I’m a 22 year old virgin dude!! I feel so comfortable saying it here lol! In my hometown, most people have had sex multiple times, but I’m waiting till marriage with the right woman. Y’all please be praying for me! 😁
Another tip would be to go with family or at least one or two other people. That way you’re kept accountable. Key will be to find good Christian friend (s) that both of you get along with.
That's what my family has done! My parents made rules about me and future courtship and a third party rule is important. I'm not allowed to go on trips with male friends without my best friend or family member!
I came to the comments to say the same having chaperone's family or friend who understand their assignment. Someone you can trust to hold you accountable to your promises and commitments 👍🏽
Me and my gf always have arguments about this! I love how Nate is always saying “imagine” in this purity videos and Sutton always says “don’t imagine it” 😂
Maybe another suggestion! Travel with another couple. It'll reduce the price bc the girls can sleep in the same room and the guys in another. In tempting situations, the whole gang can be together to prevent that but some days there can also be time with just your bf/gf in public places perhaps.
Me and my husband to be have been dating for 4 yrs and knew each other for 8yrs. He’s 33 and Im 32, and we kept our virginity because we want our marriage to be Godly. Its worthy. Trust me. Its not easy for us because we both are grown up. And we see each other everyday. But we always pray for the Lord to help us stay clean before Him. Thank you Nate and Satin for inspiring the younger generation. May the Lord bless you and keep on using you for the great works.
I really appreciate you guys making this video. I don't really comment on anyone's channel. because i'm just lazy lol. However, I am happy that you guys made this video and I'm surprise that the content was not about encouraging virgins to go on trips . I'm really happy that you guys more discouraged the idea of traveling as virgins and brought the issue of falling into temptation. Thank you for that. It really makes me happy that I am following you guys because I know that I am getting Godly advice from you guys. God bless you guys! Praying that this channel never changes and always puts God first. as always.
I would add to keep your eyes focused on Jesus if you all are both in love with Jesus it almost doesn’t make sense to do something that would dishonor Him. the Lord has been teaching me that sin prevention doesn’t come from rigidity of keeping rules and discipline but true sinless living overflows from being in love with Jesus its a paradigm shift where the thought of sinning doesn’t even make sense
That’s so good!!! Bless you, Friend! Because you produce fruit from abiding in Him, rather than falling into the condemnation in which everyone’s flesh has already broken the Law and fallen short. That’s good.
Amen! All the videos I’ve seen on this topic just encourage how not to be as susceptible to giving in to the desires of the flesh- through legalism. If we love Jesus the most and are led by the Spirit then we have self control. Period. Btw, for everyone who see’s this the goal shouldn’t be to just stay a virgin. I wish I had heard them say there was no sexual immorality in any kind of way not just intercourse. I hope so.
You guys are such an inspiration. As 16 year old teenager with hormones there is always temptation. I’m glad you make these videos because it just brings me to be aware of I should and shouldn’t do even in the midst of temptation
Love this video! I met my boyfriend at a Bible school in Germany! We were supposed to travel over Christmas break with a group of friends but everyone backed out. Luckily we found another guy and the three of us traveled together. It definitely helped that me and my now-boyfriend hadn't kissed before or been physical (except for holding hands and hugging). God definitely protected us and neither of us felt tempted. It was a time to get to know each other and on that trip he asked me to be his girlfriend. :) Now that we are back home, I wouldn't go on a roadtrip alone knowing what could possibly happen. Definitely looking forward to marriage and traveling together!
From Nigeria 🇳🇬, I love you guys so much ❤️... Thank you for loving Jesus and yielding to God... May the Lord keep you two together... Your TH-cam channel is a blessing to millions ❤️
Your videos are amazing. I was hopeless after my break-up but your videos are so inspiring and they always make me happy. Now i want someone God has made for me.
Hi Nate and Sutton, my name is Camille, just wanted to say how much I love your videos and how much you inspire me to keep strong in faith, lots of love from London x
Well, my husband and I went on several trips together before we married ... more than a week, slept next to each other (mostly in a tent, though), we did kiss and cuddle ... and we still were virgins on our wedding night. We just wanted to save sex for marriage and we did. Nothing is impossible with God's help and a bit of determination. (And having sex too early is not worse than lying or being greedy - so ...)
“Funner is not a word” 😂😂🙌🏻 love me a grammar stickler!! Love you guys. Thank you for this content that brings such value to so many people’s lives. You’re making a difference 🙌🏻❤️
You guys!!! I love this so much! I’m so glad that you are not saying stuff like : do it if you want or something else... it is very hard to find TH-camrs or other role models that share the same “strong” and “strict” believes as mine, especially in today’s world. Thanks you so very much! Blessings from Germany ❤️
I'm such a big Fan of you two guys! I admire how the light of the Lord is reflected on your relationship ❤ sending you all my love and support from Paraguay !
Great advice! Make holiness your goal and honoring God. He promises to guide us into all goodness. Self control is one of the fruits of the Holy Spirit. As followers of Christ, we are to follow the Holy Spirit and not fleshly desires. Obedience to Him always pays off. Thanks for taking the high road.
It's so cool that this was part of your path to marriage! I think I'll wait till marriage for a long trip (so the trip can be extra fun LOL) but I think a day trip (no sleepover) will be something I'd love to do in courtship!
I love this, and appreciate that looking back your advice is to not take the trip! I think it’s so humble of you to say that. Me and my husband did no trips while dating - some “mini” day road trips to places a few hours away, back home the same day... a fun way to spend time and yet less tempting! And then our first trip together was SO exciting.
I really appreciate the humility in this video. You all did the trip and came out on the other side still virgins, but you realize it wasn't a wise choice and admit that openly. Thank you for your testimony : )
Love this so much! Thank you! I’ve always agreed with your beliefs and I questioned this title and was pleasantly surprised! I had to think about this issue a lot recently, and on top of the risk of temptation, there is also the issue that other people watching (esp non-believers) will *assume* you are sleeping together even if you aren’t, and find it amusing and raise their eyebrows. On top of that, younger Christians watching will likely see it as an example, and as Romans says, we shouldn’t do things that may cause our weaker brothers to stumble :) we are Christ’s ambassadors in a watching world so we have to be careful! We are called to live differently. I defo think it’s best not to act like a married couple until actually married ❤️ xxx
hahah i love you guys! thanks for your honesty and transparency! it’s good for us to see the imperfections so we can learn without making the mistakes ourselves. ❤️
You learn a lot when going on a trip with someone. Take trips, but short trips and boundaries clearly communicated like each getting separate hotel rooms.
I'm so very glad that this is y'alls perspective! So unwise to willing put yourself in a position of your own temptation. Lots of spiritual maturity speaking. Love it!
This was such good advice I do think that in like really public places I think it’s ok to hold hands and maybe even kiss sometimes because there is no harm in that it’s not like something is going to happen around a bunch of people but I do think that when you’re alone it’s good to set boundaries thank you for the tips❤️❤️
I visited my boyfriend who now lives a couple of hours away a week ago. The trip went from being 2 nights to 6 nights. He had a workplace apartment AND his new apartment because his days at the workplace apartment weren’t up yet so I stayed there while he stayed at his new place. We made it a point to read our Bibles and pray together every single night since we were together pretty much all day. It made it so much easier for us since we made it a point to honor God while alone. So if you’re a Christian and a virgin and you ever spend that long with your bf or gf (which I also don’t recommend, because we struggled. Physical touch is our love language.), I highly suggest spending time with the Lord together.
I was rewatching the video you guys made "The truth about saving yourself for marriage " and the beginning of the video keeps replaying in my mind, "stop! dont touch me there, this is my no no square." Of 😂😂😂
I’m in a christian relationship and we won’t dare do that😄.We struggle even in the unromantic places,it’ll be very unwise to try that...Being abstinent is not easy but it’s worth it.May God be glorified!
Love this video!!! It’s tough but you can remain a virgin until you are married. So glad we waited! I agree that traveling together would be best to wait till you are married. We had set many boundaries for ourselves and it was still a challenge.
Did your parents say anything to either of you before you traveled alone together? Also thank you for advising against taking trips together...why play with fire.
you saying the best way to travel together as virgins is to not, is like saying the safest way to have sex is not to. im glad you actually gave tips and advice following that though. the more education and knowledge people have, the smarter decisions they can make in the future ❤️❤️❤️
Hae I am Edwin from Kenya and this idea of waiting until marriage has bin plaguing me alot & I was almost to call it all useless & quit but God led me to this your channel & I tell u I am glad.I av bin well encouraged.I believe now I can do it.I was filing like I just being idiotic & by passed by time & a bit dogmatic.But now I have realized its worthwhile.But one humble request I wud frm u guys is letting me know that u av seen this comment & I wish u can help me also reach unto you more personally maybe via facebook or wats up or sthng like that.You have really encouraged me.I have already wrote a list like Sutton did afta,dad's advice & I am hoping that God will make it materialize.May God help that u may find this comment too..Bye.
Such a great video with great advice! Thank you so much for tackling this subject. I feel like it’s not talked about a lot. You both are so inspiring. Thank you for what you do!
Dude I just stumbled upon y'all's love story (Loved it by the way! God is so good!) and whenever you talked about taking a road trip ALONE together, I was like, "How in the heck did they do that without messing around??" 😂😂 So thank you for this follow up explanation. I think day trips are definitely the best option, and while I think your tips are certainly helpful if a couple is wanting to remain pure before their wedding day, then yeah...JUST WAIT and do the trip after you get married! 😂 No reason to put yourself in a potentially bad situation. Thanks for the video! Stay safe and have an amazing day!
Did that clap at the beginning scare anyone else? I actually jumped lol. Love you guys! Thank you for sharing your walk with Jesus to help us all who wish to follow him. God Bless!
Wow I rarely turn on my computer but it was on when I watched this vid! So I pointed my camera and I couldn’t believe ur right a icon popped down. I clicked and easy... got the app. I think God might want me to!
Great message!! We stayed pure until marriage, and chose to not even be alone without somebody else there. Makes it a lot easier. Definitely pros and cons though lol
I'm traveling to California from Canada with my future husband in August, we have boundries in place and will be travelling with and sleeping in the same room as another couple. I'm not concerned at all.
My boyfriend and I go on trips together...but only single day trips! We know full well that the temptation of staying the night somewhere together would just be too much.
Me and my boyfriend debated driving 9 hours to visit friends, but after talking with my parents they discouraged it. They thought that even that amount of time alone together in a car could lead to temptation and was too 'intimate' of a trip for us. It was my choice to make in the end and I decided to take their advice, but I'm glad I did. While I do not think anything would've happened, I definitely think traveling alone together should be saved for marriage. There's honestly no reason to not wait :)
If you can't spend 9 hours alone with your significant other and enjoy each other's company without the focus being all about "OMG WE'RE ALONE TOGETHER AVOID SEX" then honestly, I don't think you should be considering marriage with that person. Lust is a terrible foundation for a relationship. After you are married you're going to be spending innumerable hours together NOT having sex, if you can't spend time with your significant other now without the focus being sex (or avoiding physical intimacy) then you're probably going to be pretty bored with each other when you get married.
J Globetrotter Haha, no, that wasn’t the deal at all!! It was my parents strongly encouraging us not to - they’re pretty conservative when it comes to that kind of thing. Like I said, if we had gone on the trip we would have been fine. I just wanted to respect my parents, and also, I like the idea of keeping any sort of trip for our marriage. :)
And here I am always wanting to go on trips with my partner before marriage just because Nate and Sutton did lol but after seeing this video it ain't gonna happen 👐. Thank you for the insight 😊
I’m really glad y’all made this video. People may get the wrong impression from knowing y’all traveled together while dating and think that it’s easy to do. In reality, I think most couples would probably end up stumbling and later regret it so I appreciate that you emphasized the wiser choice of waiting to travel until after you’re married!
Love your channel and have enjoyed all of your videos so far... But honestly I was very sceptical to even watch this video because I personally would never be in a relationship and not have at least one person around for accountability... but I was so happy when I heard Sutton say "don't do it" ... Totally agree 💯%!!! And second the advise! DON'T PUT YOURSELF IN THnE SITUATION TO MAKE THAT CHOICE... You CAN'T handle it!!! No amount of pleasure is worth your testimony!!! Abstain from all appearance of evil. 1 Thessalonians 5:22 KJB Love you Nate and Sutton and love your channel and what y'all stand for!!! 💙
You both gave alot of tips and really good ones I might add. But I must say that you guys didn't say what you actually did. Can you say what issues you came across?
Thanks for your honesty. You are really cool guys but sometimes you make your story look as perfect and people tend to idealise what they see online. So, it's good to share your struggles and confess that it has been not the best decision. You are humans too, after all:)
Guys!!! Love this video (and all of your videos actually, hehe). Really found your suggestions to be great; but yeah, in the end, it is better to wait until marriage, that's the best option. Like or not, we are humans and we can fail, even though God gives us His grace, we have to make everything that it's in our hands to not fall into temptation. I can´t wait to show this video to my boyfriend. I wish you lots of blessings and keep that up. Greetings from the Dominican Republic! PD: Oaklan is so cute :)
Hooray! I messaged you guys about this on Instagram a couple ago lol. Glad you finally made a video and I love your response! As a single person who's compromised in past relationships, seeing your video intro was like I wanna travel with my boyfriend/husband too some day but how do we do it if we're not married yet? I especially appreciate how you both admit that it may not have been wise even if you were able to stay pure because it puts you in unnecessary temptations at times. I know God led you in your response and making this video. Thank you so much for letting Him use your life as a ministry to others😄
I whole heartedly agree with all of this 100%! Thank-you so much for all the videos y’all post! Praying God will use your TH-cam channel to show others Christ. ❤️ Keep doing what you do. 😁
You guys have the best youtube channel I have come across so far!!!!! I am so blessed that I found this channel. IF you can spare the time, could you write a book on how to find THE one, living with your wife and parenting? I know its a very very very biiiig request but I would love it if you both write a book like that. again I looovveee your videos!! Thank you so much for being on TH-cam and thank God that I discovered your channel!
Wondering the same thing. Ya'll addressed tips for us but never told us what you guys did! That doesn't help us know how you traveled together as virgins at all.
Meredith Anne they probably regret how they did things or don’t want themselves to be “the example”. They came away from the experience with some lessons learned and knew that was more important to share than what they actually did.
Meredith Helm yes but even now they are saying as fun as it was it might not have been the best idea so who knows they might have slept in the same bed but they are telling us just so to prevent future mistakes the main thing to know is that they left virgins and that’s all that matters
It's nice that you guys actually found someone who wants to make that journey with you. Some say they want to but they are just waiting for an opportunity...so good for you guys, lol,)!!
Soo.. for almost a week now a guy I met has been asking me to take a trip with him across the US. He feels like it’s a better way for us to get to know each other 1 on 1 plus we won’t be around much people since we’ll always be in his truck so he says we’ll be safe. He’s been persistent and it’s apart of his job to travel and he just doesn’t know when he’d have the time to see me and since I’m currently laid off due to this pandemic, I have nothing but time. I’m so nervous for many reasons and and the #1 reason has to be of course what’s going on today with the virus. Two, I’ve never done anything like this before so it’s completely new to me. I say all of that to say this, I’ve been giving it lots of thought because he keeps asking but not in a pressuring way, he just wants to know if I’ve decided yet since I haven’t given a flat out answer but I have expressed concerns about traveling during this time. Well today I saw this video pop up on my TH-cam home page! I didn’t even search it so I know for sure this is truly confirmation from God!!!
I’m a 22 year old virgin dude!! I feel so comfortable saying it here lol! In my hometown, most people have had sex multiple times, but I’m waiting till marriage with the right woman. Y’all please be praying for me! 😁
God bless you
Go you! Hope you and you future bride are blessed!
Seeing this 2 years later but we hope you stayed strong! 💪🏽
Another tip would be to go with family or at least one or two other people. That way you’re kept accountable. Key will be to find good Christian friend (s) that both of you get along with.
That's what my family has done! My parents made rules about me and future courtship and a third party rule is important. I'm not allowed to go on trips with male friends without my best friend or family member!
Nate...you two were testing the challenges. Why do it. There you go.. DON'T DO IT. save your money and do it in style. Focus on budget.
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I came to the comments to say the same having chaperone's family or friend who understand their assignment. Someone you can trust to hold you accountable to your promises and commitments 👍🏽
Someone find this married couple a waterfall. lol!
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I was thinking the same thing...lol
Hamilton, Ontario is the place to go if you're looking for waterfalls! There's over 50!
The one in their video looked like Havasu Falls in Arizona!
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Me and my gf always have arguments about this! I love how Nate is always saying “imagine” in this purity videos and Sutton always says “don’t imagine it” 😂
Manuel Estevez 😂😂
@@nateandsutton yes! It's so funny!!
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Maybe another suggestion! Travel with another couple. It'll reduce the price bc the girls can sleep in the same room and the guys in another. In tempting situations, the whole gang can be together to prevent that but some days there can also be time with just your bf/gf in public places perhaps.
I agree or with friends
Elena Bomfim But foursomes though
It might turn into an orgy...
That’s a great idea!
Me and my husband to be have been dating for 4 yrs and knew each other for 8yrs. He’s 33 and Im 32, and we kept our virginity because we want our marriage to be Godly. Its worthy. Trust me. Its not easy for us because we both are grown up. And we see each other everyday. But we always pray for the Lord to help us stay clean before Him. Thank you Nate and Satin for inspiring the younger generation. May the Lord bless you and keep on using you for the great works.
You mean Sutton😅😅😅🤨
Keep away from waterfalls until marriage!😁 Great videos guys, solid advice❤️
Paul and Morgan 😂 thank you thank you
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@@nateandsutton you guys need to revisit that trip and head straight for the waterfall upon arrival lol
I really appreciate you guys making this video. I don't really comment on anyone's channel. because i'm just lazy lol. However, I am happy that you guys made this video and I'm surprise that the content was not about encouraging virgins to go on trips . I'm really happy that you guys more discouraged the idea of traveling as virgins and brought the issue of falling into temptation. Thank you for that. It really makes me happy that I am following you guys because I know that I am getting Godly advice from you guys. God bless you guys! Praying that this channel never changes and always puts God first. as always.
You got that right, God first always!
Well said 🙌 totally agree
I cannot agree more! I was so pleasantly surprised that you discouraged couples from traveling unmarried! Thank you and God bless you!
I would add to keep your eyes focused on Jesus if you all are both in love with Jesus it almost doesn’t make sense to do something that would dishonor Him. the Lord has been teaching me that sin prevention doesn’t come from rigidity of keeping rules and discipline but true sinless living overflows from being in love with Jesus its a paradigm shift where the thought of sinning doesn’t even make sense
You get it!
That’s so good!!! Bless you, Friend!
Because you produce fruit from abiding in Him, rather than falling into the condemnation in which everyone’s flesh has already broken the Law and fallen short. That’s good.
Amen! All the videos I’ve seen on this topic just encourage how not to be as susceptible to giving in to the desires of the flesh- through legalism. If we love Jesus the most and are led by the Spirit then we have self control. Period. Btw, for everyone who see’s this the goal shouldn’t be to just stay a virgin. I wish I had heard them say there was no sexual immorality in any kind of way not just intercourse. I hope so.
You guys are such an inspiration. As 16 year old teenager with hormones there is always temptation. I’m glad you make these videos because it just brings me to be aware of I should and shouldn’t do even in the midst of temptation
Love this video! I met my boyfriend at a Bible school in Germany! We were supposed to travel over Christmas break with a group of friends but everyone backed out. Luckily we found another guy and the three of us traveled together. It definitely helped that me and my now-boyfriend hadn't kissed before or been physical (except for holding hands and hugging).
God definitely protected us and neither of us felt tempted. It was a time to get to know each other and on that trip he asked me to be his girlfriend. :) Now that we are back home, I wouldn't go on a roadtrip alone knowing what could possibly happen. Definitely looking forward to marriage and traveling together!
That's so cute omg😭
Me and my husband decided to wait to travel together until our honeymoon! Deff worth the wait!!!
When your committed and one minded and constantly rely on God to help you with this it’s possible.
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From Nigeria 🇳🇬, I love you guys so much ❤️... Thank you for loving Jesus and yielding to God... May the Lord keep you two together... Your TH-cam channel is a blessing to millions ❤️
Your videos are amazing. I was hopeless after my break-up but your videos are so inspiring and they always make me happy. Now i want someone God has made for me.
Hi Nate and Sutton, my name is Camille, just wanted to say how much I love your videos and how much you inspire me to keep strong in faith, lots of love from London x
Me too 💖 I'm from London aswell. Sending all my love and prayers from Francesca xxx
Well, my husband and I went on several trips together before we married ... more than a week, slept next to each other (mostly in a tent, though), we did kiss and cuddle ... and we still were virgins on our wedding night. We just wanted to save sex for marriage and we did. Nothing is impossible with God's help and a bit of determination.
(And having sex too early is not worse than lying or being greedy - so ...)
I love you guy's relationship because Christ Jesus is the center of it all. Anything rooted in Christ stands. ❤❤❤
“Funner is not a word” 😂😂🙌🏻 love me a grammar stickler!! Love you guys. Thank you for this content that brings such value to so many people’s lives. You’re making a difference 🙌🏻❤️
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Christian Mama Diaries 😂can’t help myself!
You guys!!! I love this so much! I’m so glad that you are not saying stuff like : do it if you want or something else... it is very hard to find TH-camrs or other role models that share the same “strong” and “strict” believes as mine, especially in today’s world.
Thanks you so very much!
Blessings from Germany ❤️
I'm such a big Fan of you two guys! I admire how the light of the Lord is reflected on your relationship ❤ sending you all my love and support from Paraguay !
Great advice! Make holiness your goal and honoring God. He promises to guide us into all goodness. Self control is one of the fruits of the Holy Spirit. As followers of Christ, we are to follow the Holy Spirit and not fleshly desires. Obedience to Him always pays off. Thanks for taking the high road.
It's so cool that this was part of your path to marriage! I think I'll wait till marriage for a long trip (so the trip can be extra fun LOL) but I think a day trip (no sleepover) will be something I'd love to do in courtship!
Nate and Sutton: "How did we do it?"
Me: By not doing it?
Best comment so far😂
Nate REALLY wishes he was married when they were at the waterfall
Thank you for your honesty and vulnerability guys! Love the wisdom.
I love this, and appreciate that looking back your advice is to not take the trip! I think it’s so humble of you to say that. Me and my husband did no trips while dating - some “mini” day road trips to places a few hours away, back home the same day... a fun way to spend time and yet less tempting! And then our first trip together was SO exciting.
I agree 100% that a trip like that should be saved for marriage 😀 yall are awesome.
Knowing myself and my flesh, I couldn’t do this before marriage 😅
one comment i saw mentioned going with another couple when you travel could be helpful. like maybe girls stay in one room and guys stay in the other.
Harleigh Stringer yeah!! I’d travel with others, just not alone with a boyfriend/fiancé 😄
@@conniek1039 what do you mean by your flesh?
Alice Roche I’d be too tempted to overstep my boundaries x
@@conniek1039 there are only boundaries if you make them so.
Nate: can you imagine in front of that waterfall?
Me: 😂😂😂😂
Love you guys❤❤❤
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I really appreciate the humility in this video. You all did the trip and came out on the other side still virgins, but you realize it wasn't a wise choice and admit that openly. Thank you for your testimony : )
Love this so much! Thank you! I’ve always agreed with your beliefs and I questioned this title and was pleasantly surprised! I had to think about this issue a lot recently, and on top of the risk of temptation, there is also the issue that other people watching (esp non-believers) will *assume* you are sleeping together even if you aren’t, and find it amusing and raise their eyebrows. On top of that, younger Christians watching will likely see it as an example, and as Romans says, we shouldn’t do things that may cause our weaker brothers to stumble :) we are Christ’s ambassadors in a watching world so we have to be careful! We are called to live differently. I defo think it’s best not to act like a married couple until actually married ❤️ xxx
hahah i love you guys! thanks for your honesty and transparency! it’s good for us to see the imperfections so we can learn without making the mistakes ourselves. ❤️
Thank you guys for your honesty!❤
You learn a lot when going on a trip with someone. Take trips, but short trips and boundaries clearly communicated like each getting separate hotel rooms.
I'm so very glad that this is y'alls perspective! So unwise to willing put yourself in a position of your own temptation. Lots of spiritual maturity speaking. Love it!
This title is honestly so unique, love you guys and I really like how you advised different to what you did ♥️
This was such good advice I do think that in like really public places I think it’s ok to hold hands and maybe even kiss sometimes because there is no harm in that it’s not like something is going to happen around a bunch of people but I do think that when you’re alone it’s good to set boundaries thank you for the tips❤️❤️
I visited my boyfriend who now lives a couple of hours away a week ago. The trip went from being 2 nights to 6 nights. He had a workplace apartment AND his new apartment because his days at the workplace apartment weren’t up yet so I stayed there while he stayed at his new place. We made it a point to read our Bibles and pray together every single night since we were together pretty much all day. It made it so much easier for us since we made it a point to honor God while alone. So if you’re a Christian and a virgin and you ever spend that long with your bf or gf (which I also don’t recommend, because we struggled. Physical touch is our love language.), I highly suggest spending time with the Lord together.
I was rewatching the video you guys made "The truth about saving yourself for marriage " and the beginning of the video keeps replaying in my mind, "stop! dont touch me there, this is my no no square." Of 😂😂😂
Thank you! Such true advice.
PS. Of course, our hair looks beautiful Sutton!
I’m in a christian relationship and we won’t dare do that😄.We struggle even in the unromantic places,it’ll be very unwise to try that...Being abstinent is not easy but it’s worth it.May God be glorified!
Love this video!!! It’s tough but you can remain a virgin until you are married. So glad we waited! I agree that traveling together would be best to wait till you are married. We had set many boundaries for ourselves and it was still a challenge.
So much wisdom ,endpoint don't go until your married period.💕
Did your parents say anything to either of you before you traveled alone together? Also thank you for advising against taking trips together...why play with fire.
I‘m sorry BUT THIS TITLE HAD ME BURSTING OUT LAUGHING 😂 oh myyy.. i just love u guys 😁
I commend you for giving advice that you regret not following yourself. Thank you for shareing the truth even when it hurts a little.👏
you saying the best way to travel together as virgins is to not, is like saying the safest way to have sex is not to. im glad you actually gave tips and advice following that though. the more education and knowledge people have, the smarter decisions they can make in the future ❤️❤️❤️
Y'all need to go back to that waterfall. LOL
Rachel King 🤣🤣
Hae I am Edwin from Kenya and this idea of waiting until marriage has bin plaguing me alot & I was almost to call it all useless & quit but God led me to this your channel & I tell u I am glad.I av bin well encouraged.I believe now I can do it.I was filing like I just being idiotic & by passed by time & a bit dogmatic.But now I have realized its worthwhile.But one humble request I wud frm u guys is letting me know that u av seen this comment & I wish u can help me also reach unto you more personally maybe via facebook or wats up or sthng like that.You have really encouraged me.I have already wrote a list like Sutton did afta,dad's advice & I am hoping that God will make it materialize.May God help that u may find this comment too..Bye.
I can't wait to start dating to watch and learn all of these with him😍
You both are the standard😍
Saw the title and immediately broke into laughter 😂
Dara Mack whyyyyyyy? It’s so enlightening
Yea i honestly just don't see how it'd be so hard just a bit of self-control and don't do it😂
I love you guys!! You inspire me everyday to keep my eyes on things above and Jesus!! Keep sharing the good news❤️❤️❤️
Such a great video with great advice! Thank you so much for tackling this subject. I feel like it’s not talked about a lot. You both are so inspiring. Thank you for what you do!
Dude I just stumbled upon y'all's love story (Loved it by the way! God is so good!) and whenever you talked about taking a road trip ALONE together, I was like, "How in the heck did they do that without messing around??" 😂😂 So thank you for this follow up explanation. I think day trips are definitely the best option, and while I think your tips are certainly helpful if a couple is wanting to remain pure before their wedding day, then yeah...JUST WAIT and do the trip after you get married! 😂 No reason to put yourself in a potentially bad situation. Thanks for the video! Stay safe and have an amazing day!
Did that clap at the beginning scare anyone else? I actually jumped lol. Love you guys! Thank you for sharing your walk with Jesus to help us all who wish to follow him. God Bless!
“Can you imagine at that waterfall...?” 🤣🤣
Wow I rarely turn on my computer but it was on when I watched this vid! So I pointed my camera and I couldn’t believe ur right a icon popped down. I clicked and easy... got the app. I think God might want me to!
THANK YOU GUYS!!! I’ve been needing this video. ❤️
Avery Mitchell you're very welcome! 💛
I appreciate your honesty of, “We did it and it was a bad idea.”
That’s so sweet about following the speed limit.
Great message!! We stayed pure until marriage, and chose to not even be alone without somebody else there. Makes it a lot easier. Definitely pros and cons though lol
You didn’t stay “pure”, you stayed virgins. There’s a difference
I'm traveling to California from Canada with my future husband in August, we have boundries in place and will be travelling with and sleeping in the same room as another couple. I'm not concerned at all.
Megan Danielle sounds like it could turn into an orgy after a few drinks...
My boyfriend and I go on trips together...but only single day trips! We know full well that the temptation of staying the night somewhere together would just be too much.
Omg! I love you so much guys ❤
Like you're my role models!
María Palafox we love you!
I'm so happy to see you both with a sponsorship opportunity! I really am interested in downloading that app. Thanks for sharing!
Me and my boyfriend debated driving 9 hours to visit friends, but after talking with my parents they discouraged it. They thought that even that amount of time alone together in a car could lead to temptation and was too 'intimate' of a trip for us. It was my choice to make in the end and I decided to take their advice, but I'm glad I did. While I do not think anything would've happened, I definitely think traveling alone together should be saved for marriage. There's honestly no reason to not wait :)
This is not a healthy mindset to have.
Alice Roche Why do you say that?
@@solstudios941 I mean if you want to shag, just shag.
Life is precious, make the most of it.
If you can't spend 9 hours alone with your significant other and enjoy each other's company without the focus being all about "OMG WE'RE ALONE TOGETHER AVOID SEX" then honestly, I don't think you should be considering marriage with that person. Lust is a terrible foundation for a relationship. After you are married you're going to be spending innumerable hours together NOT having sex, if you can't spend time with your significant other now without the focus being sex (or avoiding physical intimacy) then you're probably going to be pretty bored with each other when you get married.
J Globetrotter Haha, no, that wasn’t the deal at all!! It was my parents strongly encouraging us not to - they’re pretty conservative when it comes to that kind of thing. Like I said, if we had gone on the trip we would have been fine. I just wanted to respect my parents, and also, I like the idea of keeping any sort of trip for our marriage. :)
Sutton's face when Nate kept mentioning the waterfall. 😂
I was like "hmmmmmm 😎
And here I am always wanting to go on trips with my partner before marriage just because Nate and Sutton did lol but after seeing this video it ain't gonna happen 👐. Thank you for the insight 😊
The way they look at each other OMGGG
I’m really glad y’all made this video. People may get the wrong impression from knowing y’all traveled together while dating and think that it’s easy to do. In reality, I think most couples would probably end up stumbling and later regret it so I appreciate that you emphasized the wiser choice of waiting to travel until after you’re married!
Ok i didn't expect that answer. 😁 I love you guys. Thank you for your honesty.
Love your channel and have enjoyed all of your videos so far... But honestly I was very sceptical to even watch this video because I personally would never be in a relationship and not have at least one person around for accountability... but I was so happy when I heard Sutton say "don't do it" ...
Totally agree 💯%!!!
And second the advise!
DON'T PUT YOURSELF IN THnE SITUATION TO MAKE THAT CHOICE... You CAN'T handle it!!!
No amount of pleasure is worth your testimony!!!
Abstain from all appearance of evil.
1 Thessalonians 5:22 KJB
Love you Nate and Sutton and love your channel and what y'all stand for!!! 💙
Marie H. 💛🙏🏼
Be careful my fellow Christians,
But remember God is with you
Go go, I would like my relationship to be like yours, so help me God
You both gave alot of tips and really good ones I might add. But I must say that you guys didn't say what you actually did. Can you say what issues you came across?
Thanks for your honesty. You are really cool guys but sometimes you make your story look as perfect and people tend to idealise what they see online. So, it's good to share your struggles and confess that it has been not the best decision. You are humans too, after all:)
Guys!!! Love this video (and all of your videos actually, hehe). Really found your suggestions to be great; but yeah, in the end, it is better to wait until marriage, that's the best option. Like or not, we are humans and we can fail, even though God gives us His grace, we have to make everything that it's in our hands to not fall into temptation. I can´t wait to show this video to my boyfriend.
I wish you lots of blessings and keep that up.
Greetings from the Dominican Republic!
PD: Oaklan is so cute :)
Ahhh I have been waiting for this video! Thank you so much😊💗
I appreciate your honesty, in not recommending it, thanks for not sugar coating :)
Hooray! I messaged you guys about this on Instagram a couple ago lol. Glad you finally made a video and I love your response! As a single person who's compromised in past relationships, seeing your video intro was like I wanna travel with my boyfriend/husband too some day but how do we do it if we're not married yet? I especially appreciate how you both admit that it may not have been wise even if you were able to stay pure because it puts you in unnecessary temptations at times. I know God led you in your response and making this video. Thank you so much for letting Him use your life as a ministry to others😄
Thanks for being real. Love you guys!❤
did anyone advise you (from family, friends, etc) not to go on the trip before you went?
Thanks guys, God bless you!
Love this couple. Continue making more inspiring videos. God Bless!
You guys are such a blessing!! Thank you for sharing your life and being a huge inspiration to so much people. May God continue to bless your ministry
I whole heartedly agree with all of this 100%! Thank-you so much for all the videos y’all post! Praying God will use your TH-cam channel to show others Christ. ❤️ Keep doing what you do. 😁
You guys have the best youtube channel I have come across so far!!!!! I am so blessed that I found this channel. IF you can spare the time, could you write a book on how to find THE one, living with your wife and parenting? I know its a very very very biiiig request but I would love it if you both write a book like that. again I looovveee your videos!! Thank you so much for being on TH-cam and thank God that I discovered your channel!
I would LOVE to take a road trip! And the pictures are amazing! What key spots did u guys stop by?? Like that waterfall is amazing
Thanks for the message 😃😄
Love this channel cuz of your honesty :)
But how did you sleep? Different rooms or separate beds?
Wondering the same thing. Ya'll addressed tips for us but never told us what you guys did! That doesn't help us know how you traveled together as virgins at all.
Meredith Anne they probably regret how they did things or don’t want themselves to be “the example”. They came away from the experience with some lessons learned and knew that was more important to share than what they actually did.
I have done it, slept in a bed with nothing but sleeping . It is possible.
They said separate rooms
Meredith Helm yes but even now they are saying as fun as it was it might not have been the best idea so who knows they might have slept in the same bed but they are telling us just so to prevent future mistakes the main thing to know is that they left virgins and that’s all that matters
I love this! You guys are real and true💯💯
Nathaniel: and then just imagine what you can do under that waterfall
😂😂
😂😂😂, Sutton: dont imagine
I have been waiting for this video!!! Yayyyy thank you for this :)
It's nice that you guys actually found someone who wants to make that journey with you. Some say they want to but they are just waiting for an opportunity...so good for you guys, lol,)!!
When I was dating my husband we did day trip and love them as a couple and it took all the temptation away since they were a day trip.
I love how you think ♥️ You have helped me to be faithful with my relationship with God. Thank you so much!
Thank you guys for your honest advices. God bless you always🙏
Soo.. for almost a week now a guy I met has been asking me to take a trip with him across the US. He feels like it’s a better way for us to get to know each other 1 on 1 plus we won’t be around much people since we’ll always be in his truck so he says we’ll be safe. He’s been persistent and it’s apart of his job to travel and he just doesn’t know when he’d have the time to see me and since I’m currently laid off due to this pandemic, I have nothing but time. I’m so nervous for many reasons and and the #1 reason has to be of course what’s going on today with the virus. Two, I’ve never done anything like this before so it’s completely new to me. I say all of that to say this, I’ve been giving it lots of thought because he keeps asking but not in a pressuring way, he just wants to know if I’ve decided yet since I haven’t given a flat out answer but I have expressed concerns about traveling during this time. Well today I saw this video pop up on my TH-cam home page! I didn’t even search it so I know for sure this is truly confirmation from God!!!
Yayyyy You guys give me so much faith for the future. Thank you