The only thing I blame in this situation is the parents because they chose favoritism towards the child because of comparison to other kids who had abilities I always hate that kind of stuff. I always hated how parents always chose favoritism because they think the child will have success and then give them the money. That's not how to become a parent become a parent is that you have to sworn oath to love and equally and fairly no matter if you want a boy or a girl It Matters by love not about competing or who's the smartest or anything
At another story I commented women and children dont make it a secret they miss their workaholic manfolk, so I dont believe he was surprised they left. A guy replied accusing me "But then you'd demand he make a million dollars a year like a real man!" No, I don't fictionalize men as Superman and I also never say "man up". These are terms men invented to put themselves on pedestals that women only borrow. Any job you have other than female athlete or Miss "Pageant" are "real" "man" jobs. 👍
Tell your dad that as long as you're making ends meet, that is a "Real Man's" job. Any job that you got and are taking care of your bills and rent, is a "Real Man's" job. Where I live you see people getting into pissing contests over the same thing. My Grandad told me as long as his family was taken care of, he didn't care where he worked, whether it was working in the mines or bagging groceries at the supermarket. Don't let your dad's words get to you, that says more about his character. Willingness to work and work ethics are what matters. 😊
@@ToxicVex267my dad never got jealous mom was making more then him or he rarely saw her between that old hag of a mother of hers long story short she liked guilting mom and their work schedules it was lucky if they saw each at least one or 2 hours a day she was one of those ppl who take care of elderly ppl in their homes till they passed or ended up in a retirement home I got to meet all but 3-4 don't remember if ever met her first one so might be 5 of them and thought of two of them as adopted great grandmas ones daughter is married to moms cousin and they didn't mind if I stayed nights mom had to work and Dad worked nights brother was hunting with grandpa and sister was at a friends house since i caused no problems her son lived with her she eventually ended up in a nursing home I actually liked her out of them all my least favorite only met them once was a blind man and his wife he had a chauvinist mentality luckily I didn't see that side as we were only there for 5 minutes just enough to meet them believe he ended up in a home after the wife died
The only thing I don’t like what OP did was use his online friend gaming friend who was her fiancé, and lie, and manipulate him into taking she was cheating.
Same. Hurting an narcissistic sister was one thing, but bringing innocents into it is just a big fat NO from me. I think it would've been better if he exposed her uglier side to him instead... show him the real her, where she's always making everything about her, etc. Point out to him that if he marries her, then she'll constantly make everything be about her and not even care about his needs or wants. I think that would've been enough to make him reconsider without hurting him emtionally.
I agree, but in the long run, he actually did them both a favor. They weren't right for each other, and had they married, it probably wouldn't have lasted. Mara was just "arm candy," and William was just a "cash cow."
You have to fight fire with fire. OP finally showed some balls and did the right thing. People don’t change, they can’t it’s just how they are. Just like domestic violence, women always thinks it was last time just to be beaten again, some people are just horrible, some dumb, some good, but they never change and that’s a fact. But on occasion there is the 1% that does change, look at junkies, once a junkie always a junkie
OP’s parents and sister treated him horribly. Unfortunately, the apple (OP) did not fall far from the ”family” tree. This entire story and situation was extremely sad.
Wow! Clearly this family needs a tremendous amount of therapy. The son is so emotionally disturbed he virtually destroyed his sisters life and seemed to take great pleasure in it. I can only assume that the effects of the emotional abuse from his family runs very deep within him. If I were him I would have let the sister marry him. She would have found out soon enough he was a massive gamer which brings enough emotional negligence to those that have to live with them to cause her enough pain. Kind of a you made your bed now lie in it kind of move. The whole situation seems as toxic as it can be.
Being a gamer has nothing to do with being emotionally negligent. The Fiancé was obviously just one of those kinds of people who wouldn't make a good relationship partner. Back in the old days he'd probably just be golfing or focused on some other hobby and be just as disinterested in being close to her. On the other hand, you have OP and his family that are all a total mess. The parents obviously did a very bad job at raising both of their children and both kids reflect the worst of their parents. The daughter is arrogant, judgmental and cruel. OP is vindictive and cruel. I could understand him trying to teach his sister a lesson, or standing up for himself, but lying to and manipulating the Fiancé, who had never been anything but friendly to him was way, way, way out of line.
Sadly, too many parents have done this, not out of malice, but ironically, it's to lift the other one up to the other siblings level. "Be more like your sibling" (so I can be proud of both/ all my children), not realising how damaging it is.
That's because the golden child is not perfect. lol I have a cousin that my Mother acted as if she was. In the end I have a bachelors and she does not! Sh has never worked a real day in her life!
Everything that his sister did to him and his family. I can see what he did what he did at some point everyone needs to learn a lesson and learn about karma. She doesn’t mind her fiancé playing video games but she teases and he’s mean to her brother about it. She is a hypocrite.
This wasn’t karma this was flat out maliciousness. From what I can tell OP never did the bare minimum of speaking to his family about how they treated him.
I had an ex-boyfriend who believed his friends that i got drunk on street corner and came on to them. Lies. I was 19, and underage to drink. Attending h.s., living with parents and working part-time. I broke up with him. He was working 3 jobs and lived with 4 other men.
OP is diabolical, I understand where his anger has come from but this is the wrong way to seek revenge. The best revenge would have been to go no contact and live his best life.
I think OP did go too far with framing his sister, I would have just recorded a conversation the family had and shine the toxicity his sister (and enabling the parents allowed) was, let him make his decision the right way, then go No Contact when you start the new job in the other state But this is one heck of a nuclear revenge story
Honestly, gaming is part of business.. if is making one or more or even playing from platforms.. like twitch or something related is best for this'll times.
OP should not have lied to fiance about his sister being unfaithful; he could have just encouraged fiance to break up with Mara since she is superficial! OPs parents treating Mara in the family was a bit rich! They created the monster! He should have fotten his revenge by going no contact permanently earlier!
Hi! I sure hope he comes back to update when the sister finds out. Obviously their love was not that strong as he was easily convinced to do or not to do something to save their relationship. So in the end maybe he did his sister a favor. Lol
Of course it wasn't, didn't you heard the story? To him she was a cute arm candy that pretty much throw money at to get her to shut up while to her he was an AT&T that gave her money, nice gifts and status, to me tgst sounds vety superficial
No matter how terrible they treated him, creating a lie of cheating is disgusting. She might be a bitch but her fiancé was fine with it. I wouldn’t want that type of karma following me. There had to be a better more honest way to get revenge.
While I have to say that I would certainly not want OP as a friend or coworker and what he did in lying was reprehensible and manipulative, I can personally give him a pass because, at minimum, he saved William from a miserable marriage which would be much worse than you can imagine, especially when after all was said and done, she would have taken him for all he is worth in the inevitable divorce. I do not think OP needs any sort of therapy. In the end, his life works and he's effectively no contact with his horrible family. It was a rotten thing to do, but he's living well, doing what he wants and makes plenty of money away from his toxic family. It's win win for him. Actually, his family richly deserved this, even though the methods are more than questionable. In that light, this story is hilarious.
Why agree with a lie, with his own post he derseve to be treated that why, this attitude he has just didn't happen over night!!! Noah is ridiculously jealous of his sister and went to far and he doesn't derseve a peaceful life hisself
I as a parent of 2 children, A daughter that is 18 and a son that is 24, can't imagine treating one better than the other. I treat them differently of course because they have 2 very different personalities, but I would never treat one better than the other.
This was one screwed up family. He should have taken the high road. Taken his job opportunity and gone no contact. He brought himself down to their level.
I think it was a win win sweet revenge. Fiancé was freed and the tables was turned on the brother and sister. The whole revenge was created on manipulation and illusions whatever people thought. There were no actual accusations. Nicely done 😂
Okay I understand about wanting to get back I think this is little too much 😮 unless you confess to him and her why you did this it makes you even worse than your family
I don't condone the protagonist's behavior and actions in this story, but he was pushed to the edge. When you do cruel things to others, then don't be surprised if they decided to pay you back with interest. Life is not fair, especially for those who don't play fair games.
OP went too far. He fabricated the situation. Lying and deceit is an evil way to get revenge. Maybe exposing the finance as only wanting eye candy and really couldn't stand her would have been better. I have a sister who was not kind to me. I called her out on her facade, revealed how people see through her and then cut contact. It's been almost 4 years. That is the revenge. I loved my sister and would have thrown myself in front of a bus for her. Now she lost that.
When a woman like that is super clingy and stuff like that she's insecure and when this guy was telling him his sister was cleaning like that he should have been wanting to find out
I don’t agree with the way the family treated him. They were awful. However his sister didn’t cheat and she probably would have ruined her marriage all on her own. My mother used to say two wrongs don’t make a right and when you take it upon yourself to get revenge you generally do more damage to yourself than you do to the other person someday OP is going to look back on this and probably feel really shitty. I don’t think what he did was right. He should’ve just cut ties with his family and gone and lived his best life. I tell my children all the time you can’t control other peoples actions, but you can control your reaction to their actions that defines you. That’s what makes you different from them.
First off, the ones that deserve most of the blame are OPs parents. Due to their actions, they raised an entitled, spoiled sister, and chose to ignore, neglect, and emotionally abuse ther son.altgough yes Mara need to be knock off her pedesta, especially because she was probably with her fiancé for his money. l, I can not agree with the actions he took to get reveon his sister. Lying and deceiving only turns you into the people you most despise. He should have just told his gaming friend the truth about his sister poir character. But instead, he took away his friend opportunity to make his own decision. And yes, OP could have put his sisters safety at danger, by eitherher fiancée hand or her own hand.. With OP giving roundabout ages, his parents are pretty much my age, maybe a little younger. How can they not realize that coding and software engineer is very much a job, and are very well paying one at that. I hate to think what their opinions are and how well TH-cam content creators of social media influencers earn. They would probably think these people are just selling sex online.
Bad form, OP. I get being in the shadow of a golden child all your life, but if your sister was that terrible of a person, the fiance- your online friend- deserved the opportunity to find it out for himself. You got your revenge, but you ruined your friend's life in the process.
Op wrong..... sister would had ruined it herself and had real karma. Brother at an older age didn't have to stick around for the BS his family dished out. Or he could have been a grown up and discussed the situation.
Noah is worse when he could have gotten a job and moved away!!the family didn't ruin his life just made it difficult, but he wanted ruin her and frame her on false testimony, because of that jenwill probably never have a good life, but he write about!!!!
I feel like older people still think only doctors and lawyers are god jobs and make the most money. I'm 45 and know that that anything doing with computers is a great way to get rich. So many people play video games now you could easily become a millionaire in no time if you can make your own game, you can literally sell millions of one single game. I'm sure a lot of people make good money just playing games.
Sorry to say... the OP is the most Narsistic toxic person in the story. Despite the sister's behaviour, did OP ever talk to his parents about what he felt, enabling them to rectify the situation? because it really did sound like the mother and father were proud their of their son, for landing a good contract (from actually telling them it was a JOB, not a hobby)
@RandomTrinidadian what high horse? All I'm saying is that there is a lot of things that OP have not said out loud to his family (at least included in the story) and going out of his way to ruin her life to such a degree, based on LIES was the toxic narcissistic traits. Outdo her, by all means, please, but don't intentially trample others' lives to do it.
When a parent has golden child syndrome they don’t hear anything from the other children. Even if the op did say something, which I do think he tried to when he was child. He simply gave up by the time he was an adult.
As a middle child and having a mother with Golden Child Syndrome to my younger sister...I can say with absolute certainty to this day, that no matter how many times I can talk to my mom about it, not talk about it, whatever...my younger sister is her do no wrong golden child. She takes any and all opportunites to bring her and whatver she and her boyfriend/fiancé do into conversation. She drives past where my family lives to drive many hours to visit her. Yet, she is always too busy with work to visit us or have us visit. I actually applaud OP.@@VillainaessMC
I am a parent. Don't favour one kid over another. Communication and treat them equally. We all know that. Kids need guidance & support when you neglect for long enough it harbours hatred and resent. You only with them because of blood. OP is extremely to relatable and in control. I used to be treat like OP. my parent love my little brother. I left home. resented my parents. They never listened to me. On top. I should've been the bigger person but my parents didn't speak English so I was in charge of paperwork in my house hold get called useless and a piece of shit when I don't understand. Sooo.... am I a narcissist when I was neglected and treat like shit. only thing is I didn't take revenge. I seek love from different places to fill the void. Soo I rather destroy myself then to destroy someone else.
The year or two later or even a few months the story will probably get found out by one of the family members and then they realize how terrible their son is. But that's a big if
Honestly he hurt two people b/c of the way his family hurt him. Two wrongs don’t make it right. He went way way too far. He could have just cut his family off. I understand wanting to hurt someone the way his family hurt him but he stooped to his family’s level. He would have been better off just not talking and being around his family.
The sister paid the price for the way she treated OP all these years. Now I hope everyone who played a role in ruining her life will pay a hefty price. Karma always hits you back. They are having it coming.
While I cannot deny that Mara deserved a fall, I don't understand why OP would expose her for something she never did. Yes, Mara and OP's family deserved karma. Yes, Mara didn't deserve a husband. But why didn't OP just tell William and provide evidence of how Mara treats him? Judging William's feelings, it's likely that his and Mara's marriage would've fallen apart eventually anyways. The two were never meant for each other. Don't misunderstand, I COMPLETELY understand OP's feelings about Mara. I'd be cold towards my family if they treated me like that. But I'd use Mara's flaws I knew she had, not her flaws I WISH she had. OP was right for feeling the way he did towards his family, but he was wrong to accuse Mara of something she never did. I'm not saying that OP should've understood Mara, because she was HORRIBLE. I'm just saying that he should've just used what he had and not just make something up. The problem with OP has nothing to do with his emotions. It's just that he made a false accusation. I have no sympathy for Mara, but that doesn't make what OP did okay. They both are in the wrong to a degree.
Because karma doesn't always go after the bad people. Sometimes bad stuff happens to good people. Some have to force their hands to make karma happen which debatably isn't real karma.
This OP and the dudes are all gross. "Hell hath no fuury" and it reminds me of being accused of cheating to all his friends when I went to leave him. It's often a lie to cover their own pettiness and rottenhood. "A WOMAN cheating? Too far!" I'm thinking of the "forgotten" brother from a different stoy wherein the golden brother turned out to be adopted. He didn't go seeking conniving revenge like this.
@@GameOnShanny it didn't matter, he can't just let his family be as they always were. There are just times when you have to strike back and create your own justice or karma...
It’s condescending Not CONDENscending. There’s only 2 Ns. You do the same for the word invitation. Where you say INVINtation. It’s ALZheimers. Not ALT-heimers
OP WENT TOO FAR! Yes his childhood was the worst because he had the misfortune of being born into the worst family ever...BUT... the fact that he destroyed his sister's life by using lies makes him seriously f○cked up. If she really was actually cheating then by all means it would've been great to see him get even more creative with his revenge but then again his family reaped what it sowed.
OP went too far. Breaking them up would have been enough, having the boyfriend ghost her should have been more than enough. The planning of a wedding with the groom a no show, and telling the parents a bunch of nonsense was a step too far.
Everyone in this story is the A-hole. Frfr! OP thought that two wrongs DID make a right and that's very clearly not the case. All OP had to do was tell the fiance the truth about what kind of woman he was marrying. Why did he even need to lie?
Hey OP, epic revenge. I totally do understand exactly how unfair and damaging your childhood was to you. Your family sucked rocks. I am in no way saying that your parents and sister didn't deserve what happened because they really did. But I am going to say that I hope now that you have gotten a bit of payback, and you are removing yourself out of your toxic situation with your family you go get some therapy to heal from the trauma and pain that was inflected on you by your toxic family. Given the abuse and trauma you suffered I am not about to condemn you for getting a bit of payback. Especially because I do not think that your sister's marriage to this guy was actually going to be successful even without your intervention. I have to say that in a lot of ways your sister's fiancé was actually a pretty crappy person given that basically his only interest in your sister was that a rich man like him needed arm candy. And the idea that it sounds like the fancy gifts he bought your sister were almost bribes to buy good behavior from her and she forced him to get engaged, you probably saved your sister from the pain of being married to someone who really didn't love or respect her. In some ways, she actually dodged a bullet and the way to have really ruined her life was to let her spend it in an unhappy, unfulfilling, marriage to a man that had no true feelings for her. Sort of ironic that if you had actually cared for your sister and had realized that the guy she was marrying was trash and didn't love her and went to warn her, your whole family would have disowned you. Then later when the marriage imploded due to him cheating or discarding her because he was sick of her shit, they could have all come back and disowned you again because you didn't try hard enough to convince your sister from marrying the wrong person. In the end OP your only real course of action that would actually help you heal is no contact from your family, and I believe some therapy or some other way to get support for your trauma. Really, anyone who believes your actions done after a lifetime of abuse are somehow worse or more outrageous that how you were made to feel as a helpless child by the people who should have loved and protected you are pretty heartless and vile themselves. I also have to point out that given just the total amount of serendipity that put you into the position of having the knowledge that you ended up with to pull what you did sort of whispers "Karma" to me. There are a lot of AHs in this story and frankly even what you did was AH. But in my opinion sometimes circumstances and toxic treatment make otherwise good people lash out and do something for payback. In your case you were not born an AH, you were driven by constant abuse to finally be one just to know that you still have a bit of power and self-esteem.
OP’s parents failed both of their kids.
It’s not an issue of OP “going too far”. He is an inadequate person who decided to anonymously ruin his tormentors life. What a woose!
The only thing I blame in this situation is the parents because they chose favoritism towards the child because of comparison to other kids who had abilities I always hate that kind of stuff. I always hated how parents always chose favoritism because they think the child will have success and then give them the money. That's not how to become a parent become a parent is that you have to sworn oath to love and equally and fairly no matter if you want a boy or a girl It Matters by love not about competing or who's the smartest or anything
This really hit home in the first few minutes with a father that doesn't recognise that the job I have, IS A REAL MAN'S JOB
At another story I commented women and children dont make it a secret they miss their workaholic manfolk, so I dont believe he was surprised they left. A guy replied accusing me "But then you'd demand he make a million dollars a year like a real man!" No, I don't fictionalize men as Superman and I also never say "man up". These are terms men invented to put themselves on pedestals that women only borrow. Any job you have other than female athlete or Miss "Pageant" are "real" "man" jobs. 👍
Tell your dad that as long as you're making ends meet, that is a "Real Man's" job.
Any job that you got and are taking care of your bills and rent, is a "Real Man's" job.
Where I live you see people getting into pissing contests over the same thing.
My Grandad told me as long as his family was taken care of, he didn't care where he worked, whether it was working in the mines or bagging groceries at the supermarket.
Don't let your dad's words get to you, that says more about his character. Willingness to work and work ethics are what matters. 😊
My dad is of the mind that if it pays and it's legal it's a job. I could be making dresses and his response would be eh as long as it pays.
@@ToxicVex267my dad never got jealous mom was making more then him or he rarely saw her between that old hag of a mother of hers long story short she liked guilting mom and their work schedules it was lucky if they saw each at least one or 2 hours a day she was one of those ppl who take care of elderly ppl in their homes till they passed or ended up in a retirement home I got to meet all but 3-4 don't remember if ever met her first one so might be 5 of them and thought of two of them as adopted great grandmas ones daughter is married to moms cousin and they didn't mind if I stayed nights mom had to work and Dad worked nights brother was hunting with grandpa and sister was at a friends house since i caused no problems her son lived with her she eventually ended up in a nursing home I actually liked her out of them all my least favorite only met them once was a blind man and his wife he had a chauvinist mentality luckily I didn't see that side as we were only there for 5 minutes just enough to meet them believe he ended up in a home after the wife died
Mara and theirs parent must treat Noah very badly until he let himself to this low.
The only thing I don’t like what OP did was use his online friend gaming friend who was her fiancé, and lie, and manipulate him into taking she was cheating.
Same. Hurting an narcissistic sister was one thing, but bringing innocents into it is just a big fat NO from me. I think it would've been better if he exposed her uglier side to him instead... show him the real her, where she's always making everything about her, etc.
Point out to him that if he marries her, then she'll constantly make everything be about her and not even care about his needs or wants.
I think that would've been enough to make him reconsider without hurting him emtionally.
This is not good
I agree, but in the long run, he actually did them both a favor. They weren't right for each other, and had they married, it probably wouldn't have lasted. Mara was just "arm candy," and William was just a "cash cow."
For all ik she did cheat
You have to fight fire with fire. OP finally showed some balls and did the right thing. People don’t change, they can’t it’s just how they are. Just like domestic violence, women always thinks it was last time just to be beaten again, some people are just horrible, some dumb, some good, but they never change and that’s a fact. But on occasion there is the 1% that does change, look at junkies, once a junkie always a junkie
Her behavior is typical of the golden child in the family. That personifies the gc.
OP’s parents and sister treated him horribly. Unfortunately, the apple (OP) did not fall far from the ”family” tree. This entire story and situation was extremely sad.
Wow! Clearly this family needs a tremendous amount of therapy. The son is so emotionally disturbed he virtually destroyed his sisters life and seemed to take great pleasure in it. I can only assume that the effects of the emotional abuse from his family runs very deep within him. If I were him I would have let the sister marry him. She would have found out soon enough he was a massive gamer which brings enough emotional negligence to those that have to live with them to cause her enough pain. Kind of a you made your bed now lie in it kind of move. The whole situation seems as toxic as it can be.
Everybody is not a saint, hence should not be tested, because it can backfire you one day or the other. What you reap is what you sow.
Being a gamer has nothing to do with being emotionally negligent. The Fiancé was obviously just one of those kinds of people who wouldn't make a good relationship partner. Back in the old days he'd probably just be golfing or focused on some other hobby and be just as disinterested in being close to her. On the other hand, you have OP and his family that are all a total mess. The parents obviously did a very bad job at raising both of their children and both kids reflect the worst of their parents. The daughter is arrogant, judgmental and cruel. OP is vindictive and cruel. I could understand him trying to teach his sister a lesson, or standing up for himself, but lying to and manipulating the Fiancé, who had never been anything but friendly to him was way, way, way out of line.
You have a good point. But some games are best played by letting them play themselves out. But I certainly see your point. @@coreyperez8817
OP sister needs to grow up and stop embarrassing her brother this is what you don’t make kids compete making video games is a real job it is a skill
Seriously even if the parents favor one child which is totally wrong but they definitely should have NEVER knocked down their other child!!!!
Sadly, too many parents have done this, not out of malice, but ironically, it's to lift the other one up to the other siblings level. "Be more like your sibling" (so I can be proud of both/ all my children), not realising how damaging it is.
That's because the golden child is not perfect. lol I have a cousin that my Mother acted as if she was. In the end I have a bachelors and she does not! Sh has never worked a real day in her life!
I loved how Op, got his revenge on his sister by breaking up their marriage.
You can make a lot of money coding the dad is a hypocrite 🤡.
I'm so glad that my parents supported me and beginning in the IT and Cody I'm now a system's Admin
WOW! Who's More Toxic, Noah Or His Family?
Family
Everything that his sister did to him and his family. I can see what he did what he did at some point everyone needs to learn a lesson and learn about karma. She doesn’t mind her fiancé playing video games but she teases and he’s mean to her brother about it. She is a hypocrite.
This wasn’t karma this was flat out maliciousness. From what I can tell OP never did the bare minimum of speaking to his family about how they treated him.
I had an ex-boyfriend who believed his friends that i got drunk on street corner and came on to them. Lies. I was 19, and underage to drink. Attending h.s., living with parents and working part-time.
I broke up with him.
He was working 3 jobs and lived with 4 other men.
OP I hope you find a therapist. It sounds like everything you went through. It would be extremely helpful.
OP is diabolical, I understand where his anger has come from but this is the wrong way to seek revenge. The best revenge would have been to go no contact and live his best life.
Never underestimate the wrath of a man pushed to his limit
Revenge is a dish best served cold.
I hate these kinds of parents and again we’re is CPS AND THE WELFARE
Somewhere there is a drama filled town full of Noahs. 😂
I think OP did go too far with framing his sister, I would have just recorded a conversation the family had and shine the toxicity his sister (and enabling the parents allowed) was, let him make his decision the right way, then go No Contact when you start the new job in the other state
But this is one heck of a nuclear revenge story
Op i can't imagine being the black sheep of the family but I'm glad you have friends who care for you😊.
A friend he manipulated
Honestly, gaming is part of business.. if is making one or more or even playing from platforms.. like twitch or something related is best for this'll times.
OP should not have lied to fiance about his sister being unfaithful; he could have just encouraged fiance to break up with Mara since she is superficial! OPs parents treating Mara in the family was a bit rich! They created the monster! He should have fotten his revenge by going no contact permanently earlier!
Hi! I sure hope he comes back to update when the sister finds out. Obviously their love was not that strong as he was easily convinced to do or not to do something to save their relationship. So in the end maybe he did his sister a favor. Lol
Of course it wasn't, didn't you heard the story? To him she was a cute arm candy that pretty much throw money at to get her to shut up while to her he was an AT&T that gave her money, nice gifts and status, to me tgst sounds vety superficial
OP doesn't seem any better than the rest of his family.
😂😂😂
Love your shirt choice today! Story was good too.
No matter how terrible they treated him, creating a lie of cheating is disgusting. She might be a bitch but her fiancé was fine with it. I wouldn’t want that type of karma following me. There had to be a better more honest way to get revenge.
How? The brat is the gc for all ik she did cheat
I detest parents with spoiled Golden Children. TOO MUCH!!
While I have to say that I would certainly not want OP as a friend or coworker and what he did in lying was reprehensible and manipulative, I can personally give him a pass because, at minimum, he saved William from a miserable marriage which would be much worse than you can imagine, especially when after all was said and done, she would have taken him for all he is worth in the inevitable divorce.
I do not think OP needs any sort of therapy. In the end, his life works and he's effectively no contact with his horrible family. It was a rotten thing to do, but he's living well, doing what he wants and makes plenty of money away from his toxic family. It's win win for him. Actually, his family richly deserved this, even though the methods are more than questionable.
In that light, this story is hilarious.
Why agree with a lie, with his own post he derseve to be treated that why, this attitude he has just didn't happen over night!!! Noah is ridiculously jealous of his sister and went to far and he doesn't derseve a peaceful life hisself
I as a parent of 2 children, A daughter that is 18 and a son that is 24, can't imagine treating one better than the other. I treat them differently of course because they have 2 very different personalities, but I would never treat one better than the other.
Only if the parents had apprecisated the OP's achievements
appple doesn't fall far from the tree, even if its a late bloomer.
This was so wrong. Just go no contact.
This was one screwed up family. He should have taken the high road. Taken his job opportunity and gone no contact. He brought himself down to their level.
He was wrong. He didn't have to do that to this young man
I think it was a win win sweet revenge. Fiancé was freed and the tables was turned on the brother and sister. The whole revenge was created on manipulation and illusions whatever people thought. There were no actual accusations. Nicely done 😂
Op went to far way to far !!!! Mara is worse and so are the parents but … lost respect for all op
Not me she's nothing but a worthless golddigger
Con-de-scending has two n's, why do you keep adding an extra one?
He does the same thing with the word: INVITATION.He pronounces it in-vin-tation. It kind of drives me crazy. Yet, I still listen...lol!
@@betsyab121 My wife used to do that as well, she seemed to think it made her sound intelligent.
No heroes here. All are awful people, including OP
Op sounds like a textbook narcissist
Everybody here sucks!
I would teach her a lesson
Okay I understand about wanting to get back I think this is little too much 😮 unless you confess to him and her why you did this it makes you even worse than your family
She was a B to him all of his life he may have done wrong with but he got the satisfaction of revenge lol it kinda equals out.
I don't condone the protagonist's behavior and actions in this story, but he was pushed to the edge. When you do cruel things to others, then don't be surprised if they decided to pay you back with interest.
Life is not fair, especially for those who don't play fair games.
ahh, bravo.. bravo!!
What a horrible brother. She was not a good sister but he should have risen above and just shown the fiancé her true nature. This was totally wrong.
Very sad and evel of op😢
He went too far, all he had to do was stay away. He ended up moving anyhow so why go this far?
Horrible story, I'm glad i don't know OP.
The problem here is that he’s also fucking with his friend’s life. That’s not cool
OP went too far. He fabricated the situation. Lying and deceit is an evil way to get revenge. Maybe exposing the finance as only wanting eye candy and really couldn't stand her would have been better. I have a sister who was not kind to me. I called her out on her facade, revealed how people see through her and then cut contact. It's been almost 4 years. That is the revenge. I loved my sister and would have thrown myself in front of a bus for her. Now she lost that.
When a woman like that is super clingy and stuff like that she's insecure and when this guy was telling him his sister was cleaning like that he should have been wanting to find out
I don’t agree with the way the family treated him. They were awful. However his sister didn’t cheat and she probably would have ruined her marriage all on her own. My mother used to say two wrongs don’t make a right and when you take it upon yourself to get revenge you generally do more damage to yourself than you do to the other person someday OP is going to look back on this and probably feel really shitty. I don’t think what he did was right. He should’ve just cut ties with his family and gone and lived his best life. I tell my children all the time you can’t control other peoples actions, but you can control your reaction to their actions that defines you. That’s what makes you different from them.
Gone too far!
First off, the ones that deserve most of the blame are OPs parents. Due to their actions, they raised an entitled, spoiled sister, and chose to ignore, neglect, and emotionally abuse ther son.altgough yes Mara need to be knock off her pedesta, especially because she was probably with her fiancé for his money. l, I can not agree with the actions he took to get reveon his sister. Lying and deceiving only turns you into the people you most despise. He should have just told his gaming friend the truth about his sister poir character. But instead, he took away his friend opportunity to make his own decision. And yes, OP could have put his sisters safety at danger, by eitherher fiancée hand or her own hand.. With OP giving roundabout ages, his parents are pretty much my age, maybe a little younger. How can they not realize that coding and software engineer is very much a job, and are very well paying one at that. I hate to think what their opinions are and how well TH-cam content creators of social media influencers earn. They would probably think these people are just selling sex online.
Bad form, OP. I get being in the shadow of a golden child all your life, but if your sister was that terrible of a person, the fiance- your online friend- deserved the opportunity to find it out for himself. You got your revenge, but you ruined your friend's life in the process.
😂😂😂😂
Well he might have been wrong but she had it coming don't make enemies if you're not willing to suffer the consequences
This is sad OP went to far. He just like his family
Op wrong..... sister would had ruined it herself and had real karma. Brother at an older age didn't have to stick around for the BS his family dished out. Or he could have been a grown up and discussed the situation.
Noah is worse when he could have gotten a job and moved away!!the family didn't ruin his life just made it difficult, but he wanted ruin her and frame her on false testimony, because of that jenwill probably never have a good life, but he write about!!!!
I feel like older people still think only doctors and lawyers are god jobs and make the most money. I'm 45 and know that that anything doing with computers is a great way to get rich. So many people play video games now you could easily become a millionaire in no time if you can make your own game, you can literally sell millions of one single game. I'm sure a lot of people make good money just playing games.
Yeah nah, this is not revenge. This is just sad
Nope revenge
Sorry to say... the OP is the most Narsistic toxic person in the story. Despite the sister's behaviour, did OP ever talk to his parents about what he felt, enabling them to rectify the situation? because it really did sound like the mother and father were proud their of their son, for landing a good contract (from actually telling them it was a JOB, not a hobby)
I think you need to get off your high horse. The lack of oxygen is killing your brain cells
@RandomTrinidadian what high horse? All I'm saying is that there is a lot of things that OP have not said out loud to his family (at least included in the story) and going out of his way to ruin her life to such a degree, based on LIES was the toxic narcissistic traits. Outdo her, by all means, please, but don't intentially trample others' lives to do it.
When a parent has golden child syndrome they don’t hear anything from the other children. Even if the op did say something, which I do think he tried to when he was child. He simply gave up by the time he was an adult.
As a middle child and having a mother with Golden Child Syndrome to my younger sister...I can say with absolute certainty to this day, that no matter how many times I can talk to my mom about it, not talk about it, whatever...my younger sister is her do no wrong golden child. She takes any and all opportunites to bring her and whatver she and her boyfriend/fiancé do into conversation. She drives past where my family lives to drive many hours to visit her. Yet, she is always too busy with work to visit us or have us visit. I actually applaud OP.@@VillainaessMC
I am a parent. Don't favour one kid over another. Communication and treat them equally. We all know that. Kids need guidance & support when you neglect for long enough it harbours hatred and resent. You only with them because of blood. OP is extremely to relatable and in control. I used to be treat like OP. my parent love my little brother. I left home. resented my parents. They never listened to me. On top. I should've been the bigger person but my parents didn't speak English so I was in charge of paperwork in my house hold get called useless and a piece of shit when I don't understand. Sooo.... am I a narcissist when I was neglected and treat like shit.
only thing is I didn't take revenge. I seek love from different places to fill the void. Soo I rather destroy myself then to destroy someone else.
Wow
OP and his family are despicable.
Not impressed! Sad to think you spend so much energy on being hateful!
Hmm seem like the brother is a cruel jealous creep! Karma gonna get you😢
The year or two later or even a few months the story will probably get found out by one of the family members and then they realize how terrible their son is. But that's a big if
Honestly he hurt two people
b/c of the way his family hurt him. Two wrongs don’t make it right. He went way way too far. He could have just cut his family off. I understand wanting to hurt someone the way his family hurt him but he stooped to his family’s level. He would have been better off just not talking and being around his family.
The sister paid the price for the way she treated OP all these years. Now I hope everyone who played a role in ruining her life will pay a hefty price. Karma always hits you back. They are having it coming.
She ruined her own life
While I cannot deny that Mara deserved a fall, I don't understand why OP would expose her for something she never did. Yes, Mara and OP's family deserved karma. Yes, Mara didn't deserve a husband. But why didn't OP just tell William and provide evidence of how Mara treats him? Judging William's feelings, it's likely that his and Mara's marriage would've fallen apart eventually anyways. The two were never meant for each other.
Don't misunderstand, I COMPLETELY understand OP's feelings about Mara. I'd be cold towards my family if they treated me like that. But I'd use Mara's flaws I knew she had, not her flaws I WISH she had. OP was right for feeling the way he did towards his family, but he was wrong to accuse Mara of something she never did. I'm not saying that OP should've understood Mara, because she was HORRIBLE. I'm just saying that he should've just used what he had and not just make something up. The problem with OP has nothing to do with his emotions. It's just that he made a false accusation. I have no sympathy for Mara, but that doesn't make what OP did okay. They both are in the wrong to a degree.
Because karma doesn't always go after the bad people. Sometimes bad stuff happens to good people. Some have to force their hands to make karma happen which debatably isn't real karma.
I think op took it to far he should have just cut ties whith family
This OP and the dudes are all gross. "Hell hath no fuury" and it reminds me of being accused of cheating to all his friends when I went to leave him. It's often a lie to cover their own pettiness and rottenhood. "A WOMAN cheating? Too far!" I'm thinking of the "forgotten" brother from a different stoy wherein the golden brother turned out to be adopted. He didn't go seeking conniving revenge like this.
Everyone sucked. OP I understand what you were going through, but what you did was awful. You beame the monster you sought to destroy
To fight and defeat/destroy a brutal monster, you have to be more brutal monster...
@teslagod7221 I understand where you are coming from, but he lied about her. Everyone sucks here
@@GameOnShanny it didn't matter, he can't just let his family be as they always were. There are just times when you have to strike back and create your own justice or karma...
It’s condescending
Not CONDENscending. There’s only 2 Ns.
You do the same for the word invitation. Where you say INVINtation.
It’s ALZheimers. Not ALT-heimers
Op in 20 to 30 yrs u should come cleàn
Nope deathbed confession
OP WENT TOO FAR! Yes his childhood was the worst because he had the misfortune of being born into the worst family ever...BUT... the fact that he destroyed his sister's life by using lies makes him seriously f○cked up. If she really was actually cheating then by all means it would've been great to see him get even more creative with his revenge but then again his family reaped what it sowed.
I can understand why OP did what he did. He was pushed to far!!
OP went too far. Breaking them up would have been enough, having the boyfriend ghost her should have been more than enough. The planning of a wedding with the groom a no show, and telling the parents a bunch of nonsense was a step too far.
Everyone in this story is the A-hole. Frfr! OP thought that two wrongs DID make a right and that's very clearly not the case. All OP had to do was tell the fiance the truth about what kind of woman he was marrying. Why did he even need to lie?
Hey OP, epic revenge. I totally do understand exactly how unfair and damaging your childhood was to you. Your family sucked rocks. I am in no way saying that your parents and sister didn't deserve what happened because they really did. But I am going to say that I hope now that you have gotten a bit of payback, and you are removing yourself out of your toxic situation with your family you go get some therapy to heal from the trauma and pain that was inflected on you by your toxic family. Given the abuse and trauma you suffered I am not about to condemn you for getting a bit of payback. Especially because I do not think that your sister's marriage to this guy was actually going to be successful even without your intervention. I have to say that in a lot of ways your sister's fiancé was actually a pretty crappy person given that basically his only interest in your sister was that a rich man like him needed arm candy. And the idea that it sounds like the fancy gifts he bought your sister were almost bribes to buy good behavior from her and she forced him to get engaged, you probably saved your sister from the pain of being married to someone who really didn't love or respect her. In some ways, she actually dodged a bullet and the way to have really ruined her life was to let her spend it in an unhappy, unfulfilling, marriage to a man that had no true feelings for her. Sort of ironic that if you had actually cared for your sister and had realized that the guy she was marrying was trash and didn't love her and went to warn her, your whole family would have disowned you. Then later when the marriage imploded due to him cheating or discarding her because he was sick of her shit, they could have all come back and disowned you again because you didn't try hard enough to convince your sister from marrying the wrong person.
In the end OP your only real course of action that would actually help you heal is no contact from your family, and I believe some therapy or some other way to get support for your trauma. Really, anyone who believes your actions done after a lifetime of abuse are somehow worse or more outrageous that how you were made to feel as a helpless child by the people who should have loved and protected you are pretty heartless and vile themselves. I also have to point out that given just the total amount of serendipity that put you into the position of having the knowledge that you ended up with to pull what you did sort of whispers "Karma" to me. There are a lot of AHs in this story and frankly even what you did was AH. But in my opinion sometimes circumstances and toxic treatment make otherwise good people lash out and do something for payback. In your case you were not born an AH, you were driven by constant abuse to finally be one just to know that you still have a bit of power and self-esteem.
How do you still not know how to pronounce condescending? Jeez.