I came to this understanding recently as well but I did from the position of "Fear of being seen" but yes I believe your correct in this we don't want to be a new person but the best version of ourselves and with that attract or lose the right people
Entendo totalmente. Pra mim mesma, penso que é uma narrativa perigosa, porque passei a vida toda me isolando. Acredito que autodesenvolvimento acaba sendo muito individual, precisamos pensar no que funciona pra gente e adaptar. Amei o vídeo💕
I think this is a classic case of people who have trouble with asserting boundaries over correcting. What is healthy is NOT an all or nothing schema, but healthy boundaries for yourself, that you can negotiate and assert openly with loved ones, while still creating space for their needs. Focusing completely on oneself for six whole months or longer is still, in my book, obnoxiously self centered and should be called out, especially if it involves ghosting.
100%!! Boundaries are so important but they’re so difficult for a lot of us, so we end up isolating ourselves from the world because it seems like the easier option in the moment- but it definitely comes at a cost 🥲 and that’s a price im no longer willing to pay
I came to this understanding recently as well but I did from the position of "Fear of being seen" but yes I believe your correct in this we don't want to be a new person but the best version of ourselves and with that attract or lose the right people
Omg fear of being seen is a huge block for me!! 🥲❤️
Entendo totalmente. Pra mim mesma, penso que é uma narrativa perigosa, porque passei a vida toda me isolando.
Acredito que autodesenvolvimento acaba sendo muito individual, precisamos pensar no que funciona pra gente e adaptar.
Amei o vídeo💕
Yess you are soo right!! 💗💗 thank you so much for your lovely comment 🥰
I think this is a classic case of people who have trouble with asserting boundaries over correcting. What is healthy is NOT an all or nothing schema, but healthy boundaries for yourself, that you can negotiate and assert openly with loved ones, while still creating space for their needs. Focusing completely on oneself for six whole months or longer is still, in my book, obnoxiously self centered and should be called out, especially if it involves ghosting.
100%!! Boundaries are so important but they’re so difficult for a lot of us, so we end up isolating ourselves from the world because it seems like the easier option in the moment- but it definitely comes at a cost 🥲 and that’s a price im no longer willing to pay
This video was so relatable and affirming that i need to push past my comfort bubble ( again! ) thanks for your insights 🩷🩷
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A video that might help you How to deal with your toxic family by Tam Kaur
Omgg definitely one to add to the list! Thank you my lovely 💗💗
It’s a little scary the way things are. There is beauty yes but the encouragement to push those you love and who love you out is way
Too prominent
Literally!! It’s very sad