7 Mistakes Single Ladies Make | Kingsley Okonkwo | Part 1

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  • @KingsleyOkonkwo
    @KingsleyOkonkwo  3 ปีที่แล้ว +193

    This is my only TH-cam channel " Kingsley Okonkwo".
    I will not message you or reply to your comment requesting funds for prophecies or anything at all, please beware of scammers.
    Also, my account is verified so take note.

    • @mkatekomnukwa3479
      @mkatekomnukwa3479 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Shoo I almost send money to these people thank you pastor 😂

    • @blessingsfavor6903
      @blessingsfavor6903 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You saved me too thank you pst

    • @cynthiasmith6913
      @cynthiasmith6913 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      They are always seeing prophecy for me in your name and I should send money to orphanage home but I know it’s not you

    • @susan8576
      @susan8576 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I was about to do a screen shot of the message I got and send to pastor Mildred on IG. Hmm! It is well

    • @eunicembangweta1595
      @eunicembangweta1595 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you sir

  • @honeydropz3259
    @honeydropz3259 4 ปีที่แล้ว +370

    It’s like relationship is about playing mind games. This life is just stressful. Why can’t someone just love you without playing all this games

    • @agodifaith7097
      @agodifaith7097 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      For once someone is sane enough

    • @queenshasha6596
      @queenshasha6596 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I tirer oooo my dear

    • @doraho669
      @doraho669 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Exactly my thoughts

    • @rosemaryng8438
      @rosemaryng8438 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I hear you.....my exact thought @Honey Dropz

    • @feranmi1395
      @feranmi1395 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      yes, that's exactly what I was thinking. 😆 acc don't know why EVERY area of life has to be stressful.

  • @TS-jb5il
    @TS-jb5il 3 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    I made all these mistakes and I’m currently paying for it. I wish I heard this message much earlier. A man should earn everything about you.

    • @tiktokpositivevideos2223
      @tiktokpositivevideos2223 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You are not alone,I feel he talking to me directly

    • @elizabethomorogieva9518
      @elizabethomorogieva9518 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too, its very painful.wish l heard dis before now.

    • @jessicaoiuchiemmanuelleyou6754
      @jessicaoiuchiemmanuelleyou6754 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here sis, these were my exact mistakes in my last relationship 🤦🤦 it really hurt realising you were busy doing all the wrong things and not knowing.

    • @rhymzyoronni3660
      @rhymzyoronni3660 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is so educative for all genders but women are making personal

    • @florencekanovheti757
      @florencekanovheti757 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same to me

  • @Jaycycar
    @Jaycycar 4 ปีที่แล้ว +162

    I was a too fast, too soon kind of person and the results kept me devastated but this class has been more than helpful. God bless you pastor

    • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo8634
      @pastorkingsleyokonkwo8634 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them +2348157400444 )tell him I sent you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you.

    • @luciasebastiao1751
      @luciasebastiao1751 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you very much Pastor. God bless you for sharing the message im Blessing because i was giving too much too soon,
      I will follow your powerfull message

    • @agwuchinwe7333
      @agwuchinwe7333 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly my sister and I think God just wanted me to see where I have made mistakes. I really bless God for you sir, for this piece.

    • @odudufavour1614
      @odudufavour1614 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Surely God will bless you sir, for helping me out🙏

    • @aanutosinbello4621
      @aanutosinbello4621 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Was that way too. Thank God I found God in a new dimension

  • @dnicety3964
    @dnicety3964 4 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    No I'm not ashamed to say marriage before sex. This how you weed out the bad guys.

    • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo5865
      @pastorkingsleyokonkwo5865 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      She actually kept me so sad ever since I could not hear from you I was so boringI went to your store to see if I could see you there but I could not I have to come to your street nobody no you there what happened for so long

  • @obiebuka1152
    @obiebuka1152 4 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    Thanks Pastor Kingsley for these wise counsels, but guys don't miss the point he said that this applies mainly to people who are not in a serious relationship. Don't injure your relationship trying to act unavailable when you know this guy truly loves you.

  • @ifeoluwafriendlywole-adewu3741
    @ifeoluwafriendlywole-adewu3741 4 ปีที่แล้ว +327

    1. Being too available
    2. Not defining the relationship
    3. Giving too much too soon

    • @lydiakuffour996
      @lydiakuffour996 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hmm mm l did same n it couldn't help at alll

    • @annmete866
      @annmete866 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lydiakuffour996 same here

    • @akpulounlilian3471
      @akpulounlilian3471 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too

    • @bossb1195
      @bossb1195 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I beg to differ. Love is not something that you cook. You just happen to enjoy each other's company and the connection you guys have.... If a man loves you and see you as a woman who awken something in them, hey will marry you. There's no formula to marriage. Some had sex the same day they met and today they are happily marriage. Only God is the one who has a power to bless your relationship and only if you pray about it.. We are not robots. 🤦‍♀️

    • @Aritul
      @Aritul 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you.

  • @ruthdianamomodu7808
    @ruthdianamomodu7808 4 ปีที่แล้ว +160

    "Stop giving to boy friend what belongs to your husband". Thank you Pastor K

    • @rachelbaruga4885
      @rachelbaruga4885 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Does he deserve it.?

    • @waibeah2257
      @waibeah2257 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And is the husband not also given to girlfriend what belongs to the wife?

    • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo5865
      @pastorkingsleyokonkwo5865 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She actually kept me so sad ever since I could not hear from you I was so boringI went to your store to see if I could see you there but I could not I have to come to your street nobody no you there what happened for so long

  • @lucyirogue9847
    @lucyirogue9847 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    Don’t open too much of your life to a Guy 👍💯✅( powerful point )
    Thanks for this sir
    👍🙏🏼💯

    • @kathrynk9231
      @kathrynk9231 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mistake I made. The guy said sorry.. WOW I was shocked.

    • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo5865
      @pastorkingsleyokonkwo5865 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      She actually kept me so sad ever since I could not hear from you I was so boringI went to your store to see if I could see you there but I could not I have to come to your street nobody no you there what happened for so long

  • @maamejoannagh6240
    @maamejoannagh6240 4 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    Don't give too much too soon, this one hit my heart so hard😭😭😭

    • @maamejoannagh6240
      @maamejoannagh6240 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@pastorkingsleyokonkwo6242 God bless you Man of God, they've been so much of set backs, delay and a whole lot, I will be glad if i get your contact or e-mail.
      My time is now, I give God the glory.

    • @anitaoriakhi5084
      @anitaoriakhi5084 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here.

    • @osamafaith9335
      @osamafaith9335 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Me too

  • @naomiuyi8548
    @naomiuyi8548 4 ปีที่แล้ว +268

    I'm 16, I started watching
    pastor k when I was 15
    My mummy Neva tells me anything about marriage/relationship. but since I started watching pastor k, 😊😊 I think I have a very wide knowledge of how it goes

    • @roylnekanaga2775
      @roylnekanaga2775 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      We are together 😁😁 am 17 too

    • @emmanuellajaja3086
      @emmanuellajaja3086 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me tooo

    • @graceibelegbu189
      @graceibelegbu189 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Very good for you.
      Wished I knew some things as a teenager.

    • @reshpresh987
      @reshpresh987 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Good for you young lady that's smart

    • @maziugochukwu6167
      @maziugochukwu6167 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      You're luck to have this opportunity at this young age. When you think it's the time, show your mum this video. It will create that opportunity so you talk more about woman health, relationship and marriage with her.
      Shalom!

  • @salomekalu9032
    @salomekalu9032 4 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    "You need a life before you can have a life partner" uhhhh that hit me right in the spinal cord!🙌🏼

    • @salomekalu9032
      @salomekalu9032 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kevinzadai1254 I REJECT IT IN JESUS NAME,AMENNN

    • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo8634
      @pastorkingsleyokonkwo8634 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them +2348157400444 )tell him I sent you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you.......

    • @nwaguchizoba4730
      @nwaguchizoba4730 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don't be too available for a man ,l love that, some girls are like being too available will make a man love you more NO

  • @chidinmaobiekwe4192
    @chidinmaobiekwe4192 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    I have been making horrible mistakes all these while, my heart is broken. may I find the right man . Amen

    • @henrywilson9022
      @henrywilson9022 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      +2;3:4;9;0;5;6;5;3;9;0;0;1;whatsup her for any kind of help she can help you because I was once like that to and she help me out ,,,,,,,,

    • @jessicaoiuchiemmanuelleyou6754
      @jessicaoiuchiemmanuelleyou6754 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sure sis, you'll definitely find the right person just don't forget to apply these wisdom tips here.

    • @dwightwhitaker1635
      @dwightwhitaker1635 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jeremiah 29:11i know the thoughts I have for you not to harm but to give you hope and an expected end in Jesus name amen

  • @mamahkay6960
    @mamahkay6960 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I'm glad I listened to you before I got married now I have been married for over 5yrs and I'm enjoying my marriage. Your seminars amd mentoring has groomed me to be who I am. Thank you dadthy

  • @ewuresisampson894
    @ewuresisampson894 4 ปีที่แล้ว +151

    No. 2 saved me!!! And in less than 4 months I met the man God had created for me. Literally! The first guy just wanted to play around and waste my time. And I'm so glad I asked because he answered that his feelings had changed right after i told him i didn't want a sexual relationship ( well, not literally but he told me to forget everything he said about his feelings for me and was suddenly unavailable). By God's grace i was confident enough to walk away (it was hard I won't lie but definitely worth it) and now I'm in a dreamy Christian relationship.
    Never settle for less, God loves you and He has prepared the best for you. You might just have to wait.
    And sometimes you need to encounter the fake people to recognise the genuine ones.

    • @TheOlgad
      @TheOlgad 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Wow.. Ill wait

    • @ewuresisampson894
      @ewuresisampson894 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@TheOlgad Please do. It'll be worth it

    • @TheOlgad
      @TheOlgad 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ewuresisampson894 thank you

    • @itohowobassey3624
      @itohowobassey3624 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Waoh

    • @lucyirogue9847
      @lucyirogue9847 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Very true ✅💯
      Do not settle for less
      And u encounter the wrong people to meet the Good ones
      Especially when u have faith and work with God ✅💯........

  • @funmiAire
    @funmiAire 4 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    PK I am blessed. Thank you very much sir for blessing me with these words. I'm 27 and single and I feel like nothing is going on well for me, but I have come to realise that this is the time I should know myself well, trust me I am begining to know myself and love myself more and with this, I am indeed blessed and it will help me to grow more. I have obviously not been too behaved in my previous and hopefully in my next one I would have grown and i do better God's willing. Thank you and God bless you sir.

    • @KingFridayetal
      @KingFridayetal 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      0Can8 we11 talk2 Olufunmilayo000? 179.

    • @winnieaisabor3825
      @winnieaisabor3825 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@KingFridayetal smart one. Did you talk?

    • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo8634
      @pastorkingsleyokonkwo8634 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them +2348157400444 )tell him I sent you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you.

    • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo8634
      @pastorkingsleyokonkwo8634 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@KingFridayetal Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them +2348157400444 )tell him I sent you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you.

    • @beautyrevelation7940
      @beautyrevelation7940 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@pastorkingsleyokonkwo8634 good morning pastor
      I just came across these video although ave been watching some of ur video. Pls is it possible to send u message on your watsapp line

  • @thembinkosimahemu223
    @thembinkosimahemu223 4 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    I needed to hear this 😩😩😩😪💔😭
    I have acted desperate So many times

  • @mbalosengoma4554
    @mbalosengoma4554 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Thank you for this Sir... I was in relationships where I gave too much too soon.. I thought being open, being there for a man and doing things for him was loving him and showing him I support but truly it has worked against me but now I know better cause Ive seen it all... I used to be pushed sometimes to do certain things to keep a man but now Ive set boundaries and standards and will stick by them...

  • @Mex91
    @Mex91 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    This message is very timely. It's exactly what I needed to hear. Pastor K, you answered all the questions I had in mind. Thank you so much.

  • @dnicety3964
    @dnicety3964 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    When a guy said we are just friends. I reminded him daily when he wanted wifely duties from me. Then when he said lets take it slow as friends. I found myself on other dates and he became jealous. I ask him how can you be jealous if we are only friends. When i ask him to define our relationship, he called me a player so i blocked him. Eh imagine him calling me a player when he is dinning and impregnated others ladies. I beg

    • @deardiadem
      @deardiadem 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Smart move👏. He was the player btw. He got pissed cos you mirrored his behavior. Well done abeg🙌♥️

    • @antitonysmith
      @antitonysmith 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @marysonia6351
    @marysonia6351 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    Can I say I'm stupid since all this while??
    Heaven knows I'm blessed with this words

    • @nerpaypayne9244
      @nerpaypayne9244 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      No you're not stupid, however every mistake/mishap is a great time to renew one self and another chance to make your misopportunity a better one.

    • @chinyeregrace9706
      @chinyeregrace9706 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Your not stupid my dear,nobody is above mistakes

    • @henricavecham9260
      @henricavecham9260 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      One of the greatest mistakes I made was `` being too available and given too much very soon"

    • @henricavecham9260
      @henricavecham9260 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      God bless you pastor, I believe this words will change my life.

  • @datesquare8805
    @datesquare8805 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    God bless the relationship of anyone reading this message..

  • @cynthiannamani5763
    @cynthiannamani5763 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    "Be disciplined and remember what you want" this is for me

  • @opokuvictoria661
    @opokuvictoria661 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Who is here with me?

    • @AdjoaJosephine7724
      @AdjoaJosephine7724 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ghanaians are representing ma😊🇬🇭

    • @akuaowusuaa6599
      @akuaowusuaa6599 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      ✋✋

    • @samuellaantwi8059
      @samuellaantwi8059 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ghanaians here lemme see your shouting....

    • @AdjoaJosephine7724
      @AdjoaJosephine7724 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@samuellaantwi8059 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣our shouting is here ooooo...yeeeeeeeeeee

    • @opokuvictoria661
      @opokuvictoria661 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AdjoaJosephine7724 🇬🇭😊

  • @angelamaxwell3111
    @angelamaxwell3111 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I thought i was ready for marriage, i thought i knew all i had to know before getting married but i realised i knew nothing since i started watching your videos😩 i always pray to God that i want to be a good wife and told Him to help me. I believe God made me came across your videos so i can be educated🙏 i have learnt a lot and still learning🤗 God almighty bless you sir🙏

    • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2368
      @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2368 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      THE LORD BE WITH YOU CHILD OF GOD I DON'T KNOW YOU IN PERSON, BUT GOD KNOWS YOU MORE, GOD SHOWED ME A REVELATION WHEN I WAS ON YOU PROFILE TO SEE THINGS AROUND YOU MY DEAR, I SAW GOD'S FAVOUR, SUCCESS, JOY, BREAKTHROUGH, BEHIND THAT, I SAW MORE SPIRITUAL ATTACKS FROM THE ENEMIES, WORKING ON HOLDING SUCH BLESSINGS CAUSING YOU SET BACK M, BUT MY DEAR YOU ARE LIFTED ABOVE ANY SPIRITUAL TOWERS.SO THE LORD INSTRUCT ME TO TELL YOU TO SOW A SEED INTO A MOTHERLESS HOME (GOD'STIME MOTHERLESS BABY'S HOME). AND YOU SHOULD NOT LET ANY ONE KNOW ABOUT YOUR SEED SOWING, BECAUSE IS A CONVENANT SEED BETWEEN YOU AND GOD. THE LORD ASKED ME TO TELL YOU BEFORE THE END OF (3) THREE DAYS TO SOW INTO GOD'STIME MOTHERLESS BABY'S HOME (ORPHANAGE) SOME WHERE IN NIGERIA KEBBI STATE TO BRING SPIRITUAL AND DIVINE BREAKTHROUGH IN YOUR LIFE AND THAT OF YOUR FAMILY BECAUSE THERE I POWER IN SOWING,(DEU. 28:15) CONTACT THE M.D OF THE FOUNDATION ON WHATSAPP OR CALL (+2349055405979) DON'T JOKE WITH THIS PROPHECY, GOD BLESS YOU MY CHILD..

    • @angelamaxwell3111
      @angelamaxwell3111 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@pastorkingsleyokonkwo2368 hmmmm I hear

    • @seyiademoye7828
      @seyiademoye7828 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo 🙄🙄🙄

  • @blessingifesinachi1406
    @blessingifesinachi1406 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Pk is so right, thank God I listened to this now , would have fallen into his trap ... Thank you pastor 🙏 God bless you for this 💯

  • @judgeright2292
    @judgeright2292 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I gave too much too soon because I love to give and as your 7 tips says, he because unmounted cos there was nothing to chase
    I because desperate
    He overlooked my values
    But I give God the glory for destroying the relationship and letting him walk off why?
    Because he didn't deserve me and I indeed needed to learn and mature
    So something God uses these people to reveal Himself and purpose to us , once they gave disappointed us.
    Out if that relationship I learned how to get closer to God, I used to be naive and I no longer am , I am aware that I cannot take anyone to God and ask God to confirm them. I came at the end of myself n realised that scriptures that reads "there is a way that looks right onto a man but in the end leads to distraction ".
    I almost picked the wrong partner if it wasn't for God's intervention. Dibden I have been delivered, I have told God that until He reveals who my partner is to me, I would just assume that maybe I wasn't called to have a partner n I have different purpose to my desire. His will not mine. I do not trust my choice no longer. God has to decide for me now. N either way I feel satisfied with God. No matter how much tips we watch, and knowledge we consume , anything can happen. Everything is in God's hands, even after having to maintain the relationship Is a battle of its own.

  • @graceg1844
    @graceg1844 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Who is still here to watch with me
    Dnt give too much
    Dnt be too available
    Be ready to walk away 😔😔😔
    Dnt be desperate
    Has hited so badly
    Thnks Pastor
    ☺️☺️new subbie

  • @preciousnwiyor9731
    @preciousnwiyor9731 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    You are too good sir.
    This is one of the best relationships talk I have ever listened to.
    More grace to you sir

  • @Enemart_4u
    @Enemart_4u 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Wow!! All this seems to be about me. Especially when you said we should let them earn the level of whatever we have to tell them. I do that a lot thinking that I’m being sincere
    but most times the end is tragic! Thank God I’ve learned this today. Thank you Sir for this teaching 🙏

  • @graceibelegbu189
    @graceibelegbu189 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Familiarity breeds contempt.
    One who is full loathes honey...

  • @oyindamolaoyinloye7546
    @oyindamolaoyinloye7546 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Walahi! This relationship thing is tiring. It's like it's all about playing mind games..
    At the same time, I remember my last relationship at the beginning, and for a long while before everything went down south I was doing all of the things he listed without even realizing I was...
    I am here now watching all these videos because I was in that relationship for a long time and I don't know how to do it again( relationships)...
    Well, the best I can do for myself, for now, is to reevaluate my life(e.g. Invest in my appearance, mental stability and growth), focus on God and grow your faith in him because by so doing, makes you a high-value woman automatically and you will also attract a high-value man who will know what to do when he wants you...
    Cheers ladies!!!
    The wait will soon be over... let's keep faith 🤗

  • @giftyagbodjan9400
    @giftyagbodjan9400 4 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    We are here to learn another new thing in our lives. God bless u daddy

    • @esserenewalker4582
      @esserenewalker4582 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Good advice,.I like your counseling. Very knowledgeable

    • @charitydennisdennis1567
      @charitydennisdennis1567 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Am indeed bless with this message,I pray God give me the grace not to make a mistakes again 😭😭😭

  • @jariatumconteh1159
    @jariatumconteh1159 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I made all this mistakes i wish I've heard this long before now but thanks be to God almighty for this wonderful massage

  • @ayopetv
    @ayopetv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Hmmmm. Everything of great value is not easily accessible. Love the salt analogy. Too much salt spoils the meal 💯💯

    • @ogechaakor3202
      @ogechaakor3202 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yayy...one of my fave couples,glad to see you here

    • @titilayorachael262
      @titilayorachael262 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow....Ayoope😃😃😃

  • @anitaizontimi6852
    @anitaizontimi6852 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks pst K . I believe this could be applicable to most men too. I dated a man who called 5 to 6 times a day, wants me to tell him my schedules for the day, and comes to my place once he can't reach me on the phone. I was so suffocated, i was quickly walking into depression coz I had to explain every single tin. It only lasted a month, I had to end it for my sanity. Just coz we're togeda doesn't mean we have to be in each odas space all the time.

    • @Ad-Lo
      @Ad-Lo ปีที่แล้ว

      That sounds scary!

  • @akosuabaayeh3641
    @akosuabaayeh3641 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    God bless you richly sir for sharing. Many mistakes has been made but thank God they don’t define us. There’s a change.

  • @efuaedjeani
    @efuaedjeani 4 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Point 1 alone has soo many lessons 🔥. God bless you, Pastor K

    • @herbee703
      @herbee703 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I tell you, that first one almost all women have made that mistake.

    • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo5865
      @pastorkingsleyokonkwo5865 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      She actually kept me so sad ever since I could not hear from you I was so boringI went to your store to see if I could see you there but I could not I have to come to your street nobody no you there what happened for so long

  • @NanaEkua593
    @NanaEkua593 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    God bless you Sir.
    I'm a woman but I relate more with wanting my time alone. Instead of being the type who would want all the company and attention, i usually desire to have my time one,not talk all the time, have time to think about myself....
    Wow! I thought to myself " Why do I have the attributes of the man Pastor is describing"😂😂

    • @Minex_020
      @Minex_020 ปีที่แล้ว

      This actually relates to my case too.

  • @ihama99
    @ihama99 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Hmmm. # 1 can go both ways am sorry. I know a couple of pple who did this and from what they found out from the men later was they felt the girls were forming and doing shakara or maybe playing games and the men got tired and moved on. If you like someone show it, be honest and communicate. This sounds like playing games with ones heart is good. All men and women are different and I have seen alot of married couples. Some men love attention from their partners cause they genuinely want to be around them.

    • @shile1414
      @shile1414 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I totally agree with you. If you like someone show it but please ensure the feeling is mutual. In fact, you can apply the 1st point until you are sure the guy loves you just as much as you love him or better still even more than you love him.

    • @uzunmakalu9733
      @uzunmakalu9733 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly 👍

    • @christopherolawoye7003
      @christopherolawoye7003 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I didn't agree with that point too. Personally i believe it's the other way around

    • @TS.OkechiSunday
      @TS.OkechiSunday 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I believe it's mutual and it does not work with every one.
      I believe proper communication of your intentions help better than playing hide and seek.

    • @oluchukwuobioma1127
      @oluchukwuobioma1127 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It's wise counsel. Even in marriage don't be always in his face. It's not playing games, show your partner you love them but have a healthy balance. It's general in life, any food you eat everyday you get tired of. I advocate a healthy balance. Absence makes the heart dear

  • @opeyemieniolasanni2927
    @opeyemieniolasanni2927 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you so much Pastor Kingsley this video made my day. I just got an encounter.

  • @edithwatetu1513
    @edithwatetu1513 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Woow this is the best relationship advice i have ever heard be blessed

  • @beingqueene
    @beingqueene 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Why is it always women being told what to do and what not to do to make their men happy or to keep him, blah blah blah. Why can't men be taught how to treat women and what they are supposed to do to make a women happy?

    • @adeniranoreoluwa866
      @adeniranoreoluwa866 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Because a woman is an emotion being, and a man is calculating in nature. if taught how to control her emotions, she wont make wrong choices

  • @jeniferkpundeh8679
    @jeniferkpundeh8679 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    True talk man of God sir ... men in fact takes advantage of being too available . May God have mercy and locate me with a God fearing husband

  • @edowayeadenaiya685
    @edowayeadenaiya685 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I'm a single lady and I am like Adam to be honest. Even me I need my space sometimes. I understand your points sir and they're very much valid but why all these "games"? If you love each other or are aligned, why not just be?

    • @chikauzor6950
      @chikauzor6950 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same thing I'm thinking o....I thought I was the only one uncomfortable about this...but I mean, he's experienced, so I won't throw anything he has said away.

    • @hannahafia1484
      @hannahafia1484 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think it's more of a good strategy and less of a game.
      One of the reasons could be everyone doesn't think like you, even if it appears to be so on the surface. Just like any business, things may be superficially good at first but it doesn't mean they work out in the little details. Things may look harmless on the surface but are different as time passes. Emotions are simply just not enough. Ask anyone who has been hurt 😊
      I think it's just a way to secure your valuable time and emotions and to do your due diligence, as you would with a business. Saves everyone time and energy.

    • @IphieTheSlickBoss
      @IphieTheSlickBoss 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My dear, that's women think until their relationship hits the rock. Even while cooking, there are processes and procedures although all the ingredients are edible. Emotions need to be managed also. If you treat it anyhow, you will reap anyhow results.
      Rather than call it games, see them as strategies/ways of making the best out of your relationships.

    • @frodobaggins9474
      @frodobaggins9474 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Men or women, there are differences, just try understand your man, is he the type that likes distancing a while or is he the type that will think the distancing means you have someone else or not love him, and might not talk but silently decides to go away. Make the man to open up to his genuiness.

  • @jeccym8715
    @jeccym8715 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    After all I did for you killed me🤣🤣🤣🤣 , oh women, we suffer too much in the hands of men☺️

  • @bestofmylovewhoahwhoah3239
    @bestofmylovewhoahwhoah3239 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Sadly, I have done all these mistakes...Praise God for the blood...and second chances...

  • @TheOlgad
    @TheOlgad 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    You have opened my eyes Pastor.
    There's too many mistakes we make as single women

    • @judgejaffett8751
      @judgejaffett8751 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @doraho669
      @doraho669 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@judgejaffett8751 may God punish you scammer

  • @gloriaezenwammadu1571
    @gloriaezenwammadu1571 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i like the idea of not being too available but i'm against you saying that you and your partner don't have to speak everyday.
    I personally would not like if i am dating and i don't get to speak with my partner each day. I know it's weird to speak 10hrs in a day (exaggerating here) lol! but even for a minute, i need to speak to you. a day, two or three without talking with your partner because you don't want to seem desperate isn't good. at least have days you speak in length and days you just call to say hello and wish them a nice day or something. PK do you get me? or you still advice otherwise?

  • @nkemontohpefu5759
    @nkemontohpefu5759 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    God sent me here on time , thank you pastor , it's but true that what works for A might not work for B ,but it doesn't and shouldn't stop Us from learning . Thank you PK, God bless you and us all . Amen

  • @bunmibadewa3732
    @bunmibadewa3732 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    What about long-distance relationship Pastor?

    • @oge82
      @oge82 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      The same thing applies but no physical interaction. Ask questions, what are you going for, if he says marriage, as him or her what are the qualities he wants in a partner because you might not possess those qualities or attributes. This qualities aren't physical but inner qualities. I met someone who lives in another country, we started talking, when I asked him what he was looking for, he said marriage. Then he goes on to say my parents are on my neck about marriage. Right there I ask him how old he was, he said 41 going to 42 in 2 months. At this moment I realized he hasn't personal decided to get married it was his parents pushing him. Then he calls once in 2 weeks or 3 weeks, and expects me to pick up right away without consideration to my own time, that's a disqualification right there. Communication is very important in long distance relationships. Then make out time to see face to face, some people sound great over the phone and sucks in real life. While some are emotionally unstable or unavailable.

    • @chigbuchinasa3395
      @chigbuchinasa3395 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@oge82 good one Oge!

    • @bunmibadewa3732
      @bunmibadewa3732 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oge Anuta nice one 🙏

    • @estherossgie6053
      @estherossgie6053 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Waooo ur write up just answer my question that no one else couldn’t answer thank you

  • @oluwabukunmimodupe9869
    @oluwabukunmimodupe9869 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    if she is not too available, he is not too available, how will you spend time together and get to know each other well?

  • @Blackquennie91
    @Blackquennie91 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I'm now realizing that I always made almost all of these mistakes and most of the time, ended up being taken for granted! I'm glad to learn how I can better myself and build a healthier relationship.

    • @beckylove5023
      @beckylove5023 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here but I never regret it because we are still together and I didn't care again because it pain me so bad

  • @musakhalana597
    @musakhalana597 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    As women they most mistake we do, we give tomuch... we expect tomuch and it's drain us a lot, that is why we always hunting and not happy.

    • @henrywilson9022
      @henrywilson9022 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      +2;3:4;9;0;5;6;5;3;9;0;0;1;whatsup her for any kind of help she can help you because I was once like that to and she help me out ,,,,,,,,,

  • @nanbyenpondun7074
    @nanbyenpondun7074 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Thank you so much sir,am still single but i know I'll find the right one cause am still young,i love those tips,I've made mistakes but I'll correct them by God's grace,is better late then never.

    • @lizbisieri4949
      @lizbisieri4949 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are very deep
      I like the teaching pastor

  • @LoriasKitchen
    @LoriasKitchen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    “Stop giving husband benefits to your boyfriends” very good point 👌

  • @obaapamargiesvlogs
    @obaapamargiesvlogs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Can't stop crying 😭😭 I have done a big mistake 😭😭😭

    • @chinyeregrace9706
      @chinyeregrace9706 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Don't cry my sister,everybody have mistake including me so chill up and learnt from your mistakes ok

    • @katarzynalindner594
      @katarzynalindner594 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly. Learn from life and proceed better netto time.

    • @n.vvernon9596
      @n.vvernon9596 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We women think with our hearts and not our heads it’s ok to cry lots of us are crying with you . We learn by experience

  • @olayinkaestherbabalola5462
    @olayinkaestherbabalola5462 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow! Thank you so much sir. You just saved me from a great mistake. Overavailability is truly dangerous.

  • @abenaagyeiwaaacquah7671
    @abenaagyeiwaaacquah7671 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Ahhh as a woman to be frank this is difficult especially where you have to give space chai it makes you think about the guy too much even if you have something going in your life

    • @ntsakomavunda54
      @ntsakomavunda54 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      so so true Lala😎 we need more grace_oo....I like wisdom number 3 that he gave us ..."Be disciplined' not easy but pays off

    • @fridayteresateresa8647
      @fridayteresateresa8647 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      *_I was going through same thing but I decided to go God about everything when I am Alone I always Read Bible and and study it play worship songs and pray it doesn't matter if how feel like Read Bible or not just do it and your feelings will follow along_* be completed by yourself and not others learn to complete you be someone who makes you happy don't expect too much sometimes I turn off my phone just to

    • @ThestorytellerofKatunga
      @ThestorytellerofKatunga 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You better grow up and get busy with a hobby or something

  • @OmobolaOkeowo95
    @OmobolaOkeowo95 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Pastor...I’ve been listening to your sermons and relationships advice for a couple months now and wow!!!! You are so real, so helpful and so anointed. 🙌🏾This video in particular really cautioned and made me consider my ‘strategy’ with guys that show interest in me and of course, if the feeling is mutual. It’s so true that women can make themselves available too much and too soon! But it never gets a woman anywhere with their relationship with a man. Because of the way we are both designed. Man and woman are wired differently!!! Many blessings to you and your family. 🙏🏾❤️

  • @susan8576
    @susan8576 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you Jesus for delivering me from situationships. Hallelujah 💃💃💃

  • @onojajoy6106
    @onojajoy6106 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Am in a long distance relationship and am guilty of being too available and I think that has pushed him away, he asked for a break but blocked all forms of communication now am confused don’t know if to give him time, or accept it’s over and move on. Pastor I need advice what to do at this point.

  • @tee1736
    @tee1736 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    i love how graceful he speaks such a sweet gentle voice no blaming no bashing just speaking gentle

  • @tonyasmithe
    @tonyasmithe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes pastor mi agree wid yuh . Mi a tek mi notes dem. I feel like when I became christian the dating thing kinda hard fi mi . Now I have to write a list and even change my country men because men from Jamaica not serious wanting to get married and if yuh decide to start something with them you have to take them with their kids. I don’t have no kids and people in my age group ( mid30s) not serious want anyone just want a child and refuse to have a child outside of wedlock even before I became I Christian I refused to be a baby mother. And people in their 40s not serious either in my country everybody want to be a gyalist ( womanizer ) . Even if I found someone from africa I have to learn over again to accept the culture and the family background plus the ten different languages is a problem for me. Might as well I stay unmarried wid no kids . Men in their early 40s only want the female looking good on the outside , I know this particular person tell me that I can’t gain weight and I was like you think I’m with you because of looks or I’m in my 20s? I have to lash out on him saying You still stuck in your 20s . I thought when some men are 7 years older than you they would not think about shape ( I’m not big and fat) but his mindset really bothering me .

    • @n.vvernon9596
      @n.vvernon9596 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No matter where they come from they have same mentality. Let him find you the Bible says who findeth a wife not who find a husband I appreciate your honesty it’s truth but don’t be anxious I’ve learned many things just wait on God and test their spirit

  • @victoryukpong5847
    @victoryukpong5847 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So true sir, being too available makes men ignore, neglect and underrate women. True experience. I guess men comply and authenticate the law of utility.

  • @zamzamsekibibi7575
    @zamzamsekibibi7575 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Exactly what am facing right now

    • @henrywilson9022
      @henrywilson9022 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      +2;3:4;9;0;5;6;5;3;9;0;0;1;whatsup her for any kind of help she can help you because I was once like that to and she help me out ,,,,

  • @ewiemelda9251
    @ewiemelda9251 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I feel so comfortable now listening to you Pastor. God bless, I want to thank you so much. Am just experiencing heart broke right now, I pray for God's strength to move on.

  • @chinedugift4356
    @chinedugift4356 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The whole not been to available is really contradicting...like are my suppose to intentionally not want to pick his calls or call him or text him when clearly I really do....M I suppose to not care too much because he might thinks am jobless and obsessed about him...Is that not like playing a game.....I would understand that you shouldnt be knocking at his doors everyday but not calling someone I claim I love in a whole day because I want to appear not to into him is a bit too much....with love there shuld be no should I,would i or could I....if you love some one you call them....if you miss some one you reach out....only som1 who dun genuily love you will runaway because you care too much cos to me checking up on sm1 is caring........I know sometimes you might want to take a break but it shouldnt be on that ground...my opinion though

    • @chinedugift4356
      @chinedugift4356 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love the rest point....but the first i donnot undst

  • @favourwali3004
    @favourwali3004 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    sir what if your still in school and he wants to marry you then you both agree on waiting till you're done with school which will take about 5yrs. is it bad to date from now?

    • @preclassamandume8961
      @preclassamandume8961 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same problem here

    • @aimeeb2084
      @aimeeb2084 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Seek God's counsel

    • @sylviemorgan9770
      @sylviemorgan9770 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don’t believe anything’s wrong with that,if both are sincere,to each other it will be an understanding with both parties,plus by then you would get to really know each other

    • @ruthdianamomodu7808
      @ruthdianamomodu7808 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Without sex

  • @mryesnno4301
    @mryesnno4301 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Men and women have been living and marrying one another on this earth for thousands of years without all of these dating chancellors and pre-thinking or determining how to think like a man as a woman or vice versa. In my opinion all of this makes it difficult and destructive. My advise is simply be honest, and if they are honest or are not you will know because you live with honesty, and their actions doesn't match yours.
    1 (Don't be) Begin too available; a man will think you are either playing to get, and some men will simply think the woman is not serious.
    2 Not defining the relationship; A man may feel you are too forward and demanding when you haven't become good friends yet, by telling him I have a list of what you want from the relationship.
    3. Giving too much too soon; At longs as you are not giving your body and money, it is good to still be kind and time to your new found friend.

  • @RelationshipBuildersForum
    @RelationshipBuildersForum 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Great points you have made but it does not work exactly the same for some guys. A lady who is forthcoming with questions on why the relationship needs to be defined may be seen as desperate and too forward about the relationship.The main issue is that some ladies start relationship the wrong way; everything needs to be defined from the start before emotions are involved. Thank you for sharing.

    • @rehemambike6932
      @rehemambike6932 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Point one only have make me learn a lot thank you so much Pastor God bless you... ..

  • @lusiamatavesi1177
    @lusiamatavesi1177 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have been with a man like this way too needy and text me first thing in the morning through out his day and at work all day. Then he wanted to come to my place every weekend! I felt so suffocated by him and I got bored from him , he was way too needy and obsessed. I had to leave him , he still calls me but I've blocked worse person I've ever met!!

  • @vuyiemdlalose4865
    @vuyiemdlalose4865 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks for that. I am so clingy and I am always available. But I have learned something new thanks for the information.

  • @eunicembangweta1595
    @eunicembangweta1595 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Hmmmm powerful learning is taking place thank you Sir may God increase you and give you more wisdom

    • @judgejaffett8751
      @judgejaffett8751 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy your future. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favor with Anything you can afford or give to these New motherless foundation (Gods-TIME MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in Kebbi state Nigeria before 2 DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them. Call the MD in charge of the orphanage (+234 807 051 4086) to get their details on (Whats-app or call them now on (+234 807 051 4086) or mail @: motherlessfoundation.115@gmail.com tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (Zechariah 4:6). You shall testify the Glory of God in your life. God Bless you,Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy your future. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favor with Anything you can afford or give to these New motherless foundation (Gods-TIME MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in Kebbi state Nigeria before 2 DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them. Call the MD in charge of the orphanage (+234 807 051 4086) to get their details on (Whats-app or call them now on (+234 807 051 4086) or mail @: motherlessfoundation.115@gmail.com tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (Zechariah 4:6). You shall testify the Glory of God in your life. God Bless you,.,

    • @eunicembangweta1595
      @eunicembangweta1595 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@judgejaffett8751 you are a liar and a fraudster you are not pastor Kingsley

  • @tawahtamba6838
    @tawahtamba6838 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks pastor, this is my first time watching your movies, but to be frank with you, I really loved your advice and encouragement. I hope and pray we as single young ladies learned from this. Much love from my end pastor.

  • @princessparagon5957
    @princessparagon5957 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Where have you been all my life.😩🙌 Am really blessed🙇‍♀️

  • @muendanyisinthumule8403
    @muendanyisinthumule8403 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I am guilty of some things mentioned in this video. I lost a good man because of ignorance

    • @sylviemorgan9770
      @sylviemorgan9770 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sorry about that,but we will learn from this platform

    • @judgejaffett8751
      @judgejaffett8751 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy your future. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favor with Anything you can afford or give to these New motherless foundation (Gods-TIME MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in Kebbi state Nigeria before 2 DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them. Call the MD in charge of the orphanage (+234 807 051 4086) to get their details on (Whats-app or call them now on (+234 807 051 4086) or mail @: motherlessfoundation.115@gmail.com tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (Zechariah 4:6). You shall testify the Glory of God in your life. God Bless you.Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy your future. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favor with Anything you can afford or give to these New motherless foundation (Gods-TIME MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in Kebbi state Nigeria before 2 DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them. Call the MD in charge of the orphanage (+234 807 051 4086) to get their details on (Whats-app or call them now on (+234 807 051 4086) or mail @: motherlessfoundation.115@gmail.com tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (Zechariah 4:6). You shall testify the Glory of God in your life. God Bless you,

    • @TheGrowingChristianLady
      @TheGrowingChristianLady 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@judgejaffett8751 SCAMMER

  • @jenniferazuogbo7261
    @jenniferazuogbo7261 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Sir I can give him space for as long as I want,but I can't stop hearing from him when I want.

  • @lucyirogue9847
    @lucyirogue9847 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Don’t be too available ✅💯 (Powerful point 🔥)

    • @lucyirogue9847
      @lucyirogue9847 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@pastorkingsleyokonkwo6242 scammer .... whatever u said here is for you not me
      I’m covered with God’s Amor
      So go elsewhere

  • @joyceerusiafe6321
    @joyceerusiafe6321 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is beautiful, I recently started watching your video's, wisdom every time especially for singles like me

    • @judgejaffett8751
      @judgejaffett8751 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy your future. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favor with Anything you can afford or give to these New motherless foundation (Gods-TIME MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in Kebbi state Nigeria before 2 DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them. Call the MD in charge of the orphanage (+234 807 051 4086) to get their details on (Whats-app or call them now on (+234 807 051 4086) or mail @: motherlessfoundation.115@gmail.com tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (Zechariah 4:6). You shall testify the Glory of God in your life. God Bless you.Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy your future. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favor with Anything you can afford or give to these New motherless foundation (Gods-TIME MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in Kebbi state Nigeria before 2 DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them. Call the MD in charge of the orphanage (+234 807 051 4086) to get their details on (Whats-app or call them now on (+234 807 051 4086) or mail @: motherlessfoundation.115@gmail.com tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (Zechariah 4:6). You shall testify the Glory of God in your life. God Bless you.

  • @christabellmoses1068
    @christabellmoses1068 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Right timing Pastor !! I needed this🙏🏻🙏🏻 God Bless you 🔥🔥🙌🏻

    • @judgejaffett8751
      @judgejaffett8751 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy your future. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favor with Anything you can afford or give to these New motherless foundation (Gods-TIME MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in Kebbi state Nigeria before 2 DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them. Call the MD in charge of the orphanage (+234 807 051 4086) to get their details on (Whats-app or call them now on (+234 807 051 4086) or mail @: motherlessfoundation.115@gmail.com tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (Zechariah 4:6). You shall testify the Glory of God in your life. God Bless you

  • @motherswhoempowerothermoth3272
    @motherswhoempowerothermoth3272 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey Mr.
    I'm new to your channel.
    Listening up.

    • @henrywilson9022
      @henrywilson9022 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      +2;3:4;9;0;5;6;5;3;9;0;0;1;whatsup her for any kind of help she can help you because I was once like that to and she help me out ,,,,

  • @augustinaanthony2890
    @augustinaanthony2890 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Don't be too available is the point that hits me... sir am very blessed to be in this class.. my past relationships I was too available thinking I was being a caring .. but end up loosing the relationship.. now I have learned not to be too available..am sure in my next relationship I will be much better and matured enough... God bless you pastor

  • @edithwatetu1513
    @edithwatetu1513 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Woow this is the best relationship advice i have ever heard be blessed

    • @judgejaffett8751
      @judgejaffett8751 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy your future. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favor with Anything you can afford or give to these New motherless foundation (Gods-TIME MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in Kebbi state Nigeria before 2 DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them. Call the MD in charge of the orphanage (+234 807 051 4086) to get their details on (Whats-app or call them now on (+234 807 051 4086) or mail @: motherlessfoundation.115@gmail.com tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (Zechariah 4:6). You shall testify the Glory of God in your life. God Bless you.Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy your future. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favor with Anything you can afford or give to these New motherless foundation (Gods-TIME MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in Kebbi state Nigeria before 2 DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them. Call the MD in charge of the orphanage (+234 807 051 4086) to get their details on (Whats-app or call them now on (+234 807 051 4086) or mail @: motherlessfoundation.115@gmail.com tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (Zechariah 4:6). You shall testify the Glory of God in your life. God Bless you,

  • @chidimmambonu6201
    @chidimmambonu6201 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm so glad I clicked on this particular topic because this explains everything that has been going on in my life for almost 2yrs in the name of relationship. Watching this gave me inner peace, and to know that me walking away was actually a right decision I made. God bless you sir.

  • @lindaatuenyi3221
    @lindaatuenyi3221 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you sir for this wonderful piece
    My question here is, you said we should always get our relationship defined, in my own situation, I met this guy on line, he is living outside the country while am here in Nigeria. We have been together for almost seven months now, though he has been planning to visit the country as soon as possible, but we do talk on video calls almost everyday. So, is it advisable if I ask him where this relationship is heading to when we haven't seen each other physically?

  • @sempk5269
    @sempk5269 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Right timing Pastor Merci. God bless you.

  • @lizzymedia
    @lizzymedia 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Am a single mother. With a daughter ... But am nt yet married... Ever since I have my daughter... Any relationship I come across am always to desperate to get married at d end I will b hurt and heart broken.... 😢😢 thinking everyday when will I get married too... Is nt a easy task to b a single mother without d care of d father... Just me alone right from pregnancy of to this moment.... Praying God should give me my own husband because am always heart broken......

    • @KingsleyOkonkwo
      @KingsleyOkonkwo  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hello Amaka, send a WhatsApp to +2348077714412 to schedule a counselling meeting with me

    • @anitaoriakhi5084
      @anitaoriakhi5084 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too

  • @chisomihuakuakakuru5861
    @chisomihuakuakakuru5861 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    "Patience and process is the master of deception", too true. I once asked a "brother", who said he wanted a relationship, to come meet and know my parents. He broke Usain Bolt's 100m World record in the course of running 🤣🤣

    • @hazeltruth1044
      @hazeltruth1044 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      May I say that if he was serious about you, he would be the one wanting to meet your parents before you even asked. But either way, his true intention was revealed.

    • @chisomihuakuakakuru5861
      @chisomihuakuakakuru5861 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@hazeltruth1044 that's exactly the idea behind the invitation to sift the chaff from the wheat ASAP.

  • @lucyirogue9847
    @lucyirogue9847 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m grateful I came across this page 💯❤️✅.....
    It had made some wrong, right in my life ✅💯
    Thank you ❤️

  • @jessicaoiuchiemmanuelleyou6754
    @jessicaoiuchiemmanuelleyou6754 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    God bless you pastor K, I'm really a victim of these mistakes and I've really learnt my lessons. I wasn't this way all along but I just saw myself doing the opposite of me in my last relationship 🤦 and I regret everything.

  • @naziziba2789
    @naziziba2789 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am not even interested in anybody in usa

  • @ritaabraham4811
    @ritaabraham4811 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    When you meet the right person, all these won't be important. A man who will mess up at the end will mess up even if you do not give him sex before marriage.

    • @ms_maggie
      @ms_maggie 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sounds like what all those horny guys that chse the honey pot say. But I tell u, the time that passes gives you a clear vision of who they are and whether to dump their clown ass.

    • @biruruth5956
      @biruruth5956 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You right my sis

    • @ritaabraham4811
      @ritaabraham4811 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ms_maggie anybody can pretend well till after marriage.

    • @Amazon865._
      @Amazon865._ 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      God bless you my dear
      Meeting The right person that suits you is what a lady needs not mind game playing and application of complex principles
      The natural habitat of a woman is availability, love care and attention.. it's the manual we came with from our creator..so you can't blame them when the give and show men all these things and when they inturn needs reciprocity.. period..I can't change my loving caring and kind nature that God give me at birth..so

  • @Miraclemarriage
    @Miraclemarriage 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow !!!!!!!pastor k inspires me alot....He has even inspired me to have my own TH-cam CHANNEL. ..God bless u for being a blessing to me and the society at large.

  • @ritaekpeyo5439
    @ritaekpeyo5439 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hmm... This is too deep!!! Seeing Mistakes and taking correction. Thank you Pastor. God bless you.

    • @judgejaffett8751
      @judgejaffett8751 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy your future. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favor with Anything you can afford or give to these New motherless foundation (Gods-TIME MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in Kebbi state Nigeria before 2 DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them. Call the MD in charge of the orphanage (+234 807 051 4086) to get their details on (Whats-app or call them now on (+234 807 051 4086) or mail @: motherlessfoundation.115@gmail.com tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (Zechariah 4:6). You shall testify the Glory of God in your life. God Bless you.Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy your future. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favor with Anything you can afford or give to these New motherless foundation (Gods-TIME MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in Kebbi state Nigeria before 2 DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them. Call the MD in charge of the orphanage (+234 807 051 4086) to get their details on (Whats-app or call them now on (+234 807 051 4086) or mail @: motherlessfoundation.115@gmail.com tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (Zechariah 4:6). You shall testify the Glory of God in your life. God Bless you,

  • @aliceenyenihiankwai1552
    @aliceenyenihiankwai1552 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Pastor, flip this topic to relate to married women in your perspective. I listened to your wife and I would like to hear from you as a man Thank you Sir.

    • @eninamse3525
      @eninamse3525 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tank very much pastor God will continue to bless u for me with these wise words,

  • @blanksonbaduboampong6555
    @blanksonbaduboampong6555 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Please we will be waiting for the men eddition

    • @KingsleyOkonkwo
      @KingsleyOkonkwo  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      im sure you have seen the edition for men?

    • @blanksonbaduboampong6555
      @blanksonbaduboampong6555 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@KingsleyOkonkwo Yes please , thank you Pastor K

    • @dnicety3964
      @dnicety3964 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @blankson badu boampong, Well what do you think of the ladies edition? Do you have any advice or words or wisdom to offer?

    • @blanksonbaduboampong6555
      @blanksonbaduboampong6555 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dnicety3964 I believe pastor k killed it all , my prayer is for we the single guys and ladies to listen to all what he said and learn from it🙂

    • @frodobaggins9474
      @frodobaggins9474 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@KingsleyOkonkwo can i give to the motherless Babies Home here in Rivers close to where i live? Please answer me it's urgent i want to do it today.

  • @obaapamargiesvlogs
    @obaapamargiesvlogs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Am very sad 😭 am lat here I have done all this mistakes 😭😭😭😭 how should I start life again ☺️☺️☺️

    • @elohorelyanah4262
      @elohorelyanah4262 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Don't feel bad dear.
      Now that you realise your mistakes Ask God for mercy and a way of escape,if you ain't married yet!

    • @obaapamargiesvlogs
      @obaapamargiesvlogs 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@elohorelyanah4262 thanks dear ❤️

  • @AhHyn
    @AhHyn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Actually, for me number one is partially true. I'm a LADY, and I'm the one who gets emotional drained. I WANT MY SPACE!

  • @gmoneygcb1304
    @gmoneygcb1304 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can I still me with the same guy , when I have still done all these mistakes, Daddy please I want to know

    • @henrywilson9022
      @henrywilson9022 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      +2;3:4;9;0;5;6;5;3;9;0;0;1;whatsup her for any kind of help she can help you because I was once like that to and she help me out ,,,,