You Can't Control Other People. You Can Only Control You. (DEF 06)

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  • @brianbachmeier34
    @brianbachmeier34 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

    “Waste no more time arguing about what a good man should be. Be one.”
    - Marcus Aurelius

  • @MichaelJames707
    @MichaelJames707 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    One of the best TH-cam channels, years running, no factor - infinite gratitude on deck, bless ~

    • @sterlthepearl1000
      @sterlthepearl1000 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yeah. But beware. Just learning more will not change your life.

  • @ryannelson5287
    @ryannelson5287 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    Jocko: "You think Buds was hard that's nothing compared to trying to use a printer!"

    • @ExtraRice365
      @ExtraRice365 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      You can't control a printer, you can only control you.

    • @dericmederos1514
      @dericmederos1514 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      as someone who works in IT, that is correct

  • @dameanvil
    @dameanvil 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    00:43 🤯 Excuses and blame often stem from ego protection, avoiding the admission of personal failure.
    01:58 🍩 Blaming inanimate objects for personal shortcomings is comical and counterproductive.
    03:41 🗣 Blaming others is a lie; you can't control people's actions or decisions.
    05:00 🧠 "Free your mind" means opening your mind to new ideas and perspectives.
    06:11 🤔 Changing your life involves making small decisions, taking control, and focusing on personal improvement.
    10:31 🛠 The analogy of prisoners making a rock hammer to escape emphasizes the power of small, consistent actions over time.
    11:09 📅 Daily action, self-control, and strategic vision are essential for discipline and personal growth.

  • @Sommyie
    @Sommyie 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    My alarm didn't wake me up today.... Because i woke it up.

    • @ilizama726
      @ilizama726 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I honestly needed this rn. Thank you

    • @TBWBWNMWG
      @TBWBWNMWG 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So it was you😑

  • @darksidehotel1
    @darksidehotel1 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Open your mind. Free your life. Inspire others.
    I think Jocko's willing to grow. Others are too afraid to.
    We all have excuses.

    • @ScottLRoyal
      @ScottLRoyal 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Being a student of life, is a wonderful way to go through life.

  • @briankelm
    @briankelm 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Replay! Great truthbombs to live by and practice daily.

  • @MatthewSmith-cp3hu
    @MatthewSmith-cp3hu 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    everyone including me thinks jocko is a mountain but he is just like everyone he bleeds the same he experiences hardships and defeat like everyone else but how he chooses to repond how he chooses to frame his situation is special and helpful he shares how he got over the last hill and how he is getting over the next obstacle

    • @sterlthepearl1000
      @sterlthepearl1000 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      The difference in people's life's, are the difference in their standards.

  • @sterlthepearl1000
    @sterlthepearl1000 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It's in our moments of decision, that our destiny is shaped.

    • @sterlthepearl1000
      @sterlthepearl1000 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      (In other words) What we do right now is what will shape our destiny.

  • @gsgmclovin3526
    @gsgmclovin3526 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Been living this shit for some time. You have to plant the seeds sometimes the birds get them but while your about walking don’t forget to pick your crop

    • @sterlthepearl1000
      @sterlthepearl1000 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Reminds me of what Jesus Christ talked about in Matthew chapter 13.

  • @michaelpetrus19
    @michaelpetrus19 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    We only know what we know & if we don't have an open mind then that's all we will ever know. Certainly, not a place I would want to find myself. And yes always be working towards a better way in everything you do as a daily habit 💪💪💪

    • @sterlthepearl1000
      @sterlthepearl1000 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      For there's always someone else with more knowledge and experience.

  • @danepane527
    @danepane527 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Man overslept again.. this hits hard, truth

  • @MarlonByron
    @MarlonByron 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This cranked me up at the beginning

  • @douglashowe5775
    @douglashowe5775 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    love this, thank you

  • @HunterDH92
    @HunterDH92 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Just when I was about to take a rest day. Perfect timing, thank you sir 💪🏼

  • @sterlthepearl1000
    @sterlthepearl1000 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    We may not be able to reach our destination over night, but we can change our direction over night.

  • @greendragonok
    @greendragonok 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    taking accountability is important be careful though of those waiting to shift blame.

  • @devriestown
    @devriestown 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Spot on .
    I work in construction and just walk away from people who just want to have conversations that they want to just agree with them on.
    It's time wasting time i dont have to waste 😂

    • @sterlthepearl1000
      @sterlthepearl1000 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      And if we spend all our time with people who can't pay us, we will be someone who can't pay.

  • @zigzag9133
    @zigzag9133 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Nothing gets a Narcissist more excited than controlling people. Getting them to do things they don’t want to, excites them the most.

    • @sterlthepearl1000
      @sterlthepearl1000 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Don't let them mistake your kindness for weakness.

  • @shrekscousin1389
    @shrekscousin1389 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Not everything is your fault, but everything is your responsibility no matter what.

    • @sterlthepearl1000
      @sterlthepearl1000 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      "It is your duty to God and your bloodline for your life to mean something.' Andrew Tate

  • @samboooka
    @samboooka 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    CGA - LEGEND

  • @deanjackson625
    @deanjackson625 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Jocko, Accountability and responsibility you owe it to yourself and how will someone believe in you, then you benefit from your positive attitude and actions plus achievements of accomplishments in life.
    From diet, mental, health, marriage, community and character of a person.

  • @marykukulski4679
    @marykukulski4679 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I have narcolepsy so when I say I can't get out of bed...it's a physical truth...but then I learned to wiggle...I wiggle to the edge of my bed and fall off of it. If I fall asleep on the floor okay but at least I finished the job of getting out of bed. I refuse to be narcolepsy 's bitch!

  • @sterlthepearl1000
    @sterlthepearl1000 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    We may not be able to control other people, but we can influence them.

    • @austin9374
      @austin9374 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Look what that’s done

  • @chefmatseg634
    @chefmatseg634 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Those damn sneaky donuts!

  • @maxdavies5776
    @maxdavies5776 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Cheers.

  • @JulietActual
    @JulietActual 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lfg. Needed this today

  • @paulbhager
    @paulbhager 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hell yeah 😎 💪

  • @sterlthepearl1000
    @sterlthepearl1000 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    To get out of bed, our mind needs to be more powerful than our emotions. Because our emotions keep us in bed, and our mind that gets us out of bed.

  • @brianbachmeier34
    @brianbachmeier34 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    We're all gonna make it brahs
    💪

  • @geloo90
    @geloo90 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Jocko "You can't control other people"
    Sheldon Cooper "No, YOU can't control other people "

  • @MrDanielvass
    @MrDanielvass 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Easily the most common one I hear, and the one where people will die on this Hill; I’m 33 BMI, but I’m not obese, because bmi doesn’t apply to me, because I’ve got these special things, called ‘muscles’”.

    • @MrDanielvass
      @MrDanielvass 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@thomasenderson893 what you’ve said isn’t completely invalid, but I always counter the argument that “bmi isn’t useful” by pointing out that if you get your body fat down and get your waist to 32” or less, 99% of people will fall within the “healthy” bmi range. It’s the guys with 44” waists saying “bmi is bs because I’ve got muscles” that I tire of.

  • @sterlthepearl1000
    @sterlthepearl1000 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    And if we don't protect our time and energy, then other people will waste our time and energy.

  • @chrisaguirre6604
    @chrisaguirre6604 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🔥💪🏾🔥 Great subjec

  • @Jeff_Thomas
    @Jeff_Thomas 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    🔥VIDEO

  • @denlen5706
    @denlen5706 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Tnx

  • @amirsafwan4013
    @amirsafwan4013 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    @Jocko thanks for elaborate on the discipline manuals section . This series helps a lot 🫡

  • @MatthewSmith-cp3hu
    @MatthewSmith-cp3hu 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    jocko sometimes looks like a Mangalor from the fifth element

  • @thundergrace
    @thundergrace 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yikes...i want to get my jobback and not able to get in touch with the presdient.....what do i do...keep trying or give up...he needs to hear my side of the story.. I am not chopped liver....
    Also, i cannot afford where I am living. Its winter...and I need help...why wont anyone help me?

    • @sterlthepearl1000
      @sterlthepearl1000 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Because God sends His strongest soldiers through Hell to get to Heaven.

  • @samboooka
    @samboooka 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    CGA speaking nothing but the truth

  • @fredmalito9869
    @fredmalito9869 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey now, in all fairness, I set a series of alarms to make sure that I don’t oversleep and shirk my responsibilities, and over the past two months I have noticed that my phone has indeed been deactivating my alarms for some unknown reason on occasion. I would set the alarms, look at the alarms, verify that I had the correct time of day (a.m. or p.m.), and then I would do the exact same thing on my tablet and verify both were set identically.
    Next morning my tablet is going off and rouses me from my bunk in the truck. I look to the phone and it has turned off my first alarm. Five minutes later I check again, and the second alarm has turned off.
    So, that shit really happens. Sometimes it’s a valid explanation.
    Carry-on.

    • @timangar9771
      @timangar9771 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yeah sure it happens, but I think the point is to say "I should have been prepared for that", in a way that moves the responsibility to something that you can control.

    • @fredmalito9869
      @fredmalito9869 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oh I certainly understand that, I just felt like lightning the mood a bit.
      I’ll tell you though, after two decades in my field and never being late for any reason that could be attributed to anything other than mechanical failure or inclement weather, it was very disheartening to suddenly think that I was aging to the point that I couldn’t remember to set an alarm in the morning. I was feeling pretty bad about it until I caught it in the act.

    • @sterlthepearl1000
      @sterlthepearl1000 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Everything has expiration dates, including smartphones.

  • @greendragonok
    @greendragonok 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    accountability and excuses sound very similar

  • @MissJen-78
    @MissJen-78 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My friends, what excuse(s) do you make? I’ll go first: I slept like shit, I deserve to sleep in.

  • @lwelk273
    @lwelk273 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    this reminded me of my father......when alive he would always advise me....... "Excuses are like assholes......everyone has one!"

  • @gent_swag
    @gent_swag 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    We even blame our environment and habitat. Which is BS! LOL

  • @thundergrace
    @thundergrace 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Free your mind....really saying be open to new ideas ..etc...

  • @EkayLaive
    @EkayLaive 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    mhm

  • @windbuddy1560
    @windbuddy1560 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It do be like

  • @majedahmedkhan
    @majedahmedkhan 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    👍🏻

  • @FrostyX38
    @FrostyX38 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    👍😂

  • @davidrandell2224
    @davidrandell2224 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    7 billion brains literally don’t know up from down.All down gravity-Aristotle, Newton, LeSage, Einstein,Mach, Wheeler, Zee, Penrose etc-wrong. Up gravity- McCutcheon (Expansion Theory)- correct. “The Final Theory: Rethinking Our Scientific Legacy “, Mark McCutcheon for proper physics, including the CAUSE of gravity. Start at start.

    • @sterlthepearl1000
      @sterlthepearl1000 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      If you check the world population clock online, it now says there are over 8.1 Billion people in this world and growing everyday.

    • @davidrandell2224
      @davidrandell2224 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ 100,000 years and 20 billion brains later one brain- McCutcheon- discovered/published the CAUSE of gravity and this is your “take- away “. The human brain is so sad.

  • @Spartan-Of-Truth
    @Spartan-Of-Truth 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m going to be honest, when you always expect others to do what YOU do… you’re going to get a ton of the blame and responsibility involved with that person. Just because YOU never chill out and relax from time to time doesn’t mean others shouldn’t. If everybody ran around trying to conquer and control everything, you’d have chaos. So relax… tired of hearing about all this ‘you should be this way and that way’. How about let people just be present sometimes…

    • @sterlthepearl1000
      @sterlthepearl1000 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Which is why there are so many rules in society now, because without them there would be havoc.

  • @sfairborneinfantry.godsmen
    @sfairborneinfantry.godsmen 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Blah blah blah blah blah 😂😂😂

  • @TEM1
    @TEM1 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You owe your life for the death of Kindra Nelson.

    • @theotherside1159
      @theotherside1159 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Stop doing drugs

    • @sterlthepearl1000
      @sterlthepearl1000 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@theotherside1159 "It's not a war on drugs, it's a war on personal Freedom." Bill Hicks

  • @pacovillanueva9156
    @pacovillanueva9156 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    .

  • @pereklada4ua
    @pereklada4ua 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    +

  • @maxdavies5776
    @maxdavies5776 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If biden can lead the world i can have CBD.

    • @sterlthepearl1000
      @sterlthepearl1000 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Why would just want CBD, that only makes you feel relaxed?