TOXICITY won’t heal TOXICITY!! (High Value Women don’t play games)

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  • @devinwilliams5334
    @devinwilliams5334 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    Sometimes loving yourself IS isolating yourself from everybody for a minute. 💡

  • @Seberasworld
    @Seberasworld ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Doing tit for tat never works. It's destructive and it's petty, that's something I actually noticed with this world we live in. People are very petty and childish nowadays and I'm just not dealing with it. Who in their right mind has time to play games, when you could be doing better things with your time and your freedom. I've been through too much heartbreak in my life to sit here and play mind games and manipulation tactics with anybody. I have too much to lose at this point.
    The moment I realised what's really going on, I'm going full ghost mode on you, because I can't afford to lose myself, again.

    • @PreciousdaughterofChrist
      @PreciousdaughterofChrist ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes I’m right with you…❤ this is actually how I’ve been feeling lately…

  • @ericajohns2051
    @ericajohns2051 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Speak Steph! People really need to know their worth cause after you are healed and when you’re a child of God you realize that you are royalty and when your kingdom spouse comes in and is healed also the relationship will flourish through God!

  • @ebonymoody
    @ebonymoody ปีที่แล้ว +8

    If you see this I am not manipulating you...I love you and I truly want to be by your side...do not let any idea destroy your confidence in what you know God has already spoken to you.

  • @jayhiapo7636
    @jayhiapo7636 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Yup Amen Stephanie. Do not repay evil for evil in Jesus Name. Its not worth it. Remove yourself no contact nothing. Halleluyah. Such a head and heart ache. Drama😵‍💫 There is no peace, no partnership in what God wants for us. Not a divided house where there is so much tension. I prayed and rebuked that Manipulating Spirit in Jesus Mighty Name 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌❤️‍🔥

  • @loveinthematrix
    @loveinthematrix ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Before I was saved, I was a really toxic person in my first relationship and my ex started acting very similar towards me. When I started changing my ways, their toxic behavior started with cheating, mind games and manipulation. I feel responsible for leading this person to act in that way but they would always want me in their life just to play those games - I feel like they were trying to get justice for my bad behavior in the past by treating me really badly. It ended up giving them really bad karma and while God has redeemed me, I don't know if they want to be redeemed. I'm so grateful that my mind, spirit, heart and body are separate from that toxicity. I am off social media right now and I won't go back until I have a business started because it's just so bad now but I'm praying for everyone. I really hope people heal their hearts. I can't tell you how insidious that kind of manipulative relationship is. I repented so much and continue to for my past behavior.

  • @deekingwest777
    @deekingwest777 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It's great that at least one woman doesn't think like the world does. I wish more women were like you sis. It was refreshing to hear. Thank you for this word.

  • @kimberlyjager6074
    @kimberlyjager6074 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    No contact is key. Also I will not drive down his road and I have to go that way, but I go around.

  • @pamelagordon2596
    @pamelagordon2596 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    That means sitting alone and going within staying celibate while doing so Thank You Stephanie you are such a blessing 🙏🙏🙌🙌

  • @DaigoParry
    @DaigoParry ปีที่แล้ว

    This message applies to ALL relationships. It's a good message. It's godly counsel.

  • @bettyboop-qm7ik
    @bettyboop-qm7ik ปีที่แล้ว +4

    🌈🌷💜 THANKS BEAUTIFUL QUEEN!!!👍🏽💯REAL TALK!!💜 IT'S TOO DANGEROUS OUT HERE TO BE PLAYING IMMATURE GAMES!!🤷🏽‍♀️👍🏽🌷💜🌈🥰

  • @zhane4975
    @zhane4975 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you Stephanie for saying that it's okay to remove yourself from them because I was beating myself for so long because I removed myself from mine and God revealed there was manipulation and witchcraft that transpired and why they're in the situation they're in. It hurts tbh but maybe my absence from it all will help me focus on me and God more. I was so wrapped up in reconnecting with him but didn't realize every time I talked to him on the phone or text I was hurting myself more because I still believes he's still in the world and the videos you have been posting have been confirmation to what I have talked to God about. But imma jeep working on my relationship with God because I'm married or with Him first before He sends me off to the man that He sees right for me.

  • @PrettyPrettyGOLD
    @PrettyPrettyGOLD ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Most definately not playing thats why i waiting on God amen🙏❤

  • @blessedbythebest1255
    @blessedbythebest1255 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    One powerful word my partner is priceless we will celebrate God blessing us all of our days 🎉😊🎉😊

  • @KimberlyPoydras-vi4iu
    @KimberlyPoydras-vi4iu ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Holy Spirit, truth spoken
    Thank you Lord God love,respect, and loyalty

  • @nathashathombo9374
    @nathashathombo9374 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sometimes it’s better to love from a distance 🕊️

  • @jusletdemkno
    @jusletdemkno ปีที่แล้ว

    I like that you said what ppl don’t like to hear sometimes……. 😢😢😢😢Hurt ppl hurt ppl…..

  • @chestercunningham8565
    @chestercunningham8565 ปีที่แล้ว

    Continue to pray for me oracle seer and sis and I thank GOD for you thankyou

  • @Doggylove144
    @Doggylove144 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm definitely matching energy... call it toxic but we all have toxicity to work on😂

  • @DolphyGilpin-pe1fi
    @DolphyGilpin-pe1fi ปีที่แล้ว

    U have so rightly said. I have had distinction in chemistry from high school coming straight thru University. I am skilled in western medicine as well as faith healing medicine
    Professor Dolphy Gilpin, MD. DIrector VP VIP Chairman President

  • @kuulani7384
    @kuulani7384 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Amen steph!!!🙌Thank the Lord for blessing the chosen with His Wisdom🔥this world is definitely changing so rapidly! My eyes have been opened to see how much corruption is being exposed to the young generation & especially the toxicity they see on Social media is def the issue. It’s alarming! We need to stay on alert & love on our children pray over our communities! They need us now more than EVER!🙏♥️

  • @lynetteabalajen9704
    @lynetteabalajen9704 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is for me, Steph. I'm afraid that i'm devaluing myself by certain actions i tend to do. Sorry Lord. I need to think on my actions and counter measure against the enemies of my soul and life. Help me Lord. Amen.

  • @KimberlyPoydras-vi4iu
    @KimberlyPoydras-vi4iu ปีที่แล้ว

    I thank God! I will keep my distance and mind my own business keep going, keep pushing. I will not heal from these people in the same environment I was degraded, belittled, insecure, frightened, or feeling worthless any longer. Thank you Lord for my deliverance And New Territory, Amen

  • @patrickperkins4246
    @patrickperkins4246 ปีที่แล้ว

    That’s right if it’s not of the spirit there’s nothing high value about it we can find that anywhere..👍💥

  • @dejuanevans7193
    @dejuanevans7193 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My flesh and soul already knowing this

    • @dejuanevans7193
      @dejuanevans7193 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Again I would like to thank you highly for all you do an don't do through and through

  • @jlove_3
    @jlove_3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen I receive this prophetic message in Jesus name Amen 🙏 🙌 ❤️ ✨️

  • @Brittany-Godsveryown144
    @Brittany-Godsveryown144 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for letting me know I'm not alone.

  • @lifecoachria
    @lifecoachria ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is the truth. I've heard people say the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else. This is false. You are absolutely right. This whole video is facts. Thanks Stephanie ❤

  • @deidreakendricks879
    @deidreakendricks879 ปีที่แล้ว

    Praise God 🙌🙏,Sister Stephanie that is the honest truth,that is exactly what,I had to do, to heal,so I can Pray 🙏 for them,God be the glory 🙏, Everyone have a blessed 🙏 day ❣️...

  • @briannacousins5807
    @briannacousins5807 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for the word. I’m going through a similar situation. This is my confirmation. God bless you Stephanie! 😘 🤗

  • @Terra_inthe406
    @Terra_inthe406 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I keep saying the right thing at the wrong time makes it wrong. Timing really is everything! If you think someone is for you but they aren't treating you well you need to pray, pray, pray and pray some more and keep pursuing a relationship with God! And if God calls you to remove yourself then do it! God will bless you for your obedience.
    "... and never return evil for evil or insult for insult [avoid scolding, berating, and any kind of abuse], but on the contrary, give a blessing [pray for one another’s well-being, contentment, and protection]; for you have been called for this very purpose, that you might inherit a blessing [from God that brings well-being, happiness, and protection]." [1 Peter 3:9]

  • @user-uv5eg4ek8k
    @user-uv5eg4ek8k ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this...not easy but it's worth it

  • @PraywithoutCeasing.17
    @PraywithoutCeasing.17 ปีที่แล้ว

    Full of wisdom 🤍

  • @rvredean
    @rvredean ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen, for this word blessings queen 🙌🏾

  • @nivanisadhai2476
    @nivanisadhai2476 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Absence makes the heart grow stronger. My mom and Jesus Christ said that to me.

  • @nicolezamore4523
    @nicolezamore4523 ปีที่แล้ว

    Real talk sis,Halleluyah Holy Spirit🙏💜

  • @fanniekillebrew5714
    @fanniekillebrew5714 ปีที่แล้ว

    True, that would turn you into another person. Amen

  • @JustMe-cb7dl
    @JustMe-cb7dl ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Very true. Thank you for sharing this message with us all.
    💜

  • @samuelgwhiston3108
    @samuelgwhiston3108 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for sharing this message princess Steph and the Holy Spirit and praise the mighty lord Jesus Christ Amen hallelujah amen 🙏 Glory be to God and God bless you too princess Steph,1 love

  • @tinahall6595
    @tinahall6595 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Omgsh!! Confirmations after confirmation sister 🥹🗡️🛡️🛐🕊️ stand our ground.🛐

  • @bernadineware6352
    @bernadineware6352 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for sharing this Video and encouraging words and information I received the message. At this point of time I am not with anyone. God told me I will receive who He wants me to be with in His Timing which means I have to wait for God timing. Amen Thanks 🙏🏽👍❤

  • @marshafarquharson3816
    @marshafarquharson3816 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When we play mind games we all lose.

  • @taviacoleman3979
    @taviacoleman3979 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Where were you in 2020 when I was dealing with toxicity and kingdom spouse? I has hater to say this want Hod, when in fact it was and still is God that sent him. But, healing needs to take place from the both of us and Hod is working on him. However, I let him go in 2022 when he disresped me and I decided enough is enough. God says he's coming back better, but I'm not putting up with foolishness and I'll be praying for him.

  • @sharonbaltimore4255
    @sharonbaltimore4255 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing Message ❤❤❤❤ Thanks

  • @bridgettepetty527
    @bridgettepetty527 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    SO VERY TRUE❤

  • @belindakornegay30
    @belindakornegay30 ปีที่แล้ว

    You never allow anyone to make you be someone lower than who God created you to be!

  • @CK-solutions
    @CK-solutions ปีที่แล้ว

    Mind games make for a shallow and deceptive connection. It only gets worse the more you play.

  • @divineone66
    @divineone66 ปีที่แล้ว

    Finally getting into bed and it's good to hear your voice Steph. Always start and end my day with spiritual guidance❤

  • @gracee2260
    @gracee2260 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is my word, I receive it in Jesus’ name. Thank you Lord.

  • @perryseverson2355
    @perryseverson2355 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Stephanie im not toxic person no mind games silence is Golden but my eyes still see

  • @jefferypowell31
    @jefferypowell31 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen say that again 🙏 🙌🏿

  • @jefferypowell31
    @jefferypowell31 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen it hard tonfind a GODLY women

  • @justaskmomma1
    @justaskmomma1 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have done that and I have so much peace!!! I've even gone incognito and removed myself from toxic situations. 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @user-di2dl7rg2n
    @user-di2dl7rg2n ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Food for thought...
    A doctor who is afraid of touching a cadava, is not supposed to be in the medical feild...
    Love costs more than words, it's a painstaking sacrifice....
    As chosen ones our interpretation of faults should be secondary to our work, our emotions should bow to the will of the kingdom, for Christ love constraints us...
    If we judge nothing before it's time, then we can unify and not make the same mistakes our fathers are making.
    Knowing peace, let us threat each other with patience not equating a more weighty punishment for faults that were born out of mere misunderstanding, our lights should never take sides but bring a balance of purpose out.
    Always putting the work of the kingdom above ourselves, we will learn in the end, what God means to unite the mankind into the God kind.

  • @sophiaelliott6848
    @sophiaelliott6848 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don't won't anyone to have the pain I had it don't feel good at all.

  • @renea.brena91
    @renea.brena91 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amen Steph and the Lord 🙏 I was just thinking about this yesterday ❤️

  • @sophiaelliott6848
    @sophiaelliott6848 ปีที่แล้ว

    I truly understand, agree with you I thank God for making me a better person healing a broken heart.

  • @universalii999
    @universalii999 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    He claims he doesn’t want to lose me. He claims that:

  • @bridgettepetty527
    @bridgettepetty527 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    CELEBRATE YOURSELF EACH DAY❤

  • @RoyaltyQueen90
    @RoyaltyQueen90 ปีที่แล้ว

    My God this message hit deep. I Thank God I took the trash out in 2017....All praises be unto God. This message was my exact thoughts, I cannot and will not live a life full of misery. I told him and the new supply they didn't hurt me, they did me a FAVOR❤🥰🙌🏾

  • @shantellberry8876
    @shantellberry8876 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you so much for the message, Stephanie! Thank you GOD for always being there to guide and direct us with your unconditional love!!!

  • @RainbowAfterAStorm
    @RainbowAfterAStorm ปีที่แล้ว

    Preach!❗️👐👐

  • @-33-
    @-33- ปีที่แล้ว

    Exactly Amen 🙏 ♥️🥹

  • @deavonntebostick3324
    @deavonntebostick3324 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hallelujah ✨🤵❤️🕊️⛪

  • @user-bw4vp2wx2n
    @user-bw4vp2wx2n ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤God bless you guys

  • @PrettyPrettyGOLD
    @PrettyPrettyGOLD ปีที่แล้ว

    Fire never work with fire 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🙏🙏

  • @JeffPepe22
    @JeffPepe22 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video.

  • @angelacole7852
    @angelacole7852 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you. God Blessed

  • @user-jc2if7of9s
    @user-jc2if7of9s ปีที่แล้ว

    Good morning Steppp beautiful woman God

  • @pamelagordon2596
    @pamelagordon2596 ปีที่แล้ว

    Healthy Boundaries In Tact

  • @sharonpresident4562
    @sharonpresident4562 ปีที่แล้ว

    AWESOME MESSAGE/TEACHING/REACHING ❣️
    THANK YOU HOLY SPIRIT ❤

  • @VictoriaJonesEnt.
    @VictoriaJonesEnt. ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm guilty, you are so right Sissy that you for the words of wisdom ❤💕🌱

  • @msrelly86
    @msrelly86 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love you LATERZZZ 🥰💯💪🙏

  • @heatherlewis777
    @heatherlewis777 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Stephanie!!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🥰🥰

  • @pamelagordon2596
    @pamelagordon2596 ปีที่แล้ว

    It is better to be happy removing yourself is the best thing if I had listened I would not have suffered the abuse of a man I didn’t have any self Love I was not ready for my ex husband and he was not ready for me I had to learn to Love myself and Heal

  • @universalii999
    @universalii999 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    But sometimes people need their toxicity thrown back at them if you know how they are

  • @jackiechastain3251
    @jackiechastain3251 ปีที่แล้ว

    Facts, I just said that in your last video… Amen….

  • @sharonbaltimore4255
    @sharonbaltimore4255 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen❤

  • @pamelagordon2596
    @pamelagordon2596 ปีที่แล้ว

    It takes a lot of energy to be toxic

  • @ethancortez2024
    @ethancortez2024 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen 🙏🏾

  • @telesialoyd8084
    @telesialoyd8084 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amen 🙏🏾

  • @jenniferholman1578
    @jenniferholman1578 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen 👏

  • @tashakeyes6456
    @tashakeyes6456 ปีที่แล้ว

    YES. GOD BLESS YOU ALSO ❤️❤️.😮

  • @ngozasakala9539
    @ngozasakala9539 ปีที่แล้ว

    And if we devalue ourselves for the sake of a relationship, its likes we are disrespecting the God who looks at us as the apple of his eye; the one who fearfully and wonderfully made us🙏🙏

  • @shereetownsend9863
    @shereetownsend9863 ปีที่แล้ว

    AMEN

  • @Barbie_Esther
    @Barbie_Esther ปีที่แล้ว

    Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands. Proverbs 14.1

  • @lisamcintosh3998
    @lisamcintosh3998 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's so true

  • @GG-ve1hv
    @GG-ve1hv ปีที่แล้ว

    Ouch! So on point! This is exactly what am feeling right. The guy who ghosted me is my neighbor who married another woman. Its been 8yrs since he & his whole family is bullying me... Thanks Steph, take care always!

  • @Edens-Rose
    @Edens-Rose ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤❤

  • @JoeVibesisPureEnergy363
    @JoeVibesisPureEnergy363 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @BrandonWillis-kf5zm
    @BrandonWillis-kf5zm ปีที่แล้ว

    That called being stuck

  • @KimberlyPoydras-vi4iu
    @KimberlyPoydras-vi4iu ปีที่แล้ว

    Sick and twisted

  • @mikenunez6926
    @mikenunez6926 ปีที่แล้ว

    Me 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Nancydev9
    @Nancydev9 ปีที่แล้ว

  • @christinajackson646
    @christinajackson646 ปีที่แล้ว

    🗣🗣🗣👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @guhhda_butta1463
    @guhhda_butta1463 ปีที่แล้ว

    🙌🧡🙏🔥‼️

  • @KimberlyPoydras-vi4iu
    @KimberlyPoydras-vi4iu ปีที่แล้ว

    Trash respects and loves trash

  • @toyaqueen-kp2wz
    @toyaqueen-kp2wz ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m glad I don’t have a man I love my single

  • @tinsleyun
    @tinsleyun ปีที่แล้ว

    😇

  • @smokiirob420
    @smokiirob420 ปีที่แล้ว

    🙏🏾