This Is What Narcissist Expects From You When The Relationship Has Ended | NPD | Narcissist |
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- This Is What Narcissist Expects From You When The Relationship Has Ended | NPD | Narcissist |
Narcissists conceal their true identities. The man behind the curtain. Every day, every moment, they wear a mask to disguise who they are, what they are embarrassed of, what they pretend they are not, and what they have to hide from themselves.
They lie about their vulnerabilities, anxieties, doubts, and regrets, never acknowledging them to others or themselves. Narcissists only care about achieving their goals while looking good.
Lifelong emotional detachment from narcissists is crucial. People must realize the significance of this because narcissists can prevent us from moving on even after they are no longer with us. There are two factors that might keep you attached to a narcissist, even if you have done everything in your power to avoid them and have minimal contact with them.
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This kind of stuff needs to be taught in schools!
You need a red noise 🤡
You'd be teaching the narc how to hide it better
You said it, sister. Most universities do not even begin to touch the length and breadth of this topic. Instead, they cover NPD, overt variety, blithely ignoring covert narcissism and its aftermath.
Amen❤❤❤❤
See them clearly is so true.
My narcissists husband and me were together for 35 years.
It was only in the last year that I knew that something was wrong.
4 months ago I exposed him for what he truly was.
I held him accountable for his behaviour.
I called him out in public in front of our Christian Church one Sunday.
O boy he wasn't expecting that from me.
I am a Leo and super empath.
Very strong person.
I caused him a narcissists injury.
I didn't know about that at the time.
The same day I discarded him, went no contact and asked him to leave the house.
4 months on still in no contact.
I am doing great.
Have a good life now.
No more narcissists drama.
So much peace, joy, happiness and lots of self love.
A new woman has appeared.
I do everything now for me and me alone.
What a wonderful meaningful life I now have with my narcissists husband of 35 years.
He really had me fooled until I began to watch him more closely.
They are wolfs in sheep's clothing.
Thank God I am not trauma bonded and am able to move forward with my life.
Thats What a narcisist would be....thought...
I am happy for you!!! Praise God!!! I am still going through this in some ways, as in I am still trying to know how to deal with all this rude awaking!!!
I'm so happy for you. I didn't know for 52yrs. I had never heard the words before narcissist, gaslighting or manipulation. I'm looking after myself as well. We might live in the same house but have different lives and he is not in mine. We are strong not weak like they want us to believe. Thanks for sharing.
Is it, 35 Eeeeeeeeeeeee farhiashappinessssflowerfashion young women madam
Congratulations 🎊 👏 This is the way they should be talked to. I'm planning to doing the same with mine this evening
Don't react. Don't speak; if they're not physically aggressive. They hate you because you have traits they will never have. Thus they cut you down.
I just left a narcissist. He lied about his whereabouts and would cheat on me. Of course he would never accept it and would literally turn things around on me. Gaslighting me the entire time. He was loving one moment and go off in a rage 5 minutes later putting me down, belittling me and just hardcore making me responsible for everyone’s problems. I would tell him about my son’s marital problems just to vent out my frustrations and he would turn around and say that it was all my fault. I would freak out about this. It always ended with him blaming me and making me insecure. He was one person outside the house and a monster in the privacy of our home. I’m out now thank God. These videos have taught me alot.
Good luck staying out.
Wow..
U just described my situation!
I agree 💯 with you. Everything is always our fault they never take responsibility. Take care of yourself. Happy 2023.
If someone feels they still love the narcissist than you need time away till the trauma bond is broken..then you will see them very clearly and the love they stole from you will be gone
I am still in contact with my ex narcissist every day. I know it's dangerous because I still feel love for him even though I am aware of what and who he is. I had 12 months of insecurity and pain with him as he played with my emotions until I ended up having a breakdown, but still I went back with him believing he would change, convincing myself he loved me. After the last "cycle" (break -up, hoovering and makeup) I finally faced the truth. He didn't love me, I was just one of his supplies. I even sunk sunk so low as to suggest I would accept he had another women and I'd be happy to have him stay with me when he wasn't with her. The day he was coming to stay when she was working he didn't show up. It was like a light bulb went off. I'm sure he did that on purpose to humiliate me after I'd belittled myself and all I stood for by even suggesting it. He even texed me that night, didn't mention anything about not showing up, in fact it was not mentioned at all. I was very aware he wanted a reaction from me, but I didn't say a word about it either. I knew I had to let go and end it. At this stage I was fully aware of what was going on, I had learned about covert narcissism after my break-down (This diagnosis fitted him to a tee) I also knew I would have to be the one to pull the plug because he never would, and I truly believed I would end up dead if I kept letting him into my life. I went no contact, which is what I always did after every break-up, and he did the usual of harassing me with texts and phone calls. I was asked why I didn't block him, I explained that I'd done that previously but he'd use other people's phones etc, but to be honest, even though I didn't respond I lived to see his name light up on my phone. I was in a terrible state, grieving badly only getting relief each time he tried to contact me. I stuck out the no contact for a couple of weeks, then one day answered when he rang. I have made it clear there will be no reconciliation this time, have talked to him about his other supply, even telling him to do the right thing by her. I have let him know how deeply he has damaged me, and while continuing on his merry way, he needs to realise that behind the face of his flings are real people with real emotions, and what to him is his enjoyment to them it's their devastation and destruction. I know that none of it sunk in or made him feel bad, but I felt better for having said it. I hear from him every day, and he often hints about seeing each other again, but I have refused knowing I don't want to be sucked in again, and the possibility is there while I still have feelings for him. Common sense tells me I am being stupid for even talking to him, I know I am trauma bonded to him. I tell myself that as long as I don't actually see him, the temptation won't be there. I kid myself. I'm just not strong enough to initiate no contact again, even though I iknow that's what I need to do. I need help to break this bond.
@@gremlin9739 I spent 13 years being with a very sadistic narcissist and though I did not want that life at all the fact that it was so hard for me to grab on to a New Life was so scary.. The Narcissist had learned to control us to only think about them what matters most to them. So when we get out on our own we feel great loss we don't know how to carry on we don't know how to pick up and live for ourselves.. but once you let go the easier it gets to see them for who they are and that takes away the love.. it is a step every day in the right direction that matters.. the longer you can go no contact the stronger you will be and your life will change and you will love it you just have to give God a chance to fix you
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@@gremlin9739Please do more research on trauma bond. He is BAD news for you. Please get help and break FREE of him. He doesn’t want you and doesn’t RESPECT you either. Please respect yourself and love yourself MORE than you love him. Please DON’T LET HIM USE YOU like that! Be strong and ask GOD for help. Trust in GOD, ask and he will deliver. FAITH 🤲🤲🤲
@@gremlin9739 Let him go. He will only continue to rejoice in harming you.
Avoid victim mentally. This is what they have and they are so toxic that they inflicted the same to you over the years … remember “YOU ARE THE SURVIVOR” ~ keep doing you and never look back or go back. Your time alone & time away are the best decisions you can do to start and end your healing. Be free!
Every word you spoke is absolutely true...I was married to one for almost 50 years and survived but I'm done...completely burnt out! Thank you for this perfect description of this type of devil. God bless.
I believe the devil seems better, U know his intention!
I have been married to it for over 50yrs and just found out last year he was a Narc. I blamed all his bad behaviour on his alcoholism. Years ago we never heard of gaslighting manipulation or narcissists. Mine nearly destroyed me. Listening to these talks I got my life back. I'm not interested in him anymore. I do things that make me happy. All the best for 2023.
Even i am facing this currently. They are like hunters and predators in human form . Animals hunt for food only but humans have also started hunting but not for food but for their souls
Demons in human flesh..
Loosh
They can't always get what they want. Sometimes they're eyes get real big as their ass gets kicked to the curb, down the road, across town, and across the country if necessary.. A court order to keep them away, is a very good idea. They are an underhanded THREAT to your peace of mind and well being. The only thing that hurts me about them is how little children have no way to escape.
Mother's get blamed for everything. I did the best that I could . My son says I use money as love. He continues to ask for help. And always blaming others for his life. Thanks 🙏
The narcissist in my life is a neighbor, who became my workout buddy. He was a manipulator and tried to gaslight me when my money and items went missing. He has a drug addiction and mental illness. I don't hate him but I avoid any and all interaction with him
Especially that he does drugs, he may start stealing from you or get dangerous!
After finally understanding them, I just feel sorry for them.
Most of them actually have deep feelings they cannot express or want to express. They are prisoners in their own minds. They really just wish they could be like you and your abilities to love and show compassion. The longer they continue with their outer mask, the farther away they slip away intil they loose all ability to feel. Once they reach that point the inner real person inside is gone forever. That is what is so sad.
They compartmentalize all the bad things that happen to them so they don't have to feel any upsetting feelings.
I will never stop loving my ex and will always be his emotional rock if he needs understanding. He knows I'm different than other people and deeply regrets how he ended up treating me. He sincerely has apologized to me after 2 years. We won't ever be a couple again but he knows I get him and he can count on me..he loves me the best way he can.
Upon reading some comments later.
I failed to mention that I'm not trauma bonded and just because we remain connected is because we are twin flames. We lived on the same street as kids, went to to schools together and even in the same first grade class. We stayed in our hearts. He lives in another state and we haven't seen each other since our breakup.
We talk and send pictures but not constantly. He ghosts me from time to time when he is with another woman but I know him and know his patterns. I'm engaged to a wonderful man now who I've been with over a year and I'm very happy.
But a piece of my heart will always belong to my ex.
I also believe that all narcs have different traits. Some realize who they are and are genuinely regretful for how they act. Some are at the level past the point of no return.
I "get" my ex too and feel the same. There won't ever be a relationship again, but I know what makes him tick. No judgement, just sadness for his emptiness.
As the Mother of a Narcissist,from a Narcissist Father ( raised by),I SO UNDERSTAND where you are coming from.Ill never give up on him. I love my son. There are times we "have a falling out", and I'll go no contact...and I feel like CRAP the entire time. I just have to have firm boundaries,and TRY We're both mentally ill,and Dad's abuse was ....all consuming...even now,years after his death.
Same situation he's my twin flame I just can't stop caring
Yeah ur right my x narc is only 23 years old and I feel bad for him I am an older women and I gave him a home, food, love clothes etc. He hates that he ruined it I have his child and he is just lost. His life is so hard and I have lost my love for him. He knows he will nor find anyone who loved him like I did.
I detest my narc and I can't feel bad because my having sympathy for that devil has only cost me further physiological harm and made me feel like a loser every time I tried trusting him to my own detriment
Thank you for these videos 🎯when I've learned about narcissism, and realize my whole family are malignant narcissist, walking away and not looked back🤷♀️ they will not get a second chance.. of my time ,or energy 🎭they never affect me 🤡and now understand why they work so hard🧗♂️ to try to destroy me 💪🤣and couldn't 💃🙏Hallelujah Sigma Empath Awakening 👁
HALLELUJAH and AMEN 🙏👆✝️🙏🔥🙏🕊️🙏LORD JESUS CHRIST PLEASE COME BACK SOON🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Thought about missing something/someone that I threw away until I've seen the name of the trashcan that it was in. Came back to reality. LEAVE IT!
I follow your videos. That make me stay on the right way; away from my narcissist ex and perhaps a new relation that explores feeling love again but this time with someone who treats me well. You see, if you have learned the lesson about narcissists, you should have gotten a warning signal that rings whenever a narcissist turns up.
When "my" ex narcissist accused me for all and everything I suddenly realized he was telling me about himself, unconsciously probably. But I don't know. There must have been a lot of mistakes or unexeptable things they have done in their life before, that they file instead of deal with it, apologyse for or solve. When file after file are saved and hidden in a box the problems will stay there unsolved, unuppacked. This box is the narcissist. After many years the inside of the box is unable sort out because the files probably are too many so the box would explode if opened. So the narcissist hide what is in it and keeps on living as he usually and always has done.
Remark that I begin with quotation marks around the narcissist calling him "my", because he was certainly not mine, I shared him with his daughter and all women you could think about; beautiful, ugly, young, elder, thin, fat, yeah frankly - horny.
He thought he was the King Rescuer, helping "poor" women neglected by their husbands - King, ha ha, a relation destroyer by all means.
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Your analogy of filling thing’s away and never unpacking their stuff really speaks to me.
It really helped me to realize I could not do it for her, and she had no intention to do it. That realization made it clear to me the relationship would never improve, it would only denigrate.
I’ve just gone no contact with a narcissist, and if anything I feel sorry for her, her words and her actions don’t never match up, always hanging on to her exs and staying I touch with them, it’s funny really she always said that she really loved me when we was an item, (if that’s what we was) but she don’t know how to love she knows how to steal my love from me, a few weeks ago we linked up for a few days and nothing has changed with her still with the lies and the deceit and her conniving ways, so I’ve gone no contact with her again because I know I will never get closure and it’s so draining and tiring being a puppet and being there at her beck and call… she’s the one who needs to seek help she always blames others for when things go wrong, so this video it spot on for me… thank you
Another good talk. Yes Narcs wear a mask one minute nice the next horrible. With getting educated I have risen obove the emotional side, I never realised how bad they are. I don't love/hate him I just don't want him in my life. He nearly destroyed me that's when I realised I had a problem this channel saved my life. I don't hold a grudge as I know it would only hurt me. I do and go places where im happy even with friends and family. Thank you so much.
and wow they'll work SO hard to make you feel as rotten as they do
I would like to let you know that I have been away from this narcissist for 3 years we've had contact on the phone but that's about it I haven't seen him you would not believe this he called me today and asked me could he come home and I politely told him no he cannot
Good for you boundaries!
Cool, what was his reaction?
Awesomeness!!! Boundaries & Human Resolve are beautiful things!!! It really is a shame that we all "need" & "have to" resort to such thing's..but the alternative is unacceptable!
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Maintain your stand..
He wants to return and finish what he started!
No never again!!
And when I told him no he could not come home he rudely hung up in my face
My narcissist is my daughter. She stressed out my husband, her father out so bad he died from a broken heart. It was definitely her fault and she got away with murder. I moved 3000 miles away and went mostly no contact but she has my grandson that we raised for 6 years. I send him gifts and cards. She still has a hold on me but I truly hate her. I've never felt hate for anyone before and it messes with my head. She has destroyed me beyond repair.
What did she do to him
Terry Dyer: My daughter is the same. Raising her was a living hell. My son told me he thought I didn't care about him while he was growing up because she had all the attention. I constantly tried so hard to fix her. There was no pleasing her. She was never happy. She never appreciated any thing ! It was like pulling teeth to get her to learn to drive. It was like nothing to her to have lessons from a driving school. She's been no contact for over 10 years. I saw my granddaughter 10 years ago and it was like seeing my daughter young all over again. I have no desire to have her in my life. I'm in my golden years now and want only people that want me in their life. I wont spend the energy hating her. I just don't think of her at all. She's in God's hands.
So sad,but sometimes we just have to let them go .For our own sanity and ask God for forgiveness. IN JESUS NAME!!!
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My prayers go out🙏 God will definitely use this for his glory
@@truthh8597 do you know what a narcissist is?? She did everything and more.
Wow, thank you for all this info. Yes I will share with my wife and kids, and hope they understand.
You have explained this very well!!! Thank you
If one already made the decision to kick a narcissist out of one's life, why does one still care what he/she expects?
Move on!
21 years no contact....(and counting).
But Jesus Christ can break any chain ....Just seek His Help...The rod of God is powerful....
TRUTH ✝️🙏💯💓🙌
Please pray for me, 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
As society continues to turn its back on Jesus Christ, He gives us over to our foolish views in His judgement. Narcissism is a more recent result of this.
Over the decades His Judgement develops deeper and deeper as society continues down the path to death.
New types of personalities will develop in the next 10 years. These people will be worse than narcissists.
Amen
Satan was the first Narcissist.
True
Lord
Help me not to be foolish please.
Amen
Narcissism isn't "new" any more than 'homosexuality' is. It's just been more recently defined...and later societies will call it something else.
It easy to fall in love with them,and hurts to break up. What ha needs is a sugar momma. First time,he ask me for money, was when he said he like to see me at Christmas, said his atm card was block;he's in the army so saids it's block. I told him no can do. Then said ugly things to me,broke off the relationship. Latter went back to him,forgave him, but told him he better never talk down to me again. For a while things were going smooth, he was texing me in the morning and evening, he work during day. Until today no texing. I thought okay something is up, you can feel it. That's when he text me tonight saying his phone will be turn off ,and he was upset about it. Then the next text I got, he said " can you send money to paid my phone bill. If you love,you do this for me. I SAID GOODBYE to him and block him. Wow! The chap he text before blocking, was long,didn't even read it,knew it would be lies and accusations that aren't true. Only stay on for a while, hoping and praying he changed, but they don't
I write and I still love and miss him but it is not a good thing...
Not much you can do if they call the police on you...
They probably manipulated and gaslighted you. Take care
Ashamed of my sibling 🙏🏽🙌💯
She's still got my dog, couldn't do anything about it I was trying to stay until the dog died at least. 22 yrs and I barely made it out alive. Im sorry I love you TT doggo! take care of and protect your mommy!
I recently came out if a relationship of which had all these qualities she's was very outburst she hid stuff always incontrol also acts out of drama never takes responsibility for her actions she always ask others fir avalidatuon if others cheat emotionally before physical lashes out very often blames me fir what ever and not them everything is about her and very childish
I don't have a trauma bond , they need to change the law and realize it is a crime and not a disorder.
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I don't hate him or love mine , I want the law changed on this manner.
Yeeeeeh bloked permanetlyyy.
Yaaaaay🥳
Getting a NOC out your life is hard I trying to get 1 out my life for 10 year to no success always making excuses to stay wit mi but don't want to love mi 100%
Sooo simple.
I am currently in a narcissistic relationship and I'm at the point I know I should leave him but I can't. I try to so hard. I know I'm suffering from CPTSD. I also feel like he is literally trying to take my life from me.. He has done so much damage to me. More mentally then physically. But here lately he is putting his hands on me.. I don't know where to turn or how to get away... Please pray for me. I leave him and he shows up at my door with no calls about 3 wks later and I fall for his why always me and everything is terrible without u act. I feel like I am just about over it and there he is. It's like he is in my mind I swear... My health is declining. I'm gaining a lot of weight and I barely eat. I hate myself... Being an Empath, he knows how to play on the cords of my heart. Moving 2 hrs away has not deterred him in the least. I go no contact. Blocked every way I can and he just shows up... Idk what to do anymore
Have you tried doing the grey rock technique? It’s where you become as boring as a grey rock to them. So take, for instance, that something neat happened for you one day and you tell him about it; well, naturally he doesn’t want you to be happy so eventually he will start a fight with you. He wants to make you unhappy because he can’t bear to see you happy. So then what you do is, you start keeping those nice stories to yourself and you don’t share them with him anymore. Then when he tells you his stories, you just, “ uh, huh “ him and, “ OK “ and, “ that’s nice “ never go deep with him. Become boring as a rock. At least he won’t fight with you as much. Maybe he will even leave you alone for a while because he will be busy looking for a new victim to bully, you won’t see him as much and you’ll get a break. Divorced people who share the children use this technique.
Narcissists hate boredom. Pretend to have no interest in anything. Show no emotions. Don't show it when you are happy or sad. Don't argue and don't engage. Don't show your anger. He will leave by himself. When there are no supplies from you he will look for them somewhere else.
I went so far as to wash out & wear the same & similar black outfits, my lil black dress I wear over my bikini, & biker shorts with a black tank over my bikini top. The ex covert/malignant narc couldn't stand it! It literally drove him crazy! The ex kept asking me why I never wore any of the cute things I'de bought from the thrift stores. I just told him I wasn't ready yet or something! Then I just went Complete No Contact/Blocked the ex 26JUN21..literally a week after the ex's birthday & fathers day! After the ex had literally let the air out of my tires..& then proceeded to be airing them up as I was coming with items for that weekend! It was like the last straw..especially after having started a fight with me in front of friends but made it all look like my fault. I just knew at those points that things were absolutely Never going to get any better & that I needed to stand up for myself & love myself to get the he'll away from this monster forever & ever in Jesus Christ name..amen!! Along with pretty much all of the "mutual friends"...after all the ex had already poisoned their ideas of me to the point of No Return! It totally amazes me how people just believe whatever comes from that mouth..even after witnessing the crazy evil behaviour! Best..most traumatic..hardest & loving thing I have ever done for myself & our son & his step-son!!
The ex covert/malignant narc then proceeded to smear my name & reputation like I have never thought possible..broke into my house..stole items including my keys to the front door & my 1999 Chevy Tahoe & copied them & took my tahoe out when I was in my rare moments of sleeping..ran it out of gas..hasn't started since..still after I have put quite a bit of money into it to try & get it running again. The ex has Stalked me relentlessly for well over a year...gang-stalking..poisoned my dog..fed my dog/ puppy I got for protection (black pitbull..wolf..& Dutch Malinois. On top of all that the
The ex covert/malignant narc tried to literally drive me crazy..& also tried to have me unalived! I'm still here but for the Love & Grace of God & I am one of the most stubborn people period...as stubborn or more so than a narc even! There's been so much more I could write a book even. I have called the law..restraining orders..all sorts of stuff..but the most important thing is that I am & have been done with this evil being that I knew absolutely nothing about after spending almost 20 years as husband & wife! They don't change..if anything they get way worse & more covert! I will be praying for you girl! Gonna be honest its gonna be the hardest thing you have probably ever done..its going to take take to heal & all..but it's worth it & so are you!!!
Do not answer the door. Do not talk to him. You deserve love and respect. He will not go away if you keep engaging.
Are you also the host of Behind the Science? Your voice and pictures in the videos are very similar.
Video cut off? Rest of video?
The video cuts off at the end 😭
I don't believe it's a personality disorder. If a act is done intentional how is it possible to be declared a personality disorder.
Hi, even at low bitrate, (240) the live videos have too many pauses to enjoy them.
Sounds like a narcissist to me
After u left you found out you are pregnant
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Extlyyyyy .Astaqfurulah iam Not theseeee Riducilus
What if you are pregnant for them
Are the narcissist emotionally attached with their own blood relations...like parent , siblings, n their own kids
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My passed a ay and after 40 years I miss him and loved him so much
You need help!!!! Get it!!!✌️
Your content regarding narcissists is good but the video of unrelated people going about their business in some Asian country is highly inappropriate. If you had still photographs of nature scenes it may have been better. Being associated with narcs could be seriously unkind to the individuals shown in the video. I'm sure they would not want to be portrayed like that. Show some empathy towards them please and remove it. I wish you well.
She left me 6 months ago we we're only together for 5 months, but I'm still in love with her very deep feelings for her. She completely blocked me from texting her, phone calls, and sending her money through Paypal.
Please Seek His Help...Jesus Christ is your solution.....
Thank you. Glory be to God.
There are moments I feel sorry for her as well and have told her I'm here for her and kids, I told her many times that I'm here for them but she decided to discard me and block me from everything, she is with my friend that I know from where I used to work so it makes it difficult. She is in need now and would help economically but doesn't want nothing to do with me. The funny thing is she knows that my friend is married but still entertaining him. I'm here for her I would help her in anything I can.
So if you love her as deeply as you say you do respect her decision and leave her be for crying out loud