Fucking facts man. They spread legs wide , and bust it wide open for them random assholes and guys they know wont take them serious, but when a brotha come along that does take them serious its test after test after fucking test.
You nailed it. They expect you to bail them out after they've had their fun. The whole "I was young and didn't know any better" excuse. Yeah I was young too. The difference was my younger days wasn't a revolving door to the bedroom.
That's because their zaddy "Uncle Sam" will have their backs. No matter the quality of man, the family courts will make him give her money for that child.
My first wife Black, expected constant perfection. If I sneezed the wrong direction she was ready to walk. Once I had enough of being belittled and emotionally abused, I actively seeked out the complete opposite in a woman. Mostly as an experiment. 6 months later I met a white woman whom I arranged to meet at a McDonald's for our first meal together (part of the experiment). This woman throughput our relationship exhibited endless patience fairness and attempts at understanding. Not to mention she has no psychological hangups with a church or a bedroom. We have been married now for 15 years. When we're holding hands and pass a salty eyed black woman on the street. I keep it pushing guilt free
"pretty girls are found in all races" True, but percentage-wise too? Even the majority of Black top models tend to have Caucasoid or Ethiopid features.
@@abasotto1697 actually they absolutely do. Not only do different races have different features, but so too different nations within a race can be distinguished through features. Which is why you can tell different Asians, Africans and Europeans apart nationally based on appearance. Kenyans don't look like Nigerians for example. Norwegians don't look like Italians I wouldn't expect you to understand evolutionary biology though.
@@abasotto1697 See the video. It's about WHITE women and BLACK men. Clearly these women and men are distinguished by their features (including but not limited to skin color), and even you yourself are agreeing these are different races.
@@MorusAlba1975 and the other way around. White people with thin lips are not good looking, big nose.. For example black features would be considered full lips, among other beautiful black features. So yes. There are pretty people in all races.
@@klnj9714 I'm not aware of any sub-Saharan African women with those features. Whenever they occur, it's among people who have (partial) Ethiopid and/or Caucasoid ancestry. They're Eurasian features. The only places in Africa where they naturally occur are in the north and north-east, where there has been millennia of trade with Arabs, Egyptians, Europeans etc. Within America, all Blacks have some degree of European ancestry. Among celebrity Blacks it tends to be around 25% or more.
As a black man growing up, it wasn't the white girls who made fun of me for "talking white", for reading books for fun, and for not being into the street life. As soon as I got a white girlfriend it turned into "what, you don't like black girls or something?" My ex wife is black and my current wife is black. I've loved black women all my life, it took them a while to love me.
One of my boys that I work out with is a high value black man (high earner, shredded physique, quality character, hilarious, super friendly) I asked him why he only dates non-Black women and he replied “because I don’t enjoy arguing.” I found that very interesting.
I dated black women all my life. One thing that never click for me was college. I never really wanted to go to college, but instead start my own business. Every black woman I dated looked at me crazy when I said that. We're made to believe that college is the only way to success in the black community. So I put off my dream because every BW I shared my dream with was only concern about having a 9-5 and me told me it was stupid. I met my now wife (a white woman), years later and still had that same dream. I went to college btw got my master's, and still couldn't get this dream out my head. My now wife didn't think it was a bad idea and encouraged me. It's been two years now, and I run a successful marketing company. When I'm seen with her out and public BW are like "why you got a white woman".
I never went to college marine biologist jobs want me to work for them because I know a shit Ton of things from research over my years and all I ever learned I used information from books and google with obvious evidence of course college is what the American system uses to screw children and make them go in debt until they are 60 such as a house
@JUICE JAMES who asked for a payment? he told it for free! Why would you think your required to buy something that you could take or leave and why would we care about what you decided?
@@clementineschalchen330 It’s obvious you didn’t go to college because your comment was barely even readable and literate. You need to mentally mature.
Growing up and when I was in the dating scene, I had my struggles talking or impressing black women. As a black guy, I was viewed as a square, a nice guy and a push over. It used to frustrate me. However, I’m married to a beautiful Hispanic woman who loves me for me. I’ve never hated Black women of course. God looked out for me though. It just wasn’t meant for me to be with a black woman and I’m good with that.
Guyz don’t leave me behind . Im with an amazing beautiful cooperative feminine columbian woman and i could tell you thats the best thing that happen to my 35 years of existence on this planet earth. That woman treat me like a KING. Never taught that this type of caliber women existed.
Haven’t encountered as much blatant disrespect from the opposite gender outside my race. Either going to another country to find a wife or a non black American
Im a black woman who love and respect black men. I can understand why every race of women under the sun would want to be with our black Kings. By some chance ladies if our black men is crossing over to another race, STUDY THEIR WAYS AND GIVE THEM COMPETITION. Some women can't handle the truth so that is why our men is setting us free. Black women is always talking when we should be listening and learning. Be women and respect and love your man. Stop trying to over power him and compete with him. I have no problem being submissive to my husband, He doesn't need my help with his manhood, HE GOT THAT. I have my hands full perfecting my role as a wife and mother. KEEPING OUR FAMILY STRONG BY ANY MEANS NECESSARY.
@Malcolm X Garvey i never felt like a push over. My husband is the head of our household and i don't have a problem with that. I respect his role and he respect mine. I adore him and trust his leadership. That's just a few of the reasons why i married him. I'm happy and content being his wife...Being his best friend.....Being the mother of his children....Being a woman.
I married a Latina, and I can't be more happy with my wife. Because when I do my job and lead my household she doesn't complain/give attitude. She listens, because she was raised to be a wife and not a headache.
My wife is Malaysian and British. Yes, the rocky relationship I had with my mother, sister and early black girlfriends led me to try my wife. She was my first interracial relationship and we got married. 13 years, two beautiful kids.
1:16:38 imagine growing up without your father, only to find out as an adult that your father wanted to be a dad and a husband and your mom used him to get kids, then proceeded to raise you alone because she “got what she wanted”.
Their immaturity and selfishness will have a profound effect on her children when they get older. But she doesn’t care because she’s so selfish and self centered.
Intro🎵: 0:00 Show Starts: 15:07 Monologue: 19:22 The Godfather talks Interracial dating. Money World💰🌎💃🏿: 48:35 First Caller: 54:12 38y/o woman says it's preference and lack of certain qualities, says she left her HVM early in life but had kids with him?🤔 Second Caller: 1:17:58 43y/o WW calls in to thank The Godfather for "free game", says she's unlearning feminism? 1:20:22 The Godfather continues conversation with the first caller. Third Caller: 1:25:54 31y/o woman looking for HVM but sleeping with her ex? says BW aren't in "those spaces" as BM. Fourth Caller: 1:46:01 married woman calls in to thank The Godfather, says her children's lineage owes him their lives? 🤯 Fifth Caller: 1:50:53 she says BW feel "entitled" to BM and don't want to do the work to attract one. Sixth Caller: 1:52:49 28y/o woman says it's hard to find HVM BM to date, The Godfather investigates. 2:00:44 The Godfather continues conversation with the first caller it finally ends in Taps🤣🎺! The Godfather summarizes the show/Previews next shows: 2:12:29
@Good Men you are a good gentleman lol. Request: can you please convince Kevin to read, acknowledge and comment on the superchats? A few but not all? I believe a fan appreciation moment will add a new dimension to his show -- think of it as another layer of viewer engagement. We understand why certain folks get special shout outs and songs. I think acknowledging what people have to say and offer will lead to a "heavier gift basket"...cheers and stay blessed!!
It's simple. 1. Don't have children outside of marriage 2. Choose the best man when you have the highest sexual value 3. Stay there. Your choices won't go up later
BW : 1. Ignore the quality man. 2. Date aholes and have multiple kids out of marriage 3. Demand and EXPECT a high value man to swoop in and take care of you and the other guys' children. ..and be grateful
@Odala I was personally thinking about 23 as I've seen some studies that said that 25 is the average peak of fertility, and on a side note I still have a lot to work on especially my feminity, skills hobbies etc. What do u think?
@@amych4632 18-22 is the universal standard. It's evolution. 18 is definitely all the way through puberty and definitely beautiful (unless she is at the bottom of the barrel in looks). Most men find the average woman to be above average in attractiveness.
Love has no boundaries. My husband is black and we have 3 children (27, 24, and 8). We’ve had our struggles but as long and I respect him and give him the space he needs we’re Golden.
Bingo.... Today. This morning my wife was driving and a black lady was turning without using her signal. She got out of her car screaming at us. Im a dude and she didn't care. All she noticed was my White wife.. Wondering why I switched.
With me I’ve noticed most black women that I come across the first thing they judge me on is how “street” or how “Hood” I am and if I’m not hood enough to their liking they see me as not valuable and with other races such as Latina I can be myself and not have to worry about that.
@@emancipatednegress1524 females that are into “hood” dudes aren’t just females who are in the hood. You missed the point, I graduated from college and some black females I’ve came across were looking for a guy with a hood like character or mentality for the “thrill”. This does not mean my college is located in the hood, that I’m from the hood, or looking for hood chicks. This also does not mean I’m interested in hood chicks, they are regular black girls who just haven’t been taught to look for things in a man with long lasting relationship characteristics. The comment you read also did not state he was choosing these women it was just an observation, we are not fascinated by hood women, and do not want them, on average they carry a lot of the S.I.G.N. Low value characteristics
@@emancipatednegress1524 I said black women that I come across. I live in the suburbs I don’t go for “Hood Chicks” I’m not referring to women that I pursue I’m referring to black women that I come across or meet or women that have pursued me. This is what they judge men on from my observation. Ive seen this from black women of all kind I seen this from women who are co-workers that find me attractive, Women in public, women from dating sites or anywhere. I never said I pursued these type of women all I said was most black women tend that I have came accross from all backgrounds tend to judge based off of that.
@@emancipatednegress1524 these black women that i am referring to that I have met and encountered with are from all over Dallas from many places. Some have even been women with degrees, women I’ve met at Bible study, women from all over.
@@emancipatednegress1524 I don’t hang around Hood people at all. I live in the suberbs there are no Hood people around me. I never grew up around Hood people. Again I never said anything about black women being “hood”. All I said was they judge me from not being “hood” enough.
Latinas are being encouraged and fed their ego from their own man and also some black man . Ohhh I want a fiesty Latina you hear man see this all the time .
I am a HVM and I am really attracted to black women but I ended up marrying a white woman. What happened is.. when I went to school middle/high, I was different. I never wore the clothing that was in style for where I grew up, I wore sport coats with jeans and loafers etc. And my mom (single mom) couldn't afford name popular branded tennis shoes (which is why I wore loafers/dress shoes). They didn't have brand logos on them. When I got older and went to college, I would always be approached by white women. When I would approach black women, they weren't as interested. They typically wanted the guy who dressed and acted cooler.. this led me to begin going out with them and spending more time in parts of town that were majority white. I dated where I hung out. I'm handsome, polite, 6'2", I work out (NFL player build), and I now make over $500k. I still wear suits, sport coats, etc (just custom now lol). I drive mercedes, tesla, etc and I get attention from black women now. It's weird. If it had happened at an earlier age, I probably would have ended up marrying black. Idk. Random message
You wanna see Blk women loose their mind over interracial dating? Look how grown Blk women totally loose their mind over Lebron James' son when they saw he was dating a white girl. Mind you this kid JUST turned 16.
I really don't know how you have these conversations with these women. They have incredibly strong opinions and yet when you ask questions they give the response similar to that of my 11 year old son with the pauses and the "idk." They don't know this BEFORE they call in?
I was married to a white man for 30 years then he passed 5 years ago. I am now dating a black man. Reasons- treats me right, takes charge, caring, works hard, has dreams and visions, Christian and loves me unconditionally.
Or as the godfather would say, you didn't earn the hvm or choose poorly, then found someone you "settled" for, i.e., put your ego aside and realized you are a 5, and then you found happiness. Yet you still lack accountability and blame everyone else for your past relationships.
I am a 23 year old black female , college student and I listen to Kevin almost every day I get, I hope for his philosophy to reach the masses , because it’s not about what gets said it’s about who said it . Also a lot of the black men in my social class who date white woman say that “white woman are just nicer , they talk nice to you “ . Black woman are really losing our men or our selves, is the bar really that low where we don’t even talk nice to our men ? Because some of my own friends talk so harshly to their boyfriend and men in their lives , I’m just like that Is why , ever since I’ve came to this realization, I have came to practice femininity and femininity and feminism from my experiences do not go together , their is no other race that disrespects their own race more than the black race. I want to know why has the black man became enemy number 1 ?
I love being a feminine female and I love masculine men. It is our nature and the world feels right whenever we are in our roles. Feminist are too stuck in their victimhood and will have all woman be miserable if we listen to them. Look how they have attacked the family and how much woman suffer as a result. They say woman can have it all but woman just end up doing it all...who needs that? Luckily I grew up around woman who loved taking care of their husbands and kids and made it appealing to me as well. Making sure my husband is happy is a lot better than working 2 jobs and being a single mom.
I’m close to Kevin’s age, 6’6 BM male, ex military, I can count on one hand how many BW have approached me in night clubs, school, work conferences, etc. White women, triple figures. Nearly every time I go out. Becky don’t let the grass grow under her feet.
I'm a 34 year old handsome WM on a quick upward trajectory financially, same deal. I can count on zero hands how many times a BW has even acknowledged my existence - forget being approached romantically. They don't want you, they don't want me, no idea what they want and I'm done trying to figure it out. I just know I'm not going to listen to them complain about being alone when I've been here for them on a silver platter in the past.
Why y’all expecting women to approach you? Some won’t because they are shy in that aspect. I don’t want some aggressive ass woman coming on to me. An alpha man will go after what he wants
There is a difference to a woman being approachable and being aggressive. I’ve had women just strike a very simple conversation with me, making an causal observation about something. Of course an alpha male will approach a woman, however, if you are in a nightclub, it’s a real pain in the ass to approach one woman when she is with a pack of six.
What’s more striking about this conversation is that the majority of Black men marry Black women. If you follow the media, it tends to magnify the minority as if it’s the majority.
I have never dated a white woman, none of my friends have ever dated a white woman with the exception of one dude who is African. Sisters did not want him, in school they picked on the guy called him Tar baby made fun of the way he talked. When he got with this slim white girl with long hair the sisters were mad at him. He got al types of bad looks , whispers, and curled lips.
@Leah Woods I don’t care what people do, as for me I believe in dating someone of a similar phenotype because I want to achieve genetic dominance in my offspring. They would be less prone to disorders and ailments.
you are not that intelligent at all. You having kids with someone with a similar phenotype would not make your kids have a less chance of having a disorder or any type of ailments. Your chances of getting a disorder or illness have to do with genetics but you can still get any type of illness without having the gene for it. "Genetic dominance" has nothing to do with phenotypes. Genetic dominance has to do with not having a gene for a type of illness (btw every single human has a gene that makes them more likely to get a certain illness) so no matter who you reproduce with, ur kids will never have genetic dominance because that is something that can not be achieved by anyone. Don't use scientific terms when you don't understand them.
@Greg Peterson That's not how it works. Africans have the highest amount of genetic diversity due to them being the founding population of humanity. That means that Africans in general are more genetically diverse amongst themselves compared to other peoples because they descend from a larger genepool. Europeans and Asians (and so forth) descend from a much smaller pool of ancestors, thus they are less genetically diverse, so from an African point of view, having a child with a non African makes the child LESS diverse, genetically not more. A (carbon)copy can never recreate the original.
Is interesting how a lot of people always want a high quality partner but they forget that they themselves need to be a quality person. This clicked for me in my 20s and once I understood that, I focused on building my self up and enjoying every ounce of my life as a single person. Not long after that I met my husband and got engaged in less then 6 months 💕
I think the biggest issue is what Kevin said. Some women haven’t reached the “AHA” moment in their life when it comes to relationships. It’s crazy how you can criticize men and tell us what we need to do better but the moment a man tells a woman what she needs to do better, it comes off as we are attacking you or trying to bring you down. That’s not the case, you should be able to take criticism and use the information to get better at relationships
I went thru this with my ex, brought nothing to the relationship and barely even wanted to cook on top of that. Once a man realizes that he is the prize (mainly because there are more women than men and god made it that way for a reason) then said man can fully understand his value amd pursue his purpose.
As a woman who's soaking up all this info nightly from KS...I'd have to agree with your comment. That AHA moment is very humbling...being criticized and accepting feedback is hard for us as women in general b/c we've never been conditioned in that manner (but once that light bulb goes off, its mind blowing. I'm understanding the error of my ways the more KS talks and am taking notes and actively applying the information given). Even as little girls EVERYTHING is catered to us and all we have to do is rest on pretty! Being held accountable and having to correct isn't something we've had to do, unlike boys...it's like that for you all since day one. The family structure is a valuable asset, and sad to say but majority of women are not raised with active fathers in the home that provide structure, discipline, knowledge or wisdom to guide them. So if they've never seen that, they're out here exploring without a map and their decisions will be based on bad information and guidance that came from them seeing their mothers choices and sub-consciously living their mothers results...it's def cyclical.
Man, that fourth caller who was thankful and grateful for the information you have provided. Awesome Sauce. Thank God someone has got it. Submission is not an ugly nor evil word.
I commented on a KS video about smiling and like 3 women attacked me for saying it was feminine and makes you happier 😩. I’m starting to see what BM mean about the struggle with BW.
15 bw at my job and not a one smile. All don't need to smile but dam, not even 1. Only time I see bw smiling nowadays is when she has a non black mate, when she get her revenge or when given money
I agree Kevin 100%. I was once that women that had to be a superwoman. Until I understood the needs of the black man I wanted as a life partner and how to take off the cape, cooperate and submit. This was not taught so I had to learn through relationships. This is a recipe for black women to get and keep a black man.
You should mute the mic when you ingest food or liquid. I'm not complaining I'm just saying. Actually take that back. If you get any better a beam of light gonna come take you away. Haha. Thanks
you cant get better in your time, its a metaphysical thing but your so deep into your brainwashing that its just a wash cycle generataion, thecurrent rop of millenials have to go through chronologial time to know the real ''time'' they are in, no talking will help , the new norm for women starts in 2024 when the millenial's will all be post wall aka 30-40 and with no free perch for women and with the term ''left over women'' going global. the new norm is women are stuck in a hideous middle ground, more educated then their moms , of whom their own mom told them ''they will come into their own at the wall aka 28 and men will work harder for them'' and its not true its just a single mother tale to protect their kids from making mistakes outa ego to soon in life like the mom did. Today now we have gen z seeing this, they have to work just like mill's do , they have to school but they know theirs nothing waiting for them at 30 unlike gen millenial thought and they now have to humble up, mainly due to not seeing any free ride like the moms of millenials had of which their kid the millenials dont have, i mean every man wheter rich or poor wants a girl from 18-25 anyways so they now have the run of the place from men their own age to 45, young an virile guys to older rich guys who at 40 are looking 30. The men of today are skipping millenials but its no shock they are now all post wall aka 30-40, no loner can older sisters and moms groom their dauhters with 90s phantasies about indy women and how men will try more once they hit the wall, men have it easier today as now women must go dutch and even young girls know they will have to and if they dont have older sisters clinging onto to 90s and pre smart phone dating phantasies . men have taken the pill and now women around 2024 will be taking the pink pill, the new norm for post wall women= no perch. the new norm for pre wall women- no expectation of a soft landing or free lift off in life, this is progress.
There's a problem when a 38 year old can be so obtuse, short-sighted, and irrational in their thinking. How do you waste years in a relationship wanting marriage knowing well in advance he doesn't, and see nothing wrong with having more than one child unmarried? Time is a commodity that gives no refunds, and given her circumstances, she can't afford to be choosy when her whole demeanor isn't making her eligible to be a choice.
@@cjcalmus3305 I won't be as cold to say she wasn't worth sh*t, but I just think that at her age, her behavior and line of thought is extremely juvenile. At that stage of life, you should know how to pick and choose your battles than keeping on with the back and forth.
So I have dived deep into Kevin's podcast, and in EVERY video I have watched all the women on the live chats ALL giggle and laugh when a big truth hits home. They cannot take any criticism as a real fact and try and laugh it off. Its amazing.
Married my wife when we were both19. Almost 25 years later and we still go all out for each other. It worked for us. I've never thought i was too young to do what i did.
The first black man I dated was a dear friend of over 30 years. He dated white & black women. A black woman once asked him why he dated white women, and took a good black man away from black women. He responded with, “I don’t see color”, and “you love who you love.” I’ve only dated black men since then, bc that’s what I’m attracted to. The amazingly beautiful high value black man I’ve been with now for almost 2 years, says I’m the first white woman he’s dated, and that I treat him better than ANY woman he dated. He said he knew after 3 or 4 months that I was the ONE. We can’t get enough of each other!
"I've been cooperative with a provider male" "With who?" "My children's father" "Why didn't he want to marry you?" "He wanted to get married but I didn't" "Why did you have kids" "I wanted to 2 kids so I got what I wanted" HO. LY. SHIT. I can't believe she thinks that makes sense.
Dude i was laughing my ass off at that part, like wait is she serious, does she even hear herself? The hell is going on, are her ears disconnected from her head?
I literally cannot remember the last time the black woman looked at me with any sort of interest. I am on my second marriage to a white woman that everyday tells me how she is attracted to me. It's not that hard, ladies. But your pride will be your destruction and that's biblical.
I had to pause at the 39:00 mark. Kevin said that a preofessor at UC Santa Barbara in California said the number one enrollees in his black masculine studies class were white women. The Professor asked the white women why they were taking his class and they responded by saying they like black men and they wanted to know more about the culture and about how they could be a better wife or girlfriend to black men. That's powerful and says a lot. It shows that some women will go above and beyond for their man even before the man becomes hers. It shows that some women are so devoted to the idea of becoming a better woman for their man that they are willing to put their pride aside by taking collegiate courses just so that they can learn how to better please their man. On one hand there are white women who will go out of their way to learn about black men. On the other hand there are many black women who don't even care enough to ask black men what they want; won't take time to understand black men; publicly speak negatively about black men...it's eye opening and revealing
Beautifully stated. However, I'm still concerned as to why these WW are so intrigued with learning the BM and not their own men. Please be careful. I have heard horror stories about those who have been groomed from birth to snatch or black men away. There are still black women being trained from birth to take care of our black men. We love you all, I promise. I will do even more to study you all, and I hope that more men will do the same for us. Dont let a particular type of black woman distort your views, just like I will never allow stereotypes and past experiences to blind me of the beauty of the black man ♥️
@@cedricadaniels7983 I am a white guy, and was just about to chime in and say that alot of that is virtue signaling, because no way white women are going to take a course about white men to learn how to better serve them.. hilarious. It is a "look at how I am better than the other whites" thing.
@@cedricadaniels7983 Sometimes it's because they want what's different. Most of those white women want black men for the right reasons a small minority not so much.
To hear a woman say I didn’t marry him cuz I didn’t see the rest of my life with him BUT you had not one but TWO children is just mind blowing. A child is more permanent than a marriage. You hear this on here daily, it’s laughable at this point
Bro I totally felt this message!!!!!! I had no success with just dating black women, because they are quicker to judge when I tell them my profession, my goals and what kind of man I am: CIA with an emphasis on the A-assertive who wants a relationship and eventually marriage with the original patriarchal order of a family. Now all I’m looking for is a feminine, submissive woman who’s more beautiful on the inside than the outside who wants to be who God created her to be: a helper and supporter for her husband that puts me first before anything, everything and everyone.
It's been few days since I'm watching KS videos, and they are very informative especially for me as an African. The one thing that's always shocking to me is when I hear those "baby mamas" (as you call them) say that they got their children when they were "young and stupid". That's the worst thing you can say about your children. I can't even fathom the psychological impact on a child who thinks to himself/herself: "I'm the product of my mother's stupidity".
We grow up to understand the type of culture our parents were engineered into. Just like as an 80's baby, we don't think to ourselves that our fathers were neglectful. Nobody had fathers. It was the crack era/gang era.. Alot of fathers didn't overcome it.
As a young black man I can tell you exactly why I’ve been interested in dating outside my race. Simply put... Growing up i always felt like black women just didn’t like me. Not to paint this picture on all black women, but I felt this way simply because of the way they treated me. And I solely think this because, just to sum up my experience, I’ve always felt too black for the white community and too white for the black community. I can hang with either... I feel more like a social Butterfly if you will but when it came to dating I didnt get treated the same as if it was no respect towards me because I wasn’t like most black guys. One thing I do recall is how other races treated me and like most men I just want women to be nice to me, which was what I found upon other races. Im 23 now on my path to becoming a hvm thanks to The Godfather and ironically only dated black women up until this point. I’m seeking outside my race for the first time and hopefully I can find the one.
Wait 🤔 this makes no sense. If black women were so horrible to you then how are they all you dated until now? Now that you’re almost successful. It’s funny that black women are no longer your choice now that you’re almost where you want to be. So sad 🤦🏾♀️
@@The5ftgoddess it’s not that they aren’t my choice. They just aren’t my only choice. And yes I dated them because growing up I was always told not to date anything but black. Never worked out thoe so... hence the outcome.
'Who hurt you' is really, "I'm losing this and dont have a valid response to the topic so im going to deflect it by trying to shame the individuals motive."
I am so thankful for you Kevin. Your show has taught me so much, and is truly what the world needs. Many complain about your periodical “harsh” approach, but fell to understand the reason they’re perceiving the message as “harsh”, is due to the overwhelming amount of rock-a-bye-baby, poor me rhetoric you find these days. You’ve awakened the giant! Once again, thank you.
Brother I just found your show today, but I still wanted to comment...BTW I subscribe too. I'm a Black Man that makes six figures, and have been married to a white woman for 22yrs. First, I love black women, and have dated a few. However, growing up being attracted to black girls wasn't an easy road. I was either to dark most of the time, to skinny, or a schoolboy, because I got good grades and didn't want to get high/drunk in the high school parking lot. I was an athlete & had goals of getting a college degree. Many of the black girls wanted the thug or the light skinned brotha. When it came to white women that liked black men they never commented on how dark I was in fact the darker the better for most...I have a lot more to say about this topic, but I will leave it at this for now!
@Cimarron Negro 💯 agree with you. Also, if you have the means, why limit yourself to American Black Women? If you can, see about importing more cooperative sistas from other countries. South America, Europe, Caribbean, hell go back to the Motherland to source out and get a cooperative female if you want a Black Woman. Brothas you have options. Stop taking what these crazy women are giving you.
1:49:00 Agreed👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽Kevin is helping so many married people too. And when the caller said she “felt her mother’s evil spirit still in her “...That was powerful because it does feel that way as you are cleansing yourself of such bile. Congratulations to all of the Wives That were raised by angry women but didn’t let it stop them. Also, Love and Power to all continuing to move past such traumas. 💯♥️🧘🏽♀️
I just want to tell my black sisters to be careful because one thing i have noticed is that when White Women or other non black women befriend BW they encourage these attitudes of independence, strong, loud and “body positivity “ and “I don’t need a man” attitude. They encourage these behaviours because they know you will not have chances of getting any man if you fall for it. They will act like they with you to your face but underground they stay feminine and know their place and role in a mans life. At the end of the day they attract the BM in your life whilst you stay single with your so called independent lifestyle. Ladies if you want to win in this Dating market you have to remain feminine, elegant ,classy, in shape, agreeable to men etc .The world is fooling you, don’t fall for it. I actually think most non B women who associate themselves with Black Women are there to increase the likelihood of a black male noticing them. They will copy your positives, imitate your likeness, learn your culture and use it to get the men whilst they encourage you to be mediocre out here. I have some non B women who from the moment they befriend me they are asking me to show them how to make African food and introduce them to African/black music trends. Wonder why🤔? Watch out ladies.
And ladies yes some black men may just be attracted to white women but MOST of them are sexually attracted to black women. Hence why their non Black mates run around to get the BWs features, they are insecure because they know the black womans features attracts their man. Also if you ask BM that date out why they date out they say “because BW...” You are their preference but the question is are you giving them the option to choose you? Are you compatible to a man? Compete ladies, Compete!!!! We are late to the party, every other race of women don’t need to be told this. We have to ask ourselves these things sometimes.
So true dated black women for 12 plus years and did not work out. When I had given up I met a gorgeous white woman who was mature supportive and loving to support my career.
I love how you threw questions right back her! People need to open their eyes up and get over this craziness, everyone just cooperate and be happy with who they want.
I love the 2 women, the 31 year old that move to ATL and the woman that was thanking Kevin, because they were so humble. They actually took the advice given and held themselves accountable. Great healthy relationships will befall them
“I wanted 2 babies, a boy and a girl and I got what I wanted..…but didn’t want to get married….. what’s wrong with that?” And that, people , is the problem. Our culture accepts women who have babies out of wedlock ….. But oh Lordy! Don’t judge her for it! That is totally unacceptable!
The caller that said black women feel entitled to black men was 100% on point and you can see it in how a lot of black women act when they're with non black men. They get in the gym and lose weight. They tone the attitude down. Many of them stop wearing wigs and weaves and wear their natural hair. Things black men have been asking of black women for decades but we can never get it. They do it for the non black man because they know that if he wanted, he could drop her in a second and get a woman of his own race. Black men were supposed to be their safe haven where they can go get a man without having to work on themselves. A lot of them don't want us to have standards because if we no longer accept the shit non black men won't accept, who will take their mediocrity?
There was a time when I was broke and Black Women never looked at me even once because I did not have anything! Black women said that I didn't "talk black" (whatever that means), I did not participate in sports (majored in Engineering) and did not dress cool enough (I had no money). When I met my wife (who's white), her reponse to me being broke was, "well, you look like you have some potential, let's just see how it goes". I'm now a 1%'er and she supported me completely until our business got to where it is now. She loved and cherished me when I had nothing. I love black women, I think they did not love me.
This reminds me of my husband. When we met, he was wearing clothes from Goodwill lol. I never cared. When we moved in together, I paid all the bills so he could funnel all of his income into his business. I encouraged him to take risks that he was previously afraid to take because he could officially “afford” to fail because I promised him that I would have his back. He's done amazingly well ever since and I couldn't be more proud of his accomplishments. We are both black.
The solution is to live your life and seek the woman you want even if it means getting woman from another culture! I try to stay away from American women or women who are Americanized! American women want traditional men but they aren't traditional and they aren't trained to be wives, especial black women!
An old analogy we used in an investment firm I used to work for. When you're drowning in the middle of the sea, you have no time or concern to worry about "the color" of the hand that's saving you. I'll leave it at that.
Excellent show. The one woman who mentioned she only felt hostility from her black mother was sad to hear. She thought it was normal until she heard a non-black woman speak sweet/softly to her own kids was eye-opening for her.
I can tell you this. I am hispanic. my daughter plays sports in a club. This club is 75% white, 15%hispanic, 5% black, 5% others. I have seen so far 2 high value men at this club ( clean cut, tall, fit, and most importantly family oriented as they are watching their kids while they play). To make the story short I have exchange some words with them before I confirmed they were married. And their wives which I met later one are " white" fit, athletic, very friendly and confident of what they have.
We've ACCEPTED antisocial behavior ( arrogance, superiority complex , lewd sexual displays , having babies out of wedlock , sexualization of black women by black women (Cardi B/ Megan the stallion/Lizzo) unhealthy habits. There's more to parenting than being able to afford to feed & clothe a child. A broken home creates overly independent aggressive women who don't know how to go about finding good partners because they themselves are lacking in creating a stable family.
most of these issues stem from what? Broken homes and women doing what they can to provide by themselves. For every Meg and cardi there are 100 male rappers talking about killing and drug taking. Let’s stop here…
Sexualization of Black women goes WAYYYY further than Meg and other current rappers. And Cardi isn't even Black. But anyways, you can't put that shit on them, because it's nothing new. That shit has been happening for a LONG TIME ‼️💯
One of the saddest things i've seen ... is a gym full of grade school kids (mostly black, but some white) losing THEIR MINDS because Sexy Red visited their school. A room full of little black kids and a handful of white kids, all singing "my coochie pink, my booty-hole brown!" and dancing provocatively, twerking, and loving it. I'm old enough to remember when hiphop was about material gain and violence, but also told a story of overcoming adversity, working hard, and having honor above all else. Biggie Smalls' 'Juicy' - for example. Now it's just filth... and these kids see these people as role models.
1:30:00 That is so true. BW are unapproachable. You try to approach a BW and they are too entitled to be even welcoming. They will call you thirsty and lame before you finish introducing yourself. Funny thing is that this spectacle act is acknowledged as a badge of honor among her friends. Yes she will let everyone know how she curves these men and how she doesn't understand why it's always lames that approach her. I hear about this kind of scenario from the office when these BW are chatting. This is why men don't even bother approaching them anyway.
Very sad. Nobody should be treated that way. If you're not interested, be pleasant and move on. No need to be nasty to anyone. Having good manners goes a long way. And boasting about "lames" approaching you is poor form. It takes alot of courage to go up to someone and show your interest. They should be flattered, not show disdain. That's horrible.
That's not true. All black women are not like that. When men approach me I treat them the way I would want to be treated. If you follow that you can't go wrong. I smile and I'm polite. You get farther in life from being kind than being nasty.
A few years back my cousin was at a motorcycle rally. They were camping. He was walking back to his tent and saw an Asian woman crying. He stopped to see if she was OK. Her bf got mad and left her. My cousin offered to let her sleep in his tent. He didn't try anything. He woke up and she was gone. All his clothes and things were folded and organized.
That’s how Asian women are.. I don’t know about the New American born Asian girls though .. I once dated a Japanese .. first time at my house I woke up and everything was organized .. I was shocked lol
The point about coming from a culture of male authority is spot on. A lot of us black people come from broken homes. In those cases it’s usually a woman in authority, so a lot of our women do not have the capability or capacity or understanding on how to let a man lead. So in turn the men will find someone who will
I concur with you sir! Today's Black Women fail to relinquish their authority thinking "I'm not giving up what I've got" attitude, fail to listen, and mainly the need to be right. But theory, black women just can't accept a black man with a white woman. There stands the problem again, refuse to give up Authority, not Cooperate, and need to be right! Why? Because the Truth hurts! They won't admit it, but say "Whatever"!
But how is this our fault . The broken homes are because poor choices men make and women make . Can’t make a broken home alone . Men need to take accountability. We need more black men leaders
@@God.sDaughter Of course not. Then again, if he is actually being abusive, i dont think saying no makes a difference. Dont be in an abusive relationship. If your relationship is good, be cooperative.
Race doesn’t matter. What matters is if the person is genuinely interested in you, who understands you or what you are going through, who wants to be around you for you.
Where do you interracial couples live at? I live in Arizona and I’ve literally never seen a Latina dating a black man. I barely even see black men dating white women. Maybe you’re from New York
I have a "black" friend girl who was just like that. She didn't feel like she had to compete and that it was a man's job to come and rescue her. I hate the entitlement. I'm like you'll be single forever if you think you won't have to put forth any effort to secure the kind of man you want. Alot of "black" women's expectations and standards are totally unrealistic.
I make 6 figures but I'm not handsome. The black women I've tried to date act like they're doing me a favor and are looking for insta-marriage. The middle eastern woman I'm going out with acts like she won the lottery just because we're dating. Why date someone who treats me like I'm everyday bologna when I can do better?
Actually you CAN steal someone that was never yours lol what you meant was “you can’t steal someone that was never taken” imagine saying to the judge “I’m not a thief! You can’t steal something that was never yours!!” LMAO
BW you need to have a open mind to meeting BM, " stores, market, gym, gas station, dmv, work, mall, park" you get the idea. Quality BM are passing you on a regular and most of you BW don't even speak or give a smile. This is one of the reason(s) that BM are dating outside their race.
Black women don't gotta do nothing let them stay the hell away from us, tell them continue doing what they do so more black men can continue dating out. As long as we can get black women away from us, we're doing good.
As a black man I wanted nothing more than a black woman to marry. Unfortunately black women never wanted me. Now my wife is a Mexican women. She doesn't even speak English so I'm learning Español for her.
My question is why is that when a brotha who put the hard work, time, and effort in to be successful gets backlash from sistas who have made poor decisions in their life? Dont you think you should listen to someone successful has to say so you can learn? Or is it the fact that you choose a path of failure and want to stubborn and arrogant and bring people down to your level because you're a sore loser?
@fenugreek lover have you ever heard of the words jealousy and envy? What are you 4? Name me an example of a successful person giving back lash of another successful person. Because that sure as he'll doesn't make sense. One of the "successful" person MUST FAIL or in order to get back lash to the person that succeeded where they didn't. This is like kindergarten logic. You must be young and/or female
@@innerpowerup That's not "socialization". What are you talking about? Look at the movies, social media and music? It's black men that have stated very loudly black women aren't good enough because of "skin" color not for any other reason. Black women are the ones that are starting to get the message and start thinking "perhaps I should go where I'm desired". Men like the one in this video want black women to stay in the "fighting over them" element because it gives them status to other races of women. No woman wants an undesirable man on average. So he's just telling black women to stick in their and mule along. Notice he's pro swirling when it's a black men with any other race but when it's black women he mocks them with his "where's Waldo" commentary.
Man i got to tell you something that I just thought of.. You made a good statement about not saying NO.. MY wife while dating said yes to things which made me look at her different.. wanna go scuba driving, yes, wanna go here yes. wanna ride this roller coaster in the front seat yes.. Which is a major reason I started to get close.
I believe that men just don't want to have to deal with drama and Bullsh!t from any woman, black or white especially having to put up with Bebe's kids..
Who else is here re-watching the old shows after his passing?
Just returned now. Took a few months. Still devastated. On the plus side the man is a legend and we're lucky enough to have these videos to re-watch.
This information is timeless
Has he past away? This is the first time I’ve seen him 😢
@@johannaalexander2009 Yeah. I only learned about him last week. He has already changed my views for the better
DAILY!….. AND IM MARRIED!!
They’re “choosy” about the men they marry, but not the men they bare children with. 🤔
Fucking facts man. They spread legs wide , and bust it wide open for them random assholes and guys they know wont take them serious, but when a brotha come along that does take them serious its test after test after fucking test.
Yeah that's 100%
Damnnnn son
You nailed it. They expect you to bail them out after they've had their fun. The whole "I was young and didn't know any better" excuse. Yeah I was young too. The difference was my younger days wasn't a revolving door to the bedroom.
That's because their zaddy "Uncle Sam" will have their backs. No matter the quality of man, the family courts will make him give her money for that child.
what's up fellassss “Choose a woman who chooses you.” Facts💯
glad i can help bro ❤️💯 more on my channel
Way of the superior man.
Check for who will check for you
Let’s go!!!💯💯💯
@Leah Woods you sound hurt
My first wife Black, expected constant perfection. If I sneezed the wrong direction she was ready to walk. Once I had enough of being belittled and emotionally abused, I actively seeked out the complete opposite in a woman. Mostly as an experiment. 6 months later I met a white woman whom I arranged to meet at a McDonald's for our first meal together (part of the experiment). This woman throughput our relationship exhibited endless patience fairness and attempts at understanding. Not to mention she has no psychological hangups with a church or a bedroom. We have
been married now for 15 years. When we're holding hands and pass a salty eyed black woman on the street. I keep it pushing guilt free
Wow! Peace over a guilt from racial obligation. Good choice
Good for you bro.
Sounds like winning, sir.
If she expected constant perfection; why did you marry her in the first place?
@@5822huron that's a real statement.
White women are not "stealing" ANYTHING. What Black women won't do, somebody else will. Without all of the yelling, fighting, and drama, period.
facts...
You absolutely right with that ✅✅
I’ve been reading these comments for about an hour now. This right here is so on point, I think I can finally log off and start my day.
My mom is white and all she does is yell, fight, and start drama.
@@djdramademiks6823 One day when you grow up, you'll learn that women are women. They all do that to some degree, especially Western women.
Men prefer pretty. Appearance wise...pretty girls are found in all races.
Temperament is a whole different story.
"pretty girls are found in all races"
True, but percentage-wise too?
Even the majority of Black top models tend to have Caucasoid or Ethiopid features.
@@abasotto1697 actually they absolutely do. Not only do different races have different features, but so too different nations within a race can be distinguished through features. Which is why you can tell different Asians, Africans and Europeans apart nationally based on appearance.
Kenyans don't look like Nigerians for example.
Norwegians don't look like Italians
I wouldn't expect you to understand evolutionary biology though.
@@abasotto1697 See the video. It's about WHITE women and BLACK men. Clearly these women and men are distinguished by their features (including but not limited to skin color), and even you yourself are agreeing these are different races.
@@MorusAlba1975 and the other way around. White people with thin lips are not good looking, big nose.. For example black features would be considered full lips, among other beautiful black features. So yes. There are pretty people in all races.
@@klnj9714 I'm not aware of any sub-Saharan African women with those features. Whenever they occur, it's among people who have (partial) Ethiopid and/or Caucasoid ancestry. They're Eurasian features. The only places in Africa where they naturally occur are in the north and north-east, where there has been millennia of trade with Arabs, Egyptians, Europeans etc. Within America, all Blacks have some degree of European ancestry. Among celebrity Blacks it tends to be around 25% or more.
As a black man growing up, it wasn't the white girls who made fun of me for "talking white", for reading books for fun, and for not being into the street life. As soon as I got a white girlfriend it turned into "what, you don't like black girls or something?"
My ex wife is black and my current wife is black. I've loved black women all my life, it took them a while to love me.
Real talk fam. I'm going through that now. Crazy
@Manuel Patterson damn straight
Dude same
Same here!
yeah once they grew up and realized "oh damn this smart guy with a job and non-saggy pants is actually kind of lit"
One of my boys that I work out with is a high value black man (high earner, shredded physique, quality character, hilarious, super friendly) I asked him why he only dates non-Black women and he replied “because I don’t enjoy arguing.” I found that very interesting.
Great response 💯🤣
I dated black women all my life. One thing that never click for me was college. I never really wanted to go to college, but instead start my own business. Every black woman I dated looked at me crazy when I said that. We're made to believe that college is the only way to success in the black community. So I put off my dream because every BW I shared my dream with was only concern about having a 9-5 and me told me it was stupid.
I met my now wife (a white woman), years later and still had that same dream. I went to college btw got my master's, and still couldn't get this dream out my head. My now wife didn't think it was a bad idea and encouraged me. It's been two years now, and I run a successful marketing company. When I'm seen with her out and public BW are like "why you got a white woman".
I never went to college marine biologist jobs want me to work for them because I know a shit Ton of things from research over my years and all I ever learned I used information from books and google with obvious evidence of course college is what the American system uses to screw children and make them go in debt until they are 60 such as a house
Good for you!!!Glad you followed your dreams and have a partner to encourage and support🙏
@JUICE JAMES who asked for a payment? he told it for free! Why would you think your required to buy something that you could take or leave and why would we care about what you decided?
@@clementineschalchen330 or say, a wife? Haha
@@clementineschalchen330 It’s obvious you didn’t go to college because your comment was barely even readable and literate. You need to mentally mature.
Im Puerto Rican MARRIED to a black dude. We both started at the bottom, built a life together. 18 years married this year. :)
Congratulations that's what's up
Beautiful.
Congrats,,,sincerely all the best for you and yours my sister, " behind every great man is that great woman to encourage him" peace onto you.
13yrs for me. Congrats
Lolly pop you mean you're a white Puertorican
Growing up and when I was in the dating scene, I had my struggles talking or impressing black women. As a black guy, I was viewed as a square, a nice guy and a push over. It used to frustrate me. However, I’m married to a beautiful Hispanic woman who loves me for me. I’ve never hated Black women of course. God looked out for me though. It just wasn’t meant for me to be with a black woman and I’m good with that.
Guyz don’t leave me behind . Im with an amazing beautiful cooperative feminine columbian woman and i could tell you thats the best thing that happen to my 35 years of existence on this planet earth. That woman treat me like a KING. Never taught that this type of caliber women existed.
You have to get with who loves you and that’s it period !!
Funny I have a Latina wife to your story sounds the same as mine
Mad facts bro
I’m sorry you went through that, glad you have an amazing wife!
As a Gen Z black man (20 years old) I can confirm that black men in college and highschool are more comfortable than ever to date outside of our race
So i see
As it should be.. skin colour shouldn't matter, character should.
Haven’t encountered as much blatant disrespect from the opposite gender outside my race. Either going to another country to find a wife or a non black American
That’s the problem the lack of knowledge will destroy our people speaking as a gen z 17 year old
23 and yeah
Im a black woman who love and respect black men. I can understand why every race of women under the sun would want to be with our black Kings. By some chance ladies if our black men is crossing over to another race, STUDY THEIR WAYS AND GIVE THEM COMPETITION. Some women can't handle the truth so that is why our men is setting us free. Black women is always talking when we should be listening and learning. Be women and respect and love your man. Stop trying to over power him and compete with him. I have no problem being submissive to my husband, He doesn't need my help with his manhood, HE GOT THAT. I have my hands full perfecting my role as a wife and mother. KEEPING OUR FAMILY STRONG BY ANY MEANS NECESSARY.
1000000 Respect ✊🏾
Smart.
@Malcolm X Garvey i never felt like a push over. My husband is the head of our household and i don't have a problem with that. I respect his role and he respect mine. I adore him and trust his leadership. That's just a few of the reasons why i married him. I'm happy and content being his wife...Being his best friend.....Being the mother of his children....Being a woman.
Powerful powerful words ..🙏🏾💫
are not is
I married a Latina, and I can't be more happy with my wife. Because when I do my job and lead my household she doesn't complain/give attitude. She listens, because she was raised to be a wife and not a headache.
Say Latina tho.
Headache 😂
Latina my guy ☠️
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So did I, facts!
My wife is Malaysian and British. Yes, the rocky relationship I had with my mother, sister and early black girlfriends led me to try my wife. She was my first interracial relationship and we got married. 13 years, two beautiful kids.
Reminds of my grandfather and grandmother 🥰
Congratulations
My fiancee is Filipina. I dated BW for 31 years. I met her and it is soo much easier and so less taxing
@@dr.timothyfuller8763 Good taste!
Appreciation, respect and honor goes beyond any race, creed and color, because, everyone wants that.
1:16:38 imagine growing up without your father, only to find out as an adult that your father wanted to be a dad and a husband and your mom used him to get kids, then proceeded to raise you alone because she “got what she wanted”.
Their immaturity and selfishness will have a profound effect on her children when they get older. But she doesn’t care because she’s so selfish and self centered.
Intro🎵: 0:00
Show Starts: 15:07
Monologue: 19:22 The Godfather talks Interracial dating.
Money World💰🌎💃🏿: 48:35
First Caller: 54:12 38y/o woman says it's preference and lack of certain qualities, says she left her HVM early in life but had kids with him?🤔
Second Caller: 1:17:58 43y/o WW calls in to thank The Godfather for "free game", says she's unlearning feminism?
1:20:22 The Godfather continues conversation with the first caller.
Third Caller: 1:25:54 31y/o woman looking for HVM but sleeping with her ex? says BW aren't in "those spaces" as BM.
Fourth Caller: 1:46:01 married woman calls in to thank The Godfather, says her children's lineage owes him their lives? 🤯
Fifth Caller: 1:50:53 she says BW feel "entitled" to BM and don't want to do the work to attract one.
Sixth Caller: 1:52:49 28y/o woman says it's hard to find HVM BM to date, The Godfather investigates.
2:00:44 The Godfather continues conversation with the first caller it finally ends in Taps🤣🎺!
The Godfather summarizes the show/Previews next shows: 2:12:29
Thank you, brother! 🙏🏾
Thank you! Your work is appreciated. ✊🏾🙌🏾
the goat
Legend 🙏🏾
@Good Men you are a good gentleman lol.
Request: can you please convince Kevin to read, acknowledge and comment on the superchats? A few but not all? I believe a fan appreciation moment will add a new dimension to his show -- think of it as another layer of viewer engagement. We understand why certain folks get special shout outs and songs. I think acknowledging what people have to say and offer will lead to a "heavier gift basket"...cheers and stay blessed!!
I'm just here for the spinning sticks.
that spinny stick got me stuck!
Hypnotizing
😭😂😭
I just found them on Amazon 😂
@@basilhaamid1355 what are they called. I gotta get one too.
It's simple. 1. Don't have children outside of marriage 2. Choose the best man when you have the highest sexual value 3. Stay there. Your choices won't go up later
BW : 1. Ignore the quality man. 2. Date aholes and have multiple kids out of marriage 3. Demand and EXPECT a high value man to swoop in and take care of you and the other guys' children. ..and be grateful
When does woman have their best sexual value? 25? 23?
@Odala I was personally thinking about 23 as I've seen some studies that said that 25 is the average peak of fertility, and on a side note I still have a lot to work on especially my feminity, skills hobbies etc. What do u think?
@@amych4632 whenever they learn how to give head right
@@amych4632 18-22 is the universal standard. It's evolution. 18 is definitely all the way through puberty and definitely beautiful (unless she is at the bottom of the barrel in looks). Most men find the average woman to be above average in attractiveness.
Love has no boundaries. My husband is black and we have 3 children (27, 24, and 8). We’ve had our struggles but as long and I respect him and give him the space he needs we’re Golden.
♥️
That's quite a bit of black men marrying on the download that are marrying white women
@@reneecollins9681 download???
This isn't the Matrix.
“The space he needs?” What’s he doing in space without you? Aren’t you his everything?
@lil tanto Tanto are you black or white... ? If not, you have no idea of the dynamic between the black and white race.....
Why do women talk to men the way they do and expect to have a conversation?
underrated comment.
Bingo.... Today. This morning my wife was driving and a black lady was turning without using her signal. She got out of her car screaming at us. Im a dude and she didn't care. All she noticed was my White wife.. Wondering why I switched.
Man up to them and they won't... .you know you can be too nice..... ijs
Exactly!!!
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With me I’ve noticed most black women that I come across the first thing they judge me on is how “street” or how “Hood” I am and if I’m not hood enough to their liking they see me as not valuable and with other races such as Latina I can be myself and not have to worry about that.
@@emancipatednegress1524 females that are into “hood” dudes aren’t just females who are in the hood. You missed the point, I graduated from college and some black females I’ve came across were looking for a guy with a hood like character or mentality for the “thrill”. This does not mean my college is located in the hood, that I’m from the hood, or looking for hood chicks. This also does not mean I’m interested in hood chicks, they are regular black girls who just haven’t been taught to look for things in a man with long lasting relationship characteristics. The comment you read also did not state he was choosing these women it was just an observation, we are not fascinated by hood women, and do not want them, on average they carry a lot of the S.I.G.N. Low value characteristics
@@emancipatednegress1524 I said black women that I come across. I live in the suburbs I don’t go for “Hood Chicks” I’m not referring to women that I pursue I’m referring to black women that I come across or meet or women that have pursued me. This is what they judge men on from my observation. Ive seen this from black women of all kind I seen this from women who are co-workers that find me attractive, Women in public, women from dating sites or anywhere. I never said I pursued these type of women all I said was most black women tend that I have came accross from all backgrounds tend to judge based off of that.
@@emancipatednegress1524 these black women that i am referring to that I have met and encountered with are from all over Dallas from many places. Some have even been women with degrees, women I’ve met at Bible study, women from all over.
@@emancipatednegress1524 I don’t hang around Hood people at all. I live in the suberbs there are no Hood people around me. I never grew up around Hood people. Again I never said anything about black women being “hood”. All I said was they judge me from not being “hood” enough.
@@camijade2209 lol my point exactly!
The one thing we must stop is the kings and queens crap
We need to understand how hierarchies operate. Everybody are not kings and queens.
For real.
Thank you! Hahah
I'm not black, but this is 100 percent true. Do black people realize how stupid and arrogant this sounds to other races?
@@benfoster5387 umm all races say this
@@elena-bz5gl is that what you really think? Wow.
Proverbs 25:24
It's better to live alone in a corner of an attic than with a quarrelsome wife in a lovely home
Latinas are being encouraged and fed their ego from their own man and also some black man .
Ohhh I want a fiesty Latina you hear man see this all the time .
That's the word of God ...found in Proverbs!!!
It's better to live with a lovely wife in a lovely home rather than living alone in a lovely home. LOL
I am a HVM and I am really attracted to black women but I ended up marrying a white woman. What happened is.. when I went to school middle/high, I was different. I never wore the clothing that was in style for where I grew up, I wore sport coats with jeans and loafers etc. And my mom (single mom) couldn't afford name popular branded tennis shoes (which is why I wore loafers/dress shoes). They didn't have brand logos on them. When I got older and went to college, I would always be approached by white women. When I would approach black women, they weren't as interested. They typically wanted the guy who dressed and acted cooler.. this led me to begin going out with them and spending more time in parts of town that were majority white. I dated where I hung out. I'm handsome, polite, 6'2", I work out (NFL player build), and I now make over $500k. I still wear suits, sport coats, etc (just custom now lol). I drive mercedes, tesla, etc and I get attention from black women now. It's weird. If it had happened at an earlier age, I probably would have ended up marrying black. Idk. Random message
Wow your story is interesting
God damn 500k. how old are you?
@@JeffWithAnF 35
@@geno816 Nice! Good for you man. Stem or business?
@@JeffWithAnF business
You wanna see Blk women loose their mind over interracial dating? Look how grown Blk women totally loose their mind over Lebron James' son when they saw he was dating a white girl. Mind you this kid JUST turned 16.
Lol a lot of tears
But they will not critize the Obama sisters!
@@FreeAgent99 so not true!!
@@FreeAgent99 they sure won't they say she "upgraded and looks beautiful together and they look happy."
Sun Light Show us the criticism of the Obama sisters coming from BW. Otherwise, stop speaking outta your bum, Sister.
I really don't know how you have these conversations with these women. They have incredibly strong opinions and yet when you ask questions they give the response similar to that of my 11 year old son with the pauses and the "idk." They don't know this BEFORE they call in?
Women are not usually logical
Just like the dating market
Most men would just walk away from them, but I think Kevin stays there to hear their bs. He sniffs out their bs very well
Welcome to what so many men are subjected to daily. So many facepalm moments.
@@groneass2006 I’ve been there too. I felt like a dad/caretaker.
I was married to a white man for 30 years then he passed 5 years ago. I am now dating a black man. Reasons- treats me right, takes charge, caring, works hard, has dreams and visions, Christian and loves me unconditionally.
♥️
@@Kelly-pp1et I thought she looked 60-70 🥴lemme shut up tho…
Dress size?
Or as the godfather would say, you didn't earn the hvm or choose poorly, then found someone you "settled" for, i.e., put your ego aside and realized you are a 5, and then you found happiness.
Yet you still lack accountability and blame everyone else for your past relationships.
Are yall still dating?
I am a 23 year old black female , college student and I listen to Kevin almost every day I get, I hope for his philosophy to reach the masses , because it’s not about what gets said it’s about who said it . Also a lot of the black men in my social class who date white woman say that “white woman are just nicer , they talk nice to you “ . Black woman are really losing our men or our selves, is the bar really that low where we don’t even talk nice to our men ? Because some of my own friends talk so harshly to their boyfriend and men in their lives , I’m just like that Is why , ever since I’ve came to this realization, I have came to practice femininity and femininity and feminism from my experiences do not go together , their is no other race that disrespects their own race more than the black race. I want to know why has the black man became enemy number 1 ?
Dam!! I feel nothing but realness and sincerity from this. It's crazy because it's honestly to much to type back for a reply.
Dump feminism which toxic and cultivate feminism. I think you have it right.
Feminism is your enemy.. femininity and feminism don't mix..
I love being a feminine female and I love masculine men. It is our nature and the world feels right whenever we are in our roles. Feminist are too stuck in their victimhood and will have all woman be miserable if we listen to them. Look how they have attacked the family and how much woman suffer as a result. They say woman can have it all but woman just end up doing it all...who needs that? Luckily I grew up around woman who loved taking care of their husbands and kids and made it appealing to me as well. Making sure my husband is happy is a lot better than working 2 jobs and being a single mom.
It ain't easy for us.
The first caller is 38 and still cant act like a respectful person. Incredible proof of his point
Yes very condescending tone
I’m close to Kevin’s age, 6’6 BM male, ex military, I can count on one hand how many BW have approached me in night clubs, school, work conferences, etc. White women, triple figures. Nearly every time I go out. Becky don’t let the grass grow under her feet.
I feel bus.. lol
I'm a 34 year old handsome WM on a quick upward trajectory financially, same deal. I can count on zero hands how many times a BW has even acknowledged my existence - forget being approached romantically. They don't want you, they don't want me, no idea what they want and I'm done trying to figure it out. I just know I'm not going to listen to them complain about being alone when I've been here for them on a silver platter in the past.
Why y’all expecting women to approach you? Some won’t because they are shy in that aspect. I don’t want some aggressive ass woman coming on to me. An alpha man will go after what he wants
There is a difference to a woman being approachable and being aggressive. I’ve had women just strike a very simple conversation with me, making an causal observation about something. Of course an alpha male will approach a woman, however, if you are in a nightclub, it’s a real pain in the ass to approach one woman when she is with a pack of six.
@@blacksnk Now the club part I agree with and usually the fine one will have at least one man hating ugly friend with her.
38yrs old, 2 teenagers, never married and still choosy. Can't make this up smh 🤦♂️
I never found anything like this that is both entertaining and educational. The man is dropping gems!!! 💎
Informative and Entertaining!!!!💯
What’s more striking about this conversation is that the majority of Black men marry Black women. If you follow the media, it tends to magnify the minority as if it’s the majority.
Yes I tell my sister and mother this all the time but they never listen.
Majority of SUCCESSFUL suit and tie black men marry non black women tho...thats the difference
Yes you are right .I never cared who was with who . I have been blessed with the best parents with no daddy issues
@@357savage Please support that statement with references
@@357savage not true. Statistically successful BM still marry black women more than non black women
I have never dated a white woman, none of my friends have ever dated a white woman with the exception of one dude who is African. Sisters did not want him, in school they picked on the guy called him Tar baby made fun of the way he talked. When he got with this slim white girl with long hair the sisters were mad at him. He got al types of bad looks , whispers, and curled lips.
@Leah Woods I don’t care what people do, as for me I believe in dating someone of a similar phenotype because I want to achieve genetic dominance in my offspring. They would be less prone to disorders and ailments.
@Sarah2988 Sunrise some but not all
Good for him! Wishing him well.
you are not that intelligent at all. You having kids with someone with a similar phenotype would not make your kids have a less chance of having a disorder or any type of ailments. Your chances of getting a disorder or illness have to do with genetics but you can still get any type of illness without having the gene for it. "Genetic dominance" has nothing to do with phenotypes. Genetic dominance has to do with not having a gene for a type of illness (btw every single human has a gene that makes them more likely to get a certain illness) so no matter who you reproduce with, ur kids will never have genetic dominance because that is something that can not be achieved by anyone. Don't use scientific terms when you don't understand them.
@Greg Peterson That's not how it works. Africans have the highest amount of genetic diversity due to them being the founding population of humanity. That means that Africans in general are more genetically diverse amongst themselves compared to other peoples because they descend from a larger genepool. Europeans and Asians (and so forth) descend from a much smaller pool of ancestors, thus they are less genetically diverse, so from an African point of view, having a child with a non African makes the child LESS diverse, genetically not more. A (carbon)copy can never recreate the original.
Is interesting how a lot of people always want a high quality partner but they forget that they themselves need to be a quality person. This clicked for me in my 20s and once I understood that, I focused on building my self up and enjoying every ounce of my life as a single person. Not long after that I met my husband and got engaged in less then 6 months 💕
Wow, that’s awesome!!
Congratulations
If the woman is gorgeous, affectionate, submissive... ; who cares the skin colour, it's a minor feature.
Not all men think for themselves some need brownie points from friends family society. 🤣
I care because I am not obsessed with having mixed children.
@@queenofbliss1115 lol
@@samuelosagie-aruya923 so you’re racist?
@@gazlondonboy2185 I'm curious how is that racist?
I think the biggest issue is what Kevin said. Some women haven’t reached the “AHA” moment in their life when it comes to relationships. It’s crazy how you can criticize men and tell us what we need to do better but the moment a man tells a woman what she needs to do better, it comes off as we are attacking you or trying to bring you down. That’s not the case, you should be able to take criticism and use the information to get better at relationships
I went thru this with my ex, brought nothing to the relationship and barely even wanted to cook on top of that. Once a man realizes that he is the prize (mainly because there are more women than men and god made it that way for a reason) then said man can fully understand his value amd pursue his purpose.
As a woman who's soaking up all this info nightly from KS...I'd have to agree with your comment. That AHA moment is very humbling...being criticized and accepting feedback is hard for us as women in general b/c we've never been conditioned in that manner (but once that light bulb goes off, its mind blowing. I'm understanding the error of my ways the more KS talks and am taking notes and actively applying the information given). Even as little girls EVERYTHING is catered to us and all we have to do is rest on pretty! Being held accountable and having to correct isn't something we've had to do, unlike boys...it's like that for you all since day one. The family structure is a valuable asset, and sad to say but majority of women are not raised with active fathers in the home that provide structure, discipline, knowledge or wisdom to guide them. So if they've never seen that, they're out here exploring without a map and their decisions will be based on bad information and guidance that came from them seeing their mothers choices and sub-consciously living their mothers results...it's def cyclical.
Accountability accountability accountability! Something foreign to most females.
@Cimarron Negro Of course, definitely applying it...
@Cimarron Negro Agreed. Just another defense mechanism.
Man, that fourth caller who was thankful and grateful for the information you have provided. Awesome Sauce. Thank God someone has got it. Submission is not an ugly nor evil word.
I commented on a KS video about smiling and like 3 women attacked me for saying it was feminine and makes you happier 😩. I’m starting to see what BM mean about the struggle with BW.
Yes when are telling the truth
Just smile for christ sakes it's free smh
I love the sistahs but they got alot of work to do.
15 bw at my job and not a one smile. All don't need to smile but dam, not even 1. Only time I see bw smiling nowadays is when she has a non black mate, when she get her revenge or when given money
I suspect BM no longer struggle with BW. They’ve simply moved on.
I agree Kevin 100%. I was once that women that had to be a superwoman. Until I understood the needs of the black man I wanted as a life partner and how to take off the cape, cooperate and submit. This was not taught so I had to learn through relationships. This is a recipe for black women to get and keep a black man.
I agree 100%. It's important to submit and remain humble and teachable.
Yep. And all of those women trying to live vicariously through you? They are mostly single or divorced, have kids and no prospects of their own. Ugh.
You should mute the mic when you ingest food or liquid. I'm not complaining I'm just saying. Actually take that back. If you get any better a beam of light gonna come take you away. Haha. Thanks
Exactly that's what us black men require
you cant get better in your time, its a metaphysical thing but your so deep into your brainwashing that its just a wash cycle generataion, thecurrent rop of millenials have to go through chronologial time to know the real ''time'' they are in, no talking will help , the new norm for women starts in 2024 when the millenial's will all be post wall aka 30-40 and with no free perch for women and with the term ''left over women'' going global. the new norm is women are stuck in a hideous middle ground, more educated then their moms , of whom their own mom told them ''they will come into their own at the wall aka 28 and men will work harder for them'' and its not true its just a single mother tale to protect their kids from making mistakes outa ego to soon in life like the mom did. Today now we have gen z seeing this, they have to work just like mill's do , they have to school but they know theirs nothing waiting for them at 30 unlike gen millenial thought and they now have to humble up, mainly due to not seeing any free ride like the moms of millenials had of which their kid the millenials dont have, i mean every man wheter rich or poor wants a girl from 18-25 anyways so they now have the run of the place from men their own age to 45, young an virile guys to older rich guys who at 40 are looking 30. The men of today are skipping millenials but its no shock they are now all post wall aka 30-40, no loner can older sisters and moms groom their dauhters with 90s phantasies about indy women and how men will try more once they hit the wall, men have it easier today as now women must go dutch and even young girls know they will have to and if they dont have older sisters clinging onto to 90s and pre smart phone dating phantasies . men have taken the pill and now women around 2024 will be taking the pink pill, the new norm for post wall women= no perch. the new norm for pre wall women- no expectation of a soft landing or free lift off in life, this is progress.
There's a problem when a 38 year old can be so obtuse, short-sighted, and irrational in their thinking. How do you waste years in a relationship wanting marriage knowing well in advance he doesn't, and see nothing wrong with having more than one child unmarried? Time is a commodity that gives no refunds, and given her circumstances, she can't afford to be choosy when her whole demeanor isn't making her eligible to be a choice.
Mind you then turn around and blame men, there has to be a diagnosis for this.
She wasn’t worth a s*** anyway. Just be glad she wasn’t free to ruin the life of someone who was going somewhere in life
@@cjcalmus3305 I won't be as cold to say she wasn't worth sh*t, but I just think that at her age, her behavior and line of thought is extremely juvenile. At that stage of life, you should know how to pick and choose your battles than keeping on with the back and forth.
First caller is textbook. Argumentative, headstrong and uncooperative
@Dog King Couldn’t have said it better brotha
So I have dived deep into Kevin's podcast, and in EVERY video I have watched all the women on the live chats ALL giggle and laugh when a big truth hits home. They cannot take any criticism as a real fact and try and laugh it off. Its amazing.
Married my wife when we were both19. Almost 25 years later and we still go all out for each other. It worked for us. I've never thought i was too young to do what i did.
The first black man I dated was a dear friend of over 30 years. He dated white & black women. A black woman once asked him why he dated white women, and took a good black man away from black women. He responded with, “I don’t see color”, and “you love who you love.” I’ve only dated black men since then, bc that’s what I’m attracted to. The amazingly beautiful high value black man I’ve been with now for almost 2 years, says I’m the first white woman he’s dated, and that I treat him better than ANY woman he dated. He said he knew after 3 or 4 months that I was the ONE. We can’t get enough of each other!
"I've been cooperative with a provider male"
"With who?"
"My children's father"
"Why didn't he want to marry you?"
"He wanted to get married but I didn't"
"Why did you have kids"
"I wanted to 2 kids so I got what I wanted"
HO. LY. SHIT. I can't believe she thinks that makes sense.
Dude i was laughing my ass off at that part, like wait is she serious, does she even hear herself? The hell is going on, are her ears disconnected from her head?
How can you laugh at that. What's going to become of ray ray and laqueisha?
@@The_ScapeGoat hey. LaKanisha Strugglesworth chose badly and probably wants someone to help clean up the mess
@@FlyRich72 Laksnisha Strugglesworth 😂😂😂😂😂😂 I’m dead
I think she's ddisturbed
"I'm on my husband's team" Yo!!! Let's Go! That gave me goosebumps.
I’m 22, God hasn’t brought me my man yet, but when he does I can’t wait to be his biggest support 🤗.
@@JESUSLOVESYOU219Have faith in Jesus alone to be saved. ❤
I literally cannot remember the last time the black woman looked at me with any sort of interest. I am on my second marriage to a white woman that everyday tells me how she is attracted to me. It's not that hard, ladies. But your pride will be your destruction and that's biblical.
This sounds like you want an ego boost from black women. Have you ever thought maybe they’re just not attracted to you?
@@madlaz5795 if he's married, he probably doesn't care.
Yeah shame on him for wanting his partner to tell him she’s attracted to him. 😂
@@madlaz5795 another shame tactic
I had to pause at the 39:00 mark. Kevin said that a preofessor at UC Santa Barbara in California said the number one enrollees in his black masculine studies class were white women. The Professor asked the white women why they were taking his class and they responded by saying they like black men and they wanted to know more about the culture and about how they could be a better wife or girlfriend to black men.
That's powerful and says a lot. It shows that some women will go above and beyond for their man even before the man becomes hers. It shows that some women are so devoted to the idea of becoming a better woman for their man that they are willing to put their pride aside by taking collegiate courses just so that they can learn how to better please their man.
On one hand there are white women who will go out of their way to learn about black men. On the other hand there are many black women who don't even care enough to ask black men what they want; won't take time to understand black men; publicly speak negatively about black men...it's eye opening and revealing
Beautifully stated. However, I'm still concerned as to why these WW are so intrigued with learning the BM and not their own men. Please be careful. I have heard horror stories about those who have been groomed from birth to snatch or black men away. There are still black women being trained from birth to take care of our black men. We love you all, I promise. I will do even more to study you all, and I hope that more men will do the same for us. Dont let a particular type of black woman distort your views, just like I will never allow stereotypes and past experiences to blind me of the beauty of the black man ♥️
@@cedricadaniels7983 I am a white guy, and was just about to chime in and say that alot of that is virtue signaling, because no way white women are going to take a course about white men to learn how to better serve them.. hilarious. It is a "look at how I am better than the other whites" thing.
@@cedricadaniels7983 Sometimes it's because they want what's different. Most of those white women want black men for the right reasons a small minority not so much.
woman : I am choosy
Internet : That's why nobody chooses you 🤣🤣
Exactly
Haha, right.
I can't keep my ADD under control with that spinning thing...🤣🤣🤣🤣
To hear a woman say I didn’t marry him cuz I didn’t see the rest of my life with him BUT you had not one but TWO children is just mind blowing. A child is more permanent than a marriage. You hear this on here daily, it’s laughable at this point
Re: “You picked poor!” So true
Bro I totally felt this message!!!!!! I had no success with just dating black women, because they are quicker to judge when I tell them my profession, my goals and what kind of man I am: CIA with an emphasis on the A-assertive who wants a relationship and eventually marriage with the original patriarchal order of a family. Now all I’m looking for is a feminine, submissive woman who’s more beautiful on the inside than the outside who wants to be who God created her to be: a helper and supporter for her husband that puts me first before anything, everything and everyone.
The channel is growing at an average rate of 5k subscribers per day. Tremendous stuff.
I just found him yesterday. His content is gold and it’s hilarious to see this stuff lol.
@@OrganicDolphin true
a lot of black women are not used to men speaking like this. But you are spot on Kevin
Dope Suit. RIP Legend.
It's been few days since I'm watching KS videos, and they are very informative especially for me as an African.
The one thing that's always shocking to me is when I hear those "baby mamas" (as you call them) say that they got their children when they were "young and stupid". That's the worst thing you can say about your children. I can't even fathom the psychological impact on a child who thinks to himself/herself: "I'm the product of my mother's stupidity".
We grow up to understand the type of culture our parents were engineered into. Just like as an 80's baby, we don't think to ourselves that our fathers were neglectful. Nobody had fathers. It was the crack era/gang era.. Alot of fathers didn't overcome it.
Wow!!!!
It’s not good
Love that you're educating these women👍🏿
As a young black man I can tell you exactly why I’ve been interested in dating outside my race. Simply put... Growing up i always felt like black women just didn’t like me. Not to paint this picture on all black women, but I felt this way simply because of the way they treated me. And I solely think this because, just to sum up my experience, I’ve always felt too black for the white community and too white for the black community. I can hang with either... I feel more like a social Butterfly if you will but when it came to dating I didnt get treated the same as if it was no respect towards me because I wasn’t like most black guys. One thing I do recall is how other races treated me and like most men I just want women to be nice to me, which was what I found upon other races. Im 23 now on my path to becoming a hvm thanks to The Godfather and ironically only dated black women up until this point. I’m seeking outside my race for the first time and hopefully I can find the one.
Wait 🤔 this makes no sense. If black women were so horrible to you then how are they all you dated until now? Now that you’re almost successful. It’s funny that black women are no longer your choice now that you’re almost where you want to be. So sad 🤦🏾♀️
@@The5ftgoddess it’s not that they aren’t my choice. They just aren’t my only choice. And yes I dated them because growing up I was always told not to date anything but black. Never worked out thoe so... hence the outcome.
Wow
Good luck
What is hvm mean?
Missing Kevin's presence in the world but grateful we have these great videos. Wish I could have heard him when I was in my 20's.
🤔"Who hurt you?"🤨 It's crazy that women go around saying who hurt you. It's like they know the horrible things they do to men and they laugh about it.
Them....Who hurt you?
Me....not Becky & Maria
@@samboo18fuksdogs1 lmao
It's hilarious because the women who often say that are the ones on anti-depressants or head meds. Don't throw stones in glass houses.
Everyone alive has been hurt if they live long enough. It's not a insult.
'Who hurt you' is really, "I'm losing this and dont have a valid response to the topic so im going to deflect it by trying to shame the individuals motive."
I am so thankful for you Kevin. Your show has taught me so much, and is truly what the world needs. Many complain about your periodical “harsh” approach, but fell to understand the reason they’re perceiving the message as “harsh”, is due to the overwhelming amount of rock-a-bye-baby, poor me rhetoric you find these days. You’ve awakened the giant! Once again, thank you.
Brother I just found your show today, but I still wanted to comment...BTW I subscribe too. I'm a Black Man that makes six figures, and have been married to a white woman for 22yrs. First, I love black women, and have dated a few. However, growing up being attracted to black girls wasn't an easy road. I was either to dark most of the time, to skinny, or a schoolboy, because I got good grades and didn't want to get high/drunk in the high school parking lot. I was an athlete & had goals of getting a college degree. Many of the black girls wanted the thug or the light skinned brotha. When it came to white women that liked black men they never commented on how dark I was in fact the darker the better for most...I have a lot more to say about this topic, but I will leave it at this for now!
That saddens me to hear this. Dark skin women suffer the same. I'm curious, when you were approaching black women, were they your shade or darker?
@@QueenAntianara you women always have to make it about yourselves huh?
@@QueenAntianara ALWAYS THE VICTIM NO YOU AREN'T NO VICTIM EVERYBODY CHOOSES THERE OWN DESTINY
@@skinnylozano9707 *Their*
Lacking proper grammar means you also lack credibility. Try it sometime.
R.i.p man the thank you for educating us
Brothas better to be somewhere your wanted. If the sistas are not giving cooperation, hop the fence. Life is too short.
Exactly. Go where you're celebrated, not tolerated 💯
@Film Student those Kiev women are beyond gorgeous.
@Cimarron Negro 💯 agree with you.
Also, if you have the means, why limit yourself to American Black Women? If you can, see about importing more cooperative sistas from other countries. South America, Europe, Caribbean, hell go back to the Motherland to source out and get a cooperative female if you want a Black Woman.
Brothas you have options. Stop taking what these crazy women are giving you.
@Film Student Amen.👍
All day. Life is good too haha
1:49:00 Agreed👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽Kevin is helping so many married people too. And when the caller said she “felt her mother’s evil spirit still in her “...That was powerful because it does feel that way as you are cleansing yourself of such bile. Congratulations to all of the Wives That were raised by angry women but didn’t let it stop them. Also, Love and Power to all continuing to move past such traumas. 💯♥️🧘🏽♀️
I just want to tell my black sisters to be careful because one thing i have noticed is that when White Women or other non black women befriend BW they encourage these attitudes of independence, strong, loud and “body positivity “ and “I don’t need a man” attitude. They encourage these behaviours because they know you will not have chances of getting any man if you fall for it. They will act like they with you to your face but underground they stay feminine and know their place and role in a mans life. At the end of the day they attract the BM in your life whilst you stay single with your so called independent lifestyle.
Ladies if you want to win in this Dating market you have to remain feminine, elegant ,classy, in shape, agreeable to men etc .The world is fooling you, don’t fall for it.
I actually think most non B women who associate themselves with Black Women are there to increase the likelihood of a black male noticing them. They will copy your positives, imitate your likeness, learn your culture and use it to get the men whilst they encourage you to be mediocre out here. I have some non B women who from the moment they befriend me they are asking me to show them how to make African food and introduce them to African/black music trends. Wonder why🤔? Watch out ladies.
And ladies yes some black men may just be attracted to white women but MOST of them are sexually attracted to black women. Hence why their non Black mates run around to get the BWs features, they are insecure because they know the black womans features attracts their man. Also if you ask BM that date out why they date out they say “because BW...”
You are their preference but the question is are you giving them the option to choose you? Are you compatible to a man?
Compete ladies, Compete!!!! We are late to the party, every other race of women don’t need to be told this.
We have to ask ourselves these things sometimes.
Very true I have seen this and the NB women do befriend to become chameleons
Now this is very true,I’ve notice non black women that hang around the sistas to see how they can attract the brothas.
Sarah2988 Sunrise why are you so angry against BM ???? Remember we raised BM !!
@@mariobalotelli2410 She's bitter and has been hurt.
Kick rocks, this is great!! Miss this brother!! RIP
So true dated black women for 12 plus years and did not work out. When I had given up I met a gorgeous white woman who was mature supportive and loving to support my career.
I love how you threw questions right back her! People need to open their eyes up and get over this craziness, everyone just cooperate and be happy with who they want.
I love the 2 women, the 31 year old that move to ATL and the woman that was thanking Kevin, because they were so humble. They actually took the advice given and held themselves accountable. Great healthy relationships will befall them
“I wanted 2 babies, a boy and a girl and I got what I wanted..…but didn’t want to get married….. what’s wrong with that?”
And that, people , is the problem. Our culture accepts women who have babies out of wedlock …..
But oh Lordy! Don’t judge her for it! That is totally unacceptable!
100%
DAMAGED GOODS, WITH BASTARD' BABIES BABBLING ✔️🤡
The caller that said black women feel entitled to black men was 100% on point and you can see it in how a lot of black women act when they're with non black men. They get in the gym and lose weight. They tone the attitude down. Many of them stop wearing wigs and weaves and wear their natural hair. Things black men have been asking of black women for decades but we can never get it. They do it for the non black man because they know that if he wanted, he could drop her in a second and get a woman of his own race. Black men were supposed to be their safe haven where they can go get a man without having to work on themselves. A lot of them don't want us to have standards because if we no longer accept the shit non black men won't accept, who will take their mediocrity?
Very good point
Noticed this a long time ago
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There was a time when I was broke and Black Women never looked at me even once because I did not have anything! Black women said that I didn't "talk black" (whatever that means), I did not participate in sports (majored in Engineering) and did not dress cool enough (I had no money). When I met my wife (who's white), her reponse to me being broke was, "well, you look like you have some potential, let's just see how it goes". I'm now a 1%'er and she supported me completely until our business got to where it is now. She loved and cherished me when I had nothing. I love black women, I think they did not love me.
This reminds me of my husband. When we met, he was wearing clothes from Goodwill lol. I never cared. When we moved in together, I paid all the bills so he could funnel all of his income into his business. I encouraged him to take risks that he was previously afraid to take because he could officially “afford” to fail because I promised him that I would have his back. He's done amazingly well ever since and I couldn't be more proud of his accomplishments.
We are both black.
Wow
That's good you found love but stop worrying so much about women you aren't married to. Just enjoy your marriage and live your life.
Our race is so broken it feels like WAR to speak to one another and that's very sad. WHAT IS THE ANSWER?
Get back to reading & understanding the bible. The further u get from the book, the more lost u will b.
The answer 2 anything starts with ACKNOWLEDGING the problem. Why wuld anyone think theres a solution to alcoholism without admitting what u are
Just Speak to one another ANYWAY-with KINDNESS ONLY. Practice it Everyday until it becomes Normal for you.🔥 🔥🔥
The solution is to live your life and seek the woman you want even if it means getting woman from another culture! I try to stay away from American women or women who are Americanized! American women want traditional men but they aren't traditional and they aren't trained to be wives, especial black women!
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An old analogy we used in an investment firm I used to work for. When you're drowning in the middle of the sea, you have no time or concern to worry about "the color" of the hand that's saving you. I'll leave it at that.
Excellent show. The one woman who mentioned she only felt hostility from her black mother was sad to hear. She thought it was normal until she heard a non-black woman speak sweet/softly to her own kids was eye-opening for her.
Why? Why is this normal in her community?.
@@evelynjohnson7176disfunction, out of wedlock births, women who don’t know how to be wives, fatherless homes, pour decision-making….
I've noticed during the call-ins women have a problem hearing what they don't want to hear and ask for it to be repeated.
I wish my mom would come on this show and get a reality check
Woww.... You think she would listen or fight what Kevin saying?
Sheesh. 😂
@@antoniotula262 Most likely fight.
FACTZZZZ
Same man
I can tell you this. I am hispanic. my daughter plays sports in a club. This club is 75% white, 15%hispanic, 5% black, 5% others. I have seen so far 2 high value men at this club ( clean cut, tall, fit, and most importantly family oriented as they are watching their kids while they play). To make the story short I have exchange some words with them before I confirmed they were married. And their wives which I met later one are " white" fit, athletic, very friendly and confident of what they have.
We've ACCEPTED antisocial behavior ( arrogance, superiority complex , lewd sexual displays , having babies out of wedlock , sexualization of black women by black women (Cardi B/ Megan the stallion/Lizzo) unhealthy habits. There's more to parenting than being able to afford to feed & clothe a child. A broken home creates overly independent aggressive women who don't know how to go about finding good partners because they themselves are lacking in creating a stable family.
True
most of these issues stem from what? Broken homes and women doing what they can to provide by themselves.
For every Meg and cardi there are 100 male rappers talking about killing and drug taking. Let’s stop here…
Sexualization of Black women goes WAYYYY further than Meg and other current rappers. And Cardi isn't even Black. But anyways, you can't put that shit on them, because it's nothing new. That shit has been happening for a LONG TIME ‼️💯
One of the saddest things i've seen ... is a gym full of grade school kids (mostly black, but some white) losing THEIR MINDS because Sexy Red visited their school. A room full of little black kids and a handful of white kids, all singing "my coochie pink, my booty-hole brown!" and dancing provocatively, twerking, and loving it.
I'm old enough to remember when hiphop was about material gain and violence, but also told a story of overcoming adversity, working hard, and having honor above all else. Biggie Smalls' 'Juicy' - for example. Now it's just filth... and these kids see these people as role models.
1:30:00 That is so true. BW are unapproachable. You try to approach a BW and they are too entitled to be even welcoming. They will call you thirsty and lame before you finish introducing yourself. Funny thing is that this spectacle act is acknowledged as a badge of honor among her friends. Yes she will let everyone know how she curves these men and how she doesn't understand why it's always lames that approach her. I hear about this kind of scenario from the office when these BW are chatting. This is why men don't even bother approaching them anyway.
Very sad. Nobody should be treated that way. If you're not interested, be pleasant and move on. No need to be nasty to anyone. Having good manners goes a long way. And boasting about "lames" approaching you is poor form. It takes alot of courage to go up to someone and show your interest. They should be flattered, not show disdain. That's horrible.
This is so exxagerative most be are not like this
Amen! 🙏🏿🙏🏿
Facts
That's not true. All black women are not like that. When men approach me I treat them the way I would want to be treated. If you follow that you can't go wrong. I smile and I'm polite. You get farther in life from being kind than being nasty.
1:49:34 Wow, that was powerful, she said: "I am on my husband's team". Well said!
When she changes tone at 1:12 and 13 seconds it freaked me out. That's the tone she uses when she wants something she can't get.
A few years back my cousin was at a motorcycle rally. They were camping. He was walking back to his tent and saw an Asian woman crying. He stopped to see if she was OK. Her bf got mad and left her. My cousin offered to let her sleep in his tent. He didn't try anything. He woke up and she was gone. All his clothes and things were folded and organized.
Wow that speaks volumes!
@@vale_rawrrrx3593 i think it was a joke
That’s 🧢 🤣🤣🤣
Wow
That’s how Asian women are.. I don’t know about the New American born Asian girls though .. I once dated a Japanese .. first time at my house I woke up and everything was organized .. I was shocked lol
The point about coming from a culture of male authority is spot on. A lot of us black people come from broken homes. In those cases it’s usually a woman in authority, so a lot of our women do not have the capability or capacity or understanding on how to let a man lead. So in turn the men will find someone who will
Spot on the cycle continues
Sad but true....
That's why some BM have no respect because their mothers taught them how men are treated.
I concur with you sir! Today's Black Women fail to relinquish their authority thinking "I'm not giving up what I've got" attitude, fail to listen, and mainly the need to be right. But theory, black women just can't accept a black man with a white woman. There stands the problem again, refuse to give up Authority, not Cooperate, and need to be right!
Why? Because the Truth hurts! They won't admit it, but say "Whatever"!
But how is this our fault . The broken homes are because poor choices men make and women make . Can’t make a broken home alone . Men need to take accountability. We need more black men leaders
I can't remember the last time I said no to my husband. Say yes ladies.
Even if he wants to abuse you? You say yes?
Good advise.
@@God.sDaughter are you stupid
@@God.sDaughter Of course not. Then again, if he is actually being abusive, i dont think saying no makes a difference. Dont be in an abusive relationship. If your relationship is good, be cooperative.
I can't believe 6 idiots liked Mary's dumb comment 😒
Race doesn’t matter. What matters is if the person is genuinely interested in you, who understands you or what you are going through, who wants to be around you for you.
Race does matter
Errrrrr it does matter
Mytri Ish how
iicloudywaves how
@@mytriish1977 no it doesn't
Hispanic women are jealous as well. I got many angry stares from them when I dated Black women.
Dam s.m.h
Respect 🙌 @ 1:48:33
Exactly
@J P facts
Where do you interracial couples live at? I live in Arizona and I’ve literally never seen a Latina dating a black man. I barely even see black men dating white women. Maybe you’re from New York
I have a "black" friend girl who was just like that. She didn't feel like she had to compete and that it was a man's job to come and rescue her. I hate the entitlement. I'm like you'll be single forever if you think you won't have to put forth any effort to secure the kind of man you want. Alot of "black" women's expectations and standards are totally unrealistic.
Most American women’s expectations are unrealistic!!
@@ronaldboykin9755 any women not just American lol
Those rom-coms are poison 😵😵
.... I am trying to get my wife to hear this broadcast. GREAT SHOW!
I make 6 figures but I'm not handsome. The black women I've tried to date act like they're doing me a favor and are looking for insta-marriage. The middle eastern woman I'm going out with acts like she won the lottery just because we're dating. Why date someone who treats me like I'm everyday bologna when I can do better?
This man is out here doing The Lord’s work God bless him.
lol
It’s hard work, but someone’s gotta do it
At all cost😭
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Pray for him. He is. Better, than the self anointed ones.
You cannot steal someone that was never yours.
lmao right? people act like they in the lost & found waiting to be scooped back up
Actually you CAN steal someone that was never yours lol what you meant was “you can’t steal someone that was never taken” imagine saying to the judge “I’m not a thief! You can’t steal something that was never yours!!” LMAO
@@spaceghost4628 thieves and snitches get stitches
@@djde4th877 shut up
🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯Exactly!!!
BW you need to have a open mind to meeting BM, " stores, market, gym, gas station, dmv, work, mall, park" you get the idea. Quality BM are passing you on a regular and most of you BW don't even speak or give a smile. This is one of the reason(s) that BM are dating outside their race.
No truer word were just said
Black women don't gotta do nothing let them stay the hell away from us, tell them continue doing what they do so more black men can continue dating out. As long as we can get black women away from us, we're doing good.
@@Zlics lol
Definitely. My high value ex met his current girlfriend at Ross. I met my high value husband out and about as well.
@@19Hollisterchick90 share with the rest of the women if you spoke first or gave a smile.
As a black man I wanted nothing more than a black woman to marry.
Unfortunately black women never wanted me.
Now my wife is a Mexican women.
She doesn't even speak English so I'm learning Español for her.
Why do you think you had such a problem with attracting a black woman.
My question is why is that when a brotha who put the hard work, time, and effort in to be successful gets backlash from sistas who have made poor decisions in their life? Dont you think you should listen to someone successful has to say so you can learn? Or is it the fact that you choose a path of failure and want to stubborn and arrogant and bring people down to your level because you're a sore loser?
@demetrius reese She gave you that SIGN real quick. 🤣
Black women as a group have been socialized by this society to see Black men as a cup that is no longer good enough to drink from.
@fenugreek lover have you ever heard of the words jealousy and envy? What are you 4? Name me an example of a successful person giving back lash of another successful person. Because that sure as he'll doesn't make sense. One of the "successful" person MUST FAIL or in order to get back lash to the person that succeeded where they didn't. This is like kindergarten logic. You must be young and/or female
@@innerpowerup That's not "socialization". What are you talking about? Look at the movies, social media and music? It's black men that have stated very loudly black women aren't good enough because of "skin" color not for any other reason. Black women are the ones that are starting to get the message and start thinking "perhaps I should go where I'm desired". Men like the one in this video want black women to stay in the "fighting over them" element because it gives them status to other races of women. No woman wants an undesirable man on average. So he's just telling black women to stick in their and mule along. Notice he's pro swirling when it's a black men with any other race but when it's black women he mocks them with his "where's Waldo" commentary.
@@mbloom2275 absolutely correct especially since blk men own and run movies social media music etc...🤦🏾♂️
Man i got to tell you something that I just thought of.. You made a good statement about not saying NO.. MY wife while dating said yes to things which made me look at her different.. wanna go scuba driving, yes, wanna go here yes. wanna ride this roller coaster in the front seat yes.. Which is a major reason I started to get close.
I believe that men just don't want to have to deal with drama and Bullsh!t from any woman, black or white especially having to put up with Bebe's kids..
Who was that STUNNING creature dancing from 48:40-51:10??
Next time I'm coming back as a high-value man....