Am glad my parents are proud of me..!! I came as a student to America, finished my education and bought half of my family to America even now my parents are US citizens because of me. I praise God for my achievements.
Naaye as a child of a disporan parent, I came abroad at 13. Mr. Roy is right about some of these issues he's narrating in this video. The problem is he is only detailing the consequences not the root problem!! First of all, parents do not account for the culture shock as the children experience especially if they are 14-25. How being in a new environment, being treated differently in society and the process of assimilation in a new country affects that child. Secondly, parents fail to remember that most of them didn't grow up with us though we understand they move to green pastures for our benefit....naaye the truth is we didn't grow up with you there so some of us may not have an attachment to you parents atte you parents taught us to fear you so much that we can't even talk to you about our challenges. Third, most people don't know that what a child was doing in Uganda will only multiply when they move abroad especially in the U.S. 🤷🏾♀️
These are my exact thoughts! I came here at 12yrs of age and went through some challenges attributed to puberty & assimilation to my environment i grew up in. However with patience & proper guidance I eventually turned out ok, college educated and one of the youngest leaders in healthcare in my state. He has some good points but his opinions are kind of biased. It's like he's seek white validation like most Africans in & out of diaspora. Today white people are the most addicted to drugs & violence due to the opioid epidemic.
Lots of challenges there, I agree it's never easy settling in especially teenagers, we have lots of don'ts here and lots of dos's over there. The distance and time away from each other as parents process their paperwork leaves their children vulnerable back home. The relatives or friends that are left with the children don't make it any easier. These kids come over there with lots of entitlement. The parents usually send uneccessary goodies to compensate for time apart. Sibyangu.abaana bamwe temubakotogera, work on their papers so that they also enjoy the privileges of having a parent in diaspora. . The best time to have them over there with you is before they become teenagers or after they are done with high school here. Mubawe obudde, mwogerenabo ekirungi mumanyi amateeka gaffe tegakola eyo gyemuli. All the best.
Am from Massachusetts USA 🇺🇲 🇺🇲 but what Roy is talking about is true, this is reality when I came here in USA I saw this from the black society, that's why when I came I was so conscious who to associate with. Alot of laziness, unfocused and lack of moral conduct in the youth. May God help us but parents have pain in their hearts.
Heavenly Father thank you for my children obutampa buzibu. I have 5 teaneagers and 3 working and full-time school, 2 will also be working as soon as they turn 16. Am a single mother silina budde bwabana kuntabula mutwe in the mighty name of My Lord Christ Jesus 🙏🙏♥️
Iwe yamaawe abaana bataano tinkachihulilagaho since I have started watching these shows,iwe farook akuloonde otuhe interview 🙄🙄 eeehhhh my lord i wonder 🥰🥰🥰🥰💪💪💪big up to all of us single mothers,me 3 naye ndimu Uganda 😊
What an interview! Parenting is one of the toughest challenges that our Generation is facing. I thought Roy has done so well to dig deep into the reality that many a Diaspora Parent face. Pam dear,this is what we've always been talking about. Farouk,kudos to this piece..👌🙏🏼🤝👊
When I the I brought materials bricks 🧱 cement at home 🏠 on Christmas 🎄 after spending 2yrs in Kampala My my instead she cried and I also started to cry 😭😭 and My second visit after 5months I went with closing doors glasses and windows she tached on my head cried and said you are blessed for the All of your life after 3months I boarded away am now 1yr and 5 months working in Emirates flights. May God protect my parents until they see the bazukulu Amen 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
This is the best interviewee have seen on ur show. I hold a permanent residency which allow’s me to stay to countries in Europe expect UK but I refused to bring my children in Europe unless when their joining university
You're very smart and forward thinking. I lived moved back for the same reason,,,,,,,,,,,wanting an environment that would enable me to raise my kids the way they want and not the way government wants so that it can continue incarcerating my kind of people. The prison system is a game in the western countries. .
@@fk5371 Very true. I had and raised mine here in England but brought him up like we were raised, sikiliza kwesiliwaza. He’s now a big boy and im proud of him. Even if he’s way taller than me he knows who the parent is and would not dare disrespect me or any other adults. I also did myself a favour and moved to a smaller town away from London where trouble starts. Too many gangs, petty crime, grooming into gangs etc tend to start in big cities. If you have the option, raise kids in Africa, let them come for university studies and thereafter.
Wawawawa finally Roy has appeared. Big up to u brother Roy and brother farook serkozi. We really appreciate ur efforts towards building us across all walks of life. Ahmed Gossip live Ambassador in Qatar omu bwati.
The truth and nothing but the truth!! Roy is speaking for many parents in the diaspora. The pain and heartbreak many endure because of the grown kids they brought to the diaspora is unfathomable! Many regret their choices.
i am sorry naye oluusi, us the parents have alot to do with how these kids end up. When we go abroad we bring maalo and instead of knowing where we came from we want to behave like the people we found there. Instead of helping them to know where they came from "i hear comments alot.............the kids are American" as if they are untouchables. The parents who make these statements after the excitement of being in the US wears off then they start to see the pain of not counselling, and not setting expectations. Secondly, brining children before they finish senior six is too early because they don't appreciate the pains that their parents have gone through to get the papers. Keep the kids grounded. Help them not to forget the good values you have at home and help them be selective what they choose.
@@fk5371 You’re very right. Older kids fair better. And parents wanting to raise kids nga Americans doesn’t help. I had my child here and I raised him the same way I was raised not these tokuba baana, tobagambako etc and he knew not to try it on. He’s now grown and is a respectable human being, taddamu bakulu, taleekana, etc.
@@motungi5520 True, Naye anti nabe’kampala bazibanja non-stop, Maama mulwadde, senga yafudde, olumbe lwataaata, kojja boda yamukoonye and if those parents don’t send money nga bagamba yye maama since she took her kids takyatufaako. Case of between a rock and a hard place.
Ebiseera ebisinga the feeling of accomplishment kubside yameka brings in lots of issues, abaana buli wamu beetaga guidance home oba diaspora, most of the people in diaspora bayita wala okutuuka kukyebagala nebeerabira. I went to school with classmates that had parents in diaspora naye we attended traditional schools here and they were only able to join their parents after high school, they've turned out successful in all their endeavours. Abantu eno mubabuulire byemuyitamu okubasanyusa. Nekirala empower your extended families by supporting them to start up self sustaining projects. Kyanaku nti mubeera kubunkenke over every phone call that comes in okuvabeno.mulekere awo okumala gagaba freebies kubanga mulemaza abantu bamwe nebabafukira sitaani.
100% on point! I believe in chores housework, limit screen time, family time is a must. Watch shows together, go to mall together, go to restaurants together. Talk to your children. You are so right. Who are their friends. American born or not, children need boundaries. Even when you have maids in Uganda, children should have chores, help with cooking and cleaning.
Am not in diaspora but I have liked ur quote of moving out of a relationship which is not developmental, it's the best decision I have ever made in life
Am still confused, i want to get out of this relationship because its not developmental at all, but i have a daughter in him it still hard for me to make final decision. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 because i fear to start over
Big up Mr Farooq Sarqoz and Mr Roy Mubiru , that was a very interesting topic, we face so many challenges abroad but we should never forget where we come from, we need to embrace our culture, values and traditions.
But by the time some of you realise its too late. If we stop malala, things can change. But the more we start to behave like the people we found their we are doomed.
This is very true. Here in the U.K. the kids getting knifed are black kids, most are those who grew up in africa and came here. Those born here usually will go on and finish school Naye bebaleese!! Hoh! One parent didn’t even know her 11 year old boy had a gun under his mattress. She only found out when police came to her house and she swore they had the wrong address Naye aba police bakebela. They found it and he confessed they were blackmailing him threatening to kill his mum so he hid the gun for a gang to protect his Mum. Abaana kilungi basomere Uganda and come here for universit. Ofcourse every parent wants to be with their kids and you can’t advise especially if yours were born here Naye kyanaku nnyo.
My dear what I see here is a different story. It's personality . Those are doing mass shooting are for bazungu. Though Omulya mamba ...... Even those for whites or born there are wasted. Mukkirize nti na mwe abazadde tumufuddeyo. But i repeat it's personality EVEN IF he or she remained in Uganda would be spoiled.
I saw a documentary that said it's actually white kids doing more stabbing than black kids, but for some reason it's black kids that are usually put in media making it seem like it's mostly black kids.
@@day2dayhuman44 In London, there are areas where mostly black kids will be involved in knife crime. There are areas like North London where minorities have settled and white people have vacated. Yes some white kids will be involved but mainly black kids.
I agree taking children abroad during university. They are old enough to appreciate their identity sikubeera mu maalo. I came abroad to study in university and I’m grateful that I enjoyed my earlier years in Uganda
Thank you for interviewing this Gentleman, I have learned a lot. The truth is, if we don't go back to our foundations, the majority are heading for destruction. Thank you Mr. Roy, well said. I concur with all you have stated.
I like this gentleman's take on so many things. Infantilization of children is very real . Treat them the same way you'd treat them in Uganda. Don't babysit them .
You said the truth. I went to America and saw my sister"s children who were taken at the age of 13 yes doing exactly that. Keep uour children in Africa.
Mr Roy Mubiru u have reminded me of linked clip of one of the Uganda's tycoon 🤔musajja wattu nakaba amaziga nayenga muwalawe ne nyina bebamukabya ku bintu bye byakoleredde ebbanga🥺things do happen in daily life jst abamu tetufuna chance bilaba. Nd this goes to parents to groom their children accordingly 😌 kuba tewali kiswaza nga mwana kuyisamu maso nga tamanyi biki byoyisemu okumutusa wali. Lord have mercy on our kids 🙏
Mwanagwe it's God's mercy me I can't blame anyone on a spoilt kid whether here in Uganda or outside it's only pleading to God as soon as u get pregnant,Ur role u do it but put that kid Infront of God's mercy
Oh my God watched this interview to the end this man is very correct I have a friend her kids one is 28 another is 32 but these kids balisiza mummy wabwe akakanja bange one day she almost cried she came and tell me that am so tired I told her sorry she told me can u imagine I went in the fridge to take milk to cook for my husband and I find milk finish the way am tired I had to go to supermarket to buy another one and I have to wash also their clothes I was so mad I asked ger why she doesn’t tell these kids who wash them she just looked at me and cried the kids cnt do anything at home and makes matters worse one she is a lady I was like what she alway brings the boy friend to eat the food and she cnt do anything in the house it’s their mum who is doing everything.
Good evening everyone watching ,Farooq nd Roy Mubiru we are glad to see u again. We thank the almighty we are still alive 🙏 many are gone ,many are sick , Lord we give you the glory.
I came to the USA when am 29 years old, lived in the USA for 7 years, and am a citizen, in 7 years of living here I have learned a lot worse and good. To my knowledge, I can't raise my kids in the USA period.
We thank God for the gift of life. Roy Mubiru, thanks for that good advice and for being a good parent. We that God guides both us parents and our children.
Am thankful to God, i have 2 teenagers , excellent in school, doing their chores as asked,volunteering in different organizations, they both have jobs .So it depends where you leave,ur environment how you have rised your children ,parent involvement . Educating your children your family values . Not all kids in diaspora are spoiled kids.We got lots of awesome kids from uganda in my community here in diaspora.
Great talk. I have seen one guy who reached in America and joined gay gangs. He was deported in a critical condition with Hiv on a death bed. Kati Ali Uganda anywa waragi. Maamawe yeyali yamutwala
Now this is a wild tale if I ever saw one 😆 🤣 😂. Gay gang?? Where in America does one exist? 😆 🤣 😂 😹. Please stop making stuff up just for the sake of it.
@@Kony.2 are you one of them? Or you call yourself human activists to cover up the word gay. OK, what do they call a group of gays or homosexuals?. Never argue what you don't know. We talk with proof because the person iam talking about is in my family
@lady Justice🌹 so to you all groups are gangs? 😆 🤣 😂 when you are with your friends as a group you fit the definition of the word gang?lol Don't just use words without knowing their meaning 😆 😄
That’s the bitter truth ku #Bulaaya It would have been better bwaba asuka 17 years sooka omuleke amalirize university afune concept yobuvunanyizibwa awo tojja kola Loss 👌…Thanks for the show Mukulu #ROY & Swahaba #FAROOQ 😘👋
Ono omwami muzadde ddala owenjawulo, nze ndiku side yo Taata tweyanzizzannyo okutulungamya nobutabikkilila nsongankulu eyo abanji jebabuusa amaaso ate nga ekabya amaziga
Thank you gentlemen. Omwami oyo byayogera newano e Uganda bwekiri. Once your children start distancing and locking themselves in the room, just know they are up to no good. Immediately start the strict talk and grounding. Be it here in Uganda. Kawukumi neeno yatuuka dda!
As parents we need to learn financial literacy as well, borrow some tactics from others in building wealth , self discipline, among others and also have a strong religious values
Bambi thank you so much this the tru story wich this Man saying this what the parents we'are passing through even me I.m so happy and proud of this guy. thanks a lot mukwano wow be blessed so much my dear friend. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🤝
Mr Roy thanks for good words 🙏 very informative interviews I dedicate this interview to Frank Gashumba nd others parents of such caliber. Farooq thanks for the show blessings guys.
@@rinahkayz9508 oyo guy i don't think he can borrow a leaf seriously the fool lives in denials and dreams that he wants his daughter to be like Rihanna Beyonce etc notunula u even like 😭😭😭 nalyoka yewubba ku zilediyo noseeka 🤔
I have alot of friends i went to boarding school with in Uganda here in USA very successful. We never forgot where we came from. Some of us dont come out in the limelight. It all depends on how one was brought up and what they learnt along the way. Otherwise these issues happen in every race, nationalities, ethnicities in states and else where that i've come across.
Attending conventions has nothing to do with getting spoilt. Thank God that whoever raised you remembered to continue counselling you and didn't just leave you to the Government/State to raise you
Absolutely it depends on the nurturing.... If u were nurtured properly there is no way you can adopt unethical conducts,,,, Nze newengenda wa I can never never change my behaviors' coz whenever am going astray doing anything wrong, I always reflect on how my parents will feel plus the society where I grew up
@@babiryeracheal983 Go through previous videos, they have a section that talks about applying for the rotary visa for the US and Canada. For the US it starts sometime next month, hope that helps.
I came across this video, but it's really nice to us parents . But me,I thank God for the time being, I have my 3 boys here,one's now 17 -internship ,earning something, but we share our bills. But very true coz he came here when 14,and he always wanted that job .so it was an advantage to him to percu his career .
America has both sides, good and bad, it depends where they land and the group they join, all in all, only Jesus can help🙌🙏am sure all parents try, naye bigaana bugaanyi, emizimu ejili wano miyitilivu!
Some parents don't try because they are too busy making ends meet, and think that just because US has been marketed as a second heaven things are just going to fall in place. When you stand near a parking lot you don't become a car. If you have been counselling them at home, don't stop just because you are still dealing with the excitement of material things that America has to offer.
Thanks 🤝what's saying is 100%but nze i blame this on parents reason being they say they love their kids in the end they are now crying but wen they are the trouble causes 🤞
Tx Roy ur on point we parents in diaspora we need to hear this its 4 real our generation is being depleted if we dont caution our kids .let's go back to the basics tx Farouk 4 this episode much appreciated
Thanks Farouk for these informative videos, your content is relevant. We greatly appreciate. However, my opinion is that this is not gossip it is realty and therefore title should change from gossip live to probably facts live or something better.
As a Parent you're 100% accountable for your child's behavior. Omwaana talina rights nga okyamusuza munyumbayo. Bwomuwa rights obeera olemeredwa nga omuzadde.
Mr, Farooq thanks for the work done, I am requesting you to host a lawyer who studied his or her bachelor's in Uganda and relocated to America and continued with his or her career.
I’ve pretty much grown up here and I’ve noticed that most Ugandan parents either spoil their kids or aren’t involved in their children’s lives. It’s not entirely the kid’s fault, Ugandan parents need to actively create healthy relationships with their children, talk to them and get to know them. Otherwise don’t be surprised if those kids don’t talk to you.
Mukulu Farooq osaana kufuna green card you may have one already I don't know, according to your shows, you are indeed doing a great job. I know with a green card you would be able to move in and out bcz we need you here and back home too. Your shows are very interesting 👍💪
In other Nations too, I have just read one comment from one in Canada,naye abuuza ogendeyo ddi?,am sure it is the same question from many Ugandans all over the World, bangi bajja kwagala okukukyaaza. Nange nkulinze mu Washington DC.
@@joyjoyce7141 kitufu nyoo bambi Canada pipo are commenting calling him to visit them Australia etc nawe maybe accommodation and cash issues but let's wait and see
Am glad my parents are proud of me..!! I came as a student to America, finished my education and bought half of my family to America even now my parents are US citizens because of me. I praise God for my achievements.
Thanks for doing the best may God continue blessings
God bless you
How did you do that dear coz even me i want to come to America for studies my dear? Some of us we need some help bambi 🙏
God bless you Mulongo, your parents should be proud of you! 👍
Your blessed my sister
We need to credit this guys who come out speak the truth.....may God bless the few confident guys who speak out to save others
Naaye as a child of a disporan parent, I came abroad at 13. Mr. Roy is right about some of these issues he's narrating in this video.
The problem is he is only detailing the consequences not the root problem!! First of all, parents do not account for the culture shock as the children experience especially if they are 14-25. How being in a new environment, being treated differently in society and the process of assimilation in a new country affects that child. Secondly, parents fail to remember that most of them didn't grow up with us though we understand they move to green pastures for our benefit....naaye the truth is we didn't grow up with you there so some of us may not have an attachment to you parents atte you parents taught us to fear you so much that we can't even talk to you about our challenges. Third, most people don't know that what a child was doing in Uganda will only multiply when they move abroad especially in the U.S. 🤷🏾♀️
Well said dear.
These are my exact thoughts! I came here at 12yrs of age and went through some challenges attributed to puberty & assimilation to my environment i grew up in. However with patience & proper guidance I eventually turned out ok, college educated and one of the youngest leaders in healthcare in my state.
He has some good points but his opinions are kind of biased. It's like he's seek white validation like most Africans in & out of diaspora. Today white people are the most addicted to drugs & violence due to the opioid epidemic.
Also saying white kids are more disciplined isn’t true. Most of what he saying is true tho.
Lots of challenges there, I agree it's never easy settling in especially teenagers, we have lots of don'ts here and lots of dos's over there. The distance and time away from each other as parents process their paperwork leaves their children vulnerable back home. The relatives or friends that are left with the children don't make it any easier. These kids come over there with lots of entitlement. The parents usually send uneccessary goodies to compensate for time apart. Sibyangu.abaana bamwe temubakotogera, work on their papers so that they also enjoy the privileges of having a parent in diaspora. . The best time to have them over there with you is before they become teenagers or after they are done with high school here. Mubawe obudde, mwogerenabo ekirungi mumanyi amateeka gaffe tegakola eyo gyemuli. All the best.
@@juknatukunda Very well said 👍
Am from Massachusetts USA 🇺🇲 🇺🇲 but what Roy is talking about is true, this is reality when I came here in USA I saw this from the black society, that's why when I came I was so conscious who to associate with. Alot of laziness, unfocused and lack of moral conduct in the youth. May God help us but parents have pain in their hearts.
Bambi especially in black community and mwana gwe it heart alot
Heavenly Father thank you for my children obutampa buzibu. I have 5 teaneagers and 3 working and full-time school, 2 will also be working as soon as they turn 16. Am a single mother silina budde bwabana kuntabula mutwe in the mighty name of My Lord Christ Jesus 🙏🙏♥️
Thanks be to God
Are you for real,5 children in America? and u are a single mum, Big up for sure .
Iwe yamaawe abaana bataano tinkachihulilagaho since I have started watching these shows,iwe farook akuloonde otuhe interview 🙄🙄 eeehhhh my lord i wonder 🥰🥰🥰🥰💪💪💪big up to all of us single mothers,me 3 naye ndimu Uganda 😊
@@mujuzihikmah9464 Yes 5 in Spotsylvania County VA USA.
@@safinakichoncho5615 eeehhhh iwe for sure u are one in the million.💪💪
Refusing to move my kids to America is still one of the best decisions I have ever made in my life...
Allan l really support you
Really
Very true, moved mine and I regretted it. Had to take them back.
@@MK-256 you did a great job
You are a weak parent munaffe ngolabye mukwano!!! Balekeyo balikollela ewaffe anti nemilimu mingi kaati
Haaaah Mr Roy is back,this man is so intelligent and wise 🥰
Farouq thanks for hosting Him
Hi Asalam aleikumu
I think this interview even helps us the ssekadsmaz and Nakadamaz. It has been a great lecture for real 👏
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True coz I can see my boy now days coz I give him everything he wants n he is becoming nonsense 😭😭now oh God help us walai
Mr Roy is so wise, thanks dear for that good advice to all parents and their kids
What an interview!
Parenting is one of the toughest challenges that our Generation is facing. I thought Roy has done so well to dig deep into the reality that many a Diaspora Parent face. Pam dear,this is what we've always been talking about. Farouk,kudos to this piece..👌🙏🏼🤝👊
America is compared to a thick forest, you either find juicy fruits or get lost as you walk deep through it!!
Hahaha
What he says is true. I literally told my children when u are outside oli bulaaya naye when u are inside the house oli Africa
Good
Good but how did you make it dear l also want naye simanyi
When I the I brought materials bricks 🧱 cement at home 🏠 on Christmas 🎄 after spending 2yrs in Kampala My my instead she cried and I also started to cry 😭😭 and My second visit after 5months I went with closing doors glasses and windows she tached on my head cried and said you are blessed for the All of your life after 3months I boarded away am now 1yr and 5 months working in Emirates flights. May God protect my parents until they see the bazukulu Amen 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
My advice is for Parents to get time and do Bible study with Children bamanye Omukama Katonda, speak with your children, don't be friends be parents.
and the quran
Amen
@@fk5371 Yes and the Quran.
This is the best interviewee have seen on ur show. I hold a permanent residency which allow’s me to stay to countries in Europe expect UK but I refused to bring my children in Europe unless when their joining university
You're very smart and forward thinking. I lived moved back for the same reason,,,,,,,,,,,wanting an environment that would enable me to raise my kids the way they want and not the way government wants so that it can continue incarcerating my kind of people. The prison system is a game in the western countries. .
@@fk5371 Very true. I had and raised mine here in England but brought him up like we were raised, sikiliza kwesiliwaza. He’s now a big boy and im proud of him. Even if he’s way taller than me he knows who the parent is and would not dare disrespect me or any other adults. I also did myself a favour and moved to a smaller town away from London where trouble starts. Too many gangs, petty crime, grooming into gangs etc tend to start in big cities. If you have the option, raise kids in Africa, let them come for university studies and thereafter.
great thoughts here ✌️
But still is bad news at the university; sex and parties are rampant
@@bhariet7916 I agree with you but anyone above 18yrs 4rm Ug/Africa knows everything & all the efforts you/he has gone through to get a visa
This is the truth, nothing but the truth. 💐💐💐💐💐💐.
Wawawawa finally Roy has appeared. Big up to u brother Roy and brother farook serkozi. We really appreciate ur efforts towards building us across all walks of life. Ahmed Gossip live Ambassador in Qatar omu bwati.
The truth and nothing but the truth!! Roy is speaking for many parents in the diaspora. The pain and heartbreak many endure because of the grown kids they brought to the diaspora is unfathomable! Many regret their choices.
i am sorry naye oluusi, us the parents have alot to do with how these kids end up. When we go abroad we bring maalo and instead of knowing where we came from we want to behave like the people we found there. Instead of helping them to know where they came from "i hear comments alot.............the kids are American" as if they are untouchables. The parents who make these statements after the excitement of being in the US wears off then they start to see the pain of not counselling, and not setting expectations. Secondly, brining children before they finish senior six is too early because they don't appreciate the pains that their parents have gone through to get the papers. Keep the kids grounded. Help them not to forget the good values you have at home and help them be selective what they choose.
@@fk5371 You’re very right. Older kids fair better. And parents wanting to raise kids nga Americans doesn’t help. I had my child here and I raised him the same way I was raised not these tokuba baana, tobagambako etc and he knew not to try it on. He’s now grown and is a respectable human being, taddamu bakulu, taleekana, etc.
Ekikulu you parents pick lots of hours and forget these kids need your attention too so they seek attention elsewhere
@@motungi5520 True, Naye anti nabe’kampala bazibanja non-stop, Maama mulwadde, senga yafudde, olumbe lwataaata, kojja boda yamukoonye and if those parents don’t send money nga bagamba yye maama since she took her kids takyatufaako. Case of between a rock and a hard place.
Ebiseera ebisinga the feeling of accomplishment kubside yameka brings in lots of issues, abaana buli wamu beetaga guidance home oba diaspora, most of the people in diaspora bayita wala okutuuka kukyebagala nebeerabira. I went to school with classmates that had parents in diaspora naye we attended traditional schools here and they were only able to join their parents after high school, they've turned out successful in all their endeavours. Abantu eno mubabuulire byemuyitamu okubasanyusa. Nekirala empower your extended families by supporting them to start up self sustaining projects. Kyanaku nti mubeera kubunkenke over every phone call that comes in okuvabeno.mulekere awo okumala gagaba freebies kubanga mulemaza abantu bamwe nebabafukira sitaani.
This message is so important to both of us in Uganda and abroad may God help us do things that will make our parents proud 🙏🙏🙌
Bring yo children, put them in private schools, spare time for and with them, they should be fine! Ebya long distance nabyo sibyangu
Teach them the word of God.
But as he said, young age is better than above 15yrs.
100% on point!
I believe in chores housework, limit screen time, family time is a must. Watch shows together, go to mall together, go to restaurants together. Talk to your children. You are so right. Who are their friends. American born or not, children need boundaries. Even when you have maids in Uganda, children should have chores, help with cooking and cleaning.
Am not in diaspora but I have liked ur quote of moving out of a relationship which is not developmental, it's the best decision I have ever made in life
Am still confused, i want to get out of this relationship because its not developmental at all, but i have a daughter in him it still hard for me to make final decision. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 because i fear to start over
Big up Mr Farooq Sarqoz and Mr Roy Mubiru , that was a very interesting topic, we face so many challenges abroad but we should never forget where we come from, we need to embrace our culture, values and traditions.
Ur right dear
@@rinahkayz9508 Hey beautiful, greetings and blessings to you.
@Ronnie Wamala Greetings too dear 🙏thanks for always following 😊
True
But by the time some of you realise its too late. If we stop malala, things can change. But the more we start to behave like the people we found their we are doomed.
This is very true. Here in the U.K. the kids getting knifed are black kids, most are those who grew up in africa and came here. Those born here usually will go on and finish school Naye bebaleese!! Hoh! One parent didn’t even know her 11 year old boy had a gun under his mattress. She only found out when police came to her house and she swore they had the wrong address Naye aba police bakebela. They found it and he confessed they were blackmailing him threatening to kill his mum so he hid the gun for a gang to protect his Mum. Abaana kilungi basomere Uganda and come here for universit. Ofcourse every parent wants to be with their kids and you can’t advise especially if yours were born here Naye kyanaku nnyo.
My dear what I see here is a different story. It's personality . Those are doing mass shooting are for bazungu. Though Omulya mamba ...... Even those for whites or born there are wasted.
Mukkirize nti na mwe abazadde tumufuddeyo. But i repeat it's personality EVEN IF he or she remained in Uganda would be spoiled.
I saw a documentary that said it's actually white kids doing more stabbing than black kids, but for some reason it's black kids that are usually put in media making it seem like it's mostly black kids.
@@day2dayhuman44 In London, there are areas where mostly black kids will be involved in knife crime. There are areas like North London where minorities have settled and white people have vacated. Yes some white kids will be involved but mainly black kids.
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I agree taking children abroad during university. They are old enough to appreciate their identity sikubeera mu maalo. I came abroad to study in university and I’m grateful that I enjoyed my earlier years in Uganda
Thank you for interviewing this Gentleman, I have learned a lot. The truth is, if we don't go back to our foundations, the majority are heading for destruction. Thank you Mr. Roy, well said. I concur with all you have stated.
I like this gentleman's take on so many things. Infantilization of children is very real . Treat them the same way you'd treat them in Uganda. Don't babysit them .
Maziima kids can disappoint surely but parents do all it takes to make them become important people
You said the truth. I went to America and saw my sister"s children who were taken at the age of 13 yes doing exactly that. Keep uour children in Africa.
You have said it all our children have let us down 😢😢😢😢😢
Mr Roy Mubiru u have reminded me of linked clip of one of the Uganda's tycoon 🤔musajja wattu nakaba amaziga nayenga muwalawe ne nyina bebamukabya ku bintu bye byakoleredde ebbanga🥺things do happen in daily life jst abamu tetufuna chance bilaba. Nd this goes to parents to groom their children accordingly 😌 kuba tewali kiswaza nga mwana kuyisamu maso nga tamanyi biki byoyisemu okumutusa wali. Lord have mercy on our kids 🙏
Mwanagwe it's God's mercy me I can't blame anyone on a spoilt kid whether here in Uganda or outside it's only pleading to God as soon as u get pregnant,Ur role u do it but put that kid Infront of God's mercy
Mr.Farooq l appreciate u guyz Mr.Farooq l need yr number sir
@@sara-zm1pq me too
@@esthergeorgia6394 ok dia some one help us we need Mr.Farooqz number
@@sara-zm1pq even farooq himself cant help us 😅😅😅
Oh my God watched this interview to the end this man is very correct I have a friend her kids one is 28 another is 32 but these kids balisiza mummy wabwe akakanja bange one day she almost cried she came and tell me that am so tired I told her sorry she told me can u imagine I went in the fridge to take milk to cook for my husband and I find milk finish the way am tired I had to go to supermarket to buy another one and I have to wash also their clothes I was so mad I asked ger why she doesn’t tell these kids who wash them she just looked at me and cried the kids cnt do anything at home and makes matters worse one she is a lady I was like what she alway brings the boy friend to eat the food and she cnt do anything in the house it’s their mum who is doing everything.
Banange she shouldn't wash the children's clothes.Ya bakuza bubi
Good evening everyone watching ,Farooq nd Roy Mubiru we are glad to see u again. We thank the almighty we are still alive 🙏 many are gone ,many are sick , Lord we give you the glory.
Amen, praise the Lord, the most important thing is the air we breath for free.
@@ronniewamala5768 Exactly 💯 👏 we glorify HIS holy name 🙏
Okera dear
Allahuma ameen yarabi
Amen 🙏 all the glory and honour belong to him always 🙏❤️
Owemamba webale ebigambo ebyo. Tufunyemu nga abazadde. Webale nemizzanyo egyo - you portray patriotism. God bless
For sure rising kids in the states is not easy. Me am am bringing mine back home.
I have UgShs15million how can i get there.
I came to the USA when am 29 years old, lived in the USA for 7 years, and am a citizen, in 7 years of living here I have learned a lot worse and good. To my knowledge, I can't raise my kids in the USA period.
The guy speaks from bottom of his heart bambi may God help him
We thank God for the gift of life. Roy Mubiru, thanks for that good advice and for being a good parent. We that God guides both us parents and our children.
Best interview and not only USA but also Uganda here .My best interview for 2023.
Naaaaaa
I don’t have children in the US
But this guy is saying the truth
Thank you Sir
Loud and clear 👌
Alina amatu?!
God is the answer!!!
The man is speaking the bitter truth.
Am thankful to God, i have 2 teenagers , excellent in school, doing their chores as asked,volunteering in different organizations, they both have jobs .So it depends where you leave,ur environment how you have rised your children ,parent involvement . Educating your children your family values . Not all kids in diaspora are spoiled kids.We got lots of awesome kids from uganda in my community here in diaspora.
True. Thanks 4 this encouragement
But he said some not all
I like this guy. He's real. Many Basama come here telling lies or talking about things they don't understand
Only those that have witnessed what he is talking about will understand and Sakozi this is the best episode for me
Am first today some bu likes
HMMM
Mubutwalangawa??
@@rinahkayz9508 🤣🤣
Oba mubukozesanga ki🤭🤭🤭
@@rinahkayz9508 bunyumira ku coment😁
Part of the problem is parents working day and night 24/7. Parents have to allow time with their kids.
Somehow correct but leave room for debate on your comment.
Yoooooooo soooo right
exactly,working day ad night leaving kids alone
Exactly.
Parents must be involved in their kids’ lives.
Zino nsonga nkulu elifena abazade Mr.Roy tweyanzizanyo mukwano ekigambo ekilungi bambi Mr.farooq webale kutuweleza mkn 🙏
I'm the first here, Thank you mukulu Farooq
Great talk. I have seen one guy who reached in America and joined gay gangs. He was deported in a critical condition with Hiv on a death bed. Kati Ali Uganda anywa waragi. Maamawe yeyali yamutwala
Really, oh too bad
Now this is a wild tale if I ever saw one 😆 🤣 😂. Gay gang?? Where in America does one exist? 😆 🤣 😂 😹. Please stop making stuff up just for the sake of it.
@@Kony.2 are you one of them? Or you call yourself human activists to cover up the word gay. OK, what do they call a group of gays or homosexuals?. Never argue what you don't know. We talk with proof because the person iam talking about is in my family
What a pity! Are you in Uganda so that you can have talks about this. The recruiters are selling them a different story bambi. It's so sad.
@lady Justice🌹 so to you all groups are gangs? 😆 🤣 😂 when you are with your friends as a group you fit the definition of the word gang?lol Don't just use words without knowing their meaning 😆 😄
That’s the bitter truth ku #Bulaaya It would have been better bwaba asuka 17 years sooka omuleke amalirize university afune concept yobuvunanyizibwa awo tojja kola Loss 👌…Thanks for the show Mukulu #ROY & Swahaba #FAROOQ 😘👋
I agree with you 100%
i think omwana nebwomutwala after s.6 immediately natandika university mu america it works
True majority can talk English well but development 0
Ono omwami muzadde ddala owenjawulo, nze ndiku side yo Taata tweyanzizzannyo okutulungamya nobutabikkilila nsongankulu eyo abanji jebabuusa amaaso ate nga ekabya amaziga
Yeah......ayogera amazima. So educative
i think he was once a victim in this some where some how
i dont normally comment but this man explains everything better abilabye
Thanks for the show Farooq and Mr Roy. This show so interesting and educative I really appreciated it.
Thank you very much
The interview has been soooooo nice
Thank you gentlemen. Omwami oyo byayogera newano e Uganda bwekiri. Once your children start distancing and locking themselves in the room, just know they are up to no good. Immediately start the strict talk and grounding. Be it here in Uganda. Kawukumi neeno yatuuka dda!
As parents we need to learn financial literacy as well, borrow some tactics from others in building wealth , self discipline, among others and also have a strong religious values
Roy you’re very right 100% what we’re going through some times regret big time .
Family life here is terrible
This is nice, we parents should learn atleast. Thank you Farouk
Sarkozy we are also waiting for you here in Canada
Thank you Farooq.Anti Babeera Bubuulirira Owaaboobwe , Ng'owomunnaku Okutu Nkunkumula@ Ebigambo By a Mr.Mubiru.R.Bituufu nnyo Era Ow'okuyiga Ayige.
Bambi thank you so much this the tru story wich this Man saying this what the parents we'are passing through even me I.m so happy and proud of this guy. thanks a lot mukwano wow be blessed so much my dear friend. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🤝
Waoo great idea
Mr Roy thanks for good words 🙏 very informative interviews I dedicate this interview to Frank Gashumba nd others parents of such caliber. Farooq thanks for the show blessings guys.
🤣🤣🤣🤣 Naye Rinah ela gashumba omuyingizza mu nsonga zino 🤣🤝
@@lulehassan2039 Munange nalabye nga emusana 😂ayinza ojjeyambiza
@@rinahkayz9508 oyo guy i don't think he can borrow a leaf seriously the fool lives in denials and dreams that he wants his daughter to be like Rihanna Beyonce etc notunula u even like 😭😭😭 nalyoka yewubba ku zilediyo noseeka 🤔
May God bless and guide all parents
I have alot of friends i went to boarding school with in Uganda here in USA very successful. We never forgot where we came from. Some of us dont come out in the limelight. It all depends on how one was brought up and what they learnt along the way. Otherwise these issues happen in every race, nationalities, ethnicities in states and else where that i've come across.
Attending conventions has nothing to do with getting spoilt. Thank God that whoever raised you remembered to continue counselling you and didn't just leave you to the Government/State to raise you
Very true
Absolutely it depends on the nurturing.... If u were nurtured properly there is no way you can adopt unethical conducts,,,, Nze newengenda wa I can never never change my behaviors' coz whenever am going astray doing anything wrong, I always reflect on how my parents will feel plus the society where I grew up
Hei hope yo ok how can l work on my paperwork
@@babiryeracheal983 Go through previous videos, they have a section that talks about applying for the rotary visa for the US and Canada. For the US it starts sometime next month, hope that helps.
We said Mr Roy and thanks for being responsible parent, catching show live from Holmegaard Denmark 🏴
Wow😳…I swear this is so True. This guy is a genius on explanation everything is spot on‼️😳😳
This man has spoken very, it's not easy raising kids in these developed countries ,only God plus how the parents bring up their kids.
This man is talking reality kids of this generation olemwa
I came across this video, but it's really nice to us parents .
But me,I thank God for the time being,
I have my 3 boys here,one's now 17 -internship ,earning something, but we share our bills.
But very true coz he came here when 14,and he always wanted that job .so it was an advantage to him to percu his career .
I've learnt alot from this episode
Me too
🙏🏽 wo kubana kubawo nyo nyo abazade twagara nyo okuwana wana abana nga ate tukweka empisa embi kwebatude
And that's the biggest problem too much love
I rarely watch this channel. But I have liked 👍 this gentleman's views . Thanks Farooq 😊
This is Real Truth
Moment Of Truth
Thank you ba Sebbo Mr Farouk ne Mr Roy.
Message ntufu nyo newano mu Europe abazade byebyo byebasanga.
Thanks for the insights Farouk and this gentleman enlightening us more about life in diaspora thanks so much 🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬🙏🙏🙏
Weebare kutuweereza Mr Serkoz❤
America has both sides, good and bad, it depends where they land and the group they join, all in all, only Jesus can help🙌🙏am sure all parents try, naye bigaana bugaanyi, emizimu ejili wano miyitilivu!
Some parents don't try because they are too busy making ends meet, and think that just because US has been marketed as a second heaven things are just going to fall in place. When you stand near a parking lot you don't become a car. If you have been counselling them at home, don't stop just because you are still dealing with the excitement of material things that America has to offer.
@@fk5371 yea 👌🤝
By JESUS U MEAN GO??
u are totally right about life in USA....
True what your talking about naye abazadde tebagala ebyo biwulila, they pretend to be modernised!!!!!! Parents watch out
Thanks 🤝what's saying is 100%but nze i blame this on parents reason being they say they love their kids in the end they are now crying but wen they are the trouble causes 🤞
Tx Roy ur on point we parents in diaspora we need to hear this its 4 real our generation is being depleted if we dont caution our kids .let's go back to the basics tx Farouk 4 this episode much appreciated
thank you for the guidance, parents are hurting alot.
Thanks Farouk for these informative videos, we greatly appreciate. However my opinion is that this is
Thanks Farouk for these informative videos, your content is relevant. We greatly appreciate. However, my opinion is that this is not gossip it is realty and therefore title should change from gossip live to probably facts live or something better.
Mr. Roy annyonyodde bulungi ensongaaa era etegelekese bulungi nnyooo
This interview is so raw and real , love it,
Assalam aleikum ww everyone here thx for updating us wallah
Thanks for representing Mr Farouk
This is the best interview I have ever see,,this is real
Thanks for coming out and talk the truth which is good to some of us.
Farouq, you have to always remind us to “like & subscribe.” Olwa leero nze lwenzijukidde to “like.” So nno buli k’oteekayo nkalaba!
As a Parent you're 100% accountable for your child's behavior. Omwaana talina rights nga okyamusuza munyumbayo. Bwomuwa rights obeera olemeredwa nga omuzadde.
Mr, Farooq thanks for the work done, I am requesting you to host a lawyer who studied his or her bachelor's in Uganda and relocated to America and continued with his or her career.
Thanks you so much on that topic, that’s 100% true
Thxs Farooq for bringing such people, am really greatly for this.
Naye banange 😂😂
Mr. Roy onseseza mbu agwa ku maama nakayima😂
I’ve pretty much grown up here and I’ve noticed that most Ugandan parents either spoil their kids or aren’t involved in their children’s lives. It’s not entirely the kid’s fault, Ugandan parents need to actively create healthy relationships with their children, talk to them and get to know them. Otherwise don’t be surprised if those kids don’t talk to you.
Mukulu Farooq osaana kufuna green card you may have one already I don't know, according to your shows, you are indeed doing a great job.
I know with a green card you would be able to move in and out bcz we need you here and back home too.
Your shows are very interesting 👍💪
In other Nations too, I have just read one comment from one in Canada,naye abuuza ogendeyo ddi?,am sure it is the same question from many Ugandans all over the World, bangi bajja kwagala okukukyaaza.
Nange nkulinze mu Washington DC.
@@joyjoyce7141 kitufu nyoo bambi Canada pipo are commenting calling him to visit them Australia etc nawe maybe accommodation and cash issues but let's wait and see
@@lulehassan2039 Mukulu Farooq is doing a great job, we pray for him God to use him reaching many! He is also very professional, bravo man💪
@@joyjoyce7141 AMINAH 🙏🙏
He's right even in Uganda my son did that to I thought he's grown up but know something was wrong I found out after 8 years 😭😭😭 I blamed myself 💔💔
Did what exactly. All those things?
You should not blame yourself.They chose the wrong way and those are home.Just pray for him and that’s it.
Mr Roy thanks for opening our eyes 👌👌and Mr Farooq thanks for the show
Thanks brothers 🙏 was a great show 👌 🙌 🙌