you're not broken, your environment is
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 27 ก.ย. 2024
- #feelinglost #disconnected #quarterlifecrisis
hi girly 💗 after spending the past week essentially in survival mode, I have come to a lot of realisations about my current situation and I've really been feeling the effects of those realisations this past weekend. I am at a stage of my life where I feel so stuck and stunted by my external environment however I've been struggling to actually see anything that I have been working on come to fruition - and it HURTS lmao. I also touch on how when living in an environment you have outgrown or that is potentially bringing up harmful memories and trauma from the past, it actually makes navigating life SO MUCH HARDER
so if you can resonate with any of that, join me for an honest and open chat about how it feels actually experiencing these emotions, how I am navigating that space of my life right now, and how I soothe myself in the process ❤️
I love you guys so much, don't hesitate to drop a comment if you can relate - I always love hearing from you guys! 🫶
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oh ,y goodness, the last time I clicked on your channel, you had like 25 subscribers and now you have over 400 and I'm so proud of you. honestly freaking love your channel.
This comment has made my day ❤️you’re a real one for sure!! 🥹 thank you so much!! And omg I LOVE my fellow geminis ♊️!!
i'm also a gemini!
Thank you for sharing all this information and experiences makes me feel less alone. This season of my life has been hard so thank you so much for sharing your experiences and feelings makes me feel like im not going crazy. Love ya xx
@@NatalyCanez I’m so glad it could help, it’s always nice to know you’re not going through something alone 🫶 love u girly we got this 💗
Also in a slump for a couple of weeks, 100% agree it's hard to make sense of, and deal with unwanted feelings that don't feel like yours (or at least not the you that you want to be) ... instead of brushing it off I am *trying* (often failing) to find a balance between : I have a legitimate reason to feel negative, I have to acknowledge that I'm not wrong for feeling that way BUT that it doesn't mean those feelings arecorrect and that I should listen to them, and taking care of myself means acting despite those feelings, doing what I think is right even if it feels wrong.
For now I'm just trying to not burn any bridge with friends & coworkers as I'm getting *very easily* irritated, by the slightest things AND irritated by how easily irritated I get AND anxious by how likely I am to get irritated by the next event so it's not the exact situation - instead of being stuck, it's more about limiting damage - but I can relate!
Yessss i love this!! This is the balance I’ve been trying to figure out myself! And I also FEEL YOU on the getting irritable front - I think it’s so easy to feel irritable a lot of the time when you’re in an environment that feels sooo out of alignment and you’re surrounded by people who just don’t get you! I KNOW it’s going to get better for us though, we are on the right path for sure 🙌❤️