When it comes to dick size, size matters but when it comes to a woman's size, size doesn't matter, ironic there's so little you can do to your dick size but a lot can be done to your weight
@@sokoyaadedolapo5321 have you thought that maybe the dick aint the problem? maybe the vagene is just too LAAAAAARGE~ huh? maybe that was the problem from the very beginning
@Lola Montez Well, she was 20 when we married, more thin than I actually preferred at the time, bore me 2 sons, and now, 20 years later, is about 30 lbs heavier than she was then. It's actually kind of nice, she put on the weight in all the right feminine places and I think she's hotter now than when we first got together. You're right, nobody was making me date fat women then, and nobody would be able to now. My wife actually asked me what would happen if she got fat, back in the day, since we communicate like reasonable human beings rather than assume things and lay out random accusations. I told her our sex life would come to a screeching halt, but that I'm not one to abandon my marital vows. Thanks to her conscientiousness and self-control, I haven't had to find out what that situation is like. I wouldn't have to compete with 100% of men...I never really have. When offers have come in over the years, it's women that have just kind of thrown themselves at me - though not obese women, I think they know they don't have a chance. If anything, I tell men to stop competing over women or going to extravagant lengths to impress them, that it's not worth the effort. Better to find someone of value (physical and ethical) that reciprocates rather than leeches.
@Lola Montez She often watches these videos with me. As with many critics of these types of video, you're mischaracterizing what Joker does, and "catastrophizing" what I originally said in my OP. In the OP, I was trying to point out that "obese" and "morbidly obese" aren't insults or "awful names" - they're diagnoses. Just because the truth is uncomfortable, doesn't mean anyone here is dishing out "hate" by pointing out the fact that someone is obese, nor is it "hate" to find that sort of body type unattractive - just a personal preference. She hasn't really said if she would stop having sex with me if I got fat. I don't intend to, though staying in shape isn't as effortless as when I was younger. As for being a Greek god, no, never been that (though a LOT better endowed than the ancient Greek statues and paintings - probably a contributing factor to my confidence and animal charm). And it's not like every woman swoons at my entrance or presence. Just that I've never had to put any effort into it. The offers, some of them quite bold and straight-forward (i.e. "throwing themselves" at me), come in sometimes. They don't rain from the sky on a daily basis, nor do I command the lust of every woman I encounter. But they do come in, and when they do, it's without effort on my part. That's all that means. I am one of the happiest guys on earth, probably. If you count contentedness and appreciation for what I have as "happy." I watch these types of videos from Joker because they are a calm, reasonable discourse that is a nice break from the politicized, misandric, irrationality of mainstream productions I see elsewhere. Finding out what people are doing and thinking in relationships (or avoiding relationships like Joker recommends) these days helps keep my relationship in perspective, and helps me and my wife give good advice and guidance to our sons. Being informed about various philosophies or positions isn't about pursuing hate or oppressing anyone. It's about learning the different things people are thinking and talking about, all the while making up my own mind about it. And, I already told you. Wife's a total hottie. She gets plenty of demonstrations of my affection and attraction. ;)
@Lola Montez Videos with wife: We discuss them. She disagrees with some points, agrees with others. Same as me. You appear to be using a definition of "pure hatred" that doesn't really reflect the reality of these conversations. Most of the time I see the term "hate speech" it's someone (on the left) irritated that the speaker has a set of different political or ethical values than the person employing the epithet. For example, you use the term "violently hate all fat women" and I have never seen an example of this - never once ever seen or heard of anyone who will physically attack a woman because he hates the fact that she's fat. Now, you may be equating the term "I would never have sex with a morbidly obese woman" or "I think fat women are gross" with "violent hatred," but that's not attached to reality. There's also a huge difference between characterizing a woman in her 40s with 3 young children as not being particularly attractive to a man looking to establish a long-term relationship, versus saying she's "worthless." Joker's videos are usually pointing out how these kinds of women are complaining (citing sources) about not being attractive to the same kinds of men who they pulled down in their 20s. Obesity: These vids sure do talk about male obesity. They say that men shouldn't remain obese, they should earn some self-pride, should go to the gym and get into good shape, adopt good nutritional habits, and stay in shape. This is a healthy kind of discussion, and to my reasoning is much better than celebrating obesity and artificially ascribing great beauty to a condition that comes with serious health ramifications. I haven't seen the term "land whales" thrown around with great frequency, except in the comments where anything goes. But, even if they are being as vitriolic as all that, that's their expression, to which they have a right. Not particularly civilized, and I make different choices. I can't remember a time when Joker used terms like this, though granted, I haven't seen all of his videos. Greek statue: I'm exactly as conceited as a man who is in the 90th percentile of human male statistics should be, tempered by the performance feedback I've received over the years. It doesn't really matter if you believe me or not, the only reason I brought it up is in response to what you had written. Joker/Better Bachelor: Even when he's been angry, he's been remarkably calm. And the term I used is "reasonable," not "reassuring." He has reasons for his positions, and he states them, and discusses why he holds certain positions, again, based on those reasons. And it doesn't really matter how old he is, whether or not he pursues a relationship, can hold one down or is anyone's idea of a success or failure - arguments are genderless and ageless. Even so, Joker's not a prophet or a role model, nor does he cast himself as such. He's just a guy having a conversation, and sometimes those conversations have personal stories and the lessons he's learned from them. I can form whatever good or crappy opinion I have about him personally, but that opinion won't - and shouldn't - affect my intellectual honesty in the discussion. Happiness: expanding awareness of everything out there contributes to true happiness, rather than living in a limited worldview or echo chamber. I appreciate that you'd have an eye out for my happiness, considering I'm a complete stranger on the internet, but as I stated before, I'm probably one of the happiest guys on earth anyway. I got here by working hard, asserting my well-reasoned truths when I needed to, and managing it myself.
it's really ironic that women will call a man sexist for wanting thin woman but yet most women want a man who's 6' tall. Your weight is controllable but your height isn't
And that's not even getting into their waist to hip ratio, breast size, perkiness, etc. If men really wanted to we could demoralize even an average woman like they do an average man, but we're not that shallow.
Funny thing is. You don't see a lot of women that are with fat guys unless he has money. You don't even see fat women with fat guys. Just look at TLC. There is a whole track of fat women with husbands who weight less than they do. When it comes to being shallow about being fat. Women are no better.
@Verde1993 I get it what they're saying to a certain extent with height being bad genetics, but the thing is they're even saying average 5'8" to 5'9" isn't good enough even though they're average in appearance themselves. So why would a guy with good genetics choose a woman with average genetics? That's where the disconnect with reality lies.
I have found that most guy friends will actually answer these questions if they are asked. The wide variety of responses is amazing and educational. One size does not fit all.
Same here🙋♀️ ... and I’d just like to add that I’m married too for 13 years now☺️ sometimes I gotta brush up on the male perspective so I don’t chase him away😆
@@kc6384 I worry about chasing mine away and we have a very close trusting relationship but sometimes you can't help but think about it and I believe that's a good thing because that's what keeps us from going overboard and acting in ways that will chase them away
I love the whole "You can't help who you're attracted to!" argument when applied to gay people. However, the same people who yell that, will in the next breath, dictate to straight men that something is wrong with them for being attracted to attractive women.
I love how people will shake their fists and yell until blue in the face about how attraction isn't a choice, when applied to Gay people. Yet then, after getting their breath back, turn around and castigated straight men for finding attractive women... Well, attractive.
@@thedeity6865 The SJWs say that gender is a social construction. They say that even if you are born with pen*s you can be a woman, and vica versa. Then that means being gay/lesbian is just as mucha social construction and that chose to be attracted to the same gender. So that means they can all chose to be straight as well.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Healthy is not. All this "plus size" garbage illustrates a quote I heard one time, "most people would rather be ruined by praise than saved by criticism."
It’s why Heart Attack Grill was created. The owner is actually a trainer, but he realized most people don’t want to her the truth (lose weight). So he gave them a restaurant to fulfill their true desire (eat like a pig). And he insults the customers too. People actually love being praised for gluttony. So strange
And puts out, many horny young men make the mistake of marrying with the intention of not having to look for hook ups anymore. Big mistake *BIG MISTAKE*
My ex wife used to say she was fat. Finally in a bad fight I got brutally honest with her she’s not fat she’s morbidly obese. Like Jabba the Hutt from Star Wars. Or a melted candle . I’m usually not that mean but she had been cheating and got huge so I had had enough.
I don't see the big deal with dieting, you save money on your groceries, you carry less home from the supermarket, you store less at home, you cook less food, you get positive results by doing less, less eating, more dieting.
Basically men like hourglass and women like muscular. This is nothing new. Marylin Monroe and Marlon Brando were not the sex symbols of their time for nothing.
james - that’s absolutely not true, of course she was an hourglass. Grown men know that real women don’t look like photoshopped Instagram whores so I don’t think the standards have changed at all. We are all programmed to like certain shapes from the opposite sex. This is evident in the muscled men and curvaceous women of ancient Roman and Greek art. Nothing has changed.
@@cosmic-creepers9207 'Photographed instagram 'whores''' lmao the coping. Marilyn Monroe might have been considered close to hourglass back then, but not all in 2020. And my girlfriend is very close to the perfect hourglass/slimthicc, she doesn't even have to workout much (her bone structure is naturally hourglass, she got the perfect genes lol),they are rare, but they are gems 😍. Same with me, I don't have to workout much, I'm naturally kinda muscular. Just a week in the gym and I can gain back everything I loose(when I don't work out).
I prefer shorter guys, I don’t expect a guy to do anything I’m not willing to do myself, and I don’t give a shit whether a guy is famous, rich, or not. Not all women have the same standards, and not all women have the same values, and personally I think it’s totally fine for people to not be physically attracted to all people. It’s not like the goal is to be in a romantic relationship with everyone in the world, it’s usually just to find one really great person for the individual person.
I just stopped dating and really stopped caring.. I look at the eye candy and just remember the damage they've done over time, and stay happily single.
i stopped chasing women in high school when i realized my instinct to prove i was a quality mate was capable of making me a simp. i don't like being manipulated, and i noticed how easy it was to be manipulated by pretty classmates. didn't realize the full impact of my new philosophy... but apparently i don't get much attention if i'm not making a fool of myself for a woman. then i hear wonderful vindication from this channel & reminders that their attention is a nuisance.
I dunno. I’ve had enough skinny / cute girls over the years, I don’t prioritize body type anymore. If a woman is sweet, loyal, and genuinely a good person that I enjoy being around then I’ll find something sexy and cute about her. Within reason lol. Chubby mom bod is fine, outright obese.. not so much.
This is one of the few decent remarks here. Good for you. You sound great. Yes, women are also human beings with other qualities to consider. Both genders need to just be nice to each other and appreciate what we all bring to the table.
Woman: "I only date men over six feet tall." Man: "I only date women who are height/weight proportionate." Woman: "REEEEEEEEEEEE! Stop body-shaming us!!"
The only reason men aren't throwing rhetoric back at them is because we're too busy being self sufficient adults-- too busy working to talk at people who won't listen and don't care.
@Lola Montez Soooo...you are actually going to claim that there not women who reject men because of their height because YOU personally haven't heard any women talk about it? Really? I am talking about how women body-shame men, but turn around and get mad when men body-shame women. And you are going to mock them as 'incels'? I am glad to hear you are not personally as shallow as many women are in the Tinder age, but that does not mean these women don't exist. It also does not mean men don't get body-shamed as well. The idea that women are somehow above engaging in this sort of petty cruelty is absurd. There are 'ideal' standards of beauty on both sides...not just for men. Women want a guy who is 6'+, has a six-pack, has a full head of hair, etc. Nobody wants someone who looks unhealthy, be it a man or a woman. I am not short. I have not experienced this. But I know men who have.
Be a healthy person. Mind, body and spirit, if no one wants to date you then keep moving on in life. Don’t put work in just to get a woman. Shallow beginnings leads to shallow endings. Build a foundation of rock and live life with character. Be like nature intended you to be, nature is not a people pleaser nor does it wait for anyone.
Good hips = capable of safe birth Big breasts = strong children Not fat = healthy These are a few of the subconscious messages we get when we see beautiful women. It's just how we are.
Just know whatever you find attractive, is normal. If a lot of men find the same thing attractive, it is very normal, if generations of men find something attractive, generations going far back to the Early years of civilization. Then it's the most normal thing in the world, no matter how they manipulate society to demonize that kind of attraction. You are not bad, you are normal
@Lola Montez google fetishes. I'm not saying some guys don't get turned on by fat women, hell there are people who orgasm seeing women stand in line desperately needing to pee. But not all men like fat women, like myself, I really don't, I love skinny or fit, but definitely petite women. And that's ok, I have that right to be me, I too deserve to be empowered to be me and love what I love and not love what I don't :) not just empowerment, but it is what it is, can't force to change what is naturally in each person. To try is wrong the and impossible. Just accept that you will find men who love you at first sight, others after they get to know you, and others who want nothing to do with you. Choose from the guys who want you, not from those who don't. And if in the future they change their minds for or against you, well it is what it is, just got to accept what you can't and shouldn't change.
@Lola Montez and another answer to your post, in ancient times only the rich could afford to get fat. And they had no concept of science based health. In the victorian era it was fashionable to have gout, if you had the biggest growth coming out of your big toe and face you were the most desirable man. Or longest neck in some countries. Point is if you want to be fat and the most desirable, go to those countries, talk to those men, not here, never me
@Lola Montez If the Willendorf figurines and similar carvings are fertility totems as believed, then they are most likely pregnant and not obese. Given how hard calories were to come by in prehistoric times, they probably didn't even have a concept of obesity in the first place. p.s. more women are obese than men, look it up.
loved the line from an old radio show. Someone asks the husband how he got his wife. "It was all a matter of geometry. She had all the right curves, and I had all the right angles."
@Lola Montez With a capital "YOU" and no @mention, not sure who this is referring to. Who, in this thread, said that "only women get fat, but all men are slim"? The topic of the video is the fact that most men do not find morbidly obese women attractive. This comment thread was started to mock the delusion of morbidly obese women who won't change their lifestyle and say that people who don't find them attractive are shallow asses. But to address your assertion, I agree. Morbidly obese men who think they are healthy and attractive are in denial as well.
Curves, yes. Blow hole and fluke? No. It's amazing how if you put the head of a feminist on the body of a manatee, you can't tell the difference... okay, that's a lie; the manatee becomes uglier.
The real problem is even the larger women out there are walking around with an entitled attitude. Back in the day big girls had to be nice to get attention but now these types are large and in charge.
Yeah, they used to be a reliable go-to - they would try hard on the first date, so you might call them for a second one... now, you're not good enough for them... soon, the govt. will be giving subsidised cats and free 'unatural hair colour' dyes to the landwhales as part of the entitlements package...
Yeah, they went straight from "What I lack in the looks department I need to make up in attitude and personality" to being so obnoxious and disgusting, you probably wouldn't fuck them even if they actually looked really hot.
Trying to force men to be attracted to obese women is like trying to force women to want a family with a homeless man. Edit: Seems people have different ideas on what qualifies as obese. Perhaps I should have specified MORBIDLY obese. A woman with a bit of padding can still be very attractive, especially if she has an amazing personality and sense of humor. What I'm talking about when I say obese are the land whales. The women who look more like a bloated plucked turkey than they look like a woman. I'm also not saying being obese makes you a bad person. If anything, you've probably felt much pain and are probably very compassionate and forgiving. Also, gotta love the people in the comments who are all, "well actually, I knew this ONE guy..." yeah, one guy, because he's the exception, NOT the rule. Just like I'm sure if you dig hard enough you'll find a woman who married a homeless man. There are over 7 BILLION people on this planet, so statistically yes, you'll find some odd couples whom defy human nature when it comes to selecting a mate. Doesn't mean it's common place.
Excuse me for saying it. But these are genuinely white men's problems. Most black men like a thick woman and have to problem with them sexually or otherwise.
This reminds me of a man who went to my church who started being attracted to an obese woman instead of his usual choice of fit women when his father died and his male mentor moved out of state because he wanted to become lazy and quit all of his successful ways. He turned down fit women and fat women with good careers and just stuck with one fat lazy stupid creepy woman with an easy career that she half-assed who lived with her parents, and he deteriorated into a more and more pathetic loser.
@DAVO CAMPBELL That girl didn't even have huge boobs. She had small boobs with added fat that made them medium. Meanwhile, our church had plenty of fit women with all different sizes of boobs. The church also had a few fat women who were hardworking and responsible. He purposely chose the lazy fat woman because she encouraged him to be incredibly lazy in the extreme whereas any other woman would expect him to have a life and not be boringly inactive. After his dad died, his male mentor (associate pastor/ leader of the young adults group) moved to Alaska, and then that man died within a few years. The guy reverted back to the way his mother had spoiled him to be, and that fat lazy stupid woman must be similar to his ridiculous mother.
I know so many women who don't take care of their bodies and look like blobs. Not to be mean but it makes dating hard. Especially when you're into fitness.
Exactly, I quit dating apps because 75% seemed overweight and the other 20% were average and only 5% or so in good shape. And this is in the young demographic 18-27. That 25% is getting swamped with matches making difficult to match with and I consider myself a top 25% guy. It's rough out there.
Girls/women in my country, they're either too thin, or too thick. When they are too thin, you can literally see that they have no Breasts, at all. In Vietnam, we men have a quote for that, it is "Back to back is a crime", to describe the "Two walls" of women in our country. They may look pretty in the faces, but they look flat at both the back and the front. Not to mention the hips and other stuff....they got nothing fit, because they're too skinny. Personally for me, when i look at girls in my country, i am like "Can this A cup be changed into at least C cup???" And don't forget "Skinny Fat" is a thing as well. For thick women, they are too fat, and it is like......impossible to ... you know, "Doing actions" with them. In short, the one thing thin + thick body women have in common, is that they both don't take care of their bodies, at all. Fit women in my country do exist, however they're too rare. Only a few of them are fit, not to mention the breast size of women in my country is basically A cup, to find C cup is like finding needle in the haystack.
Aside from sizing, runway models are supposed to look generally identical and not stand out. The purpose of runway shows is for industry buyers to purchase inventory, so they last thing a designer wants is for the buyers to be distracted away from the clothes. This means no big boobs, butt, etc. Basically, they're just vaguely human-shaped, moving coat hangers.
As a former model I agree. We were even told that by our instructor who was a former model. She said models are not supposed to have great bodies as it would distract from what they were wearing and that they are just "clothes hangers".
Runway models are a gay man's ideal of how a woman should look so that the clothes he designed can hang on her easily. It's a wonder that they're allowed to have curve at all Swimsuit/lingerie models are typically more like a heterosexual man's fantasy ideal, though they still tend to be on the tall/skinny side because "elegant" lines evoke a classier image which sub-consciously implies more expensive clothing.
That's true! I even heard on talk radio that this was the reason that the fashion industry started hiring waif-like models a century ago. They purposely planned to use models whose bodies wouldn't be sexy enough to distract from the clothing, which was supposed to drape loosely over beanpole bodies.
I'm a young woman who was obese most of her life bcs of binge overeating i am openly admitting that losing 27 kg made me happier, more pretty and much healthier. No women or guy is happy when he/she is obese or even overweight. I learnt from having love for sweets and being lazy to have love for running and working out or generaly being active. I enjoy much more having healthy diet and cook good stuff than eating shit that made me obese and tired all the time. Even better that i decided to change in my teen years bcs i have no excess skin left after losing all that weight. I'm very far from perfection, i still have bit of mom bod but i am trying my best and enjoying myself in that unhealthy world. It totally doesn't suprise me that guys want slim women over fat ones bcs when i lost weight and starter caring about myself, i also want a guy who is more or less in good or average shape than a guy who is overweight or obese.
Danny Wade facts. Most Japanese (and East Asians in general) are skinny-fat and the diets of East Asians are extremely overrated in terms of health. This does go to show, however, that being super fit isn’t a requirement to longevity.
@Gerry C you’re right about Hispanics. I guess this goes back to OP’s point about fat acceptance in the West being the biggest factor. East Asians would undoubtedly be fatter given their diet if the culture was more accepting.
@@decoyaardvark2828 the person that I was replying to had their comment deleted, but basically he said that he lived in Japan (probably Tokyo) for a while and commented that for those in the city, people eat processed foods high in carbs frequently. If you ever go to a Japanese supermarket, you’ll see packaged foods everywhere and most of them aren’t healthy. The average life span is calculated high because of the healthier habits of the older population. The only things keeping millennials and younger “healthy” are the low obesity rates (due to fat shaming culture), relatively low hard drug use rates, and easy access to healthcare. Additionally, Japanese workers often develop alcoholism issues due to the culture of drinking for work. It’s awful and not praise-worthy.
It drives me crazy when cat men and women say that it is okay because they are "fit". Sure, at 20 you might get away with it but in reality you are banking a whole heap of trouble for the future. My mother died of having been fat most of her life. She drowned in her old lymph fluids and it was a terrible death. Please, attraction aside, look after yourselves
Well, in the end, it's everyone's choice and responsibility. No one can be forced to be healthy. The real problems come from 2 things: 1: Some obese women (and yes, just women. Men might or might not try to do the same, but they can't get away with it because of double standards) think they can demand that good-looking guys find them attractive. At the same time, they themselves turn down obese (or even just overweight) men. You can't force attraction. 2: The body positivity movement doesn't preach that it's your choice to be obese, they preach that it's fine and healthy to do so, that there is literally nothing wrong with it - but reality disagrees. There is something wrong with it: It's terrible for your health. Again, it's everyone's choice to do that to their own health, but deluding yourself into thinking there is no problem is wrong - and deluding OTHERS into thinking there is no problem is downright evil.
How does The Rock do it? With steroids, the same as many Hollywood actors. Yet women claim they are the only ones who have to attain “unrealistic body standards”
Yes... I heard an interview with a trainer for super hero actors. Most of them take stuff... This is not normal, and even fat girls expect men to look like that nowadays. Just look at athletes who do sports for a living all day for 8h. They look great but not like this.
The Rock also grew up in an athletic family and has probably been lifting since he was an early teen - working out is his lifestyle. But yes, huge roider. And more likely a cocktail of roids, TRT, and HGH.
@yourFBIagent He was always listed at 275 lbs in his peak circa 2000. By 2006 when he stepped away from wrestling he went down to I think 230. Now he looks bigger than he ever was in wrestling so he's at least 280.
Kelly Brook, even as a larger gal, still looked amazing to my eyes. I have dated all through the spectrum it seems, and my preference isn't what I thought it would be at all. I always thought that the slimmies with big bobs and juicy booty were "it", but I found them to be stale and boring and far too high maintenance for my liking. I went with a slightly bigger frame, but she had to have a face I could see myself waking up next to. I have been engaged to one after 6 years, and with one to this day for over 13. Looks are great and all, but they pale next to a personality and ambition. Looks fade - the rest doesn't.
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"I went with",, LOLOL, what a dipshit you are, no wonder women treat you like shit
Honestly the supply for "plus size" models is pretty smart. In America the avg person is overweight and the avg money spender is a woman. Therefore having these whales makes your brand more appealing
Except these brands only do it occasionally to virtue signal. Most of their ads are slim attractive women. Watch ads - it’s the overweight, unattractive person - men snd women - using the inferior product. The better looking in shape person is the one using the ‘right’ product.
As I always say, the expectations that women think that exist and that they're "oppressed" by because of "society" is 100% inside their own heads. If you look at the ideal figure for a woman that both men and women consider ideal, the one women consider ideal is almost always more thin, petite, etc. than the one that men think is ideal. They invented the expectations and have now reacted by jumping to the other extreme where obesity is now "beauty."
I mean if you look into why girls even had/have the petite ideal ingrained into them, you might find that it can in fact stem from the actions of several or a few really terrible men. For example: a father who sexualizes his daughter and consistently compares her to various hourglass shaped models in magazines, criticizing the differences and praising the similarities. Or the creator of a doll that influences how young girls perceive what they are supposed to look like, or how about the representation of women in media and art. Please do try to think about who really puts it in their heads in the first place.
@@seaturtle155 People are responsible for what they think. Just because they are female they don't get a pass, and blame everyone but themselves. You are a typical female, dodging any and all responsibility.
@Seven V I always wondered if men think because their bodies burn more fat due to muscle automatically, if they understand females bodies don't. Now I have my answer thanks
I'm a single 57 year old woman. I hope this video is referring to younger men and women. I think the prospective will be a lot different when these same men hit 50-60 years old..... Throw in some wrinkles and loss of testosterone, estrogen and everything else and those in that category are screwed when it comes to being attractive to men or women.
That makes sense. Proverbs 5:18 Let your fountain be blesses and rejoice in the wife of your youth(the woman you married when you were young) So love your wife and stay with her and be loyal... It does not state that I have to marry a landwhale when I am in my 20s
I was wondering if this video was geared to younger people. Regardless of age or size, we should all take care of ourselves, and not for the sole purpose of finding a mate. I will be 55-years-old next month and I am still naturally slim; however, if I ever finally get curves I will still take care of myself.
The amount of texturing makeup these "plus-sized models" have to wear on their entire bodies to hide their cellulite even before photoshop editing weights almost as much as a grown healthy man. Guess all their "strength and empowerment" goes into lifting those tons of makeup they wear, and there isn't enough left to even be a decent person.
Women: Chubby, 30+, multiple abortions, on anxiety medication, many past partners, still friends with her ex. Also women: Why can't I find a good man? Me: Hahahahaha...... NOPE
Every single one of those is a disqualifier, but what's even more sad is the average one has or is at least three of those. No wonder marriage rates are down the drain.
Sad if it wasn't so true. Now the typical woman on the market this days in that age group, you forgot 1 or 2 care packages along with it and nothing is ever my fault mentality.
The fact this point needs to be made is absurd to me. Of course men don’t like overweight women. It’s really not that difficult to not be a tub of lard. I’m 5ft 5, 120 lbs 35-26-36 measurements. All I do is watch my weight, eat within reason and don’t sit on my ass all day.
I’m pretty sure it’s not always as simple as you make it out to be. There are so many more factors that can affect a person’s weight such as time, childhood, genetics, accessibility, metabolism, etc.
My measurements are about same except my hips are about 38 39. Always had big hips but my body is athletic since I workout 6 days a week. and I've had 3 kids and im almost 40! People can tell I'm in amazing shape and take care of myself. Gotta work at it. My hip bones jut out even at 38 39 inches. You can tell anatomically its not possible for my hips to be much smaller. Everyone is different. Genetics play the role in your shape and how big the bones are but you can shape up that shape and tighten it up.
Decades ago I read about research on attractiveness. Male preference is indeed hardwired; they had a group of men that judged several body shapes and more-or-less came to the same conclusion what they preferred. Here's the kicker though: they did the same test with men that have been born blind and they had to judge dummies of several different body shapes and their preference was exactly the same as the men that are not visual impaired.
@@michaelsorensen7567 If he read this decades ago before the web existed then there wouldn't be any links. If not, wouldn't it be just as easy for you to find it as it would be for him?
What you're saying might be poetic but it's not scientific. If you inject poison into your bloodstream you die. If you inject venom into your bloodstream, you die. Venom is poison.
@Dal Gurak yk like we can’t control our stretch marks or where our weight rlly goes.... and even if we are healthy and very skinny we will have stretch marks from maybe the past.
it's biology 101. big breasts signal abundant breastfeeding for offspring. wide hips signal optimal birthgiving. thin waist signals fitness, hence high chances of survival. a gut denotes low chances of survival. this goes back to caveman times in which a fat woman would not be able to escape danger, therefore the chances of survival are low. if you mate with such a woman, chances are your offspring would also have low chances of survival. when women shame men for being attracted to the ideal female body, they are going against evolution and nature itself. PS: I do not recommend you to play "hide the cucumber" with your cat...
The optimal body size has varied throughout history depending primarily on food scarcity. In scarce times like say the middle ages being portly meant you had the resources to be able to get that fat in the first place. In modern times you see the opposite as food is everywhere and easy to come by as it signals self control and overall health. That being said fat didn't mean then what it does today. You didn't really see morbidly obese people until more recent times. Chunky wold be a more apt term for what fat was then.
So in some African tribes where the women are traditionally obese (some even are force fed to gain more weight before marriage or trying to get pregnant) and considered ideal...hmm, they've just been wrong all this time. Their belief is that the extra weight shows they can afford enough to eat and will survive a famine, iirc.
@Lola Montez lady, i get what you're saying, but i'm not talking about the conscious mind, i'm talking about the subconscious mind: the most basal, reptilian instincts. that is what the female figure signals to the deepest of the male brain, even if a woman has fake boobs, even if there are decades of research that prove otherwise. it is how the male brain is wired and even we cannot change that.
@Lola Montez Well this isn't common knowledge for most people as they have little to no reason to know such things especially men who can't breastfeed to begin with. Historically speaking that is exactly how large breasts were viewed much like a large penis depending on the culture and time period in question. As was also stated in other replies we are talking about instincts which trump any and all modern science and innovation. Just because modern medicine has improved childbirth doesn't mean our instincts suddenly change as a species. There is a reason why men and women act how they do and view things the way they do. Lastly there is such a thing as a figure between a stick and a land whale you know for both men and women. Being fat especially when viewed through the lens of antiquity doesn't mean what it does today for better or for worse.
They’ only exist to showcase the clothes and most designers behind those fashion brands are gay who find thin female bodies more aesthetically pleasing
Nah. Men do prefer slim women but most models aren't "slim". They are boyish figured women who are then pressured by the industry to starve themselves until they are frail looking. While in normal clothes, they look sickly and not even near as attractive as women who are just on the low end of a healthy BMI.
the weird hormones they pump into food these days... eat the processed shit, and that is what you turn into... Land whales have not only given up on trying to have any impulse control, but also given up caring, it seems - too easy to be a victim, just get some sympathy from others like you online, and try and blame the world for what you realy are and / or calling you out for what you are... remember, for a woman, there is a legitimate career in equating feelings with money... and seeking to be compensated by others for feeling bad about yourself...
@Good Morning Sunday Morning Bullshit women have done heavy manual labour and led groups for people for millennia. Soft fragile sedentary women are a victorian england thing. I know women who are vendors and active from sun up to sundown and they are firm shapely women.
I like going to the gym. I go at least 3-5 times a week with my cousin. We see all types of people in the gym and nobody passes judgement on each other because everyone has different goals in the gym. "the more you put in, the more you get out of it."
Nah, I would overlook a few things If I coould actually find a decent human being to have a relationship with. But I guess everything has it's limits - if she has to turn sideways to do through a door, I'm going to pass.
@@brusso456 does this mean you can get all her stuff if she dies? If so, then time to dish out the heart attacks - and the best part is you don't need a Death Note for that. Even if the police suspect you're causing them, one can easily argue that such deaths are expected.
@@sabrinatiffany45 until she hogs all the money for groceries, medical bills, and health insurance - and I'm just getting started here. Even if money wasn't an issue, not only would you be an outcast for dating a landwhale, she'll end up dying real soon. - either from "Kira" (jumpscaring her to trigger a heart attack) or something else tied to her own health problems.
Body Positivity has ruled the ocean! All hail Mary Sue Queen of Whales and Elephant Seals! We must protect them for conservation, they are endangered by masculine whale hunters.
About 3 years ago, I was probably close to 400 lbs (My scale stopped at 350), and finally had enough. This morning I weighed in at 259.4. Goal is about 220-230, then I will start hitting weights/exercises more and build the muscles. I went from 54" pants to 42". It was waaaay more mental than physical for me, but I made the most difference in the last few months because I was "forced" by lack of options to eat different things and less of them. I'm not (as) fat anymore, but I'm still ugly. Don't think I can really fix that unless I go "full metro" and start wearing makeup to hide my actual face. Not gonna happen btw. lol
Best anyone can do is control what you can, forget about what you can't and be your best. Glad to hear about your weight loss and keep up the good work. I feel SO much better when I'm lighter and not carrying around dead weight.
@@BetterBachelor Absolutely. The first 30 even made a huge difference and the other day I actually did a toe touch for the first time in I don't even know. :)
Congratulations to you! Respect the hard work. Also, personality can go a really long way. Look at Patrice O'Neal and Bill Burr. The women who look at height and want a Ken doll should be avoided anyways. They are not even worth the hassle.
When women stop height shaming men, men will stop fat shaming women. At least one of the 2 can actually be changed with hard work and dedication. Fair enough?
Sleepy Mask True, but certainly not to the same extent, it's extremely hard work and will take a long time, also once you're over 25 IT IS OVER. Nothing to be done at that point except surgery. However it's never too late to lose weight. Those two are not comparable on a same level.
@@MrSurvivalgecoLP it depends on more than that. It depends at what stage of obesity you start, and it depends if there are genetic problems that make it harder. It can take years. So it is not as easy as switching to keto diets.
No guy needs that much muscle. A V taper with defined biceps and triceps (not huge), a flat stomach, and some leg muscle will put you in the top 10% of men easily. Don’t even need a gym. A few dumbbells and using your own weight. Jogging for the legs. Having said that, if you’re not 6’ you’re still going to have limited dating possibilities. Do it for yourself.
@Pumpinstein no it's not. Proportions stay the same, you are just smaller(have smaller muscles). 3:2 is a 1.5 proportion, 6:4 is a 1.5 proportion as well.
@@WestCoastAce27 As long as you are a good amount taller and overall bigger(wider?) than the girl she won't even think of your actual height, let alone asking you about height in person. To her, you are a giant. Of course, if it's stat matching on paper, then yeah, you are screwed.
Size does matter. Let's start with height. TH-cam has dozens of videos showing women `preferred` tall men. From interviews to cut clips during vlogs. Of course, those women who are liberals will say it doesn't matter. But it's just that they never dated anyone under 6 foot.
30 years ago they rightly started to call out how unhealthy it was to be too thin for very good reasons. Now some women want to normalize obesity in women.
I've seen the most during pregnancy believe that they can eat everything they want mostly unhealthy foods and have "permission" to get fat, but because of the hormonal changes it's so much worse eat whatever you want
@Sarah Rose people are only overtly considerate to women facing these issues of childbirth, especially in relation to weight issues during that time. But nothing ever excuses poor lifestyle choices well after the initial years of childbirth. 2-3 years is more thn enough to get back on track. Stop with the excuses.
@@zepter00 Depends how you count it. The UK is officially metric but we still use a lot of imperial measures. Human height and weight is usually done in imperial units.
@@Akm72 I know how it is in UK. I am from Poland and kg, meters, centemeters are in the whole Asia, Africa, Europe, South America. Metric is logic and universal.
Depends on the channel you go to honestly. The women I follow only encourage healthy weight. And youtube is at least ok. Instagram is flooded with people defending obesity for some reason.
But it's not okay. This is coming from a woman who is 5'4" at 208lbs. I exercise and eat healthy but can't seem to lose weight. I'm not diabetic, I am proportional (hourglass). My BMI is awful, which makes me feel awful mentally that I can't shed back down to 150 which according to the medical field is still overweight. But what matters to me is the fact that my husband loves me regardless how I sometimes feel about myself.
This is why kids need both a mom AND a dad. It is in a mom's nature to coddle their children, and this is great for their early years, and for later emotional support, but it must be balanced by the dad. The dad's role is to give it to their kids straight, to promote honesty not only with others, but with themselves, and to strive for excellence rather than settle for mediocrity. With both a mother and father, assuming they're well adjusted people and not spiraling towards divorce, a child grows up emotionally stable, has a solid foundation of ethics, and is motivated to improve areas of their life in which they find lacking. They treat people courteously, but not so much so as to be dishonest. These female channels telling morbidly obese people they're beautiful the way they are are actually doing more harm than good. Obesity is a very serious health issue, and to gaslight people into thinking it isn't is fucking evil. On the flip side, being an asshole about it won't do them any good, either. A well adjusted person can give it to you straight without sounding like a total jerkwad. You may not like hearing the truth, even when presented tactfully, but the truth is more important than a temporary dopamine hit.
yes....proportions matter! I like how u are referencing science and data. I do hope that overweight people can accept themselves if they cannot seem to lose the weight....but now it seems like some are trying to turn the table into making thin/normal weight people the abnormal ones!? I have almost always maintained a good weight with an hourglass figure (except during pregnancy) but it has taken plenty of EFFORT...no overeating and consistent exercise. furthermore, I'm not interested in subscribing to a ridiculous delusion that any human would be attracted to me at 150lbs or more ...I would sicken myself at that weight! (I'm 5'3" @ 115lbs)
I have a standup joke that in dating app profiles, women often use pictures from 5 years and 30 pounds ago. So this shows that they’re ashamed of having gained weight, but they’re still unreasonably picky and expect men to accept it.
@@NOBODY-fz3im I'm not saying men don't lie also. But, statistics show the hypergamy, that the women are also superficial and much shallower for what they are.
In general, when someone needs to tell you the "advantages" of something, it's probably not very good. Because if it was good they'd tell you the features instead, and let you come to the conclusion it's good. Who's ever need to write an article of the advantages about dating a man or woman with the body of a super model?
@@zachhensel8722 That's so funny! These masks will be the death of us before Covid will! Blind dates are foolishness unless you are so desperate that you don't care what her face looks like. Since you care, as do most people, you shouldn't go on blind dates.
“I’m not fat I’m curvy!!!” Uh huh so in other words.. “ I want to lose weight but diet and exercise are hard work, so I made a sign saying fat is beautiful.”
@Perverted Alchemist Kelly Brooke's hourglass figure is "curvy"! It means having some or all of the following traits: big bones, wide hip bones, big butt muscles, big thigh muscles, big boobs, and a small waist to form the midpoint of the hourglass. "Curvy" is not supposed to mean "fat".
Joker, thank you so much for how kind you were about weight. You are the nicest person I've ever heard describe weight. You're truly an amazing person man
Not identity politics...liberalism in general hurts who it claims to help. Malcolm X once said white liberals were a greater threat to African Americans than the Clan (I know, I deliberately misspelled it--stupid YT censorship).
Wow! Men are attracted to healthy women? No way. Its almost like before all of this technology everyone was rather slim (compared to average American).
Even most men who like bigger women don't want them looking like her. They still have standards/preferences and they usually want their women to have a shape to her body (like past plus sized models had) nice skin, pretty face, dress feminine and have a nice personalty. Not all saggy and lumpy, dressed like a dude with a crap personality and attitude.
Some female model Tweeted the other day: The thing is, shapely women are beautiful; Marilyn Monroe, Sophia Loren. But these days shapely doesn't mean shapely, it means clinically obese and society is telling you it's okay to placate your feelings. By the way - I am British and I don't know Kilos. Most of us know stones or pounds. (14lbs to a stone).
Liberals are masters of Wordplay. When they can’t win on Issues (most of the time) they resort to redefining words and gaslighting. They get celebrities to push these new definitions. Unfortunately many less educated and young people fall for it.
@@WestCoastAce27 Dead right. Also, in my obseravtion most celebrities are really not very intelligent. Years ago this wasn't so obvious, but now with them opening their mouths on social media it's very apparent. Most of them are really stupid.
What younger women don't understand is they have a 10 to 15-year window to get and achieve what will affect them for the rest of their lives, for the most part. This is a generalization but accurate. It's up to each woman in her 20's to decide the outcome of the rest of their lives. Men have another decade to figure it out. It's not fair, and all the crying from the feminists won't change it but in my opinion, it's up to the older women to give the younger ones the wisdom on this. If you want a family someday don't spend 10 years getting pumped and dumped. It will ruin how you think. Live your life and prepare yourself to be a good woman and you will be a good wife and mother and will be ready and prepared when that GOOD man comes into your life. Disassociate your family from the culture in this country, home school if possible, and you will be happy if that's the life you want. If you want to be a career woman, do it, but trying to be both usually doesn't work out. That's where the feminists screwed up. Just my humble opinion...
@@granthill2980 You're spot on. We are living in a time when ideology has supplanted human human nature. I saw a woman a while ago on social media joked that the way it's going women would be better off going back to the days when their fathers' chose them a husband because they're not doing a very good job of it themselves. The feminists went NUTS!
Nope not when he isn't working. He's samson and black have you seen his dad and maternal grandpa? He's naturally muscular. But if he plays a role and puts on more than five pounds of muscle in six months then yes it's steroids.
@@hainleysimpson1507 Just because he is *Samoan* and black doesn't mean he has some kind of supernatural ability to pack on muscle. The fact is that his dad was also on steroids. You can't get THAT big without it. Especially when you are THAT big AND shredded at all times.
@Michael Yeah yeah. Of course it still takes hard work. But that wasn't the question. The question was "How does he get so big while staying so lean all the time?" and the ONLY way that can happen is with exogenous hormones.
@@KurNorock I know it's not supernatural. Truth is some people depending on where their ancestors came from will either have higher endurance or higher strength than average, and on top of that you have individual genetic variation.
I was at the Beach this summer. There was 2 Land Whales, one was 70 lbs overweight, the other 150 lbs overweight. They were both taking about wanting to be "Thick". I was so tempted to say "you both already are thick", but they probably would have screamed R*p*, to which I would have responded , "I do not do requests".
If for my girlfriend or a life partner I only have two choices available - a whale or my right hand, I going for the hand every time. I will leave the other choice for other guys and I won't ever feel envious. The future is all yours, whale loving dudes.
Whale? No that's insulting to real whales. You have to deal with puffer fish, they puff up with their spikes to poison you if you trigger their insecurity. You are dealing with Mrs. Puff....
@@kumikoloh9190 Yes, I thought it over and I agree, that was inconsiderate thing to say, I sincerely apologise to all the actual whales. Because whales are beautiful creatures, and thinking of it, I would definitely rather date an actual whale than any of the "300lb of strong and independent feminism".
Agree. And I’d go further and say guys who date really fat chicks should get a tax break. Already a lot of psycho Karens; think how bad it would be if no fat chicks got dates.
The way I am, I give a girl a chance regardless of her appearance. There's no point in dating a 10 woman that acts like a witch when you can date a solid 7 woman that treats you like you're royalty.
So agree with all you are saying. It is difficult to lose weight, hard to stay on a diet, maddening to tell yourself no every day. But, when you do, you will never look back. It is so worth it! I don't want to admit this but since I really started taking care of myself, guys look at me all the time. And I'm not young, but hubby calls me his trophy wife 😂.
Woman: size matters.
Man: I agree, size matters
Woman: REEEEEEEEEE!!!
Hahaha
When it comes to dick size, size matters but when it comes to a woman's size, size doesn't matter, ironic there's so little you can do to your dick size but a lot can be done to your weight
i always knew dio was a woman
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@@sokoyaadedolapo5321 have you thought that maybe the dick aint the problem? maybe the vagene is just too LAAAAAARGE~ huh? maybe that was the problem from the very beginning
"Labeled her as morbidly obese." Morbidly obese isn't a label. It's a diagnosis.
She is an insult to the label.
@Lola Montez Still a diagnosis. Still an unhealthy condition. Also unattractive.
@Lola Montez Well, she was 20 when we married, more thin than I actually preferred at the time, bore me 2 sons, and now, 20 years later, is about 30 lbs heavier than she was then. It's actually kind of nice, she put on the weight in all the right feminine places and I think she's hotter now than when we first got together.
You're right, nobody was making me date fat women then, and nobody would be able to now. My wife actually asked me what would happen if she got fat, back in the day, since we communicate like reasonable human beings rather than assume things and lay out random accusations. I told her our sex life would come to a screeching halt, but that I'm not one to abandon my marital vows. Thanks to her conscientiousness and self-control, I haven't had to find out what that situation is like.
I wouldn't have to compete with 100% of men...I never really have. When offers have come in over the years, it's women that have just kind of thrown themselves at me - though not obese women, I think they know they don't have a chance. If anything, I tell men to stop competing over women or going to extravagant lengths to impress them, that it's not worth the effort. Better to find someone of value (physical and ethical) that reciprocates rather than leeches.
@Lola Montez She often watches these videos with me. As with many critics of these types of video, you're mischaracterizing what Joker does, and "catastrophizing" what I originally said in my OP. In the OP, I was trying to point out that "obese" and "morbidly obese" aren't insults or "awful names" - they're diagnoses. Just because the truth is uncomfortable, doesn't mean anyone here is dishing out "hate" by pointing out the fact that someone is obese, nor is it "hate" to find that sort of body type unattractive - just a personal preference.
She hasn't really said if she would stop having sex with me if I got fat. I don't intend to, though staying in shape isn't as effortless as when I was younger.
As for being a Greek god, no, never been that (though a LOT better endowed than the ancient Greek statues and paintings - probably a contributing factor to my confidence and animal charm). And it's not like every woman swoons at my entrance or presence. Just that I've never had to put any effort into it. The offers, some of them quite bold and straight-forward (i.e. "throwing themselves" at me), come in sometimes. They don't rain from the sky on a daily basis, nor do I command the lust of every woman I encounter. But they do come in, and when they do, it's without effort on my part. That's all that means.
I am one of the happiest guys on earth, probably. If you count contentedness and appreciation for what I have as "happy." I watch these types of videos from Joker because they are a calm, reasonable discourse that is a nice break from the politicized, misandric, irrationality of mainstream productions I see elsewhere. Finding out what people are doing and thinking in relationships (or avoiding relationships like Joker recommends) these days helps keep my relationship in perspective, and helps me and my wife give good advice and guidance to our sons. Being informed about various philosophies or positions isn't about pursuing hate or oppressing anyone. It's about learning the different things people are thinking and talking about, all the while making up my own mind about it.
And, I already told you. Wife's a total hottie. She gets plenty of demonstrations of my affection and attraction. ;)
@Lola Montez Videos with wife: We discuss them. She disagrees with some points, agrees with others. Same as me. You appear to be using a definition of "pure hatred" that doesn't really reflect the reality of these conversations. Most of the time I see the term "hate speech" it's someone (on the left) irritated that the speaker has a set of different political or ethical values than the person employing the epithet. For example, you use the term "violently hate all fat women" and I have never seen an example of this - never once ever seen or heard of anyone who will physically attack a woman because he hates the fact that she's fat. Now, you may be equating the term "I would never have sex with a morbidly obese woman" or "I think fat women are gross" with "violent hatred," but that's not attached to reality. There's also a huge difference between characterizing a woman in her 40s with 3 young children as not being particularly attractive to a man looking to establish a long-term relationship, versus saying she's "worthless." Joker's videos are usually pointing out how these kinds of women are complaining (citing sources) about not being attractive to the same kinds of men who they pulled down in their 20s.
Obesity: These vids sure do talk about male obesity. They say that men shouldn't remain obese, they should earn some self-pride, should go to the gym and get into good shape, adopt good nutritional habits, and stay in shape. This is a healthy kind of discussion, and to my reasoning is much better than celebrating obesity and artificially ascribing great beauty to a condition that comes with serious health ramifications. I haven't seen the term "land whales" thrown around with great frequency, except in the comments where anything goes. But, even if they are being as vitriolic as all that, that's their expression, to which they have a right. Not particularly civilized, and I make different choices. I can't remember a time when Joker used terms like this, though granted, I haven't seen all of his videos.
Greek statue: I'm exactly as conceited as a man who is in the 90th percentile of human male statistics should be, tempered by the performance feedback I've received over the years. It doesn't really matter if you believe me or not, the only reason I brought it up is in response to what you had written.
Joker/Better Bachelor: Even when he's been angry, he's been remarkably calm. And the term I used is "reasonable," not "reassuring." He has reasons for his positions, and he states them, and discusses why he holds certain positions, again, based on those reasons. And it doesn't really matter how old he is, whether or not he pursues a relationship, can hold one down or is anyone's idea of a success or failure - arguments are genderless and ageless. Even so, Joker's not a prophet or a role model, nor does he cast himself as such. He's just a guy having a conversation, and sometimes those conversations have personal stories and the lessons he's learned from them. I can form whatever good or crappy opinion I have about him personally, but that opinion won't - and shouldn't - affect my intellectual honesty in the discussion.
Happiness: expanding awareness of everything out there contributes to true happiness, rather than living in a limited worldview or echo chamber. I appreciate that you'd have an eye out for my happiness, considering I'm a complete stranger on the internet, but as I stated before, I'm probably one of the happiest guys on earth anyway. I got here by working hard, asserting my well-reasoned truths when I needed to, and managing it myself.
Anyone using the term "my truth" is immediately dismissed from serious conversation.
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Finally someone else said it.
thanks, at last
"That right....but I FEEL it isn't so 😢"
Sorry ladies but everyone should have less chins than fingers.
what if It's a double hand amputee?
@@salty465 bruh, you just blew my mind 🤪
that goes with my saying "she's got more Chins than a Chinese Phonebook!
@bsharrard and yet democrats (CNN) have been referring to Trump as "clinically obese".
@@muskokamike127 hahaha I have to remember that one
it's really ironic that women will call a man sexist for wanting thin woman but yet most women want a man who's 6' tall. Your weight is controllable but your height isn't
A wise man once taught me..
''We don't see things the way _they_ are. We see things the way _we_ are.''
And that's not even getting into their waist to hip ratio, breast size, perkiness, etc. If men really wanted to we could demoralize even an average woman like they do an average man, but we're not that shallow.
Actually in China some people get surgery/treatment to get longer legs. The report I watched was about a young woman, though.
Funny thing is. You don't see a lot of women that are with fat guys unless he has money. You don't even see fat women with fat guys. Just look at TLC. There is a whole track of fat women with husbands who weight less than they do. When it comes to being shallow about being fat. Women are no better.
@Verde1993 I get it what they're saying to a certain extent with height being bad genetics, but the thing is they're even saying average 5'8" to 5'9" isn't good enough even though they're average in appearance themselves. So why would a guy with good genetics choose a woman with average genetics? That's where the disconnect with reality lies.
I’m a girl and I actually learn so much from these types of videos from a male perspective.
Same, guys aren’t open enough about what they want in girls these days. But one thing is certain, staying healthy and in shape is always good
I have found that most guy friends will actually answer these questions if they are asked. The wide variety of responses is amazing and educational. One size does not fit all.
Yes girl me to i love to take it and use it to my advantage.... And im married lol😘
Same here🙋♀️ ... and I’d just like to add that I’m married too for 13 years now☺️ sometimes I gotta brush up on the male perspective so I don’t chase him away😆
@@kc6384 I worry about chasing mine away and we have a very close trusting relationship but sometimes you can't help but think about it and I believe that's a good thing because that's what keeps us from going overboard and acting in ways that will chase them away
If women are allowed to only date 6"0 men, men are allowed to date whatever size they want. Equality. Also you can't control physical attraction.
Tell your friends
@@anon7596 I only have a few but I am telling them 100%.
I love the whole "You can't help who you're attracted to!" argument when applied to gay people. However, the same people who yell that, will in the next breath, dictate to straight men that something is wrong with them for being attracted to attractive women.
Yeah...like you are any different.
@@AnthonySforza I can't say I get it either.
I love how people will shake their fists and yell until blue in the face about how attraction isn't a choice, when applied to Gay people. Yet then, after getting their breath back, turn around and castigated straight men for finding attractive women... Well, attractive.
Or these simps chasing old bags who think other guys shouldn’t go after young attractive women.
People saying being gay isnt a choice is just stupid. Its a choice it may just be a subconscious one
Attraction is not a choice. *shrugs*
I wouldn't expect sanity from the modern feminist movement tho
@@thedeity6865 The SJWs say that gender is a social construction. They say that even if you are born with pen*s you can be a woman, and vica versa. Then that means being gay/lesbian is just as mucha social construction and that chose to be attracted to the same gender. So that means they can all chose to be straight as well.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Healthy is not.
All this "plus size" garbage illustrates a quote I heard one time, "most people would rather be ruined by praise than saved by criticism."
It’s why Heart Attack Grill was created. The owner is actually a trainer, but he realized most people don’t want to her the truth (lose weight). So he gave them a restaurant to fulfill their true desire (eat like a pig).
And he insults the customers too. People actually love being praised for gluttony. So strange
Men just want an attractive woman who is reliable and not bat shit crazy!
I'll even slide on the attractive department to get the other two.. but a 17 year marriage with that proved it doesn't matter in the end
Ha! Good luck!
Finding a woman who is attractive, reliable, and not bat shit crazy is like finding the proverbial needle in a haystack.
This man is direct and straight to the point 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
And puts out, many horny young men make the mistake of marrying with the intention of not having to look for hook ups anymore.
Big mistake
*BIG MISTAKE*
I was very heavy 5 Months ago, 310 pounds. I started to change my Diet and working out, now i'm at 250 and i want to continue shrinking. 💪
@Good Morning Sunday Morning Thank you, it slowed down a bit now, but thats just normal i guess.
How tall are you? Im in a similar position...covid weight 🥴 in 6’2.
@@kalstonii 177cm thats between 5'9 and 5'10 i think
Keep it up! Awesome work!
Hail yeah!
My ex wife used to say she was fat. Finally in a bad fight I got brutally honest with her she’s not fat she’s morbidly obese. Like Jabba the Hutt from Star Wars. Or a melted candle . I’m usually not that mean but she had been cheating and got huge so I had had enough.
Yeah leave her
@@tommyrow1911 oh i did years ago.
RMA Studio I don't blame you and I can totally relate. Its just laziness. Mine used to take weight off when she fell in love (with anyone else).
Fuck it, I'm not judging 😂
Her description is funny 😁
I feel like we’re slowly moving to a society like the one in Wall-E, where obesity is just the norm. Which is not a good thing
The movie WallE also has this idea of technology will solve everything and it doesn't. I'm fearful that we are heading that direction.
Banzai, "moving slowly"? Brudda, we are there. We've been in "Obesastan" for a very long time.
we're already there.....everywhere i go...even a lot of young girls are overweight.....SAD
I don't see the big deal with dieting, you save money on your groceries, you carry less home from the supermarket, you store less at home, you cook less food, you get positive results by doing less, less eating, more dieting.
Obesity is already the norm! That’s why chicks who are in good shape think their $hit don’t stink!
"Plus size" was never hot.
Alot of guy's have a fetish for fat women trust me
FUCK YEAH!
@Pumpinstein
As a Mexican, I can say that's true. That's extremely common where I'm at.
it was in Greece do ur fucking research
I suggest you google _Ashley Graham_ and click "Pictures"... She is plus size.
Basically men like hourglass and women like muscular. This is nothing new. Marylin Monroe and Marlon Brando were not the sex symbols of their time for nothing.
And Marilyn Monroe got rejected by a New York modeling agency, told that she should work as a secretary or get married (without working).
She's not even close to the perfect hourglass. To be the perfect hourglass in 2020 ,you gotta meet way higher standards. Sorry I'm just spittin facts.
james - that’s absolutely not true, of course she was an hourglass.
Grown men know that real women don’t look like photoshopped Instagram whores so I don’t think the standards have changed at all. We are all programmed to like certain shapes from the opposite sex. This is evident in the muscled men and curvaceous women of ancient Roman and Greek art. Nothing has changed.
@@cosmic-creepers9207 'Photographed instagram 'whores''' lmao the coping. Marilyn Monroe might have been considered close to hourglass back then, but not all in 2020. And my girlfriend is very close to the perfect hourglass/slimthicc, she doesn't even have to workout much (her bone structure is naturally hourglass, she got the perfect genes lol),they are rare, but they are gems 😍. Same with me, I don't have to workout much, I'm naturally kinda muscular. Just a week in the gym and I can gain back everything I loose(when I don't work out).
@@jakonjhn im kinda jealous of your gf...I'm built like a ruler
Women say accept me as I am but won't accept a man unless he makes 6 figures, tall, has good looks, and have some type of fame or status
Yes sir, women today want it all, but do not feel as though they should have to bring much of anything to the table except themselves.
I prefer shorter guys, I don’t expect a guy to do anything I’m not willing to do myself, and I don’t give a shit whether a guy is famous, rich, or not.
Not all women have the same standards, and not all women have the same values, and personally I think it’s totally fine for people to not be physically attracted to all people. It’s not like the goal is to be in a romantic relationship with everyone in the world, it’s usually just to find one really great person for the individual person.
Precisely. What kills me is when they are unintelligent selfish whiney boring and or shallow yet want to be loved for it.
Makes me grateful that I'm a short man.
Actions speak louder than words
"Only 4 More Years." Bro this is just the beginning. The American political system has LOST ITS MIND. It's only going to get worse.
Mr Obvious !
there's no going back to the 20th century, even if all our 'representatives' spent the majority of their lives there.
@Ryan Lockett lol
Mr Obvious what are you doing here? Lol you are always welcome here.
@Ryan Lockett It's the whole system, because the whole system tolerates the left
I just stopped dating and really stopped caring.. I look at the eye candy and just remember the damage they've done over time, and stay happily single.
Sad
@@pascalelandry8630 nothing sad about it, nothing better than freedom and peace of mind. I'll take that over drama, head games and misery any day.
i stopped chasing women in high school when i realized my instinct to prove i was a quality mate was capable of making me a simp. i don't like being manipulated, and i noticed how easy it was to be manipulated by pretty classmates.
didn't realize the full impact of my new philosophy... but apparently i don't get much attention if i'm not making a fool of myself for a woman.
then i hear wonderful vindication from this channel & reminders that their attention is a nuisance.
I dunno. I’ve had enough skinny / cute girls over the years, I don’t prioritize body type anymore. If a woman is sweet, loyal, and genuinely a good person that I enjoy being around then I’ll find something sexy and cute about her. Within reason lol. Chubby mom bod is fine, outright obese.. not so much.
Could be called simping too
Dean Gerber you know you’re using that word wrong right
This is one of the few decent remarks here. Good for you. You sound great. Yes, women are also human beings with other qualities to consider. Both genders need to just be nice to each other and appreciate what we all bring to the table.
That's a good way of looking at it I think.
@@deangerber1797 simps get women lol
Woman: "I only date men over six feet tall."
Man: "I only date women who are height/weight proportionate."
Woman: "REEEEEEEEEEEE! Stop body-shaming us!!"
The only reason men aren't throwing rhetoric back at them is because we're too busy being self sufficient adults-- too busy working to talk at people who won't listen and don't care.
Me: "Boo!"
Landwhale: (heart stops)
Me: "That's right, I am Kira."
Red_Five “that’s right i am , inevitable
@Lola Montez That's my point. Women have no problem body-shaming shorter men, but get mad when men body-shame them.
@Lola Montez Soooo...you are actually going to claim that there not women who reject men because of their height because YOU personally haven't heard any women talk about it? Really?
I am talking about how women body-shame men, but turn around and get mad when men body-shame women. And you are going to mock them as 'incels'?
I am glad to hear you are not personally as shallow as many women are in the Tinder age, but that does not mean these women don't exist. It also does not mean men don't get body-shamed as well.
The idea that women are somehow above engaging in this sort of petty cruelty is absurd. There are 'ideal' standards of beauty on both sides...not just for men. Women want a guy who is 6'+, has a six-pack, has a full head of hair, etc. Nobody wants someone who looks unhealthy, be it a man or a woman.
I am not short. I have not experienced this. But I know men who have.
Be a healthy person. Mind, body and spirit, if no one wants to date you then keep moving on in life. Don’t put work in just to get a woman. Shallow beginnings leads to shallow endings. Build a foundation of rock and live life with character. Be like nature intended you to be, nature is not a people pleaser nor does it wait for anyone.
Good hips = capable of safe birth
Big breasts = strong children
Not fat = healthy
These are a few of the subconscious messages we get when we see beautiful women. It's just how we are.
@@alienturtle1946 its effectively the same thing
@@alienturtle1946 im aware but a well fed kid is more likely to be fertile, i know i failed biology but they're close enough right
Also shiny healthy long hair is a sign of fertility
Amen to that.
Alot of women are getting surgery to get big breasts and brazilian butt lifts to get hips.
You are still being fooled
When someone says "my truth" I stop listening
I cringe SO hard when somebody says "my/your truth", when they really mean "my/your bias/ignorance".
Just know whatever you find attractive, is normal. If a lot of men find the same thing attractive, it is very normal, if generations of men find something attractive, generations going far back to the Early years of civilization. Then it's the most normal thing in the world, no matter how they manipulate society to demonize that kind of attraction. You are not bad, you are normal
@Lola Montez google fetishes. I'm not saying some guys don't get turned on by fat women, hell there are people who orgasm seeing women stand in line desperately needing to pee. But not all men like fat women, like myself, I really don't, I love skinny or fit, but definitely petite women. And that's ok, I have that right to be me, I too deserve to be empowered to be me and love what I love and not love what I don't :) not just empowerment, but it is what it is, can't force to change what is naturally in each person. To try is wrong the and impossible. Just accept that you will find men who love you at first sight, others after they get to know you, and others who want nothing to do with you. Choose from the guys who want you, not from those who don't. And if in the future they change their minds for or against you, well it is what it is, just got to accept what you can't and shouldn't change.
@Lola Montez and another answer to your post, in ancient times only the rich could afford to get fat. And they had no concept of science based health. In the victorian era it was fashionable to have gout, if you had the biggest growth coming out of your big toe and face you were the most desirable man. Or longest neck in some countries. Point is if you want to be fat and the most desirable, go to those countries, talk to those men, not here, never me
@Lola Montez If the Willendorf figurines and similar carvings are fertility totems as believed, then they are most likely pregnant and not obese. Given how hard calories were to come by in prehistoric times, they probably didn't even have a concept of obesity in the first place.
p.s. more women are obese than men, look it up.
@Lola Montez lol
@Lola Montez lol
Land-whales: "REAL WOMEN HAVE CURVES!"
Me: "Curves, yes. Bulges, no."
loved the line from an old radio show. Someone asks the husband how he got his wife.
"It was all a matter of geometry. She had all the right curves, and I had all the right angles."
@ I say Michelin Mama. Double M thing.
🤣🤣🤣
@Lola Montez With a capital "YOU" and no @mention, not sure who this is referring to.
Who, in this thread, said that "only women get fat, but all men are slim"?
The topic of the video is the fact that most men do not find morbidly obese women attractive. This comment thread was started to mock the delusion of morbidly obese women who won't change their lifestyle and say that people who don't find them attractive are shallow asses.
But to address your assertion, I agree. Morbidly obese men who think they are healthy and attractive are in denial as well.
Curves, yes. Blow hole and fluke? No.
It's amazing how if you put the head of a feminist on the body of a manatee, you can't tell the difference... okay, that's a lie; the manatee becomes uglier.
The real problem is even the larger women out there are walking around with an entitled attitude. Back in the day big girls had to be nice to get attention but now these types are large and in charge.
Yeah, they used to be a reliable go-to - they would try hard on the first date, so you might call them for a second one... now, you're not good enough for them... soon, the govt. will be giving subsidised cats and free 'unatural hair colour' dyes to the landwhales as part of the entitlements package...
Juggernaut law boyos.
They ain’t in charge of anything except what they shove into their cake hole.
Yep, it’s a complete joke. Almost every woman has an attitude nowadays.
Yeah, they went straight from "What I lack in the looks department I need to make up in attitude and personality" to being so obnoxious and disgusting, you probably wouldn't fuck them even if they actually looked really hot.
Trying to force men to be attracted to obese women is like trying to force women to want a family with a homeless man.
Edit:
Seems people have different ideas on what qualifies as obese. Perhaps I should have specified MORBIDLY obese.
A woman with a bit of padding can still be very attractive, especially if she has an amazing personality and sense of humor. What I'm talking about when I say obese are the land whales. The women who look more like a bloated plucked turkey than they look like a woman.
I'm also not saying being obese makes you a bad person. If anything, you've probably felt much pain and are probably very compassionate and forgiving.
Also, gotta love the people in the comments who are all, "well actually, I knew this ONE guy..." yeah, one guy, because he's the exception, NOT the rule. Just like I'm sure if you dig hard enough you'll find a woman who married a homeless man. There are over 7 BILLION people on this planet, so statistically yes, you'll find some odd couples whom defy human nature when it comes to selecting a mate. Doesn't mean it's common place.
Goatacular: no, it's like forcing a tiger to go VEGAN.
But you're right: my Great Dane married a male dog because he was a great hunter.
Women don't want obese men either. Most women wouldn't date an obese man.
Excuse me for saying it. But these are genuinely white men's problems. Most black men like a thick woman and have to problem with them sexually or otherwise.
This reminds me of a man who went to my church who started being attracted to an obese woman instead of his usual choice of fit women when his father died and his male mentor moved out of state because he wanted to become lazy and quit all of his successful ways. He turned down fit women and fat women with good careers and just stuck with one fat lazy stupid creepy woman with an easy career that she half-assed who lived with her parents, and he deteriorated into a more and more pathetic loser.
@DAVO CAMPBELL That girl didn't even have huge boobs. She had small boobs with added fat that made them medium. Meanwhile, our church had plenty of fit women with all different sizes of boobs. The church also had a few fat women who were hardworking and responsible. He purposely chose the lazy fat woman because she encouraged him to be incredibly lazy in the extreme whereas any other woman would expect him to have a life and not be boringly inactive. After his dad died, his male mentor (associate pastor/ leader of the young adults group) moved to Alaska, and then that man died within a few years. The guy reverted back to the way his mother had spoiled him to be, and that fat lazy stupid woman must be similar to his ridiculous mother.
I know so many women who don't take care of their bodies and look like blobs. Not to be mean but it makes dating hard.
Especially when you're into fitness.
Breh that shit is so true
Ngl, a girl who’s into fitness is kinda hot
@@VarsVerum Superhot. Healthier.
Exactly, I quit dating apps because 75% seemed overweight and the other 20% were average and only 5% or so in good shape. And this is in the young demographic 18-27. That 25% is getting swamped with matches making difficult to match with and I consider myself a top 25% guy. It's rough out there.
Girls/women in my country, they're either too thin, or too thick.
When they are too thin, you can literally see that they have no Breasts, at all. In Vietnam, we men have a quote for that, it is "Back to back is a crime", to describe the "Two walls" of women in our country. They may look pretty in the faces, but they look flat at both the back and the front. Not to mention the hips and other stuff....they got nothing fit, because they're too skinny. Personally for me, when i look at girls in my country, i am like "Can this A cup be changed into at least C cup???" And don't forget "Skinny Fat" is a thing as well.
For thick women, they are too fat, and it is like......impossible to ... you know, "Doing actions" with them.
In short, the one thing thin + thick body women have in common, is that they both don't take care of their bodies, at all.
Fit women in my country do exist, however they're too rare. Only a few of them are fit, not to mention the breast size of women in my country is basically A cup, to find C cup is like finding needle in the haystack.
"Advantages of dating a plus size woman" is like writing an article called "Advantages of dating a broke ass dude"
My younger broke ass self takes offense to that.
You can spend a lot of time together...doing nothing.
💯
Well she'll keep you thin 'cause the fridge will always be empty.
I'm waiting for my "Advantages of dating a 5'7 dude" article
We like attractive, fit women, who would have thought? Like they dont think the same.
"I speak my truth"
=
"I'm a narcissist who can't separate fact from opinion, or handle any challenges to my world view"
The truth is immutable. The moment you start modifying it with pronouns, the truth becomes distorted by the lens of bias. It no longer is the truth.
"You are entitled to your own opinions; but you are not entitled to your own facts."
Mike Pence
"my" and "truth" doesn't go together. Except in 🤡 world
She is not lying. Her "truth " is that she is mordibly obese and she is not ashamed of being overweight. That does not mean anyone have to like her.
Aside from sizing, runway models are supposed to look generally identical and not stand out.
The purpose of runway shows is for industry buyers to purchase inventory, so they last thing a designer wants is for the buyers to be distracted away from the clothes. This means no big boobs, butt, etc.
Basically, they're just vaguely human-shaped, moving coat hangers.
As a former model I agree. We were even told that by our instructor who was a former model. She said models are not supposed to have great bodies as it would distract from what they were wearing and that they are just "clothes hangers".
Yes. Models are “hangers” for the clothes
Runway models are a gay man's ideal of how a woman should look so that the clothes he designed can hang on her easily. It's a wonder that they're allowed to have curve at all
Swimsuit/lingerie models are typically more like a heterosexual man's fantasy ideal, though they still tend to be on the tall/skinny side because "elegant" lines evoke a classier image which sub-consciously implies more expensive clothing.
That's true! I even heard on talk radio that this was the reason that the fashion industry started hiring waif-like models a century ago. They purposely planned to use models whose bodies wouldn't be sexy enough to distract from the clothing, which was supposed to drape loosely over beanpole bodies.
Then let's just make vaguely human shaped coat hangers instead of encouraging those who want to model into being unhealthy 😂🤷🏼♀️ there's an idea.
I'm a young woman who was obese most of her life bcs of binge overeating i am openly admitting that losing 27 kg made me happier, more pretty and much healthier. No women or guy is happy when he/she is obese or even overweight. I learnt from having love for sweets and being lazy to have love for running and working out or generaly being active. I enjoy much more having healthy diet and cook good stuff than eating shit that made me obese and tired all the time. Even better that i decided to change in my teen years bcs i have no excess skin left after losing all that weight. I'm very far from perfection, i still have bit of mom bod but i am trying my best and enjoying myself in that unhealthy world. It totally doesn't suprise me that guys want slim women over fat ones bcs when i lost weight and starter caring about myself, i also want a guy who is more or less in good or average shape than a guy who is overweight or obese.
Yep. Overweight may be a “choice” according to feminists, but it doesn’t stop the tons of bad diseases caused by being overweight
External health is an indicator of internal health.
This is mostly western women. Many many cultures put pressure on women to be thin. One example is japan.
Danny Wade facts. Most Japanese (and East Asians in general) are skinny-fat and the diets of East Asians are extremely overrated in terms of health. This does go to show, however, that being super fit isn’t a requirement to longevity.
@Gerry C you’re right about Hispanics. I guess this goes back to OP’s point about fat acceptance in the West being the biggest factor. East Asians would undoubtedly be fatter given their diet if the culture was more accepting.
and south korean
@@juliel4286 overrated? Japan has the number one lifespan in the world
@@decoyaardvark2828 the person that I was replying to had their comment deleted, but basically he said that he lived in Japan (probably Tokyo) for a while and commented that for those in the city, people eat processed foods high in carbs frequently. If you ever go to a Japanese supermarket, you’ll see packaged foods everywhere and most of them aren’t healthy.
The average life span is calculated high because of the healthier habits of the older population. The only things keeping millennials and younger “healthy” are the low obesity rates (due to fat shaming culture), relatively low hard drug use rates, and easy access to healthcare. Additionally, Japanese workers often develop alcoholism issues due to the culture of drinking for work. It’s awful and not praise-worthy.
It drives me crazy when cat men and women say that it is okay because they are "fit". Sure, at 20 you might get away with it but in reality you are banking a whole heap of trouble for the future. My mother died of having been fat most of her life. She drowned in her old lymph fluids and it was a terrible death. Please, attraction aside, look after yourselves
Well, in the end, it's everyone's choice and responsibility. No one can be forced to be healthy.
The real problems come from 2 things:
1: Some obese women (and yes, just women. Men might or might not try to do the same, but they can't get away with it because of double standards) think they can demand that good-looking guys find them attractive. At the same time, they themselves turn down obese (or even just overweight) men. You can't force attraction.
2: The body positivity movement doesn't preach that it's your choice to be obese, they preach that it's fine and healthy to do so, that there is literally nothing wrong with it - but reality disagrees. There is something wrong with it: It's terrible for your health. Again, it's everyone's choice to do that to their own health, but deluding yourself into thinking there is no problem is wrong - and deluding OTHERS into thinking there is no problem is downright evil.
"Advantages of Dating a Plus Size Woman"
There aren't any.
*credits roll*
You can make a life insurance for her and make some bucks...
She can probably give really good reviews on the quality of the Cookies/Cakes/Ice Cream I make though.
*CSI Miami’s “YEAAAAAH!” Plays*
Few things annoy me more than the term "plus size".
Yea, and they usually don't make up for it with a good personality.
Hourglass shape, to remind you that time is running out.
If a man's fat he's called fat. If a woman's fat, she's called "plus size". Talking about double standards.
Or they are called "curvy".
How does The Rock do it? With steroids, the same as many Hollywood actors. Yet women claim they are the only ones who have to attain “unrealistic body standards”
Yes... I heard an interview with a trainer for super hero actors.
Most of them take stuff... This is not normal, and even fat girls expect men to look like that nowadays.
Just look at athletes who do sports for a living all day for 8h. They look great but not like this.
Whatever he took affected his brain.
The Rock also grew up in an athletic family and has probably been lifting since he was an early teen - working out is his lifestyle.
But yes, huge roider. And more likely a cocktail of roids, TRT, and HGH.
@yourFBIagent He was always listed at 275 lbs in his peak circa 2000. By 2006 when he stepped away from wrestling he went down to I think 230. Now he looks bigger than he ever was in wrestling so he's at least 280.
Female solipsism
Kelly Brook, even as a larger gal, still looked amazing to my eyes. I have dated all through the spectrum it seems, and my preference isn't what I thought it would be at all. I always thought that the slimmies with big bobs and juicy booty were "it", but I found them to be stale and boring and far too high maintenance for my liking. I went with a slightly bigger frame, but she had to have a face I could see myself waking up next to. I have been engaged to one after 6 years, and with one to this day for over 13.
Looks are great and all, but they pale next to a personality and ambition. Looks fade - the rest doesn't.
"I went with",, LOLOL, what a dipshit you are, no wonder women treat you like shit
Women are hard wired to lover taller guys...and that's okay....but if we as men want fitter more in shape women...somehow that's shallow🤔🤔...?
Good point
My sister likes short guys.
Don't care about your height as longer as you're not a dipper.
Honestly the supply for "plus size" models is pretty smart. In America the avg person is overweight and the avg money spender is a woman. Therefore having these whales makes your brand more appealing
@Sarah Rose A depressing time and the fact more people die from obesity than starvation is even more shocking
@Good Morning Sunday Morning you need a mixture of everything, communism is too corruptable and captilism has a large wealth gap.
Except these brands only do it occasionally to virtue signal. Most of their ads are slim attractive women.
Watch ads - it’s the overweight, unattractive person - men snd women - using the inferior product. The better looking in shape person is the one using the ‘right’ product.
We are in antlantis, we are surrounded by whales
As I always say, the expectations that women think that exist and that they're "oppressed" by because of "society" is 100% inside their own heads. If you look at the ideal figure for a woman that both men and women consider ideal, the one women consider ideal is almost always more thin, petite, etc. than the one that men think is ideal. They invented the expectations and have now reacted by jumping to the other extreme where obesity is now "beauty."
I mean if you look into why girls even had/have the petite ideal ingrained into them, you might find that it can in fact stem from the actions of several or a few really terrible men. For example: a father who sexualizes his daughter and consistently compares her to various hourglass shaped models in magazines, criticizing the differences and praising the similarities. Or the creator of a doll that influences how young girls perceive what they are supposed to look like, or how about the representation of women in media and art. Please do try to think about who really puts it in their heads in the first place.
@@seaturtle155 People are responsible for what they think. Just because they are female they don't get a pass, and blame everyone but themselves. You are a typical female, dodging any and all responsibility.
@@seaturtle155 just dont get fat, its not that hard
@Seven V I always wondered if men think because their bodies burn more fat due to muscle automatically, if they understand females bodies don't. Now I have my answer thanks
@@ennuiblue4295 stop eating all those sweets, fattie!!!
I'm a single 57 year old woman. I hope this video is referring to younger men and women. I think the prospective will be a lot different when these same men hit 50-60 years old..... Throw in some wrinkles and loss of testosterone, estrogen and everything else and those in that category are screwed when it comes to being attractive to men or women.
That makes sense.
Proverbs 5:18
Let your fountain be blesses and rejoice in the wife of your youth(the woman you married when you were young)
So love your wife and stay with her and be loyal...
It does not state that I have to marry a landwhale when I am in my 20s
I was wondering if this video was geared to younger people. Regardless of age or size, we should all take care of ourselves, and not for the sole purpose of finding a mate. I will be 55-years-old next month and I am still naturally slim; however, if I ever finally get curves I will still take care of myself.
The amount of texturing makeup these "plus-sized models" have to wear on their entire bodies to hide their cellulite even before photoshop editing weights almost as much as a grown healthy man. Guess all their "strength and empowerment" goes into lifting those tons of makeup they wear, and there isn't enough left to even be a decent person.
All things being equal, fat people use more soap.
Women: Chubby, 30+, multiple abortions, on anxiety medication, many past partners, still friends with her ex.
Also women: Why can't I find a good man?
Me: Hahahahaha...... NOPE
She sounds like a real catch. Where do I sign up?
Every single one of those is a disqualifier, but what's even more sad is the average one has or is at least three of those. No wonder marriage rates are down the drain.
Sad if it wasn't so true. Now the typical woman on the market this days in that age group, you forgot 1 or 2 care packages along with it and nothing is ever my fault mentality.
jesus dude, did you meet my ex or something? you described her to a tee.
Suprised Pikachu face
The fact this point needs to be made is absurd to me. Of course men don’t like overweight women. It’s really not that difficult to not be a tub of lard. I’m 5ft 5, 120 lbs 35-26-36 measurements. All I do is watch my weight, eat within reason and don’t sit on my ass all day.
@Miguelle Landry is a perfect 10 cardio and watch the calories
I’m pretty sure it’s not always as simple as you make it out to be. There are so many more factors that can affect a person’s weight such as time, childhood, genetics, accessibility, metabolism, etc.
My measurements are about same except my hips are about 38 39. Always had big hips but my body is athletic since I workout 6 days a week. and I've had 3 kids and im almost 40! People can tell I'm in amazing shape and take care of myself. Gotta work at it. My hip bones jut out even at 38 39 inches. You can tell anatomically its not possible for my hips to be much smaller. Everyone is different. Genetics play the role in your shape and how big the bones are but you can shape up that shape and tighten it up.
@@jordyn.24 I agree with what you are saying, however many people just use those reasons you list as excuses.
Decades ago I read about research on attractiveness. Male preference is indeed hardwired; they had a group of men that judged several body shapes and more-or-less came to the same conclusion what they preferred. Here's the kicker though: they did the same test with men that have been born blind and they had to judge dummies of several different body shapes and their preference was exactly the same as the men that are not visual impaired.
How did the blind men judge the mannequins or whatever, by feeling them up?
@@Defender78 i guess so
@@Defender78 Is there another way? LOL
Link?
@@michaelsorensen7567 If he read this decades ago before the web existed then there wouldn't be any links. If not, wouldn't it be just as easy for you to find it as it would be for him?
Snakes are not poisonous, they are venomous: If you bite it and get sick, it's poisonous. If it bites you and you get sick, it's venomous :P
Vernom is Poisonous so snakes are poisonous in that regard.
What you're saying might be poetic but it's not scientific.
If you inject poison into your bloodstream you die. If you inject venom into your bloodstream, you die. Venom is poison.
What if I bite myself and I get sick. Would I be poisonous or venomous?
@@asandax6 Nahh, if you cut off a Rattlesnakes head, the body is delicious and not poisonous at all!
@@superchuck3259 I hear it tastes like chicken :P
Stretch marks are usually not bad. It's like having a mole or freckles. No big deal especially if they are in good condition.
90% of women have stretch marks
Guys can have stretch marks too lol
@Dal Gurak yk like we can’t control our stretch marks or where our weight rlly goes.... and even if we are healthy and very skinny we will have stretch marks from maybe the past.
@Dal Gurak Ik u can’t. Nobody can. But don’t say it’s disgusting. That’s pretty rude. It’s just not something u find appealing.
@Dal Gurak I umm wasn’t telling u what to do. I think u took it the wrong way my apologies. But have a nice day.
it's biology 101. big breasts signal abundant breastfeeding for offspring. wide hips signal optimal birthgiving. thin waist signals fitness, hence high chances of survival. a gut denotes low chances of survival. this goes back to caveman times in which a fat woman would not be able to escape danger, therefore the chances of survival are low. if you mate with such a woman, chances are your offspring would also have low chances of survival. when women shame men for being attracted to the ideal female body, they are going against evolution and nature itself.
PS: I do not recommend you to play "hide the cucumber" with your cat...
The optimal body size has varied throughout history depending primarily on food scarcity. In scarce times like say the middle ages being portly meant you had the resources to be able to get that fat in the first place. In modern times you see the opposite as food is everywhere and easy to come by as it signals self control and overall health. That being said fat didn't mean then what it does today. You didn't really see morbidly obese people until more recent times. Chunky wold be a more apt term for what fat was then.
So in some African tribes where the women are traditionally obese (some even are force fed to gain more weight before marriage or trying to get pregnant) and considered ideal...hmm, they've just been wrong all this time. Their belief is that the extra weight shows they can afford enough to eat and will survive a famine, iirc.
@Lola Montez lady, i get what you're saying, but i'm not talking about the conscious mind, i'm talking about the subconscious mind: the most basal, reptilian instincts. that is what the female figure signals to the deepest of the male brain, even if a woman has fake boobs, even if there are decades of research that prove otherwise. it is how the male brain is wired and even we cannot change that.
@Lola Montez Well this isn't common knowledge for most people as they have little to no reason to know such things especially men who can't breastfeed to begin with. Historically speaking that is exactly how large breasts were viewed much like a large penis depending on the culture and time period in question. As was also stated in other replies we are talking about instincts which trump any and all modern science and innovation. Just because modern medicine has improved childbirth doesn't mean our instincts suddenly change as a species. There is a reason why men and women act how they do and view things the way they do. Lastly there is such a thing as a figure between a stick and a land whale you know for both men and women. Being fat especially when viewed through the lens of antiquity doesn't mean what it does today for better or for worse.
Never had a fat girl as a girlfriend I prefer slim and toned
And for all the talk that toned women can look too manly, they NEVER have trouble meeting men. There are plenty of us who want them.
Models look the way they look because the clothes look great on those frames.
They’ only exist to showcase the clothes and most designers behind those fashion brands are gay who find thin female bodies more aesthetically pleasing
Nah. Men do prefer slim women but most models aren't "slim". They are boyish figured women who are then pressured by the industry to starve themselves until they are frail looking. While in normal clothes, they look sickly and not even near as attractive as women who are just on the low end of a healthy BMI.
@@girlwhoseeks Bs. Finding skinny women attractive doesn't make you gay.....
@@mickethegoblin7167 yes it does
@@girlwhoseeks explain
Most women walking around with weird bodyshapes. Broad shoulders?, belly and back fat, Wide flat butt.
the weird hormones they pump into food these days... eat the processed shit, and that is what you turn into... Land whales have not only given up on trying to have any impulse control, but also given up caring, it seems - too easy to be a victim, just get some sympathy from others like you online, and try and blame the world for what you realy are and / or calling you out for what you are... remember, for a woman, there is a legitimate career in equating feelings with money... and seeking to be compensated by others for feeling bad about yourself...
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The wide flat butt is so sad. All that fat and none of them went to the right place.
@@davidking3699 Most of us in the Caribbean don't eat processed food often and in large amounts unlike the US.
@Good Morning Sunday Morning Bullshit women have done heavy manual labour and led groups for people for millennia. Soft fragile sedentary women are a victorian england thing. I know women who are vendors and active from sun up to sundown and they are firm shapely women.
Men who are shamed into dating/marry someone they don't want are unhappy. Men, keep yourself healthy, workout, and don't fall any shame tactics.
I like going to the gym. I go at least 3-5 times a week with my cousin. We see all types of people in the gym and nobody passes judgement on each other because everyone has different goals in the gym.
"the more you put in, the more you get out of it."
Thank you for your comment 😊
True, I respect anyone who's willing to put in the work to make a positive change in themselves.
@@retrofuture1989 exactly. Great thing is it just doesn't stay in the gym, that same mentality carries over to everyday experience.
Nah, I would overlook a few things If I coould actually find a decent human being to have a relationship with. But I guess everything has it's limits - if she has to turn sideways to do through a door, I'm going to pass.
She can call herself whatever she wants, but no attractive guy is gonna go anywhere near a 300 pound woman...
No balloons
in the near future they will pass a law,
if a fat woman falls on you, you are married to her.
@@brusso456 does this mean you can get all her stuff if she dies? If so, then time to dish out the heart attacks
- and the best part is you don't need a Death Note for that. Even if the police suspect you're causing them, one can easily argue that such deaths are expected.
But if the 300 pounds woman makes 4K a month and he makes only $300 a month hmmmm money looks good at this point
@@sabrinatiffany45 until she hogs all the money for groceries, medical bills, and health insurance - and I'm just getting started here. Even if money wasn't an issue, not only would you be an outcast for dating a landwhale, she'll end up dying real soon.
- either from "Kira" (jumpscaring her to trigger a heart attack) or something else tied to her own health problems.
better bachelor: shows picture of chika
Me: "Oh God my eyes!"
There’s just no need for a “motion in the ocean” if you’re big enough to cause a *tidal wave* 🌊
Body Positivity has ruled the ocean! All hail Mary Sue Queen of Whales and Elephant Seals! We must protect them for conservation, they are endangered by masculine whale hunters.
Oh snap. Good one. I gotta good laugh out of that one.
Yo mama so fat! She got three smaller fat women orbiting around her!
@@geraldfrost4710 so basically The biggest is Jupiter and her moons. Sailor Jupiter has really lost her shape...
About 3 years ago, I was probably close to 400 lbs (My scale stopped at 350), and finally had enough. This morning I weighed in at 259.4. Goal is about 220-230, then I will start hitting weights/exercises more and build the muscles.
I went from 54" pants to 42".
It was waaaay more mental than physical for me, but I made the most difference in the last few months because I was "forced" by lack of options to eat different things and less of them.
I'm not (as) fat anymore, but I'm still ugly. Don't think I can really fix that unless I go "full metro" and start wearing makeup to hide my actual face.
Not gonna happen btw. lol
Best anyone can do is control what you can, forget about what you can't and be your best. Glad to hear about your weight loss and keep up the good work. I feel SO much better when I'm lighter and not carrying around dead weight.
@@BetterBachelor Absolutely. The first 30 even made a huge difference and the other day I actually did a toe touch for the first time in I don't even know. :)
Congratulations to you! Respect the hard work. Also, personality can go a really long way. Look at Patrice O'Neal and Bill Burr. The women who look at height and want a Ken doll should be avoided anyways. They are not even worth the hassle.
Best ad I saw for a gym was: Tired of being fat and ugly? Just be ugly.
@@Lord_of_Evil That's the plan!
Thicc thighs save lives...
Updated version:
Thicc thighs create lives.
When women stop height shaming men, men will stop fat shaming women. At least one of the 2 can actually be changed with hard work and dedication. Fair enough?
Certain sports increase height, while certain bad health habits stunt growth. There's a lot men can do there.
Sleepy Mask True, but certainly not to the same extent, it's extremely hard work and will take a long time, also once you're over 25 IT IS OVER. Nothing to be done at that point except surgery. However it's never too late to lose weight. Those two are not comparable on a same level.
@@MrSurvivalgecoLP same for overweight people I guess 🤷
Sleepy Mask All you need to do to lose weight is switch to keto diet. Done.
@@MrSurvivalgecoLP it depends on more than that. It depends at what stage of obesity you start, and it depends if there are genetic problems that make it harder. It can take years. So it is not as easy as switching to keto diets.
Fun Fact: The Rock uses roids.
Guys, you aren't going to get that kinda body type without some "gear" helping you out.
Yes you will, you can get the proportions, you'll just be smaller.
The Rock endorsed Biden. That makes him a brainless meathead.
No guy needs that much muscle. A V taper with defined biceps and triceps (not huge), a flat stomach, and some leg muscle will put you in the top 10% of men easily. Don’t even need a gym. A few dumbbells and using your own weight. Jogging for the legs.
Having said that, if you’re not 6’ you’re still going to have limited dating possibilities. Do it for yourself.
@Pumpinstein no it's not. Proportions stay the same, you are just smaller(have smaller muscles).
3:2 is a 1.5 proportion, 6:4 is a 1.5 proportion as well.
@@WestCoastAce27 As long as you are a good amount taller and overall bigger(wider?) than the girl she won't even think of your actual height, let alone asking you about height in person. To her, you are a giant.
Of course, if it's stat matching on paper, then yeah, you are screwed.
Beauty is subjective, fat is not.
Size does matter. Let's start with height. TH-cam has dozens of videos showing women `preferred` tall men. From interviews to cut clips during vlogs.
Of course, those women who are liberals will say it doesn't matter. But it's just that they never dated anyone under 6 foot.
*Lifts up flap of stomach fat*
"OH! THERE'S the remote control for the TV and the ham sandwich I lost 4 hours ago! SCORE!!"
30 years ago they rightly started to call out how unhealthy it was to be too thin for very good reasons. Now some women want to normalize obesity in women.
I think its ugly when women have a shapeless body and I'm not even attract to it, I imagine how hard is for men to get involved with someone like that
“Men” who get involved with them are pathetic.
I've seen the most during pregnancy believe that they can eat everything they want mostly unhealthy foods and have "permission" to get fat, but because of the hormonal changes it's so much worse eat whatever you want
Tanita F then they get post partum depression because they’re still obese 6 months after the kid is born.
If I try to have a fun bed time I don't want a 300 pound fatso to crush me. I want to have fun and survive so don't expect me to want a beluga whale.
@Sarah Rose people are only overtly considerate to women facing these issues of childbirth, especially in relation to weight issues during that time. But nothing ever excuses poor lifestyle choices well after the initial years of childbirth. 2-3 years is more thn enough to get back on track. Stop with the excuses.
04:55 "150 kilo for you Brits" - no, that's 21.4 STONE for Brits, and 150 kg for continental Europeans. :)
Thanks, now I don't need to write that :)
150 kg is for 90% of the world. Metric system is for 90% of the people in the world.
@@zepter00 Depends how you count it. The UK is officially metric but we still use a lot of imperial measures. Human height and weight is usually done in imperial units.
Putain de buveur de thé
(Just kidding guys tea is the best drink :))
@@Akm72 I know how it is in UK. I am from Poland and kg, meters, centemeters are in the whole Asia, Africa, Europe, South America. Metric is logic and universal.
If you want hourglass body girls, come to Brazil.
I like how man channels tell fat men to live a healthier life while woman channels tell women it's okay.
Damn lol. Ain't that the truth.
Lot of channels saying the truth now if we know where to look!
Depends on the channel you go to honestly. The women I follow only encourage healthy weight. And youtube is at least ok. Instagram is flooded with people defending obesity for some reason.
But it's not okay. This is coming from a woman who is 5'4" at 208lbs. I exercise and eat healthy but can't seem to lose weight. I'm not diabetic, I am proportional (hourglass). My BMI is awful, which makes me feel awful mentally that I can't shed back down to 150 which according to the medical field is still overweight. But what matters to me is the fact that my husband loves me regardless how I sometimes feel about myself.
This is why kids need both a mom AND a dad. It is in a mom's nature to coddle their children, and this is great for their early years, and for later emotional support, but it must be balanced by the dad. The dad's role is to give it to their kids straight, to promote honesty not only with others, but with themselves, and to strive for excellence rather than settle for mediocrity.
With both a mother and father, assuming they're well adjusted people and not spiraling towards divorce, a child grows up emotionally stable, has a solid foundation of ethics, and is motivated to improve areas of their life in which they find lacking. They treat people courteously, but not so much so as to be dishonest.
These female channels telling morbidly obese people they're beautiful the way they are are actually doing more harm than good. Obesity is a very serious health issue, and to gaslight people into thinking it isn't is fucking evil. On the flip side, being an asshole about it won't do them any good, either.
A well adjusted person can give it to you straight without sounding like a total jerkwad. You may not like hearing the truth, even when presented tactfully, but the truth is more important than a temporary dopamine hit.
Henry Rollins once said: "If you wanna be fat go be fat on someone else "
yes....proportions matter! I like how u are referencing science and data. I do hope that overweight people can accept themselves if they cannot seem to lose the weight....but now it seems like some are trying to turn the table into making thin/normal weight people the abnormal ones!? I have almost always maintained a good weight with an hourglass figure (except during pregnancy) but it has taken plenty of EFFORT...no overeating and consistent exercise. furthermore, I'm not interested in subscribing to a ridiculous delusion that any human would be attracted to me at 150lbs or more ...I would sicken myself at that weight! (I'm 5'3" @ 115lbs)
I have a standup joke that in dating app profiles, women often use pictures from 5 years and 30 pounds ago. So this shows that they’re ashamed of having gained weight, but they’re still unreasonably picky and expect men to accept it.
@@NOBODY-fz3im I'm not saying men don't lie also. But, statistics show the hypergamy, that the women are also superficial and much shallower for what they are.
In general, when someone needs to tell you the "advantages" of something, it's probably not very good. Because if it was good they'd tell you the features instead, and let you come to the conclusion it's good.
Who's ever need to write an article of the advantages about dating a man or woman with the body of a super model?
This is why we don't select the "curvy" option on dating sites. Curvy means landwhale in that situation.
Says the chubby virgin.
@@mave143 LMAOOO
I have a 25 inch waist and I class myself as curvy. Nothing close to a landwhale
@@mave143 that's molly mae LOL
I'm actually quite thin IRL
@@larrymartin9550 don't you think that calling fat women "land whales" is sort of.....I don't know.....CRUEL??
“Butter Face” comes from everything looks great “But Her Face”.
He explained it
Just had a date with a butterface. Couldnt tell until the date because of these masks
@@zachhensel8722 You met without swapping pics before ??? Risky, bro 🤦🏼♂️
@@zachhensel8722 That's so funny! These masks will be the death of us before Covid will! Blind dates are foolishness unless you are so desperate that you don't care what her face looks like. Since you care, as do most people, you shouldn't go on blind dates.
Snarf
“I’m not fat I’m curvy!!!” Uh huh so in other words.. “ I want to lose weight but diet and exercise are hard work, so I made a sign saying fat is beautiful.”
Diet and exercise are so simple and easy... idk why people on the internet say it's so hard... and need motivation ...
@Perverted Alchemist Kelly Brooke's hourglass figure is "curvy"! It means having some or all of the following traits: big bones, wide hip bones, big butt muscles, big thigh muscles, big boobs, and a small waist to form the midpoint of the hourglass. "Curvy" is not supposed to mean "fat".
I’m short so almost every man is taller than me THANK GOD!!
its all about Proportions and how the curves flow into each other at least for me
Just like sports cars and motorbikes...
@@davidking3699 you don't want to encounter a bunch of uphills and speed bumps.
I'm sooooo thankful women are around to tell me what I like.
Joker, thank you so much for how kind you were about weight. You are the nicest person I've ever heard describe weight. You're truly an amazing person man
So cruel to enable obesity.
Identity politics ruins everything, and hurt who they claim to help.
Liberals want to validate these deviant lifestyles to get their votes and stay in power.
Mark S stop identity politics it helps nobody
Not identity politics...liberalism in general hurts who it claims to help. Malcolm X once said white liberals were a greater threat to African Americans than the Clan (I know, I deliberately misspelled it--stupid YT censorship).
Yea it hurts because OBESITY kills every one that gets that way ,,not just certain ones
Dont get mad when men have standards like women, it's only fair
Neon_ one_neo We don’t care as long as you aren’t expecting us to go 50/50.
@@cecee3480 we're equals tho
Wow! Men are attracted to healthy women?
No way.
Its almost like before all of this technology everyone was rather slim (compared to average American).
Even most men who like bigger women don't want them looking like her. They still have standards/preferences and they usually want their women to have a shape to her body (like past plus sized models had) nice skin, pretty face, dress feminine and have a nice personalty. Not all saggy and lumpy, dressed like a dude with a crap personality and attitude.
I don't care if my girl dresses like a dude. You can easily tell she's a woman and gorgeous and other dudes are less likely to approach.
But you're right.
Some female model Tweeted the other day: The thing is, shapely women are beautiful; Marilyn Monroe, Sophia Loren. But these days shapely doesn't mean shapely, it means clinically obese and society is telling you it's okay to placate your feelings.
By the way - I am British and I don't know Kilos. Most of us know stones or pounds. (14lbs to a stone).
Liberals are masters of Wordplay. When they can’t win on Issues (most of the time) they resort to redefining words and gaslighting. They get celebrities to push these new definitions. Unfortunately many less educated and young people fall for it.
@@WestCoastAce27 Dead right. Also, in my obseravtion most celebrities are really not very intelligent. Years ago this wasn't so obvious, but now with them opening their mouths on social media it's very apparent. Most of them are really stupid.
2.2lb = 1kilo. I’m British and old, I have digital scales that measure everything, bones, water, fat, muscle ratios 😉
What younger women don't understand is they have a 10 to 15-year window to get and achieve what will affect them for the rest of their lives, for the most part. This is a generalization but accurate. It's up to each woman in her 20's to decide the outcome of the rest of their lives. Men have another decade to figure it out. It's not fair, and all the crying from the feminists won't change it but in my opinion, it's up to the older women to give the younger ones the wisdom on this. If you want a family someday don't spend 10 years getting pumped and dumped. It will ruin how you think. Live your life and prepare yourself to be a good woman and you will be a good wife and mother and will be ready and prepared when that GOOD man comes into your life. Disassociate your family from the culture in this country, home school if possible, and you will be happy if that's the life you want. If you want to be a career woman, do it, but trying to be both usually doesn't work out. That's where the feminists screwed up. Just my humble opinion...
@@granthill2980 You're spot on. We are living in a time when ideology has supplanted human human nature. I saw a woman a while ago on social media joked that the way it's going women would be better off going back to the days when their fathers' chose them a husband because they're not doing a very good job of it themselves. The feminists went NUTS!
"I don't know how Dwayne Johnson does it."
Steroids.
some may also say, child sacrifice... though hopefully those rumors are null and void.
that is all.
Nope not when he isn't working. He's samson and black have you seen his dad and maternal grandpa? He's naturally muscular. But if he plays a role and puts on more than five pounds of muscle in six months then yes it's steroids.
@@hainleysimpson1507 Just because he is *Samoan* and black doesn't mean he has some kind of supernatural ability to pack on muscle. The fact is that his dad was also on steroids.
You can't get THAT big without it. Especially when you are THAT big AND shredded at all times.
@Michael Yeah yeah. Of course it still takes hard work. But that wasn't the question. The question was "How does he get so big while staying so lean all the time?" and the ONLY way that can happen is with exogenous hormones.
@@KurNorock I know it's not supernatural. Truth is some people depending on where their ancestors came from will either have higher endurance or higher strength than average, and on top of that you have individual genetic variation.
At that point we could try reverse psychology : "Patriarchy want women plus size and with attitude."
"Plus-size women contribute to the food industry and restaurants and keep doctors in business (in 'large' numbers)"
That won't work women dont want responsibility they'll just accept it
That's one hell of a genius comment 😂😂😂😂😂
Raquel Welch’s figure in the 1960s will never be surpassed.
All the women looked gorgeous from that period. No tattoos or boob jobs either.
I was at the Beach this summer. There was 2 Land Whales, one was 70 lbs overweight, the other 150 lbs overweight. They were both taking about wanting to be "Thick". I was so tempted to say "you both already are thick", but they probably would have screamed R*p*, to which I would have responded , "I do not do requests".
LOL funny.
Thick does not mean fat. It means curvy in all the right places.
@@mave143 It also means lacking in intelligence
@@thelastgreatdevolutionary1044 that's absurd and nonsensical.
4:55 - did anyone else see a mental image of Jaba the Hut when they saw that? I'm sorry...no thank you! 🚫🚫🚫
If for my girlfriend or a life partner I only have two choices available - a whale or my right hand, I going for the hand every time. I will leave the other choice for other guys and I won't ever feel envious. The future is all yours, whale loving dudes.
Whale? No that's insulting to real whales. You have to deal with puffer fish, they puff up with their spikes to poison you if you trigger their insecurity. You are dealing with Mrs. Puff....
@@kumikoloh9190 Yes, I thought it over and I agree, that was inconsiderate thing to say, I sincerely apologise to all the actual whales. Because whales are beautiful creatures, and thinking of it, I would definitely rather date an actual whale than any of the "300lb of strong and independent feminism".
Agree. And I’d go further and say guys who date really fat chicks should get a tax break. Already a lot of psycho Karens; think how bad it would be if no fat chicks got dates.
I always thought _plus-sized_ meant 20-60 pounds over-weight. now, I realize it just means *FAT*
Plus size means , go away, no chance .....
Obese is the proper word
The way I am, I give a girl a chance regardless of her appearance. There's no point in dating a 10 woman that acts like a witch when you can date a solid 7 woman that treats you like you're royalty.
Where does one find these 7's that treat a man like royalty? Asking for a friend.
A solid 7 isn't fat. If she's fat, she can't be higher than a 3.
Lol good luck finding a woman that will treat you like a king
@@oil1252 I already got her. Had her for 7 years so far. We don't fight or nothing, I literally won the lottery on dating somehow. She's a filipina.
@@bluemenace04 and in your opinion she's just a 7 out of 10?
I am not fat, I’m fluffy.
Okami Panzer omg this is gold! I’m going to use this the next time I hear this from a fat person
So agree with all you are saying. It is difficult to lose weight, hard to stay on a diet, maddening to tell yourself no every day. But, when you do, you will never look back. It is so worth it! I don't want to admit this but since I really started taking care of myself, guys look at me all the time. And I'm not young, but hubby calls me his trophy wife 😂.
Not having a gut goes along way in making women more attractive.