The Harsh Truth: Why Dating Has Become A Nightmare For Men And Women

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  • @danielhamilton5094
    @danielhamilton5094 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +66

    No, dating collapsed because women demand everything and offer very little in return

    • @lejamesbron5880
      @lejamesbron5880 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      We gotta work 4 times as much for women 1/4th the worth of our grandmothers.

    • @hakimhakim8845
      @hakimhakim8845 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      U aint lyin about that. Facts. They offer their presence, looks, and whats between their legs. How is that gonna sustain and keep a man for the long haul

    • @heruapocalypse2021
      @heruapocalypse2021 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Facts 😎👍🏾

    • @szn1580
      @szn1580 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Inflation

    • @lildel7698
      @lildel7698 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Hoflation

  • @kendricbell9454
    @kendricbell9454 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    Women are the best gaslighters in the 🌍

    • @keyturn23
      @keyturn23 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      The gaslighting is in a whole different stratosphere.

  • @RD-zj6vc
    @RD-zj6vc 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    Increasingly for alot of men, dating at all is essentially outside of their means. So Amanda says don't date outside of your means. Alot of men's response is "You know what? Bet, I'm going to stop dating altogether." Then the women get mad because they guys are pulling back completely.

    • @gsmoneybabyxxl7575
      @gsmoneybabyxxl7575 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      This is 1000% Factual it’s not only the women who are feeling the drought but also the economy in the last couple of months Restaurants,( Fridays, Chilli, etc) have closed down due to a lot of women thinking they’re too good for a date there, David’s Bridal have filed bankruptcy due to declining marriages in the USA… Schools are closing down because the birth rates are getting lower.. It’s going to get difficult in a few decades but men will adjust and adapt as its in our nature but can’t say the same for the single independent “won’t settle for 50/50 “women

    • @death24314
      @death24314 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@@gsmoneybabyxxl7575 wow so company's are being effected by womens standards? Lol that's a bad sign for the dating right there

    • @Jay-jb2vr
      @Jay-jb2vr 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      *Real talk, dating has become a waste of time now* 💯

    • @Cahluvca
      @Cahluvca 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Like most western Eurocentric influenced countries....folks check out

  • @franklinwill22
    @franklinwill22 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Believe alot of black men are not dating as much regardless of much he makes. Go where you are celebrated not tolerated men.

  • @Mayo2014
    @Mayo2014 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Lmao Amanda lowkey throwing shots at Erin .. but I also can see a man saying she is annoying and too argumentative like shut up man

  • @heruapocalypse2021
    @heruapocalypse2021 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    She doesn't want certain expectations of Her! But have issue at all putting expectations on Men though 🤔

  • @truthseekingfreethinker5214
    @truthseekingfreethinker5214 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    If you observe the big picture. Women have taken men for granted for so long that they now have unrealistic high demands for men and congratulate themselves for being basic and doing the bare minimum.
    Mens natural inclination is to provide and protect but there has to be a point when a man says no more, and we missed that point about 20 years ago. We are reaping the consequences of yesteryear men placing undeserving women on pedestals.

    • @crw3673
      @crw3673 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You nailed it!
      All these 90's video and reality TV shows, showing entertainers and athletes, spending ridiculous amounts of money has delusion alize lot of people! Men and women.
      So twenty years later the whole system is messed up.

    • @SaaayUNCLE
      @SaaayUNCLE 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They truly won't value men until they are forced to. When all they lights in the world go out you will see who's who 😂

  • @icemanbtlr25
    @icemanbtlr25 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    It be the gaslighting for me

  • @DaddyWarBucks
    @DaddyWarBucks 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    All sounds good till these chicks next u because u didn’t do the expensive date thing

  • @jakesmith1273
    @jakesmith1273 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    A never ending money pit

  • @Blackchucky23
    @Blackchucky23 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    problem is most women swear they a 10 ...... stop the cap

  • @ColdIce99
    @ColdIce99 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    If you have to spend a lot of money on a woman then that means SHE DOESN’T LIKE YOU.

  • @ezekielthemack
    @ezekielthemack 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Erin you are definitely not a 10. You're realistically a 4 - stop the cap and get back down to earth. SMH.

    • @szn1580
      @szn1580 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      They always lie to each other lmao women bruh

    • @death24314
      @death24314 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Lol yeah she's not ugly but she's definitely not a 10. More like a 6 or 7

  • @ChristopherGeorge_photography
    @ChristopherGeorge_photography 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    It's not that hard. As a man, if you invite her out, make sure to plan what your pockets can afford. Stop leading with food and find something you like to do besides eat and if y'all vibe, great. If not, move on.

  • @theperfectbrother
    @theperfectbrother 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Dating is beautiful you just have to leave those 8s 9s 10s good to look at but keep it moving those women usually choose you

  • @Realliedoe
    @Realliedoe หลายเดือนก่อน

    Women ARE The tables…hear me out.
    There are millions of tables at the furniture stores and WE choose WHAT tables to place our meals and Valuables on!
    Most chicks are tables at IKEA thinking they’re Ashley’s Furniture.
    Fellas, WE bring the MEALS(value)…THEY are just tables(support)! Nowadays, I’ll just eat on my lap!

  • @crw3673
    @crw3673 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Social media the internet and reality TV like the bachelor and the bachelorette have distorted the concept of dating!
    Every average chick thinks she a boss lady and deserves a high income man.
    When realistically you are a average girl, with a average to no job and feel you should be living the life of the women you see on TV. Like the bachelorette, women of Atlanta and ladies of Miami.
    The sad part is the delusion is spreading fast and quick!😮

  • @mr.dccomics9018
    @mr.dccomics9018 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Relationship fails because they grew up in a single parent unit. They never got to see mom and dad in a healthy relationship. And if the example is not their to be replicated how can you expect a single parent kid to value relationship.
    Instead of being influenced by the family unit they are going to be influenced by the streets or whatever is on TV.

    • @crw3673
      @crw3673 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Perfectly said! How can a girl know how to treat a husband, if she didn't have a father at home to see the example?
      How can a boy know how to treat his wife, if he never saw the reaction between father and mother?
      This is the reason why marriages are failing now!
      Single motherhood is a bad continuess reaction from generation to generation.

    • @death24314
      @death24314 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@crw3673well said

  • @Geeeromeable
    @Geeeromeable 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Men have rewarded bad behavior what do you expect. The power dynamic is crazy

  • @globalnewztv
    @globalnewztv 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    16:07
    TALK TO THEM RICO‼️‼️‼️🔥🏆🔥

  • @byrongranger8447
    @byrongranger8447 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Why this don’t happen in the Mexican community? The woman require a hard working man. He can do Uber eats on a moped and she hustle on the back right with him. I see it all over NYC.

  • @RobWill-p9i
    @RobWill-p9i 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I almost didn't Recognize your co. Host. She's looking just like the older lady That's on the show that's married. I guess she getting ready to come back to the other side.

  • @marchollis5547
    @marchollis5547 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Strangers dating Strangers 😂😂😂

  • @StratoS_218
    @StratoS_218 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Women made it impossible to go out on a cheap date

  • @globalnewztv
    @globalnewztv 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    And stop counting my pockets sis.🔥💯🔥

  • @antmyrick2063
    @antmyrick2063 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You attract who you are.

  • @make_emfall_inlovee
    @make_emfall_inlovee 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Can you keep what you catch 🤔

  • @johndasilva2686
    @johndasilva2686 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Haha there’s an old saying, their are plenty of fish in the sea . Until the right fish comes along men will happily keep holding their rods.women in the west declared a Cold War against men . For example the me too feminist and modern independent women’s movements assassinated men approaching dating and marrying women in the west. That’s why so many men have become passport brothers.

  • @Sharingiscaring95
    @Sharingiscaring95 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    A tip for the guys..
    The women who are REAL would be fine with applebees, cheesecake factories, etc. They are humble and grateful for the date.