I am 63 and my advice to you is to fiend a woman in your culture , have a prenups ,talk to a lawyer first, vet vet and vet. Do a psychological test on you and her, what's your and hers love language, do they match. Remember that you end up marry all of her family. Warren Buffet has mentioned that the woman you marry is the most important financial decision you could make in your life. Let women chase you. If you cant fiend a woman deserving of your commitment ,just don't marry. Best of luck.
Nah why do any of that i'm 25 i've seen the change in the last 10 years ain't no way i wanna feel stressed out or close to depressed again. - Dealing with women comes with too much stress especially when you realize that they are fickle 24/7. - Better to live life it's hard for any healthy man but i think "it is what it is".
If you expect a woman to chase you you'll miss the good ones, only the gold diggers will chase, a good woman will walk away if you show no interest, they know what they're worth... FACT
Women view marriage as a wedding day and not a lifetime commitment to loving and respecting their husband. 1. Ignore her words focus on her actions 2. Don’t chase women become the man that women will pursue 3. Women you previously pursued and got rejected by Will later be interested when they see you have a different woman 4. Women think about marriage as a wedding day and not a lifetime supporting and respecting their man 5. Embrace rejection it will make you stronger 6. Disdain women who rejected you, ignoring them is the best revenge 7. The more attractive she is the harder you have to be, DONT SIMP 8. Stay away from single mothers 9. Prioritise your appearance no matter what’s 10. Never fully commit 11. Don’t share your weaknesses with a woman, seek professional help in a serious rut 12. Women cheat more than men, don’t let her accusations blind you 13. Be low tolerance, be ready to walk away at any given moment 14. Don’t be bitter, accept female nature and adjust 15. Keep playing the game and make it difficult. People come back to difficult games to try and beat it, easy games get played once and put on the shelf
@@satoshinakamoto7253 they've been brainwashed by feminism to believe that any duty is "oppression." That mindset essentially makes them no different than children.
Finding a wife is just like panning for gold. Most of the women will be debris. A few merit further inspection. You hope by the time you are done with your sifting process, you got your gold nuggets at the bottom which you keep. To keep the panning analogy, you got to be willing to toss the ones who aren't a fit quickly and invest your time on the promising candidates.
Yep. Most women don’t go into marriage thinking “oh I can’t wait to be a good mother and wife” they’re obsessed with the celebration wedding but most ain’t prepared to be a good wife or mother
In my early 20s I desired a family of own but over the years I began paying attention that less and less women are even capable of motherhood let alone being a wife. It really sucks I would have been a great father.
@@WeaponryFitness22 Yes, you can't do it on your own. However, the fact you have a realistic perception of your family history is great. As you can start from there. Work, study, develop and put boundaries in the meantime. Do not worry too much for others, care for yourself first.
It’s only getting worse. If you were awarded cash and prizes for divorce it’d always be tempting. If you can find a girl who’s head over heels for you and keep her in that state then you’ll be alright. Otherwise its a gamble.
My dad put a baby in crazy, and now i am dealing with it as a 36 year old adult. Trust me as soon as her looks go, the crazy comes out quick. Her mom is a sociopath, and he ignored that red flag bc of her looks. Do your research bro. Bc it WILL effect your entire family including the kids into adulthood. And it is a PAIN the ASS to deal with. Sacrifice looks for mental stability in a wife.
Brothers you can not change a women. Trust me you can not. It’s hard when you care about someone you think she will change it’s been 1 year plus she’s not changing fellas. Focus on you and your grind and being the best version of yourself.The right one will show up not and if not at least your the best version of yourself and living life peacefully.
Do we have decent females today ? Do females really know what men truly wants in a woman. Women think that men cares about their degrees, career and her social status but that's not the case. Attraction is not symmetric but asymmetric. Men prefers who is feminine, submissive, loyal, not promiscuous and not overweight. Getting inked up and having a nose ring, constantly loud and being passive aggressive aren't the traits men looks for in a woman.
I myself come from a Ghanaian family household and our culture is based in strong family ties and marriage.. so its quite suprising for myself to see how these women are.
@@vg1024 I completely agree, I’m Nigerian so I fully understand. It’s interesting because this is all being propagated on a scale that is unprecedented due to the sweeping power of social media over global culture. Our service economy is here to stay but is developing into an esoteric and weird farm of human potential. This potential is spent on improvements to our increasingly blurred relationships with tech and automated systems for moving value: electric trucks to optimize supply chain issues or no cashiers at Amazon grocery stores or warehouse. We - especially men, are GROWING our own irrelevance, because women have an intrinsic value in the sex driven service economy - we simply do not. At 21 years old I’m watching it unfold In total disbelief.
You gave this guy some awesome advice Rich. It's one thing to do the pump and dumps or hook up with a girl for a bit before hypergamy kicks in and she ends it so she can do go do better, but finding a good woman to have kids with, that's the biggest challenge of all.
Traditionally, historically, men only married virgins. And divorce was non existent. I know that sounds completely unrealistic in this age, but that's how far women have fallen/standards have fallen. Quite simply, either don't ever get married, or standards have to be reset to the traditional, historical origins.
That's not a bad suggestion, and I'm sure, historically, a lot were; but multiple sex partners is less harmful to men than it is to women. Men are psychologically, and physiologically designed to be more sexually prolific than women. That's just facts; men and women are DIFFERENT. Women that get run through by multiple men (by their own choosing) are miserable and broken in the long term; men who are prolific lovers ARE NOT.
الان الرجل والمراة اصبحوا بلا كرامة وعزة نفس وكل همهم هي شهوتهم وكيف يقضوها والذي ساعدهم على هذا هي العولمة واصبحت النساء سهله المنال ويسهل اغوائها لهذا كثر فض العذارى كثيرا بدون زواج فقط
@Anthony Rubino Mate, jokes on you, you can't even spell misogynistic, and you certainly don't even know what it means. Lol Ask yourself this, genius, if women having ultimate sexual freedom is good for them, why so many ending up single, broken, alone and miserable from 30 onwards? Traditional lifestyle, gives every woman the best chance of a lifetime of happiness. Go away.
A study just came out that in many areas in Britain, single mom households are at 65%. This equates to a million kids without a father figure in the home. The future is FUBAR
I see this a lot with those mixed kids too many women put kids in a disadvantage position. - Trust me i've been there too as a kid you got no chance with a parent/parents like that i'm still glad that i found my way in life but damn my younger and teenage years were sad.
This guy made two errors: 1) looking for an LTR in the Western woman selection pool. 2) wanting to get married. He lost the moment he selected these two options as his objectives.
You can get married if ur Muslim since its religious not legal marriage. If ur not Muslim, yh u have to accept that you will probably never find a woman trustworthy enough to legally marry. It will have to be gf + cohabit
Marriage is not as big of a commitment as having kids. If you're a guy who wants to have kids the commitment/risk of marriage is not as big of a deal as a guy who doesn't want to have kids considering getting married
@@Tomsonx232 I absolutely agree. I'm just referring specifically to the guy in the video's aims. Kids are definitely the biggest commitment any man will (and should unless he's a scumbag and abandons them) ever make in his life, so yes, the risk is far, far greater, because you have another life to worry about and even more than your own.
@@CH-eb1rn THis is what they say, ill put it on hold for 6 months and let them vet themselves out (usually)however i still get the issue that they then leave without actually stating the truth or just then saying that i was never committed "enough" to them.
Not really. If a woman has some crazy selfish reason to move on... that's probably good for the guy. Another guy? Please go. Don't think I make enough money? Better leave now. Not tall enough? Don't let the door hit you. Moon is rising over cancer? I'll call you a cab. Seriously, woman wants to leave... let her. It's always best for the guy.
@@reginasemenenko148 You know, they only "pump and dump" because women allow them to do so. Women are and always were the gatekeepers to s*x, but these days they hold those gates wide open. In the end, everyone suffers because of this: women who having lost their youth and beauty end up alone and miserable in their old age, men who cannot find trustworthy partners and children who will grow up without the benefit of a father or a mother and not knowing what a true loving relationship looks like (thus perpetuating the sins of their parents).
Did rich say “if we go back 5,000 yrs.” ? Rich only within the last 100-150yrs has it only become unacceptable for women to marry & have children too young. It was the norm for women to have children and have families around 13-15yrs old.
That’s a common misconception at least in Sweden. Research shows that on average people would only get married and have kids when they were financially stable which was at 28-30. Avg at 28 yo if times were good, avg 30 id times were bad.
Honestly, I think there are plenty of traditional women like myself who are just as disappointed as some of these guys. I grew up in the church mostly interacting with men from my faith and i swear on my life i would get over looked for women that had way more ambition with their career choices, or they wanted a Kardashian clone. and i just couldn't understand it. I want to put myself out there again but to be honest its terrifying. Because the world is screwed up and men look more afraid to take chances. Any little thing could be a red flag to them lol God help us.
I really feel for the men of today that want a good wife when all these social media platforms will ruin the chance at a good relationship. Back in the day it was much simpler to have a LTR. These days everyone is too connected and there are to many simps.
If you can, Find a woman from a good home… she was not raised to be entitled, spoiled, etc, but also did not suffer abuse of some kind. Watch (discern) her parents & their values, siblings if she has them, & her friend group. Sincerely, dad of 3 daughters.
best chances to find a lifetime wife within the choices of the modern-day woman: a coin flip at best best chances for the modern-day man to live a happy life: focus on you, (health, $$$ and personal interests) and only allow the modern-day woman to come into your life if she's eared it. even then, put her on perpetual probation, with termination with cause if the woman steps out of your frame. cheers from southern ontario 🍁
I was with a beautiful woman, heads would turn when she walks in the room. Educated, humble and funny. But! You knew that was coming. Two problems: 1) doesn’t want to move the relationship along after 2 years. 2) always invading my masculine energy. She’s a feminist and, unfortunately, I couldn’t break her out of some of their toxic ideology. Love her like crazy but the only two types of male she’ll meet: 1) Simps 2) uber controlling masculine men. I wish she would have just tone it down just a bit.
as a female here, it is my opinion that ishaak doesn't understand women at all...he looks to me like a guy that can be played. i also think he lied at 2:41 when he said he just wants a woman for kids.....i think he wants to be in a loving, committed relationship......good luck to all the single people out there....its tough...Rich telling guys to take their time....while other men (like kevin samuels) are telling women to only date with intention and leave if the man is not marriage minded with a timeline....ps: imo there is NO way to vet a woman properly whatsoever
In the secular world it is all about "ME". "ME" culture. Women and men alike are too selfish and busy for each other. might be lucky going to a church group for people your age. But even that is uncertain. Life is all about risk. Those who risk getting more contacts, more approaches, more rejections and then learn from that and repeat a new and better process generally get what they want.
What to say when girl on the date asks what I do for a living? I'm medical doctor and I noticed that people start treat me differently when they find out who I am.
Find a lie. I'm not a doctor, but I still make a bit of money with what I do. I can at least dumb it down so they don't get a clue. Find a way to dumb it down or just lie. I highly doubt they'll be upset when they find out you are actually a doctor.
Doctors are people too. It's just what you do for a living. You make good money but sure you must have raked up a big student loan too. You can relay this information and see see what she says. Hope it helps✌
I’m 28 and I wasn’t partying. . The pandemic robbed years off my 20’s. Now that I’m back dating it’s so difficult to meet and connect with men. Don’t know if I should date older or younger 😖
If you're middle aged or so and aren't looking to start a new family, I recommend looking for a wife in a non-tourist city of China or in an Eastern European country (I've heard Romania is a good choice). Many of the women there have been raised to be traditional and don't have a party phase of their life. That doesn't mean they won't become westernized when they get here, which is a danger. But it improves your chances of having a good wife.
As a woman working 40 plus hours a week and have side hustle for extra income. My husband works 20 hours a week. I feel bless to be with someone that work together to balance our schedule between work and family with 2 children. I see some women in similar situation. And we get insulted by men and women for working more than our spouses. We focus on our path and continue moving forward.
Good on you for having a plan with your husband to both parent your kids. It doesn't matter who earns the most. A lot of people are jealous. Continue working on a fulfilling life for your family.
Why anyone would want to sign an insane marriage contract and bring an innocent child into this increasingly crazy world is beyond my comprehension but to each his own. Good luck!
'Good' women essentially boils down to: - Her options - How hard is it for her to take advantage of her position - Are options for hypergamy fertile? - Will she win or lose much more in divorce? - Will she be congratulated or demonized by her family and friends if she initiates divorce? - Comparatively are you considered a 'good' catch for her in her immediate dating market. Only even consider to marry if you yes to most of the options above. Most men underestimate how important a favorable legal and social environment is when it comes to marriage. Women have no biological urge to be a good wife to anyone, she does have a biological urge to find the best seed, the best lifestyle and be the best mum she can. Her primary OS is emotionalism so expect and embrace chaos.
Clicked for some man point of view on the subject of a good wife.....well so disappointed...all that i heard is a guy looking for an incubator and the other guy gave out a check list: *make sure its new(no baggage) *get a warrenty(planing for devorce) *look for a good brand(not a westren woman?!) *user friendly(woman that shuts up,does not need love and respect just pump babys) On a more serious note...marriage is a highly complex partnership, if you looking to ingage in one you can't say " hun im here just for kids " this is dismissing the other person completely.
My cousin who has been a mess for many years now is a single mom of two illegitimate kids from two different men. Both of whom are nowhere to be found. She was just caught/arrested for cocaine, again. Kids are barely 5 and 7 and it's clear they already have developmental/behavioral problems. Kids were taken away. Now she is free to go squirt out a few more babies from other undesirable men. Suddenly state sactioned sterilization doesn't sound like such a bad idea.
No complications I’ve watched you enough: do what you want. Do it at the highest lvl, get people in place that will do the technical things better than yourself (to free up time), do the more creative/esoteric and fun (still productive) & ONLY choose a woman that will settle into that GENUINELY. If not- go without & be at peace. Patience is the practice of Gods where time is subdued.
You cant. Once a woman has stability and children, she changes. The husband becomes her last priority. The only way they behave is if they know that one mess up will result in her losing everything. But even then, her actions are all a lie just to keep her lifestyle in tact.
Yh all relationships are about leverage, not love. I don't see it as a negative tho. Deep down we all kinda wanna be the villain to some extent. If ur woman is doing shit that means u have become the villain, then so be it, been waiting my whole life for this 😂
I had a baby with a beautiful 10/10 crazy and ignored 100s of red flags over the years before the kid and thought she would change after having the kid. If anything she got worse. GUYS your better off having 5/10 woman calm collected than a 10/10. Not to say 5/10 woman are not crazy but I also believe majority of woman have chemical imbalance
You can’t expect a women to have sex with you for two years and then maybe you’ll choose her. Dating around but don’t sleep around with Tuesday or Thursday girl. There are a lot of initial good women who went into their guys frame only to realise he doesn’t want to wife her up. Also beware of Easter European gals. Some are gold diggers and some are sweet and love their family.
Ridiculous. As expected fron advice from a woman. So the random guys she had sex with didnt have to waitfor anything but a man with has to wait too effing years? No thank you.
I’m not advocating for marriage, but if this guy wants that and women are first not entering his frame and second leaving, sounds like he needs to “do the work” and focus on himself.
I’d say just live an alpha lifestyle and focus on yourself. Date girls in your free time. As Patrice said, there will be a girl who sticks around long enough for you to marry her. Like karate class, many of them will go to other dojo’s before they get their black belt, but eventually you will have a worthy apprentice😂
I lived in London for 13 years. Locals are not good mother material. I Married a woman from Czech Republic country side. Look into EST Europe countryside. Definitely best mother material you can find in the continent.
6 months without deciding something as simple as exclusivity? That should take 3-4months max. If you are still not sure about exclusivity after than then move on.
Bro you’re 29! Chill and take your time. Trust me at 35 you will have a different mindset. Rich is 💯 50% ends in divorce and as a man you will get shafted. Trust me alimony for life, stay away from Florida
I don’t think it’s possible for the majority of us. I’ve been looking all my adult life. I’m 37 now if I can’t find a wife by 40 I’m throwing in the towel and going monk mode. Without children there is no point to get married and I don’t want children after 40.
@@tsitsirwakonda4221 really? Women can make a Snapchat and add dozens of beta Simps. They will never want them but get validation from them. Men we don’t have any of that nor do we want that.
He may have to look at a religious girl from a very traditional family where the pressure to marry, and stay married, is high. It is very sad that good men like this have such a low chance at finding a wife.
@@adventures223 last time it was because my twins fought so much. But her dad gifted her a house so she could go live there free. So I don't know if that hypergamy kicked in and it was like this is a better deal so she left.. ? We worked it out and she stayed here on the weekends for about 2 years. I had surgery and she moved back in. One of the twins came down with covid while she was on a trip with her cousin and their gfs. So when she got back in to town I packed her clothes for work and stuff and put them outside so she would be safe . She went back to her house and after covid refused to come home. That was 2 months ago. One of the twins went to her office thinking she was there but she wasn't and there was flowers on her desk. He thought I sent them but I didn't. I have no explanation for this.. she makes fake flower arrangements for people, but I think he would know the difference in fake or real. I work 3rds, and she has been up late alot at night online on fb.. but I dont see her posting anything which to me means she could have been talking to someone.. its circumstantial.. She decided to file for divorce and said we have tried for 2 years we are to different and she can't change me and I can't change her.. I said it would be boring if we were exactly alike.. Whatever the reason she wants a divorce and wants it fast.. we did have a discussion about the jab.. I said I wouldn't take it and would make them fire me from my job, and she got mad and hung up on me... the next morning I noticed her up and online after I got home which is unusual.. she usually sleeps in on the weekends . And I messaged her to see when we would get together.. and she said she was done and wanted a divorce. I think someone else is in the picture but she swears not
I often wonder why should I put up with women? Why should't I embrace a life of solitude? Why should I have to go through drama by being in a relationship with a woman? Why should I embrace my sexuality, when in fact, I have virtue, creativity and mastery for my well-being, which is the opposite of hedonism. Even Ludwig van Beethoven has said that only virtue can make a man happy. Again, can somebody tell me why should I have myself involved in a relationship with a woman?
If you have to ask that question, you've already missed the point. If you cannot imagine your life being infinitely better by joining with someone, just don't date. As a heterosexual woman, I would not want to plan a life without a husband. Life goes on may or may not happen, but never once have I thought what's the purpose of having a man in my life. If that's a question you have partnership may not be for you and that's okay.
Hey Richard ! I just read your book love it ! I'm in Ontario just like you however, I was curious if you know which offense has shared share custody by default laws?
Rich: 'u got to play the #s.' Guy 2k years ago: 'while I was still searching but not finding- I found one upright man among a thousand, but not one upright woman among them all.' -Ecclesiastes 7:28
Truthfully, marry a Mormon girl , most likely she’s a virgin, family Is the most important thing and marriage, to her , no BS , no cheating, because her faith is very important to her, but of course your gonna most likely have to join her church!
Well, like say with women, don't chase women out of your league physically or financially. Go for moderate to conservative women who are 6-7s and you will find somebody.
Why do attractive women date ugly guys who aren't wealthy? I ask women out whether they're stunning or average. No man should pass up an opportunity regardless of how attractive she is.
Ishaak doesn't come across as being straight forward. He should get the objectives out on the table by the 3rd date. If she shows promise, continue, if not, move on quickly. How does he spend two years and not know? Was probably just looking for sex first and also hoping for possible marriage later. Ishaak should just ask upfront on the second or third date, what does married life look like? How does she think the family should manage its finances. What she would like to accomplish together with a husband. How does she see a husband and wife supporting each other. What is her definition of love. Just be straight forward. The ones who aren't serious wouldn't have thought these things through. They are the date for recreation crowd. No more dates for those. Only spend more time with the candidates with good answers and who appear to live it.
@@ishaaksaleem847 So you are "open to the idea of a LTR"? This is exactly why your girls haven't been able to make the transition to a LTR girl. The two are very different creatures. Casual girls are for casual only. LTR to wife are for that only. You are complaining about girl quality because you are looking in the casual pool. Of course their quality is low. If you want a high quality girl, then you also need to be a LTR to marriage guy. Otherwise you aren't good enough for those top quality girls and they never bother with you.
@@hanooi7450 Hi mate thanks for your advice. This is exactly what im trying to understand. to me spinning plates is understood as the best way to filter out women right? aka keep it casual, sit back and watch and then see. now when ive done this either the plate drops off (fine) they get pissy and i drop them (also fine) Or they pass and they get put to LTR. the issue im facing is that im clearing still missing shit - they not me kick me to the curb after another 12 months sighting things like: i never care, i dont do xyz, im not jealous or that i only use them for sex. so my question is 2 fold - am i just vetting wrong? or am i just fucking things up by becoming emotionally invested once theyve perhaps incorrectly proved to me that they are "eworthy " of continued commitment from me. Interestingly typing this out brought another question: how much is the right amount to actually spend with an LTR to me, a day and half over the weeked (fri eve to sun morning ) and a bit during the week is enough but this comes across as using them for sex. thoughts?
@@ishaaksaleem847 I would say the best way to filter for LTR is to not have sex with them until they achieve fiancee status. To me, sex is the #1 reason why people fail to vet properly. It makes it too easy to think with the smaller head than the bigger head. Unfortunately, in the West people are looking for sex partners first and LTR/wife second. As a result, they end up squandering their youth or divorced because the sex clouds their judgement or lowers their standards when red flags are showing. However, the flip side is because you refuse to have sex with her until you propose and she accepts, you can't waste your time dallying around for a long time. When you say "spinning plates", my idea of it is dating (without sex) multiple women but putting them under intense scrutiny to weed them out quickly. You got to let them know quickly, second date latest, that you are looking for a woman who will be your wife and you will move fast to engagement and not waste their time. So in the filter phase, vet them based on these criteria: 1. Quality of their family 2. Quality of their friends. Looking at friends and family is important because people often wear a mask in the beginning. However, they can't hide their friends and family and birds of a feather tend to flock together so you filter out the chameleons this way. 3. Talk about the hard stuff first. Stuff like how does she handle money, investing goals, family and children goals, child raising philosophy, career goals, what does ideal partner look like, religion, dreams, family skills, wants, demands, etc. Be sure to also tell her yours since filtering works both ways. Ideally she should be hitting you with hard questions too because that means she is serious about being a wife. 4. If she pass all those, the best way to prevent her from walking is to give her a "pre-engagement" ring. To me, it is a very important symbol of commitment. Tell her you give her this ring because your objective is marriage and this is your symbol of commitment because you like what you are seeing and hearing from her. Then be sure to be exclusive and really make sure she is consistent with her word before giving her the engagement ring. The pre-engagement ring can be simple 10K gold band with her and your name engraved. It should be inexpensive, its value is in its symbol. To me, the commitment ring prevents the good candidates from walking; especially important for the candidates who are in their later 20's and early 30's. These women don't have much time and you need to show that you are a keeper at the same time they show you. The intense questions also gets you to move fast and it shows intelligence and purpose. The players and playboys never have questions AND answers like those. This is how you show marriage game, different from the pickup game which all these single or divorced relationship coaches preach.
Hi Han, I liked what you wrote. I had a question. "What does married life look like? How does she think the family should manage its finances. What she would like to accomplish together with a husband. How does she see a husband and wife supporting each other. What is her definition of love. Just be straight forward." What would be acceptable reasons and good answers in response to these then? I am currently spinning plates, I did ask one of them who've I had hooked up with them for a few weeks now, she has displayed signs of strong emotional attachment and genuine burning desire, "what does married life look like?" And she said something like when a woman follows the lead of a man and believes in him, and they both support each other. Is this a good answer? I've always believed a woman should be loyal, submissive, friendly, and kind. The girl that I've been vetting displays a lot of these qualities, but she doesn't act like a housewife at the moment, I'm under the perception you cannot change someone to be a housewife unless they truly believe in it. I'm thinking sooner or later I'm going to cut her off even though I like her. It's sad, but most of the women I'm spinning plates with are not worthy of commitment, let alone marriage or even the mother of my kids.
He should be dating women in their early 20’s! Hell I’m 40 and I have two 22 year olds I rotate. Whenever I see women my age I see them as old ladies lol.
Yeah, currently have a plate that is 33 and a plate that is 27. ex of 4 years ago is swinging back around and im not sure what she wants but her "genuine desire" is definitely back - even with me abroad
Ishaak… when a woman says you don’t love her, that means you’re not romantic and affectionate and not passionate! She probably does not feel that burning desire from you and it probably feels like a friend/buddy relationship. Woman crave romance & passion. Don’t be so logical. You probably don’t express yourself either. The fact that she walked and you didn’t bother to ask her why says a lot. Open yourself up man.
Why do women walk after 2 years in a relationship? Because she figured you were never going to marry her. She leaves the relationship, believing you were just waiting for something better to come along. So, she moves on driven by self-preservation. Women have time tables, that gets shorter as she gets older.
Ok, I gotta ask. As a white American who's looking for a traditional white woman, where can I find that? Eastern Europe was/is my last hope to find a traditional Christian White Woman because in America and Western Europe, they don't exist anymore. But from what people are saying here in the comments, most Eastern European women have become Westernized. So, Idk where to go to find a White Woman who's traditional anymore. Not going to Georgia or Armenia, they aren't white down there... so am I kinda screwed?
Move to or regularly visit countries in which traditional values still exist in women, there are many. That being said, I'd recommend doing it sooner rather than later as western culture is always pedestalized in the aforementioned countries and eventually the women pick up less desirable traits. A common one I'm seeing at the moment is the rise of Tik Tok and those silly dances etc. I see so many young wmen wasting countless hours recording this crap and uploading it to their social media. It's things like this that distract them from becoming more educated and developing homemaking/mothering skills. I can cook better than 99% of wmen I meet these days and I dare say my home is better kept as well. This is while I'm also going to the gym 5/6 days a week and making my own money.
Hi Rich question if a guy is in relationship or or is married you need would they still be signs of red flags if so what are some of the signs to be aware of
I'm 36, financially free, fit, and have a great life. I just moved to the US from Asia and getting a rotation here is even easier. My problem is my whole life I never liked condoms but I've mastered pulling out like 15s before the event because I do it like I have something to lose (which I do).
@@wanderingdoc5075 Bro... better watch out. ps. for example you might not know of having syphillis - but having it, increase the chances of getting HIV dramatically. (Geting HIV is a little chance by regular chance). ps. I banged a lot
@@MrTraczu I'm an M.D. but thanks for the lesson. I believe STDs are extremely difficult to catch if you're a healthy person. All the prolific guys I know who banged over 300 or 500 women we're not significantly worried about stds, they may have had gonorrhea or chlamydia once and it was cured. I believe the chance to catch STDs that are so called incurable is extremely difficult and the research bears this out. It actually has a lot more to do with socioeconomic status.
@@wanderingdoc5075 That's interesting. Thanks for the answer. I am probably not that wise in these matters but what I know, HIV transition between healthy man and woman in vaginal intercourse is 3%. Also, new kind of gonorrha has appeared and so far is not curable. Do you know anything about that?
Marry Young. 18-21 Max. You are saying you don't want clingy!!! That's dumb... Yes. Clingy is annoying, but that's who you want for marriage and Baby Making. Once the Babies come along... That Clinginess gets retargeted to the Children. You'd be lucky to get a phone call then. All these Gurus push for Whoredom and waiting. That is Garbage, and a waste of your time. Young, and Clingy with you making time to manage your Future wife. If you don't have time for her, your not ready for Marriage!!! Finally, stop living in fear of a Crazy wife who's after your Money. This is life. You get what you deserve. Put in the time, or get left behind!!!
Men don’t be needy it’s a turn off. When I sense that a man is needy I keep my distance. When I’m needy it’s pathetic truly is. I’m working on myself and it’s been pretty awesome and really healing. Also it comes to a point where you’ll need to cut your parents off if you’re living with your parent in your 20’s sorry but not a good sign and your parents are keeping you stuck and unhealthy. I’m 37 and no longer party thought I wanted to get married and have kids but I’m not so sure now the worst thing I could do is get married and have kids when I do not know myself and have not healed emotionally. I’m like this young child in a grown woman’s body.
Men tend to live with parents longer because we don’t like being alone . About 1/3 of young men in the U.S 20-30 live with atleast one parent . It has increased from back in the day because woman are more difficult now. There’s more that’s expected of us and it’s honestly just draining and not worth it. This feminism stuff has awakened many young men like me. I don’t even really have a desire to cohabitate with one other than my mother after knowing what I know. I have learned that love between a man and woman is one sided . Men are the givers and woman are receivers. A woman can only truly love her son because she is the giver.
@@joshua7508 if birth rates tank below a certain point White people will be minority one day in the US. Also this feminism shit isn't going anywhere anytime soon. Hope they change marriage laws one day
In the Balkans it’s normal to live with their parents. I got a masters degree and earn double of my parents but live with them. I don’t date western women, they are disgusted that I live at home with 30. But how can I marry somebody who don’t have this connection with her parents like I with my? Alone it would be easier for me to live. But i value my family and the creators of my being. Balkan women are 1000 better than any western women could ever be. Western women see family and children as a burden. I see it as a gift. That’s a huge difference.
If you want kids with a quality woman and you are a busy man where on Earth can you get time ti spin many plates and 2 years to evaluate ONE woman?! It sounds like an impossible task, only for supermen
8:32 "You know what Isaac, let's just go to the department store and get some underwear, and a bikini and some pants .... " That's way too logical. A woman would NEVER react that logical and calm.
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I am 63 and my advice to you is to fiend a woman in your culture , have a prenups ,talk to a lawyer first, vet vet and vet. Do a psychological test on you and her, what's your and hers love language, do they match. Remember that you end up marry all of her family. Warren Buffet has mentioned that the woman you marry is the most important financial decision you could make in your life. Let women chase you. If you cant fiend a woman deserving of your commitment ,just don't marry. Best of luck.
Nah why do any of that i'm 25 i've seen the change in the last 10 years ain't no way i wanna feel stressed out or close to depressed again.
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Dealing with women comes with too much stress especially when you realize that they are fickle 24/7.
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Better to live life it's hard for any healthy man but i think "it is what it is".
If you expect a woman to chase you you'll miss the good ones, only the gold diggers will chase, a good woman will walk away if you show no interest, they know what they're worth... FACT
It's actually a good advice
Really good advice!
@@denzel9455 smart
Women view marriage as a wedding day and not a lifetime commitment to loving and respecting their husband.
1. Ignore her words focus on her actions
2. Don’t chase women become the man that women will pursue
3. Women you previously pursued and got rejected by Will later be interested when they see you have a different woman
4. Women think about marriage as a wedding day and not a lifetime supporting and respecting their man
5. Embrace rejection it will make you stronger
6. Disdain women who rejected you, ignoring them is the best revenge
7. The more attractive she is the harder you have to be, DONT SIMP
8. Stay away from single mothers
9. Prioritise your appearance no matter what’s
10. Never fully commit
11. Don’t share your weaknesses with a woman, seek professional help in a serious rut
12. Women cheat more than men, don’t let her accusations blind you
13. Be low tolerance, be ready to walk away at any given moment
14. Don’t be bitter, accept female nature and adjust
15. Keep playing the game and make it difficult. People come back to difficult games to try and beat it, easy games get played once and put on the shelf
a good start
women dont understand DUTY
@@satoshinakamoto7253 they've been brainwashed by feminism to believe that any duty is "oppression." That mindset essentially makes them no different than children.
Finding a wife is just like panning for gold. Most of the women will be debris. A few merit further inspection. You hope by the time you are done with your sifting process, you got your gold nuggets at the bottom which you keep. To keep the panning analogy, you got to be willing to toss the ones who aren't a fit quickly and invest your time on the promising candidates.
Yep. Most women don’t go into marriage thinking “oh I can’t wait to be a good mother and wife” they’re obsessed with the celebration wedding but most ain’t prepared to be a good wife or mother
In my early 20s I desired a family of own but over the years I began paying attention that less and less women are even capable of motherhood let alone being a wife. It really sucks I would have been a great father.
you can still find it bro. Not all women are like that.
Same thing but from a female point of view. And I also understand why it happens.
@@ReverseSpirits I know. But it's like trying to find a gator in Cleveland.
@@WeaponryFitness22 Yes, you can't do it on your own. However, the fact you have a realistic perception of your family history is great. As you can start from there. Work, study, develop and put boundaries in the meantime. Do not worry too much for others, care for yourself first.
It’s only getting worse. If you were awarded cash and prizes for divorce it’d always be tempting. If you can find a girl who’s head over heels for you and keep her in that state then you’ll be alright. Otherwise its a gamble.
My dad put a baby in crazy, and now i am dealing with it as a 36 year old adult. Trust me as soon as her looks go, the crazy comes out quick. Her mom is a sociopath, and he ignored that red flag bc of her looks. Do your research bro. Bc it WILL effect your entire family including the kids into adulthood. And it is a PAIN the ASS to deal with.
Sacrifice looks for mental stability in a wife.
Brothers you can not change a women. Trust me you can not. It’s hard when you care about someone you think she will change it’s been 1 year plus she’s not changing fellas. Focus on you and your grind and being the best version of yourself.The right one will show up not and if not at least your the best version of yourself and living life peacefully.
Yep and unfortunately expecting a woman to try and work WITH you instead of AGAINST you when it comes to the relationship is usually futile
Do we have decent females today ? Do females really know what men truly wants in a woman. Women think that men cares about their degrees, career and her social status but that's not the case. Attraction is not symmetric but asymmetric. Men prefers who is feminine, submissive, loyal, not promiscuous and not overweight. Getting inked up and having a nose ring, constantly loud and being passive aggressive aren't the traits men looks for in a woman.
Exactly
women dont understand DUTY
It doesn’t seem so, at least in my country
@@alyagyzmova9252 exceptions dont make the rule
This is right on. 100%
I myself come from a Ghanaian family household and our culture is based in strong family ties and marriage.. so its quite suprising for myself to see how these women are.
@@vg1024 NWO = demonic world order
@@vg1024 I completely agree, I’m Nigerian so I fully understand. It’s interesting because this is all being propagated on a scale that is unprecedented due to the sweeping power of social media over global culture. Our service economy is here to stay but is developing into an esoteric and weird farm of human potential. This potential is spent on improvements to our increasingly blurred relationships with tech and automated systems for moving value: electric trucks to optimize supply chain issues or no cashiers at Amazon grocery stores or warehouse. We - especially men, are GROWING our own irrelevance, because women have an intrinsic value in the sex driven service economy - we simply do not. At 21 years old I’m watching it unfold In total disbelief.
You gave this guy some awesome advice Rich. It's one thing to do the pump and dumps or hook up with a girl for a bit before hypergamy kicks in and she ends it so she can do go do better, but finding a good woman to have kids with, that's the biggest challenge of all.
Remember boys, when you do find a girl who's legit, don't let her go. Hard to find.
Traditionally, historically, men only married virgins. And divorce was non existent.
I know that sounds completely unrealistic in this age, but that's how far women have fallen/standards have fallen.
Quite simply, either don't ever get married, or standards have to be reset to the traditional, historical origins.
Men should then also be virgins
That's not a bad suggestion, and I'm sure, historically, a lot were; but multiple sex partners is less harmful to men than it is to women.
Men are psychologically, and physiologically designed to be more sexually prolific than women.
That's just facts; men and women are DIFFERENT.
Women that get run through by multiple men (by their own choosing) are miserable and broken in the long term; men who are prolific lovers ARE NOT.
الان الرجل والمراة اصبحوا بلا كرامة وعزة نفس وكل همهم هي شهوتهم وكيف يقضوها والذي ساعدهم على هذا هي العولمة واصبحت النساء سهله المنال ويسهل اغوائها لهذا كثر فض العذارى كثيرا بدون زواج فقط
@@danjonmills inherently mysyonistic on so many levels😆
@Anthony Rubino
Mate, jokes on you, you can't even spell misogynistic, and you certainly don't even know what it means.
Lol
Ask yourself this, genius, if women having ultimate sexual freedom is good for them, why so many ending up single, broken, alone and miserable from 30 onwards?
Traditional lifestyle, gives every woman the best chance of a lifetime of happiness.
Go away.
A study just came out that in many areas in Britain, single mom households are at 65%. This equates to a million kids without a father figure in the home. The future is FUBAR
I see this a lot with those mixed kids too many women put kids in a disadvantage position.
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Trust me i've been there too as a kid you got no chance with a parent/parents like that i'm still glad that i found my way in life but damn my younger and teenage years were sad.
Muslims household
Sheesh
@@denzel9455 Mixing is unnatural, it's a fetish nothing more nothing less, it will always have the highest rates of divorce.
Is that single mom as in no co-parenting?
"Do not put a baby in crazy" yes 🙏
This guy made two errors:
1) looking for an LTR in the Western woman selection pool.
2) wanting to get married.
He lost the moment he selected these two options as his objectives.
You can get married if ur Muslim since its religious not legal marriage. If ur not Muslim, yh u have to accept that you will probably never find a woman trustworthy enough to legally marry. It will have to be gf + cohabit
Marriage is not as big of a commitment as having kids. If you're a guy who wants to have kids the commitment/risk of marriage is not as big of a deal as a guy who doesn't want to have kids considering getting married
@@Tomsonx232 I absolutely agree. I'm just referring specifically to the guy in the video's aims. Kids are definitely the biggest commitment any man will (and should unless he's a scumbag and abandons them) ever make in his life, so yes, the risk is far, far greater, because you have another life to worry about and even more than your own.
There's lots of good western women out there. Don't be so negative. You'd be surprised.
@@Ryan-vi2qy like a needle in the Haystack.
Go to sleep and dream. That's a good way.
Lul
Even they leave to when the dream over
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How to find a good wife today? You've got a better chance of finding Hitler alive on the moon living in a cave with Princess Diana
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Haha good one… also my joke is hitting the multi million dollar winning off a lotto ticket!
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This one is gonna help out, some of us men just want to settle down and have a family
Stay hard guys
Jesus, jesus, jesus. - Give your life to Him and meet a woman who has done the same or good luck to you.
Best comment here 🎯
Invest in Dr. Shaun T Smith's book 'The tactical guide to women.'
I have this book and its excellent ever man should read this book before they go down the red pill rabbit hole
@@adventures223 That one, and The Book of Numbers by Aaron Clarey.
Just finished this. its good however seems like its almost against the idea of TRP and spinning plates to some extent?
In my experience, girls who want to move things along very quickly want to do so for reasons completely unrelated to what's best for the guy.
I would agree, and if we were to resist we get called out for not caring (when we do) and they leave.
leaving us holding our dicks in our hands.
@@ishaaksaleem847 theyre filtering themselves out if you ask me. Women moving too fast is not an indicator of genuine interest and its a huge red flag
@@CH-eb1rn THis is what they say, ill put it on hold for 6 months and let them vet themselves out (usually)however i still get the issue that they then leave without actually stating the truth or just then saying that i was never committed "enough" to them.
Not really. If a woman has some crazy selfish reason to move on... that's probably good for the guy. Another guy? Please go. Don't think I make enough money? Better leave now. Not tall enough? Don't let the door hit you. Moon is rising over cancer? I'll call you a cab. Seriously, woman wants to leave... let her. It's always best for the guy.
That's why proverbs 31 says, " o, who can find a virtuous woman?"
It's like saying who can do it? It's very hard
Most men just pump and dump. And then they wonder why they can't find a virgin. SMH.
Most women and are disloyal and they wonder why they can't find a decent man smh
@@reginasemenenko148 You know, they only "pump and dump" because women allow them to do so. Women are and always were the gatekeepers to s*x, but these days they hold those gates wide open.
In the end, everyone suffers because of this: women who having lost their youth and beauty end up alone and miserable in their old age, men who cannot find trustworthy partners and children who will grow up without the benefit of a father or a mother and not knowing what a true loving relationship looks like (thus perpetuating the sins of their parents).
@@reginasemenenko148 not "most" men tho
"How to find a good wife today"?
Invent a time machine.
it's an oxymoron at this point
Did rich say “if we go back 5,000 yrs.” ? Rich only within the last 100-150yrs has it only become unacceptable for women to marry & have children too young. It was the norm for women to have children and have families around 13-15yrs old.
That’s a common misconception at least in Sweden. Research shows that on average people would only get married and have kids when they were financially stable which was at 28-30. Avg at 28 yo if times were good, avg 30 id times were bad.
Honestly, I think there are plenty of traditional women like myself who are just as disappointed as some of these guys. I grew up in the church mostly interacting with men from my faith and i swear on my life i would get over looked for women that had way more ambition with their career choices, or they wanted a Kardashian clone. and i just couldn't understand it. I want to put myself out there again but to be honest its terrifying. Because the world is screwed up and men look more afraid to take chances. Any little thing could be a red flag to them lol God help us.
We wish you the best. I wouldn’t marry a kardashian imitate. You will make it :)
So more high quality women (traditional) can be found in religious circles ?
I really feel for the men of today that want a good wife when all these social media platforms will ruin the chance at a good relationship. Back in the day it was much simpler to have a LTR. These days everyone is too connected and there are to many simps.
Spent 7 yrs with a guy with no career and 7 yrs with a dating a red pill. I’m now over 35 with no kids. Low body count. Not sure what to do
Stop dating people for 7 years
If you can, Find a woman from a good home… she was not raised to be entitled, spoiled, etc, but also did not suffer abuse of some kind. Watch (discern) her parents & their values, siblings if she has them, & her friend group.
Sincerely, dad of 3 daughters.
As a feminine, agreeable woman it is important to me to raise a feminine agreeable kind daughter. I believe wife types are raised that way.
best chances to find a lifetime wife within the choices of the modern-day woman: a coin flip at best
best chances for the modern-day man to live a happy life: focus on you, (health, $$$ and personal interests) and only allow the modern-day woman to come into your life if she's eared it. even then, put her on perpetual probation, with termination with cause if the woman steps out of your frame.
cheers from southern ontario 🍁
I was with a beautiful woman, heads would turn when she walks in the room. Educated, humble and funny. But! You knew that was coming. Two problems: 1) doesn’t want to move the relationship along after 2 years. 2) always invading my masculine energy. She’s a feminist and, unfortunately, I couldn’t break her out of some of their toxic ideology. Love her like crazy but the only two types of male she’ll meet: 1) Simps 2) uber controlling masculine men. I wish she would have just tone it down just a bit.
as a female here, it is my opinion that ishaak doesn't understand women at all...he looks to me like a guy that can be played. i also think he lied at 2:41 when he said he just wants a woman for kids.....i think he wants to be in a loving, committed relationship......good luck to all the single people out there....its tough...Rich telling guys to take their time....while other men (like kevin samuels) are telling women to only date with intention and leave if the man is not marriage minded with a timeline....ps: imo there is NO way to vet a woman properly whatsoever
Wife for kids. Trying to vet for a women that can provide a committed loving relationship is the things im struggling with.
"Do not put a baby in CRAZY" truer words have never been spoken...
In the secular world it is all about "ME". "ME" culture. Women and men alike are too selfish and busy for each other. might be lucky going to a church group for people your age. But even that is uncertain. Life is all about risk. Those who risk getting more contacts, more approaches, more rejections and then learn from that and repeat a new and better process generally get what they want.
Amen
Guy says he only wants a wife to have kids, then the last woman says he didnt love her, i wonder why
Guys, your wife after kids is a completely different person. Thats the problem. You are rolling the dice either way.
What to say when girl on the date asks what I do for a living? I'm medical doctor and I noticed that people start treat me differently when they find out who I am.
Dress and act normal. When you go out with them. Take them someplace cheap.
I always tell them I am a fisherman
Breathing... you haven’t had a day off in (enter amount of years you have been on this earth)
Find a lie. I'm not a doctor, but I still make a bit of money with what I do. I can at least dumb it down so they don't get a clue. Find a way to dumb it down or just lie. I highly doubt they'll be upset when they find out you are actually a doctor.
Doctors are people too. It's just what you do for a living. You make good money but sure you must have raked up a big student loan too. You can relay this information and see see what she says. Hope it helps✌
8:33 i love how his immitation are so on point but at the same time he returned to his serious voice , I cound't do it
I’m 28 and I wasn’t partying. .
The pandemic robbed years off my 20’s.
Now that I’m back dating it’s so difficult to meet and connect with men.
Don’t know if I should date older or younger 😖
definitely not younger!
If you're middle aged or so and aren't looking to start a new family, I recommend looking for a wife in a non-tourist city of China or in an Eastern European country (I've heard Romania is a good choice). Many of the women there have been raised to be traditional and don't have a party phase of their life. That doesn't mean they won't become westernized when they get here, which is a danger. But it improves your chances of having a good wife.
Hola from Spain ! There are great wife's everywhere. Change your believes.
As a woman working 40 plus hours a week and have side hustle for extra income. My husband works 20 hours a week. I feel bless to be with someone that work together to balance our schedule between work and family with 2 children. I see some women in similar situation. And we get insulted by men and women for working more than our spouses. We focus on our path and continue moving forward.
Good on you for having a plan with your husband to both parent your kids. It doesn't matter who earns the most. A lot of people are jealous. Continue working on a fulfilling life for your family.
Your a keeper 😉
This Issac guy is a good listener
Why anyone would want to sign an insane marriage contract and bring an innocent child into this increasingly crazy world is beyond my comprehension but to each his own. Good luck!
'Good' women essentially boils down to:
- Her options
- How hard is it for her to take advantage of her position
- Are options for hypergamy fertile?
- Will she win or lose much more in divorce?
- Will she be congratulated or demonized by her family and friends if she initiates divorce?
- Comparatively are you considered a 'good' catch for her in her immediate dating market.
Only even consider to marry if you yes to most of the options above. Most men underestimate how important a favorable legal and social environment is when it comes to marriage.
Women have no biological urge to be a good wife to anyone, she does have a biological urge to find the best seed, the best lifestyle and be the best mum she can. Her primary OS is emotionalism so expect and embrace chaos.
Clicked for some man point of view on the subject of a good wife.....well so disappointed...all that i heard is a guy looking for an incubator and the other guy gave out a check list:
*make sure its new(no baggage)
*get a warrenty(planing for devorce)
*look for a good brand(not a westren woman?!)
*user friendly(woman that shuts up,does not need love and respect just pump babys)
On a more serious note...marriage is a highly complex partnership, if you looking to ingage in one you can't say " hun im here just for kids " this is dismissing the other person completely.
Lo ani rotze yefe isha
My cousin who has been a mess for many years now is a single mom of two illegitimate kids from two different men. Both of whom are nowhere to be found. She was just caught/arrested for cocaine, again. Kids are barely 5 and 7 and it's clear they already have developmental/behavioral problems. Kids were taken away. Now she is free to go squirt out a few more babies from other undesirable men.
Suddenly state sactioned sterilization doesn't sound like such a bad idea.
I really appreciate Rich's thoughts after my divorce.
What is a LTR and SMBP?
Long term relationship. Sexual marketplace value peak.
No complications I’ve watched you enough: do what you want. Do it at the highest lvl, get people in place that will do the technical things better than yourself (to free up time), do the more creative/esoteric and fun (still productive) & ONLY choose a woman that will settle into that GENUINELY. If not- go without & be at peace. Patience is the practice of Gods where time is subdued.
8:06 shifu you are a very wise man
I have just purchased the book from Amazon. So excited and can’t wait to start reading it.
You cant. Once a woman has stability and children, she changes. The husband becomes her last priority.
The only way they behave is if they know that one mess up will result in her losing everything. But even then, her actions are all a lie just to keep her lifestyle in tact.
Yh all relationships are about leverage, not love.
I don't see it as a negative tho. Deep down we all kinda wanna be the villain to some extent. If ur woman is doing shit that means u have become the villain, then so be it, been waiting my whole life for this 😂
@@FA9082 sounds fun, but after ten years it’s exhausting and the juice just ain’t worth the squeeze.
I had a baby with a beautiful 10/10 crazy and ignored 100s of red flags over the years before the kid and thought she would change after having the kid. If anything she got worse.
GUYS your better off having 5/10 woman calm collected than a 10/10.
Not to say 5/10 woman are not crazy but I also believe majority of woman have chemical imbalance
You can’t expect a women to have sex with you for two years and then maybe you’ll choose her. Dating around but don’t sleep around with Tuesday or Thursday girl. There are a lot of initial good women who went into their guys frame only to realise he doesn’t want to wife her up. Also beware of Easter European gals. Some are gold diggers and some are sweet and love their family.
Ridiculous. As expected fron advice from a woman.
So the random guys she had sex with didnt have to waitfor anything but a man with has to wait too effing years? No thank you.
Exceptions
Don't have kids....this world is tarded. Also the world is already overpopulated. Get a pet.
We need to start a discord chat for the community
Great video,thnks for the info brother
I’m not advocating for marriage, but if this guy wants that and women are first not entering his frame and second leaving, sounds like he needs to “do the work” and focus on himself.
Sure, and i think with every experience i get better at it, i just dont want to fuck it up half way.
Better chance winning state lottery 😂😂😂😅
Yeah man, women are rightly desperate at that age. Don't let them make you feel like you have to act desperate too.
I’d say just live an alpha lifestyle and focus on yourself. Date girls in your free time. As Patrice said, there will be a girl who sticks around long enough for you to marry her. Like karate class, many of them will go to other dojo’s before they get their black belt, but eventually you will have a worthy apprentice😂
As long as they stay their asses at those other dojos 😂😂😂😂
Being Yourself While Being Gentlemanly Works Every Time!
I lived in London for 13 years. Locals are not good mother material. I Married a woman from Czech Republic country side. Look into EST Europe countryside. Definitely best mother material you can find in the continent.
6 months without deciding something as simple as exclusivity? That should take 3-4months max. If you are still not sure about exclusivity after than then move on.
Bro you’re 29! Chill and take your time. Trust me at 35 you will have a different mindset. Rich is 💯 50% ends in divorce and as a man you will get shafted. Trust me alimony for life, stay away from Florida
True. My mindset in my 20s compared to my 30s was massively different
I don’t think it’s possible for the majority of us. I’ve been looking all my adult life. I’m 37 now if I can’t find a wife by 40 I’m throwing in the towel and going monk mode. Without children there is no point to get married and I don’t want children after 40.
It’s hard on woman’s side too . But this made new sad to hear .
@@tsitsirwakonda4221 really? Women can make a Snapchat and add dozens of beta Simps. They will never want them but get validation from them. Men we don’t have any of that nor do we want that.
why on earth would a nice eastern european lady go for this guy???
He may have to look at a religious girl from a very traditional family where the pressure to marry, and stay married, is high. It is very sad that good men like this have such a low chance at finding a wife.
There is no such thing.. I thought I had one and she jumped ship this week.
Why did she jump ship
@@adventures223 last time it was because my twins fought so much. But her dad gifted her a house so she could go live there free. So I don't know if that hypergamy kicked in and it was like this is a better deal so she left.. ?
We worked it out and she stayed here on the weekends for about 2 years. I had surgery and she moved back in. One of the twins came down with covid while she was on a trip with her cousin and their gfs. So when she got back in to town I packed her clothes for work and stuff and put them outside so she would be safe . She went back to her house and after covid refused to come home. That was 2 months ago. One of the twins went to her office thinking she was there but she wasn't and there was flowers on her desk. He thought I sent them but I didn't. I have no explanation for this.. she makes fake flower arrangements for people, but I think he would know the difference in fake or real. I work 3rds, and she has been up late alot at night online on fb.. but I dont see her posting anything which to me means she could have been talking to someone.. its circumstantial..
She decided to file for divorce and said we have tried for 2 years we are to different and she can't change me and I can't change her.. I said it would be boring if we were exactly alike..
Whatever the reason she wants a divorce and wants it fast.. we did have a discussion about the jab.. I said I wouldn't take it and would make them fire me from my job, and she got mad and hung up on me... the next morning I noticed her up and online after I got home which is unusual.. she usually sleeps in on the weekends . And I messaged her to see when we would get together.. and she said she was done and wanted a divorce.
I think someone else is in the picture but she swears not
This guy doesn't know he's not even married😂
I often wonder why should I put up with women? Why should't I embrace a life of solitude? Why should I have to go through drama by being in a relationship with a woman? Why should I embrace my sexuality, when in fact, I have virtue, creativity and mastery for my well-being, which is the opposite of hedonism. Even Ludwig van Beethoven has said that only virtue can make a man happy. Again, can somebody tell me why should I have myself involved in a relationship with a woman?
If you have to ask that question, you've already missed the point. If you cannot imagine your life being infinitely better by joining with someone, just don't date. As a heterosexual woman, I would not want to plan a life without a husband. Life goes on may or may not happen, but never once have I thought what's the purpose of having a man in my life. If that's a question you have partnership may not be for you and that's okay.
Hey Richard ! I just read your book love it ! I'm in Ontario just like you however, I was curious if you know which offense has shared share custody by default laws?
Calgary still don't get it. No matter how good you think she is, she will change her mind!
In today’s age, you don’t find a good wife nowadays. If you want to get married, you should MAKE a good wife.
Rich: 'u got to play the #s.'
Guy 2k years ago: 'while I was still searching but not finding- I found one upright man among a thousand, but not one upright woman among them all.' -Ecclesiastes 7:28
Truthfully, marry a Mormon girl , most likely she’s a virgin, family Is the most important thing and marriage, to her , no BS , no cheating, because her faith is very important to her, but of course your gonna most likely have to join her church!
But now to the actual question of the title: where do I find them?
There are wife material out there if ur muslim.
If ur not Muslim, good luck.
This was a good call.
Well, like say with women, don't chase women out of your league physically or financially. Go for moderate to conservative women who are 6-7s and you will find somebody.
Why do attractive women date ugly guys who aren't wealthy? I ask women out whether they're stunning or average. No man should pass up an opportunity regardless of how attractive she is.
Ishaak doesn't come across as being straight forward. He should get the objectives out on the table by the 3rd date. If she shows promise, continue, if not, move on quickly. How does he spend two years and not know? Was probably just looking for sex first and also hoping for possible marriage later.
Ishaak should just ask upfront on the second or third date, what does married life look like? How does she think the family should manage its finances. What she would like to accomplish together with a husband. How does she see a husband and wife supporting each other. What is her definition of love. Just be straight forward.
The ones who aren't serious wouldn't have thought these things through. They are the date for recreation crowd. No more dates for those. Only spend more time with the candidates with good answers and who appear to live it.
Hey,
sure i guess im open to the Idea of an LTR and have been "perhaps wrongly" vetting while keeping it casual.
@@ishaaksaleem847 So you are "open to the idea of a LTR"? This is exactly why your girls haven't been able to make the transition to a LTR girl. The two are very different creatures. Casual girls are for casual only. LTR to wife are for that only.
You are complaining about girl quality because you are looking in the casual pool. Of course their quality is low. If you want a high quality girl, then you also need to be a LTR to marriage guy. Otherwise you aren't good enough for those top quality girls and they never bother with you.
@@hanooi7450 Hi mate thanks for your advice.
This is exactly what im trying to understand.
to me spinning plates is understood as the best way to filter out women right? aka keep it casual, sit back and watch and then see.
now when ive done this either the plate drops off (fine) they get pissy and i drop them (also fine)
Or they pass and they get put to LTR. the issue im facing is that im clearing still missing shit - they not me kick me to the curb after another 12 months sighting things like: i never care, i dont do xyz, im not jealous or that i only use them for sex. so my question is 2 fold - am i just vetting wrong? or am i just fucking things up by becoming emotionally invested once theyve perhaps incorrectly proved to me that they are "eworthy " of continued commitment from me.
Interestingly typing this out brought another question: how much is the right amount to actually spend with an LTR to me, a day and half over the weeked (fri eve to sun morning ) and a bit during the week is enough but this comes across as using them for sex. thoughts?
@@ishaaksaleem847 I would say the best way to filter for LTR is to not have sex with them until they achieve fiancee status. To me, sex is the #1 reason why people fail to vet properly. It makes it too easy to think with the smaller head than the bigger head. Unfortunately, in the West people are looking for sex partners first and LTR/wife second. As a result, they end up squandering their youth or divorced because the sex clouds their judgement or lowers their standards when red flags are showing.
However, the flip side is because you refuse to have sex with her until you propose and she accepts, you can't waste your time dallying around for a long time. When you say "spinning plates", my idea of it is dating (without sex) multiple women but putting them under intense scrutiny to weed them out quickly. You got to let them know quickly, second date latest, that you are looking for a woman who will be your wife and you will move fast to engagement and not waste their time.
So in the filter phase, vet them based on these criteria:
1. Quality of their family
2. Quality of their friends. Looking at friends and family is important because people often wear a mask in the beginning. However, they can't hide their friends and family and birds of a feather tend to flock together so you filter out the chameleons this way.
3. Talk about the hard stuff first. Stuff like how does she handle money, investing goals, family and children goals, child raising philosophy, career goals, what does ideal partner look like, religion, dreams, family skills, wants, demands, etc. Be sure to also tell her yours since filtering works both ways. Ideally she should be hitting you with hard questions too because that means she is serious about being a wife.
4. If she pass all those, the best way to prevent her from walking is to give her a "pre-engagement" ring. To me, it is a very important symbol of commitment. Tell her you give her this ring because your objective is marriage and this is your symbol of commitment because you like what you are seeing and hearing from her. Then be sure to be exclusive and really make sure she is consistent with her word before giving her the engagement ring. The pre-engagement ring can be simple 10K gold band with her and your name engraved. It should be inexpensive, its value is in its symbol.
To me, the commitment ring prevents the good candidates from walking; especially important for the candidates who are in their later 20's and early 30's. These women don't have much time and you need to show that you are a keeper at the same time they show you. The intense questions also gets you to move fast and it shows intelligence and purpose. The players and playboys never have questions AND answers like those. This is how you show marriage game, different from the pickup game which all these single or divorced relationship coaches preach.
Hi Han, I liked what you wrote. I had a question.
"What does married life look like? How does she think the family should manage its finances. What she would like to accomplish together with a husband. How does she see a husband and wife supporting each other. What is her definition of love. Just be straight forward."
What would be acceptable reasons and good answers in response to these then?
I am currently spinning plates, I did ask one of them who've I had hooked up with them for a few weeks now, she has displayed signs of strong emotional attachment and genuine burning desire, "what does married life look like?" And she said something like when a woman follows the lead of a man and believes in him, and they both support each other.
Is this a good answer?
I've always believed a woman should be loyal, submissive, friendly, and kind. The girl that I've been vetting displays a lot of these qualities, but she doesn't act like a housewife at the moment, I'm under the perception you cannot change someone to be a housewife unless they truly believe in it. I'm thinking sooner or later I'm going to cut her off even though I like her. It's sad, but most of the women I'm spinning plates with are not worthy of commitment, let alone marriage or even the mother of my kids.
Lol. Thats the real question. Hey man , whats the best way to juggle these grenades so I dont blow myself up? ... And good luck with that.
He should be dating women in their early 20’s! Hell I’m 40 and I have two 22 year olds I rotate. Whenever I see women my age I see them as old ladies lol.
Yeah, currently have a plate that is 33 and a plate that is 27.
ex of 4 years ago is swinging back around and im not sure what she wants but her "genuine desire" is definitely back - even with me abroad
I tried monogamy but it's like eating the same meal each day, it gets boring
Germany and London, probably the two worst places on earth to find a wife lol. I've lived 3 years in both places.
Ishaak… when a woman says you don’t love her, that means you’re not romantic and affectionate and not passionate! She probably does not feel that burning desire from you and it probably feels like a friend/buddy relationship. Woman crave romance & passion. Don’t be so logical. You probably don’t express yourself either. The fact that she walked and you didn’t bother to ask her why says a lot. Open yourself up man.
Why do women walk after 2 years in a relationship? Because she figured you were never going to marry her.
She leaves the relationship, believing you were just waiting for something better to come along. So, she moves on driven by self-preservation. Women have time tables, that gets shorter as she gets older.
Ok, I gotta ask. As a white American who's looking for a traditional white woman, where can I find that? Eastern Europe was/is my last hope to find a traditional Christian White Woman because in America and Western Europe, they don't exist anymore.
But from what people are saying here in the comments, most Eastern European women have become Westernized.
So, Idk where to go to find a White Woman who's traditional anymore. Not going to Georgia or Armenia, they aren't white down there... so am I kinda screwed?
Thats kinda racist
@@Fede45454 Sorry, but I stick to my own race and that'll never change.
@@Revelator999 Hate to break it to you. You're screwed.
@@markquinn1216 Really? White Women are lost causes now?
There's none left in this world that are good?
Move to or regularly visit countries in which traditional values still exist in women, there are many. That being said, I'd recommend doing it sooner rather than later as western culture is always pedestalized in the aforementioned countries and eventually the women pick up less desirable traits. A common one I'm seeing at the moment is the rise of Tik Tok and those silly dances etc. I see so many young wmen wasting countless hours recording this crap and uploading it to their social media. It's things like this that distract them from becoming more educated and developing homemaking/mothering skills. I can cook better than 99% of wmen I meet these days and I dare say my home is better kept as well. This is while I'm also going to the gym 5/6 days a week and making my own money.
29 age some hope ,but 33 34 getting this same advice you really feel time running out.
8:00 Do NOT put a baby in Crazy!!! wise words. If only men actually listened to this advice we'd have smarter people on this planet.
Hi Rich question if a guy is in relationship or or is married you need would they still be signs of red flags if so what are some of the signs to be aware of
I'm 36, financially free, fit, and have a great life. I just moved to the US from Asia and getting a rotation here is even easier. My problem is my whole life I never liked condoms but I've mastered pulling out like 15s before the event because I do it like I have something to lose (which I do).
Bro... it's not only for conception pourposes... I hope you haven't catch any chlamydia or gonorhea or even worse...
@@MrTraczu those are easy curable in one or three days. It's always the dude that don't get laid a lot who worry about STDs.
@@wanderingdoc5075 Bro... better watch out.
ps. for example you might not know of having syphillis - but having it, increase the chances of getting HIV dramatically. (Geting HIV is a little chance by regular chance).
ps. I banged a lot
@@MrTraczu I'm an M.D. but thanks for the lesson. I believe STDs are extremely difficult to catch if you're a healthy person. All the prolific guys I know who banged over 300 or 500 women we're not significantly worried about stds, they may have had gonorrhea or chlamydia once and it was cured.
I believe the chance to catch STDs that are so called incurable is extremely difficult and the research bears this out.
It actually has a lot more to do with socioeconomic status.
@@wanderingdoc5075 That's interesting. Thanks for the answer. I am probably not that wise in these matters but what I know, HIV transition between healthy man and woman in vaginal intercourse is 3%.
Also, new kind of gonorrha has appeared and so far is not curable. Do you know anything about that?
Marry Young. 18-21 Max. You are saying you don't want clingy!!! That's dumb... Yes. Clingy is annoying, but that's who you want for marriage and Baby Making. Once the Babies come along... That Clinginess gets retargeted to the Children. You'd be lucky to get a phone call then.
All these Gurus push for Whoredom and waiting. That is Garbage, and a waste of your time. Young, and Clingy with you making time to manage your Future wife. If you don't have time for her, your not ready for Marriage!!!
Finally, stop living in fear of a Crazy wife who's after your Money. This is life. You get what you deserve. Put in the time, or get left behind!!!
That age range has very high divorce rates.
In a galaxy far, far away..............
They don't make those anymore
Plane, SE Asia.
Men don’t be needy it’s a turn off. When I sense that a man is needy I keep my distance. When I’m needy it’s pathetic truly is. I’m working on myself and it’s been pretty awesome and really healing. Also it comes to a point where you’ll need to cut your parents off if you’re living with your parent in your 20’s sorry but not a good sign and your parents are keeping you stuck and unhealthy. I’m 37 and no longer party thought I wanted to get married and have kids but I’m not so sure now the worst thing I could do is get married and have kids when I do not know myself and have not healed emotionally. I’m like this young child in a grown woman’s body.
Men tend to live with parents longer because we don’t like being alone . About 1/3 of young men in the U.S 20-30 live with atleast one parent . It has increased from back in the day because woman are more difficult now. There’s more that’s expected of us and it’s honestly just draining and not worth it. This feminism stuff has awakened many young men like me. I don’t even really have a desire to cohabitate with one other than my mother after knowing what I know. I have learned that love between a man and woman is one sided . Men are the givers and woman are receivers. A woman can only truly love her son because she is the giver.
@@joshua7508 if birth rates tank below a certain point White people will be minority one day in the US. Also this feminism shit isn't going anywhere anytime soon. Hope they change marriage laws one day
In the Balkans it’s normal to live with their parents. I got a masters degree and earn double of my parents but live with them. I don’t date western women, they are disgusted that I live at home with 30. But how can I marry somebody who don’t have this connection with her parents like I with my? Alone it would be easier for me to live. But i value my family and the creators of my being. Balkan women are 1000 better than any western women could ever be. Western women see family and children as a burden. I see it as a gift. That’s a huge difference.
Let me answer that question, YOU CAN'T!!!!
Why do you prefer virgins but want sex upfront in dates or relationships???
If you want kids with a quality woman and you are a busy man where on Earth can you get time ti spin many plates and 2 years to evaluate ONE woman?! It sounds like an impossible task, only for supermen
8:32 "You know what Isaac, let's just go to the department store and get some underwear, and a bikini and some pants .... "
That's way too logical. A woman would NEVER react that logical and calm.
100 years ago they were having kids as young teens