This is why I almost never show off my wealth nor talk about how much money I have. Money does not create true lasting attraction though it solves some problems. I know this Spanish man in his 60s who is super wealthy but is short, overweight, and completely bald. A few years ago, he was still with his 40 something year old second wife who was an Iberian-looking Brazilian, somewhat tall at 5'7", slim body and piercing hazel green eyes. I have a feeling she was mainly with him for his money and for immigration. I was 19 at the time studying in Spain and this whole experience BP'ed me before I knew about the term. Every time I was with her at social events, she always wanted to sit by me and talk to me. She would always stare at me, she told me numerous times that I was handsome and she even randomly took my photo. I didn't smash out of respect for him even though he now is onto a third woman who is also latina JFL
That's beyond brutal man! She looked at you as the younger attractive guy and the 60 year old man was the provider to her lifestyle. Money helps in giving you freedom and security in your life and definitely helps for long-term relationships but it definitely doesn't create physical attraction.
@@ascended266 I actually think that their son was legitimately the rich guy’s since the teen looks mostly like his mom. But it shows how looksmaxxing is more effective and getting rich in terms of attraction.
Are some gold diggers sort of “immune” to looks？like they are so materialistic that they will not waste time even on a Chico looking guy until they've ensared a rich guy to meet their material needs. Or maybe not even then and they are legit just wired to be more aroused by status/money and looks are less important to them （still important obv).
The two overt gold diggers I've dealt with in my life... both of them blatantly asked me how much I made. Both times I lied and said I made less than what I did. I'm sure you can guess how both of those prospects went...
Last night i went on a date with a chick i met at Whole Foods. The minute she said she wants to quit working to be a stay at home mom and home school her kids , I know this wasn’t gonna go anywhere
@@ascended266 I'm more than happy to disclose my modest day-job salary...its a great filter. Especially when I'm purposely leaving out all my passive earnings during the discussion.
QUALITY of the clothes is more telling of disposable income. Most guys are clueless and think suit or designer clothing = looks rich lol. Rich guy uniform is black tee + 5-figure watch.
@@dw4525 that of course is not gonna work , but some may earn equal to you or even less than you and still disappear. A woman earning 400k has no business being on apps imo
This is why I almost never show off my wealth nor talk about how much money I have. Money does not create true lasting attraction though it solves some problems. I know this Spanish man in his 60s who is super wealthy but is short, overweight, and completely bald. A few years ago, he was still with his 40 something year old second wife who was an Iberian-looking Brazilian, somewhat tall at 5'7", slim body and piercing hazel green eyes. I have a feeling she was mainly with him for his money and for immigration. I was 19 at the time studying in Spain and this whole experience BP'ed me before I knew about the term. Every time I was with her at social events, she always wanted to sit by me and talk to me. She would always stare at me, she told me numerous times that I was handsome and she even randomly took my photo. I didn't smash out of respect for him even though he now is onto a third woman who is also latina JFL
That's beyond brutal man! She looked at you as the younger attractive guy and the 60 year old man was the provider to her lifestyle. Money helps in giving you freedom and security in your life and definitely helps for long-term relationships but it definitely doesn't create physical attraction.
@@ascended266 I actually think that their son was legitimately the rich guy’s since the teen looks mostly like his mom. But it shows how looksmaxxing is more effective and getting rich in terms of attraction.
Are some gold diggers sort of “immune” to looks？like they are so materialistic that they will not waste time even on a Chico looking guy until they've ensared a rich guy to meet their material needs. Or maybe not even then and they are legit just wired to be more aroused by status/money and looks are less important to them （still important obv).
The two overt gold diggers I've dealt with in my life... both of them blatantly asked me how much I made. Both times I lied and said I made less than what I did. I'm sure you can guess how both of those prospects went...
Last night i went on a date with a chick i met at Whole Foods. The minute she said she wants to quit working to be a stay at home mom and home school her kids , I know this wasn’t gonna go anywhere
@@kevinwilson3337 Oddly enough, that's the type woman I'm looking for lol
Yeah, some don't even hide it lol
@@rbenoit1978 if you can afford it , go right ahead sir . I have a mortgage to pay lol.
@@ascended266 I'm more than happy to disclose my modest day-job salary...its a great filter. Especially when I'm purposely leaving out all my passive earnings during the discussion.
Gold diggers aren’t hard to spot, but unfortunately there are too many gullible rich men who fall for these types of vvomen.
Mr 100K per annum isn’t the target for gold diggers
it's the 100k+ per week
QUALITY of the clothes is more telling of disposable income. Most guys are clueless and think suit or designer clothing = looks rich lol. Rich guy uniform is black tee + 5-figure watch.
When you match with her on apps or in real life and she seems to disappear, after asking what you do ?
Yeah, that's a pretty sure sign she's a golddigger.
Not sure that’s a gold digger. What if she’s a physician earning $400k+ and the man turns out to be working retail under $40k? That’s not gonna work
@@dw4525 that of course is not gonna work , but some may earn equal to you or even less than you and still disappear.
A woman earning 400k has no business being on apps imo
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Congrats!