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Relationship Advice | Jordan B Peterson
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 22 เม.ย. 2020
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You have made a new man outta me: eight years ago in prison cell.....and today....I’m a productive, dependable member of my family and society AND I’m getting married!!!! Thank you doctor, from my soul.....THANK YOU BROTHER 🙏🏽
That is so awesome. Thank yourself too, you are the change you want.
blueone black I’m humbled 🙏🏽
bro momento I appreciate you beloved 💙💙💙 but Jordan is the REAL inspiration here....truly: he has taught me how to talk, walk, think, observe, listen, and perhaps most important of all....WHEN TO SPEAK AND WHEN TO SHUT UP 🤐 because that’s why my Creator gave me 1 mouth 👄 but TWO ears 👂🏼 so that we MIGHT actually listen to some blessed son of a wonderful woman ACTUALLY SHOW US WHERE & HOW WE’RE F***ING UP! I HOLD MYSELF TO ACCOUNT TODAY! I owe it all to Dr Peterson 💎 He truly IS A LIGHT IN DARK AND DANGEROUS TIMES!!! Godspeed brother! Please forgive my verbosity here...but the stuff just brings me to passion cuz I BELIEVE 💙🙇🏻♂️💙🙏🏽
Karma Matters Oh brother you are far far too kind!! I ONLY [finally] DID WHAT I HAD BEEN SUPPOSED TO HAVE BEEN DOING ALL ALONG, and wow ..... imagine my surprise WHEN IT ACTUALLY STARTED FALLING INTO PLACE 🙇🏻♂️💎🙇🏻♂️ I’ll stop typing now! Lol 😂 Forgive my talkativeness, PLEASE! Stay Blessed, beloved!
Dronesconnection Drone/UAV Svs yes, Jordan was the messenger but you LISTENED and changed. Without your inner strength it would not have happened. Value yourself. Your humility shows your sincerity. I’m no a bro, I am a woman. Perhaps I need to change my profile picture. 😂
It makes me so happy seeing this man smile and laugh. These are tough times in his life.
I'm not sure what you meant cause it seemed like you thought that this is a recent video.
This is an older video, actually.
It’s JUST GOOD TO SEE HIM SMILE 😊 PERIOD🤣😄
@@DronesConnection that is absolutely amazing, indeed :)
He is doing better as far as I know.
I've said this before but man does he look so much happier in this video than in some of his more recent lectures. He just seems more carefree in this video.
Even with a master's degree, I don't feel like I've learned anything compared to what I learn every time I listen and re-listen to JBP's videos. What an absolute treasure trove of wisdom and knowledge he makes available for all of us! Thank you, Dr. Peterson! Hope you and your family are doing well.🤗
Laura Van Voorhees 💎💎💎💎💎💎
A Master's degree doesn't mean anything, especially the one you have isn't psychology related. 😂
Maybe they should create "nice weekend syndrome" instead nice man syndrome.
Person who is available fully, for n idea of "nice weekend syndrome"..
they are fully commited for a partner, with all their attention, because it is mutual,
and if both are fully commited, they can not be at the same time "toxically commited"....their kids are playing along too.
It´s not "too available for a partner", its just misconception of true bond...
because bond is a mutual feeliung from two people.
either you are both commited or you are not.
Make idea once a week going to a nature, camping or hiking with a family, play silly games, with some ball, or do tenis,
husband will bond more with wife, wife will bond more with husband, thanks to innocent silly games.
I mean games like "who will" make the tent first etc
or who will prepare food, or something little just for fun,
bringing some mushroom,
in such innocent moment wife and husband enjoy the moments of silence, and gentle loving touch, holding hands while walking in nature,
or he helps making a camp fire, she will hand him the stuff from bag, without any silly analytical "thoughts" in head
looking into each others eyes, without words,
Actions speak louder than constantly anlyzing,
In silence they actually create "bonding loving" atmposphere in their marriage.
People dont practice this silent approach,
just sitting looking in camp fire and enjoy family time, or riding a horse together, walking a dog silently, and enjoying the other person´s presence,
they are taught by media, to just talk all the time,
so they dont have time to fall in love over and over again.
But usually you fall in love especially when your mouth are shut, when your mind isnt too rational in prefrontal cortex,
and eyes open, not in times of constant analyzis.
so ypou let your heart speak sometimes too. Its called brain heart coherence, in state of alpha, theta.
Laughter is healling and laughter makes people bond together.
Children may learn new hobbies,, in the nature.. It is better than being constantly attacked by news and silly topics on social media,
or being brainwashed to eat some pills to feel happier.
Hobbies and laughter is good stimulation for brain, also it increases immunity of the body, so people feel healthier, happier.
I imagine the comical part of Jordan trying to say "Hey honey I finally got it, we must treat us like rats".
Miss you man. Waiting your update hoping everything it's better.
I want to meet this dude, once in my life time.
When Mr. Peterson laughs and smiles, he looks like a small, happy little boy. That's beautiful !
Yup! :)
Hi beautiful how are you.
Do you mind for a private chat
OMG..... seriously this is the first and only time that I have seen J.P looking so bright and cheery, and smiling and laughing too! It's obviously rare that he's like this, but as most of us know he has lived through a lot of tough times and he is very serious about his work and so he doesn't give too much humour because he's working his mind and opening it up for us all. Great to see a different side to him. Really glad of that
This 10 minute clip is worth more than piles of gold.
True
"Have the courage to say no. Have the courage to face the truth. Do the right thing because it is right. These are the magic keys to living your life with integrity." - W. Clement Stone
Can we get an update on how you are Mr. Peterson?
We’re worried. 🐣
Animal Racional 2.0 damn that sux, I stay off social media, ‘cept this.
@@matthewjones8798 Mikhalia has said he's doing better and is able to exercise and do work some days but other days he has to rest. She also said it will probably be another 6 months of recovery till he doing well again. However that was a estimate based on his current condition. (From memory but I think I've got the most of it)
There's a video of Jordan from a couple weeks ago where he's racing a remote controlled toy car through his garden.
He's doing well and recovering. He's now working on his new book 12 more rules: Beyond order. He's also looking for an illustrator for his book last I checked. Every applicant has do an illustration of the Fool.
Matthew Jones you can find interviews with of Mikhalia Peterson with Jordan Peterson n you tube.
☘️🌝🌲
He took on demons and it takes its toll, bless him.
I was hoping this was a new clip but I see that it's not. Praying that this dear man who has helped so many people is just this happy and healthy again very soon. 🙏❤🙏❤🙏
I'm always surprised when I meet people who have been influenced by Peterson since I often think I am the only one.
Seeing jordan peterson smile put a smile on my face! Glad he is in good spirits & back doing what he loves.
Intelligent, witty and with the right sense of humor, I love listening to him! He is just great!!
Seems as though Dr. Peterson was having a good day this day he seems particularly charasmatic in this clip
God Bless and keep you dearest Dr Peterson
We wish you all health and wellness, and that you get well soon, Dr. Peterson!
Glad to see him healthy I hope this is new lastI heard he was sick. He's a 1 n a million person that comes in this world only once in a long while.
We miss you.
As someone who is starting her first relationship ever, this is incredibly good advice, thank you very much.😄
I love Dr. Peterson. Absolute lad. ✌🏽
Sum-up:
Point 1. FIGURE OUT what YOU need.
Point 2. INFORM your partner about that.
Point 3. SHOW APPRECIATION when he/she does that.
😊👍
I love this clip so much, there's so much joy!
Love this and You are such an idol to me. Please know how important you are to us all.
You're smiling, Dr Peterson :) God bless you.
God it’s soooo good to see you smile 😃
Nice to see him laugh
After finding out about you and harboring great appreciation for your views, imagine my surprise and surge of pride when I learned that, like myself, you grew up an Alberta boy. Thank you for your example, and your willingness to not only articulate it but also releasing so much material for us to consider. Keep getting better Jordan, one day at a time.
Thank you for all your insights Dr. Peterson. You work so hard to improve the lives of others.
I love to listen to everything you say. I learned a lot from you😊
This is actually one of the greatest piece of romantic advice. This another clip of Mr. Peterson speaking about the arrangement of muturally stepping away mid conversation and thinking about what are the set of things you've done recently that increased the probablility of ending up in this fight and then go to your partner and apologise.
Would be amazing to learn from Jordan haha he’s an awesome teacher
“How to Train Your Partner” 101.
Also, how to train your partner to train you.
Appreciate all 🙏❤️
I don't have a relationship, but thanks for the advice👍
Gracias Maestro Jordan Peterson
I hope i can see you being this's inusiastic again in the future ^^ Damn i'm about to cry :')
I may have to try this. I’m 40 and I’d basically resigned myself to a miserable married life forever.
Loved this! so useful
Love the arithmetic trick!
Probably the best days of his lectures
Very good.
It is easier to build someone up than tear them down.
everyone, this is a very old clip, his daughter is releasing stuff for him as he is recovering from some rough times. If you are reading this Ms. Peterson you better be taking good and smart care of your father, people still need him.
I’m sure she is doing a great job of taking care of her father.
@Psychonaut I don't thing that he/she meant that.
Incredible advice. About the punishment for good things. I can see how I did that and how it terribly backfired on me in a way I am not sure I will recover from. At least not in long time.
I'm just going echo other comments, it's good to see you smile jordan
Good clip. It helps me realize some people are too stupid to be trained even when I offer to learn simultaneously.
So informative as per usual 😊😊😊
Wow, great advice!
thc and thx
He looks so happy 😆
I hope Dr. Peterson and family are in good health 🙏🏾☀️🌴🙌🏾
The overall message here is communication, especially positive directive communication. Speak your mind. Don't always assume someone is going to know something.
Miss your videos, take care and heal
me too
great
Same advice applies to parenting too... I think that's what my mom did, be patient and reward me when I do something meritorious
I want to press the 'Like' button like 10 times - such a wise man 💪
give and take.
Fight the good fight
1- reducing it to the bare minimal
2- 4:20 people love potential
3- arthimatic
In an old movie I think Marilyn Monroe how to train your husband she used a dog training book how to train you puppy which was quite comical but it is exactly what you are saying here. It works with kids too.😁
1:28 Ironically I like being left alone as soon I come home. If you start talking to me, I usually start yelling...
True and funny video.
Yeahhhh the all mighty Jordan B Peterson is alive and well!
This is from 2015. But, yeah he's doing better.
@@astrojeet how can you tell then?
@@rahoo4114 His newsletters from his website. He's already started working on his next book 12 more rules: beyond order.
He's also looking for an illustrator. Every applicant has to submit an illustration of the Fool. He's still recovering though.
@@astrojeet that's great! Thank you! I can't wait for him to get in to new paradigms. He can do even better, he got the experiencie and the theory. He is a great reference.
Need Help, I’ve been listening to Dr. Peterson for over 3 years, he’s clearly my number one go to guy. Who would you recommend as number two?
As of now, I have none
Lol great advice
He looks younger here.
I pray he is doing very well!
At 6:40 we can hear Kermit do a Mickey Mouse impression
What if I have asked my partner to stop telling me how I think and feel yet they continue to do it multiple times a day for years?
🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡
What do I do after my room is clean?
Exceed Your Potential With Alex Brass fight the dragon of chaos
@@AthenaTheWolf and after that?
6 people got dumped
Wow. FUCK. I didn't realize how backwards and wrong I've been. Thank you. I'll try this.
Dang! JP looking fine!
When was this, he looks slightly younger and heavier
In my opinion ,when someone is calling you stupid, it's a form of belittling you... that is not acceptable. If it becomes repetitive, that's abuse. There's no rewarding abusive behavior.
I wanna see Jordan Peterson and John Gottman have a conversation. Gottman's "bids" theory is like Peterson's "bam! That was good" M.O.
What if someone just says horrible things out of anger and says sorry later?
first!
i dont have the paitence for this. ill die alone
Mondays of meaning...
Did he just say I have to manipulate my girlfriend? (If I had one)
No??
You changed, you look like you are happier and jounger.
This is an older clip.
Lmao junger
Junger😅
Why does he look younger
A video from a previous year, most likely? 😊
The video is a couple of years old
This is from 2015 I believe.
Hey good people! Have a great relationship!
Cuz I am watching this video being single ... Single as hell..... Jeez
Hey it's been 2 days had any luck yet?
Hey it's been 6 months had any luck yet?
Haha 😆 just demolishing any chance at confidence in the recipient! Lol 😆
Maybe they should create "nice weekend syndrome" instead nice man syndrome.
Person who is available fully, for n idea of "nice weekend syndrome"..
they are fully commited for a partner, with all their attention, because it is mutual,
and if both are fully commited, they can not be at the same time "toxically commited"....their kids are playing along too.
It´s not "too available for a partner", its just misconception of true bond...
because bond is a mutual feeliung from two people.
either you are both commited or you are not.
Make idea once a week going to a nature, camping or hiking with a family, play silly games, with some ball, or do tenis,
husband will bond more with wife, wife will bond more with husband, thanks to innocent silly games.
I mean games like "who will" make the tent first etc
or who will prepare food, or something little just for fun,
bringing some mushroom,
in such innocent moment wife and husband enjoy the moments of silence, and gentle loving touch, holding hands while walking in nature,
or he helps making a camp fire, she will hand him the stuff from bag, without any silly analytical "thoughts" in head
looking into each others eyes, without words,
Actions speak louder than constantly anlyzing,
In silence they actually create "bonding loving" atmposphere in their marriage.
People dont practice this silent approach,
just sitting looking in camp fire and enjoy family time, or riding a horse together, walking a dog silently, and enjoying the other person´s presence,
they are taught by media, to just talk all the time,
so they dont have time to fall in love over and over again.
But usually you fall in love especially when your mouth are shut, when your mind isnt too rational in prefrontal cortex,
and eyes open, not in times of constant analyzis.
so ypou let your heart speak sometimes too. Its called brain heart coherence, in state of alpha, theta.
Laughter is healling and laughter makes people bond together.
Children may learn new hobbies,, in the nature.. It is better than being constantly attacked by news and silly topics on social media,
or being brainwashed to eat some pills to feel happier.
Hobbies and laughter is good stimulation for brain, also it increases immunity of the body, so people feel healthier, happier.
Cool. I was looking for Fat Peterson. I like him better.
I would compromise and get him a Dog, to greet him at the door every day. The Dog would do a more convincing job of it anyway, I'd only be faking it...
That's sad
The pre-Xanax days.
these "hurr durr peterson is an addict"-comments are so shallow and annoying.
@Psychonaut oh yea? well, I very much hope that you don't allow your mother or grandmother to take any drugs. because if they take them, they're weak and they can't handle life.
@Psychonaut so everyone who takes pharmaceuticals for mental health is weak?
@Psychonaut Nice, so anyone who has had a traumatic event or a biological disadvantage is a weak person. Got it. Fuck off.
@Psychonaut oh boo fucking hoo. people are kepts alive by these drugs. you probably need to grow up some.
@Psychonaut Oh, it's you again. Lol 😂 go play somewhere else, troll. Pathetic.
Utility over authenticity, not good. The chickens will come home to roost.
... Or just get a dog
Is this new? I am waiting for Jesus to return?
I never saw jordan with taht face. He seemed on drugs hahahaha
Thank you, but the laughs are annoying
Hi beautiful how are you?
Jordan Peterson is not the correct person to get relationship from.
He's been married for 35 years.
Relationship advice. Don't get into a relationship. Too much drama and complaining.
My goodness... I need this as a reminder in my day to day life. Thanks doctor!