Safe inside yourself: Cynthia Loy Darst at TEDxOlympicBlvdWomen

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  • @RQPeterson
    @RQPeterson 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "The 2% wants me to be well, and wants me to be well in relationship..." Such a brilliant truth! Thanks for helping us to heal!

  • @newriley
    @newriley 11 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow! I got sooo much out of this 8 min. What a wonderful way to relate to those inner voices.

  • @daisylua
    @daisylua 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow, one of the most authenticly, lovingly brought TED talks I have ever seen. Thank you!

  • @sandraolper8714
    @sandraolper8714 11 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you Cynthia. Love the idea of feeling safe inside ourselves. In order to do that ,we must be willing to listen to all of our parts or players, as you call them!

    • @cynthialoydarst473
      @cynthialoydarst473 11 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, Sandra. It's rarely an easy thing to do!

  • @SignyWilson
    @SignyWilson 11 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Cynthia, what a powerful message that we, in this culture, all need to hear. It is time to really find the way to honour all of ourselves, so that we can grow even bigger, bolder and better! Thanks for the inspiration.

  • @patricksummar3433
    @patricksummar3433 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love your teaching style Cynthia! Very expressive, engaging, commanding,
    Yes, "right relationship" starts within!

  • @sandyrussell3517
    @sandyrussell3517 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cynthia - Loved it - you were born to speak...thx for reminding us that while driving isn't always safe (especially in LA...) if we pay attention, we can make it safe on the inside!

  • @petradendulk9666
    @petradendulk9666 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well said! Very powerful message to create a real shift within ourselves and in the world!

  • @margedouvillefajardo8202
    @margedouvillefajardo8202 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love how you connected the negative voice within as a BULLY and then the idea of how searching for the 2% truth can help us make sense of it all for ourselves. Brilliant, Cynthia!

  • @ElaineTaylorKlaus
    @ElaineTaylorKlaus 11 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Right on target, my friend -- there is no greater bully than the bully within!

  • @helenchaudhuri3733
    @helenchaudhuri3733 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    watching cynthia - ALWAYS a fun way to learn!

  • @ricktamlynbiggergame
    @ricktamlynbiggergame 11 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Engaging and inspiring! Well done Cynthia! Well done!

  • @TammyHibler
    @TammyHibler 11 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Engaging and alive! You are a model for our profession and do us proud.

  • @godfreynash8564
    @godfreynash8564 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    It was 14 years ago when I first heard you lead one of my coaching courses for CTI. You have been my hero and inspiration in the coaching and professional development world ever since. So wonderful to see you shining here with your own brand of vivacious loving joy, sharing your wisdom with even greater power and love.

  • @MarthaCarnahan
    @MarthaCarnahan 11 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Fantastic talk. I am particularly moved by: "I never meant to become a bully. Did you?" Whew!

  • @crankybeer
    @crankybeer 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love it! Just posted it on Facebook to the public!

    • @cynthialoydarst473
      @cynthialoydarst473 11 ปีที่แล้ว

      ***** Thanks Debby and Linda! I appreciate your support!

  • @TiffanyPRS
    @TiffanyPRS 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    i had the pleasure of being taught by cynthia in a CTI course. she is an inspiration.

  • @bodyenergizers
    @bodyenergizers 11 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love the idea of turning towards and becoming curious with the 2%. Great and inspiring talk

    • @jbmcge
      @jbmcge 11 ปีที่แล้ว

      Enjoyed this Diane.

  • @Mystic4000
    @Mystic4000 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yay, Cynthia! Always wonderful to hear another voice for healing relationship with Self first! So much to say, so little time...well done you Magical Maestro!

  • @leadlikeagirl
    @leadlikeagirl 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love, love, love!!! The 2% truth is so useful for turning adversaries into allies...yes!!!!

  • @leslielupinsky8409
    @leslielupinsky8409 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Congratulations, Cynthia! Hoooooooray for you and what a gift to the world you are. I'm going to share it lots of folks.

    • @cynthialoydarst473
      @cynthialoydarst473 11 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you, Leslie!! Appreciating your love and support!

  • @YourDivorceSurvivalGuide
    @YourDivorceSurvivalGuide 11 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yay Cynthia!!! You are my hero! xoox

  • @Swisskat2
    @Swisskat2 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love calling it the inner bully. Cynthia is an exceptional coach and teacher.

  • @ChristineLecavalier
    @ChristineLecavalier 11 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you Cynthia, love that 2% of truth, and i use it this morning!

  • @TheAmyLiz1
    @TheAmyLiz1 11 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you!! Beautifully said:)

  • @cindyhooker7533
    @cindyhooker7533 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well done. I enjoyed this. You rock, Cynthia!

  • @starcoachshow
    @starcoachshow 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Good stuff! Cynthia has such a gift of creating clarity in the chaos and helping others access some tool to create a positive change. Thank you once again for sharing your wisdom:)

  • @brookeerol
    @brookeerol 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love it Cynthia! I am making friends with my different players and voices in my head instead of resisting them thanks to you!

  • @maym2915
    @maym2915 11 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Great Talk! It will definitly change my way of thinking!

  • @barbarawisnom4099
    @barbarawisnom4099 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cynthia - I am so grateful to you for this work. It shifts how I look at my shadows. It also reinforces the power of curiosity. Hugs & kudos to you, my dear one.

    • @cynthialoydarst473
      @cynthialoydarst473 11 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nice, Barbara! Ah, yes, curiosity in relationship. Always a keeper.

  • @willcorley7765
    @willcorley7765 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is a very powerful message that I think captures what we all need to strive to recognize in ourselves. That voice that truly will bring confidence and more effective in our world

  • @rhonaberens302
    @rhonaberens302 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Brava, Cynthia! Thinking about the 2% truth not only opened a new space for me in relationship to that inner team member/inner critic. Brava!

  • @mdianefoster
    @mdianefoster 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well done Cynthia! A lovely, meaningful talk. Right on! d.

  • @StephenShedletzky
    @StephenShedletzky 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wonderful embodiment with a range of our own emotions and how they effect others in our world, from the inside-out. Peace is from the inside-out.

    • @cynthialoydarst473
      @cynthialoydarst473 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That is so well said, Stephan. Thank you!

    • @StephenShedletzky
      @StephenShedletzky 11 ปีที่แล้ว

      Cynthia Loy Darst Thank you for leading in sharing this important message. Inspire on!

  • @KSangel180
    @KSangel180 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great talk!

  • @williamchristian6368
    @williamchristian6368 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Always an inspiration to me Cynthia, I loved your talk. Thank you.

  • @RichardMRX
    @RichardMRX 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great job! It's really shifting!

  • @muddiebee
    @muddiebee 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Fantastic, Cynthia!

  • @karlteai3699
    @karlteai3699 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great TED TALK !

  • @singingbowls1
    @singingbowls1 11 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you Cynthia, sounds like a safe bet.

  • @WendyWatkinsJoyStrategist
    @WendyWatkinsJoyStrategist 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautifully said Cynthia!

  • @lifeasichoosetoliveitnimra1720
    @lifeasichoosetoliveitnimra1720 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazon speech! thank you for your message

  • @angietatro8328
    @angietatro8328 11 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Concept of "turning toward" is so right on. How often do we turn away from?! Powerful concept. Congrats on making it to TED and representing our amazing field of coaching!!

  • @shekicoach
    @shekicoach 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great Talk Cynthia, love the inner bully, I sure have plenty of access to her. Thanks for help in turning it around for me…. she can be a great ally.

  • @courtneywebster9610
    @courtneywebster9610 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    You ROCK! Love the 2% and YOU. xo

  • @udoug6
    @udoug6 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great talk, Cynthia. (And I appreciate the reminder: next time, I'll leave home earlier. -))

  • @BarbaraWaltonCoach
    @BarbaraWaltonCoach 11 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your can heal your inner bully with love - best way to turn any adversary into an ally!

  • @marilyn1928
    @marilyn1928 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great talk! Thank you!

  • @_benday
    @_benday 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well said. That inner monologue sounds *very* familiar.

  • @TedBehr
    @TedBehr 11 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Cynthia: Wonderful talk. This adds an important piece to the Gremlin work. You rock!

  • @AnaCarolina-vl4cr
    @AnaCarolina-vl4cr 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is awesome! I just realized I have been bullying me my whole life.

  • @daviddarst2641
    @daviddarst2641 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Congrats on 3000 views today, You are my Inspiration Point!

    • @Evega214
      @Evega214 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      13k!!!!!

  • @user-sb2ps3ry8u
    @user-sb2ps3ry8u 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks Cynthia for your talk. I've always appreciated your insights and encouragement.

  • @mric4069
    @mric4069 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is she also able to talk normal or what