I am currently in a relationship that i don't know where it's heading to and am finding it so difficult to quite... But after watching this my mind is made up
Let's be honest, the Proverbs 31 woman was the standard of perfection! Most women even the ones in the bible could not meet it. God's grace help all of us!
No one should kill themselves trying to measure up to perfection of the Proverbs 31 woman. Just because of a man. Do your best, BECAUSE OF YOU! Haven't you noticed that the women married to the best of men are not better than you in any way? Just ask God that time & chance should favor you!
Read Proverbs 31 but do it without the mindset that someone is expecting you to be a perfect being. Breakdown each verse in simple terms and you'll see she's not so unattainable for any woman. She's godly, wise, invests wisely, is a leader and a joy to her home.
Thanks for this video Sir! Looking forward to the video where you address mistakes men make. It’s not ladies alone who need to put work in a relationship!
God bless you sir for your advice, That shit happened to me, too available, and give too much, because of that no respect, no love, he treated me like a piece of trash 😥 I pray I find who will love and respect me 👌😢.
Thanks alot for all of these from episode 1 to 2. Am blessed. You are my mentor in the counseling field. I love you sir. I hope to meet you some day. I celebrate grace sir. May God replenish. 🇨🇲
Oh my goodness! These are really words of wisdom for even divorced or widowed ladies... Watching this over and over again, thank you Pastor Kingsley, God bless you.
Sir you're truly a blessing to this generation, indeed I love you and I love your teachings... Permit me to say that you're my Passive Mentor.. God's Grace Sir
Watching from Kenya.... this has really touched me...I was in a confused relationship but now I know how to handle it.....God bless you indeed you such a blessing
I believe with everything good, there is bad. So we have good friends and bad friends and good family members and bad family members. I also believe it's important to discern what it is healthy for your relationship.
Pastor K you say show your intelligence. Well my relationship just broke up and when I asked the guy what went wrong he said I was to strong for him like strong willed. I honestly laughed out loud.
1st point very important One thing I never do throw away my friends nor family... I was dating a man but he told me to get rid of my close male friend,he felt threatened by him ,telling me to choose between him and my friend ,I told him I’ll never abandon my friend I’ve known for long for someone I just got to know....some man are really emotional abusive
Pastor you have been an inspiration. I have introduced most of my friends to your teaching. Male/female.How can I purchase your books online internationally.
I'm so blessed Sir, may God empower you much more because you are changing lives.I strongly agree to this,the things most women do in order to get closer to" Mr right " are instead pulling them away from Him.
I am a new subscriber to your channel and have listened to just a few of your videos. I would like to say sir, towards the end of this video I felt like just letting rip in my prayer language of the Spirit..... I felt like just opening my mouth and let the language just pour forth unhindered endlessly! My God and my Father ! I agreed so much with what you were saying sir, that I don't know which point to leave out from commenting on... And I'm not just wowed only; I'm the type when you teach, I repent and do the right thing . I like to say I'm single, 60 , of course have been married before in my mid twenties and as I look over my life I can say,yes Lord, thank You for the beautiful and deeply rewarding journey for now I realise, this is what it has been. But for some time in my mid years I didn't think so. Right now, for the days that I'm having with two beautiful grown girls that the Lord has blessed me with ; I'm living my life to be the very attractive version of who God created me to be. 1st and foremost I'm doing it for myself, for myself sir, and I humbly can say; I like what I see there. It's so rewarding because there are no issues of saying no one is giving me accolades.... It's for me. I'm doing it for my God for I have since realized He clearly appreciates the strengths He has blessed me with. So presently I'm living my life to delight Him who has walked this journey with me thus far and gave me the privilege of knowing Him as I know Him today Lord Jesus, none is Your equal, in my heart and in my life ! And I'm actively being the very best version of who I can be so I bring real worth to the table to the man who will be coming in my life. This video has been so insightful ! Thank you so so much !,
Thank you so much , Kingsley the servant of the most high God,the mistakes AVE done in life could not have happened ,if I knew some of these things earlier ,but I still thank God for you,the very first time listening to you and my heart is blessed, there's a relationship iwas in and am now understanding,this man usually spoke of the things you saying here and ,I just appreciate him though he had his weaknesses but he could tell me this things and understand why he reacted on some issues though the relationship was still young and he has his past life,but he is more mature ,it's been abt 3 wks no talking now en I feel so bad I think we need to talk please
Thanks thanks thanks alot sir, you have really made my day..... thanks for your advice and your explanations iam very happy to hear everything you have said
Waoooooow! I am really thankful for this Sir ! God continue to bless you for this wisdom.. You just gave me the bitter truth of my life ! 🙏 Thank God that I came across this video
4. Throwing Away other Vital Relationships-- 5. Not Building Yourself (Spiritually, Financially, Domestically, Mentally, Physically/Emotionally, Socially) Spiritually-- They love the Lord and serve the Lord. Reading scripture. Are you involved in the church Financially-- Businesses Domestically- cooking; sewing; Mentally-- Information; education. Physically-- nice clothes; strengthened her arms Emotionally-- Did her husband good all the days of her life. Socially--Gave to those in need. She knew how to relate to her husband and other people. Wisdom Point 1: List the areas you want to develop Wisdom Point 2: Come up with a solution/ simple plan. (ie: join a book club to develop mentally and socially) Wisdom Point 3 Get a mentor Wisdom Point 4. Choose your friends strategically
I got stuck in a relationship where all my friends became the worst people on earth, although they never changed me into a bad person. Most of my close relatives and family members had inappropriate behaviors with my partner... From a person who claimed to be tolerant, I was constantly being judged for my former religious beliefs, the preachings, teachings, pastors I used to listen to and follow... Even my prayer points were subject to comments! It took time before I was able to name what I was going through: manipulation. I thank God for opening my eyes and bringing me out of this relationship!
If i knew all this fifteen years ago... But it's never too late to rebuild a life in a right way
Pastor ....since i started listening to you in last year; your words has really transformed me a lot.
Ur very ryt... Same here
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I am currently in a relationship that i don't know where it's heading to and am finding it so difficult to quite... But after watching this my mind is made up
Am in the same situation
May God give you the grace to take the right step🙏🙏.
@@maryjesus1508 Amen.
😇😇😇😇😇Stick by that decision sister.
Am here too am very confused
Let's be honest, the Proverbs 31 woman was the standard of perfection! Most women even the ones in the bible could not meet it. God's grace help all of us!
Amen ❤️💯
No one should kill themselves trying to measure up to perfection of the Proverbs 31 woman.
Just because of a man.
Do your best, BECAUSE OF YOU!
Haven't you noticed that the women married to the best of men are not better than you in any way?
Just ask God that time & chance should favor you!
Grace Ibelegbu So true ✅💯❤️...
Grace Ibelegbu 👍
Read Proverbs 31 but do it without the mindset that someone is expecting you to be a perfect being. Breakdown each verse in simple terms and you'll see she's not so unattainable for any woman. She's godly, wise, invests wisely, is a leader and a joy to her home.
Thanks for this video Sir! Looking forward to the video where you address mistakes men make. It’s not ladies alone who need to put work in a relationship!
4. Throwing away other vital relationships.
5. Not building yourself.
Thank you.
thank you pastor these words realy inspired me
have me tinnking different about myself so true
i feel like crying
thank you
Thank you Pastor Kingsley. Sending love and light from Kenya🇰🇪. God bless you.
Thank you very much Pastor
Spiritually, emotionally, domestically, financially, mentally, social lý, physically.
This is so real, alot of wisdom backed by scripture, it's amazing!
God bless you sir for your advice, That shit happened to me, too available, and give too much, because of that no respect, no love, he treated me like a piece of trash 😥 I pray I find who will love and respect me 👌😢.
This is so packed. Thank you so much. You're a blessing Pastor
Thanks alot for all of these from episode 1 to 2. Am blessed. You are my mentor in the counseling field. I love you sir. I hope to meet you some day. I celebrate grace sir. May God replenish. 🇨🇲
I agree with these points. it was until i developed myself in some specific ways that i found a man and he was also looking for someone like me.
True
God truly gave you wisdom. when I see you, I see your wife. A good woman she must be. ✨
God bless you continuesly. 🌟✨
Oh my goodness! These are really words of wisdom for even divorced or widowed ladies... Watching this over and over again, thank you Pastor Kingsley, God bless you.
More grace sir, when I remember you and pst Funke I give God glory and I pray for grace to make deep impart
God bless you sir......thank you for the thousands of single & married people you are saving through your message.
Sir you're truly a blessing to this generation, indeed I love you and I love your teachings... Permit me to say that you're my Passive Mentor.. God's Grace Sir
Watching from Kenya.... this has really touched me...I was in a confused relationship but now I know how to handle it.....God bless you indeed you such a blessing
Preach.. That was food to my soul...but could have done a single video😁😁😁😥
And I just made a decision to put this points into action... Thank you Sir.... Its mind blowing
👍👍👍👍👍👍 i learnt alot.It is funny knowing that we live with some mistakes as though they are not mistakes.God help us
I am blessed. For the sort of relationship to stay away from, I thank God all Pastor K said I have just put them in place.
Thank the lord for seeing this before i make a mistake babra from uganda
I believe with everything good, there is bad. So we have good friends and bad friends and good family members and bad family members. I also believe it's important to discern what it is healthy for your relationship.
OMG pastor k! I’m just learning this truth recently please how do we make amends especially when we have made this mistakes
Pastor K you say show your intelligence. Well my relationship just broke up and when I asked the guy what went wrong he said I was to strong for him like strong willed. I honestly laughed out loud.
Thank you so much pastor Kingsley
God bless you 🙏
Indeed, we need to develop in all areas, especially spiritually
First time may God continually bless you Pastor love this.
Bless you Sir, I am learning so much. Many blessings and I thrive to be a proverbs 31 woman 😊
1st point very important
One thing I never do throw away my friends nor family... I was dating a man but he told me to get rid of my close male friend,he felt threatened by him ,telling me to choose between him and my friend ,I told him I’ll never abandon my friend I’ve known for long for someone I just got to know....some man are really emotional abusive
Pastor you have been an inspiration. I have introduced most of my friends to your teaching. Male/female.How can I purchase your books online internationally.
You can
Amazon
Healed by Truth thanks I will check
Thank youuuuuuuuuuu for everything Dad, God bless you
I'm so blessed Sir, may God empower you much more because you are changing lives.I strongly agree to this,the things most women do in order to get closer to" Mr right " are instead pulling them away from Him.
I am a new subscriber to your channel and have listened to just a few of your videos.
I would like to say sir, towards the end of this video I felt like just letting rip in my prayer language of the Spirit.....
I felt like just opening my mouth and let the language just pour forth unhindered endlessly!
My God and my Father !
I agreed so much with what you were saying sir, that I don't know which point to leave out from commenting on...
And I'm not just wowed only; I'm the type when you teach, I repent and do the right thing .
I like to say I'm single, 60 , of course have been married before in my mid twenties and as I look over my life I can say,yes Lord, thank You for the beautiful and deeply rewarding journey for now I realise, this is what it has been.
But for some time in my mid years I didn't think so.
Right now, for the days that I'm having with two beautiful grown girls that the Lord has blessed me with ; I'm living my life to be the very attractive version of who God created me to be.
1st and foremost I'm doing it for myself, for myself sir, and I humbly can say; I like what I see there.
It's so rewarding because there are no issues of saying no one is giving me accolades....
It's for me.
I'm doing it for my God for I have since realized He clearly appreciates the strengths He has blessed me with.
So presently I'm living my life to delight Him who has walked this journey with me thus far and gave me the privilege of knowing Him as I know Him today
Lord Jesus, none is Your equal, in my heart and in my life !
And I'm actively being the very best version of who I can be so I bring real worth to the table to the man who will be coming in my life.
This video has been so insightful ! Thank you so so much !,
Wow. Wow wow. I am so blessed. I feel so lifted and fired up in my spirit
I'm so inspired by dis.thank you sir and God bless you 🙏
Thanks so much Pastor, Doctor Hope our ladies have heard.
All I can say is i am blessed by this video. More anointing
Thank you so much , Kingsley the servant of the most high God,the mistakes AVE done in life could not have happened ,if I knew some of these things earlier ,but I still thank God for you,the very first time listening to you and my heart is blessed, there's a relationship iwas in and am now understanding,this man usually spoke of the things you saying here and ,I just appreciate him though he had his weaknesses but he could tell me this things and understand why he reacted on some issues though the relationship was still young and he has his past life,but he is more mature ,it's been abt 3 wks no talking now en I feel so bad I think we need to talk please
Pastor u have opened my eyes I was really blind
Thanks pastor, a big No to Ex
enlightenment in our lives thankyou pastor sir for this
The first part was a blessing to me,and I'm sure this will add to it. Thank you pastor!
Your teaching has really helped me go along way in life and relationship stuff. Am always relieve wen ever i listening to u. Thanks Sir
God bless you
Thank you Sir for this!! You make me known my Worth! God bless you !!
May God keep blessing you and giving you more wisdom Man of God.
This is just simply a breath of fresh air for me thank you pastor 😄
I've learnt a lot, you are very right sir.
Thank you as always Pastor! God bless
These point we need to teach to our daughter as teenagers
Thank you so much for this teaching , you are making so much sense and they are real.
You are always a blessing Sir!
It blows my mind....
I'm blessed....
More grace sir, am blessed by this message.
God bless us, and make us pure, Amen!
This is so inspiring , honestly. Thank you Sir
Number 4 today to comment......
Thank you so much for your teaching sir i have learn alot from this video God richly bless you sir
Thanks thanks thanks alot sir, you have really made my day..... thanks for your advice and your explanations iam very happy to hear everything you have said
Amazing!!! Taking notes and applying them to my life
Pastor k you are indeed Gods sent!
I am really blessed with this.. Thank you..
Waoooooow! I am really thankful for this Sir ! God continue to bless you for this wisdom.. You just gave me the bitter truth of my life ! 🙏 Thank God that I came across this video
Am a lady and I personally agree to this.
Be blessed pastor
I bless the day I stumbled on your page
great inspiration and advices man of GOD.
God bless you Sir
Powerful knowledge can’t tell you how much I appreciate these knowledge Just a pity 🤦🏽♀️ .
4. Throwing Away other Vital Relationships--
5. Not Building Yourself (Spiritually, Financially, Domestically, Mentally, Physically/Emotionally, Socially)
Spiritually-- They love the Lord and serve the Lord. Reading scripture. Are you involved in the church
Financially-- Businesses
Domestically- cooking; sewing;
Mentally-- Information; education.
Physically-- nice clothes; strengthened her arms
Emotionally-- Did her husband good all the days of her life.
Socially--Gave to those in need. She knew how to relate to her husband and other people.
Wisdom Point 1: List the areas you want to develop
Wisdom Point 2: Come up with a solution/ simple plan. (ie: join a book club to develop mentally and socially)
Wisdom Point 3 Get a mentor
Wisdom Point 4. Choose your friends strategically
I am in love with this message thanks you sir
Minerals...thanks pastor
I am always on the lookout for great things.
I'm a victim of this,now I'm regretting,cus I don't have friends but I'm trying to get things things back
I got stuck in a relationship where all my friends became the worst people on earth, although they never changed me into a bad person. Most of my close relatives and family members had inappropriate behaviors with my partner... From a person who claimed to be tolerant, I was constantly being judged for my former religious beliefs, the preachings, teachings, pastors I used to listen to and follow... Even my prayer points were subject to comments! It took time before I was able to name what I was going through: manipulation. I thank God for opening my eyes and bringing me out of this relationship!
Jjj
Thank you so much sir! I really learn a lot from your teachings
This just spoke to me. Thank you Pastor
Am waiting
Thanks very much pastor
I did that neglect other relationships and now I feel sad
Thank you Daddy 🙏
Amazing stuff as always, Please make a video for the guys too.
Thank you so much for this video Sir
God bless you sir for this word of wisdom
All these points are just excellent reminders ! On my way to a better myself :)
thank you , so good
Thanks pastor k, this is really deep.
Wowwww! Amazing...I learned alot.Thanks Sir!
Thank you so much ok
God bless you
Awesome,thanks you so much for these
Pastor K, God bless you for all that you do.
This is awesome and amazing.
please Sir the volume was a bit so low.
Thank you pastor for the brain opening
This is a wonderful message. I am a witness
Deep.. thanks for Sharing Pastor. 🙏
Thank you for this....God bless you
Thank you man of God, your words are very wise, God bless you 🙏🙏
Am learning alot
Thxs sir! May God bless you 🙏🙏
I found this really helpful and impactful. Thank you sir!