The Number 1 Reason Men Are so Weak Today
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I asked a single mom who was looking for a husband, "Would you marry a gambler?" She replies quickly "No".
A: Then you cannot marry in the USA. Family court in the USA places men's risk in the gambler category.
It is not about fear. It is not about lack of courage or responsibility. It is about NOT BEING STUPID.
Gambler? The statistic that counts says that from each 100 people married 10 years ago more than 99 are now divorced.
Divorce follows marriage as the night follows the day, marriage is a crime with a delayed sentence.
20 years of slave labor plus eventual torture ( jail time to male sure you submit ), the plunder of your assets , the lost your home and separación from your children.
Thats how the femifascist matriarchy works.
Well said !!
Nailed it
Why would you be speaking to a single mom anyway 😆
We were bullied on a daily basis growing up. We tried to come up with the best insults.
It's common men weak because of bullying.
Joel don’t be so gay!
That's what happens when you throw a bunch of hormonal young men into a box for eight hours and expect them all to get along. And with all the defunding happening to sports, soon there will be no outlet for men to express themselves. Expect trouble.
I was bullied by two guys in 3rd grade. They held me up against the wall at recess. They were one year older. One was black. I never thought it was racist. In hindsight, those guys toughened me up.
We fought back
Bullying has been eliminated along with standing up for yourself. We’ve been wussified.
I would sometimes curse out my bullies to stand up for myself. Of course, I'm a woman. My friend, a man, did the same to his bully. He spoke up and said, well, I can't say what he said here. But he stood up to his bully.
Standing up for oneself starts with saying pussified instead of wussified.
He's right about standing out - the vast majority of men are lazy and fat, just do the little work to not be fat, it's the easiest work/payoff exchange.
Now only men are lazy and there are also fat women that are lazy and fat too.
it helps but its not that easy, its not only "be fit", on top of that, its also have good game and good style
@@pete531 Well it is the bare minimum to even get to the point where you can start practicing said game is the thing. You aren't going to be approaching women as a man who is 50+ pounds overweight and expect to be given much of a shot to even say much.
Also, style for guys is easy. A fit guy can just wear jeans and a basic t shirt and still attract women. Problem is, you have a bunch of guys who are out of shape trying to wear basic t shirts and either the shirt is larger than their gut as to hide it, or the shirt isn't too big, and now the gut is clearly defined.
@@someone-ji2zb see thats where you are wrong, you have to research style and work on it. for example lets say you and i both look equally fit. you wear plain black t shirt and jeans and i wear black casual shirt with collar and floral patterns, chino pants and dark leather shoes, and a nice fragrance... it makes the world of difference
Never been fat just had one relationship, I'm 32
Confidence isn’t a magic pill. Find out what it takes to make YOU feel confident, and be that!
No shit, sherlock. Confidence is not an actionable step. It is the byproduct of competence and good performance.
A lack of education and male role models.
Ong joining the high school wrestling team and having my coach as a strong male role model helped me more with life than school or therapy ever could have.
Right
Need more male teachers
Im so happy for my son now that i completely unplugged myself… hes 7 and already they need to know about the BS they’re being fed in schools, not in my house
“True Masculinity is Empowering The Weak”💯
True masculinity protects the weak, it doesn't empower it. Empowering the weak diminishes masculinity!
What women don't understand is only a man can raise a boy to be a Man..
Baaam
Empowering the weak. Build up the weak so they are strong
Bullying is good? No, not at all.
I am glad I never lost focus working on myself. I am completing my PhD, earning and exploring new opportunities, fit and pushing despite the odds in Africa. Thanks Rich.
I admire your continued growth. Good men, always improving is where it at, my friend. Stay sharp.
for me it's easy to be fit and muscular if you practice fasting; stay away from all sugar (including alcohol) and lift 3-4x's a week less than 30 minutes in the gym. You don't have to do a bunch of crazy stuff but you do need to be consistent. It's easy but most people won't do it.
Sounds dull
Guy above is an addict. Like most. Sugar is wild
Discipline is definitely key.
It's extremely difficult as a natural ectomorph to be muscular. You can still be fit and strong, it just isn't visible.
@@nelsonhibbert5267 sounds like me.
I grew up in the late 60s and early 70s. If I told you what we did as 7 year olds after school, you would think we were grown-nas men 😆
*That’s right. We did cool shit.*
Abuse? Ruin kids life? Have no soul morals or heart? Molest? Etc.
Amen from a guy who turns 70 in one month.
Facts, Rich, women inserting themselves into the "men" discussions and trying to tell them how to be a man ect, and gaining instant success also annoys me because these same guys that complain still go to these chick's channel and simp and praise these girls for just regurgitating what many other men have been preaching for ages. Good on them I guess for bringing more light to others on the situation, but they're just in it for the dollars because they know they're like a unicorn in the so called Manosphere.
All I tell young man is never get married because I'm 60 years old and going through divorce court and even worse family court is worse than a family member dying...
How many of the redpill guys who bitch about single mothers are actually in a traditional family themselves? Raising/supporting a family is actual hard work, complaining on the internet is easy.
They aren’t, because they recognize the nightmare of the single mother.
@@visionforetold4568 Spot on.
Being a single parent makes it worse
I personally am single and living solo. However, my setup doesn’t parallel that of a single mother, cause while definitely single, I’m no one’s father. l could have many options in single mothers, and want none of them lol
Yeah I was just talking about this with my bro. We grew up in Brooklyn in the 90’s …today is total wussified la la f’n land. Sad! We living in Cyprus for 2 months tearing thru the streets and perilous mountains on atv’s offroading , rockclimbing , cliff and scuba diving. Greek strong😂
I got bullied as a kid and when I told my father he told me to get back out there and fight him and not to come back home until I do. I was raised by my father to deal with the hardships of the real world. I kept fighting over the years until nobody thought it was worth it to fuck me anymore. They don't make them like they used to.
Yeah that can actually make people go insane. I dont know wtf you're trying to promote...
@@TheMegaGamingWizard A bunch of dorks think being like Judd Nelson in The Brekafast Club is being a strong man lol
@@user-yw9ys3dz7x hey man i love john bender you take that back! Lol
@@TheMegaGamingWizard Im not promoting anything. We just did it different in the 80's. We had an approach that was less sensitive and you were grateful for it later when times got tough as they inevitably do.
@@HeavyMental1000 eh...this old mindset really doesnt help shit. It just makes life harder. But humans seem to love working harder way...oh well
Make men... Men again 👊💯
Republicans are raising beta males at an alarming rate. Alphas fight with their brains and fists, Betas use guns!
We are in to deep now, unfortunately.
What Rich said about “vanilla” is exactly what hip hop and EDM did to music. There are no Eddie Van Halen or Prince inspired musicians anymore. It’s all dumbed down “art” forms that have destroyed exceptionalism to the point where society thinks mediocre to zero talent is great and when society sees Eddie Van Halen from 35 years ago, society is completely blown away.
Music today seems very homogenized to me. With the rise of computers and sampling one can make "music" without having to actually play an instrument. I think this is a significant contributing factor to the mediocrity of which you speak. To be original one must first immerse oneself in the study of some kind of musical instrument, whether guitar, piano, saxophone, etc. That's how you build an understanding of music.
@@DavidGarcia-kw4sf spot on! However, there is still good music out there, just not that mainstream garbage.
@@kdd3051 Agreed. 😎 (have you checked out "That Pedal Show" on TH-cam? Very fun and entertaining.)
@@DavidGarcia-kw4sf no I haven't but I will now. Thanks!
Yes there are. Metal guitar is alive and well I assure you 👍🎸
Dude….spot on with everything that you said.
I’m one of the rare ones at 59 ..fit , tall, handsome, blah blah blah…all the rest. Still killing it though all these years because I’m cool and confident. Not bragging, just giving the young week dudes some encouragement that it’s not too late for you. Listen to rich. The dude is spot on.
"Not bragging"
@@pineappleflow2876 LOL....not bragging , just zero self awareness.
I think bullying is worse today than it was 20plus years ago. Mostly because everyone was scared of the teachers (usually male) and the bullies kept each other in check. Also the online bullying is waaay worse especially with girls.
Yup.... back in the day if you wanted to bully someone you had to say it to their face...now you can just hide behind a screen
The only thing about bullying is it turned me into extremely aggressive person. I've trained mixed martial arts since childhood so it made me dangerous and I've probably spent half a million defending myself from assaults and paying restitution. I don't even get angry, something in my mind makes me think if I don't make and example of this person it will happen again.
Don’t get shot
Restitution?
I understand that if you are being tested you have to respond but does it always have to end with an assault charge ?
and why is this happening
@Fatelvis2 you underestimate how much men test other men or try to play others. It's probably a fullntime job not to punch some jackass for him. He might also come from a city of guys that like to test people (new york, jersey, Philly, LA. In contrast a country like Canada is the opposite to the point that its been memed for having kind people. Ex: keep it canadian)
@@Fatelvis2 sounds like because he has an attitude, a chip, and runs into trouble instead of just chillin' and avoiding it. Mental issues.
I'd argue bullying has just transferred from the schoolyard to social media. If you can't get 2,000 friends on Facebook or make the coolest tiktok video, you can be ridiculed in a viral fashion in front of thousands of people vs a few dozen on schoolyard.
Edit: I'd add that while the victims hurt more but overall makes everyone weaker because now you can just hide behind a keyboard anonymously and not face the consequences of picking on someone bigger than you.
Not only does it make the bullies weaker, but it also makes it harder for the victims to stand up for themselves. Think of all the stories of people getting bullied for years then one day they decided to bring the fight to the bully and from that moment on they werent constantly bullied. Theres no equivalent to that in the social media realm.
um, let the girls bully each other on social media. Guys, don't you have something better to do with your time? It's not wrong to check in on social media to see what's up, what's going on. Basically, it's like checking in on the weather. After that, get on with doing stuff that matters.
@@callanc3925 Learning a fighting skill was learned growing up because I would fight with everyone and everyone knew it. It was fun!!
And bothering people for not being PC
@@rayr2752 great post.
Social media should be used as a technology tool and not daily psychological therapy .
How can someone claim they're being BULLYED ONLINE?
“Bullying use to keep kids in line. Anything outside of the conservative norm would get you bullied.” Then in the same breath he says. “The schools want all the kids to be the same. That is the problem.” 😂😂😂
Yes I noticed that too Rich contradicts himself in the same sentence.
Makes sense to me. Bullies bullied those who were really strange or quiet and different. But this allowed bullies to exist... Now you can't be a bully and you must confirm to the school instead of the peers in your class.
Calling for "traditional values" the same values that would put this black guy back in cotton fields. I think modern people are confused AF.
@@nothingness4884 You seem to be confused. Traditional values have nothing to do with democrat policies in the 1800s.
@@Kinosis79 Bro you are either progressive, or reactionary (a.k.a traditional/conservative), no 3rd option.
Perfect example of these incels simping on a woman's channel. Read comments on Courtney Ryan.
Agreed
I'm 47 5 feet 8 75 kg bench 100kg can run 5k in 18 32 mins train 6 days a week with the same woman 20 years with 5 daughters never cared about my height I like live in Belfast ever took a jab never listened to governments ever. Don't have much only but work and keep trying to make big money. Point is I don't care what people think.
I took off on the ice like Rich says, during recess in the 3rd grade and fell forward, gashed my eyebrow and had to go to get it stitched up. I was the talk of the class for the next couple of days and to this day I have a scar on my eyebrow and girls over the years asked me how I got it. Glad I’m not a kid now. Experiences gents, that’s what life’s about.
Chicks dig scars.
-- Keanu Reeves, "The Replacements"
We went from He-Man, Voltron, and Thundercats cartoons, now kids have Amazing World of Gumball, Teen Titans Go and Big City Greens...weak!!!
Don't forget GI Joe!
i was bullied in school and it is fine
my bullies are now useless wankers that play call of duty, drinking 2-3L of beer everyday, still bullying schoolboys, good for them
the worst part i was bullied by my mother, who thinks im a 100% copy of my absent father and is projecting his every bad move on me
every contact with her is a risk of getting a mild 2-3 hour depression, cuz all she does is putting people down
My mother was the same kind of woman .... And she really hated my absend father to the core ....!!!!! And she saw me as a copy of him !
I have had people comment that maybe part of why my mother treats me like she does is because I look like my father
my coworker would go to visit his mother as soon as she started being negative irrational etc he would get up and say mom I love you and leave
Getting women is 100% more difficult today than it was even 5 years ago. The competition compared to 20 years ago is significantly greater. I’m a nationally recognized artist, a swimming champion, led a team to back to back championships and a top 100 IL state ranking with a 1/10th a team size as the average, graduated high honors with zero debt, im wealthier than 85% of people my age, I’m 6 4, amazing head of hair, chiseled jaw and high cheek bones, I’m charismatic, i work out harder and looked than 90% of people my age and below, and I promise you it’s more difficult. I didn’t even have to try 5 years ago. Women paid for my food, that’s when I went on dates which was rare. I’d smash on vacation within 10 mins of meeting a chick.
It’s not the same, not even remotely close. Do I have room for improvement. Yes I need to
Become a multimillionaire before I actually allow myself to really date again. But don’t take these dudes word for it lmao. The DL guy looks like a middle school assistant principle and rich is rich because of his father and what he provided to him in a middle class upbringing. Without that he’d be out of touch, which he mostly is. “Men are weak today.” Goes on to talk about elementary school…the dude in my school who rode dirtbikes and bred snakes and said fuck you to authority growing up is now dead from Drug induced suicide.
Men are not weak these days, they’re in a globalized world that’s extremely competitive and 2x the population it was in 1970. If there are 2x the number of people trying out for the ball team, guess what happens to your odds?
Yeah, I can tell you're absolute bs about everything you said you are. You're not any of that. Imagination doesn't count.
The evidence being everything that type of dude would have would make him easily attractive to women. There would never be a struggle. You're some fat dude in his basement just whining.
When the Chad's can't get laid it should tell you something
6 feet 6 pack 6 figures and you're having trouble getting women? Are you saying you can't find the woman you want (a good woman) or you are having trouble getting women period?
How old are you now ??
I'm 52 and retired.
I was texting back and forth with my ex-wife last night and we still do the debates about every subject and I said, "A man should never make a woman his focus. A woman should only be a byproduct of a man's success." Her reply was the emoji, "😮". Then it ended where she thanked me for hearing her out.
Waste of time
Hope you can move on and you aren't wrecked
Republicans are raising beta males at an alarming rate. Alphas fight with their brains and fists, Betas use guns!
thanks for telling him the hard truth
I grew up in a single family home with my mom, and Rich is absolutely correct. Was brainwashed to thinking the father was horrible and everything he did was wrong and that woman are superior to men in all phases.
R-word: (r)etard?
We used to call each other that, a lot, back in grade school.
Notice he didn't say it.
The solution to the human problem is NOT within yourself.
"Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest." (Matthew 11:28)
Man is a sinner, and sinners need the redeeming grace of God. ALL the problems with yourself and with others are caused by SIN. Sin is what sinners do. In order to not sin, you MUST be changed from a sinner to a saint.
This happens through Jesus Christ, who died on the cross and resurrected three days later, and promises that "Whoever believes in me and Him who sent me HAS eternal life. He does NOT come into judgement, but has passed from death to life." (John 5:24) Then, once you are born again into the family of God and are a child of the Most High, you will receive the Holy Spirit. HE will produce in you "love, joy, peace, patience, gentleness, goodness, faithfulness, and self control." (Galatians 5:22-23)
Pursue the Lord, your Maker, and HIS Kingdom and righteousness. Jesus promises that everything else, which this internet guru promises you, WILL be given to you from the Father (Matthew 6:33).
If you will not repent and follow Jesus in all He says, the Bible says there is NO peace for the wicked, and ONLY the judgement of Hell remains.
Amen
I’m normally all aboard. However, there’s a couple of issues.
1. Supporting bullying of children is garbage. They can still play sports and experience healthy competition and controlled violence.
2. Crossover SUVs are like they are, because morons love to buy them. People quit buying the cars you so fondly miss.
I was listening with an open mind until you suggested that it's perfectly fine for a kid to call a classmate the r-word. Some children have learning disabilities including autism. Would it be ok to call a kid in a wheelchair a cripple or a black child the n-word? Aktion T4 was based on this kind of prejudice against disabled people. smh
Except when you start talking about the 6 sixes, you're talking about 0.1% of men. Most of the guys that watch your show haven't a chance in hell at ever getting there. They have a better chance of winning the lottery.
look,
- you can max game, frame and mentality, thats free (books, videos etc).
- you can max style, that costs but its not impossible, you dont need to buy rolex watch, just nice shirts, shoes, nice fragrance and basically look like a man.
-being fit is also costs but its not impossible. if fat get fit, if skinny bulk up, 6 months to a year in gym and you can max that area and look well, maybe even strong.
- job and money are the difficult ones. if you cant max this, you can always lie your way.
there... worst case scenario you can max 3/4 which is 75% success rate
You can still get fit. A guy can do that with no equipment. You can learn basic style; the internet exists for that. Learning other skills outside of your job? Instead of gaming for 2+ hours a day, you can go take a class on something.
Even for money... if your goal is to raise a family, then you NEED to be capable of single income supporting a woman and kids. If your income alone cannot do the job, then you weren't ready for marriage to begin with. If it can, then then you are good. A man doesn't need to strive for the upper levels of success, but if you are 30 years old working a register at a fast food joint, then you aren't marriage material if that is your only source of income.
@user-yj8pm4wi5u 6 sixes is the top 10% i.e. your earn $100,000 p/a, so it's not that difficult. You'd have to be earning $10,000,000+ per year to be inn the top 0.1%.
@@gavinkalaher7314 that's only one of the sixes
Uh .. you are either 6' tall, or you aren't - strike 1. You either have a 6-inch plus .. unit, or you don't - strike 2. While one can "build stacks" to buy a 600HP car .. it is NOT a wise financial decision - a vast majority of cars depreciate, and the $ would be better spend on a mortgage / rental property / retirement funding - strike three.
Pine Pollen....all natural T. You're welcome. I'm 47 and I have grey in my beard and yeah it takes work to keep a good look
Now it's tell on the bully, not fight him. You lose the power behind how to develop the character trait of self-preservation.
Face the hard stuff. Do the work.
Don't quiet quit on your life.
I’m 68, power walk 3 mi every day. Hike regularly. 100 pushups per day.
I work in high schools, the bullying is off the charts
you're in Venezuela
In Canada the fucking kids are into GANGSTALKING. Top THAT.
What is R word?
And no bullying isn't a good thing 🙄
Rhymes with kneetard.
You must be young.
@@Danimal77 - you could have just answered the question. Wisdom doesnt come with age I guess
My bad better self flagellate
Very interesting video. Thanks for sharing Rich ... it's appreciated.
Those Idahoe murders, two of the victim girls called an ex boyfriend 20-something times, both phones records show it, and we're in the same room during the convert murders, the girls were with each other if you know what I mean.
I got a new Miata 6 speed manual (only 181 hp) as a weekend toy n totally happy with it. Don't need a super car that unless you track it u ever will get most out of it.
That's because for a wimpy little 'chick car' the Miata's performance is outstanding. Ignore everything important and just look at acceleration: It's just about on-par with the second gen RX-7 Turbo which was Mazda's very expensive flagship vehicle from about 1986 to 1991! It's also rear-wheel drive which puts it leaps and bounds ahead of so many other cars even if it only really matters when starting from a standstill.
Unfortunately they're awful damned expensive for a little shoebox on wheels.
Some of rhe closest, most competitive racing you will.see is the all-Miata classes.
Go to a driver's school and a few track days. Learn to carry speed through corners. The Miata is a far better car than most folks realize!
3:25 I've been saying the same thing about the white SUV looking vehicles for about 5 years now. They're everywhere. Tf is going on..
Women are now half of the workforce. They are also responsible for 2/3 of student loan debt, and account for around 80% of consumer purchases. The majority of the vehicle market is now made for women. Look at the car commercials nowadays, all are woman-centric.
The biggest complaint is not that sex is unobtainable, it's that relationships with quality women are largely unobtainable because those women exist in incredibly small numbers. This complaint though comes from wanting the world to be something that it isn't instead of accepting it for what it is.
Mentioning cars today is why I love rat rods.
Encouraging! From the perspective of chances and constructionism instead of defeatism.
I loved this conversation 🙏🏽 fab!! Learning so much from this channel 🌸
Dealing with reality is a real eye opener. Admire your willingness to learn and open mindedness. Blessings.
Thank you so much 😊 I try to seek truth in all areas as much as I can. Thank you so much, your support is very kind @doctorart phd ✨x
Another excellent vid from Rich, states point and defends it well
Republicans are raising beta males at an alarming rate. Alphas fight with their brains and fists, Betas use guns!
Totally agree on cars. It's not just SUV's either - this has been going on for about a decade now, everything from about 2014 onwards in the small to medium sized family car market has been styled on the Prius. Generic and emasculated.
The nice part about my old Facebook page ? I only put on my page key words that would trigger past people's harm. So if any of them looked at my page ( snooping into the glass house . They would get to see the key words that would make them dream bigger . I also know thst others have looked it up as well. And when they talk about it ? It goes back to them. Not me . Amazing that yoga pants and ABC's and coo coo for cocoa puffs is my gift to them. And cartoons . Lots of them. So cute . Any one living in a glass house is very odd.
I don't know if they're doing this in the USA now but here in the UK they still hold school sports days but there are no winners and losers anymore. Every kid gets a trophy for competing. When I was at school the objective was to win. I often hear it said now in many areas of life - there's no need to compete with others. Yes there is. If you operate in your field of endeavour, the aim is to be the best at what you do.
Growing up I never saw fat people. The few boys who were a bit heavier than 'trim', tended to get the nickname 'Tub'.
Pretty much everyone played sport, boys and girls. Rugby Union, Tennis, Track and Field, Softball, Cross Country, Netball, Soccer, and for most this carried over post school. All and more were standard at school, right through. And outside school, we made tree houses, bows and arrows, slingshots.
I wanted a pushbike when I was 7. So I hitchhiked to a golf club on weekends and caddied and saved enough money to buy a second hand bike.
I had jobs right through my school years, the caddying, paper runs, fruit picking, shovelling coal, sawing up sleepers on a V8 saw bench.
I've never been to a gym in my life. Almost all my jobs have been physical jobs and have been outdoors and I still work in such a job.
Of course employment has changed so much over my lifetime, along with everything else.
Most guys in the place and society I grew up in had physical jobs. Automation and computers have changed the work men do considerably, so a lot of men now sit in an office and work keyboards/look at screens. So I can of course see the need for gyms. Humans are designed to move, to be physical.
Exercising for me though has to have a productive activity to go with it, I must produce something other than just fitness, anything else would bore me. And I only feel 'free' working outdoors.
I've never really thought about a scientific programme of exercise or diet. My body soon tells me if something's not good for me.
One of the best things I ever did for mental and physical fitness was giving up alcohol, several decades ago. I used to like drinking at parties, but I found that not drinking is so much more fun. It's a question of state of mind and I didn't really know about how good that was until I quit. Along with unprocessed food, mainly fresh fish, fruit, and vegetables and low sugar cereal, and lots of good water, I have plenty of energy and no big ailments and my libido is pretty much the same as when I was 'young'.
The worst injury I ever had was when I came off a dirt bike. No sports medicine when this happened. I had a chronic shoulder injury. Finally acupuncture and exercise, both at work and in sports, cleared up a pretty difficult, long term, injury. There is usually a way if you stick at it.
I don't though take my health for granted.
One of the activities I like to do is wandering around with a pack. For my last big trip I saved up enough money to do a 3 month trek/hitchhiking trip carrying a 23kg pack. Everything I needed I carried. I slept in a small tent. I had freedom and autonomy.
One of my friends walked from the Mexican border through the U.S. to almost Canada (deep snow prevented the last little bit). Another one of my friends rode a horse from California to Virginia.
There's a way to do pretty much what you want to do, regardless of income. I do a whole lot more stuff, than what I've written about here. All I'd say is if you are strongly interested in doing something, give it a go.
Loved the part you talked about guys simping to these girls coming to these so called shows.
We had gender neutral bathrooms here in the 90s man. But it was called "bathroom". And everybody could use it. There was no discrimination 😂🤦♂️
Business and public places have separate cans so freakshow guys don't rape the women in the dunny stalls. Seems reasonable to me.
1:27 yeah and in some schools they have kitty litter boxes in the bathrooms
I don't think it's that easy as this. I'm a SWE, fit muscled and slightly above average but in the past women would approach and get curious about me now they don't. It's exchanging glances which goes nowhere.
There is definitely a looks inflation going on.
It has just taken more and more to get the similar results.
I'm 32.
A first step will be going to the gym..
Crazy thing is, you don't even need gym. You can get very fit off of at home calisthenics with minimal to no equipment (basically a pull up bar at least).
I always find it funny how people always make excuses about not being able to leave home, yet at home is where I gained 20 pounds of muscle after having lost 70 pounds of fat.
Great Talk! That dude had great questions
I know several middle aged men that had a father in the home and they are still weak
I raised my nephews as a single parent and they were raised to be strong
They had male mentors
Our society caters to 'victims' and creates weak people
Guys exercise but don't fight, it makes you dumber unless you just punch the punching bag
What Rich mentioned about bullying at 1:38 was interesting but too much bullying at an older age like in high school can lead young men to commit atrocities like Columbine, Stoneman Douglas, and Uvalde. Bullying should be stopped because the consequences can be deadly if not dealt with appropriately.
@@happydogg312 That's not true. Eric and Dylan were both bullied by jocks at the high school. There's actual video of Eric walking through the halls of Columbine and he encounters a group of jocks that run into him. They also targeted jocks when they shot up the school. To say otherwise is not the truth. Sure, Eric was a psycho and Dylan was manipulated by his deranged personality but there's more to the story than him being crazy. What drove them both crazy was being bullied and marginalized by others at the school.
@@happydogg312 I’ve watched documentaries with Brooks Brown giving his story and Dylan’s mother telling her story about Dylan from childhood to teenage years but I haven’t read any books on the shooting before. Interestingly Eric’s parents never gave any interviews.
@@happydogg312 Okay I will take a look at it
Agreed
I don't think the Columbine shootings were because of bullying though, they were because of psychopathy. Un-killed psychopaths should not be in schools (or anywhere else.)
The issue with bullying is that it can really damage some people mentally, and others like myself it motivates them to be better and fight back. Those odds are still better then just making all the men weaker. Stay Focused!
Now you are just loosely dividing bullied people in two groups, it's never that simple
@@pineappleflow2876 explain..
@@focusedallday5620 You can look up complex trauma to get a good idea on how bullying can affect people, sometimes the "strong" people just aren't feeling their own trauma yet. Also a persons upbringing and support system plays a role here.
I'm 54 and I'm the biggest that I have ever been and easily get women. Not a problem at all. The only thing that I can attribute that to is. Im successful, but I also don't give an eff what anyone thinks. Im back in the gym and eating clean so the weight is coming off , because it's not healthy to remain fat. One other thing is that I love my solitude, so I don't have have a woman around to feel good. Being with a woman is bonus . I can be happy with or without a woman.
Your 54. Are you "easily" able to "get" women that are young and attractive? Otherwise take your braggadocio out the back door with you and don't let that sucker hit you in the ass on the way out!
So true but this is western culture Gender neutral restrooms I went into a bathroom in San Francisco me and my buddy he freaked out he lives overseas and he ask me why are tampons in a men’s bathroom. I told him we’re in America bro woke culture.
It’s actually quite interesting to listen to what shallow, superficial people have to say about life.
Yeah sure, this guy is so successful that he is here literally selling snake oil "alpha pump, paleo protein" to clueless guys...
Just another social media 'influencer' with something to sell
A wiseman once told me that "nature is a beautiful bully". Think about it.....
I was both a bully and bullied as a kid - definitely made me much stronger.
Then you were not bullied hard enough
Same. It's a sad cycle where bullying someone else makes you feel better about being bullied. As in "People may pick on me, but at least there are others I can bully so I'm not at the very bottom of the food chain."
Keep Up the Good Work.
SNATCH (2000; British-American crime comedy. Director - Guy Ritchie) is probably hands down, the best movie I have ever seen Brad Pitt in. There is no "main character(s)", Pitt playing a strong supporting role, as does Jason Stratham. Highly recommended.
what does that have to do with this video?
Lots of great info here.
I got myself fat and started losing my hair, so I shaved it off!
I’ve been training for 2 years, now I look like Bain.
It’s awesome.
The wisest thing I ever heard was ‘ drop your personal story’
Your a woman if you have a personal story.
the only thing your look is missing is some ankle bracelets
Drop your personal story, wtf does that even mean ? , become a robot ? .
@@allseeingotto2912 andrew balanced on egg yolk on his dick yo, he tried getting that thing pregnant
So, denial is the key to a better life?
Men are crazy weak just look at the past week with that Demar guy who plays for Buffalo which I’m glad he’s ok and improving but it is PROFESSIONAL FOOTBALL,these guys are supposedly todays gladiators,not hardly they got so emotional they refused to finish the game,players walking around with tears streaming down their faces and then the following week all the bs with the training staff having a moment to be recognized FOR DOING THEIR DAMN JOB,all the heart signs from players and the people in the stands,and players wearing number 3 gear and love for Demar on the sideline of a NFL game,WTF!?! The pussification of society and what use to be a man’s sport was on full display,the NFL is a joke and nothing but a social platform pos
Wearing another man’s name on your back has to be the most submissive thing a man can do. The softness in sports did not start with having compassion for a downed player on the field.
Rich, thank you for your valuable tips!
is there a way to filter out "women talk"? i really like listening to you, but i'm done with spending time on "women this women that, that's why women, how to deal with women" videos
listening to stuff about women is still focusing on them, imo
I'm 30 back when I was 12 living in belgium me and my friends smoked joints in public parks like it was nothing.
Speaking truth. I’m a simp. Ive been a simp my whole life 37 now. I just had sex once at 29 but I haven’t had sex ever since. I’m frustrated angry insane. I’m 5’7 and ugly. It sucks. I want to do better
Here's what you do: Date women and tell them up front you don't want to have a swxual relationship. And then keep your word. You can hold hands and hug and that's it. TRUST ME! In thirty years you will thank me. TRUST ME! You will find yourself dating women "way out" of your league also, and dating more often!
Don’t be so hard on yourself, in reality you’ve spared yourself a ton of misery and fattened your bank account.
Push forward, hit the gym, find a style (fashion), and become good at something. Your confidence will grow and women will come. When they do, understand this, less is more, keep your mouth shut and let her do the work. Good luck Brother.
This has been going on for decades. I used to get yelled at by recess Duties for walking on the grass. Like Jesus Christ what is a kid supposed to do?
Thank you Rich !
That was an akward ending 😂
“Somebody somewhere is sick of that “
Haha, the SUV comments. I said the exact same thing to my wife a year ago. They all look the friggin same! I could give a shit if its a Lexus or a KIA. Incidentally, I drive a 23 Corvette. She complained about how much I spent on it. I told her, "Dont worry, you wont be driving it!"
Good learning.
Why are they calling it MANO-SWAMP? Someone explain please. Thank you in advance. Keep moving forward gentlemen. ✊🙏🔥💯👑
Ive noticed a weird shift in society (at least for me). Sex is so easy for me to get that I dont want it anymore. I have no desire for hookups. I want a real loving relationship...it is so hard to find that I desire it fully. Women truly destroyed society by handing it out so freely and easily
Any advice you can give to a young buck?
@@_mr_cat To get laid? Number 1 is have your own place. Women love it, especially younger ones. This means get a good job and make decent money. 2) make sure your house is CLEAN and your bed has fresh sheets. A clean house turns women on. 3) dress nice/clean and hit the gym. 4) learn how to banter with women. They like when you pick on them in a flirty way.
@@Heritagepostfarms thank you, very informative!
@@_mr_cat Good luck brother. Always strive to be a better person and realize that casual sex isnt all its cracked up to be.
@@Heritagepostfarms Absolutely, take care bro!
Answer: excessive liberalism
I looked up why are people so weak nowadays and bam here y'all are speaking real shit that I need to hear! Thanks men
in the mid 90s kids started having to wear helmets to ride a bike.this was the start of creating adult men being simps and girls become narcist.
Super cars are no way near the same as the 80s 90s and early 2000 models. Most prominently they swapped the clutch for some 7-10 speed garbage auto transmission w/ paddle shifter
As a lady, i agree everything that you say!
I knew shit was getting weird when dudes were getting needy with other dudes , it almost comes off kinda gay
Certain types of "Bullying" in some ways was healthy cultural peer pressure.
When it comes to certain words that are banned, its not due to anything positive in general.
It is a form of control through censorship, a death by a thousand cuts to the first amendment.
There needs to be strong push back on people that encourage this cancel culture movement, the movement itself is unacceptable.
I agree with everything apart from one thing. I do not find it easy at all to get women. In fact I find it extremely difficult. So much so, that I don't even bother to try anymore. I focus all my time and energy on the gym and making money.
“You’s a garden tool”… -Luda
"Gammas aren't stupid, Gammas aren't Bright, Gammas are just right." - Brave New World
All ladies really want is a guy who wants to be our friend who can take charge of situations well
When a boy grows up with spiteful Mother and everything is about her and she complains no one wants to touch single Mothers!
Single moms are fine if you don't mind. Men who have to work for a living have *every* reason to mind. It's mostly the kids I feel sorry for, they're nothing more than fashion statements.
Man im 30 I remember back in my day in middle school everyone in my class, all the boys had nicknames and all some harsh ones too, and all boys got bullied just a way of saying I got your back bro if I talk s*** to you…now a days kids get in trouble if you dont call a classmate by their names smh or just tease classmates with light bullying… soft generation tbh… looking back im glad I got bullied during middle school and some of my hs years 😅
Im glad everyone’s a loser because that just makes it easier to be a winner lmao
Ya, those SUVs look like teletabies