This is also shown on chad fish dating app experiments. The girl will be talking about so much in common and deep connection when the guy said literally nothing. The backpill is undefeated.
This video is so true! You’re so on point! It’s not even debatable at this point. So many are finally waking up to the truth. It’s not the end of the world. We just have to realistic about the nature of women.
I don't know how that is something to genuinely be proud of? Its more so just obvious. Good-looking man or women will get more stares and attention if there good-looking simple.
Those no spark texts may as well have been this woman I went on a first date with. We matched on Hinge, less than 5 messages, in less than 24 hours, she asked me out, for that same night. I planned the date still, ironically. She said I was very cool and interesting but just wasn't feeling it. Then she tried to continue the conversation. I ghosted her. Regardless of spark this or spark that I found it weird that she found me attractive enough to ask me out herself so quickly and then was just as quick to end things. Reeked of Disney princess syndrome. She was 32, I was 29. She came across as thinking I was more interested in her than I really was. She was the oldest woman I had ever gone on a date with at the time. I've started immediately throwing my number at women I've matched with offering a phone call to chat before I ask them out. Actually works perfectly fine. It's a great method to see how interested she is in you. Only messaging before is the initial match. If a woman says no or whatever then I saved myself the time. All about looks.
If she matched with you on a dating app and you dated her she must have been attracted to your picture you must be somewhat good looking atleast . To get a date on a dating app you need to be atleast HTN and best and that's at best! Just some questions? Did you fraud your pictures? face tune? photo shop or other? Are you average or above average? What height are you? Usually when your rejected on a dating app date it's to do with not correlating to the way your face looks in the picture or your height . Like the guy says in this video, most rejections by women are to do with looks.
@@davidroche7685 The picture I use that 99% of women like is the one where I'm smiling on a date. I cropped out the woman I was on a date with and the picture is in an arcade. There's no photoshop but it isn't perfectly sharp image quality. It is not a misrepresentation of my looks. It's like they can sense there was a woman in the picture, pre-selection. Wheat Waffles rated me a 5/10 and I'd agree. I'm 5'7, 143lb, fit, abs, a woman I've been talking to complimented my biceps. Ironic because I have a small frame and will never look like a body builder. I didn't have my first date until I was 28 and am a kissless virgin. This past year I have had 4 dates. I've been on 5 dates total in my entire life with my 6th date ever scheduled this saturday. I've never gotten a second date from any woman. Granted, one woman we both mutually rejected each other.
@@user-pm9pw6cj4c just remember when your the trophy you make much less, have less freedom and less responsibility. Keep that in mind. Somebody has to be the breadwinner and it's certainly not going to be the trophy. Thanks for volunteering. Society could use more people like yourself.
6:13 this is the type of attention I was seeking in my 20's. But was confused by this chemistry because these were girls that were similar to me and average plain janes too. I later learned the true nature of the dating landscape and why people they typically have "chemistry" with don't work out. Great life lesson I'm grateful for. I would say I wished I had learned it sooner but that might have detracted from other things I experienced and did. Try, fail, learn and grow kings. Don't hate women they aren't innocent creatures but most aren't evil either. Doesn't excuse the hoeflation nowadays but there's is much to be learned and appreciated in today's age as unlikely as it seems.
@@ascended266Will Smith is an old Tyrone. Jada is just a problematic hag still crying over a rapper who caught machine gun fire to the chest 20 years ago. Yamcha is 6,2, scarred, jacked and good looking. Please he’s more of a catch than Goku in the Black pill standards. Goku is 5,9 but his status as the worlds strongest only puts him on equal terms in looks as Yamcha.
I got into a habbit of watching Damian Kater shorts recently, and his comment section is just on another level of delusional😂 The girls there come up with shit like "I feel like behind those eyes there's tragedy" (real comment, I wish it was fake) and saying stuff how he's so nice and polite and charming and considerate😂😂 you can't make this stuff up. It actually makes my blood boil
8:15 voice pill is way underrated. If u have a deep and a warm voice its a decent bonus to have i would say its 10-15% of the spark. i myself have a top tier voice and its a cheat code with girls. Oh and nowadays its not LMS. Its LLL. Well unless u wanna betabux.
In my experience, whenever I’ve gotten a girl’s number and she texted me first, yeah that usually meant she had high interest in me. It’s also pretty funny how you chuckle mid sentence whenever talking about your experiences getting black pilled, as that can be pretty traumatizing for many guys if it happens over and over
When women say there was “no chemistry”, what they really mean is that said man was ugly, and he did not fire off the brain chemicals that go off in a vvoman’s brain when she actually does find a man that is physically attractive.
Bro, I had that happen to me a few times. One time on a dating app this Brazilian chick called me babe immediately after calling me handsome. And another time a Latina gave me a kissy face emoji after the first night that we talked to each other after she saw my face. And I’m not going to lie. I was both excited and creeped out at the same time if that makes sense.
Towards the end the only thing I have is they could be somewhat attracted to you but you aren’t their first choice. 95% of the time I get ghosted by then and don’t even get an explanation. 😂 that’s how over it is… I think if they respond but give you a long bullshit text it isn’t so much they aren’t attracted but you are not the first choice and or you aren’t in the niche they prefer. If you are unattractive they just won’t talk to you again and totally ghost you and block you or unmatched even. I have had this happen multiple times.
Yeah, you're pretty spot on here. If they ghost you completely, they typically have zero attraction. If they give you a long explanation, they may be seeing someone else that they like more.
@@ascended266 also something I noticed on tinder after firing it up a few months ago is that there is a lot of IG women or bots (maybe not even real?) who are matching with you and then only posting IG link in their description (in hopes you subscribe to them) and they will never talk to you. This happens mostly on tinder now and not so much the other dating apps. I call them IG farmers. You’ll know in your mind after matching with them “this is too good to be true and low and behold it’s an IG farmer”.
@@ascended266But if I’ma chad like you said no girls will reject me at all I should be able to get every girl I see in life if I want to I’ma chad from my tinder life should hand everything to me tbh!
You say that we've got nothing in common No common ground to start from And we're falling apart You'll say the world has come between us Our lives have come between us But I know you just don't care And I said "What about Breakfast at Tiffany's?" She said, "I think I remember that film And as I recall, I think we both kinda liked it." And I said "Well, that's one thing we've got."
@@ascended266Sub5s are lucky they have apps like FaceApp for face and shoes like Calto shoes for height plus the option online to buy and purchase fame online and purchase professional movie prop movie to flex with to get girls but then realize their screwed when they meet her in person lolol😂😂😂
you got a pretty wild story bro. going from completely bald and super overweight when you were young with women treating you like you had the plague to getting insane reactions like this from women after improving your looks. I honestly think you should be in the looksmaxxing hall of fame lol
I mean lets be honest attraction is 90% based. It doesnt matter how much you spark with someone on the psychological level if you cant get turned on by them because they are not physically attractive to you. That being said most attractive womens standards are unrealisticly high.
Great video bro. I wanted to ask what bf% did you need to achieve for a lean face. Because im at 15% and i see no changes. Im afraid if i get to like 12-10% and still look kinda bloated i might have to go for buccal fat removal surgery. Feels like this is the only thing stopping me cause i already have good base features like my height (6'4) blue eyes and still normie face even with the extra fat there
@@ascended266same with me. A couple of years ago I got down to like 13% body fat (according to those handheld devices that public gyms have, those are only so accurate). Looking back at pics of my face at that time, it was decently lean and my jawline was showing even more
I just assume women don’t really know what they want tbh. I went on a date with this one girl went perfectly fine she was making out with me end of the night, and holding my hand. I go on a second date, also went really well and again we ended the night kissing and all that. Then I ask her her opinions of me kinda like how you did, and she comes out of left field and is like “I don’t know if we have a lot in common and this and that, idk if there’s a connection” I said aight basically and went about my business. Now after I said whatever she’s blowing up my phone after and sending whole ass novels for texts. So I’m convinced she said all that shit just to play it off like she wasn’t interested. Women play far too many games. I hope that it was just games she was playing otherwise women just truly have no idea what they want.
Thanks for sharing your perspective. Some women definitely don't know what they want and will like you one day and the next day they lose interest for the most random reason.
How soon did she start blowing up your phone? If it was like 24 hours later, then it was a test. She wanted to see if you'd start crying or get really mad, etc. If she started blowing up your phone 24 days later, then a better guy had come around before your second date. But, that flopped. So, she went back to you. Just remember that even average women are deluged with internet messages and warm/cold approaches irl.
Never ask a woman you're dating what she thinks of you. You're kind of pedestalizing her when you ask such questions. Give her who gives a damn of your opinion vibe.
When I was around 2-3 months, very few new hairs were growing in. I experienced more shedding. It wasn't until the start of month 4 that I started seeing the transplanted hairs growing in.
"The 'Spark' Women Feel is Based On LOOKS" **Introduction:** In this video, the speaker discusses a recent personal experience to argue that the initial spark or chemistry a woman feels towards a man is predominantly based on physical attractiveness, estimating it to be around 90 to 95 percent. The speaker provides text examples to support this claim and delves into the nuances of attraction, emphasizing the role of looks in shaping romantic connections. **Body:** 1. **Airport Encounter:** - The speaker recounts an incident at an airport where a woman initiates a conversation, leading to a perceived spark. - Attributes the woman's interest to her physical appearance - petite stature, blonde hair, blue eyes, and high cheekbones. - The conversation evolves into deeper topics, but the speaker contends that the initial connection was primarily based on looks. - The woman's account reinforces the idea that physical attraction plays a crucial role in sparking romantic interest. 2. **Text Message Exchange:** - The speaker shares a text conversation with the woman, highlighting compliments about his appearance, particularly mentioning bracelets. - The exchange reveals the woman's emotional response to physical touch and the speaker's belief that looks are the primary factor in generating a spark. 3. **Contrasting Experiences:** - The speaker provides examples of dates where women express a lack of connection or spark. - Shares text messages where women attribute the lack of chemistry to physical attractiveness. - The speaker argues that if a woman doesn't find a man physically attractive, a genuine connection is unlikely, regardless of shared interests or personality traits. 4. **Insights into Female Perspective:** - Discusses how the woman assumed other women would be attracted to the speaker, highlighting the impact of perceived attractiveness on jealousy. - Reflects on the contrast in treatment based on the speaker's physical appearance, comparing experiences when he was overweight to the current situation. **Conclusion:** The speaker concludes by reiterating the central argument that the spark or chemistry women feel is primarily based on looks. The examples provided, both positive and negative, serve as anecdotal evidence supporting the claim. The video encourages viewers to reflect on their own experiences and challenges the notion that factors like personality or shared interests play a significant role in the initial stages of romantic attraction. **Nuances and Controversies:** While the speaker presents a strong case for the dominance of looks in sparking attraction, alternative perspectives may argue for the importance of personality, shared values, and emotional connection in building lasting relationships. Additionally, the focus on physical attractiveness as the main determinant of chemistry may oversimplify the complex dynamics involved in human relationships. **Overall Assessment:** The video provides a detailed exploration of the speaker's perspective on the role of looks in romantic attraction. The inclusion of personal experiences, text messages, and contrasting examples contributes to a comprehensive examination of the topic, though viewers are encouraged to consider alternative viewpoints on the multifaceted nature of human connection.
As for the last point you made when you said that girls who are more attractive than you are more likely to reject you .. I think once you are 7+ in looks , you're automatically entitled to any decent looking girl even if she's higher than you lookswise for 2 main reasons : 1- As a 7/10 guy you already fall in the top 5% category , and that's when other factors such as status , charisma , lifestyle ect can - in your case - increase your overall attractiveness and compensate for being slightly less attractive than her , women don't usually tend to date up when it comes to physical attractiveness , tho they just look for an objectively attractive partner irrespective of whether he's more or less attractive than her. 2-At this point women can't actually tell whether or not she's more attractive than you , cus you can't be a 7 without having at least 1 exceptionally striking feature, which can give you a massive boost in most women's eyes , so they would rate you 1 or 2 points higher than your actual rating .. And the way i see it , Most 8-9 models/actresses end up dating or marrying filthy rich or very famous chadlites while chads settle for HTBs.
@@416god8chances are she won't find a better option .. that's why i said when a guy is chadlite he's already a minority and women are gonna have a hard time finding a better looking man ( this whole idea of women having it so easy to find chads and gigachads is a bit exaggerated imo)
You made some good points here. I think once you're at the 7/10 level, you definitely have way more options but it still comes down to the individual preferences of the particular girl and if they like your specific look and phenotype. It also depends on who else she is seeing at the time. There may be another guy that fits exactly what she is looking for.
08:41 AHHAAH I received the exact same message, word by word. Tortured myself for weeks thinking about what I did wrong. Turns out she just didn't see me as attractive lmao
Do you have any intention of doing face-reveal before & after looksmaxing anytime soon ? Cus We'd like to see how you look after all these blackpilling anecdotes :)
Yeah, definitely at some point in the future. I'm trying to eventually transition from a corporate career to something more creative and then I would definitely want to be on camera.
Are petite blonde women your type or something? I feel like they’re a recurring part of your stories. What about brunettes? Or tall women? Redheads? Non-white? Just curious.
Yes, I typically do gravitate towards petite blonde girls but I also other types of women. I will do more videos on experience dating different types of girls.
Man Ascended is my mirror self. Just more white, and taller since I am a manlet but I've had these exact reactions. Compared to when I was a subhuman now I get so much more women interested in me, etc. But of course you'll still have some girls who are not interested after a date or two. I've been ghosted after a "date". Who cares. Had sex anyway LOL.
What you don't seem to understand is that your looks got you in the door on all of those dates... the last 2 where it didn't work out was because of your behavior and lack of mental seduction on the date. (it's not just physical).
If a girl likes you like really likes you, then she will go a mile to move you an inch. Shell think about you 24/7 and will be borerline codependent on you. Thats how strong they can get attached. How much "game" you have doesnt mean shit above being normal and not talking like a wierd high fucntioning austist
Yes and no I would say. I think you are correct in that my looks did initially get me in the door to go on the date. In regards to it being my behavior, possibly but it could have been a wide variety of things that have nothing to do with that.
that's because status and lifestyle also matter a lot. one of the reasons I can hold on to the women better now that I'm after. after I have more money, for example to be able to travel often, to go out often. as I only want to attract fit feminine 6-7 women
The exact same thing I was thinking. Not necessarily shallow on either one of their parts, just natural. Though wmn shouldn’t get that right apparently.
Yeah, I plan on doing videos on Bumble and Hinge where I go through my matches and show pictures. I have a video on this channel of my clubbing experience in Las Vegas where I show a picture of a girl from a story in the video.
Sexual energy is a part of it. I can't deny that but a lot of your sexual energy also comes from your appearance(how fit you are, fashion, jewelry, etc.)
This definitely happens. My overarching point was that the initial spark is mostly influenced by looks. After this, I can definitely see your point. There are definitely a lot of ways to lose attraction with a girl who was initially interested in you.
This is all CAP. I AM THAT SPARK. It does NOT matter AT ALL what I look like. The only thing that matters is if your HIM, Himothy, Himmy McGill, Him Jong Un. I can tell you exactly what you did wrong with the petite blonde in the beginning, and how you put yourself in the friendzone. Not only did you put all that value on HER looks, which BTW she cant control her looks, that's genetics, but she can control the content of her character. What does it matter what she looks like if she is going to disrespect you or cheat on you?? Your giving very bad information to impressionable young males. She probably felt like she was on a job interview with all your boring "questions", so you assume its your looks, when in fact you just have no game. If you would learn how to talk to women the right way, your looks wont matter at all.
@Chadlite I dont have to feel depressed about not getting girls cuz I swipe everyday and get 10 matches a day on Tinder just started 3 days ago within that time span I have gotten over 200 matches since then
Yep, "I don't feel a spark" usually translates to "you're ugly." It's really that simple.
I feel you. It doesn't usually mean "you're ugly" but it definitely means "I don't find you physically attractive."
This is also shown on chad fish dating app experiments. The girl will be talking about so much in common and deep connection when the guy said literally nothing. The backpill is undefeated.
Haha yeah it's hilarious!
Don't be a free agent in life, let the blackpill guide you.
he doesn't say that anymore
Women will quickly blackpill you.
@@kawasaki_kid8704
Preach!
Since your looks improved, your personality improves aswell hahah
Haha yep! #haloeffect
This video is so true! You’re so on point! It’s not even debatable at this point. So many are finally waking up to the truth. It’s not the end of the world. We just have to realistic about the nature of women.
Blackpill W! Lol exactly, we just need to be realistic about the nature of women.
It’s not the end of the world, it’s the end of us lol
As a woman, i proudly admit that physical attraction and good looks in a man is important to me.
I don't know how that is something to genuinely be proud of? Its more so just obvious. Good-looking man or women will get more stares and attention if there good-looking simple.
No one cares "as a woman". Go away. This channel isn't for people like you.
Those no spark texts may as well have been this woman I went on a first date with. We matched on Hinge, less than 5 messages, in less than 24 hours, she asked me out, for that same night. I planned the date still, ironically. She said I was very cool and interesting but just wasn't feeling it. Then she tried to continue the conversation. I ghosted her. Regardless of spark this or spark that I found it weird that she found me attractive enough to ask me out herself so quickly and then was just as quick to end things. Reeked of Disney princess syndrome.
She was 32, I was 29. She came across as thinking I was more interested in her than I really was. She was the oldest woman I had ever gone on a date with at the time.
I've started immediately throwing my number at women I've matched with offering a phone call to chat before I ask them out. Actually works perfectly fine. It's a great method to see how interested she is in you. Only messaging before is the initial match. If a woman says no or whatever then I saved myself the time. All about looks.
If she matched with you on a dating app and you dated her she must have been attracted to your picture you must be somewhat good looking atleast . To get a date on a dating app you need to be atleast HTN and best and that's at best! Just some questions? Did you fraud your pictures? face tune? photo shop or other? Are you average or above average? What height are you? Usually when your rejected on a dating app date it's to do with not correlating to the way your face looks in the picture or your height . Like the guy says in this video, most rejections by women are to do with looks.
@@davidroche7685 The picture I use that 99% of women like is the one where I'm smiling on a date. I cropped out the woman I was on a date with and the picture is in an arcade. There's no photoshop but it isn't perfectly sharp image quality. It is not a misrepresentation of my looks. It's like they can sense there was a woman in the picture, pre-selection. Wheat Waffles rated me a 5/10 and I'd agree. I'm 5'7, 143lb, fit, abs, a woman I've been talking to complimented my biceps. Ironic because I have a small frame and will never look like a body builder.
I didn't have my first date until I was 28 and am a kissless virgin. This past year I have had 4 dates. I've been on 5 dates total in my entire life with my 6th date ever scheduled this saturday. I've never gotten a second date from any woman. Granted, one woman we both mutually rejected each other.
That's not a bad strategy man! If they take you up on chatting on the phone, you can definitely some good banter and rapport before the date.
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We went from trophy wife to trophy husband. Glad to see society is progressively moving forward. #growth
Haha very true man!
as it should be
@@user-pm9pw6cj4c just remember when your the trophy you make much less, have less freedom and less responsibility. Keep that in mind. Somebody has to be the breadwinner and it's certainly not going to be the trophy. Thanks for volunteering. Society could use more people like yourself.
@@user-pm9pw6cj4c no
TLDR it's over.
6:13 this is the type of attention I was seeking in my 20's. But was confused by this chemistry because these were girls that were similar to me and average plain janes too. I later learned the true nature of the dating landscape and why people they typically have "chemistry" with don't work out. Great life lesson I'm grateful for. I would say I wished I had learned it sooner but that might have detracted from other things I experienced and did. Try, fail, learn and grow kings. Don't hate women they aren't innocent creatures but most aren't evil either. Doesn't excuse the hoeflation nowadays but there's is much to be learned and appreciated in today's age as unlikely as it seems.
She wants Chad, not Adam22
She wants Tyrone, not Will Smith
She wants Goku, not Yamcha
Haha so true man! They also want Adam 22 and Will Smith because of their status though.
@@ascended266Will Smith is an old Tyrone. Jada is just a problematic hag still crying over a rapper who caught machine gun fire to the chest 20 years ago. Yamcha is 6,2, scarred, jacked and good looking. Please he’s more of a catch than Goku in the Black pill standards. Goku is 5,9 but his status as the worlds strongest only puts him on equal terms in looks as Yamcha.
@@ascended266 to be fair, adam22 is a good looking man
to be fair basing relationships on feelings is like catching farts in the wind
I got into a habbit of watching Damian Kater shorts recently, and his comment section is just on another level of delusional😂 The girls there come up with shit like "I feel like behind those eyes there's tragedy" (real comment, I wish it was fake) and saying stuff how he's so nice and polite and charming and considerate😂😂 you can't make this stuff up. It actually makes my blood boil
chad comment sections are always a cesspool. reading them thru a blackpill lense is torture
Haha BRUTAL
8:15 voice pill is way underrated. If u have a deep and a warm voice its a decent bonus to have i would say its 10-15% of the spark. i myself have a top tier voice and its a cheat code with girls. Oh and nowadays its not LMS. Its LLL. Well unless u wanna betabux.
Agreed! The voice pill is definitely underrated. Having a deep voice myself I can confirm that it definitely helps tremendously.
In my experience, whenever I’ve gotten a girl’s number and she texted me first, yeah that usually meant she had high interest in me.
It’s also pretty funny how you chuckle mid sentence whenever talking about your experiences getting black pilled, as that can be pretty traumatizing for many guys if it happens over and over
Yeah, that's been my experience as well!
In other news, water is wet.
In other news, the sky is blue.
When women say there was “no chemistry”, what they really mean is that said man was ugly, and he did not fire off the brain chemicals that go off in a vvoman’s brain when she actually does find a man that is physically attractive.
Bro, I had that happen to me a few times. One time on a dating app this Brazilian chick called me babe immediately after calling me handsome. And another time a Latina gave me a kissy face emoji after the first night that we talked to each other after she saw my face.
And I’m not going to lie. I was both excited and creeped out at the same time if that makes sense.
Haha exactly! I definitely felt a combination of both to be honest.
She was chadstruck
Lol yeah I guess so!
Good video, thanks
Towards the end the only thing I have is they could be somewhat attracted to you but you aren’t their first choice. 95% of the time I get ghosted by then and don’t even get an explanation. 😂 that’s how over it is… I think if they respond but give you a long bullshit text it isn’t so much they aren’t attracted but you are not the first choice and or you aren’t in the niche they prefer. If you are unattractive they just won’t talk to you again and totally ghost you and block you or unmatched even. I have had this happen multiple times.
This also happens to women. Quite often
Yeah, you're pretty spot on here. If they ghost you completely, they typically have zero attraction. If they give you a long explanation, they may be seeing someone else that they like more.
Yeah, it goes both ways.
@@ascended266 also something I noticed on tinder after firing it up a few months ago is that there is a lot of IG women or bots (maybe not even real?) who are matching with you and then only posting IG link in their description (in hopes you subscribe to them) and they will never talk to you. This happens mostly on tinder now and not so much the other dating apps. I call them IG farmers. You’ll know in your mind after matching with them “this is too good to be true and low and behold it’s an IG farmer”.
@@ascended266But if I’ma chad like you said no girls will reject me at all I should be able to get every girl I see in life if I want to I’ma chad from my tinder life should hand everything to me tbh!
You say that we've got nothing in common
No common ground to start from
And we're falling apart
You'll say the world has come between us
Our lives have come between us
But I know you just don't care
And I said "What about Breakfast at Tiffany's?"
She said, "I think I remember that film
And as I recall, I think we both kinda liked it."
And I said "Well, that's one thing we've got."
Things that could only happen to me in my dreams because my real life is a nightmare.
Sorry brotha! I've been there.
@@ascended266Sub5s are lucky they have apps like FaceApp for face and shoes like Calto shoes for height plus the option online to buy and purchase fame online and purchase professional movie prop movie to flex with to get girls but then realize their screwed when they meet her in person lolol😂😂😂
you got a pretty wild story bro. going from completely bald and super overweight when you were young with women treating you like you had the plague to getting insane reactions like this from women after improving your looks. I honestly think you should be in the looksmaxxing hall of fame lol
Thanks man! Yeah, it's honestly been a night and day difference.
I mean lets be honest attraction is 90% based. It doesnt matter how much you spark with someone on the psychological level if you cant get turned on by them because they are not physically attractive to you. That being said most attractive womens standards are unrealisticly high.
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Great video bro. I wanted to ask what bf% did you need to achieve for a lean face. Because im at 15% and i see no changes. Im afraid if i get to like 12-10% and still look kinda bloated i might have to go for buccal fat removal surgery. Feels like this is the only thing stopping me cause i already have good base features like my height (6'4) blue eyes and still normie face even with the extra fat there
Thanks man! I appreciate that. I had to get down to about 12% before my facial definition really started to show.
You need to be lean as fuck especially at that height for jawline and hollow cheeks to show. Also you could be slaying with your build .
@@ascended266same with me. A couple of years ago I got down to like 13% body fat (according to those handheld devices that public gyms have, those are only so accurate). Looking back at pics of my face at that time, it was decently lean and my jawline was showing even more
I just assume women don’t really know what they want tbh. I went on a date with this one girl went perfectly fine she was making out with me end of the night, and holding my hand. I go on a second date, also went really well and again we ended the night kissing and all that. Then I ask her her opinions of me kinda like how you did, and she comes out of left field and is like “I don’t know if we have a lot in common and this and that, idk if there’s a connection” I said aight basically and went about my business. Now after I said whatever she’s blowing up my phone after and sending whole ass novels for texts. So I’m convinced she said all that shit just to play it off like she wasn’t interested. Women play far too many games. I hope that it was just games she was playing otherwise women just truly have no idea what they want.
Thanks for sharing your perspective. Some women definitely don't know what they want and will like you one day and the next day they lose interest for the most random reason.
How soon did she start blowing up your phone? If it was like 24 hours later, then it was a test. She wanted to see if you'd start crying or get really mad, etc. If she started blowing up your phone 24 days later, then a better guy had come around before your second date. But, that flopped. So, she went back to you. Just remember that even average women are deluged with internet messages and warm/cold approaches irl.
Never ask a woman you're dating what she thinks of you. You're kind of pedestalizing her when you ask such questions. Give her who gives a damn of your opinion vibe.
Hey man about your hair transplants, when you were at your 2-3 month period was your hair growing out a bit or was it shedding still?
When I was around 2-3 months, very few new hairs were growing in. I experienced more shedding. It wasn't until the start of month 4 that I started seeing the transplanted hairs growing in.
"The 'Spark' Women Feel is Based On LOOKS"
**Introduction:**
In this video, the speaker discusses a recent personal experience to argue that the initial spark or chemistry a woman feels towards a man is predominantly based on physical attractiveness, estimating it to be around 90 to 95 percent. The speaker provides text examples to support this claim and delves into the nuances of attraction, emphasizing the role of looks in shaping romantic connections.
**Body:**
1. **Airport Encounter:**
- The speaker recounts an incident at an airport where a woman initiates a conversation, leading to a perceived spark.
- Attributes the woman's interest to her physical appearance - petite stature, blonde hair, blue eyes, and high cheekbones.
- The conversation evolves into deeper topics, but the speaker contends that the initial connection was primarily based on looks.
- The woman's account reinforces the idea that physical attraction plays a crucial role in sparking romantic interest.
2. **Text Message Exchange:**
- The speaker shares a text conversation with the woman, highlighting compliments about his appearance, particularly mentioning bracelets.
- The exchange reveals the woman's emotional response to physical touch and the speaker's belief that looks are the primary factor in generating a spark.
3. **Contrasting Experiences:**
- The speaker provides examples of dates where women express a lack of connection or spark.
- Shares text messages where women attribute the lack of chemistry to physical attractiveness.
- The speaker argues that if a woman doesn't find a man physically attractive, a genuine connection is unlikely, regardless of shared interests or personality traits.
4. **Insights into Female Perspective:**
- Discusses how the woman assumed other women would be attracted to the speaker, highlighting the impact of perceived attractiveness on jealousy.
- Reflects on the contrast in treatment based on the speaker's physical appearance, comparing experiences when he was overweight to the current situation.
**Conclusion:**
The speaker concludes by reiterating the central argument that the spark or chemistry women feel is primarily based on looks. The examples provided, both positive and negative, serve as anecdotal evidence supporting the claim. The video encourages viewers to reflect on their own experiences and challenges the notion that factors like personality or shared interests play a significant role in the initial stages of romantic attraction.
**Nuances and Controversies:**
While the speaker presents a strong case for the dominance of looks in sparking attraction, alternative perspectives may argue for the importance of personality, shared values, and emotional connection in building lasting relationships. Additionally, the focus on physical attractiveness as the main determinant of chemistry may oversimplify the complex dynamics involved in human relationships.
**Overall Assessment:**
The video provides a detailed exploration of the speaker's perspective on the role of looks in romantic attraction. The inclusion of personal experiences, text messages, and contrasting examples contributes to a comprehensive examination of the topic, though viewers are encouraged to consider alternative viewpoints on the multifaceted nature of human connection.
The spark: be over 6'2'', have the face of Chad
Tall and handsome energy ✨💅🏻
As for the last point you made when you said that girls who are more attractive than you are more likely to reject you .. I think once you are 7+ in looks , you're automatically entitled to any decent looking girl even if she's higher than you lookswise for 2 main reasons :
1- As a 7/10 guy you already fall in the top 5% category , and that's when other factors such as status , charisma , lifestyle ect can - in your case - increase your overall attractiveness and compensate for being slightly less attractive than her , women don't usually tend to date up when it comes to physical attractiveness , tho they just look for an objectively attractive partner irrespective of whether he's more or less attractive than her.
2-At this point women can't actually tell whether or not she's more attractive than you , cus you can't be a 7 without having at least 1 exceptionally striking feature, which can give you a massive boost in most women's eyes , so they would rate you 1 or 2 points higher than your actual rating ..
And the way i see it , Most 8-9 models/actresses end up dating or marrying filthy rich or very famous chadlites while chads settle for HTBs.
how u feel about it is irrelevant brother if there are better options available to her is all that matters
@@416god8chances are she won't find a better option ..
that's why i said when a guy is chadlite he's already a minority and women are gonna have a hard time finding a better looking man ( this whole idea of women having it so easy to find chads and gigachads is a bit exaggerated imo)
You made some good points here. I think once you're at the 7/10 level, you definitely have way more options but it still comes down to the individual preferences of the particular girl and if they like your specific look and phenotype. It also depends on who else she is seeing at the time. There may be another guy that fits exactly what she is looking for.
08:41 AHHAAH I received the exact same message, word by word. Tortured myself for weeks thinking about what I did wrong. Turns out she just didn't see me as attractive lmao
Do you have any intention of doing face-reveal before & after looksmaxing anytime soon ?
Cus We'd like to see how you look after all these blackpilling anecdotes :)
Yeah, definitely at some point in the future. I'm trying to eventually transition from a corporate career to something more creative and then I would definitely want to be on camera.
Do not agree, but looks definitely play a part
Are petite blonde women your type or something? I feel like they’re a recurring part of your stories. What about brunettes? Or tall women? Redheads? Non-white? Just curious.
Yes, I typically do gravitate towards petite blonde girls but I also other types of women. I will do more videos on experience dating different types of girls.
Spark means a chad face or a tall height
Man Ascended is my mirror self. Just more white, and taller since I am a manlet but I've had these exact reactions. Compared to when I was a subhuman now I get so much more women interested in me, etc. But of course you'll still have some girls who are not interested after a date or two. I've been ghosted after a "date". Who cares. Had sex anyway LOL.
How to know you're extremely good looking: 175 unread messages
Holy shit.
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What you don't seem to understand is that your looks got you in the door on all of those dates... the last 2 where it didn't work out was because of your behavior and lack of mental seduction on the date. (it's not just physical).
This
If a girl likes you like really likes you, then she will go a mile to move you an inch. Shell think about you 24/7 and will be borerline codependent on you. Thats how strong they can get attached. How much "game" you have doesnt mean shit above being normal and not talking like a wierd high fucntioning austist
Yes and no I would say. I think you are correct in that my looks did initially get me in the door to go on the date. In regards to it being my behavior, possibly but it could have been a wide variety of things that have nothing to do with that.
that's because status and lifestyle also matter a lot. one of the reasons I can hold on to the women better now that I'm after. after I have more money, for example to be able to travel often, to go out often. as I only want to attract fit feminine 6-7 women
To get hot women on only your look, threshold is bit high for that in a lot western countries
She sounded very hypocrite
Which one?
@@ascended266 both
At 1:17 you establish that the woman is "objectively attractive" enough to consider flirting. Why is it so shocking that women can be shallow too?
The exact same thing I was thinking. Not necessarily shallow on either one of their parts, just natural. Though wmn shouldn’t get that right apparently.
@riareed1269 They didn't take biology or anatomy in High school
Haha it's not shocking. I don't believe I said that it was. I just said she was objectively above average looking.
Please post some pictures of these girls if you can so we can see what they look like!
Yeah, I plan on doing videos on Bumble and Hinge where I go through my matches and show pictures. I have a video on this channel of my clubbing experience in Las Vegas where I show a picture of a girl from a story in the video.
So u just discovered that attraction is based off looks???
It's not just looks. Shallow minded humans look for looks alone
Yeah...I just woke up and realized this...lol I knew this a long time ago
Any channel which has Chad in its name should be avoided at all costs.
So what happened with this girl? She seems bpd ngl.
Haha we are still texting. She definitely does seem BPD not going to lie.
What percentage of fat did you have at your peak?
Nah, it's sexual energy. Plenty of low energy pretty boys out there.
Sexual energy is a part of it. I can't deny that but a lot of your sexual energy also comes from your appearance(how fit you are, fashion, jewelry, etc.)
It’s not based on looks….what about girls who lose attraction on guys they were initially attracted to?
monkey branch, hypergamy, guy showed vulnerability, etc
@@lilbroomstick7914lol none of these matter at all
This definitely happens. My overarching point was that the initial spark is mostly influenced by looks. After this, I can definitely see your point. There are definitely a lot of ways to lose attraction with a girl who was initially interested in you.
@@ascended266got it. Would you be open to talk about this on a livestream btw? This is a great topic
Social dominance aka game look up ultimate man project
This is all CAP. I AM THAT SPARK. It does NOT matter AT ALL what I look like. The only thing that matters is if your HIM, Himothy, Himmy McGill, Him Jong Un. I can tell you exactly what you did wrong with the petite blonde in the beginning, and how you put yourself in the friendzone. Not only did you put all that value on HER looks, which BTW she cant control her looks, that's genetics, but she can control the content of her character. What does it matter what she looks like if she is going to disrespect you or cheat on you?? Your giving very bad information to impressionable young males. She probably felt like she was on a job interview with all your boring "questions", so you assume its your looks, when in fact you just have no game. If you would learn how to talk to women the right way, your looks wont matter at all.
Wall of Text full of Cope.
@Chadlite I dont have to feel depressed about not getting girls cuz I swipe everyday and get 10 matches a day on Tinder just started 3 days ago within that time span I have gotten over 200 matches since then
Nice man! I'm glad to hear that you're killing it on Tinder.
Are you using premium?
She bpd love bombed u lmfao
Yeah, pretty much lol you might not be wrong with your diagnosis
@@ascended266 i know because ive had this shit happen to me, only to blow up in my face.