Why I want to know and meet my father despite what he did to my mother. Malaika’s Kimani son speaks
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 11 ก.ค. 2024
- 24 year old David knows the circumstances surrounding his birth. He also understands it was one of the hardest days in his mother’s life. So, why after all this would he want to meet the man that ruined it all for her. What does he want to tell his father face to face?
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❤❤❤❤❤ Strong young man
I am not feeling well but thank God I'm not sick.thank you Lynn see you♥️
I am not feeling well but thank God I'm not sick.thank you Lynn see you♥️
Tutafutie follow up ya Abraham's..hawaonekani
Hello Lynn please try to use English more I end up not enjoying the story of this boy 's mother because am a Zimbabwean based in South Africa but am your fan and I love you
My son i love you💜
He is very handsome
Good job mama you are indeed an example of there is a living God wishing you and your son all the best and may God glory keep manifesting in your lives
Good job mama. In the midst of all the bad things you have raised a very strong man. May God keep both of you strong
Congratulations waoooh. You have a wise young man
You did a good job nimekupenda saana ...those who have gone through rape please learn something from this girl...... the boy is intelligent weuwe. Am following for the next episode please tell us how we can come to Norway too
He is so calm and has a nice voice 😻
He doesn't have accent ya mama iko kwa damu
@@ruthkimani2605eVoice and accent are not the same thing 😅mum obviously wasn’t well educated in Kenya. She didn’t get to learn English in Kenya, so not sure what damu you are on about . We are not English, so not brought up speaking English. The dad probably doesn’t even know English . Many Kenyans have this guys accent
My mum got married when i was young but she died i never knew who was my dad and my mum's side also i vowed not to look for them coz they didn't look for me i never know who my real family is but all i know is that a family is not based on blood anymore but a love and connection
He is such a young strong intelligent boy just as the mum, I hope he finds his family🙏🏾
Much love from Uganda.
Here we represent kla
Kabisaa 🙌
Thanks David, and Lynn For this show. David is speaking on behalf of a thousand others who grew up without knowing who their birth fathers are. Caution however, there needs to be a way to filter the many "relatives" who will come out because Kimani has a bright future, and many "Georges" will want to be in that future.. all blessings to baby boy. He has a Father in heaven..
I doubt that many Georges would want to come out as rapists but with this world we never know.
I’m sure he’s intelligent enough to make sure a DNA 🧬 is done ✅ for all those wannabe George’s 🤣🤣🤣
For me I would encourage him to appreciate his space and the loving caring and successful mother unlike many and yes he has an earthly father whoever he is wherever he is.
Amen 🙏
@@harrietkamau6710 agree, as a single mum I’m not sure how I’d feel if my son insisted on finding his father/ extended family. Considering what the dad did. He knows very well the mum was raped and to put her through this! Just comes to show some people will always want more.
My dad did my mum wrong, she passed away but why should I be concerned about him? We should be content with what we have, knowing an extended family doesn’t mean anything and won’t add any value to his life. He might even get more hurt to find out he’s in prison or a big criminal from a bad family. But might turn out ok if he’s only looking for his family
Lynn and her skill of interaction with all generation is on an another level
im humbled by lynn.
The wisdom he carries is too much for his age,i wish he meets his dad so he can get closure and gets to build a relationship with his paternal side of family 🤗
I now understand why God fought for this guy the many times the mother was tempted to get rid of him. God knew that someday Malaika would give this as a testimony on how she survived all this. Generally what I learn is that even when parents divorce let no parent prevent kids from getting along with the other parent cause at the end of the day the kids will come to question. Not unless it is such a scene like Malaikas …the rest parents should try letting the kids have access to both kids. Trying to picture the thoughts he has had about who the father is how he looks like it is just a lot ….Thank you Malaika for understanding your son and coming out to help him get his answers. Lynn and your team keep doing what you do best❤
Though sometimes mums prevent their kids from emotional hurt from rejection.
This young man's destiny is in the hands of God! It is great
Amen and Amen🙏🙏
The journey of a mother never stops.. ❤
Oh you're my name sake 😊
Soo true
Say it again my Sister; it never ends.
The way Lynn is making this young man comfortable is on another level ❤
This must have been a hard interview to do because of the magnitude of the issue that led to the creation of this family. Lynn you handled it s well and at no point did you let your biases, personal opinions affect this story. You handled it with the delicateness it deserved and held space for these two people.
I applaud the mom because despite all that happened to her and her having a. Million reasons to hate life and a child born out of something as ruthless as rape she chose life for herself and her son. They are not just surviving they are thriving wholistically and that is what being alive is. I also love that she has managed to move past her hurt and extended understanding to her son for him wanting to know his roots despite how difficult that must be. We don't see that often, we are taught to patronize our kids for daring to ask about the absent parents. We deem it as ungrateful with zero regards for the battles that child deals with when it comes to identity.
Finally big up to this young man, he solid, straight up. He is clear about why he wants to know the father, honest about what he feels, genuine that he doesn't know what to feel about his dad(which is a huge burden to bear because how do you reconcile a rapist with him being your dad) , it's a tricky, sticky situation. But I am glad so glad that he knows what he is after, meeting the extended family not necessarily bonding with his father. That right there is called boundaries and self awareness. I hope the good Lord at his own time makes it all happen for them and may he keep covering this family because they are an indicator of the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living despite trials and tribulations that threaten to end us.
Good job team LNN
Thank you so much🙏🙏
Some of us (single mums)were/are so angry and bitter, with the fathers of children who were Got, through sexual consent on both sides ..even in relationships that never worked.. this should make us to think about forgiveness and letting the Children know their fathers..
Flourishing some fathers don’t want anything to do with their children
totally agree
Every boys wants to identify with a male dad at some age. Esoecially during teen age. Si be careful how to haddle
As long as the dad isn’t toxic and will Mess up Your child’s mental health!
*In psychology it is called "Vindictive Mother Syndrome or Malicious mother synddrome.Other scientific terms you can google are Parental Alienation program.*
Personally, I would not want to meet the man who raped my mother and had a kid with her. I would forgive him but would not meet him so I give this young man credit for being so bold and forgiving and wanting to meet his father.
Probably you know your das & his family side. He wants Closure.
Daisy Achiro, hata mimi singependa kumjua. Aiih. I'm still trying to understand why he wants to associate with such a man!! Anyway people are different!
@@marynjokimirie4753 meeting him may not give closure. It will be a journey to the unknown
Staki kujua Mtu. Alifanya My own Mami that. Mama ako amekufanyia enough you dont need your father who never buy you anything no. No. Mama yako. Amestrangled With you too much. Iyo extended Familie. You will regret to Meetings them. Afadhali kaa na big Familie ya your's Mamis. Thy knews you are in Europ. 🤭
I am also very confused about why he would want to forge a relationship with a rapist.
I genuinely wish he can meet his dad and his dad's family for closure and also for that sense of belonging because it is important. I believe he is doing this for the boy within him.
Now you see, many tribes accuse kikuyus of not wanting anything to do with baby daddy but that's no true. I am a kiuk and here is the thing, most of us love our kids very much and want to protect them with our lives if need be. If the father is willing, and as long as the kid is not endangered, it's very important for a kid to know their dad. And then even us know every kid carry the father's blood and the man gives seed so the kids will naturally want to know the father, so you can't burn bridges.
True. Just knowing who he is, is enough
He's a great young man who only wants to know his Dad for his identity. Otherwise mother and son are great people.
@@sonyia7521you are the one that brought the topic up. Nobody mentioned Kikuyus here. then again, perhaps it’s a thing in your community and good to raise it up! I respect women who protect their kids.
"...There is nothing wrong with being black. " 🖤 David Kimani.
Identity is everything to a child. It doesn’t matter what happened to the parents a child is always innocent. May he find the closure he’s seeking
No bad intention but I feel like this guy should let it go somethings are meant to be a past for us
You better not bro,since I meet my father I'm full of regret but thank God I got to known I have a loving n caring stepmom
My daughter let Almighty God protect you.and work hard mama in school and found yourself somewhere I know your dad atakutafuta one day since aliniruka na mimba 💔💔💔💔
You are a calm,good mannered and responsible boy irregardless of situations you went through. Better than some kids brought up in stable families with both parents
Our boy is finally here,,,,oh my!
Lynn you are a WORLD TREASURE. I genuinely applaud Malaika & her son. God is watching
My prayer may that evil spirit from your father never to affect your generation....it will end with your father... you're Blessed beyond measure 👌 your level of forgiveness king David and Mum is on higher level...this commands God's favor...coz GOD loves those who forgive.... All the best as you find closure
This boy got everything, intelligent, tall black and handsome,nice voice etc..keep going boy👏👏May one day God fulfill all your heart's desire 🙏
I'm turning 45 next month and still hoping to meet my dad or step siblings somehow.... Despite the fact that this story is sad and unfortunate, there's always that void in anyone who was raised by one parent.
I also wish I will meet mine one day. My mum ist still silent about this .. , all my aunts are silent.. I was born in Kenya, but mum also met a mzungu who took us to Austria, so I've been out of Kenya since my teen years!!! I'll be 40 in few years! I thought I was too old to have no dad. I started searching him, but it's too hard coz I'm not living there . I just hope one day, we will meet !!!! Let's hope for the best !!!
All the very best🙏🙏
we r in the same journey
Agnes wairimu... Am also turning 45 yrs and want to meet my other family... Tutafutane .. tutafute Hawa watu.. by 🔥
God u r so Great I didn't know that we're so many with the same problem may you God help us through even if I was told u were death seeing your grave will make me strong woman
In western it's really hard to live without a father. There's a day call father's day and on that father's day every kids makes a gift for their dad at school. I had my first son when I was 16 by the teacher in school. I wanted to raise my without that part of piece. By God's grace we came to Canada when he was 2 years old. In school every year on father's day the all month of May, my son use to come home very sad because he doesn't have a dad to give the gift. My son took canceling and I had to look for his dad with a help of my sister. I found his dad when he was 10 years old.
What a story! Very intelligent and well composed young man. All I pray for is that he gets to meet his father and introduce him to his extended family. As Christians we like to hope and pray that he realized his bad behavior and repented. Hopefully he is transformed. Malaika you have a golden heart and that is why the Lord has blessed you. You have exemplified to your son what forgiveness looks like. May the Lord continue blessing you and I can’t wait to listen to you at Inspire Global LNN. Good job Lynn as usual👍🙏🏿
Not bad behavior but a serious crime that warrants a jail sentence.
As much as we forgive as Christians hope he served some time in jail as Karen Gakii has mentioned
I wish I even had a glimpse of how my dad looked like, or even where he is from, or even whether he is dead or still alive. That thing kills slowly.
Sorry
Oh...hugs
May God who doesn't fail and who makes impossible possible make it happen for you in Jesus' name
It does 😢
It soo true. I can relate.
May the Lord fill the gap if you don't ever find your dad or his extended family. Our God is the Father to fatherless and husband to widows. I wish you all the best this life can give 🙏 🙏
inshallah the outcome will be amazing i wish him well
I took my son to England when he was 5 and promised him that he will look for his dad when he was 18. I then took him to Kenya after tracing a cousin to the dad. Unfortunately we were 6 months late, he was deceased. Wah his half brother became hostile because he thought we were after his brother's properties inherited from the mother.
My son is now 25 and doing well in the tech world. We don't need their property, we just wanted family😢
You would've taken him earlier
You should have taken him at fourteen
People out here acting like you knew his dad would be dead😮 You did your part..good on you and your son..
😢😢😢😢 I have recall the painful part of my life... instead of meeting my dad for the first time...I was welcomed home with grave😢😢😢😢😢the old one matter 😢😢😢😢how I wish I could just see his handsome face once😢. Love you Dad
Am so proud of this story..mum and son..you going far..God has brought you this far...I love your understanding ❤..you really got strong hearts..May all people learn to take things positively as you have..
The young man is super amazing & destined for greatness. The mother has done a wonderful job & is so blessed to have healed to the point of facilitating his son to her her abuser. I am so ready for the day my son would ask to know his father. Never thought not having a dad can be such a lonely journey.
Malaika was abused with a lunatic at night, this could've been a habit....and definable not remember the victims faces at all. May David find his own closure .❤
All the best David! You are such an incredible young man and your star is gonna shine so bright that it will illuminate all your extended family for you. Thanks for sharing your story as it’s gonna bless and bring healing and peace to so many people. Lots of love son❤❤❤
Been looking forward to this part, he’s so humble and so blessed to have a mother like his
I feel for the boy haki, mayone day meet his father, even if he did what he did to her mother,,
This is great, but let advice David to continue with his life and time is coming to take care of his mum, love the conversation 💝.
The father should just come out and allow the child peace....he is lucky he was never said to be dead....you know an easy way to escape the ordeal!....I applaud Malaika❤❤. Huyu baba ajitokeze tu.😢
How did malaika knew the guy name.because it was at night and it was dark
I didn't hear her mention the guys name....I don't think she actually did.
@ANN NKAKU the son mentioned that his mom told him.
@ Jenny Braids...correct. I hadn't heard the son. Now🤔🤔🤔
Quite true...a kisii man in Kasarani years 1998 ish...called George....somebody.Wa kisii wa Kasarani blood is baying for you now.kazi kwenyu...
Huge respect for this young man and the mother ❤
A very complicated situation for the young man.The father may choose either ways for fear of exposing his dark past to his family if he has one.He won't like them to know he raped and the product of his behaviour is now looking for him.I pray it works out well for Kimani.
I have a lot of respect for young David. No anger, no resentment!
May our Superior One grant David his heart's desire.
Lynn, you are an incredible lady. Born for this. Good job
Have been raised by mum and lived with my mum's family side...it was and is okay...But the first day I set foot in my father's compound when I was 28 I felt a fullfillment and a sense of belonging I had never felt....I understand David 💯
I love this kid energy, I’m just encouraging you that
I’m 45 years I’m still searching my father till today, I kept asking ma mom who was my dad , she never gave me the answer and I remember ma mom getting mad at me for asking her that question
Growing up
As Only child
Was not easy
I totally understand you in all ways
My mom died few years ago after I invited her to America and still she never provided me enough answers ;
I pray for you to be a better person prosper and work hard nothing comes easy .
😢😢sorry
@@damarlswanjlru6935 ☺️
In this very same boat. I once tried to ask but she got really upset so I let it be. A relative informed me that he's alive and known, but to just let it be. My mum is still here, thankfully.
Give your aunties $100 they will tell you..
Some of us are out here we don't know our fathers, never met them but just have a name on the birth certificate mum died without saying anything in regard to the matter where do you begin locating him; sometimes I wish there could be an organisation specifically for such cases to link people to their unknown family members
This is my case too but i don't have his name...she told me to say..."nilizaliwa home"..so i only got her names
Have learnt a lot from this story and am inspired me
Thank you LNN for covering such stories
All the best to the young man, may he find the peace that he wants
Good morning LNN family 👋
Son you are such a blessing to your mother and to the world at large. So nice,full of wisdom and love. May God's purpose for your life be fulfilled and grant you a wonderful wife.
Can't wait to hear this young man's part of the journey. The mom took us through a roller-coaster of emotions..
Longtime dear , nice to see you here 😘
@@Kasweetie_254 Naona pia wewe uliset ⏰️
@@jeddymoon3803 kabisaaa🤣💯💯
Every child is a blessing,God has good plans for each off us praise Jesus
This is awesome, great to meet Malaika's son, I do hope he'll one day meet his dad. She really struggled with the pregnancy and her newborn son. But see what God has done in both their lives, what a Mighty God we serve ❤❤
Hello Bella❤❤
@@LynnNgugi hey Lynn 😘
All the Best Bro to the search of your Dad❤. I wish he comes to the show and tell his side of story too,have time to make both you and your Mum heal from this history that all share and have certain way that has affected you. Goodluck and God bless you ❤🇷🇼
Thanks Lynn for handling this sensitive interview with such grace and motherly touch❤
Good morning team LNN i just wish the best to this young man
Such a strong young man with a wonderful heavy voice ❤️❤️❤️.I believe he deserve to meet his father.
May God continue blessing these two amazing souls they have gone thru alot . Much love from uganda
WOW he is so handsome😊 and I love his voice..
It happened the way it was, the father can just step in and own up to his decisions and say something about it. The young man is so brave
Ready to listen to this young Man's story.
I like the relationship between David and his Mum
😢😢Waaaaa.. Kudos to this son! He is a healed from the trauma... Thanks to her Mum Malaika... A small percentage is what is remaining. Bless!!
So humble and very focused boy, I hope God will grant him the desire of his heart.
I can only say well done mum David for raising an amazing boy despite the circumstances❤❤❤!
This young man is an angel to his mom.and he's destined for greatness...Obama in making God light his ways it's my prayer 🙏
🌹🌹🌹🌹 to the mother. This is quite traumatising may the favour of lord locate this boy.
Well done mum Malaika. I admire her strength,resilience
David you such an Intelligent kid❤ To the Mum Hugs and much Love ..❤
God enlighten your ways more!!
❤ I was raised by my aunts and grandma without knowing my dad because Mum didn't want to tell me about him, but when I reached 16 my grandma told me about him and I traced the home but he had already died. But I found some inner peace ❤❤❤
For me , i think mama stevo, anafaa afatiliwe, she know everything
True
Sure
Was eagerly waiting for this part, thanks Lynn ❤❤
such an intelligent young man,may God grant him his wish.
Amen Amen
My mum also refused to tell me who my dad is despite her telling my 3 elder siblings their dad,she refused to tell me and my 3younger siblings our dad.
Also she gave me out when I was still a baby to my grandma.i was brought up by my grandma.
My mum is very toxic,I find it hard connecting with her.
What irritates me alot is when i make any progress in life,she accredites it to her praying for me and tells me"don't brag you have made it,its because of my prayers"
Come out dad your child is calling for you oooh,am so happy for this young man and especially the mother for bringing up this child despite what she has been through.God make a way for your child to find his dad 🙏🙏
As a product of rape myself, I feel so much respect for this young man. He is very intelligent, handsome and an amazing man. His love for family is just awesome. May God fulfil His heart desires and if not may Jehova give him peace and continue guiding him to be the man God has called him to be. True testimony of what was sent to destroy you, God has turned it for your good.
Love and light Marie❤❤
You are Gods child my love. I love you
Hugs Sweetie
Hugs, but GOD doesn't see you that way🤗
Lynn is really amazing at doing interviews. Wow. They way you related with him from the beginning,, awesome
Blessings mom you are a strong woman, I see where your son get the strength from .All the best on your journey ❤
You have raised your son well Malaika despite all the challenges you have encountered, parenting is no small fete 🙏🏿 very inspiring
Very brilliant, I just love his composed nature
You have handle this gentleman very well Lyn may God fulfil his heart's desires❤
Thank you❤❤
I see forgiveness at its most ..Malaika and her son are a good example of how forgiveness looks like..❤ I pray that they will find the answer they are looking for, but even if they don't! to always remember that they have a father in heaven who fills voids and mends broken hearts 🙏
Was waiting for these,,,young man I pray that you find your family,no mom wishes to raise a child alone.Good luck ahead us we look forward to see your dad come out.
The son is damn cute🥰🥰🥰🥰
I applaud David and the mum. They are both very brave. This will help many.
This young man is very brave,I respect him and I prophecy that he will be a voice to rape cases and help them to accept themselves and forgive,to the mom I salute you keep going gal❤
Mapema ndo best, good morning team LNN 💕
Eagerly waiting,,,,,, Lynn,,, God bless you, you do a great job. Kudos 👏 💐
This is amazing..its one of the "topics"that has really opened my eyes and mind.kudos
Lyne I love the way you start your conversation aki.... The guy is now calm
Amazing story .....day 3 learning alot
I wanna hear this side of the story..
Gm team LNN❤❤
Brave young man... Cool, Calm & Collected... Bravo, son! ❤
Thanks you Lyn. its an amazing Job you are doing am so impressed.
Finally he's here😊 was eagerly waiting
Thank you Lynn❤
Lyn is real enjoying the interview 😊
Its also a good chance for George kisii, kasarani, KU, 1999 to clear his name if he is not the one
Amazing work you do Lyn,God bless you and may the young guy find closure.much love and appreciation
Finally I was waiting for this part ,wishing this young man all the best ,may he find peace🙌❤️