My husband and I are the same age as you and Sarah and both retired in April 2021. We sold our home but kept our summer cottage where we now live when we’re not travelling. We are only semi-nomadic since we have 2 dogs, 2 young adult children and 2 ageing mothers. We love watching your videos and admire the courage it took to become true nomads. You are navigating through this stormy time wonderfully which serves as an example to those of us still fearing the “what ifs”…. Wishing you strength and courage as you put your nation’s Queen and your family’s King to rest.
Don't waste your time responding to my comment - PLEASE! Loved this video - it was from the heart. Your heads are obviously all mixed up but, above all else, don't stress or worry as everything always works out. Back here in the UK just concentrate on family - forget us. If I can help out in any way from Yorkshire, get in touch, even if it's just to have a rant about something. There is nothing that the both of you can't work out together, just remember that - you've achieved so much with your new lifestyle. And, finally, hugs are great - dish them out often. x
You probably need a lock up and leave apartment in UK. Somewhere safe from burglars. Tax liability usually after 6 months or intention to settle depending on country. Otherwise UK based, which is pretty good for ISA/pension investments. You may lose NHS entitlement sooner than you think, but may not be enforced. Some people resident in Spain kept UK park home, flat or house and travelled back to UK for big treatments, prescriptions. Should have been charged. Interesting to see what you'll do to solve these.
We have been "on the road" for 7 years and have had similar situations. It is tough. But it would have been even if we weren't mobile. Just different. It makes you question every thing. Just keep putting one foot in front of the other. Easier said than done.
Ah, guys! I moved from my lifelong home of Nashville, Tennessee, USA, to San Miguel de Allende, MX. You two were a huge help! I sold my house, my car, re-homed my precious cat; gave away tons & tons of things and down I flew (having pre-scouted SMA!) It was my 5th time in MX, and 2nd in SMA. No regrets, then or now. I couldn’t imagine going back and leaving this beautiful place that is now home. I would be sad & I would be longing for SMA. You asked. That’s it.
Your videos are compassionate, informative and an indirect way for me to travel. You both stay so calm and united. Your love for each other is heartwarming. Thinking of you both for your loss of your dad. I miss so much my dad!
Life is good Life is hard Parents are amazing Children are blessings We believe - In something Time, feelings, love Life is simple; beginning, end The journey is the destination
I'm so sorry to hear about your dad. We had a fairly similar situation. We started our nomadic life this February. In early July, my husband's mom passed away. We flew from Istanbul back to the U.S. and were able to spend 1.5 months in the area he is from in order to help with fixing up the house and other items. In bad times, it is nice to be able to have the time and money to shift plans as needed. For us, this time was both physically and emotionally exhausting, so after finishing what we needed to do in his hometown, we decided to just chill in another part of the U.S. for a few months and catch up with friends. We thought about signing a year lease, but ultimately I think we want to get back on the road. It's also WAY less expensive to be anywhere else, so I'm ready to get back to rentals for under $1,200 per month and dining out meals for under $5. My advice would be to take care of what you need to take care of for the estate, see the people back home you want to see, and then give yourself permission to plop somewhere for a little bit and just rest (whether that's in the UK, back in Thailand, or somewhere else entirely). Wishing you the best during these difficult times.
Spot on - roll with the punches and deal with the ups and downs; it's all part of life - the good, bad, happy and sad. Kudos to you both for having the courage and clarity to do what is best for you and your families. I will follow you regardless of where you are. I love this channel because of you, Neil and Sarah; real people with great videos they create and share. 🥰💕💕
It’s a coincidence that the first time I discovered your channel was 4 1/2 months ago when I was in the Dallas airport getting ready to fly to London to start our grand adventure! Now I am standing in the line at security at the Paris airport getting ready to board a flight back to Dallas! I am watching your video during my time standing in this extremely long queue! What a surprising coincidence that your father‘s funeral was scheduled the same day as the queens! Good luck with all of the many things you will be handling in the coming days. Both of my parents have passed, and I was the one sibling who lived close to them, so most of the complexity was mine to handle. I appreciate the fact that it is complicated and emotional. Thinking of you, and looking forward to watching your journey from here. Blessings 🙏XX Dara
You're not going to lose me. I like the fact that your videos are real life and not some polished Instagram production of a world and life that doesn't really exist. You provide an honest straightforward few of the journey you guys are on. My wife and I are about a year older than you, and hoping that in 6 years time, we too can live a purposeful life and travel.
Sorry to hear about the loss of your dad. I lost my mum several years ago to Parkinson's. It's events like these that are actually one of the big reasons for going on this journey too, as one of the most important reasons for me is to spend more time with the people that we care about.
Hi Neil and Sarah: I am sorry to hear of your loss. My you find peace and comfort in your return to the UK. Being retired nomads, my husband and I have been able to return to the US periodically when family needs required. It gives you the time to put in order the plans and issues you need to ensure you UK life is "orderly". Give yourself some time to grieve as needed and when the time is right, you will be able to make a decision on traveling overseas again. Although we have not committed to staying in one place for a year - we tend to 3 months and then move to another fun (inexpensive location), we have trouble staying in the US for 3 months at a time. Each time you make a decision to "travel" you start a new adventure - may this new adventure for you bring answers to your questions and a chance for you to recharge and carry on.
Hey Sarah and Neil-wish I could help you with the "complications" when you get back to the UK! I'm from the US so no hope at all. In any case your sincerity about how you conduct your life is what keeps me watching your videos not what your adventures are about. ( Although I enjoy those videos too!) All will be sorted and then you can start again. Always disappointing when life plans are sidetracked. Right now I'm dealing with a very sore hip and an upcoming hip replacement in Dec. Not in the plans, but something that needs taking care of. Luckily, like you, when this bump in the road is over I can continue on my travels. Wishing you the very best!
Again, so sorry for your loss😪 But to answer your question....my favourite part of travelling is the planning. Even if our plans change 100 times as we travel, I am most excited during the planning stage. During this time the world is wide open to us and it's so exciting!!! We live full time in our RV and have done so for 3 years. Like you we have sold everything and just travel full time. In that time we have gone from a massive 5th wheel trailer to a 21ft travel trailer. Change is the best part of life! Embrace it and I can't wait to see where your travels take you guys to next! Love all that you two have to offer ❤️❤️
I think its ok to be both sad and excited. As your videos show, it’s important to be looking ahead and focusing on the opportunities the future brings. I’m glad you decided to keep the TH-cam videos going 😊
Dear Neil and Sarah, I hope that you are in a good place today. Your situation was so overwhelming, and it had to be very difficult to weigh all of the options and finally come to the conclusion that you did. That apartment was the hot setup and I'm sure on some level it was crushing to make the decision to give it up for now. It's hard enough dealing with the loss of a parent but this does kind of feel like having the rug pulled out from underneath you even though it is your decision. In the end, it is probably the most practical choice- but painful, too. You will move through this and 6 months from now, you will probably be somewhere that you couldn't have imagined being today. That is the result of the 90% factor. I've been in situations where the rug is pulled out and it's dealing with the shock and then the grieving process of the life change that is the character-building stuff. (Easy to say after the fact. ha!) Maybe it's fitting that your dad's funeral is on a sad day for the world. Change of subject.....I really enjoyed seeing the apartment and the shopping mall and the life you are leaving behind for now. We will be watching to see how you are doing. I wouldn't mind seeing some sights in the U,K. and the planning papers.
"Lake" You know where Chang Mai is, so it is not so far away any more. You have made friends there and can always return, just as you can return to your travel plans in the future. My experience is family comes first and it is now time you must spend together with those closest to you for so many reasons! All of us "subscriber friends" love following you both (maybe not the loo- HaHa!). We will be right here for your next post and wish you well along the way. Our condolences and best wishes! Gordon
I stumbled across your channel- very happy I did. My husband and I are in our mid to late 50's, from western Canada - God Bless the Queen. We can really relate to your videos. Selling off personal and commercial properties, parents of young adult children, aging parents, covid and the list goes on and on as we try to start phase 2 of our life in Central America. I have always called our issues "Problems", I really like your phrasing of "Complications" instead! Our long term plan is to travel the world with no home base.
As someone who has lost their remaining parent about 4 years ago, having my siblings to help was critical to sorting thru things, both physically and emotionally. It also created the opportunity to do some inclusionary planning with them. We now go on cruises together and long distance bike tours....so it worked out well in the end. I myself have about 20 months till me and the Mrs go exploring fulltime. Keep the faith and best wishes to you both. Thank you for sharing your stories.
A really interesting video, I think this could be a great opportunity for a re-set once the other things are sorted. As an Australian, if I was you, I would be looking to eventually look more at Europe. I'm thinking say Romania, Portugal, perhaps the Greek Islands in the off season (and house sitting in the UK and France in the summer)? But of course this is your journey not mine. All the best.
We can go anywhere to see pretty pictures of far off places. I appreciate your efforts to help us experience the real life as you live it, and not a sanitized portrait. It seems mundane, but it's really interesting for me to see basic things like how you pay bills, since in a few years I expect to be in a similar position. I also appreciate the description of going to eat in a restaurant and not speaking the language. I have lived and worked on four continents, but always to places where I spoke the language or had someone nearby to help translate. Seeing you navigate what to me is intimidating is helpful in a way that you may not recognize. Thanks.
Hey, folks. I have been watching over the last eight months, or so. I'm also 55, but look like a stunning 49. Back in 2018, both of my parents passed within a month of each other, 2000 miles from where I lived, and I was the sole heir and executor for both. I was making $100,000 a year in a place that I loved, but my job was becoming untenable for many reasons. We decided to chuck the career (tech, once your're out at 50+, you're out), in order to manage the estates. That process took nearly a year. We are still in our home country, due to work, Ukraine and finances. Living semi-retired at 20-ish hours per week in low pay fun jobs. Stay positive. You've expereinced more global travel and insights into various lives recently than most people get for their entire lives. You have the flexibility to do what you need to without losing major things. Travel will be there when you can resume. Life sometimes forces us to rise to the occasion. I suspect this will be an important emotional process, which you should not deny. There may be silver linings, and there will definitely be resumed global living, with more things to talk about. Wishing you both luck and strength through this.
Oh, my lovely couple! We never know how our lives could be changed in a second. I like a lot that, although you started a new path, you had the resilience to chance it’s course in a positive note. That’s what proper planning comes in handy. And you built your freedom to deal to whatever comes your way. Wish you luck in your new endeavour and can’t wait to see you guys in the next video. Take care you 2 and be well. Sending you my love from Vancouver Canada.
Hope you two made it back to the UK in fine shape. When you get things sorted and you have time, let us know how things are going. We look forward to hearing all about your plans moving forward.
We sold everything and went off travelling in August 2019, yes then we had Covid hit in March 2020 we were in Malaysia, the Malaysian government effectively told all foreigners to leave, we returned to the U.K. we had no home just a VW camper we lived in it for 10 months. We have a small home now but are realising we are back in the same position we were before we left to travel, so be wary of that 🤣 Sorry to hear of your loss Neil x
You are both dealing with a lot right now between the loss of your dad and the other “complications.” I can see why you would be disappointed to have to give up the beautiful apartment and put a hold on your training. I suspect you will be back - and if not, it would be because you’ve found another adventure! Take the time you need - we’ll be here waiting for another of your interesting, informational, and funny videos! (If I lived in the UK, I’d offer my address but I can’t help you there 😎). Debbie
Hi from Vancouver Canada. I wished that there was some words of wisdom or comfort that I could just give you to help you along. However the only words of real substance I can give you is - Our heartfelt condolences to you and Sarah on your loss. Now is the time for close family and friends and it seems that your are heading straight for the place you need to be. Home may be wherever you live, but family is always back to the place you started from. We are also currently working on the loss of my father-in-law and all the legal stuff that accompanies that. I hope that all goes well for you as you move into this new season of life and all the goodness that is yet to come. Thanks for all the work both of you do putting together the videos - they are a real time inspiration and practical advice for our upcoming retirement and plans.
Hi Sarah and Neil, my heart goes out to you as your world gets turned upside down...as one who has been living in other nations and travelling for decades I understand your heart and I also understand the pain - its a process - life is not predictable its what we do when things don't go according to our plan...it seems you have all in hand and are taking each step of the journey with caution - thats all one can do ...it does not define you... As always I love your videos cause of your transparency, don't loose that... it is who you both are and I, for one value that.. So you both are probably in the UK right now... manic on the queens funeral, let it not take away your reason for return, its just coincide re your father's funeral on the same day. You both have a journey to travel right now, travel it well, re-evaluate, do what you have to as far as logistics and, get back on that road the dream you have been planning for what has been I imagine a long time.....Go well, take care and know for one. I will be waiting patiently for your posts when you are ready...don't forget your purpose...and your dream...
Yes we need YT content from people our own age group. I cannot relate to forty years old or less content unless they are just providing information, many of those YT people who have retired and got married girls who talk about is expats and processes, ! Anyway, I am glad you will continue the channel and trust me, you do not have to spend too much time editing.
Sorry for your loss and I can totally appreciate the complications you mentioned as an expat living a somewhat non traditional life style. And really love your apartment , hope someday we will visit Thailand as well !
Everything you are going though is one of the key things im worried about looking to leave the uk with elderly parents.. and the challenges you highlighted are also ones I was wondering how to solve.. how to maintain an address and status in the uk .. and all the tax implications will be very interested in a detailed video on all of the possible solutions put forward here and also my condolences to you on losing your dad… please please keep up the you tube this is real life not “instagram travel” what you are documenting is much more interesting and valuable
My condolences for your father’s passing. May you both have pace while facing some strong decisions. Your apartment is lovely. I’m sure you will find a lovelier one on your next journey
my internet is out of order at home today. I've just been into town and watched this video in the drugstore parking lot. it has now sunk in what a hard core fan i am! 😆 safe travels back home. you will be in my thoughts- Mel
Safe travels back to the UK. My condolences for your loss. Don't worry about TH-cam. We'll be here when your ready to film again. Life is raw and unscipted. We all have to take it as it comes and chose to respond to it with positivity.
So sorry for your loss. Hope you are getting things sorted now that you are back in the UK. I look forward to hearing about all the plans you are making on those blank sheets of paper. I very much look forward to your videos every Saturday. I hope you will continue to share your journey/stories wherever you find yourselves in the world. All the best.
Good luck with all of your 'complications'. I am sure you and Sara will work through them all. We are full time RV'rs since Sept. 2020. I can relate to your feeling guilty for being free. Looking forward to your upcoming videos.
Hi Both, with regard to post any friend or family you can use for your mail will be best, if they can add you to the electoral role even better. With being in/out of U.K., you decide where you are tax resident as long as you do your self assessment each year and have a U.K. bank account and address you have nothing to worry about. This is something we did when we were travelling pre covid. Hope this helps x
Welcome back to the UK. I hope you are being comforted by your family and friends - it's great that you were able to return "home". Tomorrow you will be in my thoughts - it will be one of the saddest days. I felt your emotion these last videos. I can relate somehow with the feeling of guilt (that never leaves) after leaving my country and family many years ago. It was very difficult not being able to travel to my dad's funeral because of COVID restrictions. It will get better with time as you accept your choices and life.
So sad for your loss. A truly authentic life you are sharing. It is a sae that most of the time most of the things work out OK and we are sure you will find this the case here. You have a wonderful way of planning and complication solving. Safe travels
I’m so thankful that all of our comments have encouraged y’all, especially since y’all encourage us all the time with your insightful and humorous videos. I think, if I were in your situation, I would be saddened, of course, by the death of my father. I think I would also be sad about having to change the plans I had made for the year. However, that sadness would also have some hope shining through. After all the challenges back in the UK are handled, there would be the excitement of putting pen to paper again to plan out future travel adventures. Thankfully you have the flexibility to do what’s necessary and to help your family members. I sure they will appreciate your help. Keeping y’all in my thoughts and prayers while you go through this challenging time. I’m so very grateful that you haven’t given up on making your videos! I would miss y’all terribly!
Just caught up with this vlog. It's so sad, but so lovely that you shared it all with us. Could you do a vlog, specifically for UK nomads, that covers NHS/adressess/banks/insurance etc?
So sorry to learn of your dad's passing. As someone that is living nomadically with elderly parents (90 and 93), I understand the guilt we feel. Your words have lifted some of the guilt and I'll hold on to the fact that I'm free to help out family for as long as is need family. Inside I knew that but your words reminded me of that fact. Take care and good luck with everything in England. We'll be watching!!
My heart goes out to you having to make difficult decisions. Change, I think, is and can be very exciting. Fun in the planning! I'd miss leaving your beautiful apartment! I'm in the US but she is my Queen too! A great inspiring woman! I don't think we'll see another like her in my lifetime. I hope you're both safe and comforted with family. You'll both be in my thoughts!
This could be a bonding experience for everyone involved. Also a great learning experience for planning on what to focus on after you settle the estate. You got this!!!
Best wishes. Life really can throw us a curveball now and then. So sorry about your father. Lost mine in 2019. Very hard. But you 2 are resilient, and you’ll figure it out.❤️ take whatever time you need. We’ll wait.
We are in Madrid on our nomadic journey. We plan to be here for a year. We have a similar concern as I was the carer for both my parents up until a year ago. Dad has passed and Mom is now closer to my sister so she can take over as carer.. However there is always guilt😢. After 12 years I realized I needed a break from caring for both aging parents and children who now are all out on their own. You will get through this season of your life and perhaps have different priorities as far as travel is concerned once you’re on the other side of everything you are dealing with right now. Best of luck, take life one day at a time and enjoy the ride. PS- we use a service called Traveling Mailbox that gives you an actual physical address not a PO Box.
We have no doubt you're very capable types who will see the joy of travel again soon. Best regards and be sure to care for yourselves too. Mike & Louise 😊🇨🇦
Just catching up on you guys, i was away. Glad to see you are a bit perkier. Keep filming i love just seeing you guys no matter where you are or what you are doing...even going to the shopping centre....also 9min in...woman in orange top coming down the stairs 😂 what is she doing she looks like she could fall doing that!
Hello again. I hope all is well in England and your family received some closure after the funeral. I love watching your channel because my wife and I will be in our 50s when we start to retire and slow travel. I hope you find joy and fulfilment in making them and continue. 🤙
My condolences on your father’s passing. May you both have peace while facing some strong decisions. Your apartment is lovely and no, 55?, no way! However, I’m sure you will find a lovelier apt on your next journey! Sending peace
Thanks for the update. Losing a parent is not easy - the end of an era. You are quite right to not make any hard and fast plans at this point in time. Please continue to keep us posted as we feel as if we are on this journey with you.
Another excellent video. Love your beautiful apartment and apartment building. The cost is astoundingly cheap. It would cost 10x that in California. I can understand your sadness in leaving. While I’ve not experienced what you’re going through, I hope I deal with unexpected and unpleasant surprises with the same grace and dignity as you two. All will become more clear as time goes on and you figure out the challenges facing you. However your channel evolves, I’ll be following your journey because I like you two a lot and I care.
Good luck with everything back in the UK. I really look forward to watching your videos, they’re real life. Judging from all the above comments you have a loyal fan base who will patiently be there for you when you return to TH-cam. Sending 🤗 2 u both.
Hi Neil & Sarah, I stumbled across your videos by accident a some time ago and think you are both absolutely brilliant (you're our inspiration!). Life events sometimes hit you totally left field and that was the case for me last year and I'm still trying to sort out estate matters due to unexpected complications with other family members. We've no longer got any parents left and although we are still working (in our 50s), we have recently become empty nesters and are so looking forward to our new next phase of life. Condolences to you both at this very difficult and sad time, but like everything you will get through it together and come out at the other side. x
Wishing you both our very best today for Neil’s father’s funeral. We hope being with family will offer some peace. Dealing with all the things that come after is daunting and can be exhausting. Our only advice (after doing this 4 times - three while living overseas) is to be kind to and patient with yourselves as you juggle it all. It’s natural to want to push to get it all done as quickly as possible, and yet only a few things will go as you expect. Sending you both big hugs from San Miguel!
Hi N&S, thank you for the always interesting, informative, funny videos; I would call them mini-movies. With the challenges forcing you to change your plans, can only wish you good luck and inspiration. I have never been to UK, but follow your channel to live thru your adventures, so would still watch UK daily life depictions, if you have time to shoot. All the best to both of you!
As always a good video. I think your doing the right thing family should always come first. And having a good partner is so important. Challenges will always come up being flexible and calm won’t fix’s things but it makes it easier. A challenging time for sure all my best.
Hi Neil & Sara, you asked for opinions so here goes, we were in Finland when my mother in law passed, big difference for us tho she was 95 and had said to us not to return if anything happened while we were away… we were away 6 mths doing a variety of housesits where you commit to people, incidentally we had just finished 1 in Doi Saket so enjoyed seeing the mall again bought back memories. We had already prepared the financial side of my mother in laws estate, as she was in a rest home and her apartment sold, so was a lot easier for us, we had a memorial service when we returned 3 months later. So I feel your pain, but do stay positive and keep up your travels, it really is the best way to spend your retirement and in Thailand everything is so cheap, you are not worrying about paying the winter energy bills like so many at the moment. The apartment looks great, hopefully you can get back to where you left off with a lighter heart.. Take care N&S thinking of you both from 2 Kiwi’s in NZ 🇳🇿
You have alot to sort out, and decisions to make. I pray you'll have the physical and emotional strength to get through it all. I lived in the UK for 20 years and yes it is a burden having a permanent postal address. I used a box at a mailbox facility and put Unit as a substitute for Box. You may not get away with it now because the area code will come up with mailbox company when a business, bank etc keys it in. Worth a try. Manaaki te Atua 💞
I am truly enjoying your videos - style and substance. Certainly sorry to hear of the death of your father, but glad you can return to honour his life. I am trying to catch up on all your postings, in order - a game of clutch and grab as it goes. What you show us is real and it's charming, and a well-made look behind the scenes of what it is and what it takes to slo-travel. Do you have any insights for singles who wish to do this? Many thanks.
I'm sorry your plans got derailed. Strikes me that it seems as hard to sell a whole house full of stuff as it is to part with a new blender and workout mats. Change is always hard, and we get attached to stuff whether we mean to or not. I'm sure your siblings will greatly appreciate your help, and someone will allow you to use their address!
LAKE...sorry so late. Sorry for ur loss. But appreciate you taking time to make the video. I enjoy your videos for the content and how you have dealt with the circumstance you've encountered. Hope you make it back to the training soon. Safe travels and best wishes 🙏
Hang in there guys! I'm sure you will work through the complications with humour and a positive attitude. Sad you have to leave your apartment, but I do believe as one door closes...
Just remember, the clock restarts when you get back to Thailand. I have the same issues father die, no resident address for uk. Dual citizenship of UK and Australia. Bank accounts in UK and Australia, all so much fun to deal with lol. Stay safe guy’s.
So many other great comments, I am not sure I can say much different. We have lost 3 of 4 parents so we understand many of the feelings so give yourself space to work through those feelings and deal with the organizational paperwork that follows. It’s at these moments that having each other is so important and, as the Gottman Institute, recommends do a lot of “turning towards.”
One of the lessons I learned from being on the road is nothing is forever. After my parents died, I thought I'd travel and never return to the US. But I ran out of money after 5 yrs and had to come back to work/save until I could take my pension. I used that time to start my business, pay off all debt and learn how to manage finances. Now I'm 6 months from leaving and much better prepared for the next step. It all happens for a reason, so do what you need to do & look forward to your future together.
I’m so sorry for your loss, Neil. It’s never easy when you’re traveling and the emotions you’re going through. On a different note, you might want to check out Nomad Capitalist’s channel. I’m sure he’ll be able to assist with your taxes 😊
Condolences on the loss of your father. Love your videos and following your travels. Found you while researching life in Turkey, and would love to travel when retired in 2025, but looking to do 6 months abroad and 6 months UK. How much per month was your apartment in this video?
Quite a lot of info in this vlog. Very informative as always. It’s a shame you have to leave so soon but like you said, that blank piece of paper makes it all worth while. Not sure I could afford to fill in those pieces of paper in a UK pub anymore though. 😬 it’s going to be a shock to the system. I hear what you’re saying with having to use an address as a “home” in the UK. It is a factor. I use my girlfriends address but she will be joining me in 3 years and then we will be back to square one. The whole tax thing as well is a factor and just another thing to deal with. I own a couple of rental properties so I have to do the same stuff with an accountant. Like they say though, tax is a nice problem to have. I hope you get all your admin sorted whilst you’re in the UK and you get that new lease of life when you fill in those blank pieces of paper. By the way Neil, you don’t look a day over 54 😂
Sadly this happens to us all, losing loved ones. Take a year out, it will take that long to sell property etc. Its not a great time to travel with a recession around the corner.
I am more interested in the daily trivia, then some of the travel. I just like an honest view of Chiang Mai. I am currently in Ubon, heading to UK on Wednesday.
Hi Both I'm curious to know how you sorted /arranged all the bills stuff regarding water, wi-fi etc. It's hard enough doing it here (in the UK) - do the landlords guide you through it or are you left to fend for yourself? Also do you have an idea on the bills before you sign for the apartment? Cheers!
Wow, that was quite the video. I’ve always appreciated how you include us in your lives, the good and the sad. As a fellow ex-Pat Brit, I’ve certainly appreciated the perspective and some of the humour. This one clearly was tough for you both. All those plans needing to be changed, so soon after having started to build a life in Chiangmai. I hope it wasn’t too expensive, though I’m sure that’s the least of your worries, considering the sad circumstances surrounding your need to return and these complications you now need to deal with. We’re in London (and thereabouts) the first two weeks in October, if you’re also in the area please reach out of Facebook, we’d love to buy you a pint (or two). I hope your travels home weren’t too stressful.
Hi , what’s your withdrawal strategy from pension , and what tool do you use to track your pension pot. Finally , have you made a withdrawal changes since markets crashed etc in U.K. ?
We still enjoy the convenience and ease of living in the US, but that does not mean geo arbitrage does not work here. We moved from California to Florida in 2016 and our costs went down by 30%.
Watching this video, again, but this time I’m watching it in Chiang Mai. What a wonderful place!
My husband and I are the same age as you and Sarah and both retired in April 2021. We sold our home but kept our summer cottage where we now live when we’re not travelling. We are only semi-nomadic since we have 2 dogs, 2 young adult children and 2 ageing mothers. We love watching your videos and admire the courage it took to become true nomads. You are navigating through this stormy time wonderfully which serves as an example to those of us still fearing the “what ifs”…. Wishing you strength and courage as you put your nation’s Queen and your family’s King to rest.
Don't waste your time responding to my comment - PLEASE!
Loved this video - it was from the heart.
Your heads are obviously all mixed up but, above all else, don't stress or worry as everything always works out.
Back here in the UK just concentrate on family - forget us.
If I can help out in any way from Yorkshire, get in touch, even if it's just to have a rant about something.
There is nothing that the both of you can't work out together, just remember that - you've achieved so much with your new lifestyle.
And, finally, hugs are great - dish them out often. x
You probably need a lock up and leave apartment in UK. Somewhere safe from burglars. Tax liability usually after 6 months or intention to settle depending on country. Otherwise UK based, which is pretty good for ISA/pension investments. You may lose NHS entitlement sooner than you think, but may not be enforced. Some people resident in Spain kept UK park home, flat or house and travelled back to UK for big treatments, prescriptions. Should have been charged. Interesting to see what you'll do to solve these.
We have been "on the road" for 7 years and have had similar situations. It is tough. But it would have been even if we weren't mobile. Just different. It makes you question every thing. Just keep putting one foot in front of the other. Easier said than done.
Ah, guys! I moved from my lifelong home of Nashville, Tennessee, USA, to San Miguel de Allende, MX. You two were a huge help! I sold my house, my car, re-homed my precious cat; gave away tons & tons of things and down I flew (having pre-scouted SMA!) It was my 5th time in MX, and 2nd in SMA. No regrets, then or now. I couldn’t imagine going back and leaving this beautiful place that is now home. I would be sad & I would be longing for SMA. You asked. That’s it.
Good for you! I’ve heard SMA is gorgeous! I am currently in Paris at the airport about ready to fly back home to Dallas 😉
Your videos are compassionate, informative and an indirect way for me to travel. You both stay so calm and united. Your love for each other is heartwarming. Thinking of you both for your loss of your dad. I miss so much my dad!
Life is good
Life is hard
Parents are amazing
Children are blessings
We believe - In something
Time, feelings, love
Life is simple; beginning, end
The journey is the destination
I'm so sorry to hear about your dad. We had a fairly similar situation. We started our nomadic life this February. In early July, my husband's mom passed away. We flew from Istanbul back to the U.S. and were able to spend 1.5 months in the area he is from in order to help with fixing up the house and other items. In bad times, it is nice to be able to have the time and money to shift plans as needed. For us, this time was both physically and emotionally exhausting, so after finishing what we needed to do in his hometown, we decided to just chill in another part of the U.S. for a few months and catch up with friends. We thought about signing a year lease, but ultimately I think we want to get back on the road. It's also WAY less expensive to be anywhere else, so I'm ready to get back to rentals for under $1,200 per month and dining out meals for under $5. My advice would be to take care of what you need to take care of for the estate, see the people back home you want to see, and then give yourself permission to plop somewhere for a little bit and just rest (whether that's in the UK, back in Thailand, or somewhere else entirely). Wishing you the best during these difficult times.
Spot on - roll with the punches and deal with the ups and downs; it's all part of life - the good, bad, happy and sad. Kudos to you both for having the courage and clarity to do what is best for you and your families. I will follow you regardless of where you are. I love this channel because of you, Neil and Sarah; real people with great videos they create and share. 🥰💕💕
It’s a coincidence that the first time I discovered your channel was 4 1/2 months ago when I was in the Dallas airport getting ready to fly to London to start our grand adventure! Now I am standing in the line at security at the Paris airport getting ready to board a flight back to Dallas! I am watching your video during my time standing in this extremely long queue!
What a surprising coincidence that your father‘s funeral was scheduled the same day as the queens! Good luck with all of the many things you will be handling in the coming days. Both of my parents have passed, and I was the one sibling who lived close to them, so most of the complexity was mine to handle. I appreciate the fact that it is complicated and emotional. Thinking of you, and looking forward to watching your journey from here. Blessings 🙏XX Dara
You're not going to lose me. I like the fact that your videos are real life and not some polished Instagram production of a world and life that doesn't really exist. You provide an honest straightforward few of the journey you guys are on. My wife and I are about a year older than you, and hoping that in 6 years time, we too can live a purposeful life and travel.
Sorry to hear about the loss of your dad. I lost my mum several years ago to Parkinson's. It's events like these that are actually one of the big reasons for going on this journey too, as one of the most important reasons for me is to spend more time with the people that we care about.
Cheers Dave, best wishes to you. I know it's tough to lose your mum.
Hi Neil and Sarah: I am sorry to hear of your loss. My you find peace and comfort in your return to the UK. Being retired nomads, my husband and I have been able to return to the US periodically when family needs required. It gives you the time to put in order the plans and issues you need to ensure you UK life is "orderly". Give yourself some time to grieve as needed and when the time is right, you will be able to make a decision on traveling overseas again. Although we have not committed to staying in one place for a year - we tend to 3 months and then move to another fun (inexpensive location), we have trouble staying in the US for 3 months at a time. Each time you make a decision to "travel" you start a new adventure - may this new adventure for you bring answers to your questions and a chance for you to recharge and carry on.
Love the way you both stay resilient amidst unexpected change...maybe this is one of the keys to a great life ..
Hey Sarah and Neil-wish I could help you with the "complications" when you get back to the UK! I'm from the US so no hope at all. In any case your sincerity about how you conduct your life is what keeps me watching your videos not what your adventures are about. ( Although I enjoy those videos too!) All will be sorted and then you can start again. Always disappointing when life plans are sidetracked. Right now I'm dealing with a very sore hip and an upcoming hip replacement in Dec. Not in the plans, but something that needs taking care of. Luckily, like you, when this bump in the road is over I can continue on my travels. Wishing you the very best!
Again, so sorry for your loss😪 But to answer your question....my favourite part of travelling is the planning. Even if our plans change 100 times as we travel, I am most excited during the planning stage. During this time the world is wide open to us and it's so exciting!!! We live full time in our RV and have done so for 3 years. Like you we have sold everything and just travel full time. In that time we have gone from a massive 5th wheel trailer to a 21ft travel trailer. Change is the best part of life! Embrace it and I can't wait to see where your travels take you guys to next! Love all that you two have to offer ❤️❤️
I think its ok to be both sad and excited. As your videos show, it’s important to be looking ahead and focusing on the opportunities the future brings. I’m glad you decided to keep the TH-cam videos going 😊
Dear Neil and Sarah, I hope that you are in a good place today. Your situation was so overwhelming, and it had to be very difficult to weigh all of the options and finally come to the conclusion that you did. That apartment was the hot setup and I'm sure on some level it was crushing to make the decision to give it up for now. It's hard enough dealing with the loss of a parent but this does kind of feel like having the rug pulled out from underneath you even though it is your decision. In the end, it is probably the most practical choice- but painful, too. You will move through this and 6 months from now, you will probably be somewhere that you couldn't have imagined being today. That is the result of the 90% factor. I've been in situations where the rug is pulled out and it's dealing with the shock and then the grieving process of the life change that is the character-building stuff. (Easy to say after the fact. ha!) Maybe it's fitting that your dad's funeral is on a sad day for the world. Change of subject.....I really enjoyed seeing the apartment and the shopping mall and the life you are leaving behind for now. We will be watching to see how you are doing. I wouldn't mind seeing some sights in the U,K. and the planning papers.
"Lake" You know where Chang Mai is, so it is not so far away any more. You have made friends there and can always return, just as you can return to your travel plans in the future. My experience is family comes first and it is now time you must spend together with those closest to you for so many reasons! All of us "subscriber friends" love following you both (maybe not the loo- HaHa!). We will be right here for your next post and wish you well along the way. Our condolences and best wishes! Gordon
I stumbled across your channel- very happy I did.
My husband and I are in our mid to late 50's, from western Canada - God Bless the Queen.
We can really relate to your videos. Selling off personal and commercial properties, parents of young adult children, aging parents, covid and the list goes on and on as we try to start phase 2 of our life in Central America.
I have always called our issues "Problems", I really like your phrasing of "Complications" instead!
Our long term plan is to travel the world with no home base.
As someone who has lost their remaining parent about 4 years ago, having my siblings to help was critical to sorting thru things, both physically and emotionally.
It also created the opportunity to do some inclusionary planning with them. We now go on cruises together and long distance bike tours....so it worked out well in the end. I myself have about 20 months till me and the Mrs go exploring fulltime. Keep the faith and best wishes to you both. Thank you for sharing your stories.
A really interesting video, I think this could be a great opportunity for a re-set once the other things are sorted. As an Australian, if I was you, I would be looking to eventually look more at Europe. I'm thinking say Romania, Portugal, perhaps the Greek Islands in the off season (and house sitting in the UK and France in the summer)? But of course this is your journey not mine. All the best.
We can go anywhere to see pretty pictures of far off places. I appreciate your efforts to help us experience the real life as you live it, and not a sanitized portrait. It seems mundane, but it's really interesting for me to see basic things like how you pay bills, since in a few years I expect to be in a similar position.
I also appreciate the description of going to eat in a restaurant and not speaking the language. I have lived and worked on four continents, but always to places where I spoke the language or had someone nearby to help translate. Seeing you navigate what to me is intimidating is helpful in a way that you may not recognize. Thanks.
Hey, folks. I have been watching over the last eight months, or so. I'm also 55, but look like a stunning 49. Back in 2018, both of my parents passed within a month of each other, 2000 miles from where I lived, and I was the sole heir and executor for both. I was making $100,000 a year in a place that I loved, but my job was becoming untenable for many reasons. We decided to chuck the career (tech, once your're out at 50+, you're out), in order to manage the estates. That process took nearly a year.
We are still in our home country, due to work, Ukraine and finances. Living semi-retired at 20-ish hours per week in low pay fun jobs. Stay positive. You've expereinced more global travel and insights into various lives recently than most people get for their entire lives. You have the flexibility to do what you need to without losing major things. Travel will be there when you can resume. Life sometimes forces us to rise to the occasion. I suspect this will be an important emotional process, which you should not deny. There may be silver linings, and there will definitely be resumed global living, with more things to talk about. Wishing you both luck and strength through this.
Oh, my lovely couple! We never know how our lives could be changed in a second. I like a lot that, although you started a new path, you had the resilience to chance it’s course in a positive note. That’s what proper planning comes in handy. And you built your freedom to deal to whatever comes your way. Wish you luck in your new endeavour and can’t wait to see you guys in the next video. Take care you 2 and be well. Sending you my love from Vancouver Canada.
Hope you two made it back to the UK in fine shape. When you get things sorted and you have time, let us know how things are going. We look forward to hearing all about your plans moving forward.
Keep going guys, this time next year you’ll be back on track 👍
We sold everything and went off travelling in August 2019, yes then we had Covid hit in March 2020 we were in Malaysia, the Malaysian government effectively told all foreigners to leave, we returned to the U.K. we had no home just a VW camper we lived in it for 10 months. We have a small home now but are realising we are back in the same position we were before we left to travel, so be wary of that 🤣 Sorry to hear of your loss Neil x
You are both dealing with a lot right now between the loss of your dad and the other “complications.” I can see why you would be disappointed to have to give up the beautiful apartment and put a hold on your training. I suspect you will be back - and if not, it would be because you’ve found another adventure! Take the time you need - we’ll be here waiting for another of your interesting, informational, and funny videos! (If I lived in the UK, I’d offer my address but I can’t help you there 😎). Debbie
Hi from Vancouver Canada. I wished that there was some words of wisdom or comfort that I could just give you to help you along. However the only words of real substance I can give you is - Our heartfelt condolences to you and Sarah on your loss. Now is the time for close family and friends and it seems that your are heading straight for the place you need to be. Home may be wherever you live, but family is always back to the place you started from. We are also currently working on the loss of my father-in-law and all the legal stuff that accompanies that. I hope that all goes well for you as you move into this new season of life and all the goodness that is yet to come. Thanks for all the work both of you do putting together the videos - they are a real time inspiration and practical advice for our upcoming retirement and plans.
Hi Sarah and Neil, my heart goes out to you as your world gets turned upside down...as one who has been living in other nations and travelling for decades I understand your heart and I also understand the pain - its a process - life is not predictable its what we do when things don't go according to our plan...it seems you have all in hand and are taking each step of the journey with caution - thats all one can do ...it does not define you...
As always I love your videos cause of your transparency, don't loose that... it is who you both are and I, for one value that..
So you both are probably in the UK right now... manic on the queens funeral, let it not take away your reason for return, its just coincide re your father's funeral on the same day. You both have a journey to travel right now, travel it well, re-evaluate, do what you have to as far as logistics and, get back on that road the dream you have been planning for what has been I imagine a long time.....Go well, take care and know for one. I will be waiting patiently for your posts when you are ready...don't forget your purpose...and your dream...
You two are awesome!! Hugs.
Life is like a ladder your future is one step up!
Or one step at a time
Sending lots of love from Australia guys. Sad times. Hopefully you are both safe and well. Crack on, things will get better. Love Daz n Shaz x
Yes we need YT content from people our own age group. I cannot relate to forty years old or less content unless they are just providing information, many of those YT people who have retired and got married girls who talk about is expats and processes, ! Anyway, I am glad you will continue the channel and trust me, you do not have to spend too much time editing.
As someone who has only been to the UK once,I for one would love to see videos of everyday things in the UK.
Sorry for your loss and I can totally appreciate the complications you mentioned as an expat living a somewhat non traditional life style. And really love your apartment , hope someday we will visit Thailand as well !
Everything you are going though is one of the key things im worried about looking to leave the uk with elderly parents.. and the challenges you highlighted are also ones I was wondering how to solve.. how to maintain an address and status in the uk .. and all the tax implications will be very interested in a detailed video on all of the possible solutions put forward here and also my condolences to you on losing your dad… please please keep up the you tube this is real life not “instagram travel” what you are documenting is much more interesting and valuable
My condolences for your father’s passing. May you both have pace while facing some strong decisions. Your apartment is lovely. I’m sure you will find a lovelier one on your next journey
my internet is out of order at home today. I've just been into town and watched this video in the drugstore parking lot. it has now sunk in what a hard core fan i am! 😆 safe travels back home. you will be in my thoughts- Mel
We feel really gutted for you both - what a difficult situation. We will be thinking of you tomorrow. Take care.
Safe travels back to the UK. My condolences for your loss. Don't worry about TH-cam. We'll be here when your ready to film again. Life is raw and unscipted. We all have to take it as it comes and chose to respond to it with positivity.
So sorry for your loss.
Hope you are getting things sorted now that you are back in the UK.
I look forward to hearing about all the plans you are making on those blank sheets of paper. I very much look forward to your videos every Saturday. I hope you will continue to share your journey/stories wherever you find yourselves in the world.
All the best.
Good luck with all of your 'complications'. I am sure you and Sara will work through them all. We are full time RV'rs since Sept. 2020. I can relate to your feeling guilty for being free. Looking forward to your upcoming videos.
Hi Both, with regard to post any friend or family you can use for your mail will be best, if they can add you to the electoral role even better. With being in/out of U.K., you decide where you are tax resident as long as you do your self assessment each year and have a U.K. bank account and address you have nothing to worry about. This is something we did when we were travelling pre covid. Hope this helps x
what about accessing the NHS on return. Would you just register with a GP where ever you end up?
Much love, see you next time. :)
Welcome back to the UK. I hope you are being comforted by your family and friends - it's great that you were able to return "home". Tomorrow you will be in my thoughts - it will be one of the saddest days. I felt your emotion these last videos. I can relate somehow with the feeling of guilt (that never leaves) after leaving my country and family many years ago. It was very difficult not being able to travel to my dad's funeral because of COVID restrictions. It will get better with time as you accept your choices and life.
Sounds like you are re-acting admirably. I hope you get everything squared away. Praying for peace and comfort as you move forward.
So sad for your loss. A truly authentic life you are sharing. It is a sae that most of the time most of the things work out OK and we are sure you will find this the case here. You have a wonderful way of planning and complication solving. Safe travels
I’m so thankful that all of our comments have encouraged y’all, especially since y’all encourage us all the time with your insightful and humorous videos.
I think, if I were in your situation, I would be saddened, of course, by the death of my father. I think I would also be sad about having to change the plans I had made for the year. However, that sadness would also have some hope shining through. After all the challenges back in the UK are handled, there would be the excitement of putting pen to paper again to plan out future travel adventures. Thankfully you have the flexibility to do what’s necessary and to help your family members. I sure they will appreciate your help.
Keeping y’all in my thoughts and prayers while you go through this challenging time.
I’m so very grateful that you haven’t given up on making your videos! I would miss y’all terribly!
Just caught up with this vlog. It's so sad, but so lovely that you shared it all with us.
Could you do a vlog, specifically for UK nomads, that covers NHS/adressess/banks/insurance etc?
So sorry to learn of your dad's passing. As someone that is living nomadically with elderly parents (90 and 93), I understand the guilt we feel. Your words have lifted some of the guilt and I'll hold on to the fact that I'm free to help out family for as long as is need family. Inside I knew that but your words reminded me of that fact. Take care and good luck with everything in England. We'll be watching!!
My heart goes out to you having to make difficult decisions. Change, I think, is and can be very exciting. Fun in the planning! I'd miss leaving your beautiful apartment! I'm in the US but she is my Queen too! A great inspiring woman! I don't think we'll see another like her in my lifetime. I hope you're both safe and comforted with family. You'll both be in my thoughts!
My ❤️ will be with you both all the way … from now and on, and on!
This could be a bonding experience for everyone involved. Also a great learning experience for planning on what to focus on after you settle the estate. You got this!!!
Best wishes. Life really can throw us a curveball now and then. So sorry about your father. Lost mine in 2019. Very hard. But you 2 are resilient, and you’ll figure it out.❤️ take whatever time you need. We’ll wait.
We are in Madrid on our nomadic journey. We plan to be here for a year. We have a similar concern as I was the carer for both my parents up until a year ago. Dad has passed and Mom is now closer to my sister so she can take over as carer.. However there is always guilt😢. After 12 years I realized I needed a break from caring for both aging parents and children who now are all out on their own. You will get through this season of your life and perhaps have different priorities as far as travel is concerned once you’re on the other side of everything you are dealing with right now. Best of luck, take life one day at a time and enjoy the ride. PS- we use a service called Traveling Mailbox that gives you an actual physical address not a PO Box.
We have no doubt you're very capable types who will see the joy of travel again soon. Best regards and be sure to care for yourselves too. Mike & Louise 😊🇨🇦
Just catching up on you guys, i was away. Glad to see you are a bit perkier. Keep filming i love just seeing you guys no matter where you are or what you are doing...even going to the shopping centre....also 9min in...woman in orange top coming down the stairs 😂 what is she doing she looks like she could fall doing that!
Hello again. I hope all is well in England and your family received some closure after the funeral. I love watching your channel because my wife and I will be in our 50s when we start to retire and slow travel. I hope you find joy and fulfilment in making them and continue. 🤙
My condolences on your father’s passing. May you both have peace while facing some strong decisions. Your apartment is lovely and no, 55?, no way! However, I’m sure you will find a lovelier apt on your next journey! Sending peace
Thanks for the update. Losing a parent is not easy - the end of an era. You are quite right to not make any hard and fast plans at this point in time. Please continue to keep us posted as we feel as if we are on this journey with you.
Another excellent video. Love your beautiful apartment and apartment building. The cost is astoundingly cheap. It would cost 10x that in California. I can understand your sadness in leaving.
While I’ve not experienced what you’re going through, I hope I deal with unexpected and unpleasant surprises with the same grace and dignity as you two. All will become more clear as time goes on and you figure out the challenges facing you.
However your channel evolves, I’ll be following your journey because I like you two a lot and I care.
Good luck with everything back in the UK. I really look forward to watching your videos, they’re real life. Judging from all the above comments you have a loyal fan base who will patiently be there for you when you return to TH-cam. Sending 🤗 2 u both.
Love you guys!! Keep it coming!!
Hi Neil & Sarah, I stumbled across your videos by accident a some time ago and think you are both absolutely brilliant (you're our inspiration!). Life events sometimes hit you totally left field and that was the case for me last year and I'm still trying to sort out estate matters due to unexpected complications with other family members. We've no longer got any parents left and although we are still working (in our 50s), we have recently become empty nesters and are so looking forward to our new next phase of life. Condolences to you both at this very difficult and sad time, but like everything you will get through it together and come out at the other side. x
Best wishes for you both.
Wishing you both our very best today for Neil’s father’s funeral. We hope being with family will offer some peace. Dealing with all the things that come after is daunting and can be exhausting. Our only advice (after doing this 4 times - three while living overseas) is to be kind to and patient with yourselves as you juggle it all. It’s natural to want to push to get it all done as quickly as possible, and yet only a few things will go as you expect. Sending you both big hugs from San Miguel!
Hi N&S, thank you for the always interesting, informative, funny videos; I would call them mini-movies. With the challenges forcing you to change your plans, can only wish you good luck and inspiration. I have never been to UK, but follow your channel to live thru your adventures, so would still watch UK daily life depictions, if you have time to shoot. All the best to both of you!
As always a good video. I think your doing the right thing family should always come first. And having a good partner is so important. Challenges will always come up being flexible and calm won’t fix’s things but it makes it easier. A challenging time for sure all my best.
Sorry for your loss. Have a safe trip back to the UK.
Hi Neil & Sara, you asked for opinions so here goes, we were in Finland when my mother in law passed, big difference for us tho she was 95 and had said to us not to return if anything happened while we were away… we were away 6 mths doing a variety of housesits where you commit to people, incidentally we had just finished 1 in Doi Saket so enjoyed seeing the mall again bought back memories. We had already prepared the financial side of my mother in laws estate, as she was in a rest home and her apartment sold, so was a lot easier for us, we had a memorial service when we returned 3 months later. So I feel your pain, but do stay positive and keep up your travels, it really is the best way to spend your retirement and in Thailand everything is so cheap, you are not worrying about paying the winter energy bills like so many at the moment. The apartment looks great, hopefully you can get back to where you left off with a lighter heart.. Take care N&S thinking of you both from 2 Kiwi’s in NZ 🇳🇿
You have alot to sort out, and decisions to make. I pray you'll have the physical and emotional strength to get through it all. I lived in the UK for 20 years and yes it is a burden having a permanent postal address. I used a box at a mailbox facility and put Unit as a substitute for Box. You may not get away with it now because the area code will come up with mailbox company when a business, bank etc keys it in. Worth a try. Manaaki te Atua 💞
You two are an inspiration and we love the humour. We definitely look forward to seeing what you get up to once this difficult time has passed.
Thank you for !
I am truly enjoying your videos - style and substance.
Certainly sorry to hear of the death of your father, but glad you can return to honour his life.
I am trying to catch up on all your postings, in order - a game of clutch and grab as it goes.
What you show us is real and it's charming, and a well-made look behind the scenes of what it is and what it takes to slo-travel. Do you have any insights for singles who wish to do this?
Many thanks.
I'm sorry your plans got derailed. Strikes me that it seems as hard to sell a whole house full of stuff as it is to part with a new blender and workout mats. Change is always hard, and we get attached to stuff whether we mean to or not. I'm sure your siblings will greatly appreciate your help, and someone will allow you to use their address!
LAKE...sorry so late.
Sorry for ur loss. But appreciate you taking time to make the video.
I enjoy your videos for the content and how you have dealt with the circumstance you've encountered. Hope you make it back to the training soon. Safe travels and best wishes 🙏
Hang in there guys! I'm sure you will work through the complications with humour and a positive attitude. Sad you have to leave your apartment, but I do believe as one door closes...
So sorry to hear about your dad Neil. Stay strong mate - am thinking about you and Sarah
Cheers Stuart. It's life isn't it eh....
I've never been, but I think I'd LOVE Chiang Mai! Thank you for sharing.
Just remember, the clock restarts when you get back to Thailand. I have the same issues father die, no resident address for uk. Dual citizenship of UK and Australia. Bank accounts in UK and Australia, all so much fun to deal with lol. Stay safe guy’s.
Love you guys, salt of the earth people xx
I realy hope you Will keep up the good work. I love your videos
So many other great comments, I am not sure I can say much different. We have lost 3 of 4 parents so we understand many of the feelings so give yourself space to work through those feelings and deal with the organizational paperwork that follows. It’s at these moments that having each other is so important and, as the Gottman Institute, recommends do a lot of “turning towards.”
Thanks!
One of the lessons I learned from being on the road is nothing is forever. After my parents died, I thought I'd travel and never return to the US. But I ran out of money after 5 yrs and had to come back to work/save until I could take my pension. I used that time to start my business, pay off all debt and learn how to manage finances. Now I'm 6 months from leaving and much better prepared for the next step. It all happens for a reason, so do what you need to do & look forward to your future together.
I’m so sorry for your loss, Neil. It’s never easy when you’re traveling and the emotions you’re going through. On a different note, you might want to check out Nomad Capitalist’s channel. I’m sure he’ll be able to assist with your taxes 😊
Interested and wishing you both the best.
Condolences on the loss of your father. Love your videos and following your travels. Found you while researching life in Turkey, and would love to travel when retired in 2025, but looking to do 6 months abroad and 6 months UK. How much per month was your apartment in this video?
16000 tb per month. Have a look at 19.15.
Quite a lot of info in this vlog. Very informative as always. It’s a shame you have to leave so soon but like you said, that blank piece of paper makes it all worth while. Not sure I could afford to fill in those pieces of paper in a UK pub anymore though. 😬 it’s going to be a shock to the system.
I hear what you’re saying with having to use an address as a “home” in the UK. It is a factor. I use my girlfriends address but she will be joining me in 3 years and then we will be back to square one.
The whole tax thing as well is a factor and just another thing to deal with. I own a couple of rental properties so I have to do the same stuff with an accountant. Like they say though, tax is a nice problem to have.
I hope you get all your admin sorted whilst you’re in the UK and you get that new lease of life when you fill in those blank pieces of paper. By the way Neil, you don’t look a day over 54 😂
Sadly this happens to us all, losing loved ones. Take a year out, it will take that long to sell property etc.
Its not a great time to travel with a recession around the corner.
I am more interested in the daily trivia, then some of the travel. I just like an honest view of Chiang Mai. I am currently in Ubon, heading to UK on Wednesday.
Does USA have a similar program like Devyce? Just wondered?
Hi Both
I'm curious to know how you sorted /arranged all the bills stuff regarding water, wi-fi etc. It's hard enough doing it here (in the UK) - do the landlords guide you through it or are you left to fend for yourself? Also do you have an idea on the bills before you sign for the apartment? Cheers!
Wow, that was quite the video. I’ve always appreciated how you include us in your lives, the good and the sad. As a fellow ex-Pat Brit, I’ve certainly appreciated the perspective and some of the humour. This one clearly was tough for you both. All those plans needing to be changed, so soon after having started to build a life in Chiangmai. I hope it wasn’t too expensive, though I’m sure that’s the least of your worries, considering the sad circumstances surrounding your need to return and these complications you now need to deal with. We’re in London (and thereabouts) the first two weeks in October, if you’re also in the area please reach out of Facebook, we’d love to buy you a pint (or two). I hope your travels home weren’t too stressful.
Unless you have taken tax residency elsewhere you will be liable for tax in UK
Hi , what’s your withdrawal strategy from pension , and what tool do you use to track your pension pot. Finally , have you made a withdrawal changes since markets crashed etc in U.K. ?
Thinking of you all on this saddest of days… Nothing is forever, and things will get better….
We still enjoy the convenience and ease of living in the US, but that does not mean geo arbitrage does not work here. We moved from California to Florida in 2016 and our costs went down by 30%.