Having been stalked by someone with severe mental illness I relate thoroughly. But I'm absolutely captivated by this sunset magic you've cast above your eyes. 🌅
I had a friend turned stalker when I was 16. He would sleep in his car outside my house (I didn't know it at the time, another friend told me later). He had asked me out a few times, told him I just wanted to be friends. One day he asked me to go for a drive with him. He got on the highway and started speeding and told me if I didn't go out with him, he'd crash the car and kill us both. I got pissed and told him to do it then and I think that confused him because I wasn't freaking out. Long story short, he took me home and I never spoke to him again. I heard through friends, years later, that he married a girl that looks like me.
X'D I love every one of these comments! The mathematics, lol! I can't remember if the highlight-to-heck trend had kicked off in 2014, but I suspect when one is standing on a dancefloor, & 'glowing', it probably has something to do with the disco-lights & strobe! XD
Erotomania (or De Clérambault syndrome), I think. "It is a relatively uncommon paranoid condition that is characterized by an individual's delusions of another person being infatuated with them (...) Delusions of reference are common as the erotomanic individual often perceives that they are being sent messages from the secret admirer through innocuous events." (Wikipedia)
Yes a well researched introspection of this is in the book called ''Enduring Love'' - which was also made into an excellent film - I really recomend it X
@@evangeline77x I'm 4 years late, but in one of his videos he explained that he tries very hard not to have the Birmingham accent, but it still comes through because he's lived there for so long. So I can see why it sounds posh to you, because he does try to not sound brummy, but I can always hear it lol!
Omg all the times I've smiled at men politely (because i dont want to engage in an awkward stare) and they later accuse me of hitting on them.... this is like level 1000 of that shit 🤣🤣
The 1+1+0= Dorian had me dead lmao. I have a stalker very similar but without the psychic shit. It’s been 8 years of me ignoring him. He thinks all of my posts are secret messages to him and I secretly miss him etc etc. I feel your pain.
I had a stalker too and the scariest part was when I stopped hearing from him. You know how crazy they are and you know their thoughts are festering but you don’t know what they may decide to do. Loved this video
Holy shitballs, Dorian, I'm glad you came out of this safe. Some stories like this end badly. We are used to guys like this (malignant narcissistic PD) in America going bonkers and shooting up places...glad he disappeared, Jesus Christ. Be safe
Sigh, this just makes me sad honestly. The man was clearly psychotic and led a very lonely and miserable existence. I was stalked before myself and realize how that makes you feel though.
Can someone link me to this oil she wore I need it...for completely normal and benevolent purposes... (Now I feel compelled to make sure you know that this is a joke because this is the internet and someone is going to take this seriously)
If you were being serious about the oil, it's Twilight Alchemy Labs, and their website only takes Paypal it seems. I bought the Amor one (which is the one Dorian was wearing,) on Etsy though. I can't imagine it being very different from the website, and it was the same price too. Although, not to sound like a surgeon general or smoky the bear type person, but just be careful when wearing stuff like this. It obviously affected Dorian, and you may be lucky and it doesn't affect you that way, but just be cautious.
I kinda got myself into a weird, kinda creepy situation. I've been through worse stuff, but this was one of those times I walked myself into the problem. So I was taking my rat Solomon for a walk around my apartment complex (I'm that kind of weird). I head just moved there a couple of months ago so I figured this was a good way to poke around the place. Well, a guy calls over to me "Is that a rat?". I was actually quite happy with this because most people think my rats are hamsters or ferrets. I willingly engage in conversation with this guy, thinking that this would be a great chance to become acquainted with my neighbor- especially since I was still dealing with a screwed up ex. For one, the guy got kind of annoyed that I wouldn't tell him which building I lived in, but I gave him my number (stupid move) and said we could chat later as I was going to meet up with my family. This guy texts me shortly after that we should hang out I try to explain that I'm a very introverted person, I don't really hang out with people I just met. I especially do not invite strange men over to my apartment. He accuses me of reading more into it, he just wanted to be friends. It goes back and forth of me trying to be polite and him insisting we spend time together but totally-not-trying-to-get-into-your-pants Lather, rinse, repeat. It went on for a few days, he starts talking about how it was destiny that we met. God arranged our meeting, and we had to act on that! I finally got sick of it and blocked him. I wrote notes to the people in my building, asking them to keep an eye out for him, that he was not my friend and not to let him know where I was. On the plus side, I became well acquainted with the people in my building because of this. Living in that complex was horrible though! Someone kept unlocking my front door in the middle of the night, maintenance nearly killed Solomon, and I was sexually assaulted (by a different guy actually) while living there. It was a nice location, just a few minutes South of a very rich town, and the apartments boasted about their amenities and did ridiculous stuff like have horse drawn carriage rides around Christmas... I felt safer living in my cheap old apartment that overlooked a cemetery.
You were smart not to let him know you’re building. My room mate wasn’t as cautious but we were living on campus and luckily threatening to tell authorities got rid of him. Screw fancy amenities you’re absolutely right that feeling safe matters more. Plus a view of the cemetery sounds lovely 💀💕
"I thought I made myself clear." - Oh, you sure did, but unfortunately the delusional ability of some men to only hear what they want to hear is dangeroulsy huge.
This is so eerily similar to an experience I had with a 60 year old Australian man in a drum circle community!! Same situation of benign friendly interactions leading to these insane long messages insisting I was pushing myself on him, me telling him to leave me alone, him watching me from afar after...the fucking worst
I've heard of this happening, it's some sort of rare mental illness. Most of those who have it fixate on a celebrity, but it can also be someone in their life. I can't remember the name of it, but man that's bizarre!
My god. What a horrible situation. I would have gotten the authorities involved sooner and used the emails as evidence. Glad it's over but what a looney bat. 👻👍💀
Oh my god this is so fucking creepy! I once was threatened by a "friend" and I honestly thought he was going to kill me, I remember how much anxiety I would get before going out, I don't wish that on anybody.
I have never cringed this much while listening to someone telling their story. I am just glad that you came away from this in one piece because so many do not.
your such a good story teller lol, iv watched this afew times when im stoned, because how you tell such a creepy thing that happened to you in such a funny way is brilliant and makes me giggle every time i watch it, you really are one of my fave youtubers x
I have 2 stalkers, but neither of them are anywhere near as creative as yours 😂 Mine are both just guys who developed crushes on me and I guess in their head they blew up our interactions into way more than they were, so now one of them is more of an angry stalker because I told him to back off and he got offended and it ended up encouraging him because he now wants to make me uncomfortable. The other thinks I love him back and actually he bought a concert ticket because he knew I would be at the show too! People are crazy
Yeah! That is so crazy! The one who is angrier started a whole anonymous account dedicated to relationship between us that didn't exist! We had only spoken once the whole semester. It's so bizarre, but also interesting what people concoct in their head.
People like this are genuinely terrifying, I had a stalker type who was also really well liked in my local alt scene, I didnt go to any events or concerts for over a year because of him.. Eventually he moved to work in another city and I was able to breathe again. Still have hundreds of creepy text messages from him on an old phone.
Dorian, I love this video! And you’re totally not alone with meeting crazy people. I once met a strange woman who actually believed that a man had psychic control over her and would claim he was doing things to her with his mind such as draining all the blood from her brain and clenching her inner organs to cause her pain. I felt that when you said “my brain was just dribbling out of my ears in a unicorn rainbow puke of amusement.” Best description EVER! It’s just so insane to me how Stan also used this to gaslight you in really perverse kind of way. I’m happy to hear he’s blocked and that you don’t know what happened to him because it really doesn’t matter. Crazy people like Stan are best off far away IMO so yeah I’m sorry you had this happen and ruin your Halloween which is the best holiday hands down!!
You are so stunning and I’ve been binge watching your videos and I love how you are always changing it up and your brutal honesty ab addiction and anorexia. I appreciate you.
Sounds exactly like my psycho ex. They will never change and that's why they never have any real relationships. They create sick fantasies in their heads, elevate themselves, and then if they don't get their way, they lie further and victimize themselves to your friends and family. Crazy schizophrenic shit. Those people can get very violent.
You're so funny telling your life stories!! I love to listening you talking for long time lol and that's strange because normally I can't stand to much listening the same person. But with you it's awesome!! Love u xxxx
I remember one young girl in the facebook goth community... She claimed to be half demon, half dragon. When she wasn't saying that she was telling everyone she was the reincarnation of Jack the Rippers wife and that he was just misunderstood, yet didn't know the first thing about him. between these episodes she was telling everyone who would listen she had magical powers. Honestly it was just sort of sad.
At least you know who he is. I had a stalker that left me flowers INSIDE MY HOUSE once. There was a lot of build up before that of course: hangup calls (from blocked numbers), FB messages from obviously fake accounts, leaving chocolates on my porch, poems attached to my car at work, etc. etc. etc. And then all of a sudden, he (or possibly she) was just gone. This person stopped contacting me and I haven't heard from him/her in years. I don't know who it was or why they suddenly disappeared or whether this stalker will reappear some day. So yes, the silence can definitely be creepier than getting all these wacked out messages.
Sorry! Last comment I SWEAR!!! But I have also had the misfortune of a weird stalker. And all I have to say is: 1 + 1 + 0 = psychotic break, where 1 equals Stan the Stalker and 0 equals the probability that it is anything other than a delusion........😂😂😂😂😂
This is too reminiscent of some ordeal I went through with someone for the entire second half of my teens. It was such a horrifying experience, and I am so glad to hear that you kept this person at bay. Love your videos, keep being awesome and real.
Reminds me of all the desperate people asking me about their twin flames they haven't met yet when I read their cards. I used to believe in the TF phenomenon, but I was a very desperate person. Once I became more comfortable with myself, I realized how unhealthy all of that can be. The whole runner and chaser thing...
As someone who thought I had someone in their head like he did. I went to that person talked to them figure out it wasn't them I had this connection with so I chose to remove that person from my life for a bit to work out my problems and then fixed things with that friend. If you have this problem make sure to communicate in person. If there seems to be mix messages between this world and the phsycic world always fallow what the person tells you in person. If you do believe that it really is that person relies that's a mentally toxic game to play and remove the person from your life and shut out their mental connection.
i simultaneously feel bad for that guy, and also despise him. for one, he mustve been going through some weird stuff in his head which mustve been hard, but the words “dont approach me, im not attracted to you” should be enough for even someone going through things to back off
I went on a hike with my dog and met a dude who was also hiking with his dog. We chatted, he gave me his number, my mother was like ah he’s cute go on a date... Mediocre date. Mediocre conversation. Paid for the meal. Let him know I wasn’t interested in another date.... the dude freaked. Contacted me on all my social media, when he got blocked, he made new ones. Then like 5 years later he finds my social media AGAIN, and continues to try and harass me. I got into a relationship and moved to another state shortly after but WOW. It was an unbelievable experience. Almost nervous to comment because I feel like he is still out there lurking, waiting to find me on the internet.
this is amazing! I haven't ever seen anyone bring such an animated look to life and have it look so perfect/amazing! like you see people do it and its more cringe spooky but girl!!!!! ~you do it so beautifully!
Thanks, Dorian, for psychically instructing the TH-cam algorithm to suddenly suggest in 2021 that I watch this video. 😂 What a wild situation, tho - good that he eventually f*cked off . You're a good storyteller, I enjoy hearing your tales.
Years late here* I love hearing you speak, soothing voice and hilarious story telling! Thank youu for being a "friend" (now I'm singing the golden girls song and feel creepy af 😃) I hope you're doing amazing! 💞
reminded me of the "Giving head telepathically, so if you feel a lil tickle, that's just me." memes 💀 also i have this punk friend and listening to her stories and watching you i'm shocked how many horror stories fem presenting alt people have, it's like some men think that your looks makes you a freak show for them to do whatever they want with
As I listen to his Gon WithThe Wind length letter, I remember the nutters that thought we were connected when I read cards at the flea market. I understand why this happened to you. You are trying to be a kind human instead of saying fuck off. Kindness is always mistaken for weakness. Sensible people (who neither of us are) just tell them to go away. Stay safe.💜💀
AAAAAaaaahhahaha omg YES those menchildren who think they're empaths and wizards and can tell the future and think you were like past lovers, that's in the hippie/doof festival scene. they're everywhere. just whatever scene makes them feel a little bit edgy
I remember hearing that there's a area of the brain if stimulated or damaged it can make you feel like someone is there. Maybe he has something like that.
There's this crazy thing that happened to me, weirdly enough, on a full moon. That day I had to take the same bus four times, and every single one I had the same driver, which is quite odd since that bus arrives every 10 minutes, but not impossible since the time it took for me to finish doing what I had to do and take the bus again was approximately as much time as it would take the driver to get to the final point, turn it around, and get to the stop I was at. I wrote a facebook post about it, something in the lines of "I'm listening to the same song on repeat while on the bus and the driver is also on repeat" and I get a reply from this guy who, I swear, replies to nearly every girl's post about anything and despite getting absolutely no acknowledgement keeps doing it, asking me if I was on it at the time. I made the mistake of answering with yes. Would you know it, two stops later he shows up next to me. Again, not unlikely that he just happened to be there, but creepy nonetheless.
Toxihex god this gave me the creepiest feeling; it sounds like the type of stuff i dissociate (not particularly regarding strangers per se but whomever has a potential to be relevant at that moment in time), so much so that until i read the end i was gonna ask if you suffer from dissociations ever.. (i mean, my brain definitely is the type to dissociate a situation like this from seeing a random / ironic person next to me but the way you told your story i could tell that wasn’t the case lol) sorry this was an unwelcome and likely confusing comment i guess it was just my way of agreeing that that is creepy as HELL o.O
I have some aperent psychic stuff that heppens to me but i hear these stories an think it is best to not feed this because it is indeed one step away to madness
MAN. That would really suck. I would be so very uncomfortable were someone to say things to me even mildly resembling the things he said to you. I've had experiences with crazy, obsessed people before. Not fun at all.
In his head, you two were really into an intense relationship and anything you said or did, he managed to twist in his head as a sign of your relationship status. He must have set at home and lived in an entire fantasy world where you two were together, all the time. I am sure he told everyone you were his "gf" as well.
Oh! And I keep having this guy come up to me at parties and literally first words out of his mouth, "YOU HATE ME DON'T YOU?! I JUST WANT HONESTY! YOU DON'T LIKE ME!...WE CAN HANG OUT NEXT TIME I'M HERE!"...I have seen him like 4and or 5 times and he says this every single time! 😒🤔😒...I made the mistake of chatting with him when party was over and I was waiting for my cab...He also says things like, "ALL PEOPLE WHO COMMIT SUICIDE ARE SELFISH!" and "I always come up to you drunk!" then he gets a sad face and wanders off...The last time I was texting my mum back and he said, "YOU HATE ME RIGHT?"..."I'M texting, give me a minute!"..."Just be honest! All I want is honesty!"...I was like, "DUDE! I'M ON A TEXT WITH MY MOM! YOU ARE COMING UP TO ME VERY HOSTILE AND YOU HAVE VERY BAD ENERGY!"...He continues to stare and goes, "I'M NOT HOSTILE! I JUST WANT HONESTY AND THEN I'LL LEAVE YOU ALONE IF YOU ARE HONEST!...YOU HATE ME DON'T YOU?!"...Long story short...He came back 40 minutes later and was like, "WE SHOULD HANG OUT THE NEXT TIME I'M HERE! I LIKE YOU!"..."WE'LL SEE!" I said!..."JUST A YES OR NO! YOU HATE ME DON'T YOU!"...UGGH! 😒😕🙄😳😝 AN EX once came to my door in the middle of the night after he was sooooo piss drunk that he punched someone out at a bar (I heard that from the bartender he tried to punch out and a few other people, the next time I went to the bar)...Well, that same night, he quietly knocks on my door, I open it after repeated knocking and being woken up and I look out to him crouched in the bushes like 10ft from my door. I was really creeped out and he kinda tip toe ran up to my door and asked if he could come in...I was like, "No! You can't be here now!" I was all alone, but he goes all shocked, "OH! YOU'RE WITH SOMEONE! I SHOULDN'T BE HERE NOW!"...I was like, "HUH?!"...AND THEN, HE LITERALLY tip toe ran away, down my hilly driveway and off into the night!...Sounds like a fucking joke, but he literally did that! HAHA! 😂...He was bipolar and never took his meds and once freaked out and smashed his phone against a wall in an alley in a rage and cussing me out after falling over a number of times in the alley...and he told his parents and the phone company someone stole his phone...Another time he flipped out at his house and started throwing chairs all over the place. Yeah, what a bullshit self-medicator. 😠...Good riddance to bad rubbish! Almost makes me never want to go outside again...but karaoke, here I come! 😋...UNIVERSE! SAVE MY ASS! 😂😕😂...HA! I guess it's chatty ASD hour. 😋
Dude! Something like this happened to me! I met this kid at the park one day, and then he sent me all of these facebook messages telling me that we had been having sex in his dreams for years, and that he knew I was psychically in love with him and he couldn't believe we finally met in real life. I still hear from him every few years, with him going on and on about how our psychic relationship has been going. It's fucking strange. I agree with what you said about having someone you don't really know emotionally rely on you and like using you as a puppet to do what you want. It's really unsettling and sort of violating.
first of all, your makeup is beautiful in this video! Also what a strange story! I have had similar experiences here in America's Gothic scene. One individual made advances without permission even and I had to have him kicked out and banned but originally he just seemed off unti he started expressing I was his angel and meant to save him. It got very weird and scary and intense! The last interaction I had with him he was stalking me at an event in Chicago in a mask (not on Halloween) lol. And waited until I was alone at my booth (as I was a vendor for the night) to approuch me but literally not say a word to me! He just stood there staring at me with one hand out and I literally left all my shit and art on the table and dashed into the crowd on the dance floor. lol it was so creepy! Thatw as the last I saw of him. I know he has attempted to reach out but i blocked him on facebook and luckily instagram has a filtering system so he cannot see if I see his messages on there. I dont want to completely block the dude just in case as I was close to getting a restraining order. But overall, I have found a lot of energy vampires specifically in the goth scene. And they are all elder goths who are very much alone and sick who prey on the young gothlings who enter the scene. Its quite interesting to see how aluring these individuals come off as. Their energy is intensely off and quite noticably even if someone were not to be empathic. I have distanced myself from anyone in the scene who reminds me of such a personality type, as they are draining and feed on negative emotions. It is a shame too as i have realised some of them do not realize they are doing this and are not horrible people but just sick with many demons of their own they carry from whatever they have experienced in their lives. I unfortunately feel unsafe in the goth scene where I am located now. Which is a shame because I miss dancing freely at events with friends I rarely see unless I go to those venues. But its just not ok antymore and the rose tinted glasses are gone after a handful of unfortunate and creepy situations. I still love the scene and the music but I just wish I could feel safe there again! Dancing is one of my favorite things ever and was always theraputic as well as just fun.
Also I am very curious of your opinion in regards to young goths verses the elder goths, females speicifically! I find it very hard to connect with women in the scene just because I am younger but my scene is quite small so there are only others who are younger or older than myself and those who are older dont seem too fond of me presence. This is not all of them of course! But it does sadden me a bit when I want female friends i can relate to in the scene and who I feel I can learn from as a person.
I HAVE A STORY TOO: I also have a crazy stalker! An ex boyfriend of mine. Basically we were together for over a year, we loved each other and even had plans to get married and start a family together. One day out of the blue, he completely flipped his lid and started saying really hurtful shit to me about my depression, and about my body, and just real personal shit, so I just dumped him then and there. He would NOT take no for an answer. Thankfully we lived about 2.5 hours apart so it made me feel a bit safer, but he kept sending me message after message about how depressed he was and how he was thinking about offing himself and even his friends sent me messages like begging me to get back together with him. I blocked him on all social media after trying to talk to him and realizing he wasn't listening to anything I was saying, he only cared about what he himself wanted, not what I wanted. Then I got the phone calls and restless text messages, so I blocked his phone number as well. Then when he couldn't message me on any platform, came the dreaded e-mails. Paragraph after paragraph about how much he loved me and how much he just KNEW I still loved him. I didn't respond to any of them, just deleted them. One day, about a year ago, I got a message on Facebook from a woman who he had apparently started dating, accusing me of making him go mad. I asked what she was talking about, and she sent me a screenshot that she had taken off of his own phone and forwarded to herself, that was apparently between himself and some sort of black magic practicing witch. He had been paying someone to help him put curses on my love life, and had a bunch of my personal information that he was sending to this fucking stranger online. Needless to say, he and I have been broken up for 3 years, and I haven't been able to hold down a relationship since. No matter what I tried to break the curses, nothing has seemed to work. He also continues to make new email accounts, and I still receive emails every month or two.
well then even though I don’t know you or personally believe in such things, I am sending you positive energy. You can have plenty of success in relationships, I promise. Sometimes things are slow for a while. Have confidence, even when things don’t always work out. You are worth it, and I’m proud of you for taking charge and cutting him out of your life. Best wishes
"I can meditate my arse....on to my big toe!" Talented, lol. Stan sounds like a fucking 'nana - weird little atoms indeed. Never heard botulism used as a verb before! You look amazing, by the way - the eyelashes are outstanding. :o)
I know this video is old but damn. I relate so much...I also had a stalker like that but not the psychic thing XD I would block his number but he would buy burner phones and text me deranged messages like he was going to kill me and himself...🥴 worst part is he lived down the street from me...and I agree its almost scarier when you dont hear from them... .-.
"I'm a level 25 warlock and can levitate my ass onto my big toe" -Dorian 2018 😂💖💖💖💖
*meditate🤣
I nearly spit my food out laughing when he said that. 😂
Having been stalked by someone with severe mental illness I relate thoroughly. But I'm absolutely captivated by this sunset magic you've cast above your eyes. 🌅
*attempts to psychically compel Dorian to love me*
*winds up giving self a migraine and collapses*
“Let’s call him STAN”
Am I the only one that got the reference? I didn’t think there would be an Eminem reference here but okay 🤣🤣
stan was a crazy stalker fan character so the reference must have some relevance
Yes...... That's where the term "Stan" actually comes from
@@We_Are_All_Vultures NO frickin’ WAY... I listened to a ton of Eminem as a child and I never would ahve guessed!
I am absolutely mesmerized by you
So was the guy shes talking about 😂
Legit same.
I had a friend turned stalker when I was 16. He would sleep in his car outside my house (I didn't know it at the time, another friend told me later). He had asked me out a few times, told him I just wanted to be friends. One day he asked me to go for a drive with him. He got on the highway and started speeding and told me if I didn't go out with him, he'd crash the car and kill us both. I got pissed and told him to do it then and I think that confused him because I wasn't freaking out. Long story short, he took me home and I never spoke to him again. I heard through friends, years later, that he married a girl that looks like me.
The Batzinator Fucking psycho, hopefully he doesn’t kill his fucking wife and got on meds.
The Batzinator...HOLY CRAP! 😕😕😕😕😕
Holy moly that’s intense
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Sometimes confusing them is the best option lol. That’s terrifying tho I’m glad you’re okay
Ok. Not the last one. "You actually seemed to be glowing with psychic energy..." no Stan. That's called a blinding highlight.
X'D I love every one of these comments! The mathematics, lol! I can't remember if the highlight-to-heck trend had kicked off in 2014, but I suspect when one is standing on a dancefloor, & 'glowing', it probably has something to do with the disco-lights & strobe! XD
So psychics have their own version of "No means Yes".
Erotomania (or De Clérambault syndrome), I think. "It is a relatively uncommon paranoid condition that is characterized by an individual's delusions of another person being infatuated with them (...) Delusions of reference are common as the erotomanic individual often perceives that they are being sent messages from the secret admirer through innocuous events." (Wikipedia)
Yes a well researched introspection of this is in the book called ''Enduring Love'' - which was also made into an excellent film - I really recomend it X
"I'm sorry m8 but I think yer fookin NYUTS"
where's Dorian's accent from? (sorry English isn't my first language)
@@PrincessRainbowSparkles he's from Birmingham
Audri Williams Is his accent very common for Birmingham? I'm American, but always thought Dorian had a very 'posh' sort of accent..
@@evangeline77x I'm 4 years late, but in one of his videos he explained that he tries very hard not to have the Birmingham accent, but it still comes through because he's lived there for so long. So I can see why it sounds posh to you, because he does try to not sound brummy, but I can always hear it lol!
this is sooo late lol but i’m pretty sure he said he’s actually from Surrey originally
Omg all the times I've smiled at men politely (because i dont want to engage in an awkward stare) and they later accuse me of hitting on them.... this is like level 1000 of that shit 🤣🤣
Please do a makeup tutorial for yzma from the emperor's new groove🤣 those eye lashes would be perfect ❤️
Yess!! Hahaha I thought of her too!!
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I bought some its a peacock tail
The 1+1+0= Dorian had me dead lmao. I have a stalker very similar but without the psychic shit. It’s been 8 years of me ignoring him. He thinks all of my posts are secret messages to him and I secretly miss him etc etc. I feel your pain.
Your cheek bones look like carved perfection OH MAN. Thirty seconds into the video and I had to stop everything to let you know.
The black blush?
@@We_Are_All_Vultures sis shush
I love how you tell stories💖
I had a stalker too and the scariest part was when I stopped hearing from him. You know how crazy they are and you know their thoughts are festering but you don’t know what they may decide to do. Loved this video
This man sounds dangerous. Just my vibe about this classic stalker type personality. Glad whatever “spell” was there was broken.
"I don't want to do the affectionate stuff" oh lord I screamed
I have been waiting for this! That math 1 + 1 + 0 = Dorian
bleepbloop101010101 you might get it in math test xD imagine that lol
bleepbloop101010101 LOL WTFF???
This dude is fucking crazy man
I love how any of the sane thoughts, he doubted himself most about.
I had a feeling that You would be posting a video today...and you did...I must have a Psychic connection with you Dorian ❤️❤️❤️
Your makeup is to die for......your stalker sees this it could open that can worms again. I wish u protective luck. Love me some Halloween stories.
Holy shitballs, Dorian, I'm glad you came out of this safe. Some stories like this end badly. We are used to guys like this (malignant narcissistic PD) in America going bonkers and shooting up places...glad he disappeared, Jesus Christ. Be safe
Sigh, this just makes me sad honestly. The man was clearly psychotic and led a very lonely and miserable existence. I was stalked before myself and realize how that makes you feel though.
I think that whether you wore that love potion stuff or not psychic stalker dude was gonna psychic stalk.
My thoughts were that maybe he knew the scent and took it as some special sign for himself, regardless extremely creepy
Can someone link me to this oil she wore I need it...for completely normal and benevolent purposes...
(Now I feel compelled to make sure you know that this is a joke because this is the internet and someone is going to take this seriously)
If you were being serious about the oil, it's Twilight Alchemy Labs, and their website only takes Paypal it seems. I bought the Amor one (which is the one Dorian was wearing,) on Etsy though. I can't imagine it being very different from the website, and it was the same price too. Although, not to sound like a surgeon general or smoky the bear type person, but just be careful when wearing stuff like this. It obviously affected Dorian, and you may be lucky and it doesn't affect you that way, but just be cautious.
Sionnanful thank you, and thanks for the warning too
@@VegetaSoup Haha right, you may be lucky and find love, or lucky to find a stalker- whichever one ya she's after. lol
stuff is real! We used to buy someone that claimed to be similar from Clares back in the day and never failed to pull (which meant a good snog)
It has pheromones in it so just buy some that has that in it.
I kinda got myself into a weird, kinda creepy situation. I've been through worse stuff, but this was one of those times I walked myself into the problem.
So I was taking my rat Solomon for a walk around my apartment complex (I'm that kind of weird). I head just moved there a couple of months ago so I figured this was a good way to poke around the place.
Well, a guy calls over to me "Is that a rat?". I was actually quite happy with this because most people think my rats are hamsters or ferrets. I willingly engage in conversation with this guy, thinking that this would be a great chance to become acquainted with my neighbor- especially since I was still dealing with a screwed up ex.
For one, the guy got kind of annoyed that I wouldn't tell him which building I lived in, but I gave him my number (stupid move) and said we could chat later as I was going to meet up with my family.
This guy texts me shortly after that we should hang out
I try to explain that I'm a very introverted person, I don't really hang out with people I just met. I especially do not invite strange men over to my apartment.
He accuses me of reading more into it, he just wanted to be friends.
It goes back and forth of me trying to be polite and him insisting we spend time together but totally-not-trying-to-get-into-your-pants
Lather, rinse, repeat.
It went on for a few days, he starts talking about how it was destiny that we met. God arranged our meeting, and we had to act on that!
I finally got sick of it and blocked him. I wrote notes to the people in my building, asking them to keep an eye out for him, that he was not my friend and not to let him know where I was.
On the plus side, I became well acquainted with the people in my building because of this.
Living in that complex was horrible though! Someone kept unlocking my front door in the middle of the night, maintenance nearly killed Solomon, and I was sexually assaulted (by a different guy actually) while living there. It was a nice location, just a few minutes South of a very rich town, and the apartments boasted about their amenities and did ridiculous stuff like have horse drawn carriage rides around Christmas... I felt safer living in my cheap old apartment that overlooked a cemetery.
You were smart not to let him know you’re building. My room mate wasn’t as cautious but we were living on campus and luckily threatening to tell authorities got rid of him.
Screw fancy amenities you’re absolutely right that feeling safe matters more. Plus a view of the cemetery sounds lovely 💀💕
"I thought I made myself clear." - Oh, you sure did, but unfortunately the delusional ability of some men to only hear what they want to hear is dangeroulsy huge.
You’re so lovely trying to reason logically with this unhinged person. Block and avoid!!
This is so eerily similar to an experience I had with a 60 year old Australian man in a drum circle community!! Same situation of benign friendly interactions leading to these insane long messages insisting I was pushing myself on him, me telling him to leave me alone, him watching me from afar after...the fucking worst
I've heard of this happening, it's some sort of rare mental illness. Most of those who have it fixate on a celebrity, but it can also be someone in their life. I can't remember the name of it, but man that's bizarre!
Erotomania!
My god. What a horrible situation. I would have gotten the authorities involved sooner and used the emails as evidence. Glad it's over but what a looney bat. 👻👍💀
Ha! This made me actually lol several times. Especially the 1+1+0 part 😂 your reaction is priceless
Your voice is so soothing
YOU SAW IT! Woo, i'm so glad you noticed it! Thank you Dorian, it was a great tale~
Holy fuck, this just makes me ecstatic! I'm freaking the fuck out
Ahh, I'm so sorry I didn't remember your name, just the comment!
It's no problem~ I'm glad it was fun for you to remember :) Thank you for making my evening!
Your eyeshadow/eyelashes makes me think of a butterfly. 🦋💜
Oh my god this is so fucking creepy! I once was threatened by a "friend" and I honestly thought he was going to kill me, I remember how much anxiety I would get before going out, I don't wish that on anybody.
I have never cringed this much while listening to someone telling their story. I am just glad that you came away from this in one piece because so many do not.
your such a good story teller lol, iv watched this afew times when im stoned, because how you tell such a creepy thing that happened to you in such a funny way is brilliant and makes me giggle every time i watch it, you really are one of my fave youtubers x
omg he sounds scary!! your makeup looks superb
OK so I'm super late to the party but maybe this could have been counteracted by walking past him wearing Axe body spray.
"you can do all the *affectionate* stuff i mentioned earlier" THE CRINGE. IT HURTS TOO MUCH
I have 2 stalkers, but neither of them are anywhere near as creative as yours 😂 Mine are both just guys who developed crushes on me and I guess in their head they blew up our interactions into way more than they were, so now one of them is more of an angry stalker because I told him to back off and he got offended and it ended up encouraging him because he now wants to make me uncomfortable. The other thinks I love him back and actually he bought a concert ticket because he knew I would be at the show too! People are crazy
Alynne Urban Oh great. No one needs that shit. Stay safe.
Agreed, and thank you! I just almost never go out completely alone now.
Yeah! That is so crazy! The one who is angrier started a whole anonymous account dedicated to relationship between us that didn't exist! We had only spoken once the whole semester. It's so bizarre, but also interesting what people concoct in their head.
People like this are genuinely terrifying, I had a stalker type who was also really well liked in my local alt scene, I didnt go to any events or concerts for over a year because of him.. Eventually he moved to work in another city and I was able to breathe again. Still have hundreds of creepy text messages from him on an old phone.
Dorian, I love this video! And you’re totally not alone with meeting crazy people. I once met a strange woman who actually believed that a man had psychic control over her and would claim he was doing things to her with his mind such as draining all the blood from her brain and clenching her inner organs to cause her pain. I felt that when you said “my brain was just dribbling out of my ears in a unicorn rainbow puke of amusement.” Best description EVER! It’s just so insane to me how Stan also used this to gaslight you in really perverse kind of way. I’m happy to hear he’s blocked and that you don’t know what happened to him because it really doesn’t matter. Crazy people like Stan are best off far away IMO so yeah I’m sorry you had this happen and ruin your Halloween which is the best holiday hands down!!
How I’ve only found this now, it’s pure gold! The whole time you were thinking “it ain’t that deep, mate” hahahaha absolutely amazing
You are so stunning and I’ve been binge watching your videos and I love how you are always changing it up and your brutal honesty ab addiction and anorexia. I appreciate you.
same
I could listen and watch you all day everyday.
I would be thoroughly terrified if I read something like this tho
Sounds exactly like my psycho ex. They will never change and that's why they never have any real relationships. They create sick fantasies in their heads, elevate themselves, and then if they don't get their way, they lie further and victimize themselves to your friends and family. Crazy schizophrenic shit. Those people can get very violent.
You're so funny telling your life stories!! I love to listening you talking for long time lol and that's strange because normally I can't stand to much listening the same person. But with you it's awesome!!
Love u xxxx
I remember one young girl in the facebook goth community... She claimed to be half demon, half dragon. When she wasn't saying that she was telling everyone she was the reincarnation of Jack the Rippers wife and that he was just misunderstood, yet didn't know the first thing about him. between these episodes she was telling everyone who would listen she had magical powers. Honestly it was just sort of sad.
At least you know who he is. I had a stalker that left me flowers INSIDE MY HOUSE once. There was a lot of build up before that of course: hangup calls (from blocked numbers), FB messages from obviously fake accounts, leaving chocolates on my porch, poems attached to my car at work, etc. etc. etc. And then all of a sudden, he (or possibly she) was just gone. This person stopped contacting me and I haven't heard from him/her in years. I don't know who it was or why they suddenly disappeared or whether this stalker will reappear some day. So yes, the silence can definitely be creepier than getting all these wacked out messages.
You should have left a note saying "I'll have more expensive chocolates please, and can you leave them in the fridge"
Ok, maybe not.
I'm so thankful to have found your channel. Your voice is so soothing, ur attitude and and honestly a breath of fresh air. Ur flipping wonderful
Sorry! Last comment I SWEAR!!! But I have also had the misfortune of a weird stalker. And all I have to say is: 1 + 1 + 0 = psychotic break, where 1 equals Stan the Stalker and 0 equals the probability that it is anything other than a delusion........😂😂😂😂😂
This is too reminiscent of some ordeal I went through with someone for the entire second half of my teens. It was such a horrifying experience, and I am so glad to hear that you kept this person at bay.
Love your videos, keep being awesome and real.
Reminds me of all the desperate people asking me about their twin flames they haven't met yet when I read their cards. I used to believe in the TF phenomenon, but I was a very desperate person. Once I became more comfortable with myself, I realized how unhealthy all of that can be. The whole runner and chaser thing...
As someone who thought I had someone in their head like he did. I went to that person talked to them figure out it wasn't them I had this connection with so I chose to remove that person from my life for a bit to work out my problems and then fixed things with that friend. If you have this problem make sure to communicate in person. If there seems to be mix messages between this world and the phsycic world always fallow what the person tells you in person. If you do believe that it really is that person relies that's a mentally toxic game to play and remove the person from your life and shut out their mental connection.
It's that time of the year again!! Dorian and knitting Christmas presents!
i simultaneously feel bad for that guy, and also despise him. for one, he mustve been going through some weird stuff in his head which mustve been hard, but the words “dont approach me, im not attracted to you” should be enough for even someone going through things to back off
Yay storytime! Sorry you had to deal with all that.
This deserves WAY more views! This is amazing so interesting and hilarious!!! ( ps I love your eyeshadow!! 😍)
This was a great story! I don't know how I would have handled that lol. Especially when he sees you around in real life. That's so creepy.
Im blown away by how you've done your makeup in this video. I wish I was as talented.
I know this video is 2 years old, but damn this makeup look is PHENOMENAL
I had a similar situation like this happened to me almost two years ago !! It was quite annoying as,all hell too
I went on a hike with my dog and met a dude who was also hiking with his dog. We chatted, he gave me his number, my mother was like ah he’s cute go on a date... Mediocre date. Mediocre conversation. Paid for the meal. Let him know I wasn’t interested in another date.... the dude freaked. Contacted me on all my social media, when he got blocked, he made new ones. Then like 5 years later he finds my social media AGAIN, and continues to try and harass me. I got into a relationship and moved to another state shortly after but WOW. It was an unbelievable experience. Almost nervous to comment because I feel like he is still out there lurking, waiting to find me on the internet.
this is amazing! I haven't ever seen anyone bring such an animated look to life and have it look so perfect/amazing! like you see people do it and its more cringe spooky but girl!!!!! ~you do it so beautifully!
Thanks, Dorian, for psychically instructing the TH-cam algorithm to suddenly suggest in 2021 that I watch this video. 😂 What a wild situation, tho - good that he eventually f*cked off . You're a good storyteller, I enjoy hearing your tales.
Years late here*
I love hearing you speak, soothing voice and hilarious story telling!
Thank youu for being a "friend" (now I'm singing the golden girls song and feel creepy af 😃)
I hope you're doing amazing! 💞
Was the eminem reference deliberate?
reminded me of the "Giving head telepathically, so if you feel a lil tickle, that's just me." memes 💀
also i have this punk friend and listening to her stories and watching you i'm shocked how many horror stories fem presenting alt people have, it's like some men think that your looks makes you a freak show for them to do whatever they want with
Luv the eyelashes, always luv the mk up
As I listen to his Gon WithThe Wind length letter, I remember the nutters that thought we were connected when I read cards at the flea market. I understand why this happened to you. You are trying to be a kind human instead of saying fuck off. Kindness is always mistaken for weakness. Sensible people (who neither of us are) just tell them to go away.
Stay safe.💜💀
AAAAAaaaahhahaha omg YES those menchildren who think they're empaths and wizards and can tell the future and think you were like past lovers, that's in the hippie/doof festival scene. they're everywhere. just whatever scene makes them feel a little bit edgy
This guy is so cringe oml, I am so sorry you had to be put through that trainwreck of insanity!
I remember hearing that there's a area of the brain if stimulated or damaged it can make you feel like someone is there. Maybe he has something like that.
There's this crazy thing that happened to me, weirdly enough, on a full moon. That day I had to take the same bus four times, and every single one I had the same driver, which is quite odd since that bus arrives every 10 minutes, but not impossible since the time it took for me to finish doing what I had to do and take the bus again was approximately as much time as it would take the driver to get to the final point, turn it around, and get to the stop I was at. I wrote a facebook post about it, something in the lines of "I'm listening to the same song on repeat while on the bus and the driver is also on repeat" and I get a reply from this guy who, I swear, replies to nearly every girl's post about anything and despite getting absolutely no acknowledgement keeps doing it, asking me if I was on it at the time. I made the mistake of answering with yes. Would you know it, two stops later he shows up next to me. Again, not unlikely that he just happened to be there, but creepy nonetheless.
Toxihex god this gave me the creepiest feeling; it sounds like the type of stuff i dissociate (not particularly regarding strangers per se but whomever has a potential to be relevant at that moment in time), so much so that until i read the end i was gonna ask if you suffer from dissociations ever.. (i mean, my brain definitely is the type to dissociate a situation like this from seeing a random / ironic person next to me but the way you told your story i could tell that wasn’t the case lol)
sorry this was an unwelcome and likely confusing comment i guess it was just my way of agreeing that that is creepy as HELL o.O
@@ihatemickiegee yeah I disassociate almost all the time. I'm kind of not bothered by stuff like this anymore but it's still unusually weird.
New subscriber,that was brilliantly told,creepy,and funny haha loved it
I have some aperent psychic stuff that heppens to me but i hear these stories an think it is best to not feed this because it is indeed one step away to madness
MAN. That would really suck. I would be so very uncomfortable were someone to say things to me even mildly resembling the things he said to you. I've had experiences with crazy, obsessed people before. Not fun at all.
In his head, you two were really into an intense relationship and anything you said or did, he managed to twist in his head as a sign of your relationship status. He must have set at home and lived in an entire fantasy world where you two were together, all the time. I am sure he told everyone you were his "gf" as well.
pmsl . i love the way you tell your lil stories . awesome .
Oh! And I keep having this guy come up to me at parties and literally first words out of his mouth, "YOU HATE ME DON'T YOU?! I JUST WANT HONESTY! YOU DON'T LIKE ME!...WE CAN HANG OUT NEXT TIME I'M HERE!"...I have seen him like 4and or 5 times and he says this every single time! 😒🤔😒...I made the mistake of chatting with him when party was over and I was waiting for my cab...He also says things like, "ALL PEOPLE WHO COMMIT SUICIDE ARE SELFISH!" and "I always come up to you drunk!" then he gets a sad face and wanders off...The last time I was texting my mum back and he said, "YOU HATE ME RIGHT?"..."I'M texting, give me a minute!"..."Just be honest! All I want is honesty!"...I was like, "DUDE! I'M ON A TEXT WITH MY MOM! YOU ARE COMING UP TO ME VERY HOSTILE AND YOU HAVE VERY BAD ENERGY!"...He continues to stare and goes, "I'M NOT HOSTILE! I JUST WANT HONESTY AND THEN I'LL LEAVE YOU ALONE IF YOU ARE HONEST!...YOU HATE ME DON'T YOU?!"...Long story short...He came back 40 minutes later and was like, "WE SHOULD HANG OUT THE NEXT TIME I'M HERE! I LIKE YOU!"..."WE'LL SEE!" I said!..."JUST A YES OR NO! YOU HATE ME DON'T YOU!"...UGGH! 😒😕🙄😳😝
AN EX once came to my door in the middle of the night after he was sooooo piss drunk that he punched someone out at a bar (I heard that from the bartender he tried to punch out and a few other people, the next time I went to the bar)...Well, that same night, he quietly knocks on my door, I open it after repeated knocking and being woken up and I look out to him crouched in the bushes like 10ft from my door. I was really creeped out and he kinda tip toe ran up to my door and asked if he could come in...I was like, "No! You can't be here now!" I was all alone, but he goes all shocked, "OH! YOU'RE WITH SOMEONE! I SHOULDN'T BE HERE NOW!"...I was like, "HUH?!"...AND THEN, HE LITERALLY tip toe ran away, down my hilly driveway and off into the night!...Sounds like a fucking joke, but he literally did that! HAHA! 😂...He was bipolar and never took his meds and once freaked out and smashed his phone against a wall in an alley in a rage and cussing me out after falling over a number of times in the alley...and he told his parents and the phone company someone stole his phone...Another time he flipped out at his house and started throwing chairs all over the place. Yeah, what a bullshit self-medicator. 😠...Good riddance to bad rubbish!
Almost makes me never want to go outside again...but karaoke, here I come! 😋...UNIVERSE! SAVE MY ASS! 😂😕😂...HA! I guess it's chatty ASD hour. 😋
the colour of your eyebrows looks amazing in this video!
Every look of yours is amazing, even the no makeup one.
Dude! Something like this happened to me! I met this kid at the park one day, and then he sent me all of these facebook messages telling me that we had been having sex in his dreams for years, and that he knew I was psychically in love with him and he couldn't believe we finally met in real life. I still hear from him every few years, with him going on and on about how our psychic relationship has been going. It's fucking strange. I agree with what you said about having someone you don't really know emotionally rely on you and like using you as a puppet to do what you want. It's really unsettling and sort of violating.
first of all, your makeup is beautiful in this video!
Also what a strange story! I have had similar experiences here in America's Gothic scene. One individual made advances without permission even and I had to have him kicked out and banned but originally he just seemed off unti he started expressing I was his angel and meant to save him. It got very weird and scary and intense! The last interaction I had with him he was stalking me at an event in Chicago in a mask (not on Halloween) lol. And waited until I was alone at my booth (as I was a vendor for the night) to approuch me but literally not say a word to me! He just stood there staring at me with one hand out and I literally left all my shit and art on the table and dashed into the crowd on the dance floor. lol it was so creepy! Thatw as the last I saw of him. I know he has attempted to reach out but i blocked him on facebook and luckily instagram has a filtering system so he cannot see if I see his messages on there. I dont want to completely block the dude just in case as I was close to getting a restraining order.
But overall, I have found a lot of energy vampires specifically in the goth scene. And they are all elder goths who are very much alone and sick who prey on the young gothlings who enter the scene. Its quite interesting to see how aluring these individuals come off as. Their energy is intensely off and quite noticably even if someone were not to be empathic. I have distanced myself from anyone in the scene who reminds me of such a personality type, as they are draining and feed on negative emotions. It is a shame too as i have realised some of them do not realize they are doing this and are not horrible people but just sick with many demons of their own they carry from whatever they have experienced in their lives.
I unfortunately feel unsafe in the goth scene where I am located now. Which is a shame because I miss dancing freely at events with friends I rarely see unless I go to those venues. But its just not ok antymore and the rose tinted glasses are gone after a handful of unfortunate and creepy situations. I still love the scene and the music but I just wish I could feel safe there again! Dancing is one of my favorite things ever and was always theraputic as well as just fun.
Also I am very curious of your opinion in regards to young goths verses the elder goths, females speicifically! I find it very hard to connect with women in the scene just because I am younger but my scene is quite small so there are only others who are younger or older than myself and those who are older dont seem too fond of me presence. This is not all of them of course! But it does sadden me a bit when I want female friends i can relate to in the scene and who I feel I can learn from as a person.
I HAVE A STORY TOO: I also have a crazy stalker! An ex boyfriend of mine. Basically we were together for over a year, we loved each other and even had plans to get married and start a family together. One day out of the blue, he completely flipped his lid and started saying really hurtful shit to me about my depression, and about my body, and just real personal shit, so I just dumped him then and there. He would NOT take no for an answer. Thankfully we lived about 2.5 hours apart so it made me feel a bit safer, but he kept sending me message after message about how depressed he was and how he was thinking about offing himself and even his friends sent me messages like begging me to get back together with him. I blocked him on all social media after trying to talk to him and realizing he wasn't listening to anything I was saying, he only cared about what he himself wanted, not what I wanted. Then I got the phone calls and restless text messages, so I blocked his phone number as well. Then when he couldn't message me on any platform, came the dreaded e-mails. Paragraph after paragraph about how much he loved me and how much he just KNEW I still loved him. I didn't respond to any of them, just deleted them. One day, about a year ago, I got a message on Facebook from a woman who he had apparently started dating, accusing me of making him go mad. I asked what she was talking about, and she sent me a screenshot that she had taken off of his own phone and forwarded to herself, that was apparently between himself and some sort of black magic practicing witch. He had been paying someone to help him put curses on my love life, and had a bunch of my personal information that he was sending to this fucking stranger online. Needless to say, he and I have been broken up for 3 years, and I haven't been able to hold down a relationship since. No matter what I tried to break the curses, nothing has seemed to work. He also continues to make new email accounts, and I still receive emails every month or two.
well then even though I don’t know you or personally believe in such things, I am sending you positive energy. You can have plenty of success in relationships, I promise. Sometimes things are slow for a while. Have confidence, even when things don’t always work out. You are worth it, and I’m proud of you for taking charge and cutting him out of your life. Best wishes
"I can meditate my arse....on to my big toe!" Talented, lol. Stan sounds like a fucking 'nana - weird little atoms indeed. Never heard botulism used as a verb before! You look amazing, by the way - the eyelashes are outstanding. :o)
I'm ready for another story!
Can I just state how much I friggin love your lashes?! 🫠
I'm glad you've posted this, I wonder if it's the one that was there the night I ran into you at the club in Birmingham a few years ago!
The verb "to botulism" 😂
"Meditate my ASS onto my big TOE" I fuckin lost it looool
This guy is head of the Dorian Fanfiction club
This is insanse!! Sounds like a truly awful experience, I’m sorry you had to go through this. I can’t imagine how uncomfortable, yeesh!
So does this person have a Puppet representation? I mean because what a Halloween spooky to put out in the back garden.
I know this video is old but damn. I relate so much...I also had a stalker like that but not the psychic thing XD I would block his number but he would buy burner phones and text me deranged messages like he was going to kill me and himself...🥴 worst part is he lived down the street from me...and I agree its almost scarier when you dont hear from them... .-.
That guy is truly terrifying, he needs a therapist. I wouldn't have left my house for a while either. Good lord.
THOSE LASHES LOOK SO COOL OMG UGH I LOVE YOUR MAKEUP