Should I Marry a Hot Woman With Difficult Past ?

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  • @frozen1762
    @frozen1762 3 ปีที่แล้ว +149

    She will cheat on him same as she did with him that other dude.

    • @severepayne72
      @severepayne72 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      100% as soon as they move and he is kinda stuck she will, she is in charge of the relationship, he is deluded, she is running things and he is going along with it

    • @gregabrams5792
      @gregabrams5792 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Absolutely. You lose them how you win them.

    • @MrTimjm009
      @MrTimjm009 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah that is the big red flag for me. She left one guy for him . If it doesnt work out she will do the same . And take the kid . Plus they are moving to a new country , that is stressful enough. The marriage is convinence for the passport status

    • @drummerjosh1984
      @drummerjosh1984 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That guy is thinking, she won’t do that to me. She only did it because he was an abusive a hole. I thought the same thing once…… Her patterns don’t lie. She’ll cheat on your beta a** with someone very much like her ex. It all comes full circle eventually

  • @robj362
    @robj362 3 ปีที่แล้ว +172

    Dude you already know the answer 🤣

    • @kalkidasofficial
      @kalkidasofficial 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Right?!

    • @nikosniko7092
      @nikosniko7092 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yea only if she is really hot…..some will never learn…

    • @RealJayNice
      @RealJayNice 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This man is so desperate for a woman attention, He’s willing to travel to Europe and be in a relationship with a woman who cheated on her boyfriend while she was with him hoping it works for 2 years.Also any good looking woman who’s over the age of 30+ in her own city is either a women who loves having sex with multiple men or have a bipolar toxic disorder and can’t maintain relationship with men. This man is a sucker and lacks game and street smarts and is going to get played so badly. This is why men need to improve themselves,
      Anyways let him believe what he wants he will learn the hard way. 💯

    • @internetgod5407
      @internetgod5407 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I haven't watched any of the video I'm still on the commercials the answer is yes

  • @KONGDADDY69
    @KONGDADDY69 3 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    He was trying to sell his situation to the panel...based on his reaction he's not going to take any of their advice. He'll look back on this video when he's alone in a country he doesn't want to be in, and a women who left him.

    • @genuinehuman1
      @genuinehuman1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Lol😆. It's really sad. Can't stop laughing, your comment is absolutely true btw. But it's really sad🧐🧐.

    • @romans8024
      @romans8024 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And if his lady will say the words "I need to save me", he'll jump into it unhesitatingly.
      I'm also saying from the experience of this shit 😂
      I reminiscent on this moment a lot.
      When three goddesses asked inexperienced fella named Paris to decide about that apple, and he selected Aphrodite, I do honesly believe that Paris chose with his cock. It was similar situation. The truth behind the top comment also aa follows: we don't need high class experienced idiots to limit some pu**y for us (we can do it to us in our miserable lifes ourselves, thank you) 😂 Amen.

    • @genuinehuman1
      @genuinehuman1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@romans8024 lol sir🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 have witness this myself in my friend circle, the girls don't even care one single bit. This is exactly the reality btw, I swear to never SIMP ever in my life. That's for real.

    • @abdullah.a.nahyan
      @abdullah.a.nahyan 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hell yes😎

    • @johnboy9851
      @johnboy9851 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He hasn't done his homework at all. His girl will want a nice apartment, in a nice part of a nice city and he will be absolutely broke. EU countries always sell the high wages and hide the extreme cost of living... silly lad

  • @TechOutAdam
    @TechOutAdam 3 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    “Dude this is not going to work if you’re not going to be honest with us man.” And life won’t work for you period if you’re not honest with YOURSELF.

    • @mariahconklin4150
      @mariahconklin4150 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly. 🤷‍♀️😒 idk why people can’t be honest in general

    • @kevinreily2529
      @kevinreily2529 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      They are just as many men, as there are women, who don’t want to listen to reality! You are correct.

    • @elitecombatfitnesscentral6170
      @elitecombatfitnesscentral6170 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Adam Macias
      PREACH

    • @armandomacias8403
      @armandomacias8403 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m just here for the comments

  • @brianmcg321
    @brianmcg321 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    If they will cheat with you, they will cheat on you. Unlike mutual funds, past performance IS and indicator of future results.

  • @AmbuBadger
    @AmbuBadger 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Short answer: No.
    Long answer: _Noooooooooooooo._

  • @solomoncooper6491
    @solomoncooper6491 3 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    Love these difficult conversations. Men need to wake up.

  • @f0ster444
    @f0ster444 3 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    This guy was the beta orbiter. This girl will have orbiters while with him too. Unfortunately it’s chics like this that make you Red Pill. Never give up your frame especially if you’re a beta orbiter who finally got the hot girl. She’ll dump you when you least expect it. then she’ll age like milk as we age like wine.

    • @main_stream_media_is_a_joke
      @main_stream_media_is_a_joke 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Unfortunately most BP men do not age like fine wine.
      You need to wake the fuck up and take YOUR life by the horns, if you want to age like fine wine.
      Else you will wither like most BP men past age 35/40.

    • @MrSamozturk1
      @MrSamozturk1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The sad thing is, will highley likely contine to remain as a beta unless he makes some serious changes. There is a good chance she will cheat on him HOWEVER, I don't blame her at all. If he was a true alpha she would cancel out every other single guy as it would be near impossible to replace her alpha boyfriend.

    • @greatestever7623
      @greatestever7623 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      She has problems

    • @Adam444Tv
      @Adam444Tv 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      🙌🏻 this

    • @archexeros
      @archexeros 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly

  • @halamadrid0709
    @halamadrid0709 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    He already knows the deal but doesn't wanna face reality

  • @Ozzyozzysheesh
    @Ozzyozzysheesh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    This dude is already making this women the center of his life by the way it sounds. If you’re at that point you need to check yourself and just realize things more than likely ain’t gonna work out

    • @clarenceboddiker9559
      @clarenceboddiker9559 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      *womAn

    • @greatestever7623
      @greatestever7623 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Faqsssssssssssssssssssssss he's gotta ONEITIS for that lizard 🦎

    • @forward_ever_ever2595
      @forward_ever_ever2595 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yep...thats a 100percent beta there. He needs to leave. You want a good woman, seek a Godly woman. I bet 9.5 /10 she's fuckin someone else already...he just doesn't know it

  • @e.o9470
    @e.o9470 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Dude came to the relationship slaughter house!😂

    • @ARTDEVGRU247
      @ARTDEVGRU247 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😄 🤣 😂 😆 😄 🤣

    • @greatestever7623
      @greatestever7623 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Better to chopp em up on TH-cam than fall in the trap 🪤 till its too late 😕 they doing this guy a favor

    • @rufus5208
      @rufus5208 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Foreal he learned a lot that day 😂

  • @roytan1497
    @roytan1497 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    He already knew the answer. He needed assurance from the panel that his instincts were right.
    All the best

  • @sarahjaynescott545
    @sarahjaynescott545 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    When a woman is wife material, she is never single for long. So, if she is single / a girlfriend for long and not getting proposals then she is not wife material.

    • @GUITARTIME2024
      @GUITARTIME2024 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Exactly. I had a 45 yr old co worker years ago, never married, who talked about her "fiance". He had already left her the year before (they had lived together) to move 800 miles away,, and she flew once a month (her cost) to stay with him at his house a few days. He never visited her. She PAID so she could lie to herself that he was her future husband. I looked her up recently and years later, her last name is unchanged and she hasn't moved.

    • @usman5140
      @usman5140 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It depends, many religious woman have a hard time getting parental approval for marriage. Also, most woman get proposals and just don’t accept them. Then they later regret it as they age.

    • @luxolontamo4440
      @luxolontamo4440 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@usman5140 That's the point, they reject them cause they are from guys they don't value or they are still chasing chad. Either way it's still a red flag

    • @usman5140
      @usman5140 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@luxolontamo4440 there is a difference between not getting the proposals you want and not getting proposals at all.

    • @luxolontamo4440
      @luxolontamo4440 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@usman5140 if the outcome is the same then it makes no difference.

  • @PreeminentbrandsNet
    @PreeminentbrandsNet 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I like how these guys treated this like a business decision.

    • @tristiandavis6852
      @tristiandavis6852 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It kinda is lol considering they can potentially take half your income

    • @IL_Bgentyl
      @IL_Bgentyl 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It really is. The spark always has to be re kindled and in the age of easy access it’s has its pros and cons. Marriage is more about joining assets to have a stable environment to raise a child.

  • @R_Thomp
    @R_Thomp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    These Chads saved that guy's life!!!
    💪🏻💪🏼💪🏽💪🏾💪🏿

  • @vikingshark2634
    @vikingshark2634 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I tried a couple times to maintain relationships with hot women with difficult pasts. Doesn't matter, there's reasons she had a difficult past and she probably will carry those reasons into a difficult future. If the hottest women on the market are still on the shelf, it's probably because they've been returned multiple times.

  • @georgespangler1517
    @georgespangler1517 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Only the man that did the damage to a woman can fix it,, walk away are you will regret it

    • @kosovir
      @kosovir 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Exactly the opposite. Whoever Hurt you, cant fix you.facts.

  • @ArnoldVides
    @ArnoldVides 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    My experience as an immigrant who was married to a woman with a difficult past makes me urge you to avoid getting married to her. Most of the women carry traumas (BPD) that project on you, and they are not responsible for their actions.

  • @daven6569
    @daven6569 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    For me I needed a marriage, that was my world, to crash and burn so I could finally realize this life is about how I want it to be, not about how anyone else wants me to live it. No one can steer me from what I want to do in life. That's fucking frame.
    I hope this guy figures out that securing access to a wet hole through marriage isn't worth throwing away his one life.

    • @backlundbob4171
      @backlundbob4171 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Marriage is cucked. A man bets his net worth on some other man's boots call after he best years? 😂

    • @mariahconklin4150
      @mariahconklin4150 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly Dave! 😢🤷‍♀️ I was being steered in the wrong direction to luckily Gods got me.

    • @kosovir
      @kosovir 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You just wasnt good enough. Blame the woman but in the end it's 50% your fault.

    • @daven6569
      @daven6569 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kosovir I have to correct you: it was 100% my fault. I was blue pill. I didn't lead. It was my first long term relationship. We had different goals. Etc. I'm a different man now.

    • @backlundbob4171
      @backlundbob4171 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@daven6569 the problem is that you are accidentally on purpose pregnancy away from ruins. And for what? Has been vjj? For all the red pill jargon there seems to be little to no receipts. What receipts I did see I don't want. 😂 good luck man. I hope you enjoy your journey. I'm naturally skeptical when married dating coaches push ebooks on game.

  • @eurowerx4267
    @eurowerx4267 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    If you gotta ask!!! As the song lyrics go, “if you wanna be happy for the rest of your life, never make a pretty woman your wife”
    Old but true!!

  • @dianasharon5647
    @dianasharon5647 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Don't do it! This is coming from a woman, you're nothing but a meal ticket and a ticket to a whole bunch of other things to her. I mean, this may sound harsh af, but look at yourself and imagine yourself as a woman, are you someone that a hot girl's ever dreamt about? Women are natural when it comes to sniffing out the difference between a boy and a man. What I can tell you is - you're nothing but a boy (as if you stopped growing since teens) in a 29 yr old man's body; and that, isn't attractive to any female, so if a hot one still wants you under that condition (which she'll never tell you), there's definitely something wrong here. People don't randomly stumble upon success or girls/guys way out of their league. Wake up Phil, best of luck!

    • @Ted1775
      @Ted1775 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Bless your heart.

    • @nabilsaadi8704
      @nabilsaadi8704 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ouch Diana... Maybe he fuckz well 😅
      But seriously, she'll have leverage over him for f 2 years and if she can get a child from him with that during that period she'll be able to wrap a leech over his head during that period

    • @aligenc659
      @aligenc659 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What do hot girls dream of men?

    • @IL_Bgentyl
      @IL_Bgentyl 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      The issue with this is due to social media and men advancing women for sex often. Now women have inflated views of their attraction. So a 5 man and women the women will think she settled even though it’s a good match.

  • @willleslie2745
    @willleslie2745 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    He should not marry her.

    • @PhantomFilmAustralia
      @PhantomFilmAustralia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Finding a woman to be a wife on Tinder is as successful as finding an atheist in church.

    • @FatherAndTeacherTV
      @FatherAndTeacherTV 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@PhantomFilmAustralia That's hilarious, but a good analogy too.

    • @cnote3598
      @cnote3598 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      No man should marry anymore

    • @forward_ever_ever2595
      @forward_ever_ever2595 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Plain & simple

    • @kacpermoney2820
      @kacpermoney2820 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      He’s a 31 year old loser who thinks he’s an alpha male

  • @jonathandjing1065
    @jonathandjing1065 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Men are seriously about getting out of the simp mindset, at least a large proportion of men . I am glad we are opening up to more experience guys with no shame in asking for help

  • @andreirusu6998
    @andreirusu6998 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    He needs her more than she needs him, time starts ticking down till the train wreck..

  • @1983jcheat
    @1983jcheat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My family is from South America. This guy is crazy. We see this pretty often in the Latino community.

  • @romans8024
    @romans8024 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    "I was alpha, kinda" 😄

  • @mariahconklin4150
    @mariahconklin4150 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    If this man has a bad gut feeling I’d run. I’ve been in an abusive relationship and have been the abusive one. Now I’m in a relationship with a sociopath who mirrors me. He switches up his ways in order to have me get closer to him. It’s absolutely insane. Also if this lady is not telling her part and just saying she’s the one that been abused that’s also a red flag. 😒 Be careful

    • @cnote3598
      @cnote3598 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Leave your bf b4 you give advice

  • @Lifeisshortby
    @Lifeisshortby 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My dad always said “ the hotter they are the more problems they have.

  • @joeq.public281
    @joeq.public281 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    He looks terrified. Don't marry, dude. Houston's ghetto though.

  • @freegame32
    @freegame32 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Just stumbled upon this channel. This is GOLD. Bro, grab your balls and stear yourself where you want to go and your girl should follow. If she doesn’t, she’s giving you a valuable message. She’s not a feminine woman and she doesn’t trust your judgment. If you trust your own judgment, leave her bc she will be a liability. If you don’t trust your own judgment, be brutally honest with yourself and start building that trust within yourself. Women will flock to you and they will treat you like a king bc you trust yourself to lead.

  • @justinhinchliffe2355
    @justinhinchliffe2355 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This was a great conversation and advice for Phil. Good luck mate

  • @thetalltech1746
    @thetalltech1746 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The view from the friend zone has never been sweeter

  • @thomasmachado7198
    @thomasmachado7198 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I've never had that kind of luck with Tinder..

  • @alurnima
    @alurnima 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Doesn't sound like he has a lot of information on Germany ...we have possibilities here for immigrants but many are struggling, especially with the language/cultural integration and those people might have a fairly decent life here but they still have to work hard and a lot. And most people I've ever met who were not highly educated/skilled wouldn't make that much per hour anyways and are kinda stuck there. And he shouldn't rely on that woman. Better to move on his own terms and willingness.

  • @andre1987eph
    @andre1987eph 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    "Should I lick the third subway rail while holding one of the train tracks?"

    • @Chris-qg6kc
      @Chris-qg6kc 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Would be a great joke if everyone knew how electricity works.

    • @forward_ever_ever2595
      @forward_ever_ever2595 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂😂yep he's in a mess...he aint telling us that she had him in the friendzone and just got his turn...and just like she started to fuck him while with someone else...the same is gonna happen to this dude

  • @JoeGlogowski
    @JoeGlogowski 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Sounds similar to a situation I once had ... ... These guys gave you good advice...

    • @Joshdifferent
      @Joshdifferent 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How did you handle it? Lol

    • @JoeGlogowski
      @JoeGlogowski 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Joshdifferent poorly - kid is in another country and I have no access atm

  • @v380riMz
    @v380riMz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Mans need advice. I live in The Netherlands and for the "well" paying jobs you'll need some papers atleast, if not you'll be working a minimum wage in a country where it is EXPENSIVE as hell to live. Gas prices are about 2eur for a litre. He has to reflect, ALOT.

  • @englishpayerofgermantaxes8186
    @englishpayerofgermantaxes8186 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    .... and German is a really hard language for Spanish or English speakers to learn (been there, done that), especially when he's got a wife and child on his hands, and may not be able to dedicate himself to it.

    • @zoli7251
      @zoli7251 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Learning German is not that hard but Germany is not a country of pleasures. The climate is cold with very little sunshine, the food is pretty horrible and people are not outgoing. Even if you speak the language fluently and you have a well paying job, you'll be stuck at home most of your time after work.

  • @mrbiscuits246
    @mrbiscuits246 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You guys saved that man’s life, if he can accept the advice.

    • @forward_ever_ever2595
      @forward_ever_ever2595 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hope....he looks like he's in a mess

    • @rufus5208
      @rufus5208 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@forward_ever_ever2595 Easy to get out of though. Good they caught him early

    • @forward_ever_ever2595
      @forward_ever_ever2595 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rufus5208 easy for us to get out of. This guy looks like he's soft as butter.

  • @expandyourmindthinkoutside1010
    @expandyourmindthinkoutside1010 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The part where they are telling him not to follow her and to lead was the best advice besides leaving her. Even if that woman is head over heels for you the moment you start letting her lead is the moment the dynamic of the relationship changes. She'll start losing attraction for you and the relationship is doomed

  • @satoshinakamoto7253
    @satoshinakamoto7253 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    NO.

  • @I_am_ENSanity
    @I_am_ENSanity 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The short answer? No.
    The long answer? I really wouldn't suggest it. There's way too much that could go wrong.

  • @mgtowbylogic5592
    @mgtowbylogic5592 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yup. In fact don’t even wait for the wedding. Make your next date to the bank so you can put her on all your accounts. I mean, you might as well get started.

  • @Sebastian-qc2tx
    @Sebastian-qc2tx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I was that dude before. I did the same, not planning marrige, but she manipulate me with the idea to have childrens. And i met my ex on tinder too, she was a victim of her ex boyfriend and now, she is my "victim". Those girls go around saying to everybody how mean the world is with them. The end of the story: she chetead on me, a lot. RED FLAG DUDE, RED FLAG.

  • @peterlightning9235
    @peterlightning9235 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Guys will over look a lot of sh*t if a girl is hot. And that's exactly what I think this guy is doing. "There's some red flags. But..." Red flags never go away. They only get worse.

  • @amadeuss3341
    @amadeuss3341 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Should you buy a car with "rebuild title" ? Price might be good, and you might get lucky with it, but more likely you will struggle with it, from uneven tire wear to doors not closing properly.
    Can you guess where I'm going with it ?

  • @prvcy2010
    @prvcy2010 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    As he kept explaining the answer became clearer and clearer lol

  • @backlundbob4171
    @backlundbob4171 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I started laughing at the part about marrying 😂

  • @elta6241
    @elta6241 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    No. There is no substitute for running the numbers. If she's got issues now, and you notice them, they are not going to get better.

  • @lovelycats1937
    @lovelycats1937 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Like Rich said she wasn't your first chose just your turn!!

  • @jayr9948
    @jayr9948 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Dude please runaway from her & focus on your self like guys said maybe Texas .

  • @Tsourfetis
    @Tsourfetis 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    20 minutes of lifetime saving advice

    • @davidardelean3542
      @davidardelean3542 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Crazy how some real dudes can change your whole life in 20 min

    • @Tsourfetis
      @Tsourfetis 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@davidardelean3542 masters of their craft

  • @hunterbiggums5960
    @hunterbiggums5960 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Would you buy a car with a salvage title?

  • @jonathandjing1065
    @jonathandjing1065 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tough conversation but necessary

  • @Ted1775
    @Ted1775 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    @7:54 Paul is hilarious! "When did you guys start banging?" 😂😂😂

  • @simonjakefrances6433
    @simonjakefrances6433 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Hell no! Don't get married fellas! There is no benefit to it

    • @ARTDEVGRU247
      @ARTDEVGRU247 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Should one be alone forever?

    • @And1one757
      @And1one757 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      The risk usually outweighs the benefits but their still benefits

    • @simonjakefrances6433
      @simonjakefrances6433 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@And1one757 what benefits? If she leaves you, she takes half..... 👌

    • @Hoffmanpack
      @Hoffmanpack 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ARTDEVGRU247 alone? What is the difference between a gf and a wife?

    • @ARTDEVGRU247
      @ARTDEVGRU247 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Hoffmanpack what?

  • @krushnarock2260
    @krushnarock2260 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If You have to ask this question, then You know the answer.

  • @MrTimjm009
    @MrTimjm009 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think he had one itis for this girl since they met up . The relationship with the abusive ex got in the way and he has waited all this time maybe trying to be the shoulder to cry on time to time . The marriage is just for the passports to other countries Kids is mostly her idea . He seems stuck without a plan of his own and she could be taking over a bit.
    The thing with moving a broad is the language , system / beurocracy , Legal status . Economic climate . I can tell you now that in Europe Southern Euro countries rely more on tourism and dont have the wider choices of jobs and salary like further north . He mentions Germany . That would be better than Italy

  • @adventures223
    @adventures223 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If she has a bad past you will have a bad feature wake up focus on yourself not women

  • @Ape_In_His_Apex
    @Ape_In_His_Apex 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Let's unpack this, when we as men find a woman we're attracted to, we forget to have theost difficult conversations and ask the questions that would allow us to make an educated decision regarding whether or not we should pursue this particular woman at all. Are your parents still married? What's their relationship like? Childhood trauma? Sexual abuse or assault? Credit? Debt? School loans? Etc. We never delve deep past what we want to see.

    • @Ape_In_His_Apex
      @Ape_In_His_Apex 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @A H yeah you did that homie… my hats off to you

  • @search4truth104
    @search4truth104 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    No

  • @gregabrams5792
    @gregabrams5792 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You lose them how you win them.

  • @arthurdirindinjr1792
    @arthurdirindinjr1792 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Marriage is what EACH of you INDAVIDUALLY make it be
    One person can not make a marriage successful it is absolutely impossible
    Only both people making the conscious decisions then take the correct actions that will make the marriage successful
    Men for our part are simple as dirt and need only 4 things all of equal importance from a wife to be happy
    Come home more days than not to:
    1-A good meal
    2'A clean home
    3-A peaceful home
    4-Last and as important as the first three sex 2-3× a week
    Give 9/10 those 4 things and your happiness is assured as is the success of your marriage

  • @thesnowghost1
    @thesnowghost1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Guys need to be careful with who they let into they life's must guys don't understand that automatic red flags go up . Guys needs to know know who he is going to have a relationship with

  • @MrOccyc
    @MrOccyc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Should you buy a car that polishes up nice, but has a computer system that crashes all the time?

  • @carlosdimas313
    @carlosdimas313 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Man I sure glad I discovered the red pill I am more confident around women and don’t put up with their games no more

  • @kosovir
    @kosovir 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Fam. You met her on tinder. She was getting the cookie. Dump this Hot patato

  • @marlhex6280
    @marlhex6280 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great content 👑

  • @annatar6453
    @annatar6453 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Dude, it’s 2021. You shouldn’t get married at all

    • @brandonwiles-n8t
      @brandonwiles-n8t 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly, I never understood why these men still think about getting married, I'm like wtf is wrong with them? I think they suffer from some weird form of cooockolding complexity.

  • @cristinap273
    @cristinap273 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    They should get married. He wants european citizenship and "hopes" his marriage lasts at least 2 years. He'll mature (hopefully) in 10 years.

  • @vkng_drag0n982
    @vkng_drag0n982 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I appreciate your encouragement to consider a life in the US. The problem is that people now a days.arw showing hate towards any immigrant that is not white. Living here as a non white person y extremely challenging even if you have plenty of degrees.

  • @Zacalov
    @Zacalov 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Why are you showing your face lol? Its over once she sees the video anyway

    • @PhantomFilmAustralia
      @PhantomFilmAustralia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I doubt she'd see this clip before he's kicked her to the curb.

  • @zoli7251
    @zoli7251 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Moving to Italy is a losing strategy at this point. In Italy you can't even access your salary on your bank account unless you are vaccinated.

  • @brianclemons5375
    @brianclemons5375 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    No, simple answer

  • @neemaborji9993
    @neemaborji9993 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Sunk cost fallacy. That's all this is.

  • @DE-cj8xi
    @DE-cj8xi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hell no...did it myself and she continued with the same destructive behavioural patterns...........single now lol

  • @marlhex6280
    @marlhex6280 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think he’s gonna take the opportunity no matter the outcome and if 2 years they are ok probably continue to kids

  • @BlackPearlMona369
    @BlackPearlMona369 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    8:51 catch you 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @exploitsnicholas5798
    @exploitsnicholas5798 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for sharing.

  • @dennisrobinson8008
    @dennisrobinson8008 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    How does she treat people?

  • @oldhag2881
    @oldhag2881 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Met on Tinder and want to marry her? Must be a different Tinder than the one I know about.

  • @Hhhhkijhgfdsfjklb
    @Hhhhkijhgfdsfjklb 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Germany doesn’t have any income inquiries if you have a passport from a Schengen country which is a shame as a matter of fact

  • @AerytonRamshaw
    @AerytonRamshaw 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Absolutely

  • @aml8997
    @aml8997 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Red flag with the Europe thing...forget it. I´ve seen it, I have a friend who is in s--t for that same reason! 2 years come feel like 10 it things turn south...forget it. Work on yourself instead.

  • @archduke78664
    @archduke78664 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Is this even a real question? Hell no!!

  • @istiklalcaddesi
    @istiklalcaddesi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "If in doubt, flat out" yes out, when you have doubts time to move on. You can't make a good wine from bad grapes

  • @rons5319
    @rons5319 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    In my opinion, she should not have been in contact at all with this man while she was married. And he should not have been in contact either --she was married! He may have been the catalyst that broke up the marriage. She'll most probably pull the same thing on him.

  • @jamesptanner
    @jamesptanner 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    you have to ask? get a lawyer ready.

  • @oldhag2881
    @oldhag2881 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm sure she won't use the two year thing against you.

  • @beneficent2557
    @beneficent2557 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    No. Done.

  • @Feuerbasis
    @Feuerbasis 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The answer is no

  • @coolcataye
    @coolcataye 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🎶🎵Hell nooo! To the no, no, no, hell to the no!🎶🎵

  • @kendigjl
    @kendigjl 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think it's time for a men's movement centered around the philosophy of thinking less, fucking more and not giving a shit about anyone except ourselves but then just trying to be the best dads we can be given whatever situation we're dealing with while living our lives. The end goal being procreating as much as possible while trying not to be a shitty father - until some day you look back at your life and you're surrounded by your offspring who love you and meanwhile you had an excellent life.

  • @vabriga1
    @vabriga1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Throw a coin, and you will realize which outcome you prefer before the coin hits the ground.

  • @dattrax7
    @dattrax7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This guy got some great advice from these guys, but he doesn't look like he wants to hear or act on this. She must be really hot. 😂

  • @peacewilliam-west2249
    @peacewilliam-west2249 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Not a question if you had that abundance mindset.

  • @arphaksad01
    @arphaksad01 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    No.

  • @nickstrapko7549
    @nickstrapko7549 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Picked a good one

  • @jameshumphries5059
    @jameshumphries5059 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Rich is married we need to hear him talk more about it’s abs how he makes it work.

    • @megalodon1726
      @megalodon1726 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      He's divorced.

    • @jameshumphries5059
      @jameshumphries5059 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I thought he got married again..

    • @nabilsaadi8704
      @nabilsaadi8704 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jameshumphries5059 I don't think he'll ever get married again... It doesn't make sense

    • @teddybeer6206
      @teddybeer6206 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jameshumphries5059 if he did, his entire line of work would be discredited

    • @jameshumphries5059
      @jameshumphries5059 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@teddybeer6206 - Although it’s rare there can be circumstances where you would get Married

  • @prozone747
    @prozone747 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    He will be in her frame? No, he will be her country. He'll be exotic for the euro babes. His SMV will sky rocket. She's gonna hold on tighter than ever before. Especially if he starts playing as a musician.