How Men Fall In Love VS How Women Fall In Love

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  • @MegaLadylove2012
    @MegaLadylove2012 ปีที่แล้ว +2074

    And sometimes we can fall in love or become attached quickly but slowly fade away as we get to know you and don’t like your personality or how we’re being treated

    • @BulldogMindsetArchive
      @BulldogMindsetArchive  ปีที่แล้ว +345

      100%. Women want to be protected and cared for. Not what men in the boyosphere are preaching.

    • @moonlightstargem1006
      @moonlightstargem1006 ปีที่แล้ว +90

      Yes. The way we fall in love is how he treats us. Is he respectful or is he utterly disrespectful? He has to be kind and respectful. Sweet but not a pushover. Strong and have self respect for himself. He needs to care about people but again, not be too much of a people pleaser or pushover. But generous in his kindness. Self respecting and courageous. Bold & intelligent. Fun and adventurous.
      He needs to know what the woman he wants needs. And it’s not that complicated to give her that once he knows. And u’d find that women don’t require a whole lot. Just what a human needs. A quality experience of life. Women don’t care to make more than a man. We just care to have our own things & our own jobs and fun things we create. We just want stuff of our own & i’m so grateful we have that now. So thank you 🥰😘😘😘

    • @ilikepancakes2368
      @ilikepancakes2368 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      @@moonlightstargem1006 I would have to disagree with “he needs to know what the woman he wants needs”. Men are not mind readers and women’s feelings can change so we can’t always guess what she wants or needs at that moment.

    • @flyingdutchman2442
      @flyingdutchman2442 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@BulldogMindsetArchive Yup they care about protection and care waaaay more than looks and status. 😂

    • @AV-kr6gc
      @AV-kr6gc ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@BulldogMindsetArchive What are you? king white knight savior of the 304 realm?? Women will always value attention over any single man

  • @SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858
    @SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1423

    That's not love that's lust.

    • @thismypotato
      @thismypotato 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +116

      Lust is the need to do sexual taboo things with someone, emphasis on *need*. Love is long term, lust is short term.

    • @monejohn9973
      @monejohn9973 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Exactly

    • @bikoiscrazzy4007
      @bikoiscrazzy4007 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

      no that's just attraction lust is more of a obsession

    • @user-js9ns4sx1v
      @user-js9ns4sx1v 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      n-n-n-n not in love baby it’s just lust

    • @eldaguadiana6927
      @eldaguadiana6927 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

      @@bikoiscrazzy4007 Lust is not obsession that’s limerence. Lust is sexual desire. That’s all lust. One night stands are based off lust, not obsession. They are not the same thing.
      And attraction is more closely related to lust. If it’s any kind of sexual desire that is lust.

  • @Jonas-ej7id
    @Jonas-ej7id 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +129

    The way you described it for guys is called infatuation.
    Infatuation ≠ Falling in love

    • @hijack69
      @hijack69 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Not true always. In Infatuation you many attractive. In love at first sight, your heart beats at just a sight of them. Even talking normally with them becomes a huge task

    • @icysnow57cold64
      @icysnow57cold64 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Men and women think very differently from each other. It seems like it's impossible for men and women to emotionally connect with each other.
      Women do emotionally connect with other women, better than men do. Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone.

    • @littlelam3691
      @littlelam3691 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@hijack69that’s not love. It’s a crush. You cannot love someone you don’t know. That is a very superficial idea of love.

    • @SpaQueenRocks
      @SpaQueenRocks 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@icysnow57cold64Mistake #1: you talk as if men and women are a different species. You can't group them all into strict categories. Look at them as individuals, not some complex bug you have to decode. A lot of these problems are systemic. It's not that men are more logical and women are more emotional, it's just that women develop stronger social bonds growing up. The cycle is perpetuated, but it can be broken down.

    • @icysnow57cold64
      @icysnow57cold64 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@SpaQueenRocks Women have a far stronger emotional bond with other women than they do with men. The emotional bond between two women is far stronger than the emotional bond between a man and women is.
      It seems that men could never have a strong emotional bond with other men like how women do with each other. Men often don't complement their friends, while women are always complimenting each other. Women always complement their friends.

  • @randyupladek1855
    @randyupladek1855 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +206

    Anyone can fall in love with and “idea” of a person but time with that person is how real love grows .

  • @suzanmokwena2916
    @suzanmokwena2916 ปีที่แล้ว +1003

    not all guys fall in love the same way

    • @josephjones2917
      @josephjones2917 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      You're not all the in the same way but in general

    • @drecoracing
      @drecoracing 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      I wouldnt say this is general lol. Id say its the opposite

    • @DivyanshMalviya78
      @DivyanshMalviya78 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Sure thing for me too

    • @Burningdragon69
      @Burningdragon69 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      Man watching a this makes me think am I a girl because I don’t look at a girl and say she is the most beautiful girl ever it’s the personality that counts the most

    • @Tj21415
      @Tj21415 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      Facts...this dude sounds ridiculous..everyone is different..men and women

  • @joshuangqobololo3206
    @joshuangqobololo3206 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +706

    Women don't fall in love with you they fall in love with how you make them feel at that time

    • @ismailabubakarfaruq6997
      @ismailabubakarfaruq6997 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

      Underrated comment

    • @killa239
      @killa239 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      True Af only men r capable of ❤

    • @edikaramuratful
      @edikaramuratful 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Even if they're not physically attracted to you?

    • @59spadesofalife52
      @59spadesofalife52 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      Depends on the woman, generally if you keep giving them the same stimuli and provide them with “consistent” not too consistent affection over a long period of time. They eventually come around to some form of love.

    • @simplyblueroblox5619
      @simplyblueroblox5619 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@59spadesofalife52I love this comment so much bro

  • @gil_7038
    @gil_7038 ปีที่แล้ว +445

    Im a guy and i fall in love over time.

    • @BrooklynBaby-1
      @BrooklynBaby-1 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      How long

    • @chaitanyagupta6668
      @chaitanyagupta6668 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      ​@@BrooklynBaby-1 5 seconds.

    • @Ksiuiu
      @Ksiuiu 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    • @yonggeun4222
      @yonggeun4222 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      maybe youre gay

    • @ShaquilleOatmeal755
      @ShaquilleOatmeal755 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@chaitanyagupta6668sometames I came but you don’t have to with me let’s do it somewhere outside tomorrow with the kids and bring pizza to the game

  • @Relle.
    @Relle. ปีที่แล้ว +279

    You are not inlove. You are in lust. And that is alright. Just have emotional intelligence to know the difference.

    • @tairschol6910
      @tairschol6910 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

      Agree. I mean you can't fall in love with a stranger. You might want to have sex but "fall in love"? No. That's why "love at first sight" doesn't exist.

    • @Relle.
      @Relle. 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@Carolbaskin23that’s interesting… the eyes part. I’ve experienced something like this but it was like I recognized their soul. It wasn’t love but definitely a deep connection through the eyes. ✨🙏🏽

    • @user-qd8gm8uh2o
      @user-qd8gm8uh2o 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Carolbaskin23all girls know how to make a man think they’re falling with their eyes tbh it’s just lust once you talk to to them for a while that you know

    • @ryokohonda4619
      @ryokohonda4619 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Nope. I know some men fell in love at first sight with someone not their type.

    • @Relle.
      @Relle. 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@ryokohonda4619 some , not the majority. And I still believe it is lust for them until they talk to her to confirm if it is something deeper.

  • @Stranger_Edits-011
    @Stranger_Edits-011 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +174

    As a girl, I sometimes forget that boys fantacise about girls. Probably cry bcuz of us. Daydream about us. Wishing we would notice them. I feel a lot better now that I know boys don’t just care about football. They actually have warming feelings too.

    • @Black_ShadowJR
      @Black_ShadowJR 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      How do you know that someone at school likes you? Yeah I don’t think so. But probably.

    • @Stranger_Edits-011
      @Stranger_Edits-011 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Black_ShadowJR ?

    • @rehaanunleashed5495
      @rehaanunleashed5495 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@Stranger_Edits-011Girls think that we are only lustful
      .
      Hence i have so many girls trying to attract me using their body and its very distracting

    • @krsol439
      @krsol439 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ​@@Stranger_Edits-011 well that's the thing. What's the point though when women never like a man enough to just ask him out. Because they can wait for them to come around and ask them out. I hate that we do that but it's evolutionary. I wish we were incapable of liking you all as you all are incapable of intimacy and romance. Just waiting for that one guy you don't even like to convince you to date or marry them. And all the life you can just pass a fake smile and fake the love because you never even liked them in the first place. What's the point to date then when the girl never even likes you what's the point of touching her when she doesn't even like to touch you. She just fakes it for whatever reasons.

    • @Sonicxis4ever
      @Sonicxis4ever 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Why wouldn’t we have feelings and fantasize about women? Lol

  • @parker_chess
    @parker_chess 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    I feel like instantly falling in love is more of a younger guy trait.

  • @katescame1
    @katescame1 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    By the time i fall in love hes already met someone he fell in love at first sight

  • @BarbaraInspires17
    @BarbaraInspires17 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Man, woman, boy or girl that’s called infatuation/lust anytime someone doesn’t take time to evaluate boundaries, morals, values, beliefs, financial goals or any goals that can influence any relationship.
    Take it slow. Don’t ignore the red flags & inform yourself of toxic relationships of any dynamics. Do the work on yourself first for a while before any relationship.

  • @Ishwarinair
    @Ishwarinair 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +69

    I saw a guy while i was walking,
    I fell for him instantly,
    We talked,
    Now we've been together for 4 years :)

    • @urbanobstacles
      @urbanobstacles หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      How often you cheat on him?

  • @florance333
    @florance333 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    when a guy looks at a girl he isn't falling in love, he's interested in her sexually

    • @WMB6022
      @WMB6022 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Agreed.
      The falling in love comes later after a few bedroom sessions lol

    • @rect8366
      @rect8366 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      It's quite the opposite fore tho, i just can't seem to imagine her sexually and don't know if thats good or bad

    • @xeox4280
      @xeox4280 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Nah

    • @baddinagardina629
      @baddinagardina629 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      exactly idk what he talking about women fall in love quicker

    • @heya.1ts.meG0ku
      @heya.1ts.meG0ku 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That’s what people think, but me, as a man, I don’t have that type of love, I don’t look at girls “sexually”, It’s their smile.

  • @Tips4youu142
    @Tips4youu142 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    No not at all True, I’m a girl and I fall in love like at first sight

    • @thateahmar5882
      @thateahmar5882 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Guy me never fall in love first glance.......i sometimes think I have a mental of women

    • @Lisa_M_V
      @Lisa_M_V 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      But then if he is disrespectful or racist unkind etc if you are still in love with him then you don’t love yourself enough. Self respect is walking away from low quality men

  • @geoeconomics5629
    @geoeconomics5629 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Men are in Love
    Women are in Business

  • @puppygirl3467
    @puppygirl3467 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I'm surprised why do ppl keep comparing " females" and "males" ppl are different those are two things that cannot be compared...at least in my point of view

  • @adrianwillis66
    @adrianwillis66 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Facts. The way he behaves can change that ❤ in a heartbeat

  • @ElSings
    @ElSings ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Yeah as a woman I can definitely relate with that. When I see a cute guy, I’m like “woah he’s really pretty, I like his eyes” and stuff like that, and I’ll like talking with him, but it takes me longer than most- literal MONTHS oftentimes to feel TRULY safe with the person, like fully knowing them and them knowing me for who we are. Then and only then do I truly feel like I can give in completely and love someone

  • @theresaaa8346
    @theresaaa8346 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    I've fallen in love at first sight. A feeling of comfort, desire, connection, just positive feelings run through you.

    • @Thedevilisaliar23
      @Thedevilisaliar23 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yes it’s like a warmth

    • @ALLINKNOTS
      @ALLINKNOTS หลายเดือนก่อน

      The closest that it has happened to me is only after I’ve observed them for a while. Their looks, how they interact with people, their body language... I’ve never experienced “love” just by looming at them physically. Sure there are gorgeous guys out there, but their behavior and attitude is what makes or breaks them.

  • @Helfirehydra
    @Helfirehydra 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    My standards of women is considered extremely high, because all I ask is for her to respect me and treat me right

    • @faisalhaniff
      @faisalhaniff 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree , this is the bare minimum but, it's considered extremely high because woman acting like a feminist these days

    • @randommics
      @randommics 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      see how she treats you, other people, and also how her parents treats you and other people. If her mother is a karen, run away

    • @overtothisside504
      @overtothisside504 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's the bear minimum they can do for a man the face that's high standards in 2024 is crazy!

    • @mariacitygirl3825
      @mariacitygirl3825 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      No women ever told me I disrespected her. That's how good I am but men with respect they mean they will do all the decision making in relationship or veto. HELL NO

  • @PizzaHomeSlice
    @PizzaHomeSlice 2 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    Which coincides with men are visual creatures, women are emotional creatures. It takes TIME to fully engage a woman’s emotions.

    • @r.b7979
      @r.b7979 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

      Nah . That's not love. That's just men lusting over your appearance. Being visual isn't an excuse.

    • @eldaguadiana6927
      @eldaguadiana6927 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oh really? So men “love” with their eyes? Lol. Anything pertaining to your flesh is lust not love.
      Being a visual creature means appearances grab your attention. That attention is coming from a place of carnal desire. Not love. So being a visual creature has nothing to do with love. It says everything about your testosterone though. 👍

    • @myfreedom4989
      @myfreedom4989 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@r.b7979 you are G@¥

    • @mun3698
      @mun3698 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No, women are more likely to be emotionally intelligent and comfortable with the wide range of emotions. Men are more emotional and often in a stunted reactive way. I can see why they get infatuation mixed up with love due to that. It’s based on how we’re socialized.

    • @judegrindvoll8467
      @judegrindvoll8467 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah I think you need to learn the difference between emotional, and emotionally intelligent- you’re clearly getting the two mixed up. Emotionally intelligent is one of the reasons women don’t fall in love on a whim or because a guy is just physically attractive.

  • @mollyrusk1294
    @mollyrusk1294 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Someone told me they liked me and I immediately fell in love

    • @BrightasVenus
      @BrightasVenus หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂😂❤

  • @TWRc0smic
    @TWRc0smic 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Love is the gentle touch that soothes the weary soul, the whispered words that ignite the spirit, and the silent understanding that bridges the spaces between us. It is the most beautiful symphony, composed of shared laughter, tender embraces, and unspoken promises.
    In the tapestry of life, love is the golden thread that weaves through every moment, binding hearts together in a bond that transcends time and distance. It is the anchor in the storm, the guiding light in the darkness, and the warmth that envelops us on the coldest of nights.
    Love is not measured by grand gestures or extravagant declarations, but by the simple acts of kindness, compassion, and acceptance that we bestow upon one another. It is found in the everyday moments - a lingering gaze, a reassuring touch, a heartfelt smile - that speak volumes without uttering a word.
    So let us cherish love in all its forms - romantic, familial, platonic - for it is the essence of our humanity, the fuel that drives us forward, and the greatest gift we can give and receive. May we nurture it, protect it, and allow it to blossom within us, lighting up our lives and illuminating the world around us.
    For in the end, it is love that truly makes life worth living, and it is love that will endure long after everything else fades away."

  • @AnimateTheArts
    @AnimateTheArts 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I fell in love with my boyfriend because of how nice he is to me since we actually started interacting
    I've never had someone love me so much 💕

  • @zombalinagamer1420
    @zombalinagamer1420 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    According to this guy, i need to double check my gender

    • @elgrs5756
      @elgrs5756 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Same 😂😂😂

    • @user-dd8fw6sd8d
      @user-dd8fw6sd8d 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same w/ me
      I don't entirely trust looks and try to find out about their personality

  • @ang2gee
    @ang2gee ปีที่แล้ว +72

    I fell for him the second I locked eyes with him.. felt like a wave of love washed over me..

    • @florianlion8215
      @florianlion8215 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wow. That’s sth that never happened to me. I allways need at least to month of actually beeing in a relationship with her to fall in love with her 🤔 So can not just walk down the street and fall in love with someone. That seems pretty much impossible to me..

    • @ang2gee
      @ang2gee 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@florianlion8215 well he’s my exact type just too dreamy.. plus we both sensed it like a mutual love at first sight lol I never thought it was possible either till I met him

    • @spookylopez9682
      @spookylopez9682 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@ang2geejust had this experience happened to me 5 days ago, we locked in twice but the second time time it was so intense we both didn’t know what to say. She approached me smiling & told me I looked familiar to an “old friend” but I didn’t know what to say after that so I drifted the convo out of being overwhelmed. I feel like she wanted to talk more but I was very reserved. I will return to her workplace to ask her out because I’m beating myself for it ahhhhhh

    • @user79592
      @user79592 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@spookylopez9682yeah, don't let her get away if you think it might work.

    • @user79592
      @user79592 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I had a similar experience back in 1995. It was my first day at a new job. We had that moment of locking eyes 👀. I looked up the third time and I continued looking... deeply into her eyes 🥰 and I knew it. I was in love with her. I know she had feelings for me too.. but after a couple of years, she moved away and got married and started a family.
      But I was already married anyway with two young children and it was them that I didn't want to hurt. I always felt in the back of my mind that marriage would end some day and I got sick of the way she made me felt/feel so I ended it.
      My point is...if you have any feelings for someone that has feelings for you, don't let something special slip through your hands. Let him/her know.

  • @abeehawaqar_
    @abeehawaqar_ 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I fell in love with him at first sight but yeah, the love increases so much with time.

  • @nicbow1991
    @nicbow1991 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Yes, I can tell when a guy is falling in love with the idea of me verses who I truly am based on how quickly they move. If they put you too much on a pedestal you'll come off it quickly.

    • @Slidehhy
      @Slidehhy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So if he loves you too much you will fall out of love with him?

  • @gatheringgrit
    @gatheringgrit 2 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    Nicely explained the difference between the two. And for a guy, lesser the experience he has with girls, the sooner he's going to fall in love with a girl. Even though there are exceptions, I believe that almost all guys have a "oneitus" in their early dating life. That's why spinning plates is advice often recommended, it makes you less attached to a single woman, prevents you from having unrealistic fantasizes in your head and most importantly, gets you into the abundance mindset. With that mindset you then radiate confidence, which will then attract the quality women you want.
    Thanks for another informative Short!

    • @qasimimtiaz9668
      @qasimimtiaz9668 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      talking to multiple girls as a whole prevent oneitis

    • @EddyG0rdo
      @EddyG0rdo ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Man I’ve been with tons of women and I still get oneitis. It happens. Women are damn beautiful and it’s easy to fall for them hard, no matter how much experience you have.

    • @tudorbucharest
      @tudorbucharest 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      What you say is true by the book (rollo,cooper). But you have to be a one percent-er To get in that situation of abundance and spinning plates technique. As a younger guy I use to fall in love with the very hot girls from the luxurious clubs here in Eastern Europe (mostly models). Then I grew up and started to learn most of them were trash and very few of them were wife material 😅 anyways they married guys 30 years older than them and rich of course

    • @florianlion8215
      @florianlion8215 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah that’s definitely not how it happens with me. I’m a guy and I really need some time to fall in love with anybody. It takes at least 2 months of dating her to make that happen.
      I never understood how you can fall in love with a person if you haven’t even slept with them 🤔
      That was always a mystery to me. I don’t just look at another person and think „wow they are so awesome“ and then just fall in love with them. That’s totally not how I‘m wired 😂

    • @ilikepancakes2368
      @ilikepancakes2368 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You don’t need to be “spinning plates” you just need to separate reality from fantasy. When you see a beautiful woman you start projecting your ideal traits onto her and that’s when you start to develop a crush. But then you find out the real her and realized she is nothing like you’ve hoped and you end up disliking her and now that infatuation you had is gone.

  • @adrianwillis66
    @adrianwillis66 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    True as soon as we fall in love based on how we are treated we can fall out of love too.

  • @NicK-wu8xy
    @NicK-wu8xy 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    That's from society. Women are taught how to live on a date and men are told to go get them, tiger. So the man sees someone he likes and the woman assesses if that man is going to chop her up while he is peacocking and providing safety to prove he won't do that

  • @xtehmoonlight7400
    @xtehmoonlight7400 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    2008, I have crush on this girl, and have relationship with her, then break up after 3 years...and I still love her and never saw other women the same as I see her... she's already married but I still can't get over her

    • @njrom2975
      @njrom2975 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Why did u break up?

  • @sunflowerrayne6026
    @sunflowerrayne6026 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Nah,my experience is I fall in love to fast & they all dislike me for it. 😢 I'm a woman 🤷‍♀️

  • @peggyharalson1767
    @peggyharalson1767 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I lived with my man for 5 years to see if he was real. He is. 43 years. I truly love him deeply.

  • @bhavnadear
    @bhavnadear ปีที่แล้ว +53

    No guys only confuse attraction with love that’s why they stop caring after few months while women seriously fall for men

    • @ians2777
      @ians2777 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I think it is the opposite for most men.

    • @BritneyThomas-zr5yf
      @BritneyThomas-zr5yf 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Truth 💯💯

    • @sunflowerrayne6026
      @sunflowerrayne6026 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      This , men think they are in love with you the first few times you chill then when your hooked and in love they realize it was lust not love at all. Then they dip out & the woman is left broken hearted.

    • @murphsviews
      @murphsviews 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wrong.

    • @Pranjal90
      @Pranjal90 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What is happening in the world😢😢😢 , Same thinking people's are 1000kms apart, & I crossed daily to those who are not my type 😢

  • @kcraulston
    @kcraulston 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Incorrect...
    You are attracted to someone and you can lust over them
    That's the entire concept of dating apps. Swipe if you are attracted and in turn engages the carnal instincts.
    Love has nothing to do with appearances or sexual interests, stop conflating this and trying to pass off as "information"
    If you fight the lustful urges from the first times meeting someone, then a bond greater than the lust from appearances will form and that's where you start to have a sensation of "love" but if you just hop into bed and make everything physical and about the "eye candy" then this is not love, and a large issue within failed relationships with incompatable values and this goes for anyone...

  • @shookytangerine5305
    @shookytangerine5305 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Its like guys imprint like wolf and girls want long term understanding like vampire 😅

  • @cindytram471
    @cindytram471 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Women fall in love from what they hear. Men fall in love from what they see.

  • @TopG20073
    @TopG20073 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Remember it is not you who falls in love, it is you just being hormonal. Love is commitment

  • @Citrusfruits50
    @Citrusfruits50 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You look like Jon Bernthal

  • @bryanp8606
    @bryanp8606 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Most guys fall in love with their eyes, girls fall in love with their ears…

  • @Y4ri21
    @Y4ri21 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    for me it only takes 30 minutes to fall in love, i had a 30 minute convo with this guy, i fell in love with him, i saw him 3 times a year and liked him for 2 years

  • @Smokomovedoley
    @Smokomovedoley 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Well not ALL guys fall in love instantly but most do, I fall in love once I get to know her and are good friends with her

  • @TheSmurf1973
    @TheSmurf1973 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I'm a man, I don't fall in love like that. Attraction, yes. Love, no.

  • @lorrainesilva1992
    @lorrainesilva1992 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    And then when the girl falls in love with you, you run away and say that has no feelings anymore.

  • @lucikauffman9961
    @lucikauffman9961 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    True, men go by sight 😮

  • @talkingtochapri
    @talkingtochapri 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Women should be very strategic because they can even lose their life if they accidentally dated a murderer incel. 30% of women are killed by their partners, so they should be smart about it. And falling for anything really quick is dumb 😂 and most of the time that isn't love, that's lust few males have for women.

    • @naturelover952
      @naturelover952 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      girls too have lust, left husband for tha5

    • @user-nh4cm1dk9r
      @user-nh4cm1dk9r 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      30 percent??? That seems like bs

    • @ilikepancakes2368
      @ilikepancakes2368 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And yet women are still falling in love and having babies with thugs, criminals, and psychopaths. Seems like your message isn’t working.

    • @perlitalaguna6622
      @perlitalaguna6622 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It is b.s..

  • @infernalstan886
    @infernalstan886 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Bro what? 😂 If it's instant it's 100% NOT love, its lust

  • @amirhj200
    @amirhj200 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I loved her and she loved me too i could see in her eyes , she respected me a lot and we met each other for first time in university , during these 4 years i kept myself away from girls becuase i dont have money and most important im not the the best version of myself and becuase of that I could not allow myself to get closer to her I have known her for six months and that days that we were toghter was The happiest and saddest days of my life and its about a month that I disappeared myself and I left all social media while i loved her from the bottom of my heart , Maybe you think I did wrong but i cant be myself while im with her , please pray for me

  • @Whatthevr_official
    @Whatthevr_official 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    It took me 5 years of knowing this person to actually fall in love, sooooo

  • @unemployed452
    @unemployed452 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    If a girl sees u with a nice car she will faster than any boy😂😂

    • @talkingtochapri
      @talkingtochapri 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Say every unemployed ever 😂😂

    • @unemployed452
      @unemployed452 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@talkingtochapri
      Bro i had money
      A girl made me unemployed

    • @keemoify
      @keemoify 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No. I have a nice car, woman generally dont care much.

    • @Slidehhy
      @Slidehhy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@unemployed452how did she make you unemployed 😂

  • @HealthyMind100k
    @HealthyMind100k หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    There is no love without mutual struggle

  • @The_crackhead630
    @The_crackhead630 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Nailed it for the girls

    • @dastran2731
      @dastran2731 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Men too accurate

  • @Silly_hearts_forever
    @Silly_hearts_forever 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I had a crush on a guy cos every day I talked to him in the library

  • @Samantha-wl5uv
    @Samantha-wl5uv ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Men don't feel love. It's just lust and domination. Stop falling for it women.

    • @Prod.M00N
      @Prod.M00N ปีที่แล้ว +15

      This is false. There are men’s that want true love. A woman that loves them and accompany them. A woman that don’t cheat on them and love them forever.

    • @Samantha-wl5uv
      @Samantha-wl5uv ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ashifarman4813 no, and definitely not a man of Islam.

    • @ichiban2911
      @ichiban2911 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Wrong there’s a reason why a rich man will change a poor woman’s life because he falls in love for who she is already. You rarely see the opposite most rich woman don’t even acknowledge the existence of men who make less than them they want someone better or equal to them, woman only fall in love based on what you can provide.

    • @BlowitAllUp
      @BlowitAllUp ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Women fall in love with a man's utility. Men love idealistically. Women love opportunistically. Stop falling for it men.

    • @doomdesire3460
      @doomdesire3460 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Samantha-wl5uv definitely not a man of Islam
      Like American men are any better

  • @RUN_IT_UP_
    @RUN_IT_UP_ หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Love is a four letter word like fuck and shit

  • @eyeopeningtruth7518
    @eyeopeningtruth7518 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Very true. Most good girls dont consider a man long term partner just by looking his handsome face, body etc but whats his behaviour towards her counts more than anything

  • @duketogo5809
    @duketogo5809 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I agree with your comment but I met a girl that thought I was her ideal boyfriend material. I checked off all the boxes yet she didn't fall in love with me.

  • @Jennifer-di4nl
    @Jennifer-di4nl ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Women fall in love between their ears. Men fall in love between their thighs.

    • @animekpopguy
      @animekpopguy ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yeah, emotions are between thighs

    • @MegaLadylove2012
      @MegaLadylove2012 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Their eyes 🤣

    • @tromboner6061
      @tromboner6061 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      to our credit we aren't soo shallow. I fell for a woman's personality, empathy, voice. None of that erects my pp. So maybe men fall in love in bw their hearts

    • @Jennifer-di4nl
      @Jennifer-di4nl ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@tromboner6061 From my experience men can fall in love with empathy and voice but it's usually men in the 90k and under income bracket. Don't mean any offense to anyone just calling like I see it

    • @musicandstuff1025
      @musicandstuff1025 ปีที่แล้ว

      Damn it stinks there ain't no way bro.

  • @kavya26637
    @kavya26637 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am a girl and that's facttttt🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

  • @MoonlightRising1
    @MoonlightRising1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Im a girl but I fall in love like a “guy”
    Edit: So there is no way a person male or female would fall in love everyone is different.

  • @torip.9734
    @torip.9734 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You described male attraction or “love” as literally just lust. There’s a difference.

  • @shannareads
    @shannareads หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    No it’s the opposite

  • @oliviarodrigo01
    @oliviarodrigo01 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I'm a girl and when I saw him I realized he's perfect

  • @AutumnRainWish
    @AutumnRainWish 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Guys never fall in love, except the hopeless romantic nice guy that no girl wants... Most guys just lust over a girl, chase after and then get bored once they catch them. It's the girls who are obsessed with the idea of falling in love.

  • @singspirations021
    @singspirations021 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This is how met my girlfriend, love at first sight. And, she fell in love with me after she knows me personally. We are together for 4 years now and counting.

  • @skhumbuzocele1330
    @skhumbuzocele1330 2 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Women DO NOT fall in love. They are only with you as long as it is still convenience for her.

    • @K87jk
      @K87jk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      amen

    • @JT-wc7me
      @JT-wc7me 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Love should not be an inconvenience, either. The reason it's still called "Love" and not openly spoke of as convenience; is because a lady needs her man to stay when she is making his life inconvenient, but she doesn't want to be expected to stay if he made her life inconvenient for a time. To offer love should be offering convenience to others, when possible. Loving in action, creates more than just convenience when possible. But one should not inconvenience themselves ( especially often or continuously) in order to convenience someone else; that makes them easy to use. Men have to notice this and stop offering convenience to women by inconveniencing themselves. Be your own convenience! Share it if you choose but never exchange it for inconvenience from another. If women are welcome to exit when there's minimal inconvenience, men have to start doing that too. Even out the playing field. If she's not making your life more convenient, you have to go. If you are not making her life more convenient, you should go until you sort things out. Love is wonderful, but it's easy to forget for ladies. Men are not part of love. Women love children and forgot that without men they cannot have children. Women take good men for granted, easily. Especially when the kids are grown enough to care for themselves but before the kids have fully left home. So it should be easily forgettable for men too.. Men admire other men who have hott wives, while women admire other women who are single or who have a man who's easy to control. Men would respect another man for having a hott wife All, even if he's unhappy, and men disrespect a single guy, even if he's happy. All men have to stop allowing ladies to use them; especially when they are just a prop to make another guy jealous for a short time. Guys have to stop being jealous. As soon as she's allowed another man to sleep with her, a man should consider that end-game, and continue on making his own life more convenient to himself. When he heads toward doing this for himself, some ladies will come along offering convenience, to stop him. If you stop from your own path to stay with her, she will slowly lose respect for you over time. If you don't, she'll say you don't spend enough time with her. If you say no and refuse, women you've known will start to be bothered by you.. This is good. The hero's journey! Move forward alone, on your own... When you have made yourself a self made man, and built a convenient life for yourself, buy yourself a decent car. I promise, like an accessory, if you have a nice home and a decent vehicle, a wife will just show up in the passenger seat. No effort. You get to choose... don't make an effort with a long-term woman, until you've overcome yourself and become a convenience to your own life.

    • @K87jk
      @K87jk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@JT-wc7me 2nd Amen to this (and I did read it all) But I only have one problem you call women "ladies" I would replace that word with this one "thots". Apart from that its all true, focus on yourself get big things done and suddenly everyone wants to be your friend or your partner...

    • @JT-wc7me
      @JT-wc7me 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@K87jk I think women want "whatever she doesn't have, right now" If she has a hard working husband, he's not fun enough. If she has a fun husband, he doesn't work hard enough. If he's respectful, she wants him to be more assertive. if he's assertive, she says he's disrespectful. If he's tough, she wants someone softer. If he's soft, she wants someone tougher. It's a mindset where the goals are always moving around. Imagine you never had to ever go to work at a job and you stayed home all day, and then you're like "this isn't good enough!" gotta be pretty hard to please if that's a huge problem. I'm not saying women shouldnt work, they just are hardly ever happy with what they have. The way to resolve this is to have someone write it down--everything women want from men. The deal is, you write what you want and we will give it to you; but you cannot wrote more once you hand in the paper. Men would easily accomplish all that's on the list over time and women would say they are oppressed because they cannot add more to the never ending list of things men have to do to please them. Let's talk about oppression. Imagine a man leave his wife a "to-do list, of chores she should accomplish around the house on her day off work. She'd lose her mind! Yet it's still perfectly acceptable to leave a man these narcissistic to-do lists, as if she's somehow become his master. A dog is a man's best friend because we are treated the same.. Men and dogs are easy to replace for a woman.. Men have to stop being so easy to control.. Make her prove her loyalty with actions. Ladies often say "I just like the attention. I'm not being disloyal" and yet men cannot go flirt with a bartender the way women allow themselves to, just because he "likes the attention" It's a rigged game..

    • @huelaura4691
      @huelaura4691 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      To be honest, that's both men and women. There are women out there who will be honest and genuine and tell you whether they want to be with you or not. Have hope.

  • @coachcarter8238
    @coachcarter8238 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Women don't fall in love. Women fall in business.

  • @PresleyRios-fe2xj
    @PresleyRios-fe2xj วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’ve been in the same class with this guy for 7 years and I just realized like a few months ago that I was as in love with him

  • @Yassmine_Amelia
    @Yassmine_Amelia หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    As a girl, I fall in love through my imagination, so technically if I love someone I don't actually love THEM I love that version of them that I've made up in my mind.

    • @Lisa_M_V
      @Lisa_M_V 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      That’s how occultism works mystical knowledge is powerful, the imagination is the real world now the shadow 3D world we see ❤ check out Neville Goddard

  • @AArav0913
    @AArav0913 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    If a guy would have to get pregnant he would choose the women to fall in love by evaluating her too alright women are the ones getting ducked so she shouldn't even know if the guy who she ll be with is good or not ya just can't fall I love a first sight periodd that's why guys have more heartbreaks than women

  • @melmagallon6233
    @melmagallon6233 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    That’s true… until you become a guy with options, then the tables are turned

  • @dustinpike7879
    @dustinpike7879 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    A woman can fall in love at first sight if the situation of first encounter can be framed as a romantic story.

  • @okgoogleplay3500
    @okgoogleplay3500 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm a guy and I fall in love the same way a woman falls in love according to this short. I'm not trans.

  • @MiguelJimenez-vz3vy
    @MiguelJimenez-vz3vy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    How Girls Fall In Love,
    You show her that your wallet is so thick you can barely close it and does not fit in your pocket.

    • @John-ih7gp
      @John-ih7gp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      George Costanza had a thicker wallet than any of us, and still struggled to get the ladies

    • @218Flows
      @218Flows 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@John-ih7gp George Costanza is played by Jason Alexander who has been married for 40 years to an actress.

    • @hiya2750
      @hiya2750 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Well girls around me are not like that so don't generalize

    •  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😐And you wonder why men are always getting rejected 😐 y'all judge too damn much even when all women aren't always like that and all men want is something out of women so they're no different 🤷‍♀️.

    • @NoName718.
      @NoName718. ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s not true at all. When a girl sees a guy she would sleep with, ain’t no telling what he has or doesn’t have. If he hit it right and is at least stable, it won’t matter what he got. You know how many guys with money(who usually isn’t her first choice in looks) get his girl knocked down or stolen by dirty Johnny that sleeps in his moms basement? Money is a negative in dating most times more than a positive cause women that aren’t even attracted to you will fake it to get next to you. If you have money it would be in your best interest to not let her know how much. Her seeing you always being financially responsible would be enough.

  • @RH-bi8ik
    @RH-bi8ik หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Me lubb yuuu longg thyyymeee

  • @monblane493
    @monblane493 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I fell in love after dreaming about her being gone and that’s how I realized I liked her

  • @CatalinaFOIA
    @CatalinaFOIA 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ... I saw a guy when I was 16 and instantly fell in love with him before I ever spoke to him. He ended up being my 1st love. I still love him; but I'm not in love with him.

  • @mesidye
    @mesidye ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Guys fall in love?! In the year of our Lord 2022.?

    • @Alex-bl8uh
      @Alex-bl8uh ปีที่แล้ว

      Huh? Why should it have changed?

  • @_the_dare_devil_
    @_the_dare_devil_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Well, John, I love you, but no... I don't agree. Once I fell in love with a mouseburger - when I frist saw her I thoutht "No, thanks! There are better choices", but over time she gained my attention and I had a bit of relationshop with her (almost 3 years together). So falling in love over time may be also a man's thing.

  • @mattalley4330
    @mattalley4330 หลายเดือนก่อน

    There is a big difference between attraction and love. Attraction may be immediate, but love takes time. Love is more than spontaneous emotion

  • @robertm.-certifieddaytrade4939
    @robertm.-certifieddaytrade4939 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I don’t FALL in LOVE QUICKLY; however, I DO FALL in LUST pretty FAST!!
    Stay blessed, Everyone.
    Robert from daytradingwiththelight

  • @sheanlee2089
    @sheanlee2089 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    women fall in love with ya wallet lol

  • @moimoi7074
    @moimoi7074 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Bullshit, complete opposite

  • @Alex-bl8uh
    @Alex-bl8uh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Exactly the opposite to what I experienced. They fell for me quickly and if I developed feelings, it was slowly.

  • @sparklingdiamondkiwis4390
    @sparklingdiamondkiwis4390 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I was attracted to my current boyfriend at first sight, but after years of getting to know him (without dating first) I had truly fallen deep in love. What an absolutely fantastic person ❤

  • @neosrdjan671
    @neosrdjan671 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Maybe... 30% of the whole. No more. You can not GENERALISATE

  • @Katleig
    @Katleig 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I can fall in love with as soon as I fall in love with someone I'm in love with someone It's only been a couple years And every time I think of him I cannot get him off my mind It's just like I'm in love And I really love him

  • @user-ng3ov3hv2n
    @user-ng3ov3hv2n 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That's why guys love don't stay for much time and changes from women to women by seeing them and girls truly and long term fall in love .

  • @rose92008
    @rose92008 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    as a girl i can confirm, there's a good chance we don't think you like us back and then when there's signs we'll either be delusional or not trust that we're interpreting it correctly. it depends on the situation lol

  • @yolandaperry86
    @yolandaperry86 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So basically he's saying guys fall in love with looks and women fall in love with who you are as a person.

  • @hussnainkhurshid5068
    @hussnainkhurshid5068 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    man love women idealistically
    Women love man opportunistically.

  • @TheVintageCajun
    @TheVintageCajun 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Don’t believe anyone who’s convinced they’re in “love” with you just because they find you physically attractive. (That’s lust.) Man or Woman.
    Attraction doesn’t equal love.
    Unless you can state adequate reasons for “loving” a person, besides how beautiful you find them.
    “To have someone understand your mind is a different kind of intimacy”
    -Urbanrealism

  • @Nehauon
    @Nehauon 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I might not fall in love instantly when I see an attractive women, but im obviously attracted 😂

  • @marshareed1438
    @marshareed1438 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This is exactly why I don’t have casual sex. I’m okay with a man moving on when I say no.

  • @Ninja-Ken
    @Ninja-Ken 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    For me that’s the opposite because I’m in love with video games and anime

  • @acethe8th
    @acethe8th หลายเดือนก่อน

    Awesome. I love this. Info like this isn’t selling as much as praying on people’s fears and telling them they have to be a millionaire or no one will love them lol

  • @jthorn3373
    @jthorn3373 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    hmm… maybe a change of words? i’d say men fall in love over time, and women love based on how well and consistently you stimulate their emotions

  • @unbrainer_ml02
    @unbrainer_ml02 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Bro it's been 4 years. Still I kept falling in love only with her. But I never had feelings for other girls. But why she is?