What he was doing at the end is called hoovering. It's a narcissistic tactic that they do to try to snare you back into their trap, so that they can abuse you again. I'm proud of you for escaping! Smart lady. 😊
Thank you, sad thing is that I realised all of that after I was out, which is true in many cases of abuse. I am very invested in this problematic now and want to help people, who are stuck and need help 🙂
I was told I'm not even a woman, Ur not even who I want to be with and that's for certain...and if I didn't give sex,he would get it somewhere else.i know for sure he was talking about me in 2 work places as I heard it coming in on the work fone...I was humiliated.
Its terrible right, how someone who should love you can talk like that, but unfortunately once you are tangled in abusive relationship you dont see whats right in front of you. I realised all the terrible things, which he did and said to me after I managed to get away from him.. Lets hope that this was it for both of us and from now on, we would just experience true love, admiration and respect :)
Thank goodness you got out of that, you are enough!
What he was doing at the end is called hoovering. It's a narcissistic tactic that they do to try to snare you back into their trap, so that they can abuse you again.
I'm proud of you for escaping! Smart lady. 😊
Thank you, sad thing is that I realised all of that after I was out, which is true in many cases of abuse. I am very invested in this problematic now and want to help people, who are stuck and need help 🙂
@@Katarinas me too. I also do vids on many things including narc abuse. I realized about narc abuse way after the fact too.
@@tranquility9325 I will def.check them out, to educate myself more 👍 also I am currently working on vid about domestic abuse, should be out soon.
I was told I'm not even a woman, Ur not even who I want to be with and that's for certain...and if I didn't give sex,he would get it somewhere else.i know for sure he was talking about me in 2 work places as I heard it coming in on the work fone...I was humiliated.
Its terrible right, how someone who should love you can talk like that, but unfortunately once you are tangled in abusive relationship you dont see whats right in front of you. I realised all the terrible things, which he did and said to me after I managed to get away from him.. Lets hope that this was it for both of us and from now on, we would just experience true love, admiration and respect :)
I'm watching this again...you are an inspiration my dear.
Thank you ❤❤❤
@@Katarinas you're welcome sweetie↪🤗
I’m so sorry about what you went through sweetheart none of this is your fault it is his
All of the stuff he said to you is ridiculous I’m so sorry
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