Style Mistakes Women HATE

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  • @diewahrheit2115
    @diewahrheit2115 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +72

    I'm 31 years old and to be honest, I don't care anymore what women like or don't like. There are many things men don't like about todays modern women, but women never think of changing their style and behaviour.

    • @Fsdk88
      @Fsdk88 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

      If you want a woman you'll need to care, women who dress like this either search for simps or don't search anyone for a relationship

    • @MrMelonMan96
      @MrMelonMan96 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

      Why should they change? They don’t need to

    • @samyakchhajed
      @samyakchhajed ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@MrMelonMan96We don't need to as well

    • @christopher8909
      @christopher8909 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Amen brother!

    • @SPBurt1
      @SPBurt1 46 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

      Well hey man, you can always die broken and alone👍. Or.....take accountability for yourself and find the great ones who are out there waiting for a great guy.

  • @tonydeltablues
    @tonydeltablues 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +11

    Fedoras can be very attractive. I wear Panamas in summer and a mix of tweed baker boy/flat cap and fedoras depending on the weather...

  • @larrydrozd2740
    @larrydrozd2740 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +6

    Nothing tops a suited up man better than a nice fedora. Period. YOUNG women may not like it but GROWN women appreciate it. There's a big difference between a kid wearing "Dads" hat and trying to look cool and DAD wearing his hat and owning it.

  • @KN-op3et
    @KN-op3et 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +21

    Regarding hats, I would say it's very seasonal. I receive(d) numerous compliments for my Panama-style sun hat during hot weather and similarly for my Icelandic-wool beanie in cold weather. I think with anything style-related, there has to be some sort of deliberate thought behind the choices and not worn as a "cool thing" or a meme-piece.

    • @elmanur8820
      @elmanur8820 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +5

      Me too! I have received so many compliments for my Boater hat. The entire thing is to know how to style your garments.

    • @mtlicq
      @mtlicq 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @@elmanur8820 is it a 1920's kind of boater hat?

    • @elmanur8820
      @elmanur8820 46 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

      @@mtlicq It's a soft Boater, and it has a larger brim than usual (6cm, when most boaters have a 5cm brim), very useful for the strong sun of my city. It looks more like a 1950s boater than a 1920s one 🤝

  • @lynn5447
    @lynn5447 58 นาทีที่ผ่านมา +1

    Logos? The company is not paying me to wear their advertising. Never have, never will!
    Nice video.

  • @GrayShadow13
    @GrayShadow13 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +10

    I get compliments on my flat caps/ivy caps all the time from women. I'm always told its the baseball caps women don't want to see on men over 30. Beanie hats fit fine in cold weather, otherwise they look silly in warm weather. Like anything you will find women who love/hate facial hair, baldness, etc as well as hats on men, but to blanket say no hats is very wrong IMO.

  • @cyanide1931
    @cyanide1931 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +12

    I can't understand how beanie is giving anyone the "ick". I might agree if we're talking about wearing large beanies all year round like some Jesse Pinkman, but a proper wool beanie is a must-have in winter and it can be quite stylish too.

    • @MTkr19
      @MTkr19 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +5

      Probably this is more about guys who wear beanies all of the time including indoors and all year round like you said.

    • @Leif-s9w
      @Leif-s9w ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      I think it's how you wear it.
      If it's cold out and you wear one that fits and is pulled down and then neatly folded up at the brim like a navy man's "watch cap", then it looks sharp... but if you wear it slouchy with sweats, etc. like you plan to carry around a skateboard for your entire life, then women will ignore you.

  • @donrobertocervantes2535
    @donrobertocervantes2535 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +6

    Fedoras with casual clothes… No; with at least a blazer or sport coat/button down collar shirt… Yes. A panama with beach wear… Yes. And unless you're traveling, no trilbies at all. lol My 2 cents as a classic stylist.

  • @bigvisk1125
    @bigvisk1125 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +4

    Shoot, skinny jeans give me the ick too

  • @BradyMcLean
    @BradyMcLean 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +8

    I think the real problem with fedoras is using them with casual clothes. dress hats do not belong with casual clothes.

  • @stevensimm7961
    @stevensimm7961 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    Dear james I have now become a regular consumer of your content . I don’t always agree with you but you do talk a lot of sense .

  • @jaysterling26
    @jaysterling26 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    Happily married: the oldest oxymoron?

  • @hungariannerd8445
    @hungariannerd8445 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    2:10 ;
    ahem, it's actually called a "Toque" and you speak very boldly for someone who doesn't live in Canada.
    We get COLD weather, and we NEED the toques to stay warm. Every REAL man wears a toque in Canada.
    mic drop.

  • @billyschafer8926
    @billyschafer8926 56 นาทีที่ผ่านมา +1

    "Ick?" Ladies, it's called a "turn-off." We've been using that word for decades. We don't need a new one.

  • @elmanur8820
    @elmanur8820 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +13

    It's a shame for me that the Fedora have that kind of bad fame, even if it's not my favorite hat. And even worse for me, the "Neckbeard" meme doesn't even have any Fedoras there, those are TRILBYS! (Very ugly trilbys to be honest)

    • @michaelblazin4093
      @michaelblazin4093 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

      I wear a Fedora, not a trilby, with a suit or blazer. I have never gotten any negative remarks, only compliments. But I don’t look like that obese guy in the snapshot. I don’t think you have to as good looking as John Hamm to make it work. Wear your fedora the way Dana Andrews or Humphrey Bogart would: properly sized, properly perched on your head, not trying to be cute. Grown men are not cute.

    • @elmanur8820
      @elmanur8820 54 นาทีที่ผ่านมา +1

      ​@@michaelblazin4093 Very well said sir! Fedoras are beautiful hats, and when they are nice sized (Brim and crown) and you carry them with a proper ensemble, they look excellent. I think the reason for me to dislike trilbys is the size, the short brim, and the short crown. For me, it looks as an incomplete version of a Fedora

  • @allie5909
    @allie5909 20 นาทีที่ผ่านมา +1

    As a young lady in the 80s, one of my university professors wore the 501 Button down jeans with a button collar shirt- so hot then and now! (No I didn't date the professor).

  • @anon_private_user
    @anon_private_user 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    You can often just use a knife (preferably a torn knife) to remove the logos from clothing. Logos are often just stiched on and I find that it simply looks better when I remove them.

  • @GurpreetSingh-eu9zm
    @GurpreetSingh-eu9zm 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

    I'd love to see a video about car rules/etiquette for gentlemen.

    • @mtlicq
      @mtlicq 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      He did a video about that, if I remember right. If you hold the door for a woman to get into a taxi, do NOT walk behind the taxi to other side to get in. The taxi drives away with only her in it ! LOL

  • @KnozLo
    @KnozLo 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +8

    What's wrong with 2 in 1 shampoo/conditioner? The hell

    • @corgiowner436
      @corgiowner436 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      Who would even know?

    • @ArthurKitchen-c1m
      @ArthurKitchen-c1m 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Because you should spend a lot of money on quality ski and hair products, meaning you can’t but them at Walmart or a grocery store. A quality bottle body wash costs $55

    • @mtlicq
      @mtlicq 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @@ArthurKitchen-c1m LOL

    • @awalton9024
      @awalton9024 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      My guess is that woman view it as cheap or uncaring about grooming. That's because the two products are somewhat mutually exclusive (Shampoo is to remove dirt and oil. Conditioner is moisturize and lay down a coating or mantle.)

  • @o_vroboros
    @o_vroboros 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    Women can think whatever they want and I support them in that. I'll keep doing my thing whatever it is regardless of the opinion of majority of women - I'll wear pink skinny jeans inside out if I decide to.

  • @theyoodoo
    @theyoodoo 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    The ultimate Ick is the infamous "Plumber's Butt". But also, as a man I grew up in the era when a man's suit was always properly fitted. It was in bad taste to wear a suit which was too tight and looked cheaply made. I see this all the time especially in combination with trousers which are much too tight and poorly fitted. A suit jacket which is too tight and poorly fitted will always ruin the effect of the suit. A man would be better off to wear a properly fitted sports jacket with quality chinos or dark jeans.

  • @szariq7338
    @szariq7338 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    Speaking of hats, surprisingly ushankas (of course not those communist-styled ones) are actually admired here in Poland by a lot of girls. But remember, there IS a correct way to wear them, that is with flaps tied upwards. Flaps down are also acceptable if there's a big frost, but NEVER tie them when down. And flaps backwards is also strange, but not such a heresy as flaps dwon and tied.
    Meanwhile I only use ankle socks for the gym or if I forget to do the laundry and I run dry of normal socks.

  • @srkovkan
    @srkovkan 9 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

    Great video as always! The main reason women don't ick about baseball caps is called Ralph Lauren

  • @mtlicq
    @mtlicq 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    *Hats:* I don't care about the lowest common-denominator opinion. Toques are essential for survival in winter, other hats protect against sun-glare and rain, and choose according to class or casual level. What is stupid is to not protect your head from wind, rain, UV, and cold. Classic "old-fashioned" hats usually stay on better and perform better than baseball hats on windy days.
    *Skinny jeans:* Agreed 100%. leotards for soyboys Trous d'eau loves them.
    *Ankle socks or no socks:* Agreed! 100% Pretty on women, but it is effeminate AND ugly on men. Add fancy goofy socks too
    *Golf shirt / Polo shirt:* You're kidding! Pure cotton golf/polo shirt, no problem! Classy casual shirt.

  • @corgiowner436
    @corgiowner436 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

    If you wear a baseball cap it should not be on backwards. Especially once your age no longer has a 1 as it’s first digit.

    • @awalton9024
      @awalton9024 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      I saw somebody who cut a hole in the top of his baseball hat so his man-bun could stick out the top.

  • @LaMach420
    @LaMach420 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

    Ankle socks 😂😂 give me a break bro, they trippin.

    • @ArthurKitchen-c1m
      @ArthurKitchen-c1m 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      I don’t use one as it only covers the tip😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @sammajor2075
    @sammajor2075 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

    Wow. Women hate hats. Who knew.
    I avoid hats,and operate in urban milieus.
    Hats have never been a topic.

  • @Aegelis
    @Aegelis 28 นาทีที่ผ่านมา +1

    Glad I'm happily married with many types of hats (classic included). Dear men, if a girl really likes you, worry not, she will work to change you despite your fashion sense, then you know you're in the zone. Follow her advice when with her to show respect, then be free when on your own. Gonna stick with my boxers unless she revokes bras, but if she hands me a pair of whatever, better believe I'll put them on for her.

  • @doug6259
    @doug6259 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    Agree with #'s 2-9, especially the comments on ripped jeans and showing your backside which is really embarassing.
    The comment on hats is a little baffling. I have found the exact opposite to be true. Yes, beanies can look juvenile and some hats may not look good on a particular person.
    A well dressed man will look even better when his outfit is paired with a hat. I always wear a fedora or panama with a suit. For more casual outfits I wear a flat or newsboy cap and baseball caps only for very informal wear. I receive many compliments from women too. They appreciate a man who takes pride in his appearance and does not walk around looking like a bum.
    I recommend wearing hats both for their practical use and to add a touch of class to your outfits.

  • @ninepinknails
    @ninepinknails 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    Missed pun opportunity regarding golf and links

  • @rustysz1064
    @rustysz1064 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I hate baseball hats on non-baseball players. Especially if they are dirty or stained and if they're worn backwards. Ick! I also don't care for ripped or torn jeans unless you're doing messy/dirty work. In case it matters I'm a 70 year old woman.

  • @gigiiggi7138
    @gigiiggi7138 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    On Logos, i never do them apart ftom, "Yellow Rat Bastard" which is just ace lol

  • @mr.100rupees3
    @mr.100rupees3 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    If I like it and think it looks smart, from there on its her problem

  • @scottchapman7128
    @scottchapman7128 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    What I can't understand is why young men wear a toboggan cap in hot summer months?

  • @Llamadosalvaje
    @Llamadosalvaje 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Dress what YOU want!

    • @awalton9024
      @awalton9024 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      And expect to be treated appropriately.

  • @TheGeosto
    @TheGeosto ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Baseball caps? As if.😂

  • @None-jj8sx
    @None-jj8sx 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    What hats can I wear in cold seasons?

    • @doug6259
      @doug6259 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Wool hats are good for the winter months.

  • @LucaPro-g7e
    @LucaPro-g7e 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I don't understand because I was never taught about these icks

  • @LucaPro-g7e
    @LucaPro-g7e 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    I am in california

  • @TheRealKilming
    @TheRealKilming 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Hello James, I was wondering if a gentleman should practice martial arts, I'd love to see a video in the topic.

    • @R-lq2oh
      @R-lq2oh 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      he does boxing also learning martial arts is good for self defense and exercise good all rounder

    • @awalton9024
      @awalton9024 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Being equipped to defend one's self or others would fall under the rubric of chivalry and hence be gentlemanly.

  • @corgiowner436
    @corgiowner436 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +4

    Forgot to mention sunglasses perched on the top of your head. Never a good look.

    • @awalton9024
      @awalton9024 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      Even worse: Above the brim of your hat.🤮

  • @yaplusdsaisons
    @yaplusdsaisons 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I love women wearing dad shoes sneakers under their skirts. (Joke)

  • @GeorgeSickinger
    @GeorgeSickinger 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Women want $$$$$$

  • @shamelesscare5389
    @shamelesscare5389 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +4

    Understanding the difference between what is objectively attractive and what is simply common can be challenging for many people. These two concepts are not synonymous.
    Consider architecture. The same styles of buildings seen in ancient Rome are present on major college campuses in the United States, particularly at land-grant universities from the era of Thomas Jefferson, and they're prevalent throughout Washington D.C. These architectural styles are timeless, drawing their beauty from proportion, lines, and symmetry. Clothing follows a similar pattern. Some garments remain classic and timeless, objectively appealing, while others gain popularity for reasons unknown.
    For instance, if you asked women which coat they find unappealing and showed them a classic wool overcoat with peak lapels, or a puffer coat, they may say the classic coat gives them the "ick" simply because they've never known anyone to wear one. However, in reality, no sane person thinks the proportions, fabric or style of a puffer coat is attractive.
    Hats present a similar situation. Few would argue that a Chicago Bears baseball cap is timeless or particularly attractive, yet you'll find thousands of young men sporting them in Chicago on any given day. In contrast, spotting someone in a fedora would be a rare sight.
    I recently attended an event hosted by Optimo Hats in Chicago, where the founder organized a jazz gathering and paid tribute to his mentor.
    In this setting, a room full of men sported classic hats at a jazz club. I asked my wife, "Imagine if this room were filled with men wearing baseball caps, some backward, most forward. Would they appear more attractive?"
    She unequivocally replied, "Oh god, no!"
    It's understandable that anything unusual might initially seem off-putting. However, those who can think beyond the "common = stylish = cool" mindset might agree that classic hats, when worn correctly, have an allure. Conversely, someone who finds something like a Yeezy Foam Runner appealing purely because it's popular will never see past the "popular = attractive" mentality.

  • @ArthurKitchen-c1m
    @ArthurKitchen-c1m 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    They like it when I walk through Macy’s sporting a pup tent. Lol

  • @ArthurKitchen-c1m
    @ArthurKitchen-c1m 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

    A big ick is men should absolutely never, I mean never wear flip flops, not even at home. Just don’t do it

  • @Fsdk88
    @Fsdk88 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    3:38 did you purposely had the pen matching the suit (idk if it's called suit on english)