I found your channel yesterday. Tone is everything. So much is so true-we are motivated to start with our 6. 3 adopted. I wondered how your techniques work with children that aren’t Neuro typical- kids on the spectrum/ Neuro processing disorders etc. We are in crisis but God is faithful and I know he led me here.
I have my 12 year old nephew and 9 year old niece in my care and lying, dishonest chores, and pretty much everything you said. This has become such a big problem for the boy just like you said everything EVERYTHING that comes out of his mouth was some sort of lie. I told him last night at my breaking point that if he needs to start being the trustworthy person that he wants to be he needs to start telling the truth and being honest. I’m going to share with them your story, and change my tone I know that that can be something I need to work on especially if it helps him to stop.
I love the self-analysis happening and the change of heart you're having! That's the first step! You've got this! teachingselfgovernment.com/tsg-parenting-course/
Such a good character and good advices. I have a little brother that keeps lie ALL the time... I just knew he is lying and i could easily break him down to confess. But that wasn't gonna help isnt it?... I needed to know of a safe route to approach the situation to solve it in the best possible way. This video was more than amazing and helpful thank you!
Im having trouble with my 15 yr old. Her lies scare me because her acting is so good I'd believe it if i hadn't double checked what shes claiming but she dropped a bomb on me 2 days ago where i dont even know what to do or what to believe
In reality this actually isn't funny.....But....it slick made me smirk laugh 😂 an u just don't know....I really needed that lil laugh ....But reach out to teachers about homework schedule or try to explain to child homework is still a huge part their grade
Then you have to go by intuition/inspiration. Then, pre-teach that, in the future, if they don't want to have negative consequences for what you feel is a lie, then they need to do lots of things in honesty and truth to gain back your trust and make deposits into the "relationship bank account."
That could be for a number of reasons. It could be that you're scared of revealing the truth because it could cause conflict, which is often undesirable. It could also be that your trust is weak, which makes you wary of opening up. I'm not sure of your situation, but I'm sure I could answer more of your question if I knew more of your situation. I'd be happy to give you more advice on my Support Group call! Here's the link, if you'd like more information: teachingselfgovernment.com/store/support-group/ I hope this helps!
You're so noble for admitting your past mistakes...
I do my best! Admitting mistakes is one of the most important steps to growing and learning.
Love your story from when you were 14 and had the change of heart! It would make a great short kids book to teach little ones!
Not a bad idea! Thanks for sharing!
I found your channel yesterday. Tone is everything. So much is so true-we are motivated to start with our 6. 3 adopted. I wondered how your techniques work with children that aren’t Neuro typical- kids on the spectrum/ Neuro processing disorders etc. We are in crisis but God is faithful and I know he led me here.
That’s who this program was designed for. I took in foster children who were not neuro typical, and this is what we did.
I have my 12 year old nephew and 9 year old niece in my care and lying, dishonest chores, and pretty much everything you said. This has become such a big problem for the boy just like you said everything EVERYTHING that comes out of his mouth was some sort of lie. I told him last night at my breaking point that if he needs to start being the trustworthy person that he wants to be he needs to start telling the truth and being honest. I’m going to share with them your story, and change my tone I know that that can be something I need to work on especially if it helps him to stop.
I love the self-analysis happening and the change of heart you're having! That's the first step! You've got this!
teachingselfgovernment.com/tsg-parenting-course/
Awesome video. Thank you for sharing your knowledge
Such a good character and good advices.
I have a little brother that keeps lie ALL the time... I just knew he is lying and i could easily break him down to confess. But that wasn't gonna help isnt it?...
I needed to know of a safe route to approach the situation to solve it in the best possible way. This video was more than amazing and helpful thank you!
Thank you for all that you do!
You're welcome!
❤thank you
Im having trouble with my 15 yr old. Her lies scare me because her acting is so good I'd believe it if i hadn't double checked what shes claiming but she dropped a bomb on me 2 days ago where i dont even know what to do or what to believe
Thank you for you time because in the end thats all we got
You're welcome, Paul. I know people need help and I consider it my mission to share what I know so that I can help as much as I can.
Thank you. 💐❤
You're welcome!
Great presentation! What if a teenager lies to his grandmother?.... about his homework? He “never” has any!!
In reality this actually isn't funny.....But....it slick made me smirk laugh 😂 an u just don't know....I really needed that lil laugh ....But reach out to teachers about homework schedule or try to explain to child homework is still a huge part their grade
Awesome
Thank you! I'm glad you liked it!
What if you can't get the child to own up to the lie?
Then you have to go by intuition/inspiration. Then, pre-teach that, in the future, if they don't want to have negative consequences for what you feel is a lie, then they need to do lots of things in honesty and truth to gain back your trust and make deposits into the "relationship bank account."
Can u help me not lie
It's possible! Feel free to ask me your full questions on my Support Group call: teachingselfgovernment.com/store/support-group/
I have a hard time telling the truth to my boyfriend
That could be for a number of reasons. It could be that you're scared of revealing the truth because it could cause conflict, which is often undesirable. It could also be that your trust is weak, which makes you wary of opening up. I'm not sure of your situation, but I'm sure I could answer more of your question if I knew more of your situation. I'd be happy to give you more advice on my Support Group call! Here's the link, if you'd like more information: teachingselfgovernment.com/store/support-group/
I hope this helps!