I usually love everything you say but when you tell me you have a few pair of louboutin shoes as does your wife and then you're asking people for 50 or $60 seed money that kind of makes me a little bit sick. Maybe just get some vans and put the extra cash in the kitty?
Hi Pastor RC Blake’s. I love and like all your messages. I thank you and your wife for being such inspirations. I was wondering if you could please share who the singer is in the intro to your message? Thanks! 🙏🏾
He’s speaking the truth! I didn’t marry my “type” and we have been married going on 32 years! Please listen to the wisdom Pastor Blakes is sharing 🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼❤️
How were you physically attractive to him? I try to date outside my type their. Nice to me treat me well but I’m not physically attractive to them so therefore I can’t get physical to them. The guys I’m attracted to are no good, however I think I’m growing because they begin to turn me off and I cut off quickly. I guess I’ll be single for the rest of my life ok with that. I have peace besides I love my a long time.
@@chynadoll77cyn59 But I'm wondering if that's a good thing (some kind of protection for you)? In the initial dating phase your heart is guarded, so there's not much physical attraction. However, once the relationship has progressed to a commitment level that's when you would feel that "intense" attraction. Perhaps?
I had my types twice, my ex husband and ex fiancé but when I started to listening R.C I found real man & truly my soulmate from God. Leave those types that r temptations from evil. Educate yourself be happy alone with God, then God will bring u everything u ever wanted and much more
When you keep pursuing your TYPE: T - Trauma and in need of Therapy Y - Yokeing yourself to imbalance, unproductivity and pain (when pain is all you know, pain is all you’ll pursue) P - childish Preferences (2 Cor 13:11) E - Ego; (Edging God Out) listening to your pride, self-importance and showing off
At 40 years of age! I’m not completely focused on looks! Or a specific type! My focus is is the man healed, does he have goals, does he know how to love, is he only focused on God and Us constantly striving to be better…to me it’s so many things out side of a type! I’m more focused on what’s on the inside as a younger woman my type has damaged me!
It's impossible to listen to you and your wife's ministry, and still repeat toxic behavior. Your ministry heals broken consciousness, at the very least it awakens ones spirit to the truth. You have to want to be made whole after you recognize that the soul was broken. Thank you R.C. and Lisa Blake's for sharing the love of God, and setting the captives free. Hallelujah!
How are you in South Africa and I don't know about it OMG. I'm a South African and God led me to your channel 5 years ago in my darkest hour relationally. I have benefitted so much from your teachings , I call you my virtual father. May God increase you Sir🙏
I believe you can have both a man who is attractive to you vice versa and have good morals and values and has a kindness about him and brings peace. I feel as if people should do what’s best for them and what makes them happy. I’m not going to be with a guy I’m not attracted to when I know I need to lay with him and be married to him. Men are choosing their type all the time and there’s nothing wrong with that. 🤷♀️ not everyone is going to find me attractive and that’s okay too😅
EXACTLY‼️ Seems like he want people to settle. I get what he’s saying but I’m not settling for a man I’m not attracted to whether he’s my “type” or not, I don’t care how “nice” he is…also reversed if he’s my “type” & he’s disrespectful I’m not attracted to that neither. It’s not difficult to attain both based on how you treat YOURSELF.
@@amerokeewiya1320 Absolutely correct! I wouldn’t want to string anyone along and get feelings hurt. I am one who is like “No thanks” respectfully, you know and I don’t want a dude checking for me and there is no attraction at all! I think it’s better to be upfront with things although many are not like that and will play that game and then someone gets hurt in the process. I look at everything from every angle. I like RC too he is one the voices I listen too and he definitely ministers to my spirit. I may not agree with everything he says but most of the stuff is on point. 😊
@@kaleema1987 Yeah I Definitely don’t agree with that “type” stuff tho because I’ve dated men who were NOT & liked the NOT “my type” man. It didn’t work because something within me was broken. Type is so irrelevant idk why he emphasizes that so.
@@amerokeewiya1320 I hear you! Honestly, I have a type but not the one RC is talking about as most would look at it in superficial way. I like someone who shares the same beliefs as me and wants to genuinely be with me. Now he doesn’t have to be Brad Pitt, Leonardo DiCaprio and Lee Min Ho although I am attracted to the these men I listed. He definitely has to come with something much deeper than his looks. Attractive yes but ugly personality no way.🤣🤣
Yes, facts! I still agree with what’s Mr. Blake’s is saying to a degree, we tend to get a lil picky. I tried to give the regular not my type guy a chance but there was no attraction and most of that was because I honestly couldn’t see past the 2 kids with 2 different women, the age gap (I’m 24, he’s 37), prison time. He was very sweet to me and highly interested but I felt like I’d be stringing him along not being into him like that. It’s okay to be picky because I’m sure he is
I realize that my old type were painful familiar spirits. Through much introspection & realizations, my type is now: unfamiliar, non-narcissistic, healthy, REAL & a man who loves God above all else. Based on this assessment…I’m mentally prepared to be alone for the rest of my life.
SOME MAY LISTEN AND SAY THIS IS OLD WAYS!! But you can choose who you want to Serve!! The world!! In all that it has to offer!!! Or you can have what God ❤️
You explained my past mindset. I’ve been working on myself for almost 2 years. I’m cherishing my season of singleness. I know when it’s time he will send the man he has for me.
Enjoyed the message Bishop Blakes. Thank you for taking time out of your vacation to share a profound word with us. Enjoy your vacation in South Africa. The background looked so relaxing! Prayers and safe travels to you and your wife.🙏🏽
Great message pastor. I love the analogy with the Louboutin shoe…that shoe does hurt (I thought it was just me)! I experienced this Sunday, and I was like “I know I have the right size”. I took the shoe off and put on slides. That “type” will have you questioning what you’ve done to induce pain. Point is…I, alone, am the statement piece 🙌🏽
Bishop. Welcome to South Africa. OMG... I cant believe your here. Your such a blessing in our lives. I have watching your channal for the past 4 years now and i have watched almost every video you have put out. I just know for a fact that it was God that led me to your content. The things you teach about I had never ever heard them and its made a MASSIVE difference in my womanhood. I love you so much
The more u get your type the harder it is to break free from that type. Oh yeses. Thank you Bishop and Queen Blake. Oh gosh Bishop u hit the nail on the head. I pray God helps us ladies to be receptive to all your wisdom and apply it to our lives. Help us Lord to build our self,build on our relationship with you. So we could recognize our husband when he's in front of us. In Jesus name. Amen🙏
EXCELLENT and mentally and emotionally and probably life saving knowledge for women!!! I used to be so very traumatized as a young women that the bad boys found me or I found them. Trama built up like layers of an onion. I'm 60 now. My husband now is the Lord of Host. GOD has helped me to be on the road to healing. I have no desire for a man again, but I sooo wish I could have been tought these amazing gems and Pearl's Paster Blake's is sharing!!! God Bless you Pastor Blake's, and Sister Lady Lisa Blake's 🙏🤴💙👸🕊🍃
This is so true Bishop! I began teaching on my experiences as the Lord moves on me, because of what I learned through my pain! I used to pick according to my type! I had to learn lessons the hard way that’s why I chose abstinence almost 12 years and to wait for what God truly has me! The Lord has really given me a new mindset. I realized you cannot keep touching the fire and not be burned! Thanks for your investment into our community and staying true to the Word! You have inspired me to continually use the Word in my teaching, to God be the glory! I literally chose a man according to looks while the man with character moved on I do believe God will give me another chance until then I will remain content until God sees fit to send a great man to me! This time I’ll be ready!
Wow Bishop wish I could meet you and Mama Lisa, I am based in JHB. I am one of the silly woman your teachings helped, broke free of a 10 year soul tie. Have a great stay and enjoy our beautiful country❤️❤️🙏
Sir this is another great message from u! We must heal from the childhood trauma we endured or we will keep producing this in our lives & pass down to our offsprings. I wasn't taught to have a type! Almost anyone who pretended to want me was my type. GOD had me to write down what I wanted in a man. He 1st of all has to be a good CHRISTIAN, but not a religious hypocrite! I've gone to church with ppl who talk about JESUS, but they act like Pharisees & Scribes. We must look more on the inside of a person than the outside of the person. My husband met most of what I wanted! We've been together many yrs because we have a 5 fold card marriage! Father, Son & Holy Spirit + us 2 are in this marriage!!!!
Bishop Blakes and Lisa Blakes, welcome to Jozi. I hope you're enjoying your stay here. We would welcome seminars from you live in South Africa, next time. 💕
Good evening Bishop (Uncle Blake)! This is Nikki tuning in from Middletown, DE. I listen to you almost everyday as you give me wisdom and great advise that has helped me navigate relationships. I consider you to be like a father or uncle to me and I am ever so grateful and blessed that you have this platform.
Wow 👏👏So exciting to hear you are in my country 🎉💃So blessed by your teaching 👏May Elohim extend your borders and I pray for manifestations of miracles in yours and your families and lives 👏♥️
I haven't even watched the content yet and I already hit the LIKE button, because I know he's about to drop some life-changing knowledge. Ok Pastor carry on. I'm ready now. 😆
Pastor Blakes, you are speaking the truth. We should be always listen to God because God does not make mistakes. God knows what is best for us. Ego attitudes can be dangerous for your well being. (females and males) Thank you Pastor Blakes for keeping us informed. God bless you.🙏❤
Thank you for this message Bishop. This year I decided to open up myself to all races of men and not limiting myself just to black men. I went on a date with a mixed race man recently. We texted back and forth for 3 weeks before we met and I absolutely LOVED his energy, his mind, his morals, his values. He was amazing !!! We finally met in person and I was so disappointed that he was overweight with a big belly. He was sweating buckets his clothes were wet because of his weight . With sweat comes body odour and he had poor oral hygiene. Am so so sad, so disappointed , I cried for days but I knew I couldn't continue the relationship because I had zero physical attraction for him at all. Do men not know that women want clean groomed men ? Am so sad
I had the same. These men are like in the Beast and the Beauty. As a friend give him some tips. They can loose their weight but you're not obliged to go out with him. They can heal if we help them as loving sisters.
I totally understand. I can except a little extra weight . Because , I can encourage him to walk with me. I can't handle a funky man , bad breath . I just can't do it . That's a deal breaker for me .
I love how you put it. It makes it much more clear now. I was looking for my type until not long ago. That never worked. There is so much more in a person than their physical appearance.
Welcome home Bishop Blakes to the mother land I'm one of your followers it's been three years now I've learnt a lot from you thank you very much God bless 🙏 🇬🇲
This topic is something i grew trough and figured out thank god already but used to be an issue. Its not about a type but atraction. If youre disgusted by whom wants you and desperate to have your own famly/to be married is not a good situation to be in when not atracted or feel love for. Everybody has their own taste of persona and style. So if they are able to love or can respect that person intimate as well as by intelligence able to support eachother etc. is important
Great that you are in our beautiful country South Africa...I stumbled on your channel on TH-cam by accident about 6 months ago and since then, I have listened to Ps RC Blakes everyday. Oh wow, this is exactly what women need to know. THANK YOU!!!
Every time you go to the left (off topic), I be sitting on ready waiting for it. Speaking nothing but the truth and I enjoy every minute of it. I will be watching this more than once.
I have a type. I’m not going to date a thuggish ruggish bone type of guy. My type is a nice clean, wholesome man who have morals. I definitely have a type Bishop
Mr Blakes, I've been learning so much from you. It's changing my life and awoke the Queen in me. Thank you so much for helping us women and telling it straight. We need to hear these things. You are a born leader and the world needs to listen to you. Thank you 🙏 I appreciate you make time for us during your vacation.
Bishop, thank you for the teaching. No more looking for my type. It’s about my purpose partner. For it is written…Genesis 1:26-28. I heard of another acronym of SWAG; Save With Amazing Grace! Shalom & Blessings unto you and Lady Lisa
I never had a type. I dated all different types of men. I was intimate, but not only for sexual desire, but for closeness, acceptance, protection and belonging. I wasn't attracted to men due to superficial things, but do to their need and pursuit of me and they had broken boundaries and unhealthy emotional needs like me. We never communicated a mature partnership, for future growth or protection of our relationship mentally, spiritually and physically. I agree with your pointed message, "Be ye not unequally yoked".🎉❤
Thank you so much doing Lord's work. May the Almighty God heal and restore each and every one of us. I'm currently breaking the cycle...sigh!!! It will end in healing, restoration, confidence and God's Kingdom! Lord, please give me strength to keep on applying these lessons! Amen.
I will not cut you off or get upset because you are telling me the truth, I Thank you so much I wished that I would've stayed around those back in the 60's who were teaching the same thing that you are teaching today the only person that is shame on is me .
Thank you so much Bishop Blakes that’s the same message my father gave me as a child that I pass on to my adult children now you speak the truth and wisdom.
Thank you kindly Bishop for this impactful, bomb truth! Thank you for unpacking TYPE & specifically breaking it down. I greatly appreciate both you and Lisa for everything. The time you put into helping us. Have a great time on your vacation. Sending prayers and love positive vibes to both of you.😍🙏🏾🥰🙏🏾 greatly appreciate everything
I’m a new subscriber and have been watching a few of your videos and they are very insightful and great reminders to apply to life. Thank you for these great key points. Yes I learned that a while ago , and every since than I have been attracted to a mindset rather than looks .
Blessing's Bishop, and Lady Blakes 💜 I have been Blessed by your Ministry, since 2014 Powerful Teaching, and Prayer Absolutely Teaching The Truth !! Amen
I really appreciate you. Ive learned alot about myself since I started listening to you truth be told you be hurting my feelings lol but I love that you keep it 💯 . Im intentionally taking the tools you've provided and using it. I sent this to my girlfriends cause we all on that my type nonsense. One of my girlfriends responded in this way. I haven't listened to it yet but I can tell from the rip that my spirit will reject it. I married someone who wasn't my type bc he was a "good guy". Nope, never again! Definitely going for my type moving forward. When I decide to start dating seriously again....anything other than my type will not make the first cut. 🙄 And there's that. If she likes it I love it. Ill just continue to spread your words and hope it touches who needs it and is ready to receive it.
Thank you so much Pastor for taking the time to speak truth in love to help those caught in this, and especially when on your vacation. May you and Lisa have a great and restful vacation! 🙂🙂💕
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I usually love everything you say but when you tell me you have a few pair of louboutin shoes as does your wife and then you're asking people for 50 or $60 seed money that kind of makes me a little bit sick. Maybe just get some vans and put the extra cash in the kitty?
🙏🏽♥️
Johannesburg aka Jozi ❤❤
Hi Pastor RC Blake’s. I love and like all your messages. I thank you and your wife for being such inspirations.
I was wondering if you could please share who the singer is in the intro to your message? Thanks! 🙏🏾
@@JM11P Dave Hollister 😊♥️🙏🏽
"the purpose of a man is to improve your life, not fulfill some fantasy“. A word!!!! ❤️❤️❤️🇿🇦
A WORD
He’s speaking the truth! I didn’t marry my “type” and we have been married going on 32 years! Please listen to the wisdom Pastor Blakes is sharing 🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼❤️
So what was "your type" & what did you end up marrying that was so different? What influenced you to marry him?
Exception to the rule hun.
How were you physically attractive to him? I try to date outside my type their. Nice to me treat me well but I’m not physically attractive to them so therefore I can’t get physical to them. The guys I’m attracted to are no good, however I think I’m growing because they begin to turn me off and I cut off quickly. I guess I’ll be single for the rest of my life ok with that. I have peace besides I love my a long time.
@@chynadoll77cyn59 same happening to me. I do not understand this...
@@chynadoll77cyn59 But I'm wondering if that's a good thing (some kind of protection for you)? In the initial dating phase your heart is guarded, so there's not much physical attraction. However, once the relationship has progressed to a commitment level that's when you would feel that "intense" attraction. Perhaps?
"SWAG = SILLY WOMAN ALWAYS GULLIBLE " 😂😂😂 Loved it
HELLO FAMILY! Please LIKE as you come in tonight.
Yes
Good Morning, Pastor Blakes! Thank You for Sharing I need this. I Appreciate you for this❤❤❤
I’m Listening Pastor can’t afford not too
Welcome to the mother land
I had my types twice, my ex husband and ex fiancé but when I started to listening R.C I found real man & truly my soulmate from God.
Leave those types that r temptations from evil.
Educate yourself be happy alone with God, then God will bring u everything u ever wanted and much more
Amen❤
Amen🙏
Amen
Amen, a husband should be an asset, not a liability!
Yes and Amen.
“We make grocery purchases on a deeper level than we’re making relational choices.” ~ RC Blakes Jr
When you keep pursuing your TYPE:
T - Trauma and in need of Therapy
Y - Yokeing yourself to imbalance, unproductivity and pain (when pain is all you know, pain is all you’ll pursue)
P - childish Preferences (2 Cor 13:11)
E - Ego; (Edging God Out) listening to your pride, self-importance and showing off
“You Just Can’t Be A Stallion And Just Keep Trying To Yoke Yourself To Donkeys Because The Donkey Got Swag” 💯 Whew Chile! This is deep!
I love your teachings. I definitely was this woman once I understood the assignment, God has truly blessed me with a King.
I've been a Christian for many years..I've benefited more from your words of wisdom, than ever. I appreciate you!! Thank you so much.❤️
He is the coldest
At 40 years of age! I’m not completely focused on looks! Or a specific type! My focus is is the man healed, does he have goals, does he know how to love, is he only focused on God and Us constantly striving to be better…to me it’s so many things out side of a type! I’m more focused on what’s on the inside as a younger woman my type has damaged me!
I’m so MINDBLOWN 🤯 Everything Bishop is saying is The TRUTH! Thank you Jesus for allowing me to hear this message 🙏🏽 I needed to ❤️
It's impossible to listen to you and your wife's ministry, and still repeat toxic behavior. Your ministry heals broken consciousness, at the very least it awakens ones spirit to the truth. You have to want to be made whole after you recognize that the soul was broken. Thank you R.C. and Lisa Blake's for sharing the love of God, and setting the captives free. Hallelujah!
How are you in South Africa and I don't know about it OMG. I'm a South African and God led me to your channel 5 years ago in my darkest hour relationally. I have benefitted so much from your teachings , I call you my virtual father. May God increase you Sir🙏
I believe you can have both a man who is attractive to you vice versa and have good morals and values and has a kindness about him and brings peace. I feel as if people should do what’s best for them and what makes them happy. I’m not going to be with a guy I’m not attracted to when I know I need to lay with him and be married to him. Men are choosing their type all the time and there’s nothing wrong with that. 🤷♀️ not everyone is going to find me attractive and that’s okay too😅
EXACTLY‼️ Seems like he want people to settle. I get what he’s saying but I’m not settling for a man I’m not attracted to whether he’s my “type” or not, I don’t care how “nice” he is…also reversed if he’s my “type” & he’s disrespectful I’m not attracted to that neither. It’s not difficult to attain both based on how you treat YOURSELF.
@@amerokeewiya1320 Absolutely correct! I wouldn’t want to string anyone along and get feelings hurt. I am one who is like “No thanks” respectfully, you know and I don’t want a dude checking for me and there is no attraction at all! I think it’s better to be upfront with things although many are not like that and will play that game and then someone gets hurt in the process. I look at everything from every angle. I like RC too he is one the voices I listen too and he definitely ministers to my spirit. I may not agree with everything he says but most of the stuff is on point. 😊
@@kaleema1987 Yeah I Definitely don’t agree with that “type” stuff tho because I’ve dated men who were NOT & liked the NOT “my type” man. It didn’t work because something within me was broken. Type is so irrelevant idk why he emphasizes that so.
@@amerokeewiya1320 I hear you! Honestly, I have a type but not the one RC is talking about as most would look at it in superficial way. I like someone who shares the same beliefs as me and wants to genuinely be with me. Now he doesn’t have to be Brad Pitt, Leonardo DiCaprio and Lee Min Ho although I am attracted to the these men I listed. He definitely has to come with something much deeper than his looks. Attractive yes but ugly personality no way.🤣🤣
Yes, facts! I still agree with what’s Mr. Blake’s is saying to a degree, we tend to get a lil picky. I tried to give the regular not my type guy a chance but there was no attraction and most of that was because I honestly couldn’t see past the 2 kids with 2 different women, the age gap (I’m 24, he’s 37), prison time. He was very sweet to me and highly interested but I felt like I’d be stringing him along not being into him like that. It’s okay to be picky because I’m sure he is
Good day🙏 our King Bishop RC Blakes and please send our greetings to our Queen Lisa. Proudly South Africans are waiting for you too 💕🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦
I realize that my old type were painful familiar spirits. Through much introspection & realizations, my type is now: unfamiliar, non-narcissistic, healthy, REAL & a man who loves God above all else. Based on this assessment…I’m mentally prepared to be alone for the rest of my life.
same
SOME MAY LISTEN AND SAY THIS IS OLD WAYS!! But you can choose who you want to Serve!! The world!! In all that it has to offer!!!
Or you can have what God ❤️
Hallelujah 🙏
You explained my past mindset. I’ve been working on myself for almost 2 years. I’m cherishing my season of singleness. I know when it’s time he will send the man he has for me.
Live from SA my country💃💃. I will be watching, thank you for blessing us always and may God continue bless you and family Bishop🙏🙏🙏 .
Enjoyed the message Bishop Blakes. Thank you for taking time out of your vacation to share a profound word with us. Enjoy your vacation in South Africa. The background looked so relaxing! Prayers and safe travels to you and your wife.🙏🏽
Thankyou Bishop even while on vacation you still think of us!,I was scared that we wouldn't have our Monday night lesson.Thankyou so much!
Great message pastor. I love the analogy with the Louboutin shoe…that shoe does hurt (I thought it was just me)! I experienced this Sunday, and I was like “I know I have the right size”. I took the shoe off and put on slides. That “type” will have you questioning what you’ve done to induce pain. Point is…I, alone, am the statement piece 🙌🏽
Good evening everyone. Greetings from Trinidad and Tobago!!! Can't wait to hear this message from Bishop Blakes!!!
Bishop. Welcome to South Africa. OMG... I cant believe your here. Your such a blessing in our lives. I have watching your channal for the past 4 years now and i have watched almost every video you have put out. I just know for a fact that it was God that led me to your content. The things you teach about I had never ever heard them and its made a MASSIVE difference in my womanhood. I love you so much
The more u get your type the harder it is to break free from that type. Oh yeses. Thank you Bishop and Queen Blake. Oh gosh Bishop u hit the nail on the head. I pray God helps us ladies to be receptive to all your wisdom and apply it to our lives. Help us Lord to build our self,build on our relationship with you. So we could recognize our husband when he's in front of us. In Jesus name. Amen🙏
EXCELLENT and mentally and emotionally and probably life saving knowledge for women!!! I used to be so very traumatized as a young women that the bad boys found me or I found them. Trama built up like layers of an onion. I'm 60 now. My husband now is the Lord of Host. GOD has helped me to be on the road to healing. I have no desire for a man again, but I sooo wish I could have been tought these amazing gems and Pearl's Paster Blake's is sharing!!! God Bless you Pastor Blake's, and Sister Lady Lisa Blake's
🙏🤴💙👸🕊🍃
My God! My God!!!! Pastor Blake; you are liberating us!!!!
This is so true Bishop! I began teaching on my experiences as the Lord moves on me, because of what I learned through my pain! I used to pick according to my type! I had to learn lessons the hard way that’s why I chose abstinence almost 12 years and to wait for what God truly has me! The Lord has really given me a new mindset. I realized you cannot keep touching the fire and not be burned! Thanks for your investment into our community and staying true to the Word! You have inspired me to continually use the Word in my teaching, to God be the glory! I literally chose a man according to looks while the man with character moved on I do believe God will give me another chance until then I will remain content until God sees fit to send a great man to me! This time I’ll be ready!
Wow Bishop wish I could meet you and Mama Lisa, I am based in JHB. I am one of the silly woman your teachings helped, broke free of a 10 year soul tie.
Have a great stay and enjoy our beautiful country❤️❤️🙏
What a blessing ❤️
Sir this is another great message from u! We must heal from the childhood trauma we endured or we will keep producing this in our lives & pass down to our offsprings. I wasn't taught to have a type! Almost anyone who pretended to want me was my type. GOD had me to write down what I wanted in a man. He 1st of all has to be a good CHRISTIAN, but not a religious hypocrite! I've gone to church with ppl who talk about JESUS, but they act like Pharisees & Scribes. We must look more on the inside of a person than the outside of the person. My husband met most of what I wanted! We've been together many yrs because we have a 5 fold card marriage! Father, Son & Holy Spirit + us 2 are in this marriage!!!!
Bishop Blakes and Lisa Blakes, welcome to Jozi. I hope you're enjoying your stay here. We would welcome seminars from you live in South Africa, next time. 💕
It is always a blessing to listen to Bishop R Blakes. God bless 🙏
Good evening Bishop (Uncle Blake)! This is Nikki tuning in from Middletown, DE. I listen to you almost everyday as you give me wisdom and great advise that has helped me navigate relationships. I consider you to be like a father or uncle to me and I am ever so grateful and blessed that you have this platform.
Wow so proud to see you visiting my country, I am currently in China would have been an honor to see you Mr. Blakes I love you.❤️❤️❤️💖💖💖🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Thanks Bishop for teaching us women to think critically leaving us with a question to answer and change our perspective when we are picking!!
39:00 when pain is all you know, pain will be all you will pursue.
40:00 Louboutin shoe analogy
Wow 👏👏So exciting to hear you are in my country 🎉💃So blessed by your teaching 👏May Elohim extend your borders and I pray for manifestations of miracles in yours and your families and lives 👏♥️
I haven't even watched the content yet and I already hit the LIKE button, because I know he's about to drop some life-changing knowledge. Ok Pastor carry on. I'm ready now. 😆
God bless and protect all the beautiful birds who are singing in the background and reproduce them a million more.
Pastor Blakes, you are speaking the truth. We should be always listen to God because God does not make mistakes. God knows what is best for us. Ego attitudes can be dangerous for your well being. (females and males) Thank you Pastor Blakes for keeping us informed. God bless you.🙏❤
Thank you for this message Bishop. This year I decided to open up myself to all races of men and not limiting myself just to black men. I went on a date with a mixed race man recently. We texted back and forth for 3 weeks before we met and I absolutely LOVED his energy, his mind, his morals, his values. He was amazing !!! We finally met in person and I was so disappointed that he was overweight with a big belly. He was sweating buckets his clothes were wet because of his weight . With sweat comes body odour and he had poor oral hygiene. Am so so sad, so disappointed , I cried for days but I knew I couldn't continue the relationship because I had zero physical attraction for him at all. Do men not know that women want clean groomed men ? Am so sad
I had the same. These men are like in the Beast and the Beauty. As a friend give him some tips. They can loose their weight but you're not obliged to go out with him. They can heal if we help them as loving sisters.
he can still loose weight if he is interested.
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I totally understand. I can except a little extra weight . Because , I can encourage him to walk with me. I can't handle a funky man , bad breath . I just can't do it . That's a deal breaker for me .
Agree I tried
Your schooling me RC Blakes 😅
Thank you 🙌🙏
I love how you put it. It makes it much more clear now. I was looking for my type until not long ago. That never worked. There is so much more in a person than their physical appearance.
Welcome home Bishop Blakes to the mother land I'm one of your followers it's been three years now I've learnt a lot from you thank you very much God bless 🙏 🇬🇲
God bless you million times on this trip from our rainbow nation and live long our King🕌🙏🇿🇦 you welcomed and we appreciate you
OMG welcome to SA🇿🇦 Daddy! we are soooo blessed to have you in our country ❤️
Great word tonight,,Thanks Bishop and First Lady Lisa🥰
"You've been dealing with the same type for the last decade and where has it gotten you?" Truth bomb 😳Dagggg!!! 😩
This topic is something i grew trough and figured out thank god already but used to be an issue. Its not about a type but atraction. If youre disgusted by whom wants you and desperate to have your own famly/to be married is not a good situation to be in when not atracted or feel love for.
Everybody has their own taste of persona and style. So if they are able to love or can respect that person intimate as well as by intelligence able to support eachother etc. is important
Of ofcourse there are many whom live in an illusion of fakeness alot of plastic and worldy lie stuff. Are you mentioning those by this topic?
Great that you are in our beautiful country South Africa...I stumbled on your channel on TH-cam by accident about 6 months ago and since then, I have listened to Ps RC Blakes everyday. Oh wow, this is exactly what women need to know. THANK YOU!!!
Every time you go to the left (off topic), I be sitting on ready waiting for it. Speaking nothing but the truth and I enjoy every minute of it. I will be watching this more than once.
This message is so powerful.
Powerful message, full of truths. YAH God Bless you Bishop Blakes.🤗🙏🏽❤
Such beautiful sounds from the Motherland too! 😍🐦
Thank you Bishop for all you do we truly appreciate the blessings you give us👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💜
I discovered you a year ago and what a difference a year make. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom.
Hello and blessings Pastor Blakes and everyone from Canada 🇨🇦
I have a type. I’m not going to date a thuggish ruggish bone type of guy. My type is a nice clean, wholesome man who have morals. I definitely have a type Bishop
Mr Blakes, I've been learning so much from you. It's changing my life and awoke the Queen in me. Thank you so much for helping us women and telling it straight. We need to hear these things. You are a born leader and the world needs to listen to you. Thank you 🙏 I appreciate you make time for us during your vacation.
I needed this word badly. My decisions in men have been all wrong. I’m too old to be continuing this pattern, for me and my daughter.
This should be archived as a classic! This is deliverance! 🎯👏🙏
Your teachings are the best, thank you Bishop and welcome to the Motherland 🇿🇦
We love you Bishop Rc you have helped and encouraged us as women to value ourselves
Bishop, thank you for the teaching. No more looking for my type. It’s about my purpose partner. For it is written…Genesis 1:26-28. I heard of another acronym of SWAG; Save With Amazing Grace! Shalom & Blessings unto you and Lady Lisa
Thank you for this lesson bishop, this was a TRUE eye opener. May God continue to elevate your ministry to help reset the minds of many people .
I never had a type. I dated all different types of men. I was intimate, but not only for sexual desire, but for closeness, acceptance, protection and belonging. I wasn't attracted to men due to superficial things, but do to their need and pursuit of me and they had broken boundaries and unhealthy emotional needs like me. We never communicated a mature partnership, for future growth or protection of our relationship mentally, spiritually and physically. I agree with your pointed message, "Be ye not unequally yoked".🎉❤
I just need God's type for me . Point Blank PERIOOODT, Him and only him. ORDAINED and assigned to my life for God's purpose.
Over here clicking links ready to listen and absorb all these nuggets like a sponge. To be turned down for what? 9pm.. smh.. All good I will be back!
It feels amazing being on the winning side... taking charge of my soul and loving it... God bless you 🙏🏾 ❤ 🙌
"search for another of the same kind" this is exactly what I did, proof that your belief is true
You are absolutely right about the transferable bond. I lived it.
Is this Dave Hollister singing this song?? I LOVE THIS SONG🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 Im learning it too🤣 s/o RC Blakes Jr the “King of Queens”🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
He surely is!
Thank you so much doing Lord's work. May the Almighty God heal and restore each and every one of us. I'm currently breaking the cycle...sigh!!! It will end in healing, restoration, confidence and God's Kingdom! Lord, please give me strength to keep on applying these lessons! Amen.
Amen 😇
The “huhhhhhh” always gets me lol. All facts. Thank you !
Me too 😂😂😂
“Your type is the Manifestation of your trauma” 🔥🔥🔥 I felt that one in my spirit!!
I will not cut you off or get upset because you are telling me the truth, I Thank you so much I wished that I would've stayed around those back in the 60's who were teaching the same thing that you are teaching today the only person that is shame on is me .
Thank you so much Bishop Blakes that’s the same message my father gave me as a child that I pass on to my adult children now you speak the truth and wisdom.
Make it plan that shoe 👠 example helped me as a woman!! We will try and walk in a shoe that we know isn’t comfortable!!
Thank you for this video definitely we need to stop saying our type and passing on the good man that will treat us like a queen 👸
Thank you for caring. We need more of you and Lisa's out here.
Thank you RC Blakes Jr. Wishing you & Lisa a safe & fun time in Africa. 😊
Good evening Bishop I will be definitely listening 🙏🏽
My favorite father I'll wake up to watch this live from South Africa Bishop I love I hope you enjoy your stay here in SA
Thank you kindly Bishop for this impactful, bomb truth! Thank you for unpacking TYPE & specifically breaking it down. I greatly appreciate both you and Lisa for everything. The time you put into helping us. Have a great time on your vacation. Sending prayers and love positive vibes to both of you.😍🙏🏾🥰🙏🏾 greatly appreciate everything
Yes lord I want to judge the things that matter in a relationship and in my life!! I’m Jesus name amen ! Thank you Bishop!! 💎
Welcome to South Africa 🇿🇦 Father Blake's. Oh what an honor it would be to meet you and Mrs Blake's 🙏🏽🙏🏽.
Great message and welcome to Johannesburg 👊🏾👊🏾👊🏾💜💜💜Enjoy your stay🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦
Thank God for you. Im.57 and just now opened my eyes ears and spirit!
Who else besides me love the intro song.. everytime I hear it ministers to my soul
Trying to see who is it?
Please let me know
@@Bit2730 Same here...me too. I need to add it to "my repeat" playlist. Blessings from afar ladies.....
I LOVE IT TOO !
Welcome to South Africa bishop. You're a blessing to the family of God❤️🇿🇦
I’m a new subscriber and have been watching a few of your videos and they are very insightful and great reminders to apply to life. Thank you for these great key points. Yes I learned that a while ago , and every since than I have been attracted to a mindset rather than looks .
Blessing's Bishop, and Lady Blakes 💜
I have been Blessed by your Ministry, since 2014
Powerful Teaching, and Prayer
Absolutely Teaching The Truth !! Amen
Listened to every lyrics of the song and just basque in it so so beautiful 🤩
The man’s goal is to improve your life . Loved it. 🤍Thanks Pastor Blakes
I really appreciate you. Ive learned alot about myself since I started listening to you truth be told you be hurting my feelings lol but I love that you keep it 💯 . Im intentionally taking the tools you've provided and using it. I sent this to my girlfriends cause we all on that my type nonsense. One of my girlfriends responded in this way.
I haven't listened to it yet but I can tell from the rip that my spirit will reject it. I married someone who wasn't my type bc he was a "good guy". Nope, never again! Definitely going for my type moving forward. When I decide to start dating seriously again....anything other than my type will not make the first cut.
🙄 And there's that. If she likes it I love it. Ill just continue to spread your words and hope it touches who needs it and is ready to receive it.
Thank you so much Pastor for taking the time to speak truth in love to help those caught in this, and especially when on your vacation. May you and Lisa have a great and restful vacation! 🙂🙂💕
I’m so grateful for these lessons!
..... but how Bishop was 'just lookin' ....at those strange sounding birds 🤣🤣
Pastor, I really wish you would go into real depth.
But thank you very much.
Ever grateful,
Mabakoena Sekano