RELAXING MY NATURAL HAIR | FAIL.. | HAIR FELL OUT... |

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  • @staciep2638
    @staciep2638 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    If you have a permanent colour and you relax double process your hair will fall out.

  • @spacexghost888
    @spacexghost888 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    You are supposed to relax your hair first and then bleach. I did this the other way and all my hair fell out. After you relax your hair you can wait about 3 weeks before you bleach it, but make sure to do a test strand first! Good luck!

  • @morevaluethanrubiesxo1175
    @morevaluethanrubiesxo1175 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Omgggg 😭😭 i remember getting a relaxer as a kid and having so much anxiety, fearfully ANTICIPATING the burning 😭 emotional torture. Im 17 and natural now and just thinking about going back makes me nervous 💀💀💀

  • @malicahamilton
    @malicahamilton 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What people don’t realise is that once you relax your hair you need to do the roots every 6 - 8 weeks 😅 you can’t just do it the once because your hair won’t revert back to normal is has to grow out ☺️

  • @angelhearon6052
    @angelhearon6052 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    It was at that moment she knew she messed up the moment she put that relaxer on her processed hair 💀

  • @capp2223
    @capp2223 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love the confidence you have girl ☺😍

  • @f.u.noseyassstalker7147
    @f.u.noseyassstalker7147 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you for sharing now I'm going to share. I'm not understanding why everyone I see a person apply a relaxer or color ( even ) they go right in right after they finished applying all these chemicals ( that changes their regular ( molecular structure ) to their hair, they start all this nervous kind of behavior.
    Not realizing that your scalp & your roots and the hair is extremely, extremely fragile at this moment, & maybe forever after .
    Basically once you've finished. DONT TOUCH/ PULL/COMB/BRUSH it. If you feel the need to....try not to do it in a bunch of different directions. It abuses the hair strand even worse.
    Just a word from the 🦉 wise 🦉.
    The 2nd/3rd week depending on the fragility or strength , try a Keratin treatment.
    Keep the hair moisturized but also strong.

  • @guymingi1312
    @guymingi1312 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Can’t take her seriously like girl come on now like common sense

  • @Shavyea
    @Shavyea 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    People talking about techniques.....stop doing it yourself dang, ur not a professional

    • @RedAdmiral101
      @RedAdmiral101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I advise going to a REPUTABLE professional, because there are also to many "professionals" out there who don't do a great job either.

    • @originallakeisha3732
      @originallakeisha3732 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yea you're right or if u really want to do it yourself do the thorough research. Also a test strand would be a smart move too

  • @_dezzi.a6308
    @_dezzi.a6308 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This just happened to me and When I say my heart is literally broken

  • @SimoneBrown
    @SimoneBrown 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Same happened to me... you shouldn't relax bleached hair... it's literally written on the instructions

  • @zordiahwhite5315
    @zordiahwhite5315 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Ohhh I see. That color still fresh to the root. Makes sense

    • @pressureddiamond3062
      @pressureddiamond3062 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly,if she would have waited 6 months,used aphogee 2 step before and after she would have been fine.

    • @mialong2363
      @mialong2363 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@pressureddiamond3062 ok this makes sense because i bleach my hair 2 years ago and relax it yesterday and my hair never fell off.

  • @ellie5373
    @ellie5373 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    unrelated but her skin is so pretty and smooth

  • @TheSkyhazFallen
    @TheSkyhazFallen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sorry about your hair, but that teal green looks hot.

    • @itssharrne
      @itssharrne  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you i loved it too 😂if only I didn’t fuck it up

  • @TeenaDavis101
    @TeenaDavis101 ปีที่แล้ว

    The God of self esteem please help black women around the world.

  • @janicephillips6003
    @janicephillips6003 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I heard that if you perm your hair to allow 2weeks before coloring and if you color your hair allow 2weeks to perm it

  • @deboramtolela9986
    @deboramtolela9986 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    i used relaxer and my hair was natural colored with no bleach or dying, it still fell out. i recommend using oils and no relaxer.

  • @videorocketzmillar007milla5
    @videorocketzmillar007milla5 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Relax first. Bleach a month later. If you relax newly bleach hair yoyr hair is porous and will turn gummy fall out like straw. U condition the hair with conditioner for relaxed hair only with added warm oils every week after you color the hair. Its strong enough to take a relaxer after 3 to 4 weeks. Base that scalp with Vaseline before you slap that relaxer on. Keep smoothing till you are ready to shampoo. Use warm oil coat the hair then neutralize shampoo until water is clear. Condition condition condition that hair after relaxing using a plastic bag over head wait 1 hour and wash with shampoo for relaxed hair. Condition again and rinse. Gently pat dry. Apply warm oil just a dime size and style. Takes me 5 hours from start to finish. Now I press hair since pandemic as I can't afford to relax. I have conditioner and oil in my hair as we speak with plastic bag. I will wash condition oil and dry then press. Still takes 5 hours. Take your time do it right and your hair will be beautiful. Trim the ends after just half inch and yoyr hair will be thick.

  • @originallakeisha3732
    @originallakeisha3732 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You're asking my your hair is turning blonde and I'm here loving the way u speak

  • @ashamwajabu8434
    @ashamwajabu8434 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I wash watched this video before I relaxed my hair 😭😭 my hair fall out so bad I thought I had some type of disease still crying 😢 never again

    • @originallakeisha3732
      @originallakeisha3732 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm sorry u had to experience that

    • @nycdyke2867
      @nycdyke2867 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@originallakeisha3732 lmfao it’ll grow back

    • @originallakeisha3732
      @originallakeisha3732 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@nycdyke2867 so because it'll grow back I shouldn't feel sorry that she had to lose it in the first place ?

  • @kyaireaa6795
    @kyaireaa6795 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    thsts dope how it went from blonde then back to blue

  • @Deedeedaisy100
    @Deedeedaisy100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Me currently!!! In my restroom searching TH-cam for how to handle the situation

  • @cynthiaadams4322
    @cynthiaadams4322 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    you are not suppose to use relaxer on bleached hair now you have to cut it off or deep condition lol

  • @queendavina9866
    @queendavina9866 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😲😂 that was so wierd the way your blue hair turned blonde. I've never seen that before. 😂

  • @ThisisTianaa
    @ThisisTianaa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Really like the new intro!🥰

  • @iamdanie_.
    @iamdanie_. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Lol your hair turning blonde but realize it's only on the colored side so it's a chemical reaction 😅😅.
    Chemical on chemical. I doubt you're a chemist so don't do it lol.

  • @jboepro1
    @jboepro1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your hair is turning blond because of the activator/LIFTER. You don’t perm bleached hair. Your whole scalp should have been based and I would have actually used a petroleum based product on your hair especially the bleached side.

  • @barbsmagic5933
    @barbsmagic5933 ปีที่แล้ว

    My momma use to perm my hair all the time she stopped 4 years ago tho

  • @tiabriscoe1653
    @tiabriscoe1653 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sis, my bleached hair which I had for a while was clumping and falling out when I relaxed my natural hair after 6years. I am going to just cut it off and Rick my short hair... I mean it's just hair right lol

    • @itssharrne
      @itssharrne  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Literally what i did at January last year and my hair is nice and healthy now but it wont stop me from dying it again😂 i just wont go near no damn relaxer again

    • @mialong2363
      @mialong2363 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Im confused because i relaxed my hair yesterday and i have bleach my hair 2 years ago and my hair never fell off

    • @itssharrne
      @itssharrne  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mialong2363 You had a longer time period in between your bleach and relaxer where as I didn’t. I relaxed it almost 2 weeks after a changed the color to blue

    • @sasorah6414
      @sasorah6414 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@itssharrne I relaxed my hair today and it fell off. I dyed my hair in September. I was so confused why it fell off. I cried so much because I kept it for 4 years and now I have to start again

    • @itssharrne
      @itssharrne  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sasorah6414 Yeah sometimes it can be unpredictable but you’re hair was probably over processed - But you know what there’s absolutely nothing wrong with starting again. Enjoy the process 😊

  • @ladysingsdablues7615
    @ladysingsdablues7615 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why does the blackside of your hair still look like it didn't relax?

    • @itssharrne
      @itssharrne  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It wasn’t left on long enough for the full process to happen but it definitely did have a slight change in texture

  • @brittanyarchie460
    @brittanyarchie460 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    “Why is my hair is turning blonde?” But keep adding product..
    Honestly I would’ve took it out at the 8 mins

  • @youtubeacc1938
    @youtubeacc1938 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Shall I relax my hair first or dye it?

    • @itssharrne
      @itssharrne  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      definitely relax it first otherwise you'll end up like me LOL.

    • @1jazzyphae
      @1jazzyphae 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Neither lol protective style and take care of your hair. I almost relaxed my hair. It's 4c waist length. The hair dressers kindly talked me out of it and I'm so glad. I just keep it braided and well hydrated.

  • @roseplaysadoptme6445
    @roseplaysadoptme6445 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    If u have perm color when u relax ur hair is gonna fall out also ur not really supposed to apply it to hair with color its very risky and majority of the time people wind up with bald patches or shaving their heads bald u might not wanna put ur hands through ur hair when its still wet because it not as strong as it is when dried so its gonna fall out easily

  • @angiewheat3318
    @angiewheat3318 ปีที่แล้ว

    Perm will take the color out .

  • @jaritacampbell183
    @jaritacampbell183 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It’s because of the chemical in the relaxer!!😀😀😀😀

  • @ladykiller3009
    @ladykiller3009 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That's not how you relax your hair of course it will fall out

  • @yolandawebb3032
    @yolandawebb3032 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wait... your hair is falling out and you STILL left the relaxer in??!??.. interesting...

  • @jflsdknf
    @jflsdknf 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ladies stop relaxing when your hair is already processed

  • @mrs.wilson3971
    @mrs.wilson3971 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just do a blue rinse until you go black....

  • @vlogswithjojo876
    @vlogswithjojo876 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You have color in you're hair ....

    • @itssharrne
      @itssharrne  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Say swear? I didn’t realise

    • @vlogswithjojo876
      @vlogswithjojo876 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol how's it going now growth ,!?

    • @itssharrne
      @itssharrne  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@vlogswithjojo876Its going alright not too far off from shoulder length but im contemplating doing a big chop again or just doing locs

    • @gamesandjournalythings
      @gamesandjournalythings 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah bleach and relaxer don’t mix!!