Why Smart Men Today Consider Dating Is A Bad Investment
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 27 ก.ค. 2024
- Why Smart Men Today Consider Dating a Risky Investment | Insights from Rico Hundo and Erin The Renegade"
Join Rico Hundo and Erin The Renegade for an eye-opening discussion on "8 At The Table" as they delve into the complex dynamics of modern dating and relationships.
In this thought-provoking conversation, Rico and Erin explore the notion that dating is often perceived as a risky investment for smart men in today's society. They discuss the financial, emotional, and time investments involved in dating, highlighting the challenges and uncertainties that men face when navigating the dating landscape.
From expensive dinner dates to the emotional toll of failed relationships, Rico and Erin shed light on the various factors that contribute to the perception of dating as a high-risk endeavor. They share personal anecdotes and insights, offering valuable perspectives on the evolving dynamics of romantic relationships in the digital age.
As they delve deeper into the topic, Rico and Erin also examine the concept of dating as an investment, acknowledging the potential rewards and pitfalls associated with romantic partnerships. They discuss the importance of self-awareness, communication, and setting boundaries in the dating process, emphasizing the need for men to approach dating with caution and discernment.
Whether you're a man navigating the complexities of modern dating or someone interested in understanding the male perspective, this episode offers valuable insights and reflections on the challenges and opportunities inherent in romantic relationships.
Tune in to gain valuable perspectives on dating, relationships, and personal growth from Rico Hundo and Erin The Renegade on "8 At The Table."
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there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship. Learning to understand the shortcomings of one another its a major key to coexistence... I However learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago my wife and I were on the brink of a divorce because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it..
so much sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
I know its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
I will look her up online right now.... I hope this works for me too..Thanks
You wont regret it
Been separated would never get back with her. Women can just be such a nagging drag on life. I'm much happier living my life without a constant complainer around me, sleeping in my bed. Ive heard of people who go back to their wives I always think they crazy especially if she left. Nothing more disrespectful then a wife leaving and having sex with another man. A wife doing that is amazingly disgusting and something I could never get back with. I been forgave her tho, she just hates me cause I'm living my life.
We know women are only loyal to their emotions. You can be the best husband in the world and do everything right, but it doesn't matter to her if you don't know how to make her feel. Smart men always struggle with emotions because our logic is always at the forefront of what we do. That's why we see it as a bad investment.
in short: women are random, unpredictable & kind of dense. so a man shouldn't put any energy or effort into them.
This comment right here. Couldnt tell you how many times I've heard that I dont love someone because I'm not showing emotion all the time. It's crazy. I could literally do anything for a woman but if she dont feel like I love her at any moment in time, that is her reality. I dont have relationships anymore partially because of this. This is a recipe for a woman cheating for real.
@@999KBC i'll tell you how to fix that problem. date foreign. they act far less stupid than american women.
@999KBC yep. This is why men that are more interested in connecting with people get all the women. They understand emotions and how to react in any situation. They know how to respond to a woman's emotions.
It's not impossible for a smart man to learn emotions, but usually, we are just not that interested in connecting with people or relationships. Are focus and interest is on something else.
@@mr.dccomics9018 if that ain't right. I'm not even interested in my own emotions lol.
The proper way to vet a female is by asking her if she considers herself a burden to a man. She’s going to say no. Follow up by asking her what makes her think she’s not. Then just let her talk. You’ll find out everything you need to know
her first opening statement is so powerful yet it undermines everything that they try to present in series like this: bad information. how many youtube series/channels try to peddle this type of " knowledge " for people and are just peddling bad information for clicks that someone else that they have watched peddled the information that they are recycling?
Men shouldn't even think about marriage until 50
Total truth, but everyone will discount this advice.
Only marry women 25 and under
Why get married after being alone that many years and you are established. Might as well stay single. Aint no way I'm building myself and picking up a woman at the finish line
@jaumartinez9006 exactly... you shouldn't be getting married anyway. marriage is a scam.
U mean men shouldn't marry period in this day and age. Just have a girlfriend at best
This may be the best conversation that I have ever watched from 8@thetable!
Many ppl don’t want to be saved from someone they don’t want
This video was pretty good. I didnt know how i felt about it at the time but looking back. Its pretty good editing and turned out pretty visually stunning
True Statement come Heal 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌 PREACH Rico Hundo 🙏🙏🙏🤔
To add on to the cheating convo even though I don’t agree with cheating on either side, influence is important as well. A woman will still follow a man who cheated on her, but if another king is able to lead my queen outside of my kingdom then I can no longer trust you to stand beside me. That holds more weight
Most people compare their relationship to another's. Most people are followers of the popular opinion. Humans were built with emotions for a reason.Most people dont know how to communicate effectively. How can you find your person when you only compare them to worst of their genders?
The information is incomplete. Everyone is trying to show the best side of themselves when going out to meet people.
You know what would be funny if weren't so sad, is the notion that men...like Rico, think &/or believe that women like Erin don't know what he was spittin'.
"Manipulation & Deception" are subtle, never OVERT.
Ain't nothing perfect, but as long y'all workout y'all differences together and y'all have that understanding of one another. In a sense yall are "perfect " for eachother
Would you stay with a woman who cheats on you
@@morrisdavidmullings9833 No I wouldn't. But what's your point. Cheating has nothing to do with this
Man… if I don’t know you from a can of paint.. if the feeling is mutual let’s spend time together… no matter the investment.. if I stimulate your mind and emotions that should be enough.. the investment will grow overtime
Nice chat. Towards the end i reckon (just segs) she left the money part out. Theres no way 2024 women are doing it just because with no incentive or attachment.
The stock market relationship is no comparison to relationships which isn't much a investment at all
“I need juice” - The Sister on the couch
She needs coffeeeee..
Rico I like your 8 at the table very much very positive. I do.
Have a suggestion for you. If you have not seen one of Kevin.
Samuel's reactions . Take a look at this one. I'm a 38-year-old physician and I got pregnant by a man.I knew for a month.
they don't make no sense to me it's all excuses to me okay woman makes very bad choices in life meaning sleeping around having kids and they get out their prime but they think deserve get an great guy also dating is a very a investment for guys just because they invest time and resources and nothing in return but a woman with baggage or a kid or two. Men have to better with everything mind body and spirit woman just live life easy mode and they want a simp to save them and when get all the resources she is going to leave that fool hell yeah dating is an very bad investment
Dating is not an investment. Nobody goes into it expecting a return.
Most Women do, not men
When something goes bad, your/their reaction is that of reciprocation. So yes, it is.
You feel ppl don't go into relationship wanting something positive within that relationship....like a caring person, a Financially secure person ect.
I do.
And I think if people thought of it that way, they'd make better decisions in whom they chose.
Don't marry any of these modern day hyenas. The 2 things needed in a successful marriage are loyalty and life long commitment. They simply aren't built for that.
bingo! They are not built for that at all.
I think a lot of people don't know what they are looking for until U get the A-Hole. I got Married/Divorced at 1997-2001. I'm 45 years old and I know my worth, especially since I have been engaged twice since. I probably will end up marrying my childhood Gemini. Honestly, it is the best Policy alot of people's think they deserve more when they don't, especially if they BD is Non responsibility
"I think a lot of people don't know what they are looking for until U get the A-Hole."
"I'm 45 years old and I know my worth"
"I probably will end up marrying my childhood Gemini."
oh you're definitely a woman haha
3 huge red flags back-to-back.
1. thinks they need to date toxic people to know what you want.
2. way past their prime before they decided to have standards & know their worth
3. scraping the bottom of the barrel & marrying the childhood friend, the "nice guy" they had in the friendzone for over 20 years because by age 45, nobody else saw value in you.
all men should avoid & steer clear.
I understand why she’s on the show. She’s relatable to the lost women. She’s so lost.
Dating is always a bad investment when you don't know who you are, who you are to others, what you need, are delusional about you ability to give others what they need, and when you are determined to be with someone that will never really want you back or be satisfied or content with you... A smart man would have factored all that in, so what kind of smart man are we talking about.
Yet black women are so educated 😂😂😂😂
Black men why ya can't build community and protect ya family like White men.. Why ya dont practice family structure like mexican men.. Why ya don't educate ya children like ,asain men.. Ya lack masculinity that the problem....
Education is subjective
Education is subjective
WHAT IN THE BLACK SAMURAI IS GOING ON , SOMEONE PLEASE 🙏🏾 FIX THIS BROTHA HAIRLINE 😅😂
That's the new hairstyle for alot of young black men now. Smh