Great video. Food for thought. I'm semi retired and on the edge of making a choice to stop working. I'm not sure it's a great idea. Thanks for sharing. 🙏😊🙏
@@doneganlife At the moment I'm a counsellor. I've reduced my client base gradually over the last few years. I was a builder, which was a very different career. Unfortunately I had a heart attack at 46 years old. I have heart failure now. So, physical things I enjoyed aren't possible anymore. I've always been a physically dominant person and now I work with the mind. Working with clients is a bit like making new friends. I don't want to retire to. (Daytime TV) Finding other interests that aren't physical are difficult for me to consider. It is definitely worth thinking about before pulling the plug 🔌 Thanks for giving me food for thought 💭 Steve
Great video - very thought-provoking. I am possibly a year away from retirement, depending on how pleasurable, or otherwise, work remains. I have a few half-hatched plans for retirement - board gaming, maybe learn bridge, find a Turkish bath (do they still exist?) bake, cook, dog walking, maybe relearn how to process black & white film. Whether these come to fruition is another question though!
Stumbled on your video, and a lot of it resonated with me. I retired some 15 years ago and after losing my wife to cancer in 2010 I left the U.K. and came to live in the Canary Islands. I’m 74 now (today actually!) and what works for me is a structured week, my main focus is staying fit as my philosophy is, that the longer you stay fit the more you invest in your independence. I cycle with friends three days a week and we always stop for a coffee and a chat. Then two, occasionally three days a week I do gym classes, this works better than just going to the gym as I’m more motivated in a class. The rest of my time, as I’m on my own I have to do all the mundane tasks, housework, washing, shopping DIY etc. i try and get out everyday, I enjoy my own company but I also need to interact with other people. Goals for 2025 are to make an effort to concentrate on nutrition and I also want to get into yoga. I’m never bored and appreciate retirement I never take it for granted. Some people unfortunately never get to retire
Yes how much it is true ! My children want me to end my job - but I’m so scared, to be alone … so … I’m still working , maybe I’m going be oldest carer in the caring industry …… I think my job make me younger ….
@@Iveraghboy Ah that’s great. Some folks are very uncomfortable in their own company, so for them, quite scary I’d imagine. I quite enjoy solitude but also enjoy the company of friends too.
@@doneganlife You're right. I enjoy my own company as well as friendships. On the contrary my ex wife could not do that, she actually said she doesn't like her own company which probably was at the root of her issues. The need to always be around other people has led her into many unfortunate situations since our divorce. Having a balance in your life is important.
When i retired from work at 57 and rode my bicycle out the gate i never looked back and at 73 i am very happy with my own company even though i have only a few close friends--i can spend all day and have a great time and have not spent any money
@@hamiltonski Sounds fantastic. Yes, I think it’s usually easier if we are already able to be happy in our own company. I like the image of riding out of the gate and not looking back. Sounds like you’ll have had some adventures over these recent years. And a great way to stay fit!
I worked for 53 years, retired at 66. Always felt like I didn’t have time for anything outside of work so was such a relief when I retired to get up when I want do what I want, happy doing my own thing and spending more time with my family.
I’ve just retired but have got a part time job to help me get out and meet people. Secondly it brings in some pocket money I will see how it goes. Wish me luck
@@ashleylovestennis6476 Welcome to my world! 😂 The way I manage that is to decide that I’m going to do ONE THING at the start of the day. That’s my target. And I start that. If I complete it, which I often do, I may go on to a second thing. But at least I end the day knowing that one task was completed or at least started.
@@ashleylovestennis6476 Also, someone once said to me, ‘You can’t plough a field by turning it over in your mind.’ That saying kind of stuck with me and helps me make a start.🙂
As with almost all TH-cam videos about retirement (especially those created by men), you seem to assume that everyone has an office job, and that they will 'miss' office colleagues. I have just retired from running my own business, at home, for 29 years. I am completely happy with not seeing people often (as I am an introvert). My husband has been at home with me, running his own business until 2014, then retired since then, and we are perfectly happy to be together all day - we don't 'get on each other's nerves'. We have our own interests, as well as time together. I have a list as long as your arm of things I want to do now I am retired - mainly crafts - and I have been buying kits and materials for over 10 years, adding to my stash ready for when I started retirement. My days are nicely full without being 'over planned'. I think that people who get bored easily and are extrovert will probably dislike retirement, and people who are happy in their own company and can 'make their own entertainment' will do just fine.
@@Janet62LG Not assuming any type of job. Just that most people tend to work with other people is some way, from professional dancers, farmers, people who collect the bins, nursing etc I too am an introvert and tend to limit my contact with people, but I find I do need some connection in the week for balance. I’ve also mostly worked from home on my own for most of my life. But the sudden potential loss of identity and loss of most of my responsibilities does present a challenge for me. I think it’s great that you know what you’re ‘retiring to’ - you seem to have overcome the challenge outlined in this video for the rest of us. I find myself suddenly and unexpectedly in this position so hence this video. Like you, I have a long list of things I plan to do, but now I’m here, I find myself slightly anxious about the whole situation. The question seems to have resonated with many people as I read through the comments.
A very good video covering the fact that most people don't consider 'what they are retiring to'. One aspect that you did not mention is the impact that retirement can have on you and your partner (husband. wife). In particular if both of you are retired, the 8 hours that you used to spend at work, are now spent together. And a lot of couples are not prepared for this. It is possible to have too much time together and ' get on each others nerves'. Like you said about friendships taking time and effort to maintain, so does your relationship with your partner. The one thing to remember is that you don't have to spend all that extra time together. You didn't while working and you had a good relationship. Don't feel obliged to once you have retired. As with having to think about how many years you will be retired, probably 20-30 years, far more than previous generations, your personal relationship, marriage, is, these days, expected to last far longer than previous generations. In the past, if you got marries at 20, you could expect 30-40 years together. Now longer life expectancy means you could expect to marry at 20 and spend 60-70 years together. I think most of us will struggle to maintain such a relationship for such a long time. People change over time and this is a long time! Many thanks for our video and thoughts on retirement and I hope it gets people to think about and talk about the subject. Regards Mark
@@markslade7983 Lots of great thoughts in there. Thank you. The point you make about suddenly having a lot more time together is very apt for us! Mrs E retired yesterday!!! We’ve been married over 40 years and certainly were both different people to when we got married. I think we’ve always known the balance of time alone v time together. My job used to take me away for 3 weeks at a time. However, we’ve marvelled that for the last 5 years we’ve started our campervan trips and have a very tiny space to share. But we both really enjoy it. It’s certainly something we’ve talked through a bit and neither of us minds the other going off for a few days alone. But we also enjoy travelling together too. Food for thought for sure.
Spot on. I retired nearly 4 years ago and was looking forward to it for the reasons you've given plus the environment was becoming more and more toxic. Couldn't change jobs because of the pension system. I made the mistake of focusing on my family and friends were colleagues. A huge mistake. Plus a word of warning, if like me you had been putting off various jobs for years till retirement, then you will probably not do them when the time comes. The reasons are you don't have the energy like before and you have probably got used to the way those things are and can live with it. Also you start to question why should I spend money on new things when the old stuff is still ok. I emigrated nearly 40 years ago, so those really good friends are not round the corner and the same goes for family except my own. Kids grow up, challenge you and do thier things eventually moving out. The point you made about meeting and making new friends is very important. I had until recently my dog which helped in meeting people on walks and kept me fit. Now gone and I have slipped so I agree fully with your advice. Try to get a routine, keep fit and meet people. I retired to loneliness although I have a large family. Excellent video and advice, especially for those about to retire. 👌
I remembered when my grandad retired at 65 after working all his life, well basically he was lost. His work was his life with no hobbies as such his garden gone as he moved into a bungalow with no garden because his wife couldn't manage the stairs. He got a small dog, but you can only walk a dog so much. He did go out with his brother to watch football and cricket. But basically he had to much time on his hands. You cannot just stop being occupied if you have been busy working all your life we all need something to get up for in the morning.
@@ThomasReed-c1w Thanks for that. A lot of people have said that. Given that I hated the sound of my voice when I first heard it on video many years ago, I’ve had to get over myself and accept that others like it. I was filmed for someone else’s video last year, and the sound guy said I should do some ASMR videos… 😂 Not sure about that but it helps knowing that others can listen to me without cringing. 🙂
Covid led to me realising how burnt out I really was leading to retirement at 54. A few years on I’m passing through the honeymoon period and thinking what next. Plenty hobbies to keep me busy and 100% agree on needing a timetable and maintaining a ‘to do’ list. So easy for every day to turn into a Sunday
I worked manual jobs all my life,after surviving prostate cancer aged 55 my wife got me to retire at 64,i have never regretted a single day.I swim 3 days a week with a great group and ride a motorcycle once a week in a group.
I recently retired in April 24, my wife is also retired we are 57/59. One thing that we have stumbled upon is having our main meal around 2pm . That gives us all morning for activities, local retirement groups, and classes at the local leisure centre. Afternoons and early evening are again free for Clubs and Leisure centre classes , with a light supper around 7pm. We have both trimmed up and are in the best physical shape we have ever been. Eating Midday seems to be much more pleasurable .
I've just watched your video & found it very interesting, thanks. I'm 66yrs old single & planning to retire next year. When I sit down and think about what I'm going to do with my time it's a bit daunting to say the least! I want to be active & love the outdoors walking etc. You've certainly opened my eyes as to what I'm going to retire to. Lots to think about. Thanks for sharing.
Unless you've burdened yourself with overheads retirement can be on a limited income. So much can be done....exercise, reading, study, meeting friends, hobbies. After a working life in management with long hours, stress, office politics, commuting it was a great relief to end work. That first workday when i didnt need to go to work was a revalation. I put on my shirt and jeans, walking shoes and a small backpack and ventured into the City and visited Leadenhall Market, bought a DVD and CD, went for a coffee, strolled around, visited a pub. I felt free at last.
I think you are talking a lot of sence, I retired in 2020 at 58, it was at the start of the pandemic, my job was front line related, I decided to retire early, it happened very quickly, I found the first year very difficult, I did not like my job, but I think I missed the routeen, working in the week, looking forward to weekend etc, I was like being in a waiting room, waiting for something to happen, I have got used to it now, with hobbies etc, but it's a big shock to the system, I started work at 15, and had never been out of work
You certainly sound like me - my hand has been forced, and as such, I'm retiring in March 25, aged 60. I'll have a small pension but as retirement has come at least 6 months earlier than I'd planned, I'm worried how I'm going to adjust both mentally and financially. On the plus side, not one person I know doesn't love being retired, and to a tee, everyone has told me to retire.
Yes I think you are right, luckily I had a good pension that I have payed into from starting work, so I am ok financially, I do find the winter is a drag, you are limited to what you can do, but in summer I can visit places, I think you will adapt to it with time
I created a timetable too after lots of boring days, and it works. I find that you can improvise on it as you go along. I too reflected on my schooldays where we had a daily timetable to follow, and it inspired me to draw up a daily timetable for my retired daily use, and I can say that it does work. Try it!
A good video. Let’s say that without half decent health the rest of my comment is worthless. The well adjusted retired people I know all seem to share one thing in common, that being, a healthy streak of selfishness. That is not a criticism. They are not scared to say no, or that does not work for them, or let’s do something else instead. I turn 70 next month and am still running my online business as a sole trader. Slowly running that down so as to reduce the hassle factor and free up time. I could have fully retired years ago but decided the way forward was to keep the work parts I enjoyed. I am fortunate in being able to do that. After some health issues this year (now sorted), I broadened in to new activities to meet new people. Result, 69 years 11 months is not too old to make new friends, you just have to be available and open. I have told my wonderful family I am entering my selfish phase. If I don’t want to do something I’ll tell them. Wish me luck…
I am thinking of retiring early soon,I agree friends are important and I have a lot of travel places to visit.Yes regular exercise and widening your social circle is important.I am considering downsizing my property for financial security.
Downsizing can always be done later when hopefully value has gone up even more. I love the fact I don’t have to work to the clock anymore, and no corporate rubbish to put up with.
Very true words. I am struggling a little with retirement. Friends who are still working are more difficult to connect with regularly. I know Charles Atlas but my exercise regime has fallen off because self motivation is difficult. Good suggestions for imposing some structure. The days and weeks can slip by faster than when I was working. Thanks for the video Don.
@@redgreen610 Very welcome. Mrs E retires this week and, as you may have gathered from the video, I’m sort of transitioning into some sort of retirement from what went before. Recently just struck me we tend to talk of what we’re retiring from rather than ‘to’. I’m sort of think aloud in this video. 🙂
@ Wow! That’s interesting. I started thinking that thought a few months back. I did think of making a video about this very thing. Thanks for your comment - shows it’s not just me! I’ll think about a video on that subject.
@@philipevans6641 Thank you. I’m sort of on the journey too, so at best, I’m the guy who came into the hospital the day before the new guy did, so I have a little bit of useful knowledge but definitely not the doctor! 😀
I'm the opposite. I've been alone since age 17 but I have never been lonely. Retirement is a challenge. I have a bucket list. #1 to photograph my uncles grave in NZ. #2 Christmas dinner on Bondi Beach. so many more I won't bother you with.
@JEZ-pk5vp Good plan. It can be hard making friends when you’re older, but I tend to ‘try out’ a few. Almost like dating. 😀 I’ll go for coffee with almost anyone for an hour. But it doesn’t always mean I want to see them again (or they me). But some work out into breakfast meet ups or longer term friends.
When I retired the Pandemic it I was lucky I have always enjoyed my Metal work and your right you have to have some structure in your life my dad's advice was never sit in the chair to long my farther lived until he was 92
Awesome video. This one struck a chord with me. i just turned 69 and still working in Information Technology full time as a Developer/Programmer. I like what I do but I'm thinking more and more about retirement. I can continue working for my company on a part-time basis when I do decide to "retire" (my call) and that's really an attractive offer....but.... Is there more out there? Intellectually I know there is. I'm guessing the youtube algorithm sent your video to my feed. I have liked and subscribed.
@@rfuesting Thanks for the sub! Great to have the option to carry on part time. I was a bit burnt out in my job, though I still do a little bit just one or two mornings a week. I guess the question you’d need to ask is, Is there something you want to do in later life that would require you to quit your job? If you’re increasingly thinking about retiring, that may be a sign you are in the early stages of transitioning to it.
I retired at 63 Nov 23, 5 months earlier than planned due to redundancy. My aim was to play more golf which even with the bad weather we had last year I managed, with various groups I could play every day but Tuesday and Thursday tend to be days off. I am the taxi driver and unpaid help for my wife’s grandkids, I have a granddaughter just turned two in USA and I’ve managed to get out to see her 7 times and the aim is every 3 months to visit. I have two adult kids in the UK, my son I follow local Football team with and he’s getting married in Spain next July, a trip to Japan is planned with my daughter plenty to keep enjoying. A cruise with my wife next May she’s still working so not too many holidays with her yet.
@ Thanks, I hope it will be there are certain holidays I wanted to do with first wife which have had to be put on hold and hopefully I can do with my wife now in the next few years
Very interesting, thank you Don. There's some things here that apply to a number of stages of life as well, I hadn't thought of exercise classes as a potential social pool as well, so that's changed my perspective.
@@simonbrown8509 Great. I did have the advantage that I knew the instructor of the class as a friend, but it is clear that lots of the friendships in my gym class have come about just by attending the class. It was so not me, to go for coffee together after the class but that was definitely a help in getting to know people better.
I'm 50 in March and will probably be retired by June so you video is interesting. In some ways, I think about the next 20 years with health and some money and able to travel, as it's new to us (we'll both stop work) we have a lot of travel planned. Then I'll worry about the next phase of life in 20 years time. But that needs to be balanced with making friends, we are moving to a new area and keen to meet people. And we have different interests and need to see family whilst we can so we can't always be travelling, there are some interests at home and I'm looking for evening courses and groups to join. Still that's a lot of time that would have traditionally been filled with work. We may also work part time, dog and house sit for people (as I can't travel too far if we have our own dog). It'll be an adventure but I'm a nervous at the same time. Too many in our families have died young and that's a motiviation to give it a go.
Agreed completely but health problems restrict your options. I've had a varied working life and would rather be working now. Health and safety rules restrict your options to a large extent.
Good man ,verry true i found out myself last year trying now to find alot to do, im moving house to do up another one ,this is the only thing that intrests me So good thaughts ❤
@@fordford4721 Having renovated our last two homes, I know from experience that you’ll be kept busy with that!! Not my idea of fun 😂 but if that’s your interest that’ll definitely occupy your time. Of course, the end result usually makes it all worth it. Best wishes on your renovations.
I'm not retired yet, but I do wonder if completely stopping work is the best approach for everyone. Why not look at a part time job that might pay less than your current job but could be more enjoyable, less stressful and give you some different experiences?
@@julianpenfold1638 Very true. However, I’ve always seen work (and school) as an irritating interruption to what I want to do, hence I created my own job about 30 years ago. If we’ve got plenty of £ for retirement obviously we have more choice. If we need additional income to survive then a part time job is likely to be a must. I guess the main thing is having some sort of plan for your time.
@@doneganlife Indeed - I was thinking of the people who struggle to think of things to do, or struggle to actually get round to doing them. I am gradually reducing my hours and don't seem to have any trouble filling my time so far, but I have a few hobbies.
I struggle with this. Identity is correct. I reduced my work days but i generally do nothing on my time off just enjoy the rest. So my problem remains how can i do this full time? The winter is even more of a problem.
@@stephenredfern7536 I’m finding I have to somehow reinvent myself. The timetable idea helps me not let ‘every day turn into a Sunday’ as someone else commented.
🧐..retire in 2 years at 66..64 today… 🤔…I simply don’t know, life went so fast. Was an alcoholic addict for most of my early life.. Stoped addictions but suffered from hep c for many years with liver cirrhoses.. My son now grown up.. Spent. 15 years in family court.. That’s my life to now..💁… Live alone, most of my friends long dead.. I know I will be found dead some day..weeks will pass first… I do know people are fake, they talk fine words only.. In this world you are on your own, most just don’t realise it yet… Doing favors never goes unpunished… If young again, I would be utterly selfish and not touch alcohol either… Animals are better friends….🧐🇮🇪
Lost my wife at 58 retired at 60 lost my house then had to move to look after my Mother when her husband died then moved to be near my daughter and grandchildren. They are the focus of my life and at 74 they are my reason to live as they are the only people I know. I eat to live not live to eat and keep fit by walking and cycling. Basically I just about survive but there are people worse off than me and in a so called civilised country that is a shame. My greatest pleasure apart from my grandchildren is being in bed with a hot water bottle. Any other activities such as friends or education would cost money I do not have so I dont bother. You do learn who your real friends are and quite often they are not your family.
It all depends on your financial situation, unfortunately, I'm 68 and working more jobs than i ever did, as my old dad used to say, I'll die in collar.😢
@@janetbusener6326 Very true. When I was little, we got grandmas old piano. It always fascinated me. I taught myself to read music a bit. I dipped in and out during my adult life. At college there was an old grand piano that was always free on Thursday afternoons. In the 1990s I learned alto sax but gave it up after a few years. Then a couple of years back, I got the opportunity to buy a new upright piano. I do enjoy a few moments of improvising now and then, and it certainly keeps the mind active.
I love that question Don ❤ what are you retiring from and what are you retiring to 👍👍..for me, I’m 56, divorced, plant based, trying to lead a healthy life, no plans to retire from my freelance education work, pensions released at 67, I’m mortgage / debt free, savings in the bank, low survival costs, focused on building my retirement savings, supporting (not enabling) family, giving to charity especially those either homeless or living in poverty…I love nothing more than the most simple things in life like going trekking with my partner then going to a cafe ☕️..lovely ..❤ my partner and I really look after each other and our health..health is the biggest wealth..although I don’t plan to retire from work - sorry if that sounds ironic!? It’s just a positive, healthy, forward thinking and disciplined lifestyle which will help me stay on purpose with my goals and values in mind 🙏🙏
@@sonnysingh2617 Sounds like you’re on top of it already. When I was 56 I had no plans to retire either - I enjoyed my freelance work (although part of it was becoming a challenge due to relying on dwindling charity donations for our work). However, at 65 everything changed due to circumstances beyond my control. And so I found myself forced into semi-retirement. I guess I’m still in transition. Very recently, Mrs E fully retired from her job of 20+ years, which is what inspired me to make the video. I think, if I’d prepared better financially, my transition would have been smoother. But it sounds like you’ve got that covered already. Best wishes for your future. Hiking and cafes play a large part in our adventures too! 😀
@ Many thanks Don for taking the time to reply back. Much appreciated. Certainly, life can throw curve balls which forces us all to go through trails and tribulations / although ultimately it encourages us to follow a process to gain better understandings or try new things out..sometimes things happen out of our control due to divine intervention or universal corrections so we all need to heed the lessons / look forward to listening more of your content 🙏🙏
Most people don't even think about what they're going to do to keep themselves occupied but unfortunately nearly everything takes cash to accomplish it, this is where the problem lies.. let's face it your not going to do much on the state pension..
the main thing i think is your mental and pyhsical health alwats have a plan , i think set up friend ships what i have is A4 dairy and use it as a journal and planner so you alwats have something to do , join a freindship groups and family ,
@@richardfoster6494 Yep I used to struggle taking a full 7 day break, but for me, something definitely changed a couple of years ago. I feel like I’m now 3/4 into the transition. I’ve always had more ideas than time to complete them, so I guess now I can start working through my ideas. 😀
interesting you have reverted back to school for inspiration, like the idea but you do need motivation to adhere to an artifical timetable. i reverted back to motorcycles, something from teenage years and it will probably horrify you, dangerous for sure but made some great pals that are nothing to do with work, school or student times. i used to love my job but gradually it became unpleasant to the point where i had physical issues that almost immediately disappeared went when i was made redundant.
@@iandouglas451 I think going back to motorcycle days is fantastic. Doesn’t horrify me at all. Life is dangerous, probably more so for those who stay at home! To feel alive is so important. Enjoy a safe travels and adventures for many years to come! 😀🏍️
@@doneganlife thanks, in cars you hardly talk to anybody but with old motorcycles it is different, i met my current best friends that way, one in a filling station and the other in a parking lot, the latter introduced me to mens keep fit which i now attend. my college friend on the other hand has become a recluse, since covid for some reason.
@@drewsbenmad A dog is something we have thought about in the past. Our friends have dogs. However, we like to go away at the drop of a hat in our campervan, which is barely big enough for the 2 of us. I don’t think I’d cope well when the inevitable end comes either - I’ve lost too many people already. But, you’re right, I know lots of people who absolutely love their canine friends and it has improved their life without a doubt. Each day is a gift. I’m grateful for each day I wake and am still here! 🙂
I feel like this was a reasonably decent video when you eventually got to the point. So my bit of advice would be. Please get to the point quicker. Ideally have some listed points that you can refer to instead of just talking off your head as you have been mumbling for quite a while on the intro before you actually got to the points. Finally, the audio is really quiet and very throaty sounding and very difficult to listen to. I almost clicked off after 1 minute so please invest in a decent microphone. Thank you.
Are you thinking of retiring? Already retired? What are your thoughts? Questions? 🤔
Great video.
Food for thought.
I'm semi retired and on the edge of making a choice to stop working.
I'm not sure it's a great idea.
Thanks for sharing.
🙏😊🙏
@ Very welcome. As long as you keep away from daytime TV first thing in the morning, you’ll be fine! 😀
@@doneganlife
At the moment I'm a counsellor. I've reduced my client base gradually over the last few years. I was a builder, which was a very different career.
Unfortunately I had a heart attack at 46 years old. I have heart failure now. So, physical things I enjoyed aren't possible anymore. I've always been a physically dominant person and now I work with the mind. Working with clients is a bit like making new friends.
I don't want to retire to.
(Daytime TV) Finding other interests that aren't physical are difficult for me to consider. It is definitely worth thinking about before pulling the plug 🔌 Thanks for giving me food for thought 💭
Steve
Great video - very thought-provoking. I am possibly a year away from retirement, depending on how pleasurable, or otherwise, work remains. I have a few half-hatched plans for retirement - board gaming, maybe learn bridge, find a Turkish bath (do they still exist?) bake, cook, dog walking, maybe relearn how to process black & white film. Whether these come to fruition is another question though!
@@duncang7372 Good list to start with though. 😀
Stumbled on your video, and a lot of it resonated with me. I retired some 15 years ago and after losing my wife to cancer in 2010 I left the U.K. and came to live in the Canary Islands. I’m 74 now (today actually!) and what works for me is a structured week, my main focus is staying fit as my philosophy is, that the longer you stay fit the more you invest in your independence. I cycle with friends three days a week and we always stop for a coffee and a chat. Then two, occasionally three days a week I do gym classes, this works better than just going to the gym as I’m more motivated in a class.
The rest of my time, as I’m on my own I have to do all the mundane tasks, housework, washing, shopping DIY etc. i try and get out everyday, I enjoy my own company but I also need to interact with other people.
Goals for 2025 are to make an effort to concentrate on nutrition and I also want to get into yoga. I’m never bored and appreciate retirement I never take it for granted. Some people unfortunately never get to retire
I'd love to live in the Canaries.
@@colinjones5339 Happy birthday! Sounds like you’re managing retirement very well.🙂
75 is when you switch from Go Go to Slow Go?😊
Yes how much it is true ! My children want me to end my job - but I’m so scared, to be alone … so … I’m still working , maybe I’m going be oldest carer in the caring industry …… I think my job make me younger ….
@@evastavrou4928 Keep working if it makes you happy.
What I found was the greatest thing about retirement was the joy of my own company, the greatest gift of all.
@@Iveraghboy Ah that’s great. Some folks are very uncomfortable in their own company, so for them, quite scary I’d imagine. I quite enjoy solitude but also enjoy the company of friends too.
@@doneganlife
You're right.
I enjoy my own company as well as friendships.
On the contrary my ex wife could not do that, she actually said she doesn't like her own company which probably was at the root of her issues. The need to always be around other people has led her into many unfortunate situations since our divorce.
Having a balance in your life is important.
When i retired from work at 57 and rode my bicycle out the gate i never looked back and at 73 i am very happy with my own company even though i have only a few close friends--i can spend all day and have a great time and have not spent any money
@@hamiltonski Sounds fantastic. Yes, I think it’s usually easier if we are already able to be happy in our own company. I like the image of riding out of the gate and not looking back. Sounds like you’ll have had some adventures over these recent years. And a great way to stay fit!
I worked for 53 years, retired at 66. Always felt like I didn’t have time for anything outside of work so was such a relief when I retired to get up when I want do what I want, happy doing my own thing and spending more time with my family.
I’ve just retired but have got a part time job to help me get out and meet people. Secondly it brings in some pocket money I will see how it goes. Wish me luck
@@andrewrobinson3030 Sounds like a good plan on both fronts! Good luck.
I am a procrastinator, so I mentally think about everything, but do very little.
@@ashleylovestennis6476 Welcome to my world! 😂 The way I manage that is to decide that I’m going to do ONE THING at the start of the day. That’s my target. And I start that. If I complete it, which I often do, I may go on to a second thing. But at least I end the day knowing that one task was completed or at least started.
@@ashleylovestennis6476 Also, someone once said to me, ‘You can’t plough a field by turning it over in your mind.’
That saying kind of stuck with me and helps me make a start.🙂
At the end of the day it does not really matter how productive you are. All that matters is that you are happy.
@@scrimmy45 Could not agree more!
I'm happyI retired 42 and I can be my own boss and not take bullshit from people to suck upto.
@ Result! 😀
As with almost all TH-cam videos about retirement (especially those created by men), you seem to assume that everyone has an office job, and that they will 'miss' office colleagues. I have just retired from running my own business, at home, for 29 years. I am completely happy with not seeing people often (as I am an introvert). My husband has been at home with me, running his own business until 2014, then retired since then, and we are perfectly happy to be together all day - we don't 'get on each other's nerves'. We have our own interests, as well as time together. I have a list as long as your arm of things I want to do now I am retired - mainly crafts - and I have been buying kits and materials for over 10 years, adding to my stash ready for when I started retirement. My days are nicely full without being 'over planned'.
I think that people who get bored easily and are extrovert will probably dislike retirement, and people who are happy in their own company and can 'make their own entertainment' will do just fine.
@@Janet62LG Not assuming any type of job. Just that most people tend to work with other people is some way, from professional dancers, farmers, people who collect the bins, nursing etc
I too am an introvert and tend to limit my contact with people, but I find I do need some connection in the week for balance. I’ve also mostly worked from home on my own for most of my life. But the sudden potential loss of identity and loss of most of my responsibilities does present a challenge for me.
I think it’s great that you know what you’re ‘retiring to’ - you seem to have overcome the challenge outlined in this video for the rest of us.
I find myself suddenly and unexpectedly in this position so hence this video.
Like you, I have a long list of things I plan to do, but now I’m here, I find myself slightly anxious about the whole situation. The question seems to have resonated with many people as I read through the comments.
A very good video covering the fact that most people don't consider 'what they are retiring to'. One aspect that you did not mention is the impact that retirement can have on you and your partner (husband. wife). In particular if both of you are retired, the 8 hours that you used to spend at work, are now spent together. And a lot of couples are not prepared for this. It is possible to have too much time together and ' get on each others nerves'. Like you said about friendships taking time and effort to maintain, so does your relationship with your partner. The one thing to remember is that you don't have to spend all that extra time together. You didn't while working and you had a good relationship. Don't feel obliged to once you have retired.
As with having to think about how many years you will be retired, probably 20-30 years, far more than previous generations, your personal relationship, marriage, is, these days, expected to last far longer than previous generations. In the past, if you got marries at 20, you could expect 30-40 years together. Now longer life expectancy means you could expect to marry at 20 and spend 60-70 years together. I think most of us will struggle to maintain such a relationship for such a long time. People change over time and this is a long time!
Many thanks for our video and thoughts on retirement and I hope it gets people to think about and talk about the subject.
Regards
Mark
@@markslade7983 Lots of great thoughts in there. Thank you. The point you make about suddenly having a lot more time together is very apt for us! Mrs E retired yesterday!!!
We’ve been married over 40 years and certainly were both different people to when we got married. I think we’ve always known the balance of time alone v time together. My job used to take me away for 3 weeks at a time. However, we’ve marvelled that for the last 5 years we’ve started our campervan trips and have a very tiny space to share. But we both really enjoy it. It’s certainly something we’ve talked through a bit and neither of us minds the other going off for a few days alone. But we also enjoy travelling together too. Food for thought for sure.
Spot on. I retired nearly 4 years ago and was looking forward to it for the reasons you've given plus the environment was becoming more and more toxic. Couldn't change jobs because of the pension system.
I made the mistake of focusing on my family and friends were colleagues. A huge mistake. Plus a word of warning, if like me you had been putting off various jobs for years till retirement, then you will probably not do them when the time comes. The reasons are you don't have the energy like before and you have probably got used to the way those things are and can live with it. Also you start to question why should I spend money on new things when the old stuff is still ok.
I emigrated nearly 40 years ago, so those really good friends are not round the corner and the same goes for family except my own.
Kids grow up, challenge you and do thier things eventually moving out.
The point you made about meeting and making new friends is very important. I had until recently my dog which helped in meeting people on walks and kept me fit. Now gone and I have slipped so I agree fully with your advice. Try to get a routine, keep fit and meet people. I retired to loneliness although I have a large family.
Excellent video and advice, especially for those about to retire. 👌
@@steven-k7j7v Thank you. It’s great to read other people’s stories, as I’m only just at the start of this season.
I remembered when my grandad retired at 65 after working all his life, well basically he was lost. His work was his life with no hobbies as such his garden gone as he moved into a bungalow with no garden because his wife couldn't manage the stairs. He got a small dog, but you can only walk a dog so much. He did go out with his brother to watch football and cricket. But basically he had to much time on his hands. You cannot just stop being occupied if you have been busy working all your life we all need something to get up for in the morning.
@@fg-pv5ht Very true.
I don’t have to get up in the morning or the afternoon.
Not wishing to embarrass you, but you’ve got a great voice that’s easy on the year. Great video, thanks.
It is a great voice, the message sinks into your mind.
@@ThomasReed-c1w Thanks for that. A lot of people have said that. Given that I hated the sound of my voice when I first heard it on video many years ago, I’ve had to get over myself and accept that others like it.
I was filmed for someone else’s video last year, and the sound guy said I should do some ASMR videos… 😂 Not sure about that but it helps knowing that others can listen to me without cringing. 🙂
Covid led to me realising how burnt out I really was leading to retirement at 54. A few years on I’m passing through the honeymoon period and thinking what next. Plenty hobbies to keep me busy and 100% agree on needing a timetable and maintaining a ‘to do’ list. So easy for every day to turn into a Sunday
@@NickBabington That’s a good description - every day turning into a Sunday!! 👍
I worked manual jobs all my life,after surviving prostate cancer aged 55 my wife got me to retire at 64,i have never regretted a single day.I swim 3 days a week with a great group and ride a motorcycle once a week in a group.
@@ChrisMason-q4w Fantastic! Sounds like you’ve nailed it! Thanks for sharing. You give the rest of us hope! 😀
I recently retired in April 24, my wife is also retired we are 57/59. One thing that we have stumbled upon is having our main meal around 2pm . That gives us all morning for activities, local retirement groups, and classes at the local leisure centre. Afternoons and early evening are again free for Clubs and Leisure centre classes , with a light supper around 7pm. We have both trimmed up and are in the best physical shape we have ever been. Eating Midday seems to be much more pleasurable .
Wow you sound 79 what about travel I would rather keep working than have your life
Sounds like a great routine. I’m looking at ikigai as a framework. Are you doing anything towards “what the world needs?”
Having just retired. I wish I had more friends. Men just don't seem to establish friendships.
@@mikediskin3090 It certainly seems harder the older you get.
I've just watched your video & found it very interesting, thanks. I'm 66yrs old single & planning to retire next year. When I sit down and think about what I'm going to do with my time it's a bit daunting to say the least! I want to be active & love the outdoors walking etc. You've certainly opened my eyes as to what I'm going to retire to. Lots to think about. Thanks for sharing.
@@Steve-n7q3t Ah glad to be of help. I kind of find myself unexpectedly in this position too.
I love the school timetable idea !
Its very easy to drift and do nothing if you're not careful.
@@eleveneleven572 Too true! 😀
I loved my job. I love building things. Big projects : but at age 76 nothing big offered...
Unless you've burdened yourself with overheads retirement can be on a limited income.
So much can be done....exercise, reading, study, meeting friends, hobbies.
After a working life in management with long hours, stress, office politics, commuting it was a great relief to end work.
That first workday when i didnt need to go to work was a revalation. I put on my shirt and jeans, walking shoes and a small backpack and ventured into the City and visited Leadenhall Market, bought a DVD and CD, went for a coffee, strolled around, visited a pub.
I felt free at last.
@@eleveneleven572 Sounds like a great relief! Best wishes for your calmer future.
I think you are talking a lot of sence, I retired in 2020 at 58, it was at the start of the pandemic, my job was front line related, I decided to retire early, it happened very quickly, I found the first year very difficult, I did not like my job, but I think I missed the routeen, working in the week, looking forward to weekend etc, I was like being in a waiting room, waiting for something to happen, I have got used to it now, with hobbies etc, but it's a big shock to the system, I started work at 15, and had never been out of work
You certainly sound like me - my hand has been forced, and as such, I'm retiring in March 25, aged 60. I'll have a small pension but as retirement has come at least 6 months earlier than I'd planned, I'm worried how I'm going to adjust both mentally and financially. On the plus side, not one person I know doesn't love being retired, and to a tee, everyone has told me to retire.
Yes I think you are right, luckily I had a good pension that I have payed into from starting work, so I am ok financially, I do find the winter is a drag, you are limited to what you can do, but in summer I can visit places, I think you will adapt to it with time
I created a timetable too after lots of boring days, and it works. I find that you can improvise on it as you go along. I too reflected on my schooldays where we had a daily timetable to follow, and it inspired me to draw up a daily timetable for my retired daily use, and I can say that it does work. Try it!
@@SalvatoreP-d9r Yes I’m definitely finding it helpful here.
A good video. Let’s say that without half decent health the rest of my comment is worthless. The well adjusted retired people I know all seem to share one thing in common, that being, a healthy streak of selfishness. That is not a criticism. They are not scared to say no, or that does not work for them, or let’s do something else instead. I turn 70 next month and am still running my online business as a sole trader. Slowly running that down so as to reduce the hassle factor and free up time. I could have fully retired years ago but decided the way forward was to keep the work parts I enjoyed. I am fortunate in being able to do that. After some health issues this year (now sorted), I broadened in to new activities to meet new people. Result, 69 years 11 months is not too old to make new friends, you just have to be available and open. I have told my wonderful family I am entering my selfish phase. If I don’t want to do something I’ll tell them. Wish me luck…
I am thinking of retiring early soon,I agree friends are important and I have a lot of travel places to visit.Yes regular exercise and widening your social circle is important.I am considering downsizing my property for financial security.
Downsizing can always be done later when hopefully value has gone up even more. I love the fact I don’t have to work to the clock anymore, and no corporate rubbish to put up with.
Very true words. I am struggling a little with retirement. Friends who are still working are more difficult to connect with regularly. I know Charles Atlas but my exercise regime has fallen off because self motivation is difficult. Good suggestions for imposing some structure. The days and weeks can slip by faster than when I was working. Thanks for the video Don.
@@redgreen610 Very welcome. Mrs E retires this week and, as you may have gathered from the video, I’m sort of transitioning into some sort of retirement from what went before. Recently just struck me we tend to talk of what we’re retiring from rather than ‘to’. I’m sort of think aloud in this video. 🙂
@ Wow! That’s interesting. I started thinking that thought a few months back. I did think of making a video about this very thing. Thanks for your comment - shows it’s not just me! I’ll think about a video on that subject.
A great video, full of wisdom. And unlike other retirement videos, you don't lecture to your viewers.
@@philipevans6641 Thank you. I’m sort of on the journey too, so at best, I’m the guy who came into the hospital the day before the new guy did, so I have a little bit of useful knowledge but definitely not the doctor! 😀
Great video, great insight and great advice. I need to make more friends. Nothing worse than loneliness and no where to go.
I'm the opposite. I've been alone since age 17 but I have never been lonely. Retirement is a challenge. I have a bucket list. #1 to photograph my uncles grave in NZ. #2 Christmas dinner on Bondi Beach. so many more I won't bother you with.
@@JamesWilliamson-w8y Good for you James. i hope you get to do all those great things.
@JEZ-pk5vp Good plan. It can be hard making friends when you’re older, but I tend to ‘try out’ a few. Almost like dating. 😀 I’ll go for coffee with almost anyone for an hour. But it doesn’t always mean I want to see them again (or they me). But some work out into breakfast meet ups or longer term friends.
When I retired the Pandemic it I was lucky I have always enjoyed my Metal work and your right you have to have some structure in your life my dad's advice was never sit in the chair to long my farther lived until he was 92
Awesome video. This one struck a chord with me. i just turned 69 and still working in Information Technology full time as a Developer/Programmer. I like what I do but I'm thinking more and more about retirement. I can continue working for my company on a part-time basis when I do decide to "retire" (my call) and that's really an attractive offer....but.... Is there more out there? Intellectually I know there is. I'm guessing the youtube algorithm sent your video to my feed. I have liked and subscribed.
@@rfuesting Thanks for the sub! Great to have the option to carry on part time. I was a bit burnt out in my job, though I still do a little bit just one or two mornings a week.
I guess the question you’d need to ask is, Is there something you want to do in later life that would require you to quit your job? If you’re increasingly thinking about retiring, that may be a sign you are in the early stages of transitioning to it.
I retired at 63 Nov 23, 5 months earlier than planned due to redundancy.
My aim was to play more golf which even with the bad weather we had last year I managed, with various groups I could play every day but Tuesday and Thursday tend to be days off.
I am the taxi driver and unpaid help for my wife’s grandkids, I have a granddaughter just turned two in USA and I’ve managed to get out to see her 7 times and the aim is every 3 months to visit. I have two adult kids in the UK, my son I follow local
Football team with and he’s getting married in Spain next July, a trip to Japan is planned with my daughter plenty to keep enjoying. A cruise with my wife next May she’s still working so not too many holidays with her yet.
@@guyr7351 Sounds like you’ve got a packed program there. Many adventures ahead! 😀
@ Thanks, I hope it will be there are certain holidays I wanted to do with first wife which have had to be put on hold and hopefully I can do with my wife now in the next few years
Very interesting, thank you Don. There's some things here that apply to a number of stages of life as well, I hadn't thought of exercise classes as a potential social pool as well, so that's changed my perspective.
@@simonbrown8509 Great. I did have the advantage that I knew the instructor of the class as a friend, but it is clear that lots of the friendships in my gym class have come about just by attending the class. It was so not me, to go for coffee together after the class but that was definitely a help in getting to know people better.
I'm 50 in March and will probably be retired by June so you video is interesting. In some ways, I think about the next 20 years with health and some money and able to travel, as it's new to us (we'll both stop work) we have a lot of travel planned. Then I'll worry about the next phase of life in 20 years time. But that needs to be balanced with making friends, we are moving to a new area and keen to meet people. And we have different interests and need to see family whilst we can so we can't always be travelling, there are some interests at home and I'm looking for evening courses and groups to join. Still that's a lot of time that would have traditionally been filled with work. We may also work part time, dog and house sit for people (as I can't travel too far if we have our own dog). It'll be an adventure but I'm a nervous at the same time. Too many in our families have died young and that's a motiviation to give it a go.
Agreed completely but health problems restrict your options. I've had a varied working life and would rather be working now.
Health and safety rules restrict your options to a large extent.
Good man ,verry true i found out myself last year trying now to find alot to do, im moving house to do up another one ,this is the only thing that intrests me
So good thaughts ❤
@@fordford4721 Having renovated our last two homes, I know from experience that you’ll be kept busy with that!! Not my idea of fun 😂 but if that’s your interest that’ll definitely occupy your time. Of course, the end result usually makes it all worth it. Best wishes on your renovations.
I'm not retired yet, but I do wonder if completely stopping work is the best approach for everyone. Why not look at a part time job that might pay less than your current job but could be more enjoyable, less stressful and give you some different experiences?
@@julianpenfold1638 Very true. However, I’ve always seen work (and school) as an irritating interruption to what I want to do, hence I created my own job about 30 years ago.
If we’ve got plenty of £ for retirement obviously we have more choice. If we need additional income to survive then a part time job is likely to be a must. I guess the main thing is having some sort of plan for your time.
@@doneganlife Indeed - I was thinking of the people who struggle to think of things to do, or struggle to actually get round to doing them. I am gradually reducing my hours and don't seem to have any trouble filling my time so far, but I have a few hobbies.
Thanks... Subbed... 57 and feel like I'd love to retire but maybe grass not greener in someways
I struggle with this. Identity is correct. I reduced my work days but i generally do nothing on my time off just enjoy the rest. So my problem remains how can i do this full time? The winter is even more of a problem.
@@stephenredfern7536 I’m finding I have to somehow reinvent myself. The timetable idea helps me not let ‘every day turn into a Sunday’ as someone else commented.
🧐..retire in 2 years at 66..64 today…
🤔…I simply don’t know, life went so fast.
Was an alcoholic addict for most of my early life..
Stoped addictions but suffered from hep c for many years with liver cirrhoses..
My son now grown up..
Spent. 15 years in family court..
That’s my life to now..💁…
Live alone, most of my friends long dead..
I know I will be found dead some day..weeks will pass first…
I do know people are fake, they talk fine words only..
In this world you are on your own, most just don’t realise it yet…
Doing favors never goes unpunished…
If young again, I would be utterly selfish and not touch alcohol either…
Animals are better friends….🧐🇮🇪
Lost my wife at 58 retired at 60 lost my house then had to move to look after my Mother when her husband died then moved to be near my daughter and grandchildren. They are the focus of my life and at 74 they are my reason to live as they are the only people I know. I eat to live not live to eat and keep fit by walking and cycling. Basically I just about survive but there are people worse off than me and in a so called civilised country that is a shame. My greatest pleasure apart from my grandchildren is being in bed with a hot water bottle. Any other activities such as friends or education would cost money I do not have so I dont bother. You do learn who your real friends are and quite often they are not your family.
@@Guitar6ty Wow. That’s a lot of challenges to overcome. You been on a difficult journey. We really do need better support for vulnerable people.
Ime 78 yrs old and just wish for ?(PEACE ON EARTH ) WORLDWIDE 🌐 🕊🌐
@ I’m with you on that one! 👍
It all depends on your financial situation, unfortunately, I'm 68 and working more jobs than i ever did, as my old dad used to say, I'll die in collar.😢
Learn to play a musical instrument
and join a senior center. That is a good start to keep the mind active. 😊
@@janetbusener6326 Very true. When I was little, we got grandmas old piano. It always fascinated me. I taught myself to read music a bit. I dipped in and out during my adult life. At college there was an old grand piano that was always free on Thursday afternoons.
In the 1990s I learned alto sax but gave it up after a few years.
Then a couple of years back, I got the opportunity to buy a new upright piano. I do enjoy a few moments of improvising now and then, and it certainly keeps the mind active.
I love that question Don ❤ what are you retiring from and what are you retiring to 👍👍..for me, I’m 56, divorced, plant based, trying to lead a healthy life, no plans to retire from my freelance education work, pensions released at 67, I’m mortgage / debt free, savings in the bank, low survival costs, focused on building my retirement savings, supporting (not enabling) family, giving to charity especially those either homeless or living in poverty…I love nothing more than the most simple things in life like going trekking with my partner then going to a cafe ☕️..lovely ..❤ my partner and I really look after each other and our health..health is the biggest wealth..although I don’t plan to retire from work - sorry if that sounds ironic!? It’s just a positive, healthy, forward thinking and disciplined lifestyle which will help me stay on purpose with my goals and values in mind 🙏🙏
@@sonnysingh2617 Sounds like you’re on top of it already. When I was 56 I had no plans to retire either - I enjoyed my freelance work (although part of it was becoming a challenge due to relying on dwindling charity donations for our work).
However, at 65 everything changed due to circumstances beyond my control. And so I found myself forced into semi-retirement. I guess I’m still in transition.
Very recently, Mrs E fully retired from her job of 20+ years, which is what inspired me to make the video.
I think, if I’d prepared better financially, my transition would have been smoother.
But it sounds like you’ve got that covered already.
Best wishes for your future. Hiking and cafes play a large part in our adventures too! 😀
@ Many thanks Don for taking the time to reply back. Much appreciated. Certainly, life can throw curve balls which forces us all to go through trails and tribulations / although ultimately it encourages us to follow a process to gain better understandings or try new things out..sometimes things happen out of our control due to divine intervention or universal corrections so we all need to heed the lessons / look forward to listening more of your content 🙏🙏
Stopped working at 52 (fired from a high end job) couldn't have been happier, now 73 and doing pro bono work for people requiring my skills.
@@JohnnyMotel99 Sounds like a great transition!
My God haven't heard his name in years Charles Atlas great body builder ,thanks for the video from Eire
@@JohnMurphy-b1u I’m not even sure where the Charles Atlas remark came from! 😂 Just suddenly remembered a saying from my childhood I think.
Most people don't even think about what they're going to do to keep themselves occupied but unfortunately nearly everything takes cash to accomplish it, this is where the problem lies.. let's face it your not going to do much on the state pension..
@@MrJudgejeffrey very true!
the main thing i think is your mental and pyhsical health alwats have a plan , i think set up friend ships what i have is A4 dairy and use it as a journal and planner so you alwats have something to do , join a freindship groups and family ,
Why do we only start thinking of our broken contract with society when we finally get our wish to retire.
@@martinetienne7816 Great question! They keep us distracted till it’s too late to do much about it.
I am only 51 and I cannot wait to get back to work after only 3 days!
@@richardfoster6494 Yep I used to struggle taking a full 7 day break, but for me, something definitely changed a couple of years ago. I feel like I’m now 3/4 into the transition. I’ve always had more ideas than time to complete them, so I guess now I can start working through my ideas. 😀
I think that's sad.
interesting you have reverted back to school for inspiration, like the idea but you do need motivation to adhere to an artifical timetable. i reverted back to motorcycles, something from teenage years and it will probably horrify you, dangerous for sure but made some great pals that are nothing to do with work, school or student times. i used to love my job but gradually it became unpleasant to the point where i had physical issues that almost immediately disappeared went when i was made redundant.
@@iandouglas451 I think going back to motorcycle days is fantastic. Doesn’t horrify me at all. Life is dangerous, probably more so for those who stay at home! To feel alive is so important. Enjoy a safe travels and adventures for many years to come! 😀🏍️
@@doneganlife thanks, in cars you hardly talk to anybody but with old motorcycles it is different, i met my current best friends that way, one in a filling station and the other in a parking lot, the latter introduced me to mens keep fit which i now attend. my college friend on the other hand has become a recluse, since covid for some reason.
Get a dog because people will always disappoint you. 😊 Our days are numbered so enjoy each one like it’s a gift from god.
@@drewsbenmad A dog is something we have thought about in the past. Our friends have dogs.
However, we like to go away at the drop of a hat in our campervan, which is barely big enough for the 2 of us.
I don’t think I’d cope well when the inevitable end comes either - I’ve lost too many people already.
But, you’re right, I know lots of people who absolutely love their canine friends and it has improved their life without a doubt.
Each day is a gift. I’m grateful for each day I wake and am still here! 🙂
You sound like David Parker
@@dickieblench5001 I’ll have to look him up now to see if this is a compliment or an insult! 😂😂
@@dickieblench5001 Haha! I got an American Serial killer and a uk space agency guy, so none the wiser. I’m going assume it was positive. 😀
@@doneganlife dawn lester
@@dickieblench5001 Ah right. Found him now. 🙂👍
I feel like this was a reasonably decent video when you eventually got to the point. So my bit of advice would be. Please get to the point quicker. Ideally have some listed points that you can refer to instead of just talking off your head as you have been mumbling for quite a while on the intro before you actually got to the points.
Finally, the audio is really quiet and very throaty sounding and very difficult to listen to. I almost clicked off after 1 minute so please invest in a decent microphone.
Thank you.
You should start living your life, after all you've been a slave to the clock for most of it.