it’s ok to be kind. For example blair waldorf wasn’t nice but she was kind in the sense that she had empathy & knew when to do the right thing. Don’t treat people badly but don’t over extend yourself either especially to those who don’t extend themselves to you. Extending yourself & over extending yourself is what leads being unappreciated & walked over.
That’s literally what Ive been doing for years and it works..just have to keep doing it Every day or you’ll relapse lol. Keep exorcising those pick-me/people pleasing demons, Im on the same page!❤
A hard lesson I had to learn. Not being too humble and too passive and trying to not be more elitist. It’s for your own health, safety, future, happiness; to stay within your socio economic status or higher
She really is that girl 🎉❤ she played the hell out of that role I only watched for her getting her friend out of mess 😅 and how she would run tings. Some people are really unhinged 😳🤣 not your ex client recording the phone 📞 smh 🤦🏽♀️ hope you’re having a relaxing Sunday Mel 🌹💎
I’m just way too nice. I want to learn how to check people. My sister is always trying me, she’s extremely jealous. I’m not taking her shit anymore. She tried to start stuff with me today about me making food. I’m skinny and she’s jealous she’s not. She tried to call me greedy for using seasoning in my food…. Girl. Then about using cheese. She’s out of her mind.
2pac , Michael Jackson and other celebrities would still be here if they practiced exclusivity letting anybody get next to them was their down fall , Prince on the other hand came off as stuck up and standoffish but it worked in the long term
Tupac was really ‘different’. I mean, so talented and unique which made it easier for other people to be attracted to him and leech on him. Lack of discernment lost him 💔
@@Yourlevelupguru even pac said him growing up under the black panthers fucked his head up because it made him have love for everybody while the love was rarely returned
Once I started seeing my life as a business, it all started to make sense. I went to an event at an embassy here in DC and there were diplomats, advisors, all types of women addressing things for IWD. This was old money women and I remember one getting so upset that some of the ladies asking questions to panelist used the baby voice (you know the one) and mentioned how women need not do that now. These were women in 60’s+. The stuff a lot of these femininity coaches often doesn’t translate offline. Feminine and masculine balance is critical. But more masc, charm, intelligence, and being renaissance to really ascend. Looks and the damsel isn’t sustainable. And yes, I check people immediately, professionally, but you will respect me when I’m being polite. Just had to do that in Whole Foods for someone thinking they owned the place. Most people have never been checked in the event and are so unaware. Kind, not nice. Strategic empathy. Selective confrontation.
families, especially, are the ones who think that your life is their show... and those who are your friends, and then get intimidated, once you start leveling up... they thought that you are below them all this time. Jesus Christ.
This is helpful programming for upgrading one’s identity, thank you for your contribution to the femenine community. Ladies, I recommend listening to this kind of stuff on a daily basis, the more you feed your brain with something , the stronger the belief grows❤️🔥
Now that you mention it I hear other channels popping up and they almost sound like you but I didn’t want to read into it, but now you make me see nah we gotta protect ourselves. I remember a girl said she was getting her notebook 📓 when I talk I never knew she was taking notes 📝 I thought we were friends. ❤ thank you 🙏🏽 for the game ❤
Also to anyone who sees this: being treated like the villain can be hard because people will always try to discredit what you say, like how Serena and Nate often did before they got themselves into another mess but the good thing is that you are always right. So never discredit yourself and learn to be the villain because like she mentioned they may not like you but they will always respect you ❤️
So true i use to be the nice sweet woman trying to understand ewerybody but then the trying to steal my energy and stealing my personalty and spreading fake lies about me happend for defending myself in a calm way so now a days i am just a b towards others who are fake and mean and only smile for the ones who i respect and what has switched is nobody dares to scream in my face anymore being a b basically protects me from bad energy when it comes to abusive people.
Glad you made this video. Love this show and I'm watching it right now. I can see myself in Blair and Serena. But I also admire Blair for her resilience.
Blair was a head over heart type of Queen👑 the bum that robbed Nate was Carter Baizden, and Serena ended up dating him later in the show 🙄 she was such an airhead
Blair had street smarts because Leigha herself the actress was born in prison. Her family was on the FBI wanted list. So she maybe went to producers and did a little razzle dazzle.
I'm re-entering the workplace soon, and your videos are helping me adopt the right attitude to get what I want 👸
Yes !!! You got this
Same!! I was way too open before. Helping me stay focused and achieve my goals :)
Likewise I’m recovering from surgery
Same
I need to be exorcised from all my niceness and people pleasing ways.
Girl I’m still on the journey. Take it one “hell no” and “you found the wrong one” at a time 😅until it feels natural
Same, it’s a work in progress thoo
it’s ok to be kind. For example blair waldorf wasn’t nice but she was kind in the sense that she had empathy & knew when to do the right thing. Don’t treat people badly but don’t over extend yourself either especially to those who don’t extend themselves to you. Extending yourself & over extending yourself is what leads being unappreciated & walked over.
That’s literally what Ive been doing for years and it works..just have to keep doing it Every day or you’ll relapse lol. Keep exorcising those pick-me/people pleasing demons, Im on the same page!❤
A hard lesson I had to learn. Not being too humble and too passive and trying to not be more elitist. It’s for your own health, safety, future, happiness; to stay within your socio economic status or higher
What is your reasoning behindert it
Yes. My selectivity has helped me in life. Idc how it’s perceived .
She really is that girl 🎉❤ she played the hell out of that role I only watched for her getting her friend out of mess 😅 and how she would run tings. Some people are really unhinged 😳🤣 not your ex client recording the phone 📞 smh 🤦🏽♀️ hope you’re having a relaxing Sunday Mel 🌹💎
She wasn’t playing games
This was beautiful strategic guidance. My only caveat is that I would never let someone know that I know they are up to know good.
I’m just way too nice. I want to learn how to check people. My sister is always trying me, she’s extremely jealous. I’m not taking her shit anymore. She tried to start stuff with me today about me making food. I’m skinny and she’s jealous she’s not. She tried to call me greedy for using seasoning in my food…. Girl. Then about using cheese. She’s out of her mind.
You'll learn just don't learn too late
Girl tell her, at least i can use all the cheese and seasoning i want, you on the other hand would gain even more weight. 😅
2pac , Michael Jackson and other celebrities would still be here if they practiced exclusivity letting anybody get next to them was their down fall , Prince on the other hand came off as stuck up and standoffish but it worked in the long term
Tupac was really ‘different’. I mean, so talented and unique which made it easier for other people to be attracted to him and leech on him. Lack of discernment lost him 💔
Yup. I’ll always be picky. The goal is to never be anyone’s prey.
Yup. A humans biggest downfall will be lack of discernment. I’ll always be picky ALWAYS
@@Yourlevelupguru 💯💯
@@Yourlevelupguru even pac said him growing up under the black panthers fucked his head up because it made him have love for everybody while the love was rarely returned
Rewatching this show these days it hits different now as an actual adult
Yes !!
Once I started seeing my life as a business, it all started to make sense.
I went to an event at an embassy here in DC and there were diplomats, advisors, all types of women addressing things for IWD. This was old money women and I remember one getting so upset that some of the ladies asking questions to panelist used the baby voice (you know the one) and mentioned how women need not do that now. These were women in 60’s+. The stuff a lot of these femininity coaches often doesn’t translate offline. Feminine and masculine balance is critical. But more masc, charm, intelligence, and being renaissance to really ascend. Looks and the damsel isn’t sustainable.
And yes, I check people immediately, professionally, but you will respect me when I’m being polite. Just had to do that in Whole Foods for someone thinking they owned the place. Most people have never been checked in the event and are so unaware. Kind, not nice. Strategic empathy. Selective confrontation.
Thank you for praying that the right people would see this. I really needed your wake-up call videos.
YW! Happy New Year
I needed to hear this, I just had a whole crying feast 20 minutes ago. Thank you for dropping this ❤. You’re literally doing the lords work.
I watched Gossip Girl just for Blair!❤ Serena got on my nerves lol Cause why you so stunning but always get caught up in some nonsense lol
Serena was clueless in every episode
I know right lol I’m glad i wasn’t the only one thinking it 😂😂😂😂🤭
Exactly we all watch for Leighton, she’s the GOAT!
families, especially, are the ones who think that your life is their show... and those who are your friends, and then get intimidated, once you start leveling up... they thought that you are below them all this time. Jesus Christ.
This is helpful programming for upgrading one’s identity, thank you for your contribution to the femenine community. Ladies, I recommend listening to this kind of stuff on a daily basis, the more you feed your brain with something , the stronger the belief grows❤️🔥
Since I watching your videos I becoming more and more THE “QUEEN B” !
😇😇😇
I gotta watch you everyday fr. I seriously talk to much. I don’t care about being nice anymore
😭😭😭😭
You have changed my life 😊. Can’t wait for the class Sunday
I always learn so much from you my goodness please never stop doing what you’re doing. I can’t wait for part 2!!!!
I always love your videos and lives so realistic, relatable and reliable at least for me 😊❤.
There's sounding like you know what your talking about, and actually knowing what your talking about. Your blessed with both.
Great job!!! Eloquence is top tier! Keep going!! ,,,🔥🔥🔥
Now that you mention it I hear other channels popping up and they almost sound like you but I didn’t want to read into it, but now you make me see nah we gotta protect ourselves. I remember a girl said she was getting her notebook 📓 when I talk I never knew she was taking notes 📝 I thought we were friends. ❤ thank you 🙏🏽 for the game ❤
I absolutely love Blair, she really was an icon and her lessons hold so true until this day. Thank you so much for this video ❤️
Also to anyone who sees this: being treated like the villain can be hard because people will always try to discredit what you say, like how Serena and Nate often did before they got themselves into another mess but the good thing is that you are always right. So never discredit yourself and learn to be the villain because like she mentioned they may not like you but they will always respect you ❤️
Im just now starting gossip girl, she was territorial but Blair is smart!
So true i use to be the nice sweet woman trying to understand ewerybody but then the trying to steal my energy and stealing my personalty and spreading fake lies about me happend for defending myself in a calm way so now a days i am just a b towards others who are fake and mean and only smile for the ones who i respect and what has switched is nobody dares to scream in my face anymore being a b basically protects me from bad energy when it comes to abusive people.
AMAZING
I would love to see you break down more shows based on human behavior and learning how to win. Rewatching The Vampire Diaries right now.
Glad you made this video. Love this show and I'm watching it right now. I can see myself in Blair and Serena. But I also admire Blair for her resilience.
Blair was a head over heart type of Queen👑 the bum that robbed Nate was Carter Baizden, and Serena ended up dating him later in the show 🙄 she was such an airhead
Damn we need we gg analysis!!
This is absolutely true
I am going to start watch this show now because of you!
Really good video. Thank you so much for this!!
12:56 👏👏
You make me wanna watch this show. Where can I watch it at?
Netflix
@ thank you
@BB-ny5vm thank you. Will be watching soon
Whoa🔥🔥
I love this!!! ❤❤❤❤
Period....❤🎉
💯
I love herrrr
Blair had street smarts because Leigha herself the actress was born in prison. Her family was on the FBI wanted list. So she maybe went to producers and did a little razzle dazzle.
Street smarts is needed for survival. The world is cruel
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yes serena was way to open and forgiving to charley - that girl wanted to be her and was as threat
Omg I forgot all about Charlie
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they was doing blair wrong the more i think bout it
Her parents were awful to her