And the last thing I wanna say is the last idiot was like “go talk to your girl and see what her intentions were” lmfao! Then she start crying and saying she didn’t mean it that way and he goes for it. Like your girl is gonna be like “yea of course I meant it mean! Of course I’m bullying your sister!” Are y’all slow? I’m serious! Cuz ain’t no way that girl gonna tell you the damn truth! So asking her won’t get you anywhere but in bad space with your own sister! Learn to see things for exactly what they are! Cuz trying to create good intent where there is none is absurd! This is how women get with men and then be abusing their children and not listening to the kids! I’m sooooo mad at their very stoic and dumb ass response to this! Like go get a good therapist and learn about emotions cuz neither of you seem to be experienced with emotions at all!
The fact that the bulk of them couldn’t see that this girl was being mean af and was blatantly demeaning that man’s sister is exactly why men cannot be a safe space for women. Talking to them about shit like this is exhausting because now come all of the whataboutisms and it’s super frustrating. This is not even up for debate AT ALL! The sister only expected the man to pay for their first date. That’s not a HIGH expectation it’s quite regular. Even for her brother who likely set that expectation for her to begin with since his OWN girlfriend is treated this way. The GF tells the sister she should lower her standards. Telling this younger girl not to expect the bare minimum is advice? From who a hater?? Cuz why would I accept less than what my brother does for you?? Then she put the nail in the coffin when stating that SHE(the gf) is high value and that would never happen to her. It could have been advice if the gf accepted the idea of paying cuz then it would make sense. Like well I pay so why do y feel like you shouldn’t but she’s telling this girl she should expect less cuz she is less! And the fact that the both of these idiots wanted to side with her is exactly why I do not trust mens judgment or advice on shit. Y’all don’t even know when someone is blatantly tryna play you. There’s NO WAY to see what that girl said as “good intentions” what was good about the notion that his sister should expect less treatment than his girlfriend ?? And that she should lower her expectations cuz she’s not her brothers gf?? Like yall are some problematic niggas ! Accept my dark skinned brother with discernment. He picked up on ol girls nastiness but you brownskin morons clearly share a brain and the same dysfunctional emotional regulation center. It’s ok to check your gf or anyone for tryna play ya people. Ya sound like some chumps letting some girl talk crazy to your sister. He better dump that loser ass gf too! Or I’d never let that bih feel comfy around me ever again.
And the last thing I wanna say is the last idiot was like “go talk to your girl and see what her intentions were” lmfao! Then she start crying and saying she didn’t mean it that way and he goes for it. Like your girl is gonna be like “yea of course I meant it mean! Of course I’m bullying your sister!”
Are y’all slow? I’m serious! Cuz ain’t no way that girl gonna tell you the damn truth! So asking her won’t get you anywhere but in bad space with your own sister!
Learn to see things for exactly what they are! Cuz trying to create good intent where there is none is absurd! This is how women get with men and then be abusing their children and not listening to the kids! I’m sooooo mad at their very stoic and dumb ass response to this! Like go get a good therapist and learn about emotions cuz neither of you seem to be experienced with emotions at all!
The fact that the bulk of them couldn’t see that this girl was being mean af and was blatantly demeaning that man’s sister is exactly why men cannot be a safe space for women. Talking to them about shit like this is exhausting because now come all of the whataboutisms and it’s super frustrating.
This is not even up for debate AT ALL! The sister only expected the man to pay for their first date. That’s not a HIGH expectation it’s quite regular. Even for her brother who likely set that expectation for her to begin with since his OWN girlfriend is treated this way.
The GF tells the sister she should lower her standards. Telling this younger girl not to expect the bare minimum is advice? From who a hater?? Cuz why would I accept less than what my brother does for you?? Then she put the nail in the coffin when stating that SHE(the gf) is high value and that would never happen to her. It could have been advice if the gf accepted the idea of paying cuz then it would make sense. Like well I pay so why do y feel like you shouldn’t but she’s telling this girl she should expect less cuz she is less! And the fact that the both of these idiots wanted to side with her is exactly why I do not trust mens judgment or advice on shit. Y’all don’t even know when someone is blatantly tryna play you. There’s NO WAY to see what that girl said as “good intentions” what was good about the notion that his sister should expect less treatment than his girlfriend ?? And that she should lower her expectations cuz she’s not her brothers gf?? Like yall are some problematic niggas ! Accept my dark skinned brother with discernment. He picked up on ol girls nastiness but you brownskin morons clearly share a brain and the same dysfunctional emotional regulation center.
It’s ok to check your gf or anyone for tryna play ya people. Ya sound like some chumps letting some girl talk crazy to your sister. He better dump that loser ass gf too! Or I’d never let that bih feel comfy around me ever again.
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