ASMR For When You're Feeling Lonely 💜 {Affirmations, Face Brushing, Up Close Whispers}
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I hope this video can bring you some comfort. Triggers include face brushing, tapping, face touching, ear to ear whispers, candle lighting, affirmations, hugs, and more. 💜
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Hi Sarah Lavender ASMR Did you miss me 😃😃😃😃😃😃😃 I'm sorry for not Communicating on your videos 😞😃 You are the best at ASMR Ever 😎😃👍
Sarah Lavender ASMR I Hope you are having a wonderful day today 😎😃👍 And you are the awesomeness person ever 😎😃👍
I've given up on dating due my undesirability but I send platonic love to all ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Loneliness isnt necessarily from having no one around, its most often from not connecting deeply with the people around you
I agree!
well said!
Connecting deeply with the self is important too
Absolutely!
amen...and its something that, paradoxically, is becoming more and more common. We're all connected yet nobody is connecting, right?
Every since I was a young kid I have often times found myself alone a lot, and now as an adult I have to find ways to try and cope with loneliness. ASMR videos like this have become a huge comfort to me and make me feel like there's someone there for me who cares. Thank you.
same man
just started college and its never been harder to make friends. sucks to see all these people having fun and making memories. even worse when you consider someone to be your best friend but you aren’t theres. this helped me so much get through my weekly cry lol
That was me throughout high school and will be in college soon. I’m doing it online because I have severe social anxiety and it would be a waste of e every for me to go into a building when I despise being around people for this very reason; feeling left out even when around thousands. You will learn how to focus on your own hobbies, put your energy into your unique works, and discover more about yourself. You DONT need friends to be happy :)
@@MP-mw2kd I have no friends and I'm the most unhappy I've ever been i feel like I can't move I'm not saying you need friend to be happy but you have to be a special type of person to be socially isolated and still be happy
@@MP-mw2kd hey, ik this comment was 3 months ago and I hope your doing ok now but I just wanna say something. During my freshmen year of high school I struggled with social anxiety bad. Like really bad. I couldn’t talk to people idk I just couldn’t feel comfortable with people and I would get so tense when an ordinary person would talk to me and i overthinked everything it was just so bad and I recall feeling the worst I ever felt in self esteem, confidence, etc. idk if you relate to this since everybody’s different but as the year went on, i started looking up stuff like why am I feeling this way and somebody said to put yourself in these situations on purpose, do what you fear and when you start getting awkward and feel your getting judged, you’ll realize it’s really not that bad and you’ll start not caring. For example, when I heard that, I was like ok why not so i joined track club and I met a bunch more people and through interacting with people for a very very long time I actually overcame my terrible social anxiety like it worked! Like i can talk with almost anybody normally now! I mean when u join track club you’ll have to go through meets and stuff which means you’ll have to run in front of a whole stadium which is hundred of people watching, judging, you and almost every single week your required to at my school. Long story short, please if you have bad social anxiety I strongly STRONGLY suggest you start doing in person school if u rlly wanna fight ur social anxiety instead of just despising people and it’s gonna be tough at first, I felt like I was gonna die if something embarrassing happened but nah I don’t even remember half the stuff that happened it’s irrelevant now tbh 👍👍👍🫶 so basically yea am sorry this such a long comment thank u for reading if u read this 🥰🥰😋oh btw Jesus helped too but idk if ur a believer or not so is ok 👌😎
@@Angel-nu4znThank you for sharing this.
It is crazy because I don’t feel like I really have anyone in life that I talk with every day. It feels like I’m just waiting and waiting and it’s getting tiresome. I really also would like to be in a relationship that is 100% genuine and caring because that would be nice.
This is probably admitting too much on TH-cam, but from when I was a kid hanging out with my grandpa while he explained science to me, all the way to... well, these videos... I find that what gives me "tingles" isn't so much crinkly noises or hand movements and whispering, though those are nice, too... rather it's the thought that someone is giving you their undivided attention. Which I think is why I especially like the teacher and bartender videos. (Not really sure why it even works in video form, but it does.) So many of us are disconnected from each other on some level in everyday life, and these are a nice respite from rampant social isolation. (Even hanging out with friends and family in groups, there can be a distance of sorts.) Thank you for making these for us, Sarah, and keep up the excellent work!
Very well said 🙂
prob TMI but the lighter flick at 0:08 shouldn't be so legible to me
It's actually impossible to get tingles from a non-human source. It's exclusively an interpersonal experience that includes trust so your observation is spot on.
My exact thoughts too. It's the attention. It's why we like replies and likes to our comments. But I remember as a teenager being able to activate those ASMR sensations almost at will, if I was alone. I can't remember how, but I do remember talking to a boss at a job about the subject. I recall telling him that I was finding it harder to activate those sensations as I got older. Maybe it was because I used to hang out by myself as a teen and then grew progressively more gregarious.
Anyway, good post sir.
YES! That's my trigger, undivided attention, I couldn't explain it better, some sounds are nice, but making contact with someone at a personal attention level is a powerful trigger for me out in the "real" world.
I'm not even gonna lie being alone sucks, I do everything alone and I'm so sick of being my only friend but thank u Sarah, I now kinda have someone to chill with ❤️
If there is no observer then there's no reality, division of self into observer and the object is the origin of perception
@@dwijgurram5490 where does this connect to what he commented?
@@dwijgurram5490 i already feel shitty and lonely there was no need to make me feel stupid too
Im sorry you feel that way. I hope you find people and the chance to connect a little more deeply with them. Ik how hard loneliness can be, but believe it in your soul, that you deserve company, you deserve support, you deserve all of those amazing things since you were born, even when you feel like there's no one around. I'm am feeling a little lonely today too. Sometimes this feeling is deep, other times it is not. But today I found that ignoring the fact that i do deserve all of these great things makes the loneliness bigger. We are not less worthy of all these great things just because we might not feel them right now. I just wanted to make sure you feel that, or at least heard this from someone. Cause I care about you :). Ik it's just a comment from someone miles away but I hope this helped you. I really hope it did 💕
@@kellyfortes5949 it did, more than ull ever know
As someone with bad social anxiety/introvertedness, these sorts of videos really help. In fact, right now, I'm missing out on socializing with a friend group because my social anxiety is getting the best of me. I often (for years now) have felt severe loneliness and pain resulting from that. I always love these sorts of videos of personal attention and talking to us like we're in the same room having a conversation. It makes me feel like I've got a friend anytime I need one.
I’m so glad it was able to help Callie 💕 I’m sorry to hear that you struggle with social anxiety, it’s sooo tough to overcome but I know it will get better! Just have compassion and forgiveness for yourself always 💕
Callie , just wanted to send some love ❣️. I understand. I get anxiety with people around and alone. I'm a big introvert too.
You can have plenty of friends
You can have a loving family
You can have a supportive partner
Yet, you can still be lonely. Not enough people realize this.
Yeah but if you have all those things going and you're still lonely there's something wrong. I completely understand and agree, but in general most people are missing 1 or 2 out of those 3. And my condolences to the ones who are missing all 3
I have friends and my partner is the most understanding, supportive person I've ever met. But I still feel lonely.
I’m in the middle of a fight with a close friend of many years right now and we haven’t spoken in several days. This video helped a little bit. Thank you
I'm sorry to hear that, I hope you feel better soon 💕
@@SarahLavenderASMR thank you, I hope it gets better because it hurts a lot
@@Underthegun897 How’s is going? Are u speaking with them again ??💓
Hi, Sarah. Thank you. Even when my family is home or I’m in a room full of people, I still sometimes experience loneliness. Thank you again. You are just lovely. I hope everything is great for you.
I am glad asmr came out. I struggle with talking to people or finding people who want to talk to me
im happy to see a good person who tried his best to help us relaxing and geting rid of loneliness and feel safe . all my love for you Sarah ty 💞
My loneliness comes from being ignored. I just got back from what was supposed to be a birthday celebration/mini-vacation for me with my mom, sister, and nieces. However, it turned into us doing what my nieces wanted. Also, I was either ignored or constantly interrupted if I tried to speak. I should have known it would be that way as this is what has happened since I was young. I have been conditioned to feel that my thoughts and feelings are not valid or important, so I just stay silent. 😮💨
Please don’t let others dictate the rules.
You deserve to speak up and stand up for yourself.
I know this is an old video… But Sarah, your videos are currently helping me through probably the most difficult time in my life. And hearing your voice has definitely saved it before. I was in a terrible situation at home with my dad. And when I had no phone or anything due to all of my electronics being destroyed, I hid my kindle and I would listen to your asmr videos every night. I would be in physically in pain but for whatever reason, the sound of your voice has been so comforting that I’m actually still able to get sleep. Even while I’m now living with my grandparents on a foldout bed in the living room. When there’s nights like this one when I let out my heart by crying, I go to your videos to make me feel comforted. So thank you SO SO much. I love to see your videos and I will continue to use them when I’m needing find a way to wind down.
being in the military, it gets a bit lonely. you’re around a lot of people, but people come and go by the day. also hundreds of miles from home
My soul felt like a plant being watered after this ASMR~~thank you Sarah. Your ASMR is like a rosebud
My living situation has been extremely toxic, feel worthless and unwanted. I really needed this video thank you so much😭😭💔💔
Same here
Same painfully here...except watching did not help me any sadly...just reminds me of how painfully alone I am even though I'm surrounded by other people everyday. It feels absolutely disgusting.
Spending the night alone in the Emergency Room. Perfect timing for this video.
I hope you're okay😥❣
You give off the same vibe of a comforting, sweet primary school teacher, that always has time to listen to what you have to say
4:47 keep playing it back bc that hug felt soo reaaall 😭🥺
I'm feeling quite lonely. Nothing short of Sarah Lavender herself can save me now.
I really needed this today. I messed up really bad and ended up being cut off from people who I considered friends. I have been feeling regret and loneliness for so long, I didn't know who to turn to. This video really helps, thanks Sarah
You're a weak puppy. A random person talking to a camera and fingering the screen shouldn't make you feel better.
Given that winter is coming up, the weather is getting cold, and people are getting colder with it, this is very much appreciated 💛💜
Boyfriend just went off to basic training. As the person who is used to being connected to him at all times, I haven't gotten used to it. I miss him so much, I send him letters and he has pre-made me good morning notes for all the days he will be gone. Everyday is one more day to see him, but it still isn't easy. This helped a lot to get through nights and get some actual sleep.
I’m alone more than the last dinosaur who was alive :(
There’s an Arabic saying that goes like :
Always when the night comes, the wolves of your loneliness will howl.
It's just a strange mix of unhealthy eating habit, lack of philosophical understanding of the workings of mind , and external factors. And after listening to UG Krishnamurthy I feel I'm a lot mature than I used to be.
@@dwijgurram5490 wait u eating wolfs now or what
@@lYODAl lol, it doesn't necessarily mean that one needs to adopt a new lifestyle, it's more about repetitive subconscious programmes that anchor one to his being
@@dwijgurram5490 I’ve read a lot of books about this subject for almost 9 years now but what does this has to do with my comment
I really like the combo of crisp whispering + gentle triggers (like the brush).
I’m just so happy you keep being so consistent with all your work. Thank you 💕
Te escribo en español porque he visto que vives en México. Tu Asmr es muy calmado, transmites mucha tranquilidad y tu voz muy agradable. Genial!!
Needed these affirmations today. This was wonderful, Sarah!
I love your videos so much , especially the ones with affirmations they really help with my anxiety 😌 please keep making more ♥️
I’m pretty new to discovery of asmr but you’re quickly becoming a favorite! This was really comforting and relaxing. Definitely saving this to come back to on low tide days.
this is so sweet 🥺 i’m so grateful for all of my asmrtist friends 😭
i love these kind of videos
Today I realised that the last time I went outside with my friends I no longer have was 3 years ago. Only things I have are discord parties with two other friends that I hardly ever join because I just cba to talk to anyone anymore. I just want to go back to when I could talk to people and when I had friends and went outside and was actually happy. It's been SO LONG.
i love hand movements. your manifestations were very powerful, exactly what i needed to hear. i hope you are well. great video ❤️
Damn. I cant believe how low I’ve stooped. Never thought I would ever feel temped to search something like this while smoking alone at my balcony
I’ve just started listening to a few ASMR videos on TH-cam, definitely feeling like Sarah has some very helpful and healing qualities about her. Thank you for sharing this, much love ❤️
The timing was perfect! Will have the pleasure to sleep listening to Sarah's new asmr
I dont usually feel like this and its weird I tried to shake it away but when I tried to go back to sleep it felt like a whole in the pit of my stomach idk out of nowhere I just felt and over whelming feeling of Loneliness really late a night I woke u from a really bad dream and couldn't go back to sleep and I feel so lonely and I cant wake up my mom and dad because its just so late at night so thank you for this
Just when I was going a bit away, u draw me back with this healing video.Thank you, Sarah!!
Congrats on getting more sponsors that's awesome! Loved your sleepy vape thing lol(I can't remember the name atm haha) and now the dating site. I just enjoy your ASMR and in general, that always makes me feel less lonely. I tried the whole dating, online thing in the past. Unfortunately it always winded up being a waste of time and money sadly that and I'm pretty sure i'm ugly but that's ok. I've learned to embrace the loneliness. ASMR likes yours and other hobbies help distract me. Thanks for the video Sarah, always appreciate it. 😃Thanks for the positivity! That definitely helps, Happy Halloween!🎃🎃
😌 oh this is incredibly relaxing and the lighting is so cool
This is actually helpful I’m glad I found this channel
Truly, thank you so much for this! Really needed it. Keep up the amazing content, and I wish ya all the best!
I can't describe how much the video touched me, I sincerely felt every word you said, thank you Sarah... seriously ♥♥
I found this very helpful and calming.thank you Sarah. ✌️❤️🌞🙏
thank you so much lavender! this was very needed. best wishes and don't forget to take care of yourself! 💜
Yes, the camera also has feelings and needs a good hug every now and again.
yes you are right you are absolutely right more than 100 percent ou yes yop with love and everything else too perfect open mind to reply 😙 😚😗😘😍🥰😌😉❤
You are a beautiful soul. It blows my mind that there are kind people as yourself out there. Makes me want to tear up seeing that
This is just the video I need. Thank you!
You know I often like to think you ASMRtists are the kindest and most peaceful people on Earth. What would you honestly do if someone came up to IRL looking for help getting a date. Would you help them? Would you have sympathy? And would you suggest that everyone have somebody or do you think some people are better off being alone?
"It's okay to cry when you need to, the clouds do"
Sarah Lavender ASMR - thank you so much 🙏
Thank you a lot!❤️ You really made me feel more safe!!❤️🦋
I Need This 😫😫
Thank Youu You Really Know What I Need Thank You 💕💚💚
I fell asleep within 39 seconds of this video. MWAH!❤️
Awwww thanks so much sarah❤️
2:52 true
As a 32 year old virgin i can say physikal pain is sometimes a distraction from lonyness, to suffer less.
This was the first video I watched on the night of breaking up with my ex partner. Stumbled upon this one again tonight and you have no idea what a big part of my everyday routine you have become, Sarah. I feel grateful to be able to listen to your asmr every night. Thanks🌸
this really helped me. thank you
Thank you for this video. Much appreciated!
Thanks for the support toots. It’s pretty hard not to feel lonely when everyone acts like you’re dead ya know?
needed this ❤️
I never had so many tingles at once and in one video I am amazed
Greetings and Namaste Sarah, thank you for doing guiding the collective with this video on dealing with loneliness , It as helped me out so much today, So grateful to have come across it!! i was feeling a little down earlier, but I am feeling much better, thank you!! 🙂
Thank you for the video. It helped a lot.
Thank you for this I neeed this .
for me, loneliness is a craving for affection. this usually happens late at night or early morning. it’s when i crave for a partner or even a friend’s love.
Great voice for this, very relaxing to listen to.
You will never know the comfort that you have brought. It's more than you could imagine. Your words are Like God himself
❤❤❤ Love this 🥰🥰🥰 You're amazing, Sarah
Beautiful and soothing video ✨🙏✨
you helped me sooo much, thank you!
i needed this thank you
I just came across this, it is incredible
So asmr for every day
Thanks for this 😿❤️
I started this video RIDDLED with anxiety.
By the end= COMPLETE & UTTER PEACE🤍
When she hugged.. I paused.. So that i could get a longer hug😢
*Sees the title*
Cool! I can watch this all the time!
You're awesome Sarah. 💖😄
Asmr works best with wired headphones. The 3d surround effect is spot on too
Thank you so much!💜
Alright I moved to Tennessee a few months ago and just now started to get lonely (because of not being around my friends, not having anyone to spend time with, etc.) literally within the last day or so, this was uploaded at the perfect time! Thank you Sarah!💜
Why would you choose to move here lol?
@@davis3052 I got offered a job and decided to take it
Moved to Knoxville on January! It's not that bad but it is difficult to make new friends if your job doesn't have people your age
I'm insomniac and i feel very lonely and sad 😖 thank you for the video ❤
Sometimes I feel guilty for feeling lonely, like it means that I don’t value my own presence. I do tho- in fact I like being alone a lot of the time, but sometimes I wish I had someone to have around and share experiences with.
spending my halloween in the hospital while my friends have fun at a party. thanks for keeping me company
Fun fact: lonely means that you are around people but you don’t have a connection with them but alone means that your somewhere without people :)
Thank you, everything was great. Dating site sponsor goes well with this video lol. I played my guitar, I played a song I wrote, watched Batman Beyond a cartoon from late ninties early 2000's. I watched Jumanji the next level, played two video games. The second game I listened to a playlist I made. I haven't really had a local friend in a vary long time not sense my child hood friend, the last time I saw him was in 2003 but I do write him on messager(Facebook). I had people I talked too and people who liked me at the end of High School but not really a official friend or friends. Social Media has helped but not helped at the same time.
Gracias! 💙
Thank you, ur a good person, plz can you make more videos for sad and loneliness people ❤️💞
thank you for this, I know I just found this today, but I needed this. I have been alone for the longest time and I frankly can’t handle it. In a way, you are saving my life. ❤
Thanks, I appreciate ya! ✌️
Hey ;)
You read my mind
Hahahaha
Feeling so much better now.
Hope you are great!!
Doesn’t matter the trigger(s) Sarah is always amazing 🙌🏿
i feel like i comment on a lot of ur videos which is slightly embarrassing lol 😭😭but u rly have a video for everything and i appreciate u so much thank u for everything u do 💕
Literally started crying in the preview.... Loneliness, am I right?
Thank you
honestly I've been pretty lonely because my mom and parents all had to work and had no time for me and i just hid in my covers and cried all day when i was at home, and that led me to a deep depression :(((
I love this girl
Isnt it so painful to be in a room full of people, but feel absolutely alone