This is a very common problem that I think Christian counselors who’ve been married a long time don’t realize. Times have drastically changed. Sex has become the norm and test driving the vehicle rhetoric has become commonplace. It’s constant! It’s hard to get past this issue to even get started these days. So, as much as I enjoy learning about how to do relationships better we have to navigate this regularly to even get started. Obviously, you stick to your boundaries, but nevertheless it gets tiresome at times. It’s nice to hear your response to the vehicle test and encouragement. I get tired of saying I’m not a vehicle. Lol
There are good men. But this is 95%+ of my experiences when I put myself out there. Just have to deal with this. Edited: I found it much helpful to stay firm with my No and walk away if not respected, rather than argue chastity on a philosophical level.
This Video Helped Me ALOT Dr. Cloud, Let Those Men GO!!! AMEN!! We Women Are So MUCH MORE Sacred and Valuable Than A Cheap Car To Run!!!! Thank You SO MUCH Dr. Cloud!!! God Bless That Lady!! In Jesus, Nancy
Keep it posted up there, lady! My boyfriends profile was pretty clear about that too, and after a very brief intro conversation, “did you read my profile” was one of his first questions. Which I had and was why (for being clear about that and many other things) I was very interested to start talking to him! That was six months ago 😁
She needs to get off these dating sites because she is eventually going to run into a player that is going to tell her everything she wants to hear and might even string her along for a few dates but eventually he might hurt her or put her in a compromising situation. These sites she is going to have proven the types of people that use them so they expect her to be the same.
This is a very common problem that I think Christian counselors who’ve been married a long time don’t realize. Times have drastically changed. Sex has become the norm and test driving the vehicle rhetoric has become commonplace. It’s constant!
It’s hard to get past this issue to even get started these days. So, as much as I enjoy learning about how to do relationships better we have to navigate this regularly to even get started. Obviously, you stick to your boundaries, but nevertheless it gets tiresome at times.
It’s nice to hear your response to the vehicle test and encouragement. I get tired of saying I’m not a vehicle. Lol
It's hard because people won't date you or they will lie about being the same. It's so hard. Wish things weren't this way😔
There are good men. But this is 95%+ of my experiences when I put myself out there. Just have to deal with this.
Edited: I found it much helpful to stay firm with my No and walk away if not respected, rather than argue chastity on a philosophical level.
It is about holiness that God wants from you if you are a born again Christian.
Dating is NOT sleeping. Dating is getting to know each other.
This Video Helped Me ALOT Dr. Cloud, Let Those Men GO!!! AMEN!! We Women Are So MUCH MORE Sacred and Valuable Than A Cheap Car To Run!!!! Thank You SO MUCH Dr. Cloud!!! God Bless That Lady!! In Jesus, Nancy
Thank you so much for this. My experience is the same as the caller.
Keep it posted up there, lady!
My boyfriends profile was pretty clear about that too, and after a very brief intro conversation, “did you read my profile” was one of his first questions. Which I had and was why (for being clear about that and many other things) I was very interested to start talking to him! That was six months ago 😁
She needs to get off these dating sites because she is eventually going to run into a player that is going to tell her everything she wants to hear and might even string her along for a few dates but eventually he might hurt her or put her in a compromising situation. These sites she is going to have proven the types of people that use them so they expect her to be the same.