I love that there is a song now that captures that very distinct feeling of wanting to peel your skin off so that people will stop looking at you like you’re prey
As an unattractive person, I never knew the struggles attractive people went through and that you too wanted to peel off your skin- my heart goes out to all of you ❤
Growing up I always refused to wear makeup and I always wore clothing that was more masculine in order to be as repulsive as possible to men. I would forgo hair brushing and personal hygiene frequently to keep up this appearance. It’s so sad how far I went in making myself disgusting so I wasn’t the subject of unwanted attention. That I even felt like I had to do that as a kid, looking back is so messed up. This song perfectly captures my thought behind why I did that.
Very much the same for me when I was a kid. I learned at an early age that hopefully if I just didn't look appealing to them I wouldn't be a victim again. I did my very best to dress, act and look like a boy and just be invisible. This song has me sobbing because of not only the song but also this comment. Knowing in a heartbreaking way that I wasn't alone.
I'm so sorry, none of us deserve this, and the the inner violence that gets created from the fear and anger these actual villains create is so overwhelming sometimes, we are more than this and we are more than what these sick men see
I shave my hair and wear baggy clothes and don't take care of myself for this reason for 5 years now, after someone took my sense of self from me. Idk when I'll ever regain it.
Even if I put makeup and wear feminine clothing I’m still extremely repulsive so you’re very lucky and I wish I were you and I wish I could be pretty and I wish you realized how frickin lucky you are.
My situation is quite different, I didn't wear masculine, but I wear hijab since I was 7, and covered myself head to toe (literally) like you couldn't even see anything of me except my face, and still got assaulted at 10, and still got blamed (at least people asked what I was wearing and doing, they even blamed me for laughing in the streets when coming back home with my friends). It may save some people to wear like that, I don't know, but it makes me angry that we think it's about how we look like. It's about how men act. It's about how culture, in all around the world, is making it seem like it's our fault. Like it's our responsibilty to look disgusting or unattractive. I've repeated that day in my head more than millions of times (I'm 22 now) and I can't think of a single thing to blame myself for. But still I have to think it through everytime and convince myself that it wasn't because of my smile.
Protect yourself from men. Learn self defense. Value your body over anything else. Learn to worship it. Stick to your boundaries and never ever do anything with a guy that you aren’t comfortable with. Ignore their insults if they call you names for rejecting them. If they don’t make you feel safe, leave. And NEVER get drunk or intoxicated around them, or better yet at all. Always put your career and life dreams and goals first. Men will come and go, but you only get one life, one body, and one YOU.
It's sad that this song is so relatable. I and so many women know exactly what that feels like because we have felt it. We feel it all the time. This is the first song I have heard that gives it such an accurate portrayal. Thank you for giving voice to that feeling.
You’re music sounds so eerily mythological, like the end of time in an apocalyptic world. A fight to death between your ex love. Running away through a foreign forrest to get to a destination that you didnt even know existed.
Hey, I know yu won’t answer, but I wanted to say I was at the Melanie concert yesterday and you were an opener for her. The date was June 11th 2024, your performance blew my sister and I out of our seats. We loved how amazing you did, and I’m so happy I got to see you before you get super big!
I’ve never felt this feeling because I’ve always been unattractive and repulsive to men. Never felt uncomfortable around men cuz they feel uncomfortable around me. I wish I were you
@@aizuni no you don't. You don't have it nice either, but let's not make it a contest of who is less fortunate because the problem is not you being attractive or not, but women in general being objectified to the extent where you're only worthy of attention and valuable as a person overall if you're "hot" or "beautiful", which also makes you an object of constant harassment.
@@pumigarnet Yes I do because you know what, there are more advantages to being beautiful and/or hot anyway that make up for being seen as an object anyway. And not even all men would see you in a disgusting men, yes maybe a lot but there are still some genuinely kind men out there. And being beautiful makes you admired or at the very least respected by both genders. An ugly girl is ignored and disrespected by everyone
sofia, i love watching your music evolve. it's truly incredible the way you have matured from rainbow rocket ride to unattractive- it just keeps getting better and better. i'm so excited to see where you decide to go next (also, this song is heart-wrenching and relatable and everything awful and you put my feelings into words, so for that i thank you)
i can not get over this song damn girl you're saying the things i feel everyday I've been waiting for the full version for long time and let me tell you, you didn't disappoint us
Sofia, this song just encapsulates such strong emotions and ideas, and being women in modern day society means we have to hide ourselves and make ourselves unattractive to avoid undesired disgusting attention by men hwo have no respect. You are truly so talented and amazing at expressing thoughts that can be hard to put into words. Thank you so much for making such awesome music and I'm excited to see you June 3rd!
I got to see you live at Melanie's concert last Friday and it was such a surreal experience! Your music gave me such a horror filled beautiful feeling, I loved the eerie vibes you put on stage. Your music though has such a strong meaning to it too, and I feel so special to say that I saw you perform in person!
Does anyone have any song recommendations with similar lyrics, the genre doesn't really matter. I just... need more, i there's any. This is the first song i've ever heard that portrays this nasty feeling so well and i feel more validated listening to it. I'd love to find more similar songs, or even movies/series/art/literally anything. I just wanna cry:)
There’s on artist named BANSHEE-her genre is quite the opposite of this and it’s mostly screaming but it encapsulates unhinged female rage, pain, and darkness regarding this kind of topic (SA, toxic relationships, and abuse). It’s definitely not for everyone bc not everyone likes screaming genres, but it’s good for when you’ve been pent up and holding everything in and need to release all kinds of emotions. I listened to her after my friend revealed the details of her being in her most recent toxic and creepy relationship 🥲
Paris Paloma has tons of songs about things like this. Some good examples are "The Last Woman on Earth" and "The Fruits," but there are many more. Very much recommend, her lyrics evoke visceral feels👌
Thank you for this. This was my exact reasoning as a child when I developed binge eating disorder. If I was ugly, no man would want to hurt me that way anymore. I was very wrong. Now I'm 36, very fat, and still, I have the experience of being afraid every time I leave my house. It's not the way we look. It is simply the fact that we are women. I learned that far too late. I'm sorry to anyone else who has ever felt this way.
I saw your music for the first time a few days ago at Melanie’s trilogy tour DFW and…. Omg. I’ve been obsessed with this song since then. Your music is absolutely amazing, plus your stage presence was crazy!! I’m so glad i discovered your music :D
Growing up , I always had the urge to just stay at home , to be away from all that filth that had tainted me. Now it's nearly impossible to go out without feeling like a prey . Even when I'm safe , I feel like my body is convinced that I'm not
that's so perfect. I've never heard anything better in my life. Nothing that more reveal my deep deep fillings with such an incredible precision. I wish i wrote this. Thank you.
Is there a word for this? For me (not speaking for everyone) it's a coping mechanism trying to protect myself. So I'm wondering if there is a psychological term for this (trying to look unattractive to men)
I just had a moment that reminded me of this song and comment. I realised that the negative feelings I have towards my ability to love and empathise (which I have been aware of for a while) are similar to my feelings about my body. I feel betrayed by all three because it "got me into" and kept me in a "bad" relationship. Like I'm not just hiding my body or beauty to feel safe from men, also as an attempt to avoid feelings like fear and panic, but also I harbor some negative emotions about having a sexy body. Like I blame my body for what a man did. Which is against basic 101 feminism.... but it's one thing to logically understand, it's not your fault for looking attractive, but another to actually accept and feel it, allow my body to exist, take care of it, love it despite it all.
Not my usual style, but I had been struggling to tell people why I got so jealous of young Furiosa when she pulled out of her own hair and rubbed grease on her face. This gets it
![Paris Paloma - last woman on earth [Official Video]](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/l4DBvgB61hA/mqdefault.jpg)
I love that there is a song now that captures that very distinct feeling of wanting to peel your skin off so that people will stop looking at you like you’re prey
As an unattractive person, I never knew the struggles attractive people went through and that you too wanted to peel off your skin- my heart goes out to all of you ❤
Growing up I always refused to wear makeup and I always wore clothing that was more masculine in order to be as repulsive as possible to men. I would forgo hair brushing and personal hygiene frequently to keep up this appearance. It’s so sad how far I went in making myself disgusting so I wasn’t the subject of unwanted attention. That I even felt like I had to do that as a kid, looking back is so messed up.
This song perfectly captures my thought behind why I did that.
Very much the same for me when I was a kid. I learned at an early age that hopefully if I just didn't look appealing to them I wouldn't be a victim again. I did my very best to dress, act and look like a boy and just be invisible. This song has me sobbing because of not only the song but also this comment. Knowing in a heartbreaking way that I wasn't alone.
I'm so sorry, none of us deserve this, and the the inner violence that gets created from the fear and anger these actual villains create is so overwhelming sometimes, we are more than this and we are more than what these sick men see
I shave my hair and wear baggy clothes and don't take care of myself for this reason for 5 years now, after someone took my sense of self from me. Idk when I'll ever regain it.
Even if I put makeup and wear feminine clothing I’m still extremely repulsive so you’re very lucky and I wish I were you and I wish I could be pretty and I wish you realized how frickin lucky you are.
My situation is quite different, I didn't wear masculine, but I wear hijab since I was 7, and covered myself head to toe (literally) like you couldn't even see anything of me except my face, and still got assaulted at 10, and still got blamed (at least people asked what I was wearing and doing, they even blamed me for laughing in the streets when coming back home with my friends). It may save some people to wear like that, I don't know, but it makes me angry that we think it's about how we look like. It's about how men act. It's about how culture, in all around the world, is making it seem like it's our fault. Like it's our responsibilty to look disgusting or unattractive. I've repeated that day in my head more than millions of times (I'm 22 now) and I can't think of a single thing to blame myself for. But still I have to think it through everytime and convince myself that it wasn't because of my smile.
I touched the notification so fast u guys have no idea I'm like an addict with this woman's art
OMG SO DID I AND I SCREAMED AND AND AND MY MOM WAS LIKE WHAAAAT
it's messed up, that i, a 14 year old can relate to the lyrics. thank you for creating this Masterpiece
Mee too gurl mee too✨
Protect yourself from men. Learn self defense. Value your body over anything else. Learn to worship it. Stick to your boundaries and never ever do anything with a guy that you aren’t comfortable with. Ignore their insults if they call you names for rejecting them. If they don’t make you feel safe, leave. And NEVER get drunk or intoxicated around them, or better yet at all. Always put your career and life dreams and goals first. Men will come and go, but you only get one life, one body, and one YOU.
It's sad that this song is so relatable. I and so many women know exactly what that feels like because we have felt it. We feel it all the time. This is the first song I have heard that gives it such an accurate portrayal. Thank you for giving voice to that feeling.
The violin is just- *chefs kiss*
Proud to be an early fan of this powerful music you have created
SAME, so MUCH!
You’re music sounds so eerily mythological, like the end of time in an apocalyptic world. A fight to death between your ex love. Running away through a foreign forrest to get to a destination that you didnt even know existed.
Hey, I know yu won’t answer, but I wanted to say I was at the Melanie concert yesterday and you were an opener for her. The date was June 11th 2024, your performance blew my sister and I out of our seats. We loved how amazing you did, and I’m so happy I got to see you before you get super big!
Me too! So glad I found out about her!
I found her from the concert too
Wait she's not big yet?
@@Shosai-cx2ob not rlly man
Haha! I was at the Minnesota concert too
This woman is talented. I went to the Melanie Martinez concert in Baltimore. I HAD to look up Sofia's music. She is good!
God such intense yet succinct lyrics, how perfectly she expresses that feeling, every woman knows this feeling so well, how disgusting and sad
I’ve never felt this feeling because I’ve always been unattractive and repulsive to men. Never felt uncomfortable around men cuz they feel uncomfortable around me. I wish I were you
@@aizuni no you don't. You don't have it nice either, but let's not make it a contest of who is less fortunate because the problem is not you being attractive or not, but women in general being objectified to the extent where you're only worthy of attention and valuable as a person overall if you're "hot" or "beautiful", which also makes you an object of constant harassment.
@@pumigarnet Yes I do because you know what, there are more advantages to being beautiful and/or hot anyway that make up for being seen as an object anyway. And not even all men would see you in a disgusting men, yes maybe a lot but there are still some genuinely kind men out there. And being beautiful makes you admired or at the very least respected by both genders. An ugly girl is ignored and disrespected by everyone
Her music is not just music it’s an art masterpiece
Hey you have a really pretty voice. Like a fairy ! 🧚
i hate that so many of us relate to this so deeply
Oh my goodness. The whole song is a masterpiece but she leaves it on a note of panic. There’s not a closure there’s the start of a horror story
This song is the embodiment of what I’ve been feeling for a long time. It’s masterful and painfully true.
sofia, i love watching your music evolve. it's truly incredible the way you have matured from rainbow rocket ride to unattractive- it just keeps getting better and better. i'm so excited to see where you decide to go next
(also, this song is heart-wrenching and relatable and everything awful and you put my feelings into words, so for that i thank you)
Omg everything you create is so good it makes me melt into a little puddle of sensation
i can not get over this song damn girl you're saying the things i feel everyday I've been waiting for the full version for long time and let me tell you, you didn't disappoint us
I heard u as an opener for Melanie Martinez last night and oh my god I’m so glad I was introduced to such a good artist that night
I have been OBSESSED with ur music since the Melanie concert
Now she will play for Taylor swift at Wembley era tour
@@AnnaF33 i know im so happy for her
So new…yet so familiar…LOVE IT…❤❤❤
Sofia's talented. Wow! Recall that attention over 50 years ago. Sadly still happening. Hard to deal with when young.
I SAW YOU AT THE MELANIE MARTINEZ TRILOGY TOUR IN FORT WORTH AND ME AND MY DAD FELL IN LOVE WITH YOUR MUSIC AND THE BASS
I LOVE YOUR SONGSSS
Stop Sofia ily and this song im so glad i get to see u live
Always a good day when she uploads 🗣️
I have literal goosebumps this song is so agonisingly beautiful
Absolute masterpiece, I love it. So much talent.
Incredible
Edit: It makes me sad in a distinct way, I can place but don't really want to somehow. I think because I'd break.
So glad this song came upon my feed!
That was intense and I'm so here for it!
Wow. Just got here and I'm immediately a fan. Wow.
I feel like this has given voice to a feeling I've had for so so so long
found you on your ig, you're one of a kind, non mainstream amazing art creator. You did not just created songs but stories in your art
That ending gave me goosebumps :( you have such a gift with words and your tone
Oh my god a song that speaks everything I've wanted to say
okay.. this is a masterpiece. thank you so much, Sofia. you're amazing.
i hope the same men this song is about feel deeply unsettled and disturbed
Sofia, this song just encapsulates such strong emotions and ideas, and being women in modern day society means we have to hide ourselves and make ourselves unattractive to avoid undesired disgusting attention by men hwo have no respect. You are truly so talented and amazing at expressing thoughts that can be hard to put into words. Thank you so much for making such awesome music and I'm excited to see you June 3rd!
I got to see you live at Melanie's concert last Friday and it was such a surreal experience!
Your music gave me such a horror filled beautiful feeling, I loved the eerie vibes you put on stage. Your music though has such a strong meaning to it too, and I feel so special to say that I saw you perform in person!
I JUST SAW YOU ON TOUR FOR MELANIE OMG I LOVE IT THANK YOUUUU
I'm a mariachi, and I love this!! Exquisite from all languages
Does anyone have any song recommendations with similar lyrics, the genre doesn't really matter. I just... need more, i there's any. This is the first song i've ever heard that portrays this nasty feeling so well and i feel more validated listening to it. I'd love to find more similar songs, or even movies/series/art/literally anything. I just wanna cry:)
There’s on artist named BANSHEE-her genre is quite the opposite of this and it’s mostly screaming but it encapsulates unhinged female rage, pain, and darkness regarding this kind of topic (SA, toxic relationships, and abuse). It’s definitely not for everyone bc not everyone likes screaming genres, but it’s good for when you’ve been pent up and holding everything in and need to release all kinds of emotions. I listened to her after my friend revealed the details of her being in her most recent toxic and creepy relationship 🥲
Paris Paloma has tons of songs about things like this. Some good examples are "The Last Woman on Earth" and "The Fruits," but there are many more. Very much recommend, her lyrics evoke visceral feels👌
Thank you for this. This was my exact reasoning as a child when I developed binge eating disorder. If I was ugly, no man would want to hurt me that way anymore.
I was very wrong. Now I'm 36, very fat, and still, I have the experience of being afraid every time I leave my house.
It's not the way we look. It is simply the fact that we are women. I learned that far too late. I'm sorry to anyone else who has ever felt this way.
This sums up that feeling so well that it hurts
you ate that shit up at melanie's balitmore tour omg. i'm obsessed now 😭😭
I saw your music for the first time a few days ago at Melanie’s trilogy tour DFW and…. Omg. I’ve been obsessed with this song since then. Your music is absolutely amazing, plus your stage presence was crazy!! I’m so glad i discovered your music :D
I love how brave you are with your music and vocal choices! Keep it going girl!
This is so freaking underrated! You deserve more views!❤❤
its always a good day when Sofia uploads!! thank you so much for this amazing song that describes so many emotions ive felt in the past!!!
I saw you at the melanie martinez concert yesterday! And let me tell you! You are beautiful and amazing! It was so amazing!
She's releasing music on my birthday OMGGG
Growing up , I always had the urge to just stay at home , to be away from all that filth that had tainted me. Now it's nearly impossible to go out without feeling like a prey . Even when I'm safe , I feel like my body is convinced that I'm not
I have never resonated more with something. Welcome to the world of women.
I cry everytime I listen to it
Gold 💛 this is amazing 👏 🤩 😍 🙌
this has billie eilish vibe and you are SOOOO AMAZING!!!!!!!!!!
I Love This Song So Much
found u from the trilogy concert at the honda center snd your absolutely incredible
AYEEEEE. IT'S HEREEEE. I've wanted to add this to my playlist since I first heard the teaserrrrr✨
Love you Sofia!!!!
YUHH this is so hype omg you put feelings into words SO WELLLL
The way she captures the feeling Is priceless ❤❤❤
This is a relatable song to most women out there
you never disappoint, literal goosebumps
Can anyone confirm Sofia’s trilogy tour setlist? Would love to hear this beautiful piece live
YOU WERE SO GOOD AT THE TRILOGY TOUR
that's so perfect. I've never heard anything better in my life. Nothing that more reveal my deep deep fillings with such an incredible precision. I wish i wrote this. Thank you.
I discovered your music while seeing you perform at the trilogy tour and your songs are soooo good!❤️
Full body chills
Ugly crying to this rn
I never ever related to any song this much
we're so lucky to have you sofia
I relate to this too much…
Stunning way to drop the lyrics out into a pool of blood from the tragedy.
Saw you at the Trilogy tour yesterday at the one in Columbus I just had to look you up it was absolutely amazing! Even better in person!!!
This song is so powerful
I have gooosebumbs
WAKE UP BABE, SOFIA JUST RELEASED A NEW SONG!!!!
obsessed. will leave it at that 💚💚💚
I got so addicted to her music on the day of my trilogy tour concert
Wasn't there another version of this song? I swear i remember it differently
Underrated masterpiece!!!!!!!!
In love!! ❤️
Is there a word for this? For me (not speaking for everyone) it's a coping mechanism trying to protect myself. So I'm wondering if there is a psychological term for this (trying to look unattractive to men)
Please inform me if u find!!! ❤
I wanna know too
I just had a moment that reminded me of this song and comment.
I realised that the negative feelings I have towards my ability to love and empathise (which I have been aware of for a while) are similar to my feelings about my body. I feel betrayed by all three because it "got me into" and kept me in a "bad" relationship. Like I'm not just hiding my body or beauty to feel safe from men, also as an attempt to avoid feelings like fear and panic, but also I harbor some negative emotions about having a sexy body. Like I blame my body for what a man did. Which is against basic 101 feminism.... but it's one thing to logically understand, it's not your fault for looking attractive, but another to actually accept and feel it, allow my body to exist, take care of it, love it despite it all.
@@helpfuliavids beautifully worded. And I relate to this a lot.
✨💖✨
THIS IS THE OFFICIAL VIDEO??? WHY ISNT THERE MORE LIKES
I need the backyard demon song, Sofia! Please upload!
It's so quiet on the mobile I have to crank the volume
This is so mf good like it touched my soul
I just want someone to need me.
She reminds me of Ethel cain😮
SOFIA WHAT THE AHHHHHHHHHH
*added to stepdad playlist* 😅
I got to see you live in Orlando last week and holy shit, I was in awe 😍 currently have your stuff on repeat ❤
OMG I LOVE IT ❤
I LOVE THIIIIS
Really incredible
Wow 👌
AHHHHH
Not my usual style, but I had been struggling to tell people why I got so jealous of young Furiosa when she pulled out of her own hair and rubbed grease on her face. This gets it
Wow wow wow wow wow