the focus shifts away from comfortable living conditions. And of course this is how it should be. But in a small space for a family with many children I'm sure everyone would love to live in a space that gives comfort welcomes you home.
Thank you for giving this family a hand.
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Amazing initiative taken - the smiles on children face was everything at last - you people are life organizers
Keep up thegood work :)
thank you so much for helping them.