Very true! Also when you have a positive spirit and your very likable and loved by many then you'll get hell for it! Trust me I'm going through this and it's very draining and evil to experience haters from a man or woman! Please pray daily and take very good care of yourself! AMEN!
Woah. You’re a stunner. The prettier you are the more careful you have to be. I just mentally jot down what they said. Men are more covert then they show up and THROW up down the line. The mask falls and the abuse starts. Women have to be as sharp as serpents.
I have had this experience as well saying you're not doing that for me it doesn't take all that for me but yet when they make me I had on makeup was looking good ect. Also commenting about a false eyelashes why do you wear that you don't need that etc but have been seen looking at other women with long eyelashes and the same traits that they try to dumb down in me
My guy friend told me to never date ‘down’ because unsuccessful and non-wealthy men want what you HAVE. They want your lifestyle and they expect you to give it to them. Leave the broke men alone. Date men that have more than you, never less.
But, the men who have more, try to control. And they cheat a lot. And withhold money and sex when they get mad. And it's easier for them to pay to send a hit. And then cover it up.
Humbling only works on people who are driven by their ego and pride. When you’re a woman of integrity, authenticity, and esteem it’s basically impossible to break her. You could hurt of feelings, maybe, but you’d never break her.
@@DaffieA My comment was in response to the comment by @MrsTruthTeller, which I did not agree with. HENCE MY REPLYING TO THEIR COMMENT (I.E. THE ORIGINAL COMMENT) AND NOT YOURS.
OMG! I’ve told people all the time. 💯 This illusion of “pretty privilege” is a lie! Pretty woman get treated the worst! 😒 We’re also prayed on like cattle & objectified!
The focus can’t even be about business bc they’re entirely too busy watching 👀 and it’s like; Damn, can’t I just get my business handled w/o you trying to flirt & holla??!! 🙄😬😩
First. I have no desire to date, just leveling my life up. I’ve dealt with so many jealous men, they’re more jealous than women from my experience and insecure. Not to mentioned most of them are not confident and have low self esteem. Not worth it.
I feel this way too. Although I have met jealous women, the jealous men I encountered were worse! They scare me more than women do because they will become violent.
Five experienced this and I've never doing it again they're insecurities and low self-esteem is not our problem it's not my job to constantly try to build them up who the hell will bill me up they are draining as hell when they are insecure and toxic
My ex would talk crap in the house about certain ppl who had more than him and then shrink when in their presence. I said “why are you worried about them, go for what you want”. He never did but got mad when I got or at least attempted to seek out what I wanted w/out his input. I realized that he was a grown boy with no leadership qualities for me to submit to. I did the heavy lifting in the relationship.I stopped sharing and just did it. I’m so glad I’m out of that marriage bc he was holding me back.
I've felt that as well. Ill say it here, after watching the Bobby Brown story, two of his ego bruises and developed complexes came from two different light skin women or lighter than him which was prize in the 80s (girlie at house party and Janet Jackson) rejecting him for light skin men. He has spoken on these incidents more than the movie display.
I've experienced jealousy from most of the men I've dated in the past. It was weird, even the ones that had money...they hated when people would look/stare/honk at me or compliment me and try to bring me down to feel insecure and make me jealous of an ex of theirs or another girl. I never understood it when I was younger, but many are very jealous of women getting attention, period. I wish all young women to know this truth and be wary not to let any man bring you down. All these men also told me they "loved" me. Leave immediately at any signs of jealousy!
My exes have tried to humble me so many times but IT WILL NEVER WORK!!! 😂😂😂😂 They were jealous about me making more money than them. They have tried to come for my looks like catty women too. It’s so pathetic!😅 one even tried to humble me every time I bought a new car. Meanwhile he has the same old crown Vick he’d bought from an old couple 15 years ago he can’t even drive! I cannot make this stuff up. Even my brothers have tried to humble me because I’m doing better than them and making more than them. AND I LOOK GOOD AS HELL!!! 😂 I been knowing they’re dying inside. 🤦🏽♀️
Similar situations but without the brothers!!! What people didn't realize is that God has blessed us!!! He made us, so many cannot break us!!! I think competition in relationships with black males against black women is disgusting. I've had it with "the brothers", I'm looking into dating outside of my race. I think different races of men other than black males are okay with women's achievements, probably because they have accomplishments & assets as well.
@@jesusfavor1543 I work in a male dominated industry. I’ve come to the realization that EVERY race of male are the same. Hispanic, Caucasian, African, Chinese, Arabic, etc. They all have fragile egos. Maybe it’s the testosterone. 🤷🏽♀️ They compete with one another and if a woman is present that is black, beautiful, intelligent, accomplished and you don’t want them. They will all turn and see you as something to conquer and or bring down/humble.
@@alluringbliss4165 I also fast. I have to pray multiple times a day though. Thankfully I moved across the country away from my family so they can only talk to me when I FEEL like answering my phone. And I don’t talk to ex’s so I’m fine. 😊
Story time: I had a mail carrier who tried to date me. I instantly shut it down and distanced myself. He instantly retaliated by being hostile and passive aggressive. He then created a scam to get fmla so he could get days off whenever he wanted by saying seeing me is a “triggering event” (the postmaster explained his accusations). The company had to cover it up because of how pathetic, dangerous, and obsessive the carrier became. He lied and said I was stalking him. He’s fired now and facing legal repercussions but I feel nothing but gratitude because I clocked his bum behavior off the jump.
The thought of a man being jealous of me, never even crossed my mind, because in my mind, I was never in competition with them. This is very eye-opening.
Almost all of my exes were jealous. My discernment is through the roof now. Any sign of jealousy and I’m out ✌🏾🏃🏾♀️💨 the devil definitely uses the finest men to come for me. Too bad they lose EVERY TIME!
@@LilithTheAquarian369 Well I had to learn to listen to my intuition. I also started paying attention to patterns early with each person. I don’t have an exact time frame, I just pick up on things fast. I’m also a psychic intuitive so I know people’s motives and intentions really fast anyway 🤷🏾♀️ Word of advice: listen to what they say, how they look at you and actions overall. You’ll be able to tell. Keep the rose colored glasses off in the beginning.
@@jmc1111_ Yeah, it’s not who you attract, but what you entertain. I do Spells so they won’t come to me at all. I don’t like men like that something is off about them. . 🔮♒️😆
I had an ex who literally tried to destroy me emotionally, spiritually and financially. When my eyes opened to his true nature, I ghosted him and never looked back without any explanation. I move wisely now. 👀🦶🏾
Married for 13 yrs, nowas widow for 2 yrs +. Have no interested in dating. My late husband was trying to sabotage my career path while I was in college. I tried to do so many easy to humbling even on a medical/ dental situation. Since he’s been gone, it’s been nothing but leveling up, and I know that The Most High is with me And my children. No man will EVER TAKE THE PLACE OF THEE MOST HIGH, ever again. He’s been showing me that I should focus on Him and my destiny.
I am so glad the younger generation of women are getting this. Vet the people you let in your space. It's a lot harder learning this lesson after decades of not knowing my worth.
Yes. Not just in romantic relationships either. It can be a relative, coworker, or just some dude that knows if he tried, wouldn’t stand a chance with you.
Thank you for this video! As both a musician and a mother, I’ve come to realize that many of my critics in the music industry are men. They seem jealous because I pursue music as a hobby while being able to provide for myself and my child. Meanwhile, many of them have 2-3 kids, no stable jobs, or degrees. Networking is something I excel at, which is another area they struggle with. One of them even went so far as to spread false rumors about being in a relationship with me, just to try and bring me down. I’m an independent artist, so it makes me think of how many jealous men Nicki Minaj must deal with, simply because she’s that girl-period.
When they're your relatives? Ooohhweee! F'ing devious work! When my blood father, called my work to get me fired? When I was 19?... He called around to find out how much money I was making and when he did, he WAS NOT PLEASED. I had to DREAM that it was him! And upon confrontation he was upsetti chile! But confessed. There's far more diabolical nonsense but BLESSED be I just chuckle now. Tragic!
@@psyyykhe1010 lol this sounds like my dad. He reached out to my loser ex with a PhD to try and humble me. My dad then told me about the conversation they had boasting about the ex’s accomplishments. My dad did this all because I started living my own fabulous life. I laughed so hard!
Never thought it would happen to me but it has. It’s more dangerous then having ur female BFF jealous of you because you’re suppose to be each others safe space. Insane! Nothing worse then a bitter man
This spiritual war of men against women isn't just within the realm of Love but family as well. I am battling the hardest war against my two sons along with other family members because they want to control me or keep me from achieving anything. They not only have demonic attachments, one of them are even delving in Black Magic to sacrifice me. My own children, Karmic children. Everytime they come around there is chaos and everything starts to fall apart in my life. I wanna shed light on this because many times we don't want to believe this is so. I noticed this when I began to step away from the men I would date so now it's coming through my boys.
absolutely spiritual warfare! went through this recently… he felt i rejected him and became so vengeful. since i didn’t want him, he didn’t want anyone else to be w me either. which ofc didn’t work! 😊
Everything you say it's so true, it may be sad but it's the truth. The devil will you use anything and anybody to bring you down. He knows your weakness and he will target you by making someone appear as if they are right for you. Men or Women but actually many of them are just sent to destroy you. Stay Lit!!! Thank God at the end of the day he is always in control and shows me the signs very early from the get go 🙏🏽
i think its so strange how all whitney houstons fan pages highlight bobby so much like he was her true love as if on her last oprah appearance whitney told us bobby spit on her and painted evil eyes in the house. i personally think whitney would hate the romanticizing of her and bobby relationship
Please, Please, PLEASE, do a video on: "Abuse Is Protected in AA community." When you mentioned that in this video, I nodded my head until I was dizzy. Girl. If that statement is the entire issue of our "community" especially of the Baby Boomer Gen. They thrive off toxicity.
As a Sagittarius woman this is true. I had many "friends" who tried to cancel and badmouth me because they were jealous of my energy and ability to light up the room, attract attention and make friends easily. I can be very happy and laugh a lot and people hate it. People especially hate me in combination with Leo. So sad - I am strong yes but I have feelings and need support, too. I gave it to God. Karma is a b*ch
Omgggggggggggg I always say Leo women get more hate than anybody! Ppl have always been overly jealous of me, women and men. My energy is magnetic, even when I try to shave myself down and ppl hate me for it. This is why I'm in isolation a lot now. I can't trust ppl, nor do I have the bandwidth to deal with them. Every job I have, jealous women especially give me hell! I'm over it!
Just yesterday I watched a video about a woman living through a nightmare because of a jealous guy. She was above this dweeb in her carrier, so he was her subordinate. And despite knowing that she had a man in her life already, this pos decided to love bomb her and send her flowers anonymously and so on. Eventually he asked her how she liked the flowers he sent snd she told him “thanks but please never do that again. It’s inappropriate and I’m not interested.” And that’s when he lost his sheet. The dude ran around with a weapon threatening to end his life, because “she doesn’t love me. So what is the point to continue to live?” which resulted in him getting booted from that job. Well, he dedicated his entire time to stalking, harassing and intimidating this woman. He figured she’ll give in eventually and agree to be with him. So, he began posting as her online telling everyone that she only got as high in her career because she slept around with everyone at the top. She nearly was forced to resign because of these posts even though she wasn’t the one who wrote that crap. And this garbage of a nobody, dude, kept trying to do everything to get her fired, to destroy her life, to humiliate her in every possible way. It went on for YEARS, with him spying on her accusing her of sleeping with every man she ever interacted with. He knew what a loser he was and was trying to pull her down to his low level. So, it isn’t even always the man you are dating. It can literally be some worthless, much younger than you, shy-seeming, employee at your job, like in case of that woman. Patriarchy makes men totally unhinged around powerful/more successful women. They become monsters.
That's real! He was soooo jealous of her it was apparent from the start. He wanted those endorsement deals and being the first black woman to do something. I'm shocked she couldn't see it but she was likely in denial.
@@Simplythetruthfulonevery jealous gosh🤦🏽! it happens especially for below 25 because of naivety. Thank God we have channels like this to teach young and old on how to be street smart. This era is tough but we must be tougher. Praying for her to get through this ❤️
U attract to urself urself. What u believe about urself, u will attract to urself. Change ur thoughts and beliefs about yourself, then u will Change who u attract.
I have gotten to where before I take they word I'm going to look into things and ask soon as I c u are a liar and full of it I don't have to say anything. I just keep going and by the way I am a Leo ♌🦁
I totally agree with your assessment of the black community. There is this false beleif of solidarity at all costs, and that means protecting horrible men. like they think if they speak out, then THEY will be the ones punished, and that is true. I dont play with that noise. But I am estranged from family, happy!!! But estranged.
This could not be more timely! Just had the weirdest interview with a black male recruiter who was trying to humble me out of nowhere once he realized where I went to school. He started off fine and then was super unprofessional and then hostile for what I thought was no reason. Once he pulled up my LinkedIn and saw my picture and how polished my profile is, it all went downhill. I had to politely excuse myself. Now I realize that he could have been jealous. #bigmad
I felt like Young Jeezy tried to do this to Jeanie Mai she’s usually bubbly and alive! He got her pregnant and all came back he was not that nice! And this needs to be talked about More! It’s crazy how men can do this! Sandra Shehabs husband may be trying to do this! Joie Chavis is a victim of this she is active, happy and physically beautiful I feel they purposely get her pregnant.
This is such a taboo much needed to spoke on topic! I'm soooo glad you are speaking on this because this is what a lot of women know in their hearts, but don't want to believe.
at work i get called ugly almost everyday but once i leave im always getting complimented.. its so draining knowing i still struggle with self esteem from highschool
Gurrl look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself,pretty bitch!...and everytime someone tells you you're ugly immediately say, "Yes, you are,eeew!" then go on about your business.
I grew up in such household. The husband was from a lower social class and I witnessed so much abuse as a child. It completely affected my self esteem.
could this have been what my dad did to my MOM?..She was a rich kid and it is at my father's home that she first saw a mad house?...am just realising shit about my dad over ten years after his death and the kind of husband he was to my mom, which was not good .And yes my mom married down, I was so dissapointed that she left her rich boyfriend on stage to go to my father's place(because in their days they never dated).....Yooh...do you know it is my father the reason as a child , I vowed to not get married?
Leo women are walking triggers. They will become obsessed with your weaknesses and trying to humble you. It’s your intensity and leader energy they fear. Try to understand yourself. Leo women fight many internal battles because of the intensity of your internal energy. Internally you’re on a never ending rollercoaster. Oh and don’t trust anyone. They will risk their lives trying to humble or dismantle the Leo . Be cautious and stay safe. Don’t trust anyone.
@ We do not do this lol. We do not care about anyone’s weaknesses unless they start to point out all of our weaknesses. Our zodiac literally says that we are positive and generous. We don’t do anything negative to anyone until people start attacking us. And people just attack us for no reason. I think other people don’t realize how much they project all their own internal bullshit on us because they don’t like our confidence.
Facts everyone in the Industry is mad at Nicki. They tried by all means to sabotage her career and pushed other female rappers to be bigger than her. Whereas she's the real talented hard working and she's a natural beauty!
It so refreshing to hear you talk about these things. People don't openly say im a beautiful person and having these problems for it. When you are the common denominator most people say it's your fault. But you literally don't do anything to anyone because you are always getting in trouble. For example Why would I steal something because I'm the first that would be blamed so I would never steal but Im always defending not stealing to prove to the world im not a goody too shoes. Ive defended not cheating before. Go to a job no one wants to train me, but i have to train people when Im at a job. People are mean to me. Feel upset when I treat my best friend or boyfriends well. For example people tell my friends or boyfriends they are acting differently because of me. ok well leave me alone and go be with them...i wouldn't say Im beautiful because I wasnt in that type of environment to praise my looks. But I have been selected at a modeling casting service, but my mom didn't want to pay the fee.Ive had women to be jealous of me, but im the most humble person youll meet because Ive never received compliments, but Ive had people to be jealous of me and now that im older I think that is the same thing.
I needed this message! This spiritual warfare is real!! I have a loving heart that no one can take away and attracts all kind of abusive men on every level! God knows how much I want real love but this year I came to realize God is the purest form of love and I really have to fall in love with him so he can order my steps through these valleys. My child’s father is doing whatever he can to hurt me even went as far as getting intimate with one of my coworkers 😢. People in general (family and “friends”) really seek to break my sensitive heart. But the devil is a liar!!!
I’ll never forget being in my 20s and a guy set me up to be followed because he was “worried” that I would cheat 😂 insecure BAD. I couldn’t believe when he revealed that loosely in a conversation he arranged someone to follow me to track my whereabouts never felt so mortified in my life and I broke it off via text Mel you can’t trust men like that I then went into prayer mode and fasted an prayed and the LORD blessed me with a masculine man with a drill collection 😂 not those 60-100 I’m talking the 600 dollar drills and up and he mows the lawn on a Saturday morning no rolling over with Morning breath trying to get some 😅I say this to say TMH can do anything faith over everything 🎉❤ prayer can change everything 🙏🏽 those men you came across Mel were effeminate because a masculine man will be thrilled to have a woman with your feminine qualities it’s so ghetto out here 😢
@@TheGoodLifeStarterPack thank you hun 💖✨ I don’t believe in the decenter men movement but good masculine men of the LORD are out there you have to spiritually put in the work fast, pray repent repeat 🔂
Seems like we have made very similar experiences in life. Your chanel affirms me to build big boundaries around me. People who lack reflection and self control will project all of their insecurities on everyone around them. Especially if you are a beautiful intelligen talented feminine being! Let's protect our beautiful energies! Thank you for your chanel! It is a great help!!!
Yes, this is so true. I've experienced jealousy mostly from Black men all my life. To this day, I can still remember this incident when I was in middle school back in the early 90's. Ive always liked dressing up and like to dress nice and still do. One day I was walking by this Black boy and Black girl in the hallway and the boy says to the girl, "She trying to look ALL GREAT." And the girl goes, "I know, right." I never knew them or spoke to them. I never understood why the boy took the time to be mean to someone whom he didn't know. At the same time, I was getting a lot of compliments from White girls in my classes who said they loved my outfit.
The content of this video is truly remarkable and thought-provoking. I'm grateful for your willingness to share such enlightening material. Thank you for offering us this valuable insight. 💗
I had one steal from me proudly and I am a single mother. He did not want me he wanted what I have and destroy my relationship with my son WTF is wrong with them men make more money than we do I exposed him to his crappy father a WWII vet.
@@Yourlevelupguru Yes I did and regret it, He lied of course and no one warned or dropped a hint. I learned from my mistakes I will level up. I just cant understand how a man dates someone he knows is a mom and steal from them and no one cares.
A deeper question is WHY is it mostly BM who are always the ones trying to do it,and it's usually towards black women especially if she is beautiful and or successful?....
In general , black men do not have much power in comparison to men of other races . So , many of them hold on to misogyny like other men and relish of their ‘manliness’ as opposed to their blackness because they believe their position as a man gives them more power than their blackness . This is why they tend to be very obsessed with women submitting . Many black women are doing very well for themselves and that makes them jealous that’s why they start saying things like ‘we don’t care about your degrees’ but it’s actually because of envy. This is a problem across the diaspora too with African American, African , Afro Caribbean men . For example , I was born in the uk to Ghanaian parents and I can tell you a lot of African men are obsessed with subjugating women yet look at the state of the motherland . They can’t defend their people against colonisers and leeches yet they are so obsessed with lording over women. It’s a sad state of affairs .
I love your stories, very entertainment and truthful, but I must say this all women aren’t jealous. I’m a woman and I have never in my life. Been jealous of another woman. We have to stop categorizing us all that is not in my spirit.
I didn’t know I needed to hear this. You articulated this issue very well. In such a way that I could never articulate it and you have brought a new awareness to me. ❤
Right on time. Im facing that situation now...and while I'm in it , my spiritual team made me understand that this situation is especially in the black community. They made me understand this situation is from over 1000 years ago. Starting from Kemet (Egypt) until the extension to the rest of Africa, then the world. Our world was led by matriarchal, black women used to always have the lead. This situation didn't please to black man therefore, black men created religion through Christianity and Islam where patriarchal reign. You can see that the first bible came from Ethiopia origin of Christianity because its black men who created that in order to overthrow the power of women and make them submissive make women submissive because they didn't want this matriarchal situation where women are in power positions to continue. My spirits explain to me that there is a war of position between black men and black women, Men that have an imbalance ego ( and they are numerous in black communities through the world ) recently a Ugandan Olympic woman was killed by her men for jealousy) Many of our men need to heal from this poison, which is why from now I have so much more respect for true men who are balanced in their masculinity. There are the real deal, real men. Ase Ps: by the way, new over here, I love your content, so necessary, thank you for keeping it up; Blessings
Sheesh I’m a grown man and I want a confident woman. I’m a confident man so I need a confident woman. Idk what type of men yall dating. I’m Him so I need a girl that’s Her.
Naw if he’s trying to humble you, he jst don’t like you. And it’s okay. You’ve gotta see it and accept it and not see the need to prove anything. I was hanging with a dude who insist on taking me out-not my cup of tea of a person whatsoever oh pls but funny enough he kept pulling these tactics like trying to downplay a lot of things about me. I figured he jst didn’t like me but wanted to act like he did and I could cared less either but it’s jst funny to noticed: so if he’s trying to lower you, he’s jst not tht into you but pretending. Jst leave these ppl alone esp for you women who actually like them
My daughter's dad was very terrible in my life i went from having a good job a nice apartment and a nice car paid for to losing all of my savings because of him my car and my apartment and he was mad at me because he feels like i wont let it go what he did to me i blocked him and dont talk to him i went from a promising future to being depressed and broke i try to stay positive but i think about ending it all
Thank you so much for adding this in there, in my eyes you are definitely 100 for even posting this topic 🎉 you gonna be #1 female TH-camr and i know you probably get that all the time. But you are one of the very few i ever heard get vocal about these BANs 💯🎉
Im a libra woman with Sagittarius highly in my chart and this resonates 💯 libra woman are similar people lied on sleeping with celebrities libra woman like rappers 50 cent and The game with mỳa clout chasing her beauty etc over their rap and money beef and Rapper king yela with cardi B.
I have had idiots try to humble me simply because I can see the light at the end of the tunnel back in the day, now imagine if I had assets to show for it back then OMGOSH I would hate to imagine that.
Men get jealous when a beautiful woman can get anything they want and desire just by looking good. They envy it.
Totally
That part
@@victoriasmith6027 You don't even have to be beautiful. The minute you achieve more or outshine an insecure man, that's it😭
Very true!
Also when you have a positive spirit and your very likable and loved by many then you'll get hell for it!
Trust me I'm going through this and it's very draining and evil to experience haters from a man or woman!
Please pray daily and take very good care of yourself!
AMEN!
An ex once said to me "woman do nothing, they just have to look good they have it easy"
Men try to humble you so subtly. Testing the waters to see how far they can go. LADIES, don’t ignore the red flags.
Yup loathe signs!!!
Woah. You’re a stunner. The prettier you are the more careful you have to be. I just mentally jot down what they said. Men are more covert then they show up and THROW up down the line. The mask falls and the abuse starts. Women have to be as sharp as serpents.
1st thing they love to do is say "you don't need makeup & weave" they want you to get as plain Jane as possible so you're not a threat.
Exactly!
I had a man try to feed me that line recently. I told him that I am very feminine and I enjoy wearing makeup. That was the last time I spoke to him 😂
@@la6136 You're sooo smart!!! ✨️ 🙌🏽
I have had this experience as well saying you're not doing that for me it doesn't take all that for me but yet when they make me I had on makeup was looking good ect. Also commenting about a false eyelashes why do you wear that you don't need that etc but have been seen looking at other women with long eyelashes and the same traits that they try to dumb down in me
My old friend does his wife like that
My guy friend told me to never date ‘down’ because unsuccessful and non-wealthy men want what you HAVE. They want your lifestyle and they expect you to give it to them. Leave the broke men alone. Date men that have more than you, never less.
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Although that's probably true. Men with money use that power to control women.
Facts
But, the men who have more, try to control. And they cheat a lot. And withhold money and sex when they get mad. And it's easier for them to pay to send a hit. And then cover it up.
THIS
Humbling only works on people who are driven by their ego and pride. When you’re a woman of integrity, authenticity, and esteem it’s basically impossible to break her. You could hurt of feelings, maybe, but you’d never break her.
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Mmmmhm!
Very false
@@DaffieA My comment was in response to the comment by @MrsTruthTeller, which I did not agree with. HENCE MY REPLYING TO THEIR COMMENT (I.E. THE ORIGINAL COMMENT) AND NOT YOURS.
But, those attempts, do hurt. They play in our faces whether we want them to or not.
Decentering men has really been one of the best decisions I've ever made in my life. It's cold out here!!!!😒😞
Correct
@@Jabberndi 💜
SAME
@@DaffieAthis is not the 1950s anymore. Women have their own jobs and resources now. Also buy more homes then males😂😂😂😂
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They don't want to be with you, they want to be you. They need access first, thus the love bombing.
OMG! I’ve told people all the time. 💯 This illusion of “pretty privilege” is a lie! Pretty woman get treated the worst! 😒 We’re also prayed on like cattle & objectified!
Yeah I thought the same. Its not that easy either.
Exactly! Women hate you and men jealous of you!
The focus can’t even be about business bc they’re entirely too busy watching 👀 and it’s like; Damn, can’t I just get my business handled w/o you trying to flirt & holla??!! 🙄😬😩
First. I have no desire to date, just leveling my life up. I’ve dealt with so many jealous men, they’re more jealous than women from my experience and insecure. Not to mentioned most of them are not confident and have low self esteem. Not worth it.
Agreed
I feel this way too. Although I have met jealous women, the jealous men I encountered were worse! They scare me more than women do because they will become violent.
Bingo
The way I enjoy being single❤ it's the best feeling ever
@@NokwaziMavis-x6z Yes I enjoy as well nothing like a peace of mind ☺️
The Bible is very clear that in the last days men, will become “lovers of themselves”. 2 Timothy 3:2.
Yes men and women
Amen
Men in the Bible translates to men and women like narcissism of selfies etc on social media
As a teenager I always felt like Whitney was working overtime trying to make Bobby feel like a man.
Five experienced this and I've never doing it again they're insecurities and low self-esteem is not our problem it's not my job to constantly try to build them up who the hell will bill me up they are draining as hell when they are insecure and toxic
She was
He was a hoe. And he wanted her to like it. He hated that she shined without his permission.
My ex would talk crap in the house about certain ppl who had more than him and then shrink when in their presence. I said “why are you worried about them, go for what you want”. He never did but got mad when I got or at least attempted to seek out what I wanted w/out his input. I realized that he was a grown boy with no leadership qualities for me to submit to. I did the heavy lifting in the relationship.I stopped sharing and just did it. I’m so glad I’m out of that marriage bc he was holding me back.
I've felt that as well. Ill say it here, after watching the Bobby Brown story, two of his ego bruises and developed complexes came from two different light skin women or lighter than him which was prize in the 80s (girlie at house party and Janet Jackson) rejecting him for light skin men. He has spoken on these incidents more than the movie display.
I've experienced jealousy from most of the men I've dated in the past. It was weird, even the ones that had money...they hated when people would look/stare/honk at me or compliment me and try to bring me down to feel insecure and make me jealous of an ex of theirs or another girl. I never understood it when I was younger, but many are very jealous of women getting attention, period. I wish all young women to know this truth and be wary not to let any man bring you down. All these men also told me they "loved" me. Leave immediately at any signs of jealousy!
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It’s usually a highly successful woman that gets taken out by these jealous males.
Ike Turner tried to do this to Tina!
My exes have tried to humble me so many times but IT WILL NEVER WORK!!! 😂😂😂😂 They were jealous about me making more money than them. They have tried to come for my looks like catty women too. It’s so pathetic!😅 one even tried to humble me every time I bought a new car. Meanwhile he has the same old crown Vick he’d bought from an old couple 15 years ago he can’t even drive! I cannot make this stuff up. Even my brothers have tried to humble me because I’m doing better than them and making more than them. AND I LOOK GOOD AS HELL!!! 😂 I been knowing they’re dying inside. 🤦🏽♀️
Similar situations but without the brothers!!! What people didn't realize is that God has blessed us!!! He made us, so many cannot break us!!! I think competition in relationships with black males against black women is disgusting. I've had it with "the brothers", I'm looking into dating outside of my race. I think different races of men other than black males are okay with women's achievements, probably because they have accomplishments & assets as well.
@@jesusfavor1543 I work in a male dominated industry. I’ve come to the realization that EVERY race of male are the same. Hispanic, Caucasian, African, Chinese, Arabic, etc. They all have fragile egos. Maybe it’s the testosterone. 🤷🏽♀️ They compete with one another and if a woman is present that is black, beautiful, intelligent, accomplished and you don’t want them. They will all turn and see you as something to conquer and or bring down/humble.
Dying inside! 😂😂
You have to pray a lot if even your family is against you.
@@alluringbliss4165 I also fast. I have to pray multiple times a day though. Thankfully I moved across the country away from my family so they can only talk to me when I FEEL like answering my phone. And I don’t talk to ex’s so I’m fine. 😊
Story time: I had a mail carrier who tried to date me. I instantly shut it down and distanced myself. He instantly retaliated by being hostile and passive aggressive. He then created a scam to get fmla so he could get days off whenever he wanted by saying seeing me is a “triggering event” (the postmaster explained his accusations). The company had to cover it up because of how pathetic, dangerous, and obsessive the carrier became. He lied and said I was stalking him. He’s fired now and facing legal repercussions but I feel nothing but gratitude because I clocked his bum behavior off the jump.
The thought of a man being jealous of me, never even crossed my mind, because in my mind, I was never in competition with them. This is very eye-opening.
One of the things that caught me off guard the most as an adult. They don’t prepare you for these types of scenarios lol.
Almost all of my exes were jealous. My discernment is through the roof now. Any sign of jealousy and I’m out ✌🏾🏃🏾♀️💨 the devil definitely uses the finest men to come for me. Too bad they lose EVERY TIME!
How long did it take for your discernment to kick in with each one?
@@LilithTheAquarian369 Well I had to learn to listen to my intuition. I also started paying attention to patterns early with each person. I don’t have an exact time frame, I just pick up on things fast. I’m also a psychic intuitive so I know people’s motives and intentions really fast anyway 🤷🏾♀️
Word of advice: listen to what they say, how they look at you and actions overall. You’ll be able to tell. Keep the rose colored glasses off in the beginning.
@@jmc1111_ Yeah, it’s not who you attract, but what you entertain.
I do
Spells so they won’t come to me at all. I don’t like men like that something is off about them. . 🔮♒️😆
@@LilithTheAquarian369 girl same.
Yup. Once my spirit picks up , I stay silent. I show no signs that I know their intentions. I slowly drift away ….. no access.
Lord God. I don’t want sex , I don’t want no friends. I just want to go to Heaven. I’m over people they are literally evil. 🙏🏽 Yall stay safe ❤
😂😂😂😂 you must be a fly on my wall during my prayers at night . LOL . That’s exactly what I say . I know God be like okay here she goes again 🥴
I love this comment cusssss SAME!!😂❤
This is the prayer,right here!
Facts 💯
I had an ex who literally tried to destroy me emotionally, spiritually and financially. When my eyes opened to his true nature, I ghosted him and never looked back without any explanation. I move wisely now. 👀🦶🏾
Charles and princess diana ....
TBF Diana did the absolute most when she was younger 😂😂😂 it’s not her fault tho. She was young and impressionable.
That entire embred royal family and his side chick tried to ‘humble’ Diana
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Yup, they love to humble beautiful women w/ a busted side chick
Correct
And remember never built your home on another tears
Ladies clock this in stop rushing in to the yes word in dating . Narcissist people hate the word use the word NO at your discretion
Married for 13 yrs, nowas widow for 2 yrs +. Have no interested in dating. My late husband was trying to sabotage my career path while I was in college. I tried to do so many easy to humbling even on a medical/ dental situation. Since he’s been gone, it’s been nothing but leveling up, and I know that The Most High is with me And my children. No man will EVER TAKE THE PLACE OF THEE MOST HIGH, ever again. He’s been showing me that I should focus on Him and my destiny.
Jesus that is so Sad to read. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
The lord helped you out and removed him. Needs to be done more often.
I always say this! The Most High will ALWAYS N FOREVER come first! Always the center!!
Literally will go out there way to make u feel awful 😕
I am so glad the younger generation of women are getting this. Vet the people you let in your space. It's a lot harder learning this lesson after decades of not knowing my worth.
True. If you properly vet then most will find themselves damn near alone and people don’t like being alone. Quality over quantity.
Extremly insecure is the key term.Men will hate you when you are beautiful and will try to end you and so very sad
Yes. Not just in romantic relationships either. It can be a relative, coworker, or just some dude that knows if he tried, wouldn’t stand a chance with you.
Thank you for this video! As both a musician and a mother, I’ve come to realize that many of my critics in the music industry are men. They seem jealous because I pursue music as a hobby while being able to provide for myself and my child. Meanwhile, many of them have 2-3 kids, no stable jobs, or degrees.
Networking is something I excel at, which is another area they struggle with. One of them even went so far as to spread false rumors about being in a relationship with me, just to try and bring me down.
I’m an independent artist, so it makes me think of how many jealous men Nicki Minaj must deal with, simply because she’s that girl-period.
Good point,start that list with Safaree.
When they're your relatives? Ooohhweee! F'ing devious work! When my blood father, called my work to get me fired? When I was 19?... He called around to find out how much money I was making and when he did, he WAS NOT PLEASED. I had to DREAM that it was him! And upon confrontation he was upsetti chile! But confessed. There's far more diabolical nonsense but BLESSED be I just chuckle now. Tragic!
@@psyyykhe1010 lol this sounds like my dad. He reached out to my loser ex with a PhD to try and humble me. My dad then told me about the conversation they had boasting about the ex’s accomplishments. My dad did this all because I started living my own fabulous life. I laughed so hard!
Never thought it would happen to me but it has. It’s more dangerous then having ur female BFF jealous of you because you’re suppose to be each others safe space. Insane! Nothing worse then a bitter man
Men work overtime to stalk women and scare away other men. Women tend to stop at gossip. Men are far more vengeful and retaliatory
This spiritual war of men against women isn't just within the realm of Love but family as well. I am battling the hardest war against my two sons along with other family members because they want to control me or keep me from achieving anything. They not only have demonic attachments, one of them are even delving in Black Magic to sacrifice me. My own children, Karmic children. Everytime they come around there is chaos and everything starts to fall apart in my life. I wanna shed light on this because many times we don't want to believe this is so. I noticed this when I began to step away from the men I would date so now it's coming through my boys.
We must pray
It’s crazy because , I was just saying you need to talk about this topic about jealousy in men towards women because it does exist!!
Jealous men trying to humble women...
My ex always said I need to humble myself 😂smh. No you're mad I humbled you
Decenter everyone is my motto.
Definitely a spiritual warfare
absolutely spiritual warfare! went through this recently… he felt i rejected him and became so vengeful. since i didn’t want him, he didn’t want anyone else to be w me either. which ofc didn’t work! 😊
I love the way she said trust no one no one
My grandma taught me that. She saved my life
Everything you say it's so true, it may be sad but it's the truth. The devil will you use anything and anybody to bring you down. He knows your weakness and he will target you by making someone appear as if they are right for you. Men or Women but actually many of them are just sent to destroy you. Stay Lit!!! Thank God at the end of the day he is always in control and shows me the signs very early from the get go 🙏🏽
i think its so strange how all whitney houstons fan pages highlight bobby so much like he was her true love as if on her last oprah appearance whitney told us bobby spit on her and painted evil eyes in the house. i personally think whitney would hate the romanticizing of her and bobby relationship
Wow! Your examples in the thumbnail could not be more perfect. Kenya’s ex husband definitely tried to tear her apart 😢
He was the devil . Idk how she put up with that
Please, Please, PLEASE, do a video on: "Abuse Is Protected in AA community."
When you mentioned that in this video, I nodded my head until I was dizzy. Girl. If that statement is the entire issue of our "community" especially of the Baby Boomer Gen. They thrive off toxicity.
Thissssss Comment Right Here! The Baby Boomers didn’t have therapy or emotional intelligence. Full of toxicity. Whether knowingly or unknowingly.
I always talk about that. I divested years ago. I left all that behind. Stop being afraid to divest .
As a Sagittarius woman this is true. I had many "friends" who tried to cancel and badmouth me because they were jealous of my energy and ability to light up the room, attract attention and make friends easily. I can be very happy and laugh a lot and people hate it. People especially hate me in combination with Leo.
So sad - I am strong yes but I have feelings and need support, too. I gave it to God. Karma is a b*ch
Thats how I move i say ok and i keep going i work hard for my success
I have seen all of this before
Omgggggggggggg I always say Leo women get more hate than anybody! Ppl have always been overly jealous of me, women and men. My energy is magnetic, even when I try to shave myself down and ppl hate me for it. This is why I'm in isolation a lot now. I can't trust ppl, nor do I have the bandwidth to deal with them. Every job I have, jealous women especially give me hell! I'm over it!
It is exhausting.
@@Xeyne098 so exhausting 🤦🏾♀️😫
could you do a video on your vetting process for your relationships with women?
💯💯💯 factsss I don’t keep ppl around me like that for them to even try me in those ways , clock it
Just yesterday I watched a video about a woman living through a nightmare because of a jealous guy. She was above this dweeb in her carrier, so he was her subordinate. And despite knowing that she had a man in her life already, this pos decided to love bomb her and send her flowers anonymously and so on. Eventually he asked her how she liked the flowers he sent snd she told him “thanks but please never do that again. It’s inappropriate and I’m not interested.” And that’s when he lost his sheet. The dude ran around with a weapon threatening to end his life, because “she doesn’t love me. So what is the point to continue to live?” which resulted in him getting booted from that job. Well, he dedicated his entire time to stalking, harassing and intimidating this woman. He figured she’ll give in eventually and agree to be with him. So, he began posting as her online telling everyone that she only got as high in her career because she slept around with everyone at the top. She nearly was forced to resign because of these posts even though she wasn’t the one who wrote that crap. And this garbage of a nobody, dude, kept trying to do everything to get her fired, to destroy her life, to humiliate her in every possible way. It went on for YEARS, with him spying on her accusing her of sleeping with every man she ever interacted with. He knew what a loser he was and was trying to pull her down to his low level. So, it isn’t even always the man you are dating. It can literally be some worthless, much younger than you, shy-seeming, employee at your job, like in case of that woman. Patriarchy makes men totally unhinged around powerful/more successful women. They become monsters.
Beautiful black woman trust no one 👏🏿😓
Thank you for the video love❤ This explains a lot. Being Monitored 24/ 7 as I type. Oh yea...I love all yall women comments too.❤
Watching this after DDG made Hailey a baby momma at the height of her career 💔 no ring for her so she feels low💔so sickkkkkk!!!!!
That's real! He was soooo jealous of her it was apparent from the start. He wanted those endorsement deals and being the first black woman to do something. I'm shocked she couldn't see it but she was likely in denial.
@@Simplythetruthfulonevery jealous gosh🤦🏽! it happens especially for below 25 because of naivety. Thank God we have channels like this to teach young and old on how to be street smart. This era is tough but we must be tougher. Praying for her to get through this ❤️
U attract to urself urself. What u believe about urself, u will attract to urself. Change ur thoughts and beliefs about yourself, then u will Change who u attract.
She telling it like it is... As always ❤
Im very careful on who i trust im not easy to believe anything these people say i know who to trust and who not to trust
I have gotten to where before I take they word I'm going to look into things and ask soon as I c u are a liar and full of it I don't have to say anything. I just keep going and by the way I am a Leo ♌🦁
I totally agree with your assessment of the black community. There is this false beleif of solidarity at all costs, and that means protecting horrible men. like they think if they speak out, then THEY will be the ones punished, and that is true. I dont play with that noise. But I am estranged from family, happy!!! But estranged.
Cheers to being a divestor!!!
This could not be more timely! Just had the weirdest interview with a black male recruiter who was trying to humble me out of nowhere once he realized where I went to school. He started off fine and then was super unprofessional and then hostile for what I thought was no reason. Once he pulled up my LinkedIn and saw my picture and how polished my profile is, it all went downhill. I had to politely excuse myself. Now I realize that he could have been jealous. #bigmad
I felt like Young Jeezy tried to do this to Jeanie Mai she’s usually bubbly and alive! He got her pregnant and all came back he was not that nice! And this needs to be talked about More! It’s crazy how men can do this! Sandra Shehabs husband may be trying to do this! Joie Chavis is a victim of this she is active, happy and physically beautiful I feel they purposely get her pregnant.
He did
Yesss so true
This is such a taboo much needed to spoke on topic! I'm soooo glad you are speaking on this because this is what a lot of women know in their hearts, but don't want to believe.
The internet needs you! All your content is so good and much needed. Thank you for your work ❤
at work i get called ugly almost everyday but once i leave im always getting complimented.. its so draining knowing i still struggle with self esteem from highschool
you are beautiful. I went through the same crap and now I am about to be in my 50's. if you do not like someone just say it without hurting us
They are jealous, pay them no mind.
Gurrl look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself,pretty bitch!...and everytime someone tells you you're ugly immediately say, "Yes, you are,eeew!" then go on about your business.
Don’t listen to them dear . But why are they even commenting on your appearance anyway ?!
You’re beautiful, sis. They feel ugly in your presence abs start projecting.
I don’t want to date or marry. I’m genuinely happy single :)
In reality men can only Humble pick mes 😂👏🏽
I grew up in such household. The husband was from a lower social class and I witnessed so much abuse as a child. It completely affected my self esteem.
could this have been what my dad did to my MOM?..She was a rich kid and it is at my father's home that she first saw a mad house?...am just realising shit about my dad over ten years after his death and the kind of husband he was to my mom, which was not good .And yes my mom married down, I was so dissapointed that she left her rich boyfriend on stage to go to my father's place(because in their days they never dated).....Yooh...do you know it is my father the reason as a child , I vowed to not get married?
I'm a Leo woman too, and yes, people automatically feel small around me. 🤷🏾♀️
Men and women are exactly the same.
Same sis! It’s immediate and it’s annoying 😒
SOML. That’s why I stay away by choice
Leo women are walking triggers. They will become obsessed with your weaknesses and trying to humble you. It’s your intensity and leader energy they fear.
Try to understand yourself. Leo women fight many internal battles because of the intensity of your internal energy. Internally you’re on a never ending rollercoaster. Oh and don’t trust anyone. They will risk their lives trying to humble or dismantle the Leo . Be cautious and stay safe. Don’t trust anyone.
@ We do not do this lol. We do not care about anyone’s weaknesses unless they start to point out all of our weaknesses. Our zodiac literally says that we are positive and generous. We don’t do anything negative to anyone until people start attacking us. And people just attack us for no reason. I think other people don’t realize how much they project all their own internal bullshit on us because they don’t like our confidence.
Facts everyone in the Industry is mad at Nicki. They tried by all means to sabotage her career and pushed other female rappers to be bigger than her. Whereas she's the real talented hard working and she's a natural beauty!
Do women with plastic surgery get categorized as natural beauties now days?
Nicki Minaj is a fire sign . Those women can never let their guards down.
It so refreshing to hear you talk about these things. People don't openly say im a beautiful person and having these problems for it. When you are the common denominator most people say it's your fault. But you literally don't do anything to anyone because you are always getting in trouble. For example Why would I steal something because I'm the first that would be blamed so I would never steal but Im always defending not stealing to prove to the world im not a goody too shoes. Ive defended not cheating before. Go to a job no one wants to train me, but i have to train people when Im at a job. People are mean to me. Feel upset when I treat my best friend or boyfriends well. For example people tell my friends or boyfriends they are acting differently because of me. ok well leave me alone and go be with them...i wouldn't say Im beautiful because I wasnt in that type of environment to praise my looks. But I have been selected at a modeling casting service, but my mom didn't want to pay the fee.Ive had women to be jealous of me, but im the most humble person youll meet because Ive never received compliments, but Ive had people to be jealous of me and now that im older I think that is the same thing.
This is so sad but true.
I needed this message! This spiritual warfare is real!! I have a loving heart that no one can take away and attracts all kind of abusive men on every level! God knows how much I want real love but this year I came to realize God is the purest form of love and I really have to fall in love with him so he can order my steps through these valleys. My child’s father is doing whatever he can to hurt me even went as far as getting intimate with one of my coworkers 😢. People in general (family and “friends”) really seek to break my sensitive heart. But the devil is a liar!!!
I’ll never forget being in my 20s and a guy set me up to be followed because he was “worried” that I would cheat 😂 insecure BAD. I couldn’t believe when he revealed that loosely in a conversation he arranged someone to follow me to track my whereabouts never felt so mortified in my life and I broke it off via text Mel you can’t trust men like that I then went into prayer mode and fasted an prayed and the LORD blessed me with a masculine man with a drill collection 😂 not those 60-100 I’m talking the 600 dollar drills and up and he mows the lawn on a Saturday morning no rolling over with Morning breath trying to get some 😅I say this to say TMH can do anything faith over everything 🎉❤ prayer can change everything 🙏🏽 those men you came across Mel were effeminate because a masculine man will be thrilled to have a woman with your feminine qualities it’s so ghetto out here 😢
Amen, amen, amen! 🙏🏾✨✨
@@TheGoodLifeStarterPack thank you hun 💖✨ I don’t believe in the decenter men movement but good masculine men of the LORD are out there you have to spiritually put in the work fast, pray repent repeat 🔂
Seems like we have made very similar experiences in life. Your chanel affirms me to build big boundaries around me. People who lack reflection and self control will project all of their insecurities on everyone around them. Especially if you are a beautiful intelligen talented feminine being! Let's protect our beautiful energies! Thank you for your chanel! It is a great help!!!
You’re very intelligent, this is very on point. I wish every attractive person could see this video to warn them !
Yes, this is so true. I've experienced jealousy mostly from Black men all my life. To this day, I can still remember this incident when I was in middle school back in the early 90's. Ive always liked dressing up and like to dress nice and still do. One day I was walking by this Black boy and Black girl in the hallway and the boy says to the girl, "She trying to look ALL GREAT." And the girl goes, "I know, right." I never knew them or spoke to them. I never understood why the boy took the time to be mean to someone whom he didn't know. At the same time, I was getting a lot of compliments from White girls in my classes who said they loved my outfit.
Thank you for this Level Up Guru
I appreciate your feedback
The content of this video is truly remarkable and thought-provoking. I'm grateful for your willingness to share such enlightening material. Thank you for offering us this valuable insight. 💗
I had one steal from me proudly and I am a single mother. He did not want me he wanted what I have and destroy my relationship with my son WTF is wrong with them men make more money than we do I exposed him to his crappy father a WWII vet.
Oh my word. How do u all let people enter your immediate life so easily? My goodness. Be more cautious.
@@Yourlevelupguru Yes I did and regret it, He lied of course and no one warned or dropped a hint. I learned from my mistakes I will level up. I just cant understand how a man dates someone he knows is a mom and steal from them and no one cares.
Experienced this my entire life however the past three years I’ve been focused on me❤
There is no one around me to warn me bout this stuff thank you for making what u do ❤
Its scarry and its gone happen even more everywhere
A deeper question is WHY is it mostly BM who are always the ones trying to do it,and it's usually towards black women especially if she is beautiful and or successful?....
😂 All Men! Especially the old White ones..🤮
Probably really wanna be women.
In general , black men do not have much power in comparison to men of other races . So , many of them hold on to misogyny like other men and relish of their ‘manliness’ as opposed to their blackness because they believe their position as a man gives them more power than their blackness . This is why they tend to be very obsessed with women submitting . Many black women are doing very well for themselves and that makes them jealous that’s why they start saying things like ‘we don’t care about your degrees’ but it’s actually because of envy. This is a problem across the diaspora too with African American, African , Afro Caribbean men . For example , I was born in the uk to Ghanaian parents and I can tell you a lot of African men are obsessed with subjugating women yet look at the state of the motherland . They can’t defend their people against colonisers and leeches yet they are so obsessed with lording over women. It’s a sad state of affairs .
I love your stories, very entertainment and truthful, but I must say this all women aren’t jealous. I’m a woman and I have never in my life. Been jealous of another woman. We have to stop categorizing us all that is not in my spirit.
👑Queen, you broke this down well, yo. 👑Hallelujah! 🎉
Story of my life💯♟️🙌🏽
I didn’t know I needed to hear this. You articulated this issue very well. In such a way that I could never articulate it and you have brought a new awareness to me. ❤
This message is EVERYTHING!
Right on time. Im facing that situation now...and while I'm in it , my spiritual team made me understand that this situation is especially in the black community. They made me understand this situation is from over 1000 years ago. Starting from Kemet (Egypt) until the extension to the rest of Africa, then the world. Our world was led by matriarchal, black women used to always have the lead. This situation didn't please to black man therefore, black men created religion through Christianity and Islam where patriarchal reign. You can see that the first bible came from Ethiopia origin of Christianity because its black men who created that in order to overthrow the power of women and make them submissive make women submissive because they didn't want this matriarchal situation where women are in power positions to continue. My spirits explain to me that there is a war of position between black men and black women, Men that have an imbalance ego ( and they are numerous in black communities through the world ) recently a Ugandan Olympic woman was killed by her men for jealousy) Many of our men need to heal from this poison, which is why from now I have so much more respect for true men who are balanced in their masculinity. There are the real deal, real men. Ase Ps: by the way, new over here, I love your content, so necessary, thank you for keeping it up; Blessings
Thank you for saving lives.
I'm seeking understanding. I'm glad I found your blog. ❤❤❤
Spot on SIS ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Sheesh I’m a grown man and I want a confident woman. I’m a confident man so I need a confident woman. Idk what type of men yall dating. I’m Him so I need a girl that’s Her.
So.true now that i think.of this my husband was jealous of me now me to.i don't truth no body
Exactely i.just started doing this to looking at men side ways
Naw if he’s trying to humble you, he jst don’t like you. And it’s okay. You’ve gotta see it and accept it and not see the need to prove anything. I was hanging with a dude who insist on taking me out-not my cup of tea of a person whatsoever oh pls but funny enough he kept pulling these tactics like trying to downplay a lot of things about me. I figured he jst didn’t like me but wanted to act like he did and I could cared less either but it’s jst funny to noticed: so if he’s trying to lower you, he’s jst not tht into you but pretending. Jst leave these ppl alone esp for you women who actually like them
My daughter's dad was very terrible in my life i went from having a good job a nice apartment and a nice car paid for to losing all of my savings because of him my car and my apartment and he was mad at me because he feels like i wont let it go what he did to me i blocked him and dont talk to him i went from a promising future to being depressed and broke i try to stay positive but i think about ending it all
I hope and know life will get better for you! This will be your testimony and whoever hurt you will never prosper in the long run!
Sis, if you did it once you can do it twice. Now, you can thrive without his toxicity tearing you down. 💅🏾🙏🏾💕✨
Don’t let him win ! Pick yourself up, dust yourself up and keep going. ❤
I had this happen to me yesterday on Oct 1 this man.looked at me.crazy it true men be doing bad it all true i find this in pastor
Thank you so much for adding this in there, in my eyes you are definitely 100 for even posting this topic 🎉 you gonna be #1 female TH-camr and i know you probably get that all the time. But you are one of the very few i ever heard get vocal about these BANs 💯🎉
Im a libra woman with Sagittarius highly in my chart and this resonates 💯 libra woman are similar people lied on sleeping with celebrities libra woman like rappers 50 cent and The game with mỳa clout chasing her beauty etc over their rap and money beef and Rapper king yela with cardi B.
It so true they do protect abuse
Thank you for this message
All you say is true
I have had idiots try to humble me simply because I can see the light at the end of the tunnel back in the day, now imagine if I had assets to show for it back then OMGOSH I would hate to imagine that.