The example in the presentation, where a grandparent can't get in contact with their grandchildren doesn't really reflect the most common scenario. It's typically not the child of the grandparent that blocks the communication, it's typically the grandparents childs former spouse that blocks it. I do though know of situations where an alienating parent have cut out their own parents (the grandparents) due to criticism of their behavior towards the targeted parent. Alienators are brutal, they're pure evil against anyone inflicting on their power and control over the children.
My wife had nothing to do with my decision to estrange from my parents. My parents tried to paint my wife as the problem, ignored their own conduct. They acted as though they had say over my household and property. They took offense to the word "no" and boundary setting. They couldn't accept that a retired Army NCO didn't care about their unsolicited opinions. Learn to show respect if you want to participate in someone else's family. She's not an in-law... you are. She's the wife and mother of his kids. Take it as offensive or supportive, your feelings are your responsibility. Have the life you cultivate, friends.
When you have adult children make false allegations on something they were not there for and they asked accused but would not stop to hear anything. they wont bring their defensive down. I have tried. Even suggested therapy they refused this their whole life and they are studying psychologically. The emotional manipulation is just too much. Used my grandson like a pawn. I had to step away from trying 😢 I have sat to begin and spoke calmly and nothing works. There us a family trait that I have slowly over time break this cycle. I just felt after years 'you cannot reason with the unreasonable. It's painful and I know it not about right or wrong. I'm so exhausted it effected everything and I 've lost rest of my family because of lies.
Who wants gratification. I just would like people to be nice. My mind does not seem to understand the opposite to this. So it just thrown me. GOOD point throughout. Thank you.
Our adult children want accountability. We are in counseling with our single, adult daughter. Our adult Son has our two Grandchildren and has abandoned us. I am the targeted parent even though their Dad was the alcoholic. He won't join us in therapy, he's just hanging on to his anger.😢
Thank you so much ❤
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The example in the presentation, where a grandparent can't get in contact with their grandchildren doesn't really reflect the most common scenario.
It's typically not the child of the grandparent that blocks the communication, it's typically the grandparents childs former spouse that blocks it.
I do though know of situations where an alienating parent have cut out their own parents (the grandparents) due to criticism of their behavior towards the targeted parent.
Alienators are brutal, they're pure evil against anyone inflicting on their power and control over the children.
Alienation is definitely abuse. Everyone's situation is different yet with some similarities with others.I do hope our videos help you.
My wife had nothing to do with my decision to estrange from my parents.
My parents tried to paint my wife as the problem, ignored their own conduct.
They acted as though they had say over my household and property.
They took offense to the word "no" and boundary setting.
They couldn't accept that a retired Army NCO didn't care about their unsolicited opinions.
Learn to show respect if you want to participate in someone else's family. She's not an in-law... you are. She's the wife and mother of his kids.
Take it as offensive or supportive, your feelings are your responsibility.
Have the life you cultivate, friends.
When you have adult children make false allegations on something they were not there for and they asked accused but would not stop to hear anything. they wont bring their defensive down. I have tried. Even suggested therapy they refused this their whole life and they are studying psychologically. The emotional manipulation is just too much. Used my grandson like a pawn. I had to step away from trying 😢 I have sat to begin and spoke calmly and nothing works. There us a family trait that I have slowly over time break this cycle. I just felt after years 'you cannot reason with the unreasonable. It's painful and I know it not about right or wrong.
I'm so exhausted it effected everything and I 've lost rest of my family because of lies.
Who wants gratification. I just would like people to be nice. My mind does not seem to understand the opposite to this. So it just thrown me.
GOOD point throughout. Thank you.
@@jacquelyneseidel7557 So very glad it was helpful. I hope other of our videos are helpful as well.
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Our adult children want accountability. We are in counseling with our single, adult daughter. Our adult Son has our two Grandchildren and has abandoned us. I am the targeted parent even though their Dad was the alcoholic. He won't join us in therapy, he's just hanging on to his anger.😢
So very sorry for your situation. I do hope our videos help you.
My son in law is the gatekeeper. He has mental illness and I can’t communicate with him because he doesn’t deal with reality. Any suggestions?
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