"It kind of makes more sense of your personality" was a very strange comment to make by the ex, and him also asking about your parts was just....um nope.
Yeah, it was a little weird but every time I come out to Cis Men that’s the first question they go to is what’s in your pants which is very weird, but they all ask that.
As far as “personality” comment: I’m ftm too, and I’ve definitely noticed that the fact I was socialized as a girl has made me speak more dynamically and less monotone, use more gestures, and default more often to bending over backwards to make other people feel comfortable. Of course, men CAN do all those things, and not all women DO, but learning to change my speech patterns and body language has definitely made me more comfortable in my own skin and helped me be read more often as male. (For the record, I haven’t changed those things to please others or conform to a male stereotype; rather, I’ve changed them because they aren’t integral to who I am and are only part of my personality because of how I was socialized) Also, I’m very new here, and have no idea about Clayton’s personality lol. Just throwing an option out there for what the bf may have (clumsily) been trying to say lol.
It's so sad that you two have broken up... 😢 I miss you both as a couple now other people are in the picture wich makes it even more sad... but sometimes life goes on.and good thing is u both still can stay friends 😊
Just being friends have made us closer than ever. We talk and hang out more than we did when we live together and was dating. Allison is always going to be in my life. She’s the best thing that ever happened to me.
@@ClaytonJay aww that's so sweet that she is the best thing that ever happened to you ! I'm glad it made u and her closer even if it is now as friends . And glad she is and always will be forever in your life no matter what god bless you both❤!
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"It kind of makes more sense of your personality" was a very strange comment to make by the ex, and him also asking about your parts was just....um nope.
Yeah, it was a little weird but every time I come out to Cis Men that’s the first question they go to is what’s in your pants which is very weird, but they all ask that.
As far as “personality” comment:
I’m ftm too, and I’ve definitely noticed that the fact I was socialized as a girl has made me speak more dynamically and less monotone, use more gestures, and default more often to bending over backwards to make other people feel comfortable.
Of course, men CAN do all those things, and not all women DO, but learning to change my speech patterns and body language has definitely made me more comfortable in my own skin and helped me be read more often as male.
(For the record, I haven’t changed those things to please others or conform to a male stereotype; rather, I’ve changed them because they aren’t integral to who I am and are only part of my personality because of how I was socialized)
Also, I’m very new here, and have no idea about Clayton’s personality lol. Just throwing an option out there for what the bf may have (clumsily) been trying to say lol.
It's so sad that you two have broken up... 😢 I miss you both as a couple now other people are in the picture wich makes it even more sad... but sometimes life goes on.and good thing is u both still can stay friends 😊
Just being friends have made us closer than ever. We talk and hang out more than we did when we live together and was dating. Allison is always going to be in my life. She’s the best thing that ever happened to me.
@@ClaytonJay aww that's so sweet that she is the best thing that ever happened to you ! I'm glad it made u and her closer even if it is now as friends . And glad she is and always will be forever in your life no matter what god bless you both❤!
he def needs educated lol i’m glad you are because he is a little lost and invasive but he’s learning
Glad Allison let you come out to him on your own terms, nice video, you seem really happy
its not weird yall are still friends
U guys r looking healthy
I support you Clayton j
He seemed interested in you just saying hahah
Hi Clayton 🙂
Hi jay I like your video super nice.😘😘😘😘💞💞💞🧔🧔🧔🧔